The Right Fight: Recent Episodes
Kenny Vaughan
Most of us spend our lives in the wrong fight, trying to cast out fear through our own power - through the commonly recommended cures of belief and positive thinking. Join the conversation with author Kenny Vaughan and co-host Reg Lloyd as they discuss how to truly live a loving life; a life lived against the grain of self love, boundaries, and fear based decision making. This will be a conversation you can’t afford to miss.
In this episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie dive deep into one of the most misunderstood ideas of our time—self-esteem. Building on a clip from Charlie Kirk, they explore why self-love and self-esteem aren’t the solutions the world says they are, and how they actually lead us away from truth and living a loving life.
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In this episode of The Right Fight Podcast, we talk about one of the hardest but most important parts of parenting: protecting our children from their own selfishness. We share real stories from raising our kids, the struggles we faced in public and at home, and why saying “no” in love is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child. Together, we dive into what discipline really means, how it teaches children that they’re truly loved, and why helping them learn not to put themselves first sets them up for stronger relationships and a deeper understanding of God’s love.
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In this episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie dive into the heart of conflict resolution—how to know when a disagreement is worth confronting, and when it’s best to let go. They share practical wisdom on approaching conflict gently, fighting for the other person’s good instead of your own, and why unresolved issues can harm relationships more than tough conversations ever could. With real-life examples, biblical insight, and encouragement to choose love over pride and fear, this episode will challenge and equip you to grow stronger relationships through healthy resolution.
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Sometimes what’s “normal” in the world is the very thing pulling you away from God. In this episode of the Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie reveal why true strength often looks like humility — and why following Christ means you can’t always follow the crowd.
Through biblical truth, practical wisdom, and real-life examples, they discuss how pride can hide in plain sight, how culture subtly pressures us to compromise, and how humility opens our eyes to God’s better way. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fit in, this conversation will remind you that standing with God is worth standing out.
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In this episode of the Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie dive into how to find your direction in life and trust God’s timing, even when you feel lost or “rolling around” without a clear purpose. Inspired by a young friend’s journey—and some humorous childhood train-riding stories—Kenny shares powerful life lessons about staying connected to Christ, becoming the person God calls you to be, and letting Him guide you into the right opportunities. With relatable illustrations, real-life wisdom, and key Bible verses like Proverbs 3:5-6, Matthew 6:33, and Jeremiah 29:11, this conversation will encourage you to persevere, grow in faith, and prepare your heart for God’s perfect plan. Whether you’re in your teens, 20s, or navigating a midlife transition, this episode is packed with practical encouragement, biblical truth, and hope for the journey.
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We can't reject people based off of appearance, or preconceived notions. We need to give people a chance, an opportunity to be trusted and loved. Any time we become vulnerable in that space, we open ourselves up to getting hurt, but Kenny and Tammie reason that taking that chance is the most loving thing we can do!
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In this episode Kenny and Tammie tackle the topic of different sins with different visibilities, when we should confess those sins to others, and how we need to repent regardless. Join them as they approach this topic from two differing perspectives.
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What exactly is religion? Is it okay to be religious, or is all religion bad? Why do some churches look different than others, and is it okay that they look different? Kenny and Tammie these difficult questions in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast!
How do we know when repentance is true? Whether it comes from others or even ourselves, how can we know what the right motives are? How can we come to the place of true repentance, and how can we encourage others to go there themselves? Find out now in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast!
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How should we respond to betrayal? Why does getting betrayed by someone we know hurt so much more than being betrayed by a stranger? How do we avoid becoming bitter? Kenny and Tammie tackle all this and more in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast!
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Compromise can often seem like the only option left. You've fought hard, you're exhausted, and it would be easier to just throw in the towel. But the issue with compromise is that it often hurts everyone involved. There's a better way than throwing in the towel, and that's what Kenny and Tammie talk us through in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast.
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Depression, circumstances, failure, all these and more can start filling your mind with lies that you're alone, that you're not loved, and that there is no light at the end of the tunnel. But those thoughts are just that – lies. The truth is that you are never alone, loved more than you could ever know, and the light is just over the next hill. Don't give up, don't lay down. Keep going. Kenny and Tammie share their experience of not giving up, not laying down, and coming out into the light, by the grace of God.
