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Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware oftheir rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamic teachings.
The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability or Quality?
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom?
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge,awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm. With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
• A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is strongly recommended for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Listen now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength? What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
• Book Counselling/Therapy session here:
https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy
• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
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Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware oftheir rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamicteachings.
The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability or Quality?
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom?
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge,awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm. With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
• A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is a must-watch for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Watch now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength? What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
• Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:
https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy
• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
Follow me on:
• Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA
• Instagram: @dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
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Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware oftheir rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamicteachings.
The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE INMARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability or Quality?
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom?
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge,awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm. With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
• A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is strongly recommended for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Watch now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength? What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
• Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
• Book Counselling/Therapy session here:
https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy
• Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
• Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
• Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
Follow me on:
• Podcast:https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ve9GDn0C01bVIffD9D8sS?si=-4hvd8wRQRGuX3uWsuiwQA
• Instagram:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
• Facebook:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
• TikTok:@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
YouTube:www.youtube.com/@dr.abdulfattahadeyemi
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Divorce is on the rise worldwide — but why? Is it a sign of moral decay, or could it mean people are more aware of their rights and refusing toxic marriages? In this thought-provoking lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores both the negative and positive reasons behind the increasing rate of divorce through the lens of Islamic teachings. The topic is “THE VALIDITY OF DIVORCE IN MARRIAGE,” and it is divided into four main parts:
PART 1: The Many Causes of Divorce
PART 2: Negative and Positive Reasons for Divorce
PART 3: Marital Stability and Quality
PART 4: Divorce: Sign of Weakness or Sign of Wisdom
Learn how ignorance, impatience, and lack of commitment are tearing homes apart — and how greater knowledge, awareness, and courage are helping others walk away from harm.
With Qur’anic guidance, Prophetic wisdom, and deep reflection on destiny, love, and human choices, this lecture will reshape the way you see marriage and divorce.
Key points covered:
•A philosophical look at the phenomenon of divorce
• General reasons for the prevalence of divorce
• Negative causes of divorce in today’s world
• Positive reasons why divorce is sometimes necessary
• How Islam balances love, mercy, and justice in marriage
• Why divorce isn’t always failure — and how to handle it with dignity
• How to combine marital stability with marital quality
• Qur’anic verse: “Either retain them in kindness or release them with goodness.” (Qur’an 2:229)
This is highly recommended for:
• Married couples seeking to strengthen their bond
• Singles preparing for marriage
• Counsellors, students of Islamic knowledge, and anyone seeking clarity about divorce
Listen now and discover:
Is divorce a sign of weakness — or strength?
What does it say about our times, our faith, and our humanity?
•Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more soul-healing content on Islam, emotional wellness, and personal transformation.
•Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:
https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy
•Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa
•Visit: www.adeyemi.ng
•Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi’s Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0
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“Marriage is not just what you wear. It’s what you become.”
In this poetic and soul-stirring finale to Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi brings together all the lessons of the series in one breathtaking reflection on marriage at its finest — when two souls become one sacredgarment, stitched by sincerity and worn with taqwa.
This final chapter is not about struggle or survival. It’s about arrival.
You will be inspired by:
The spiritual essence of Qur’anic love at its highest level
The metaphysical beauty of a healed, God-centred union
Marriage as a path to Jannah, not just companionship
The metaphor of libās transformed into a timeless symbol of devotion, dignity, and divine harmony
“The Outfit” is the garment that has endured storms, healed its tears, and now rests with grace, warmth, and faith. It is love purified through prayer, loyalty refined through patience, and unity rooted in divine light.
This isn’t just about marriage — it’s about becoming the garment Allah intended you to be.
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What happens when marriage feels uncomfortable, like wearing an outfit that doesn’t fit?
In this insightful Ninth Topic of the “Just Like a Garment” series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi uses the metaphor of clothing to discuss marital misalignment, incompatibility, and the spiritual tools to reshape your relationship. Drawing wisdom from the Qur’an and Sunnah, this session explores why some marriages feel “tight” or “loose” and how to tailor them back into harmony.
