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Anna is a client who needs a hug (or three). She’s 46, slim, attractive, successful – my typical client – but there’s a sadness about her. Maybe you can understand. Anna didn’t picture her life turning out this way.
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Personality – from my reading and observation – is a lot more nature than nurture. This is not to suggest that people can’t grow and evolve, but rather, their basic personalities stay largely the same. Introverts rarely turn into extroverts. Narcissists rarely turn into humble servants. Cheaters rarely turn into faithful partners. And so on.
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The first iPhone would be released later that year. Texting was around but it wasn't ubiquitous. Same with Facebook. Instagram came around in 2010. Tinder didn't launch until 2012. And here we are, as lonely and disconnected as ever. Social media sites that were designed to connect us now cause an equal amount of pain and confusion.
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A good relationship is easy. If it’s not easy, it’s not that good.Your entire life, you’ve tried to fit a square peg in a round hole. For years, you’ve fallen for men and tried to justify why they were a long-term fit, despite all the evidence to the contrary.
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For some people, life is just a series of dogs. For me, life has been a series of romantic relationships. Maggie Parker would seem to feel the same way. In her New York Times Modern Love column, she pens an ode to all of her exes after she finally got engaged.
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I followed your advice; dated a guy I normally wouldn’t have considered, let it slide when there wasn’t any chemistry, let him pick up the check, waited over a month to have sex, and stayed in the easy relationship where we never fight.
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I am a long time reader. I am a tall, educated, beyond athletic, attractive woman who is successful and age 42. I entered college to get my higher level degrees later in life, and my classmates assumed I was in my 20s (whilst in my late 30s) and I was asked out often by them
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I’m 36 and like kids. He’s been divorced for 6... READ POST
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Your advice has helped me navigate modern dating. I figured... READ POST
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I met him online almost two years ago. We played... READ POST
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As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, I... READ POST
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I started dating a guy recently whose actions and words... READ POST
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Hi Evan, I’ve been reading your blogs and following all... READ POST
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I’m 29 years old and my girlfriend of 5 years... READ POST
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For the uninitiated, “mate value” (also known as “sexual market... READ POST
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I was inclined to take offense at this Guardian article... READ POST
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Dr. Ali Binazir is a long-time friend who has written... READ POST
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Yes, it’s Monday. Yes, you’re back to work. Yes, you... READ POST
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I recently met a great man. We met two weeks... READ POST
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Welcome back for the third video in this series. The last one was about confidence. I hope you really enjoyed that. I hope you were able to take that message and see some results in your love life when it came to carrying yourself with confidence, and assuming the answer is yes.
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I rarely make videos, which makes me particularly excited about the prospect of what I'm going to share with you today. This is the first in a series of videos I'm going to be making for you over the next few weeks. They should be fun, they should be thought-provoking. I'd love for you...
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I’m not looking for advice, but I just wanted to... READ POST
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As you probably know, I’m not a psychologist, therapist, MSW,... READ POST
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I am in a quandary and I am hoping you... READ POST
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Evan, I’ve read a lot of your articles, your ebook,... READ POST
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Hi Evan, Is it ever okay to date a man... READ POST
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“When Harry Met Sally” posed the age-old question, and seemed... READ POST
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Evan, I am Indian girl and my boyfriend is an... READ POST
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Evan, I’m in an interesting situation. I have deep feelings... READ POST
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Evan, First, thanks for the advice you provide on this... READ POST
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A reader of this blog shared a Huffington Post article... READ POST
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As you know, before I was a dating coach, I... READ POST
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Hi Evan. I happened across your site, and found it... READ POST
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Can I tell a guy he’s moving too fast and... READ POST
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This is a question I received on my latest survey... READ POST
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Have you ever been in a relationship with a person... READ POST
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Google the words, “The Secret of Life”, and you get... READ POST
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After taking years off from dating to focus (ok, hide... READ POST
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Hello Evan. I recently started dating a girl. I really... READ POST
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Table of Contents Is waiting for him normal or... READ POST
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I just read your book “Why He Disappeared” and really... READ POST
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Hi, Evan. Most women nowadays are used to dealing with... READ POST
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Hi Evan, I just found your website and wish I’d... READ POST
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What are the signs that someone’s desire for exclusivity is... READ POST
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…Mr_Right, who sent me something very astute on New Years... READ POST
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Chemistry. There’s no feeling like it. Your eyes meet, your... READ POST
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Passion vs. Comfort. This is a post you don’t want... READ POST
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Last week, I got a call from a distraught woman... READ POST
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I’m in my mid 30’s and she is in her... READ POST
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My question is this: is it wrong to date someone... READ POST
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Evan, Currently, I am using online dating to meet new... READ POST
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Years ago, I went out with a woman three times... READ POST