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In this week's episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie discuss how to break free from the bondage of anxiety, with practical, and spiritual steps you can take today, with ways to continually walk in freedom and stay strong when the attacks of the enemy come against you.
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In this episode Pastor Reg Lloyd gives a sermon on the Holy Spirit, and it's one you don't want to miss.
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Who is the Holy Spirit, and what role does He play in our lives? How do we invite Him to work in us, and lead us? Kenny and Tammie have the answers, so hop in now and hear what they have to say in episode 138 - The Holy Spirit.
In this episode Josh brings up the controversial topic of boundaries, discussing whether or not boundaries are loving, and how boundaries affects others.
In this conversation with Josh Rip, Kenny breaks down the concept of love versus fear, and what laying yourself down for others looks like.
What causes hate to take root within us? Kenny and Tammie argue that we don't hate because people are mean or unloving to us, but that it has everything to do with who we are on the inside. Listen now to find out why and how hate takes root in our lives, and how to eliminate it.
Join Kenny and Tammie as they retell the story of the infamous "Ice Cream Run", a family outing nearly ending in disaster, that ultimately ended in love because the decision to love – rather than be selfish – was made.
Is being a helicopter parent always a bad thing? In this episode, Kenny and Tammie tackle this hot question, and discuss the kinds of helicopters we can be as parents; One that hovers, or one that supplies air support. Which one will you be?
What should we do when people approach us asking for money or help? Should we always lend a hand? How can we discern whether someone is genuinely in need, or being deceitful? Join Kenny and Tammie as they explore this challenging topic, sharing their personal experiences with a biblical perspective
When dealing with hate, the root will often be traced back to one thing: A lie. When you start with the truth, however, you begin down the path of fighting the right fight, and leaving hate behind.
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie take us through a special book that explores who we are, who God is, and who we are to God.
Returning for part 2, Kenny and Robert continue their conversation, tackling topics such as "gentle parenting" and whether that approach to parenting is truly loving.
In this episode, Kenny joins Robert from the Dad to Dads podcast to discuss what it means to be a loving dad and how to become one yourself.
Some assume that being loving means tolerating abuse or allowing yourself to be walked all over, but the exact opposite is true, in fact. Love requires us to stand up to such behavior, for the betterment of the other person. Love does not let someone continue to act in a way that is not best for them. Kenny and Tammie explore what it truly means to love in the midst of challenging, and even abusive circumstances.
Do we owe God credit for every good thing in life, or do chance and free will play a role? In this week’s episode, Kenny and Tammie dive deep into this age-old question and explore how divine intervention, chance, and human action intertwine.
Kenny and Tammie reflect on Kenny's uncle, Pastor Richard Vaughan, his life, and how you can know that you are truly saved in Christ Jesus.
We as humans have a tendency to overcomplicate love, especially God's love to us. In this episode, Kenny and Tammie explore the beautiful simplicity of God's saving love to us.
In this episode Kenny sits down with Johnny Mango – host of Minutes With Mango – to get into the details of what love really is, and how it relates to truth.
What did Jesus – who is the Prince of Peace – mean when He says "I have not come to bring peace, but a sword,"? That seems like the opposite, yet we know that Jesus is the truth. Join Kenny and Tammie as they tackle this hard passage.
What good deeds must we do to have eternal life? Can we actually earn our way to Heaven? What does Jesus have to say about this? Kenny and Tammie unpack it all right here, in episode 121 of The Right Fight Podcast.
What you believe has the power to change, and possibly control your life. You can choose, however, what to believe. You can choose to believe the lies of fear, or you can choose to believe the word God. Join Kenny and Tammie as they discuss the power of belief.
Is living a loving life for our own benefit? Culture says to "love yourself", but is that why we choose to love? Is self love even good for you? Kenny and Tammie break open this hot topic in episode 119 of The Right Fight Podcast.
The opposite of love is fear, and fear always hides itself behind two "masks". You, however, do have to be captive behind those masks of fear. In this episode, Kenny and Tammie expose those masks, and show what you need to do to destroy fear in your own life.
You always want to read and use scripture in it's proper context, never twisting it to conform to your own wants and will. But how do we know when we are doing just that, or when we are using it properly? Join Kenny and Tammie as they break down this issue.
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie explore the story of Leo Tolstoy's life, his pursuit of truth, the "why's" of love, and how they differ from the "what's".
