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Anetta Tiquila
Tune in every Friday with Anetta Tiquila A.K.A Queen I'm Unique as she breaks down common sayings, quotes, ideas and songs lyrics to analyze the ways in which they have shaped the world. Many episodes will end a "script" being flipped using a 3, 2, 1 break down method. Also, in order to ENLIGHTEN listeners, Anetta covers important societal issues, controversy and dilemmas. Here is where she will give detailed commentary about scripts that need to be flipped when it comes to unfair policies, laws and some of America's hidden agendas. As she finalizes her educational journey, she shares her acquired knowledge with the general public...Join the community to leave comments, opinions on the show, or share your ideas on scripts that need to be flipped by clicking this link: https://m.facebook.com/109353201742588/
If it's illegal by law it should NOT be allowed in music!
We need to flip the script of the freedom of speech EXPEDITIOUSLY
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Yet another false narrative that needs to be put to rest. Sometimes it IS Everybody else, who is always in the wrong, NOT you....
It's time that the world starts acknowledging the truth for what it is!
- DISCLAIMER *
The audio quality is poor, but the message is valid, necessary and it needs to be heard.
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What are these songs really saying to us?
Think about that while you download your copy of my new book, "April's Fool," which is a cautionary tale about keeping dangerous secrets
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Truth is, If you are singing lyrics like, "broke boys don't deserve no pu--y," you are effectively promoting prostitution.
Three things I want to ask anyone who agrees with the notion that broke boys don't deserve no pu--y is:
1) What do you consider broke?
2) Let's say a man is rich; How much money does he have to spend before you go to bed with him?
3) If a man spends the required amount of money, then you go ahead and sleep with him - did you just prostitute yourself?
This is something to think about. Also, this makes me wonder if this is where the term, "The dating market" comes from because it seems like the concept of dating includes an exchange of goods and services, not a chance to meet with someone who may share a real connection through common interests, real attraction and the sharing of good energy.
Historically, the power dynamic between women and men perpetuates inequality that is the result of men making more money than women on a global level, so songs like this further encourage gender inequality.
I don't know about you, but I'll never encourage my children, or anyone else's children to buy into this narrative.
For critique and educational purposes
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- Let's break that down:
The first and last words of this saying are so contradictory toward one another, that they should not be used in the same sentence. Just look at it for a moment so that you can get a clear visual of the misleading message attached to this narrative:
Kill them with kindnessIn 3: Take their life
2: Kill them
1: Kill
Subliminal message: Kill their joy by showing them a false sense of kindness, acceptance and victory. Make them feel like you forgive them, but if ever you can get away with murder, you should actually KILL them.
Definition of kill:
1.Cause the death of (a person, animal, or other living thing).
2. Put an end to or cause the failure or defeat of (something).
Do you see the subliminal message here?
Flip the script on it!:
THRILL them with kindness
in 3: Model for them
2: Thrill them
3: Excel
Excel at being a strong, #great person. Be so genuine and authentic, that your kindness models the way a decent human should treat another human, make it feel so good, that it actually sends thrills down their spine
So, what would you prefer to do - Thrill, or kill? I only hope you will go with the former (Thrill)!
Definition of Thrill:
A sudden feeling of excitement and pleasure.
It is virtually impossible to be so kind to a person, that you kill them. But, you can be so kind to a person that you thrill them.
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Someone told you, "If you can't beat'em, join'em" - and you fell for that.
Someone told you, "No New Friends," and you fell for that.
They told you, "Children should be seen, not heard," and you fell for that.
They told you, "Having a piece of a man is better than having no man at all," and you fell for THAT!
When are you finally going to #standup ?
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During a live broadcast on tiktok, I discussed the issue if domestic violence and how the issue is trivialized through music.
Two guests stepped into my boxes to talk about their personal experiences with DV, and I gave away free copies of my Ebook title d, "He Killed Me First," which tells the drastic story of how badly things could end if both the victims and the perpetrators don't get help.
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Season 1 has come to a beautiful end
Thank you all for supporting the show. Here is where you can send your inquiries, suggestions, questions and comments: socialmediumpublications@gmail.com
Also, I misspoke - I meant to say, "Thank you for spreading the WORD, not world" .... Oopsie 😬
Until next time - take care
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This may come as a shock to you, but some of your longest friendships are bad habits that need to be broken!
