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Welcome to Self Improved Socials, a podcast for successful females looking to level up their life. We're going to cover the best self-improvement strategies to accomplish your goals and then we’ll dive into the exact framework you can use to create better social media content in less time in order to social network more effectively for your business or personal brand. Hi I’m your host Maureen Evelyn, Founder and CEO of Maureen’s Marketing, a marketing agency catered for females looking to create high performing marketing content in less time.
When you start approaching dating like a CEO, everything gets lighter. Instead of pouring endless energy into proving yourself, you get to step back and ask a better question.
Is this actually the right man for me?
So many of us were taught that love is about effort. That if we just try harder, give more, and hold it all together, the connection will finally work. But effort was never the problem. You've been showing up fully this whole time. The shift isn't about doing more. It's about seeing clearly.
In this video, I'll walk you through how to tell whether a man is genuinely a good fit for the future you want, not just whether he looks good on paper.
Because someone can have all the right qualities and still not be right for you. When you lead your dating life with that kind of discernment, you stop guessing and start spending your time on someone who actually earns it.
If you've been feeling unappreciated or just worn out, this is the reframe that gives you your clarity back. And your peace too.
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Men are like oil paintings. You can't change them, and you shouldn't have to.
In this video, I share the mindset shift that completely changed how I date, treating every interaction as data, not a reflection of your worth. When you stop trying to fix men and start observing who they actually are, finding the right one gets so much easier.
If you're stuck on a guy who keeps disappointing you, you don't know if he's worth your time, or you just need someone to tell you what to do next, download my app Alora
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I met my husband on LinkedIn & married him 15 months later
I was honestly so tired of medicore men on dates. I was starting to think I'd never meet my person, breakups with unaligned men hurt. Then on a random weekday, sitting by a pool in Arizona, I did something crazy that changed my entire life.
I messaged a complete stranger on LinkedIn.
What started as asking for London restaurant recommendations turned into the most beautiful, movie-like love story I never saw coming. We went from strangers to engaged in 10 months, and now I'm sitting in a hotel room in Bangkok with my husband working on our app together.
The day before I met him, I had absolutely no idea my life was about to completely change. I thought I was just going to London alone to meet my assistant. Instead, I met the man I'd marry.
If you're where I was, feeling like all the good guys are taken, wondering if you're asking for too much, thinking maybe love like this only happens in movies, I made this video for you. Because your person is out there. You could literally meet them this week.
I almost didn't send that first message. I'm so glad I did.
Your love story is waiting for you too. Don't give up hope.
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If you've been trying to change him, hint at what you want, drop suggestions, hope he'll finally "get it" this video is for you.
I'm sharing the dragon fruit rule: why the women who feel calm and chosen in love aren't out here trying to fix, soften, or rewire the man in front of them. They're doing something completely different, and once you see it, you can't unsee it.
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Trying to change a man is one of the fastest ways to lose yourself, lose him, and lose the peace you're actually looking for. The exhausting part isn't the relationship. It's the second job you've taken on of managing his behavior, his communication, his consistency, his effort. You weren't meant to carry that. And the wild thing is, the moment you stop, everything shifts.
By the end of this video, you'll understand:
Why trying to change him is quietly draining you (even when it "works")
What to do instead when he's not showing up the way you want
How to tell the difference between a man who's growing and a man who's not your match
Why the women who stop trying to fix men end up with the most consistent ones
What "treating him like a dragon fruit" actually means - and why it changes everything
This isn't about settling, lowering your standards, or pretending things are fine when they're not. It's the opposite. It's about seeing him clearly, deciding if he's yours, and stopping the exhausting work of trying to turn him into someone he's not. The calmest, most chosen women in love aren't the ones doing the most. They're the ones who stopped doing what was never theirs to do.
If you've ever felt like you're carrying the whole relationship, overthinking how to "communicate it better" so he finally hears you, or wondering why you feel more like his manager than his partner, save this video.
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How to make him obsessed with you - Anne Boleyn made Henry VIII shower her with jewels, write her desperate love letters, and beg her to be with him for years. that's not luck. that's dating psychology.
In this video I break down how to make a man obsessed with you using the exact tactics Anne Boleyn used on Henry VIII and why this attraction psychology still works on men in modern dating. if you want to know how to make him chase you, how to make him miss you, and how to stop being the woman he takes for granted, watch this full 10 minute breakdown.
this is for you if:
- you keep attracting men who pull away
- you're stuck in anxious attachment patterns
- you want to know how to make him obsessed with you over text
- you're tired of chasing men and want him to chase you instead
- you want real dating advice for women that actually works
what you'll learn:
- how to make a man obsessed with you (the anne boleyn method)
- the psychology of male attraction and why men become obsessed
- how to make him chase you without playing games
- how to stop overthinking and stop chasing
- the feminine energy mindset shift that makes men commit
save this. you'll come back to it.
if you want help applying this in your actual dating life, i built an app called Alora, it's like having me in your pocket. ask anything about your situation and get scripts for texts to make him obsessed with you.