What you will gain from this lecture:
· How to recognize signs of emotional or spiritual misfit in marriage
· Qur’anic insights on compassion, patience, and mutual growth
· Practical steps to realign your marriage without breaking it apart
· Preventing superficial costumes and fostering the authentic fabric of marriage
· Spiritual guidance for couples seeking Allah’s pleasure together
Whether you’re struggling with differences, cultural expectations, or unmet needs, this talk shows how to stitch love, respect, and faith back into your union.
Qur’an Reminder: “And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them — perhaps you dislike something through which Allah brings much good.” (Surah An-Nisa 4:19)
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In this eighth topic of the “Just Like a Garment” lecture series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi unpacks “The Wardrobe of a Thriving Union”—a metaphor for the virtues, habits, and spiritual principles that protect and beautify a marital relationship. Drawing on timeless wisdom from the Qur’an and Hadith, this session explores how couples can dress their marriage with trust, patience, intimacy, and mercy.
This lecture explains:
· How to strengthen love and understanding between spouses
· Qur’anic principles for harmony in marriage
· The “garments” of respect, compassion, and emotional security
· How to handle conflict with grace and wisdom
· Spiritual and practical tools for a thriving union
Whether you’re newly married, preparing for marriage, or seeking to revive your relationship, this talk provides the inspiration and guidance you need to transform your home into a sanctuary of love.
Listen now and learn how to build a union that thrives — for the sake of Allah.
Qur’an Reference: “They are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:187)
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“Even when the garment no longer fits, it must be removed with dignity.”
In this Topic 7 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi speaks about one of the most sensitive topics in marriage — divorce — not as a failure, but sometimes as a form of divine mercy.
Islam acknowledges that not every union survives, and that sometimes the most righteous choice is a peaceful parting.
This episode offers:
· A Qur’anic framework for understanding separation with honor
· The Prophet’s ﷺ guidance on graceful endings and mutual respect
· The emotional, spiritual, and ethical conduct of divorce
· Protecting children from the wounds of toxic separation
· Healing after heartbreak, and rediscovering one’s purpose
This is not a message of despair — but of dignity. It’s aboutleaving with taqwa, not trauma… with class, not conflict… with mercy, not malice.
If you or someone you know is navigating the pain of a crumbling marriage, this message offers balance, clarity, and hope from a Qur’anic perspective.
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“Even sacred garments can wear thin… if neglected.”
In this Topic 6 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi guides us through the difficult reality of marriages in decline — when the once-beautiful bond begins to fray, fade, or fall apart.
With wisdom and compassion, this lecture examines:
· The early warning signs of emotional disconnect
· The damage caused by neglect, silence, or unresolved conflict
· How the Prophet ﷺ acknowledged human struggle inrelationships
· The difference between a temporary storm and a garment unravelling
Not every damaged marriage is doomed, but every broken bond needs attention.
This topic calls for reflection, action, and above all, hope — before the relationship tears beyond repair.
This is a must-listen for spouses who are hurting or those walking on emotional eggshells. Sometimes, the fabric can be saved — if we choose to see the signs and respond with sincerity.
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“You don’t just live with your spouse — you grow into each other.”
In Topic 5 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the beautiful and often overlooked dimension of shared identity and emotional interdependence in Islamic marriage. Using the metaphor of a garment stitched together, this episode uncovers how two individuals merge into a single spiritual andemotional fabric.
This lecture reveals:
· How Islam encourages emotional alignment and mutual growth
· The difference between dependence and interdependence
· How a shared purpose in marriage leads to barakah
· The prophetic model of building unity in marriage without erasing individuality
A garment moves when you move. It feels what you feel. And so should your spouse.
Marriage is not about losing yourself — it’s about becoming your best self through sacred companionship.
For couples seeking deeper connection, unity of purpose, and divine alignment, this episode is a heartfelt call to rediscover each other in Allah’s light.
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“Even garments face storms. The test is how well they hold together.”
In this fourth topic of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi delves into the realities of conflict and emotional turbulence in marriage. Disagreements are inevitable — but what matters is how couples navigate them with patience (sabr), compassion (rahmah), and emotional maturity.
Drawing on Qur’anic imagery and prophetic wisdom, this episode provides a balanced Islamic framework for managing marital struggles.