What is the wrath of God, and how do we understand such a daunting topic? Join Kenny and Tammie as they tackle a big topic in a beautiful way.
To understand the grace of God, we have to realize the great need for grace in our lives. Join Kenny and Tammie as we learn to understand God's great grace for us, and why we so desperately need it.
We have so many influences in life telling us what to do, and how we should do it – whether it be by friends, family, influencers on social media, etc – but how often are we given the "why" of what we do? What is all this for? Join us in this episode where Kenny and Tammie discus our "why".
Resuming Kenny and Igor's conversation with part 2, Igor sets Kenny up with a hard question about God, love, and ultimately, truth. Jump in now to hear Kenny's truthful, and loving response.
In this two part special episode, Kenny is joined by special guest, Igor, to host a fresh conversation about love, and seeking out the truth.
Picking on people is never okay, but how we respond to being picked on is up to us, and there is only one right response. Kenny and Tammie have the answer, so hop in for episode 110.
How do we share the gospel with those who aren't open to hearing it? Is it even possible? Kenny and Tammie explain that it all starts with considering others. Join the discussion now in episode 109.
When we're reminded of something we've done in the past that we've repented for, should we repent again? Does this honor what Jesus has done for us, or does it make little of His sacrifice? Kenny and Tammie answer this and more in episode 108.
Regarding those who stand against us, or even those who stand in our way – are they our enemies? If so, how are we supposed to love them? And if they aren't, does that change how we are supposed to love them? Hop in to the discussion with Kenny and Tammie in The Right Fight podcast.
The best way to love others while they're in a crisis is to have loved them before the crisis ever existed. As Kenny and Tammie explain here in episode 106, be the person people know they can turn to when the crisis hits.
When it feels like you're losing, it feels really easy to give up hope. However, we know that there is a hope that transcends current circumstances, and Kenny and Tammie help walk us through how to hold on to that hope in this episode.
How do we make a difference in the world? We have to start where we're at, with what we already have. Kenny and Tammie bring more wisdom to hard questions in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast.
Considering others can be difficult at times, but it is vital to living a loving life. Join Kenny and Tammie as they break down what considering others does, and does not look like.
What is forgiveness? How do we receive it, how do we give it, and how do we know that it's genuine? Join Kenny, Tammie, and special guests Chris, and Catherine as they discuss forgiveness.
How should we share our faith? Should we speak up at every opportunity, or are there better times and places where people might be more receiving? What all should we say when given the chance? Kenny, Tammie, and two special guests, Chris, and Catherine sit down for the discussion.
In the 100th episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny, Tammie, and Gabe discuss whether or not God can be offended, and whether or not we should be offended for God.
How do you move forward when you've gotten off track? Is there actually any way back? Will God accept me back after what I've done? Kenny, Tammie, and Kenny's brother Gabe address what coming back looks like, and the grace of God in the midst of the situation.
What you believe shapes who you are spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and sometimes even physically. What you believe can alter the course of your life, and Kenny and Tammie are here to help you know what to believe.
Does seeking the Kingdom first mean it's bad to seek anything else? Should we seek the Kingdom in order to get other things? Kenny and Tammie bring wisdom and insight to this verse, in episode 97.
What do you do when you just keep getting beat by the waves, over and over and over, and nothing you're doing seems to help? Kenny and Tammie have personal experience with storms and waves, and though it's not always easy, they've found some incredible ways to weather the storm.
What do we do, and what is the right way to think, when we want to be a man or woman of God, but we just keep missing the mark? Join Kenny and Tammie as they bring wisdom and hope to a topic that needs it.
How can we have hope in such a dark world? Has the world gotten even darker that it used to be? Kenny and Tammie discuss this, and leave us with hope assured: He has overcome the world.
How can we be confident that we're entering a relationship with the right person? Join Kenny and Tammie as they unpack how we can confidently navigate the waters of dating and relationships, and keys to knowing if we're in a good one, or not.
Anxiety can feel crippling at times, but there are ways to not only combat it, but come out of it. Kenny and Tammie take on anxiety, and share their own experiences with it in this episode.
We need to be discerning of all teaching, and all leaders. You may be asking, how can I know if this person or teaching is leading me closer to God, or deeper into something else? Kenny and Tammie tackle this intense topic, in episode 91 of The Right Fight podcast.
