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Marco & Bella
Hi! We're Marc & Bethel Muzuva, or as many of our friends know us: MARCOBELLA
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Yes You Can! Change Your World With The John Maxwell Method! In this thought-provoking talk, inspired by John C. Maxwell's book "How to Change Your World," Marco dives into the powerful concept of transforming our immediate surroundings and making a positive impact. The video emphasises the notion that change begins within ourselves, as we explore practical tactics for addressing the aspects of our lives that we wish to improve or modify.
With a focus on personal growth, the video encourages viewers to take responsibility for the things they don't like, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and intentional action. Through engaging examples and insightful advice, viewers will be empowered to initiate meaningful change in their lives and ripple that transformation into the world around them. Prepare to be inspired and equipped with the tools to create a better future starting from within.
Chapters 00:00 Something we didn't like in our world. 00:36 What we decided to do! 00:47 Marco and Micah picking litter. 01:40 Our world has changed! 02:07 Change your World: Book Review / Key points. 03:36 What needs to change in your world? 04:10 Take ACTION to Change your world now!
Link to book: Change your world đđ˝ https://www.amazon.co.uk/Change-Your-World-Anywhere-Difference/dp/B0866BNTP3/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=change+your+world+john+maxwell&qid=1688671665&sprefix=change+your+world%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1#changeyourworld #johncmaxwell #personaldevelopment #leadership #influencer #positivechange #motivational #empowerment #transformation #selfimprovement #inspiration #impact #success #selfgrowth #makeadifference #lifestylechanges #mindsetshift #goalsetting #liveyourpurpose #leadershipdevelopment
Struggling with Postpartum Anxiety? You NEED to Hear What Dr. Nyasha Has to Say!
Join us as we Empower New Mothers and Fathers by Breaking the Silence on Postnatal Anxiety and gain Expert Insights into how having a support network and changing a few little things can make a big difference.
Welcome to our video, where we dive deep into the topic of postnatal anxiety and provide valuable insights from a mental health professional. Join us as we break the silence surrounding this often overlooked issue and shed light on the challenges faced by new mothers.
In this candid conversation, our expert guest explores the factors that contribute to postnatal anxiety, highlighting the physical and emotional changes that occur during and after childbirth. Discover practical strategies and supportive techniques that can help new mothers navigate this journey with strength and resilience.
We address the importance of open communication and offer guidance to partners, friends, and family members on how they can support a woman experiencing postnatal anxiety. Our aim is to
create an inclusive and understanding community where everyone can contribute to the well-being of new mothers.
By watching this video, you'll gain a deeper understanding of postnatal anxiety and its impact on women's mental health. We hope to empower new mothers with expert advice, encouraging self-care practices, and tips to foster a supportive environment.
Join the conversation and share your own experiences using the hashtags: #PostnatalAnxietyAwareness #EmpoweringNewMothers #BreakingTheSilence #SupportiveStrategies #MentalHealthMatters
Together, we can break the silence, support one another, and empower new mothers on their journey to mental well-being. Let's create a community where every voice is heard and every woman feels understood.
About Dr Nyasha Mudondo : Qualifications MBCHB, MRCGP, Section 12.2 approved doctor
Click here for Dr Nyasha Mudondo's book: Gateway to medical school https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gateway-Medical-School-Dr-Nyasha-Mercy/dp/154951203X
Click here for Dr Nyasha Mudondo's INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/drnyashamercy/
DISCLAIMER : please note : The information provided in this video about postnatal anxiety is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you or someone you know is experiencing postnatal anxiety or any mental health concerns, it is essential to seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional or a licensed mental health provider. They can provide a personalised assessment and recommend appropriate interventions based on your specific situation.
Remember that every individual's experience with postnatal anxiety may vary, and treatment options may differ depending on the severity and unique circumstances. This video is not intended to replace the expertise and guidance of healthcare professionals but rather to raise awareness and provide general insights.
Always consult with your doctor or mental health professional regarding any questions or concerns you may have about postnatal anxiety or your overall mental well-being. They are the best resource to provide you with accurate, up-to-date information and personalised advice based on your individual needs.
