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nami xavier

every couple of weeks, I sit down and talk about whatever I deem to be interesting; life, death and everything in between. I especially gravitate towards people and mental health related stuff. you can also send in topics you want me to discuss and questions to answer at the handle below :) instagram: @namixavier

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i discuss the intricacies of how i approach my relationships and why and how it's worked out for me thus far. happy sunday!!!!

hope you enjoyed this episode, leave your thoughts in the youtube comments!

follow me on my socials:

i only really use ig lol but my twitters here too if you want it

https://www.instagram.com/namixavier/

https://twitter.com/namixavier

podcast is available on youtube, spotify, google podcast, apple podcast and other podcast platforms too but idk what they are bc literally no one listens there but it's prolly available there in case you do!

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my semester is over!! and now i'm gonna use my time off to do what i've always wanted to do :)))) and now on in each ep i'll discuss my progress on the hotness of the summer. here's hoping that i remain this confident and positive when things get tough.

hope you enjoyed this episode, leave your thoughts in the comments below!

follow me on my socials:

i only really use ig lol but my twitters here too if you want it 

https://www.instagram.com/namixavier/  

https://twitter.com/namixavier  

podcast is also available on youtube, spotify, google podcast, apple podcast and other podcast platforms too but idk what they bc literally no one listens there but it's prolly available there in case you do!

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today i discuss some red flags that are a good indicator of behavior to watch out for, happy sunday! hope you enjoyed this episode, leave your thoughts in the comments below! follow me on my socials: i only really use ig lol but my twitters here too if you want it

https://www.instagram.com/namixavier/

https://twitter.com/namixavier

podcast is available on youtube, spotify, google podcast, apple podcast and other podcast platforms too but idk what they bc literally no one listens there but it's prolly available there in case you do!

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hi! here are some of the stuff that was sent in that i addressed today:

"for all the freshies going into college this year, any tips on how to approach relationships with all these new people?"

"He promised he won't leave and he did it's been months I wonder if he misses me . He moved on so fast I can't take it He promised he won't leave and he did it's been months I wonder if he misses me . He moved on so fast I can't take it"

"Hiii , okay so put yourself in my position alright and think about this, if you have a boyfriend and he has a girl best friend and everything works out just fine and that girl is an absolute darling I liked her there was no problem with me about the whole girl best friend think until one day he decided to just cut me off saying we are better off as friends ...and not even a month later they started dating and it's almost been 6 months I can't seem to get over the trauma he put me through , I have tried everything I just want to forget about him but I can't seem to. The fact that he moved on so quick is just so hurting . I didn't get any colsure . But ukw fuk it imma badbich"

"She's a Instagram influencer (1.6M), currently stays in London for her study,19y old, and I always wanted someone like her, right from start, I feel very much alive when thinking of her. I'm guy from lower middle class family, 18y old, not so good looking, but I'm very hopeful that we'll end up together as I got premonition/lucid dream (and each dream has been of more than 75% accuracy in real life, exactly same order things happen in real life as in dreams) I know I sound crazy, but hehe you won't judge ik. Take care !"

follow me on my socials: i only really use ig lol but my twitters here too if you want it

https://www.instagram.com/namixavier/

https://twitter.com/namixavier

podcast is also available on youtube, spotify, google podcast, apple podcast and other podcast platforms too but idk what they bc literally no one listens there but it's available there in case you do!

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reality is, through out your life, only one person is ever always gonna be there for you. and that's you. i wanna live a v happy life so ordinarily, ecstatically enjoying the time you spend with yourself really comes in handy when trying to achieve that lol. loving yourself is something you always work towards, and this is how i do it.

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hi! i talk about how nonsensical it is that sex is taboo, esp in india and how india was actually chill about this stuff before the british colonization happened

please watch the following videos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6K2uz60Qv-A

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxAv9gEAXs8

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today we go over the common reasons why we procrastinate and how to address each of the different types of procrastination.

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today we discuss what is love, how to move on and why it is so so important to find it in you to leave a toxic relationship or any relationship that's not making you happy for that matter. hope yall enjoy <3

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miss corona has cutely forced all of our classes to happen online, and it has become 10 times harder to bond w our classmates and make new genuine friends online (especially if you're a fresher). so in today's epsiode i talk about how you can connect better with people online and build bona fide friendships. hope you tune in and enjoy! <3

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of course, i had my usual stream of breakdowns caused by overwhelmingly dreamful circumstances i'm stuck in due to the pandemic :) it was a tough week but i think i learnt quite a lot on how to sustain myself better the rest of this quarantined phase. gratitude is something that saved me. making a conscious effort to think about all the things that make me happy in the present, makes a world of difference.

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today we get into to the nitty gritty of relationships. we address how to start conversations to how to deal with sexual differences with your partner. don't know what to do in a tough situation? are confused out of your mind? frustrated with your love life? tune in bbs ;)

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me and anou go to college together. we became friends amidst the pandemic and live in two different cities at the moment but we spend about 80% of the day together. we talk about potential part time jobs once we’re at college in person, whether it’s a good idea to romanticize life and sooo much more. enjoy!

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it’s me and my fren ashwin!!!!! this podcast accidentally became an hour long segment instead of the usual 30 minutes bc we were vibing real hard. i loved making this with him so much, packed with valuable life lessons and other treasures. we’ve come so far and i’m so proud of us 🥰

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we went completely off topic more times than i can count but this was so so fun. i really enjoyed having adi on and his scooty phone story killed me. enjoy! and happy valentine’s day ❤️

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this week is a more chill, sit down and talk it through week. I spent way too long overanalyzing a relatively simple issue and then had to re-record my entire episode but i'm here! i made it! it's still sunday and i hope you enjoy it <3

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we vibe. we chill. we keep it real ;)

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yall sent in questions on instagram and i discussed them! it was really fun doing this and please if you sent in any questions pls let me know how to goes lol i'd love to know. the link is still up on my page so send in questions if you'd like to :)

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you probably perpetuated hate against women at some point. it’s okay. most people did. but we can fix it. most people did so because we live in a patriarch society. it’s embedded into our brains from a young age. in order to take steps to fix this we need to know what it is. we go into what is internalized misogyny and why it exists and what we can do to combat it.

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this bonus episode is dedicated to what you guys wanted to hear about from me so I took your questions from instagram and did just that. we covered politics, art, communication and other random things. hmu @ntxavier if you have any thoughts

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a small pasta rant and a discussion of how to do emotion coaching and fall in love being independent

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it's 2021! and it's gonna suck. I think. I talk about what kind of precedent I'm setting for my 2021 and how my 2020 went down. main themes of the pandemic for me seem to be emotional instability and memory loss.