You feel for a reason. Feelings are important. But should we let our feelings guide us and our decisions? Join Kenny and Chris for another incredible conversation.
When you fight for your rights, things get murky. They get personal. It opens the door for hate, bitterness, and subjective "truth". But when you fight for what IS right, truth triumphs, love abounds, and you get to fight for what is best for everybody. Fight for what is right.
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie dive deeper into what it looks like to face your fears, how to do it the right way, and how Jesus has already won the battle over our fears. Hop in now for a great discussion in episode 88.
Masculinity is not based off of how strong you are, how much money you have, or how much people respect you. Masculinity is based off of one thing, and Kenny and Tammie break it down clearly, here in episode 87.
Dating can sometimes be scary, but dating shouldn't be hard. When you date, don't date with the intention of getting your needs met, but with the intention of getting to know the person, honoring them, and loving well.
Rules are usually there to help us, keep us and others safe, and bring order. But what do we do when rules and truth don't seem to align? Kenny and Tammie have an answer to give in this episode of The Right Fight podcast.
Facing your fears might be one of the hardest things you could do by yourself. But when you understand that you were not made to do it by yourself, but to do it with God alongside you, facing your fears transforms from a near impossibility to a battle that's already been won.
Is it ever okay to prosper? Does God want us to prosper? How does prosperity affect my heart? Kenny and Tammie answer all these and more in episode 83 of The Right Fight podcast.
We know that love confronts, addresses things, and has hard conversations, but does love do that every single time? Kenny and Tammie have the answer in episode 82 of The Right Fight Podcast.
Dealing with narcissism is no easy feat, whether you are struggling with someone who is a narcissist or you yourself are struggling with narcissistic behavior, but there is a solution. The solution requires looking at it for what it truly is – believing a lie – then exposing it, and laying it down. Join Kenny and Tammie for episode 81 to learn how to handle narcissism.
Having goals can be a good thing. A clear direction, with a way forward. But what happens when we complete that goal? And the next one we set? And the next, and so on? Kenny and Tammie are here to show you a better way, so join us for episode 80 of The Right Fight podcast.
Being free of pornography can seem like an impossibility. Have hope though, it is entirely possible. But in order to be free, you must come to see it for what it truly is, and you must come to see the truth of who you are: Desperately broken, and in need of the one person who can save you and set you free; Jesus. Join Kenny for this difficult, but necessary and freeing conversation.
The best way to love someone who is dealing with depression to speak the truth over them, to help them get up off the ground, and to drive out the lies with the Word of God. Kenny and Tammie beautifully detail how to help those with depression in episode 76.
We all want to make good decisions, but how can we know if a decision we make is a good one, or even the right one? Join Kenny and Chris on another Zoom call, where they discus the process of good decision making, and how we can be confident in the decisions that we make.
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie address a question received from Instagram: Can Jesus love me despite my symptoms? The answer is amazing, and extends beyond people who deal with this issue.
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Love doesn't always make sense. In fact, love will often go against what we think is sensible. But the "what" doesn't have to make sense, it all comes down to the "why". Love is why we do what we do, not what we do. Hop in now for another lesson on love with Kenny and Tammie.
Love trusts, but is trust always loving? Kenny and Tammie dive in deep to talk about love, trust, and where the two converge. Listen now in episode 74.
Before you can even begin asking if this is the right relationship, you must ask yourself this: Am I with this person so that they can meet my needs, or are my needs being met by Christ? A relationship that is not connected to the vine will not produce fruit. Jump in now with Kenny and Tammie for an episode filled with wisdom.
When someone is truly repentant, it's not hard to tell. It's not just a regret of messing up or suffering consequences, but a godly sorrow that responds with repentance. Kenny and Tammie speak some beautiful truths right here in episode 72.
Sometimes we feel alone, like we have no one to turn to, no one to comfort us, no one to confide in, but despite the feeling, the truth of the matter is that we are never alone. There is One with us who will never leave us. Kenny and Tammie recount an experience their family had that proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that we are not alone.
The only way to know if a relationship is right, or if you're enabling a harmful relationship, is by standing on the truth. When the truth is your anchor, things become clear, and you have a firm foundation to stand on. Join Kenny and Tammie for this truth in episode 70.