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Ladies, if you're tired of almost-relationships and want to find your ACTUAL future husband, this podcast is for you. I'm breaking down why most women are dating with the wrong mindset and how raising your standards will completely transform your dating life.
In this video, you'll learn:
• Why you should stop looking for boyfriends and start interviewing for life partners
• The difference between what he can and can't control (and why it matters)
• How to give him space to pursue while collecting data like a scientist
• The "future son test" that changed everything for me
• Why high standards will save you hundreds of hours and so much heartbreak
I used to date guys who looked amazing on paper but made me feel terrible about myself. Now I'm married to someone who exceeds my standards every single day. The difference? I stopped accepting inconsistency and started believing my dream guy actually existed.
Your future husband won't be scared away by your standards - he'll rise to meet them. The guys who fall away? They were never husband material anyway.
If you're ready to stop wasting time on men who aren't ready for marriage and start attracting the one who is, hit that subscribe button and let's raise those standards together✨
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If you've ever felt that panic when he suddenly gets distant, this video is for you. I'm breaking down the real psychology behind why men need space and the counterintuitive approach that actually works.
What you'll learn:
• The "rubber band effect" from Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
• Why chasing him when he pulls away pushes him further away
• The squirrel analogy that changed everything for me
• How to become magnetic instead of needy
• When space is normal vs. when it's a red flag
I used to be that girl who would text 50 times when a guy went quiet. I was anxiously attached and thought more effort = better relationship. Spoiler alert: it doesn't work that way.
The truth? When you stop orbiting around him and start focusing on yourself, he starts orbiting around you. It sounds backwards, but it's basic human psychology.
Quick action steps:
Book that massage you've been wanting
Go for a walk instead of sending that text
Thank him 10x more when he does something you like
Never reward bad behavior with attention
Remember: if giving him space makes him run away completely, he wasn't your person anyway. Your dream guy would never run from you.
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P.S. - I'm currently in Bangkok with my husband, living proof this stuff works when you raise your standards and focus on becoming the woman of your dreams first.
Are you tired of orbiting a man? This dating advice focuses on a strategy to make him orbit you instead. These dating tips emphasize how this approach can lead to stronger relationships, making men want to come back. This is solid relationship advice for women navigating modern dating.
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Close your eyes. What does the love you actually deserve feel like? Not the love you've been accepting, the love you've been dreaming about. In this super short but powerful episode, Maureen walks you through a visualization that will shift how you see yourself, your standards, and what's possible for your love life.
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In this episode, Maureen breaks down the mindset shift that changes dating completely: stop trying to be chosen and start building a life so full, confident, and magnetic that the right man wants in. She explains why fulfillment comes first, how high standards actually attract better men, and why chasing, over-efforting, and waiting kill attraction. You’ll learn how to fill your own cup, set real boundaries, build confidence as a skill, and let dating become a bonus instead of the center of your life. If you’re tired of crumbs, mixed signals, and waiting to be picked, this episode is your reset.
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In this episode, Maureen Evelyn discusses the dynamics of texting in relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and personal growth. She encourages listeners to build fulfilling lives beyond their interactions with men, highlighting that a partner's texting behavior is a reflection of their priorities. By focusing on self-improvement and setting healthy boundaries, individuals can attract the right partners and maintain their confidence without relying on external validation.
Takeaways
If he stops texting, don't panic or pretend to not care.
Good men are busy; don't expect immediate responses.
His silence is data; it doesn't define your worth.
Focus on building a life you're obsessed with.
Rejection is data; learn from it.
You only need one guy to love you.
Confidence comes from within, not from his texts.
You can't control how fast he texts you back.
Men are attracted to women who prioritize themselves.
You deserve a partner who makes you feel amazing.
Chapters
00:00 Understanding Texting Dynamics in Relationships
02:57 Building a Life Beyond Texting
05:40 The Importance of Self-Worth and Validation
08:39 Observing Behavior and Setting Boundaries
11:49 Choosing the Right Partner and Moving On
14:43 Creating a Fulfilling Life for Yourself
17:56 Final Thoughts on Confidence and Relationships
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Stop chasing. Start attracting.
In this episode, Maureen Evelyn breaks down why trying harder in dating often backfires, and what to do instead. Learn the simple shifts that make men step up, pursue you, and take you seriously without games or over giving.
You’ll learn how to spot low-effort men early, set standards that actually work, and use Maureen’s “hula hoop” framework to align your life with the partner you want. This episode is for women tired of mixed signals and ready to attract a man who shows up consistently.