You will learn:
· How to respond to conflict without tearing each other down
· The role of sabr in enduring emotional storms
· What the Prophet ﷺ modelled in moments of tension
· Why emotional resilience is essential for lasting love
This isn’t just about surviving the hard times — it’s about emerging stronger, more compassionate, and more connected than before.
A must-listen for anyone facing challenges in their relationship and seeking spiritual tools to weather them with dignity and hope.
Listen and reflect on how your words, reactions, and silence can either protect your marriage — or weaken its very foundation.
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"A garment conceals… and so should your marriage.”
In Topic 3 of Just Like a Garment, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi speaks to the heart of what holds a marriage together: trust, discretion, and loyalty. Drawing fromthe Qur’anic metaphor of libās, this episode explores how spouses are meant to protect one another’s dignity, not expose their weaknesses.
Marriage is not a courtroom for judgment, but a sanctuary for healing.
This episode reveals:
· The spiritual beauty of covering your spouse’s flaws
· The danger of oversharing private matters with outsiders
· What the Prophet ﷺ taught about loyalty and trust inrelationships
· How modern couples can build a culture of emotional safety and confidentiality
In an age of oversharing and public drama, this message calls us back to the Islamic ideal of satr (concealment) and sacred respect within the home.
Watch and reflect on how your words, reactions, and silence can either protect your marriage — or weaken its very foundation.
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In this second chapter of “Just Like a Garment,” Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi peels back the layers of true intimacybetween husband and wife, as guided by the Qur’an and Sunnah. Using the divine metaphor of libās (garment), this lecture explores how marriage is designed to bring two souls into tender proximity, where vulnerability is safe, and affection is worship.
In this episode, discover:
· How emotional intimacy builds trust and compassion
· Why physical closeness is not taboo, but sacred in Islam
· The role of spiritual bonding in strengthening marital love
· Qur’anic wisdom and prophetic examples of balanced intimacy
This chapter is a heartfelt call to reconnect, not just body to body, but heart to heart, soul to soul.
Whether you are newly married or long-time companions, this message will refresh your love through the lens of divine purpose.
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"They are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them."
— Surah Al-Baqarah (2:187)
What does it truly mean to be a garment for your spouse?
In this insightful first episode of the “Just Like a Garment” series, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the divine symbolism behind the Qur’anic metaphor of marriage. Marriage, in Islam, is not just a contract; it is a spiritual design, a sacred covering, and a mercy in motion.
This lecture uncovers:
· The deeper meanings of the Arabic word libās (garment)
· How spouses are meant to protect, comfort, and beautify one another
· The Qur’anic wisdom behind mutuality, closeness, and emotional safety
· Marriage as a mirror to divine mercy, rahmah, and human vulnerability
Whether you are single, married, or struggling in your relationship, this message will reconnect you to the purposeof marriage as revealed in the Qur’an.
Watch, reflect, and rediscover the blessings of your union.
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When you’ve been emotionally wounded, the world expects you to "move on."But deep inside, the scar still throbs — sometimes silently, sometimes fiercely.This powerful lecture by Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi presents a spiritual perspective on healing emotional pain through faith, worship, and a connection with Allah.
Discover how Islam validates emotional scars, honours your grief, and transforms your pain into power. Learn how to cultivate true spiritual strength — not by forgetting the pain, but by finding divine meaning in it.
What You Will Learn in This Video:
· The Islamic definition of spiritual strength
· Why emotional pain is not a weakness in Islam
· How to use Qur’an and Salah for inner healing
· What the Prophet ﷺ teaches us about enduring loss and betrayal
· How scars become signs of survival and purification
· Ways to grow spiritually through trauma and heartbreak
· How to find strength without becoming bitter
You may be scarred, but you are not broken. You are being rebuilt by the Most Merciful.
Presented by: Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi
Islamic Scholar | Spiritual Counselor | Islamic Artist | Family & Mental Health Educator
This lecture is ideal for those who are:
· Coping with emotional trauma
· Struggling with heartbreak or betrayal
· Seeking spiritual tools for healing
· Feeling alone in their pain
· Wanting to deepen their relationship with Allah through trials
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Forgiveness is not weakness. It's strength in its most spiritual form.
