A Jewel In His Crown: Recent Episodes
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A Jewel In His Crown is a podcast for men and women of all ages; from pre-teens to seasoned. Now, I am a woman, so let's be clear, the majority of the episodes will be #MyTruth. Experience is the best teacher, & God has brought me through some THANGS. So I am here to Empower, To Encourage, To Excite, and Expound on what God has done and continues to do in my life. My prayer is that through my own #MyTruth journey, God will allow someone else to feel the healing that I have and continue to receive. God said, “Its time to tell #MyTruth. I’m a Daughter that is A Jewel In His Crown. Journey w/ Me!
Trusting the Process means trusting that things, no matter what that THING IS, will be achieved in the right time in the right season. So often we want things quick and easy, when trusting the process means having to do things slow and steady. Nothing worth having is worth rushing… waiting produces growth. In this episode we will find ways to embrace the process and realize that the waiting allows life to be what IT is and Not what we think IT ought to be.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
Letting one’s guard down means becoming vulnerable. In this episode I talk about how important it is to let your guard down. After being hurt, going through personal experiences, I wanted to stop trusting people, but God had other plans. I’m learning to Trust and build better relationships, so let’s talk about it… Journey w/Me💋--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
In this episode I talk about the reality that I was, and tend to still be, a people pleaser. Discovering that it’s an unhealthy line that we may cross and not realize it, all because we are looking for validation from others when we should only be looking for validation from one. Let’s learn how to not please people but serve people, because it’s a difference. Journey with Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
In this episode I go into detail about why I’ve made the conscious decision to abstain from being intimate. When you’ve done what you’ve always did but look for different results, y’all know that’s called insanity. I’m trying a different approach and this time God is involved. Some might not like it, but you can’t help but respect IT. Journey w/Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
In this New episode I touch On the State of MIND & how in order to MOVE different, BE different and CHOSE different, you have to THINK different. Thinking the Same way will only get you the Same THOUGHTS. You either have a FIXED mindset to where you will NEVER change or a GROWTH mindset to where ALL YOU DO is EVOLVE. The key is connected to your Mental thought Process and Controlling what you WaNt to Do vs what you MuSt Do to keep moving Forward. Journey W/Me💋--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
To see people, starting over can seem hard and scary because of not knowing what will happen next, while other times people might feel starting as being exciting and liberating because of not knowing what will happen next. In this episode I talk about starting over vs starting from scratch, and how the EXPERIENCE makes the difference. Journey w/Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
It’s crazy how when you think you have it all together and you think everything in your life is moving ahead, but then Reality checks You and you find out, you were just slowly unraveling. In this brand new episode I freely speak about My personal recent experience with dealing with chronic depression and how I am still overcoming with dealing with having a mental breakdown. It’s freedom in our testimony. Journey with Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ajewelinhiscrown/message
it’s a Free Flow Friday as I discuss being Broken but not Destroyed. Broken pieces can be mended back together and it’ll be BETTER THEN IT WAS BEFORE…. Journey w/Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chanese-d-hayes/message
In this episode I talk personally about my own mental struggle and how important it Truly is to acknowledge and have “Compassionate Self Care. It’s easy to say, “I’m good” or “Everything is fine”, when in reality, IT’S NOT… let’s talk about it …. Journey w/Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chanese-d-hayes/message
On this episode I am talking about if you love someone but they aren’t loving you in the manner to which is healthy for you both, then you need to LET THEM GO. Release them from the hold you have. If it’s meant, they’ll come back to you, but if Not… count your Blessings and Move ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Let’s talk about Living in Reality … Journey w/Me💋--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chanese-d-hayes/message
On todays episode, I have the pleasure of having a #CandidConvo with my girl Rocki. Rocki and I Go way way way back & I get an opportunity to chop it up about how Rocki became a Reality. She’s an Award-Winning storyteller, Narrative Shifter, Reality Show CEO and Host, Wife, Mom, & Girlfriend … Journey w/Me💋--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chanese-d-hayes/message
Despite the way it may seem, strong people have weak moments. Ppl trying to push through pain, be tough, trying to convince ppl everything is fine… I get IT… You want to be strong, show the world your strength, prove you can handle life, but you know you can’t and that’s ok… You don’t have to be strong, God says, let me be Strong for You… Journey w/Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chanese-d-hayes/message
We tend to spend days, weeks, and even months thinking about a thing or a person we may want in our lives. Sometimes, we get so obsessed that we neglect the things going on around us right now…Why Do we do that? Want what we Can’t have? Journey w/Me 💋--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/chanese-d-hayes/message
In this episode, the conversation is about knowing “When you can’t have what you want, it’s time to start wanting What You Have”,(Kathleen A. Sutton). We need to learn to be ok with what we have & who we have in our lives. It’s not necessarily beneficial to desire something or someone that isn’t meant for You. It stops you from getting what is meant for You 😳… Journey w/Me💋