"No new friends" basically means:
3 - Close your heart
2 - be antisocial
1 - isolate
Stop isolating yourself from the rest of the world, and step outside of your comfort zone for once
Flip the script on it: No toxic friends!
Break it down!3 - good friends only
2 - be great
1 - connect
connect with good people and disconnect from toxic energies now!
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Sometimes they come back just to finish you off
This saying is pretty much telling us to:
3 - Repeat your mistakes
2 - reinjure yourself
1 - Break
To some degree, you will BREAK every time you allow the wrong people BACK into your life
Flip the script on it: Once you let them go, learn how to love them from the distance
Break it down!:3 - love with caution
2 - be happy
1 - Grow
Grow AWAY from people who come in and out of your life as they please.
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The United States, Canada and Australia have some of the highest rates of filicide. One of the main culprits leading to this phenomenon is that saying, "I bought you into this world, I can take you out."
Let's break that down:
3 - I'll kill you!
2 - You're Mine!
1 - Die!
Flip the script on it: "I might take away your privileges, but I will NEVER take away your life!"
Break it down:
3 - I love you!
2 - You're safe
1 - live!
TERMS:
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Fil·i·cide [ˈfiləˌsīd]: The killing of one's son or daughter:
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Hon·or kill·ing [honor killing]: In certain cultures, the killing of a relative, especially a girl or woman, who is perceived to have brought dishonor on the family.
MORE INFORMATION ON FILICIDE:
A research article on filicide in the United States
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5282617/?fbclid=IwAR3YSETgv6eRY1ver3ha8v4uwwlfdn9Z
Where did the quote originate? Click the link below to find out
https://bit.ly/3NIK6a0
RESOURCES FOR PARENTS:
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https://www.healthyplace.com/parenting/parenting-help/parenting-resources-organizations-that-help-parents#:~:text=%20Parenting%20Resources%20and%20Organizations%20that%20Support%20All,Keep%20Connected%20Program%0AThe%20Search%20Institute%20is...%20More%20
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https://www.cdc.gov/childrensmentalhealth/features/supporting-parents.html
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Here is some information for you to check out
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https://www.wkrn.com/news/heres-why-you-should-always-close-the-toilet-lid-before-you-flush/
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https://www.familyhandyman.com/article/always-close-the-toilet-lid-when-you-flush-heres-why/
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Take in a slow, deep breath, and exhale slowly. Repeat three times.
Now, tap into your senses by answering this question - In this very moment, what is one thing you could:
- See
- Feel
- Smell
- Hear
- Taste
Challenge: Answer this question within any comment section connected with this episode.
Also, check out Episode 11, "Children Should Be Seen, Not Heard"
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1941305/10485681-children-should-be-seen-not-heard.mp3?download=true
Happy Friday 😊☺️
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There is no reason for some of the crap that happens, when you say that everything happens for a reason, what you are basically saying is:
3 - Violence is acceptable
2 - Embrace Misery
1 - Worry
*This quote trains us to worry about the things we can't control. The fact that people try to make it seem that there is some type of an acceptable "Reason" behind tragedy other than the fact that some people are careless and wicked (in regards to violence, injustice and hate crimes), is disturbing!
😳😲😯
Let's flip the script: Some things should never happen, PERIOD!
Break it down...
3 - Hold people accountable
2 - Control yourselves
1- CHANGE!
Change how we avoid situations that warrant our attention, change dangerous and violent behaviors, change policies like gun laws that allow weapons of mass destruction to end up in the wrong hands (FYI - weapons of mass destruction ALWAYS end up in the wrong hands... hint, hint!)
White Supremacists kills 10 people, are we gonna still say that everything happens for a reason?! What was the "Reason" for this?!
https://www.nytimes.com/live/2022/05/14/nyregion/buffalo-shooting
Correction: 21 total fatalities in the Texas school shooting SMFH
https://www.cnn.com/us/live-news/texas-elementary-school-shooting-05-27-22/h_760afcb15b0f54413a3e870e9a758d9a
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This book is the prime example of why you should never judge a book by it's cover!
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/4RNOO4J8n0O1if5Nsijfk7?si=dTPvd6BwQhuS0QoezBuSZg
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Listen all the way to the end!
Here is the translation of my Tiktok video, "Read My Lips Part 2"
.... All I want to know is what you're going to do about it. Click the website link and let the world know, if you dare to share
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Here's something I bet you didn't know...