We should keep an open mind and hear out other peoples perspectives, but that doesn't mean we should always accept those perspectives as truth. Kenny and Tammie do a wonderful job at demonstrating how to listen, love, and seek truth, all right here in episode 69.
The fear of The Lord is not some scared dread. It's an awe, a reverence, the realization that He is so big, and we are so small. But in His bigness, this fear, we find His great love for us, His protection and security, His wisdom, which begins with fearing The Lord.
The parable of the Prodigal Son paints a beautiful picture of us returning to God, and how He receives us with open arms as He's running to meet us halfway. That is not all the parable aims to show us though. It's a heart checker. When other prodigals return home, do we respond in the same way as our Father, or do we respond the same way the Prodigal Son's brother did?
In today's episode Kenny and Tammie create an open discussion for a two sided issue, addressing how children can combat the feeling of shutting out the advice and instruction of their parents, and how parents can continue to give advice and wisdom, build relationships with their kids, and avoid prompting the reaction of their child shutting out their wisdom. Join us for episode 66.
When dealing with depression, anxiety, etc, your brain gets wired differently than normal. That's why it's so hard to just snap out of what you're going through. However, there is something that is able to rewire your brain, and that is the Word of God. Jump in now for episode 65 with Kenny and Tammie.
In this episode, Kenny and Tammie break down how protecting yourself can sometimes be the unloving thing to do in a situation. We're not talking about situations like abuse, to be clear. We're talking about situations where what you feel, and what you want to do and say can be justified, but isn't the loving thing to do. Join us for episode 64 and glean some incredible wisdom.
Despite what some may think, purpose is not tied to success, money, status, position, or your career. Your purpose is something beautifully separate from all of that. Join Kenny and Tammie as they help you find your purpose in episode 63.
We can't love unless we're operating out of truth, but to do that, we need the right perspective. Perspective doesn't change the truth, it reveals it. Hop in now for episode 62.
To truly trust requires the action of faith behind it. It is not enough to say you trust, then either move when you should not, or stand still when you should move. Sometimes the situation is scary, but when you trust in the One who is true, you can be sure that He will always do what He says. Tune in now with Kenny and Tammie for How To Trust God.
If we stand for something, we need to be sure of the "why". Are we standing out of fear, justification, or defensiveness? Or are we standing to love? The answer to this episode's title may surprise you, but not for the reason you might expect. Listen as Kenny and Tammie tackle this big question, in episode 60.
The persona of "alpha male" is just a compensation for the insecurity of not being enough. The truth, however, is that you will never be enough. But within that fact comes vulnerability, honesty, love, and true strength. Join Kenny and Tammie as they take on this hot social topic.
Loving your enemies doesn’t mean becoming a doormat, it means praying for them, choosing what is best for them, forgiving as you have been forgiven. It’s hard, but it’s freeing. Join Kenny and Tammie for episode 58.
Boundaries are often set up with good intentions, but before you know it, you’ve walled yourself in, and your boundaries have gone from protecting to hurting. Love doesn’t need “conventional” boundaries, love is its own boundary. Join Kenny and Tammie in episode 57 as they cover this very hot topic.
In this episode Tammie's mom takes a seat at the table to help us understand that there is only one thing that can truly free us from trauma — God. His word, His presence, His voice, His goodness is what will heal us, and free us from trauma.
Most have probably experienced grief, and it never is easy. However, there are some things we can always rest in as we grieve — God is near to the broken hearted, and He makes all things new. Kenny and Tammie talk about how they handle grief, join them now for episode 55.
What is worship? Worship is a response to who God is. But worship goes way beyond just singing songs in church, or in your car on the way to work. True worship extends from every area of our lives. Everything we do is to be done unto Jesus.
Kenny and Tammie tackle the topic of self love, how it really isn’t loving, and then take on a big question — does God love Himself? Join them now for episode 53.
Conflict is a hard thing, but you’re a lot safer going to someone with the truth, in love, and working through things, versus letting things build up inside of you, or allowing someone to continue on in something that is not loving. Here is episode 51 with Kenny and Tammie.
The world thinks that to be loving, you must be tolerant, but real love isn't tolerant to things that aren't loving. We join Kenny and Tammie for yet another hot topic in episode fifty of The Right Fight Podcast.