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On this episode I breakdown what “Silence Is Golden” Really means, if you didn’t realize it, there’s strength behind closing your mouth. Let’s talk about it…. Journey with Me 💋
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Todays conversation is about understanding why those who Hurt, Hurt others. We all know the phrase, “Hurt ppl Hurt ppl”…. And my question is Why? Why Do Hurt ppl Hurt ppl?🤔… And My only conclusion is…. Cause THEY HURT🤷🏾♀️…. If we aren’t willing to heal from out, we will end up living a miserable life… Journey w/Me💋
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In this episode I’m talking about moving through Fear. Unfortunately, Fear has a way of causing ppl to miss out on things because of fearing the unknown, being anxious for things uncertain and unseen, which in turn keeps ppl from experiencing the fullness of life. There are ways however, to avoid feeling fearful, anxious and nervous…. The key: Just keep doing IT🥰…Journey w/Me💋
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On this episode, I talk about the mind and How terrible it is to waste. Some waste their thoughts on negativity, Some waste their thoughts on trying to scheme and manipulate others, then you have those that waste their thoughts on constantly trying to make someone else’s life miserable by making them their priority … either way, Mental Breakdown has occurred. So how does One think more positive? First thing; We have to fully understand, the way we live our lives reveals our thought process. Whatever we dwell on, controls us … Let’s talk about IT. Journey w/Me💋
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In this episode I’m talking about what it means to be Worthy; to have Value. We don’t have to work for it, we don’t have to beg or borrow… It’s freely given… We just Accept IT or Reject it. Let’s talk about it… Journey w/Me💋
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Falling into Temptation just isn’t about food…. There are many ways to be tempted…. It’s different variations of What or Who are we tempted by… So The question is, “How many times have you fallen into Temptation and wondered…How I get here”? Let’s talk about it…. Journey w/Me💋
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On this episode we touch on the catchphrase, “The Devil made me do IT” And the discussion is if the Devil can make you Do it, then God can make you do IT as well. We have to learn to stop giving Credit where it AIN’T do, and give it to the One IT IS Do to. If the Devil made Me Do IT; I’d be Lost, Lonely, and Left to live an unfulfilled Life 🫠 Journey w/Me 💋
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On this Episode I have a Candid Convo w/Taylor Lang. At 20 something, Taylor is a Fashion Runway Model, Talent Development Coach and the Founder and CEO of her OWN Training Agency. She’s doing IT all and We discuss How… Join in on the convo and Journey w/Me 💋
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This episode I chime in on choices. Choices have consequences. A Choice is A Decision. Choices are OURS for the making, but what DOES the wrong Choice do to our Character. Are the choices we make being thought out, do they make sense? Are the choices made going to bring joy or sorrow? It’s a basic question, w/ a Not So basic Answer 😜… Journey w/Me💋
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Let’s talk.. Burning 🔥 Bridges… Under normal circumstances, We should avoid Burning Bridges when we can, HOWEVER…. Sometimes Burning Bridges IS Necessary in Order for One to MOVE Forward in life. So when should One Burn 🔥 and when should One leave THE BRIDGE alone? Journey w/Me💋
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For todays conversion, it’s all about vision. Vision gives direction and glimpses over our lives to make our goals and purposes become reality. Once you understand that vision clarifies purpose, life itself becomes more enjoyable. Plus, It’s important to have a vision and purpose because it ultimately creates your way of living. The question is, what direction is Your Vision going? Do You know Your vision? Do You Have a vision? Journey w/Me 💋
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On todays #TalkBackTuesday, I have my Homegirl; Business owner, Fashion model, Mom, Publicist, Awesome sis and True Woman of God, @KellieSain. Join us as we have a #CandidConversation about quitting a job to begin her own Journey, starting a Side Hustle, and how she’s able to KEEP everything together…. Journey w/Me 💋
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Today’s Conversation is about Worrying … With excessive Worrying, your Mind and Body go into overdrive as you constantly Focus on WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN, when in Reality… Most of what we WORRY ABOUT often times Never Happen…. Journey w/Me 💋
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The tongue is the most powerful part of the human body. It’s also the most dangerous. On This Episode the conversation is about changing our speech; learning that words have Power. Words build Up and tear down. On this episode, we discuss ways that will help Us decide which words to USE…. Journey w/Me 💋
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With Todays Convo, it’s All about Toxic Personalities. Understanding what warning signs to look for when it comes to having any type of relationship & What ways to avoid toxicity If that relationship isn’t working … Toxic people Do live among US … We MAY just need to change the living arrangements to Deal with them … Journey w/Me💋
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It’s Talk Back Tuesday; a candid conversation w/ my friend Jasmine Pittman…Jasmine is a mom, entrepreneur, fierce leader, life coach, woman of God and a core strength trainer. She’s a specialist at personality behaviors and expert relationship coach… let’s learn something about those we encounter everyday. Journey with Me 💋
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Todays conversation deals w/ How we should Treat ppl the way we want to be Treated.. Ask yourself this question: “If somebody treated ME the way I treated THEM, would I STILL be Happy w/Myself?” Journey with Me 💋