Please prioritise your health and seek professional help if you require it.
In this video, we explore the importance of making the right choices and how it affects our lives and relationships. We start by emphasising the role of parents in teaching their children how to make choices from a young age, as this skill is essential for success in life.We draw on examples from the Bible to illustrate the impact of making the right choices. We talk about Adam and Eve, who had to choose whether to obey God or follow their desires, and the consequences that followed their decision. We also discuss Cain and Abel, and how Cain's choice to give in to jealousy and anger led to tragedy.Other examples include Rebecca, who made a wise choice in selecting a husband, Esther, who risked her life to save her people, and Vashti, who made a choice that led to her downfall. We also highlight the stories of Joseph and Mary, and how their choices were crucial in fulfilling God's plan.Throughout the video, we emphasise that the choices we make have a ripple effect on our lives and those around us. We encourage viewers to reflect on their own decision-making process and the impact their choices have on their relationships, careers, and overall well-being.In conclusion, making the right choices is a skill that can be learned and honed over time. By paying attention to the examples in the Bible and seeking wisdom from God, we can make choices that lead to a fulfilling and purposeful life.Testimony of Resurrection of Elijah Watson- ⢠Elijah Watson Res...
Welcome to Marcobella's latest Podcast on self-help and self-development! In this inspiring talk, we delve deep into the power of internal dialog with ourselves and how it can transform our lives for the better.As a married couple, we've learned through personal experience that the key to cultivating healthy relationships and psychological safety lies in focusing on our own growth and development, rather than trying to change others. Through our own journey, we've discovered the ultimate advice that will help you to take control of your life and transform yourself from the inside out.In this video, we'll be sharing our expert tips and advice on how to harness the power of internal dialog to overcome obstacles, build resilience, and cultivate healthy relationships. Drawing on real-life examples and personal anecdotes, we'll guide you through practical strategies for self-reflection, self-awareness, and self-improvement.Our goal is to empower you to take charge of your own personal growth and transformation, and to create a life filled with purpose, fulfilment, and joy. By the end of this video, you'll have the tools and knowledge you need to start your own journey towards a happier, healthier you.So if you're ready to unlock your full potential and start living your best life, then don't hesitate - hit that subscribe button now and join us on this exciting journey of self-discovery and transformation!Book mentions Change Your World: How Anyone, Anywhere Can Make a Difference https://www.amazon.co.uk/Change-Your-...The Body Keeps the Score: Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Traumahttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Body-Keeps-S...Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married https://www.amazon.co.uk/Things-Wish-...Atomic habits https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habit...#selfhelp #selfdevelopment #personaltransformation #psychologicalsafety #mentalwellness #mindfulness #selfcare #selfreflection #selfimprovement #internaldialogue #healthyliving #lifegoals #positivity #motivation #inspiration #growthmindset #marriagegoals #realifeexamples #relationshipadvice #empowerment #transformation #happiness #gratitude #mindsetshift #successmindset the change you wish to see in this world, #matthew5:15#personaldevelopment #growth , #leadbyexample #bethechangeyouwishtosee
Why did Bella react like that when she saw her ex in our neighbourhood!Was she psychologically safe? Establishing psychological safety is something that is incredibly important in any relationship.We believe that creating a secure and supportive environment within a relationship is crucial to improving the quality of your life. So, we're going to explore the essential elements of emotional intelligence, vulnerability, communication skills, trust, and intimacy, and how they contribute to building psychological safety in your relationship.We'll help you gain a deeper understanding of how emotional intelligence plays a vital role in building trust, and how cultivating vulnerability can lead to more profound intimacy in a relationship. We'll also guide you through practical steps to improve your communication skills, enabling you to express your thoughts and feelings effectively, leading to a more open and honest relationship.With our extensive knowledge and experience in this area, we're excited to share valuable insights and actionable tips to help you build a healthy and long-lasting relationship. Don't miss this opportunity to discover the secrets to creating psychological safety in your relationship. Don't miss out on this chance to transform your life and your relationship - hit that play button now!So, what are you waiting for? Grab your favorite drink and settle down for an enlightening journey that will change the way you think about relationships. With MarcoBella's guidance, you can unlock the secrets to building a healthy, loving, and supportive relationship that will stand the test of time.Book Mention: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr His Needs Her Needs:Building an affair proof marriage. https://www.amazon.co.uk/His-Needs-He...