Racial segregation is a systematic problem ! This book titled, "Mothering While Black: Boundaries and Burdens of Middle-Class" will help you to understand how are not only are our individual choices contributing factors to systematic racism, but the choices were thought we were making had already been made for us! Below is the link to the book, in case you want to check it out
https://www.amazon.com/Mothering-While-Black-Boundaries-Middle-Class/dp/0520300327
How do minorities contribute to this type of racism? By fighting so hard to be "Normal"
White Habitus: a pattern of socialization among white people that excludes black people and their culture, created as a result of racial segregation.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_habitus
Here's the map
https://www.opportunityatlas.org/
Check out this previous episode where I talked about how narratives pushed by elites cause minorities to become yet another statistic
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1941305/10284430-if-you-can-t-beat-em-join-em.mp3?download=true
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According to Goffman, our sense-of-self is influenced mostly by how other's percieve us, and we are constantly changing roles to meet the standards of those we want to be accepted by
Here's a power point on Goffman's theory of dramaturgy
https://home.csulb.edu/~hmarlowe/SOC335/Goffman_Dramaturgical_Model.pdf
More information on Goffman's impression management
https://www.sparknotes.com/sociology/identity-and-reality/section2/
Hyperreality in sociology: The inability of consciousness to distinguish reality from a simulation of reality. This concept was developed by by French theorist Jean Baudrillard
A quote that captures the idea of impression management and dramaturgy is, "You never get a second chance to make a first impression"
In other words:
3- choose a role
2 - fit in
1 - conform
... Conform to societal standards, even if that means forfeiting your individuality - Not! We will not conform to other people's expectations anymore, will we?
What we should encourage instead is:
" Your true self is much more valuable than your first impression"
break it down!
3 - Always be authentic
2 - stand out
1 - LIVE!
L - let
I - individualism
V - validate
E - everyone
Live according to your own standards, and at the same time - be good to people, be honest, be kind and most importantly, be uniquely YOU!
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Words DO HURT, and apologies are not proverbial erasers!!
The break down ( of the original quote):
3 - tell me anything
2 - curse me
1 - attack
Instead we are going to say, "I'd rather you not use sticks, stones or words to try and hurt me"
Break it down!:
3 - watch your mouth!
2 - DON'T attack
1 - breathe
Instead of deflecting your anger and frustration, take a deep breath, and walk away ...
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So, are we basically saying that:
3 - kids are worthless
2 - remain silent
1 - lose
What we should be saying instead is: See children for who they want to be, and listen to who they are telling you they are." So basically:
3 - listen to children
2 - hear children (hear them out)
1 - encourage
Encourage children to advocate for themselves, to voice their opinions and to exercise their tongues!
Check out this episode to get an idea of what happens when we DON'T encourage children to move their tongues
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/flip-the-script/id1610408555
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Newsflash: You have a voice too!
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Common idea: LOYALTY
Think about what makes you loyal. Is it the fact that you confirm to substandard behavior? Is it because you follow crowds down the wrong path?
Are you being loyal just to fit in?
Are you loyal because you're the "yes man"?
Who are you loyal to, and why?
Is loyalty causing you to forfeit your good, authentic character?
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Why would you want to be like THEM?
LET'S break this down with our three-step technique:
3 - Be like them
2 - get revenge
1 - fail
FLIP THE SCRIPT:
Don't Even Get Mad
3 - Don't get even
2 - move on
1 - Digress
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This saying has taught people how to be good actors!
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From this day forward, we are no longer skinning cats. Find something else to do, got it?!
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Women, it's time we take charge - let's get on top
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We have to give generations Y and Z better advice to follow!
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This one was requested by one of my listeners, and I couldn't see any other way to flip this script 🤣🤣
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Exercise both hemispheres of your brain!
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This quote is an insult to women everywhere!
Let's flip the script on it: One man's lesson is another man's blessing
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This is just a random thought I wanted to share
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This particular saying has trained generation 'X' and 'Y' to fall victim to statistics and stereotypes. Let us flip the script on this horrible advice!
Let's do the 3,2,1 sum-it-up on, "If you can't beat'em, join'em"
3 - just give in/just give up
2 - bow down
1 - fold!
Now, let's do the 3,2,1 sum-it-up on our new quote, "You can Beat'em!"
3 - let's rise above
2 - be different
1 - win!
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Introducing, "FLIP THE SCRIPT"
Tune in for episode 2 where we're going to analyze the saying, "If you can't beat'em, join'em"