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Welcome to the Luminousz Ztarr podcast! I am your host Casondra. I invite you to join me on this podcast I discuss the aftermath of narcissistic and codependent relationships, while sharing effective focus tools. You can find me on various social media platforms such as; YouTube and Facebook, as an excellent resource for millions who are dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic codependent relationships.
There are some narcissistic personality types who don't seem to believe that karma exist, but will try their luck with smear campaigning, attempting to hoover, using gaslight techniques and recruiting some to play a dysfunctional role of flying monkey. Karma can be seen as cause and effect, or the result of choices.YOUTUBE:#luminouszztarr **E-BOOKS
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***How does the narcissist seem to go the extra mile to discard others? It might seem as if he or she is going over time on the demon time. It's not a case of he or she is just not into you. Usually, the discard masks the narcissist's shame and guilt cycle. He or she might attempt to hoover sometime after discarding the relationship, but if they wanted the connection in the first place, then hoover attempts would not be necessary. Don't get caught up or lost in the sauce of narcissistic relationships and the narcissist's guilt shame cycle because the signs of narcissism were overlooked. Keep thriving forward!
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How does one recognize the perfect polarity that occurs in narcissistic relationships? First, know who and what you're dealing with. Secondly, take off the rose-colored glasses which will help clarify contradictions, falsehood and manipulative tactics that fuel narcissistic relationships. Lastly, accept that you're perhaps the one who is changing, while facing the reality that the narcissist might not ever change. It is when the narcissist wants all of the smoke and turns up on the demon time, that others who are emotionally involved might come to realize that as much as they're capable of love the narcissist is capable of contempt. One person is taking and the other is giving too much! One needs to learn how to love self and the other needs to learn how to love others. Peace, harmony and love are not possible in such a hostile environment, but the perfect polarity in the narcissist relationship seems to flourish.
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How does a person contemplate forgiveness of narcissistic relationships and narcissistic personality types when it can become overwhelming and triggering? It is often after experiencing pathological narcissism in relationships that people gain some clarity and closure. There are steps that are often overlooked when contemplating forgiveness of narcissistic relationships and those with a narcissistic personality who may have caused injury, especially when anger and pain are experienced. You can give yourself the gift of forgiveness first, instead of pressuring yourself to give it to the narcissist, perhaps sacrificing yourself in the process.
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The dark triad oven comes with a lot of drama, which can have a negative effect on any relationship, yet alone narcissistic relationships. The dark triad consists of three personality types; narcissistic, machivavillian and psychopathic all rolled into one. There are many on social media and around the world who are speaking about their nightmarish experiences of dealing with narcissistic personality and other dark personality types. The drama and perhaps karma of having relationships with the dark triad types are not what one would bargin for.
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***Has your narcissist ever threatened you with, "If you don't then someone else will?" Perhaps you've heard your narcissist say this everytime they do not get their way. Threatening to leave the relationship can seem an imature thing to do in order to manipulate a situation in his or her favor. Most people have come to learn that their narcissist is not above making such threats in order to control if not dominate the relationship. Unfortunately, due to fear, insecurity or emotional stress the narcissist could very well end up getting his or her way. There are several things that you can do when or if your narcissist makes such a threat. You don't have to be left feeling cheated, unvalidated and stuck.
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The best signs that you are done with a narcissist. Spot the signs of narcissistic personality disorder. Learn focus tools, access to references and resources designed to assist with recovery from narcissist relationships. Luminousz Ztarr channel discusses signs of pathological narcissism in general while not attempting to diagnose anyone in these videos with naricssistic personality.
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Most narcissists or some of those with a cluster B personality type like to recall obtaining source supply from others but they don't like to recall how they've obtain source supply from those that they target. Those tactics for source supply the narcissists pull are often crazy and feel surreal for reasons that might boggle the mind. The parallel reality that one often experiences in narcissistic codependent relationships just compounds the effects of narcissistic abuse. The crazy-making is considered crazy for many reasons such as; gaslight techniques, smear campaigns, discard, ghosting and hoovering.
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The most effective narcissistic tactic by covert narcissists is the silent treatment. Once narcissists silence others they can also blind them to the hidden agendas behind their crazy making shenanigans.
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***Your body records every experience you've ever and will ever have. The subconscious mind functions to serve you. Trust yourself that you will continue to thrive and grow past narcissistic codependent relationships. There are some narcissists who have the objective to make sure that their false self-images thrive at the expense of those that they target for narcissistic supply at all costs.
Regardless; of attempts several attempts to gaslight you into thinking and feeling that you are not able to make choices that can help you to identify and break habits that can potentially keep you stuck in the sunken place, you thrive and break free from narcissistic codependent relationships!***
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***Fear does not need to be the basis of your decision should you choose to detach from narcissistic codependent relationships. Once you build trust in your ability to make better decisions that provide you some peace of mind regardless of disapproval of narcissists; you will also be able to find when it is best to detach therefore, making it possible to invest in positive relationships.
When you are not as stress over your narcissist others who may want to have a healthy relationship with you will find it possible to do so. Your knowledge of what it means to detach from them without disconnecting from yourself is one of the major advantages you'll have over narcissists in your life. By becoming more aware of your emotions while critically thinking about how you are experiencing narcissistic codependent relationships will be the reference point of how and when to detach from relationships where reciprocity seems to lack.***
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Intergenerational trauma can have a major effect on how choices are made. Intergenerational trauma occurs when prior generations experience trauma and then pass on the effects of trauma to their offspring. Mothers who have been traumatized and who might have cluster B personality types sometimes make choices that can affect her life and the life of her child can cause a devastating aftermath to occur. Adult children of parents who have narcissistic personality or any other cluster B personality type can unknowingly set her child or children up for further health issues such as trauma.
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One of the most crucial tools to apply to your support base is to practice maintaining a no contact lifestyle from narcissistic codependent relationships. In order to maintain a no contact lifestyle you would have to commit to breaking habits that can keep you stagnant once these are recognized. By focusing on living your best life, it becomes natural to you to not feed into the energy of others who might attempt to keep negativity going. Being in survival mode sets you up for more toxicity to manifest into your life. You’ve survived now it’s time to thrive past narcissistic codependent relationships.
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