#bumpedintomyex#metmyex#ranintomyex#awkward #psychologicalsafety #relationshipgoals #emotionalintelligence #vulnerability #communication #trust #intimacy #healthyrelationships #lastinglove #transformyourlife #marriagecounseling #couplestherapy #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #buildingtrust #couplegoals #loveandrespect #opencommunication #couplesgoals #lovingrelationship #strongrelationships
Trigger Warning. In this emotional and raw video, we share our heartbreaking experience with a missed pregnancy loss and painful miscarriage. We open up about the physical and emotional pain we endured during this trying time, and how it deeply impacted our faith and world view.Through our journey, we learned the importance of having a balanced view on faith. We found comfort in reading the book "When the Glass Slipper Doesn't Fit" by Claire Musters, which explores the struggles of infertility and pregnancy loss through a Christian lens.We hope that by sharing our story, we can bring awareness to the pain and grief that many couples face when dealing with miscarriage and pregnancy loss. We also want to encourage others who may be going through a similar experience to seek support and find ways to heal.If you or someone you know is struggling with infertility or pregnancy loss, we encourage you to check out "When the Glass Slipper Doesn't Fit" by Claire Musters (available on Amazon). Remember, you are not alone, and there is hope for healing and moving forward.#miscarriageawareness #pregnancyloss #whenTheGlassSlipperDoesntFit #support #infertility #faithandhealing #griefsupport #whenTheGlassSlipperDoesntFit #ClaireMusters #mentalhealthawareness #couplesupport #nevergiveup #hopeandhealing #youarenotalone
How to Find Positivity After Losing Something Significant. Dealing with SIGNIFICANT LOSSIn this thought-provoking podcast episode, we dive deep into the topic of dealing with grief, a topic that has become increasingly relevant in today's world. With so many people facing loss and grief due to the pandemic, it's essential to have resources that offer practical coping strategies and healing techniques. Through emotional stories and powerful insights, we explore the various ways that grief can impact our lives and how it can ultimately lead to unexpected opportunities for growth and transformation.We discuss the dangers of ignoring or suppressing our grief, and the long-term negative effects that can result from not dealing with it. However, we also examine the benefits of embracing our grief and working through it, including a newfound sense of purpose, increased resilience, and a deeper understanding of ourselves and others.With trending words like "transformative power," "coping strategies," and "healing techniques," this podcast episode is the perfect resource for anyone struggling with grief or looking to gain a greater understanding of this complex and often misunderstood emotion. So join us on this emotional journey as we delve into the profound impact of grief and the life-changing lessons it can bring. #trauma and #grief, #bereavement, #helpfulwaystocopewithgrief
Pregnant & Jobless: Our Journey of Faith, Hope, and Love. Marco and I are sharing our story of overcoming a difficult time in our lives. Three months into my pregnancy, my husband lost his job. Despite the challenges we faced, we held on to our faith and prayed for a solution. However, things got so bad that we had to go on Universal Credits. Through our unwavering belief, we were able to see God's hand at work and overcome the difficult situation. This video is a testimony to the power of prayer and faith, and our unwavering love and support for each other in the face of adversity. And to cap it all off, we even have a special surprise for you at the end - Marco and I sing a song that we hope will encourage and inspire you. So make sure to stick around and wait for it!TEDX Talk by Precious https://youtu.be/M5bASAr8Jg0 #Pregnant & Jobless #broke #JoblessAndPregnant #journeyoffaith #JobLossToJoy #loveandsupport #overcomingadversity #staystrong #godisgood #prayerworks #FinancialStruggles #SingForHope #togetherwecan #nevergiveup #jobless #PregnancyStruggle #BlessedAmidstAdversity #JoblessAndPregnant #SurvivingUnemployment #GodProvides #UnexpectedBlessings #FindingStrength #positivepregnancy #emotionaljourney #trusttheprocess #OvercomingChallengesTogether #blessedfamily Pregnant & Jobless
Guys we had so many heated discussions about cleaning and who does what!Â
This simple techniques has given us so much freedom and has lifted the burden.