The world says that we shouldn’t care what other people think about us, but love says that we should care why someone thinks something about us, because it might reveal the truth about a lie we’ve been believing. Or, it might be an opportunity to go to that person and ask them why they believe something about us, so we can show them what the truth of the matter is. It’s a hot topic, that Kenny and Tammie tackle right now, in episode 50.
God speaks to us personally, He never leads us astray, and it always consistently aligns with His word. We just need to get still and listen. Join Kenny and Tammie as they cover how God speaks, and how to listen.
True repentance not only carries a change, but a desire to change, and a sensitivity to the situation. Here’s episode 48 with Kenny and Tammie.
The simple answer to this question is - you can’t. We don’t have the power to forgive ourselves. It’s not up to us. But the wonderful thing is that there is One who does have the power to forgive us, to set us free from guilt, shame, and condemnation, and He already has. You just have to choose to walk in that freedom. Kenny and Tammie are here again, for episode 47.
The "why" of what we do is vital. The Bible says that some will come to Jesus saying they did all these things in His name, yet Jesus claims He never knew them. Kenny and Tammie break down this hard hitting passage beautifully, right here in episode 46.
Being your true self means two things: Being who God created you to be, and not forcing yourself to be something that you’re not. What you do, or what you feel, is not who you are, that is not your identity. Your identity is rooted in who God made you to be. Hop in now with Kenny and Tammie.
True respect is a product of love. Respect that is coaxed, or threatened, or gaslighted, is anything but love, it is fear driven, and directly goes against the Word of God. Join Kenny and Tammie for the discussion in episode 44.
No one enjoys rejection, but it’s something we all go through at some point or another. It is never easy, but every moment of rejection allows for an opportunity of love. Jump in now with Kenny and Tammie Vaughan.
Sometimes love doesn’t feel very good. Sometimes it’s hard to love through hurt and tough situations. But it’s ALWAYS worth it. Jesus showed us that it’s always worth it by going to the cross for us. Jump in now with Kenny and Tammie for episode forty-two.
Kenny and Tammie continue part two of The Biggest Mistake Parents Make by answering questions like how to put your children first while simultaneously not teaching them to put themselves first, and how to help your children confidently believe in God. Tune in now for part two on The Right Fight Podcast.
Parenting is hard, and navigating all of it's ins and outs can be difficult, but it's not impossible. Join Kenny and his wife Tammie as they answer hard questions about parenting, such as how to say yes AND no in love to your children, in episode 40 of The Right Fight Podcast.
Wealth, power, fame, even good works, will all pass away, but a legacy of love will never end. It is the most valuable thing you can leave your loved ones. Join us as we close out the last chapter of the book, The Right Fight.
What are you building your roots on? Love, joy, and selflessness? Or hate, anger, and selfishness? The fruit that you bear is determined by what you are building the roots of your heart on. Join episode 38 with Kenny and Reg.
We don’t love to be blessed and filled, but genuinely loving cannot help but bless and fill. Join Kenny and reg for episode 37.
Sometimes the most loving thing one can do is walk away. But walking away does not mean giving up. Join us for episode 36, When Love Walks Away.
In the routines and hustle of life, it can be easy to gloss over those we don’t have much — or any — interaction with. However, love goes out of its own way to be consciously aware of all.
Loving in your influence means you have a responsibility to consider who you have influence over, and how loving, or not loving, can impact and affect their lives. Join us for episode 34 with Kenny and Ted.
Don’t play for the wrong reasons. Being fixated on the win only allows room for fear. Surrendering the outcome to Jesus allows love to flourish, and you can never lose doing that. Join Kenny and Reg for Episode 33.
“You could never boss out of anyone what they would freely give you when they realize you actually love and care about them”. Bosses lead by fear and insecurity. Leaders lead by selflessness, love, and the goal of building others up. Listen now to learn what real leadership looks like.
People don’t fall in love, and neither do people fall out of love. You have to fight to love. It is a deliberate choice to love one another in marriage. Tune in now with Kenny and Reg.
Religion, or love? You can only have one or the other. They cannot coexist. Christianity and religion cannot coexist. Jump right in and listen to Kenny and Reg tackle this hard hitting topic.
Often, getting free from depression is a process. In this episode Kenny and Reg have some advice for getting through the process. Jump in now for The Truth About Depression, part two.
There's no way around it, dealing with depression is hard, but there is hope. Tune in now with Kenny and Reg to learn about that hope, and to know that there is freedom and healing from depression.