Maureen Evelyn is a confidence coach and co-founder of the Rejecto app, known for her direct, results-driven approach to dating and self-respect. If you’re done chasing and ready to lead with calm confidence, press play.
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This podcast offers essential relationship advice using a powerful sponge analogy to illustrate that men, like sponges, cannot be fundamentally changed, especially when it comes to dating and flirtatious behaviors.
It's crucial to understand that men come as they are, and our energy is better spent on self improvement rather than trying to mold them. This perspective encourages a shift in focus towards personal growth and understanding the psychology behind relationships rather than attempting to control others.
This approach emphasizes building internal confidence and focusing on what you can control.
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Full video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3p7sI8C_7uc
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In this episode I breakdown simple and practical things you can actually do to love your life.
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On this episode I'm interviewed by Jess from CMO school, Rejection used to paralyze me. Every piece of content felt like putting myself on trial. Sound familiar? In this raw episode, I'm sharing the mindset breakthrough that transformed my relationship with rejection – and my entire business.
The game-changer? I stopped trying to prove myself to others and started proving it to myself first.
You'll discover:
• How to flip rejection from your biggest fear into your competitive advantage
• The "self-demonstration" method that builds unshakeable confidence
• Why most entrepreneurs fail at content (hint: it's not about strategy)
• How to create from a place of service, not desperation
• The mental shift that makes rejection impossible (because you're not asking for anything)
• My exact process for building authority while building your own belief system
This isn't just another content strategy episode it's about rewiring your brain for success. If imposter syndrome and fear of judgment are holding you back from sharing your expertise, this conversation will set you free.
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After reading over 100 self-improvement books, I came to a surprising realization: they all teach the same thing. Whether it's about fitness, mindset, business, or health, every book emphasizes one core principle: taking action. And once I grasped this, everything in my life began to change.
In this episode, I’m going to share how I learned to stop consuming endless self-improvement content and start putting knowledge into practice. For years, I believed that reading more books would unlock the secret to success. But the truth is, action is what drives real change. You can read every book on productivity, habits, and success, but nothing will move the needle in your life unless you take deliberate, consistent action.
I’ll walk you through why self-improvement is an information overload trap, how knowledge alone won’t change your life, and how to make the switch from learning to doing. I’ll also show you the specific type of action that transformed my life and how it can help you build your dream life too.
Here’s what we dive into:
- The "Action" Principle: Why taking action is the #1 message across all self-improvement books.
- The Information Overload Trap: Why reading book after book won’t solve your problems if you don’t apply what you learn.
- How Knowledge Alone Isn’t Enough: Why you need to take action based on what you already know to make progress.
- The Power of Reps: How taking more action, even if imperfect, is the key to success in business, fitness, relationships, and more.
If you're tired of endlessly consuming content and feeling stuck, this episode is for you. I'll show you how to stop reading endlessly and start creating, doing, and living the life you’ve always dreamed of.
It’s time to stop waiting for the next big idea or secret and start acting. You don’t need another self-improvement book, you need more action.
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this one is for you, you need to start acting like the director instead.
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In this episode I discuss the 7 steps you need to make your first dollar online from scratch. Watch the full Episode over on my Youtube @ Maureens Marketing
n this video, I share how I went from working 12 hours a day feeling burnt out, to becoming peacefully productive. In 10 steps we'll break down how you can increase your income while working less.
I also realized I need a new microphone haha the one I got from Target in this video is TERRIBLE.
If you're a business owner do you ever feel overworked/overwhelmed? Let's chat in the comments
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In todays episode I'm interviewed by Business coach Demi @bizcoachdemi on IG!
She hits consistent 100k months in her online coaching business, in this episode she interviews me to learn more about my story into entrepreneurship.
We both went through peanut butter eras in order to be successful in business (listen to the episode and you'll understand!)
Together we chat though how to get to that next level in business and I share how getting over 10 million views across platforms helped me grow my IG from 1,500 followers to over 20,000 followers this week!
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In today's video I'm going to show you exactly how to clean up your finances in less than 9 minutes and how you can track your expenses and create a check-in chart for the new month.
That way you can feel confident with your spending plan and savings goals!
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In this video, I show you exactly how to overcome your fear of filming content, come with me as I slowly increase my confidence while filming content in an airport.
These steps will help you become more confident so you can finally stop worrying, and start posting, to build your business and personal brand
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In this podcast episode I show you exactly how I hit my first 10k+ month at 18 years old and how you can too, with this three-step framework you can build an online business to generate amazing income :)
These tips will help you grow an online business that generates 10,000 per month.