To celebrate our anniversary we are taking a trip down memory lane to tell you our Engagement Story. Find out how Marco Popped The Question in this romantic
Watch us on: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bbK3_53NJA
Marco gives us the spiel on How he journals and how it helps in response one of our viewers comments. Make sure you complete the challenge from this podcast.  This podcast covers -Journaling helps you:  ⢠Sleep better  ⢠Stop worry & overthinking  ⢠Monitor& Reflect on daily activities  ⢠More focus & higher productivity  ⢠Live intentionally  ⢠Celebrate achievements  ⢠Gives perspective on whatâs important  ⢠Clarity good decision making  ⢠Keeps you grounded, value oriented and constantly working to be better human What you need to journal:  ⢠Diary-  ⢠Size- A5 fits in my bag   ⢠# of pages 300 2/3 of year https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B...   ⢠Pen-gel ink https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sharpie-S-Ge...   ⢠Quite Space-helps you relax or gets you feeling like writing
This video gives you an insight into a real couch time experience and some real issues that we are working out! Please Don't be shy to give us some advice if you have faced some of the issues discussed in this session. Let's Talk about why Marco needed to take a break due to being overwhelmed in this cozy Couch Time with Marcobella -  Plus our first challenge in the lead up to our 1st channel GIVE AWAY in August to celebrate our 12th year anniversary. Watch the video to the end and complete the challenge to be in the running!   Â
mentalhealthawareness #howtomanagestress
Emotional regulation: Letâs unpack some of that Baggage!!!
In this video we unpack how growing up in a home with domestic abuse affected Bethelâs ability to regulate her emotions and this led to anger outbursts in the relationship.
Itâs been a tough journey but thankfully we have both been open to growth and change throughout the process and through Godâs grace we have been able to overcome this. We have learn't each other's triggers and how to best support each other when we are upset.
If you have grown up with child hood adversity, it is important for you to reflect ton how this has impacted on your current behaviours and thought patterns. These patterns can creep into your marriage unconsciously and could cause some real difficulties.
Pho recipe: There's loads but heres an easy one. https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/b...
Book mentions
The Love list by Eight Little Things That Make a Big Difference in Your Marriage by Les Parrott III (Author), Leslie L. Parrott (Author)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-List-Li...
Living with a dominator: A Book About the Freedom by Pat Craven
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Living-Domin...
No excuses by Brian Tracy
https://www.amazon.co.uk/No-Excuses-S...
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In this podcast we unpack how Marc (or some men) struggled to talk openly when things upset him.
We had to find ways of resolving conflict in a meaningful way.Â
Thank you for listening đ
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In this podcast we follow on from part one How we met / How I fell in love with my stalker! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIo_m5cP7lk  . We talk about my return to church and Marcâs role in my salvation journey. Without God we really wouldnât be together at all because no matter how much we physically loved each other it was through Godâs grace that Marc was able to be so compassionate and forgiving in the times that I hurt him the most and that is what turned our friendship into a relationship. I call Marc my Jesus with skin on because throughout our marriage he has been able to extend Gods love and grace to me and this has helped me to unpack the bagage that i had comign into the marriage.
HowWeMet #StoryTime #OurLoveStory #OurJourneyToMarriage #ChristianCouple
In this video we talk about how to become financially literate. This is important because Inc.com tells us that the #1 thing couples argue about is finances:
⢠How to spend what they have!
⢠Not knowing where what they have is going?