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Today’s conversation is about Endurance. How to Endure, When to Endure and What Endurance looks like… We have all been Hurt, Misused, Disrespected, Talked about, etc.. The question then is, When those things happen; How Does One Endure, How Does One Not Give In? Journey with Me 💋
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This episode is a conversation about being OK with saying “No”… MoSt people, especially US lady loves 🫤, have a HARD time saying No. But We shouldn’t … Why🤷🏾♀️? Because a No sometimes is more suitable then a Yes💃🏽 … Let’s talk about IT…💋
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As a wife, mom, bonus mom, woman of God and educator… we talk balancing life, love and self care. Join in on the convo as we talk Candid…I learned something, you might to…. Journey w/Me 💋
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In this episode I’m talking about taking accountability or the lack there of. Some ppl feel they don’t need to take accountability for anything, cause they do NOTHING WRONG, some feel entitled, while others feel shamed…no matter what reason, accountability is a MUST for a healthier You … Journey with Me 💋
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God has called those of us WHO follow Christ, A CHOSEN PEOPLE, A Royal Priesthood….We are SET A PART… created for a set purpose and set plan. So The question is…are you Set A Part or a part of A set🤔🤷🏾♀️😏…. CAN’T BE BOTH🫢… Journey with Me 💋
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Todays conversation is about INFLUENCING. Whose Influencing YOU, who ARE YOU Influencing and What road is the influence leading YOU down. All influences aren’t bad, but THEY AIN’T ALL good either🫤… Journey with Me 💋
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On todays episode we converse about Trust; how to grow through it once you’ve been hurt. How to gain understanding from it to move forward in relationships and how to be strengthened with knowing that God is where our Trust ultimately should be ❤️… Journey with Me💋
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The last Friday of each month I’ll be free styling; I have a glass jar full of memories and moments beginning from 2019 to current. Writing things down is a great way to remember the things God has brought you though, allowed you to experience or those things you’ve been BLESSED WITH…either way.. writing things down and going back years later gives you a greater depth of WHO God is in your life. God is always blessing, but the question is are we recognizing those blessings? Journey with Me 💋
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Often times we, myself included, think we haven’t done anything to be proud of. We can think of all the things we aren’t proud of, but tend to overlook those moments of accomplishment. Being proud is NOT THE SAME as being Prideful…there is a difference. Journey with Me 💋
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On todays episode we are discussing True friendships and how in order to get True friendships, You Have To be a True Friend. Answering the question; what does having a TRUE FRIENDSHIP really require? Journey with Me 💋
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Todays episode is a candid convo w/my grand, Mom and daughter… I ask two questions during our conversation. It’s a blessing to have four generations of women from different eras, in different seasons of life answer questions pertaining to Growing up in different eras, if they’d change anything from their past and how life is lived BEST. Journey with us💋
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On this episode the conversation is about the battle between flesh and spirit; you want to do right, but the right you want to do, you end Up not doing… Let’s talk about it💋
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On todays episode I’m talking to ALL my Woman of God, Queens, Moms, Bonus Moms, Sisters, Neice’s, Cousins, Aunties, and the Homegirls on the block…. The REAL reality is WE DON’T HAVE TO BE SUPERWOMAN…. Permission has been Granted… We can actually take our CAPES OFF… The question is…. How?🤔…. Let’s talk about it💋
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On todays episode I’m talking about The seeds we sow in our lives, our relationships and those around Us. Do You know the Harvest You reap solely depends on the seeds You SOW😳… The platinum question is; What’s Your Harvest looking like? Do you know the types of seeds you’ve sown? Journey with Me 💋
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On todays episode, we are talking about Standards & Boundaries; Be it a relationship of intimacy and/or platonic we have to set standards/boundaries if we are going to have a healthy relationship of any kind. I’ll discuss my, “Why Guy” and how setting, standing on and seeing things through will help you weed out the wann-a-bes from the gonn-a-bees to the Son-Of-A-Bees… Journey with Me 💋
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In this episode I talk about my own personal experience with “Dating”, and how I saw the same RED FLAGS as I did in my marriage of #20yrs😒… it wasn’t fun then And IT wasn’t Fun Now…. #LearnedLesson … Journey with Me 💋
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On TODAYS episode we are talking about Dating After Divorce. Being married for 20 yrs., I walk through what it was like when I realized dating would NOW be apart of My New Journey… IT was scary yet exciting All at the same time… Let’s talk about it… Journey with Me 💋
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On todays Episode there is a twist… I’m free flowing, pulling out journals that I’ve written from the past 2.5/3 years… but seeing I don’t remember what I might have written… we gone pull and read together… let’s have some Fun on this #FreeFlowFriday… It’s just Something New 😂
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In this Sweet 16 episode, we chit chat about the Heart Posture and what that means when someone has disrespected you. How does one handle disrespect? How should one respond? Cause, I Clapped back and Got a Hard chin Check… lesson learned. Journey with Me!!!