In this soul-stirring and deeply philosophical lecture by Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi, we explore a powerful truth: you can forgive someone for the sake of Allah — and still remember the pain they caused you.Islam does not ask you to erase your memory, only to release your resentment.
This talk offers healing for those who are struggling to forgive without forgetting, and it delivers timeless Islamic wisdom on how to manage emotional pain while preserving your dignity, faith, and mental well-being.
What You will Learn:
· Why forgiveness in Islam is for your soul, not their apology
· The difference between forgiveness and forgetting
· What the Prophet ﷺ taught about mercy, justice, and trust
· How to forgive without allowing further harm
· Quranic verses and Hadith on true forgiveness
· Setting boundaries with people you’ve forgiven
· Letting go without losing yourself
"I forgave you — not because you deserve it, but because I deserve peace."
Presented by: Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi
Islamic Scholar | Family Counsellor | Islamic Artist | Marriage& Mental Health Educator
Ideal for anyone navigating:
· Past betrayals or heartbreak
· Emotional or spiritual abuse
· Forgiveness fatigue or guilt
· Reconciliation vs. boundary setting
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Have you ever felt like your mistakes are too heavy to carry? That your sins have buried you too deep to rise again?
This soul-restoring lecture by Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the pain of sin, the weight of guilt, and the boundless mercy of Allah through the divine gift of Tawbah(repentance).
Learn how to return to Allah after falling — with dignity, hope, and healing. Discover the spiritual path of those who were broken… but not buried.
What You will Learn: · Why sin does not define you
· How Islam treats repentance with honour
· The emotional and spiritual power of sincere Tawbah
· Verses and Hadith that prove Allah’s mercy is greater than your sins
· Stories of those who were forgiven and elevated
· How to build back a connection with Allah after falling
· Daily spiritual actions that aid in healing
You may be broken, but you are not lost. Tawbah is your way back.
Let this lecture be your reminder: No matter how far you've gone, Allah is always near.
Presented by: Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi
Islamic Scholar | Family Counsellor | Spiritual Guide | Islamic Artist | Advocate for Healing through Faith
Ideal for those struggling with:
· Guilt, shame, or past mistakes
· Seeking forgiveness and inner peace
· Reconnecting with faith after straying
· Spiritual burnout or loss of direction
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This is a Spiritual Lecture on Letting Go While Holding On to Your Soul
Have you ever had to walk away from someone or something you loved deeply, and didn’t know who you were without it?
In this spiritually healing and emotionally resonant lecture by Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi, we shall explore the pain of heartbreak and the path to recovery through Islamic principles. Learn how to move on from betrayal, broken relationships, and deep disappointments — without losing your soul, your faith, or your sense of self.
This talk offers faith-based emotional recovery, personal empowerment, and a practical roadmap for healing, grounded in the Qur’an, Sunnah, and timeless spiritualwisdom.
Topics Covered:
· How to move on without losing your identity
· Letting go of people who hurt you — for the sake of Allah
· Reclaiming your worth after rejection or betrayal
· Finding peace through dhikr, du’a, and tawakkul
· Lessons from the Prophets on emotional resilience
· How to heal without hardening your heart
· How Islam comforts the broken-hearted
“You are allowed to move on. But never away from Allah.”
Presented by: Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi
Family Counselor | Islamic Scholar | Islamic Artist | Thought Leader on Emotional and Spiritual Wellness
Perfect for anyone struggling with:
· Breakups or divorces
· Emotional trauma or heartbreak
· Rebuilding self-worth after being hurt
· Maintaining Iman during emotional pain
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Rejection Hurts. But Islam Understands.
This is a deep Islamic reflection on heartbreak, self-worth & Divine Healing. It is a must-watch for anyone feeling unloved, unseen, or unwanted.
Have you ever poured your heart out and been ignored?
Felt the sting of not being chosen, accepted, or appreciated?
You are not alone — and Islam sees your pain.
In this soul-healing lecture by Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi, we explore the emotional weight and spiritual wisdom of rejection. Whether in love, family, work, or friendships, rejection pierces deep. But through the Qur’an and Prophetic examples, we discover that rejection is not the end — it can be a redirection from Allah.
· Why does rejection hurt so deeply?