⢠Not knowing how to make money work for them
In the beginning of our Marriage, we didnât know much about money at all. Things like:
⢠Financial literacy,
⢠Budgeting,
⢠Investing
⢠how to make money work for you especially when you have kids
Book mentions:
The Bible:
Smart couples finish rich mart Couples Finish Rich, Expanded and Updated: 9 Steps to Creating a Rich Future for You and Your Partner by David Bach
The Other 8 Hours: Maximize Your Free Time to Create New Wealth & Purpose by Robert Pagliarini
E-myth Revisited by Michael E. Gerber
Now, Discover Your Strengths by Marcus Buckingham
Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki
Resource: The Ramsey Show - really good at helping people clear debt and loads of other money topics
Weâd like to hear if you have had any or still have challenges. What resources have you come across that help.
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Hey Guys, we are back to finances and today we are talking about whether or not it is ok to have financial secrets and how financial secrets can ruin relationships.Â
Letâs face it Anytime you are trying to hide something from your significant other, you are lying.Â
Small lies about finances can lead to even more damaging behaviours in your marriage. Keeping secrets in a relationship can be devastating to your partner, and it's important that you learn to be authentic and open as at all times.
We talk about experiences with secrets and the impact they have had on us or our loved ones.Â
Let us know how you feel about this very controversial topic!
Secretsinmarriage #Secretbankaccount #Payslips #Othersourcesoffinance #Givingmoneytofamily #Openingacreditcard #Borrowingmoneywithoutsaying
SecretsInFinance:HowFinancialSecretsCanRuinRelationships,
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Gratitude is the attitude; Thank you Everyone.
This podcast is a massive shout out to everyone that prayed for us or wished us well or physically came out to support us through food, medication, and trips to the hospital on our behalf when we had Covid-19. We could not have gone through this so smoothly without your support and Gods Healing powers. Â
The bible says I will give you brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers a hundred fold and we sure do feel that He has given us exactly this in you all.Â
Book Mention: The Blessed Life by Robert MorrisÂ
https://www.wob.com/en-gb/books/robert-morris/blessed-life/9780830736355?gclid=CjwKCAjwlcaRBhBYEiwAK341jRw2hQ8BACEUsc7FsH28-1wLCoTJnHhFQJcUGf7vs5da_25sfz_LHBoCqhAQAvD_BwE Â
The lyrics to the songs we are singing are below:
1.Thanks by Lillie Knauls, Joy Gardner
Thanks thanks I give you thanks for all you've doneI am so blessed my soul is at restOh lord I give you thanks
2.Thank you by Ray Boltz
Thank you for giving to the Lord
I am a life that was changedThank you for giving to the LordI am so glad you gave
3.Thank You Jesus lyrics by Terry Clark
Thank You JesusFor the grace that You have given usWe could never repayBut from my heart I'd like to sayThat I thank You
After getting a sore throat, aches and pains Bethel tested positive for Covid 19.Â
In this podcast we talk about how Marc had to learn how to respond when Bethel is unwell.
While we are able to smile and laugh, please hear us when we say that this Covid is SERIOUS, and all precautions need to be taken. Take tests, especially when you feel unwell and try to stay home because this will keep others safe, especially the more vulnerable members of society.
We are beyond thankful that God is our present help in the time of trouble.Â
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Bringing Debt into a Marriage: What Should You Do? Should You Marry Someone If They Have Debt?
Marcobella discuss how we both brought debt into our marriage and the impact it had on us as well as how we managed to get out of us. From credit cards to cars to homes, getting out of debt is possible for everyone if you put the right principles into practice.
From credit cards to cars to homes, getting out of debt is possible for everyone if you put the right principles into practice.