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In this Episode we talk about Trusting God with Everything, no matter the situation. We discuss how through Good, Bad, or Extremely Difficult times and/or Seasons, God NEVER CHANGES… He is the SAME ALWAYS…. So how do we Trust Him w/Everything?
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Today is TALK BACK TUESDAY, each month I’ll have a different person join me … and todays Talk Back… is with My baby girl… ChaDerra…. Join us as we discuss her open heart surgery when she was 14…and how Trusting God was necessary… Journey with US💋
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On todays episode we talk about how hurt ppl can be healed. Being hurt by those who suppose to love us is a deep issue…how do we heal from those hurts and MOVE FORWARD? Let’s talk about it… Journey with Me 💋🖤… Cause it’s just #MyTruth…
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In this episode we continue on with wants vs needs, but on the relationship base. There were certain things I thought I needed in relationships and realized, THEY WERE JUST WANTS… Journey with Me 💋
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In this episode we will be touching on the difference between our wants and our needs and why THERE IS A DIFFERENCE…. Journey with Me💋
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In this Episode we break down the phrase, “God won’t give You more than you can handle” and what IT really means…. Because if God won’t allow anything in our lives that We can’t handle, Why would we need God🤷🏾♀️? Let’s discuss …. Journey with Me!
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In this Episode I talk about My first DAY of My boxing journey, And the things that I took away from it. TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY🥳 and what I’ve learned most in my 40+ is to BE HUMBLE AND GRATEFUL for the things and ways God has made. Journey with Me 💋🖤🥳🥰😘
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In This episode, part 2, we continue the conversation about Earthly Fathers and Heavenly Father and what the difference is between a Father and Dad based on Earthly standards vs Heavenly standards. God is our Father and He WILL ALWAYS DO it BEST… let’s talk about IT… Journey with Me.
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Welcome to another episode of A Jewel In His Crown with Me, your Host ChaNese. On todays episode I begin the convo of A Father’s Love and what that looks like from an earthly standpoint as well as a heavenly One. Does having a Father’s Love or lack thereof determine how we view God’s Love for us?🤔 Let’s talk about IT… Journey with Me.
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In this episode I’m touching on how I came to begin this Journey called #MyTruth. God has and continues to restore, renew and rebuild me as a Mom, a Daughter, Granddaughter , Neice, Sista girl and definitely a Woman of God. In life, we all have relationships, those relationships WILL shape and mold us as we continue to evolve in our daily living either IN good ways or bad. Wanna know how? Push play and let’s talk about it, Journey with Me…
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My son and I, on the last segment, talked about how it was growing up with having rules and parameters in place, and how it’s shaped/shaping him into being and becoming the young man he is. So is there a difference with a child WHO doesn’t receive the rules and parameters? Let’s talk about it…JourneyWithMe
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In this episode my son and I discuss how he felt the structure and parameters that were in place in the household is now shaping and molding him into the young man of God he is becoming now…#JourneyWithMe #ItsJust #MyTruth💋🖤
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The last episode was about forgiving yourself and the 3R’s associated with being able to do so. This episode is about forgiving others, those you don’t know but who’ve done you wrong. I tell my story of being bullied out the bathroom stall and how I wanted to fight, but God had other plans and showed me a few things. Journey with me… #MyTruth
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In this episode I talk about self forgiveness as I dealt with a lot of disappointment and rejection in my life and mostly marriage…God, however had done and continues to do a Great work in me and he desires to do the same with you…Journey with Me.
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