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This episode shows you exactly how to tap into your unique feminine energy with my unique and simple 15-step framework💞
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To tap into your feminine energy and build your dream life, you need to prioritize self-improvement, gratitude, and peace. By spending time clarifying your goals and vision, you can live with a sense of peace and joy🦢
In this episode I share how to accept compliments gracefully, set strong boundaries, and create a peaceful environment. By being selective with the people and activities in your life you can create your beautiful metaphorical garden which will attract high-value experiences👸🏼
By setting high standards and becoming the best version of yourself, you can radiate warmth and compassion and build your dream life 🌱
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TikTok allowed me to move out at 18, sign clients from around the world, and build my dream life, you can use TikTok to supercharge your success, this video reveals exactly how I did it. ⚡️
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Learn the proven strategies and techniques I used to start a TikTok account from scratch and grow it to 25k followers. In this video, I share the six key steps that will help you kickstart your TikTok journey and attract a loyal following.
I used to be scared to post TikTok videos and now TikTok is the main revenue driver for my business, here's exactly how I did it and how you can too :)
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Listen to these 12 minutes if you want to be a full-time content creator by 2024
In this episode, I share my top tips and strategies for becoming a full-time content creator by 2024,
👱🏻♀️I used these tips to become a full-time content creator and now I work for myself and help clients around the world go full-time working for themselves!
💡 Step One: Post 3 times per day for 3 months on TikTok 🥂
Gain visibility and grow your audience by consistently posting 3 times per day on Tiktok. This will help you establish your presence and attract more followers.
💡 Step Two: Embrace messy action and prioritize content posting 🌱
Don't get caught up in complicated structures or perfection. Just take messy action and focus on getting your content out there. The key is to prioritize posting and not worry too much about everything being perfect.
💡 Step Three: Remove resistance and barriers to your success ✈️
Identify and eliminate any resistance or barriers that are holding you back from becoming a full-time content creator. It's important to address any mindset blocks, fears, or limiting beliefs that may be preventing you from achieving your goals.
Join me in this video as I dive deep into each step and provide actionable advice to help you on your journey towards full-time content creation. Don't miss out on these 12 minutes that could change your life! 🔥
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In this podcast episode, we'll explore the power of taking action every day to work towards your business goals. We'll discuss the importance of consistency and how small actions every day can add up to big results over time. We'll also talk about the power of creating content on social media and how it can help you build your personal brand, attract your ideal clients, and grow your business. Whether you're just starting out or looking to take your business to the next level, this episode has everything you need to succeed. So grab your headphones, take some action towards your goals, and let's dive in!
On today’s episode I’m revealing the 7 steps I use to create two months of social media content in just a few hours, I’ll share my strategy to be able to post to 5 different social media platforms automatically without getting burnt out, and I’ll reveal how I quickly film and edit nearly 100 short form videos every month to post on socials in order to bring in my ideal clients to my marketing agency, and exactly how you can replicate my techniques to create a stellar social media presence.
Heres a quick recap of the 7 steps you can take today to streamline your content creation process.
- Start documenting your current life, film those work meetings, film yourself having fun, capture your personality, you can use these clips to repurpose as social media content
- Edit your videos directly in the Tiktok app in order to save time, if you want one step fancier use Capcut for automatic text overlays.
- Ignore your follower count, and focus on providing an insane amount of value in each and every piece of content
- Cut back your social media consumption and use this time for social media creation
- Cater your content to your dream client, speak directly to those individuals
- If consistent content creation gets hard, refocus on the bigger picture and remind yourself of your “why”
- Set up Repurpose.io to start automatically posting your content to multiple social media platforms consistently
Resources:
Book a 1-1 session with me, or start using Repurpose.io below. :)
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On today's episode we’re going to be covering exactly how to leverage rejection to get outside your comfort zone and find radical success.
Let's dive right in, “You've been rejected.” Those 3 simple words changed my life.
My email inbox pings with the sound of a new email. Harvard updated my application, I had already made it onto the waitlist, next stop acceptance. I can already picture myself walking across those stunning brick pathways, drinking a 7$ coffee, and living out my academic excellence.
**My fingers fly furiously across my phone screen as I shuffle through tabs, the webpage comes into focus, and after 3 failed password attempts, I finally log into my application portal. The application reads something like this, “Unfortunately we can’t offer you acceptance into our university at this time”. There goes my dream of drinking expensive lattes while chatting about the brevity of life with my professor...
If you'd like 1-1 help, book a call and I'd love to see if I'm the right person to help you build your dream lifestyle by implementing habits that actually work.
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In today's episode, we’re going to be covering exactly how to create your dream lifestyle
**I've used this method to help clients in my marketing agency reach their goals, this has radically changed the way I approach my life as well. I've had women almost start crying on coaching calls when using this method because they realize how far they've come and how much potential they have to reach.
If you'd like 1-1 help, book a call and I'd love to see if I'm the right person to help you build your dream lifestyle by implementing habits that actually work.
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