Book mention: Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! Robert Kayosaki https://www.amazon.co.uk/Rich-Dad-Poor-Teach-Middle/dp/1612680178/ref=sr_1_1?adgrpid=56946143687&gclid=CjwKCAiAsYyRBhACEiwAkJFKohIZPjmWYeCAP9mhM2jyK9todgO4VKbpy_cdtLIvSfHEuQnlEP6fwxoC2eQQAvD_BwE&hvadid=259069446400&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=1006933&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=1040647441773239045&hvtargid=kwd-370160727247&hydadcr=18465_1772314&keywords=%27rich+dad+poor+dad%27&qid=1646470214&s=books&sr=1-1
Lies Young Women Believe: And the Truth That Sets Them Free Dannah Gresh and Nancy Demoss
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Lies-Young-Women-Believe-Truth/dp/0802415288/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1LJXJ83VL27L4&keywords=lies+young+women+believe&qid=1646470319&sprefix=lies+young+women%2Caps%2C142&sr=8-1
Lies Women Believe: And the Truth That Sets Them Free by Nancy Demoss
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Lies-Women-Believe-Truth-That/dp/B07BL3LNDZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3PRTTDYJIFC6Q&keywords=lies+women+believe&qid=1646470352&sprefix=lies+women+believe%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-1
The Richest Man in Babylon by George Samuel Clason
https://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Richest-Man-in-Babylon/dp/B00DDHSVA8/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3ETU2E5V7YXDG&keywords=richest+man+in+babylon&qid=1646470452&s=audible&sprefix=richest+man+in+babilon%2Caudible%2C61&sr=1-1
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Who managers the finances in your house. We talk about expectations versus reality when it comes to marriage. Working to each other strengths rather than sticking to gender stereo types or the status quo.
Have you talked about how your things were run in your own family growing up and decided on a plan that works for you as a couple?
Book Mention: Things I Wish I'd Known Before We Got Married https://www.amazon.co.uk/Things-Wish-...
MarriageTips #I wish i had known #Managing the bills #SplittingBills #Expectations
The emotional Love bank created by Dr Willard Harleys represents the balance of positivity and negativity in your relationship.
More on Love banks...
Ever wonder why you end up falling in love with someone and sometimes you feel out of love with the same person, why some couples make it and others donât? You will have a love bank for every person in your life and most importantly your spouse. You make "deposits" through positive interactions, and you make "withdrawals" through negative ones.
In healthy relationships, the ratio of positive behaviour (showing interest, asking questions, being kind) to negative behaviour (criticism, anger, hurt feelings) is 5:1. Keep your balance high by doing nice things every day for your partner and recognising when they do nice things for you.
In the mid 1970s, Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr. originated the term "Love Bank" as a way to help spouses understand that their behaviours toward each other affect the feelings of romantic love in marriage (His Needs Her Needs, Harley, 1986, 2011, Revell). For more information, please visit https://www.FourGiftsofLove.org or http://www.marriagebuilders.com where you will find free marriage education resources.
Book Mention: Dr. Willard F. Harley Jr His Needs Her Needs:Building an affair proof marriage. https://www.amazon.co.uk/His-Needs-He...
Share if with anyone you feel would benefit from this content.
TheLoveBank #RelationshipSuccess
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we discuss when to have children in answer to one of our viewers questions.
Thank you to all our subscribers!
Today is a QA based on the questions of some of our viewers.
You ask, we tell. Our promise: You ask honestly, we share honestly - no matter the topic.
Question 1: What is our inspiration for the channel?
Question 2: So how long did it take you guys to decide you now want to have children? Also, do you think having some time together without children after getting married helped you to have more connection or grow in love?
If you have a question, please ask!
Book Mention: The myth of the greener grass.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Myth-Greener...
Scriptures mentioned
Psalm 127:3
Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.
Proverbs 17:6
Children's children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers.
Genesis 1:28
And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth
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We ask each other what is the most romantic thing that the other has ever done for you.
Get some ideas on the most romantic thing to do for your spouse. Share what the most romantic thing someone has ever done to you in the comments below. Bethel is asking for Tips.
Gift idea mention: The note cube- https://thenotecube.com/?sscid=Cj0KCQ...
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What is the best time to propose to your partner? How do you know when to propose or how to propose?
In this podcast we share our faith based response on how Marc approached this.Â
Make good use of your time together this Valentines day by spending some quality time to reflect on your relationship and choose one thing you want to focus on that will improve your marriage. Book Mention: The Love List by Les Parrott III and Leslie L. Parrott https://www.amazon.co.uk/Love-List-Li...
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