Love is a choice that results in feelings, fear is a feeling that results in a choice. Being led by your fear does not produce love. Join Kenny and Reg for part 2 of Feelings Don’t Produce Roots.
Run to your feelings, but never follow your feelings. Just because you are feeling something doesn’t necessarily mean that it is true, or the right thing to feel. Feelings aren’t always true, but love always is.
Love doesn’t simply persevere, it has to persevere in the right things. Join us for the final thing that love is with Kenny and Reg.
Love requires hope, but it requires hope placed in the right things. Kenny and Reg lead the discussion, join them now for the sixth thing that love is.
Trust, like love, is a choice. It is a conscious decision that we make. Love requires trust. Jump in with Kenny and Reg to discuss trust.
Love protects, but often not in the way that we would normally think. Often, love protects others from the selfishness and pride inside of ourselves, likewise, it protects others from the selfishness and pride in themselves. Join Kenny and Reg for the fourth thing that love is.
Being truthful means more than just telling the truth, it means having the courage to seek the real truth. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they discuss the third thing that love is.
Kindness is not simply being “nice” to others. Being “nice” isn’t always kind. Kindness is loving, doing what is best for others without regard for yourself, even if it might not seem kind to the other person. Join Kenny and Reg as they break down the distinction between being “nice”, and being kind.
Patience is not passively waiting. Patience is the quality of waiting. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they discuss how love is patient.
In this special episode, we reflect on Kenny’s dad, a man who showed his family love with his whole life.
Love is not a feeling, it is a choice. We do not fall in and out of love, we choose to love. It does what is best for others without regard to oneself. Join Kenny and Reg as they define love.
If we find ourselves delighting in evil, it is a sign that fear is beginning to fully mature in our heart, and it may be the last chance we have to turn our ship around. Join Kenny and Reg as they talk through the final thing that love is not.
Selfishness is anything we do for ourselves without regard to others. It puts ourselves first, no matter what outcome it might have for someone else. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they talk about selfishness.
Pride is an effort to puff ourselves up, but it doesn’t always show itself outwardly. Boastfulness is pride communicated to others. It is an intentional expression that you are better than another. Join Kenny and Reg as they discuss the trap of boastfulness.
Unforgiveness keeps us bound to both the offense and the offender, whereas forgiveness, while not permitting the offense, frees us from the offense, and chooses what is best for the offender - love. Join the discussion with Kenny and Reg as they break down unforgiveness, and how to overcome it.
Pride puffs oneself up, while putting down others. It prepositions you to live and act out of fear, rather than in love. Join Kenny and Reg as they walk through the dangers of pridefulness, how to defeat it, and how to replace it with selflessness.
Love celebrates the good in the lives of others, while envy hates it. Envy imposes unloving preconceptions upon others, while love believes the best about others. Join Kenny and Reg as they break down how love is not envious.
Love operates out of kindness, not rudeness. Love chooses to put down selfish feelings in order to put the best for others before itself. Join Kenny and Reg as they discuss how love is not rude.
Love does not act out of anger, nor it does follow fear. Join Kenny and Reg as they discuss one of the things that love is not.
In this episode Kenny and Reg discuss acting on our feelings - which are always changing and can be and often are led by fear - versus being led by love, which operates in the truth, and doing what is always best for others.
The boundary of love will defend you long before and far better than your own boundaries ever will. Join the conversation with Kenny and Reg as they talk about tearing down the walls of self made boundaries and putting up love instead.
What kind of fruit is your tree producing - healthy or rotten? Join Kenny and Reg as they discuss what love is, and the kinds of fruit our lives produce as we choose to love, or to not love.
Join Kenny and Reg as they continue exploring the fundamentals of what love is, and how to love.
If you want to go higher, you first have to dig down deeper. Join Kenny and Reg as they break down the importance of the fundamentals.
In this episode Kenny walks Reg through the "Ice Cream Run" story, and discuss seeking the truth as a first response.
In this episode Kenny and Reg discuss how REAL love goes the opposite way from what our culture says “love” is, and how “self love” really isn’t love at all.
In this episode Kenny and Reg talk about the "WHY" behind The Right Fight, and just what exactly we are fighting for.
Have a sneak peak at Episode - 001 of The Right Fight podcast! Listen to the full episode on Thursday, October 20th 2022!