· How did the Prophets handle rejection?
· What can you do when you're not chosen or understood?
· How can you heal while staying spiritually grounded?
“You may have been rejected by the world, but you are chosen by Allah.”
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
· Islamic psychology of rejection
· Emotional healing through faith
· Du’as, reflections, and mindset shifts
· Rebuilding your worth in the light of tawheed
· How to turn pain into purpose
Presented by: Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi
Family Counselor | Islamic Scholar | Mentor | Author | Islamic Artist
Real talk. Real healing. Real hope
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This is a message of hope, healing, and faith for broken hearts.
Have you ever trusted someone with your heart—only to have them breakit?
Has your soul ached from betrayal by the very one you loved the most?
In this deeply emotional and spiritually uplifting lecture, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the silent grief and spiritual confusion that comes with betrayal—especially in marriage.
Drawing from the Qur’an, Sunnah, and real-life experiences, this talk offers comfort and clarity for anyone struggling with heartbreak, emotional pain, infidelity, or the loss of trust.
· Learn how to process betrayal without losing your dignity.
· Discover what Islam says about forgiveness, justice, and boundaries.
· Find healing through reflection, du’a, and reconnection with Allah.
· Rebuild your self-worth after being emotionally torn.
This is a message of hope, healing, and faith for broken hearts.
Whether you're dealing with emotional affairs, dishonesty in marriage, or the aftermath of infidelity, this lecture is a safe space to begin the journey of healing.
“You may have been betrayed by the one you loved — but you are still loved by the One who never betrays.”
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Cheating rarely happens overnight. It begins with silent cracks—emotional gaps, unmet needs, and neglected duties that weaken the foundation of marriage long before betrayal takes place. In this revealing and compassionate talk, UstazDr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the real reasons why people cheat and how to spot the early warning signs. Discover the Islamic wisdom for protecting your marriage before it’s too late.
In this episode, you will learn:
· The root causes of infidelity beyond physical temptation
· The emotional, spiritual, and psychological gaps that lead to betrayal
· How small acts of neglect grow into big problems
· How to spot early signs of disconnect before it leads to betrayal
· Islamic insights on trust, loyalty, and guarding the sanctity of marriage
· Practical steps to strengthen your marriage and close the cracks
Whether you are married, engaged, or hoping to build a strong future relationship, this talk will equip you with the knowledge to protect your bond and heal hidden wounds.
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In today’s world of endless temptation—where modesty is challenged at every turn—staying loyal in marriage has become harder than ever. But Islam offers timeless guidance for guarding the heart against forbidden desires.In this powerful and practical talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi shares how to recognize, resist, and rise above the lure of infidelity, no matter how subtle or strong the temptation.
In this episode, you will gain:
· A deep understanding of how temptation creeps in through daily life
· Qur’anic and Prophetic teachings on guarding the gaze, heart, and intentions
· Strategies for strengthening faith (iman) and self-control in a hyper-sensual world
· Practical ways to protect your marriage from hidden threats
· Tips for building inner strength through dua, taqwa, and good company
This is recommended for couples, singles, and anyone striving to preserve purity and loyalty in the face ofmodern challenges.
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When betrayal strikes, the heart aches, and trust crumbles. But is it possible for a marriage to heal? Can a broken trust be rebuilt? In this compassionate and insightful talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the emotional andspiritual journey of couples who choose healing after infidelity. Discover the Islamic principles, practical steps, and inner strength needed to walk the path from pain to peace.
In this episode, you will learn:
· The deep wounds infidelity causes, and how they affect both partners
· What it takes to begin healing after betrayal
· Qur’anic and Prophetic guidance on forgiveness, patience, and rebuilding trust
· Steps couples can take to restore connection, love, and security
· The role of sincere repentance, accountability, and mercy (rahmah) in recovery
This is a vital lesson for husbands, wives, counsellors,and anyone seeking hope and guidance in the face of marital trials.
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We often think children don’t notice — but they do. Infidelity doesn’t just shatter trust between husband and wife; it leaves deep scars on the hearts of children. In this heartfelt and eye-opening talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemiuncovers how betrayal within marriage silently shapes the emotional world of children, and how families can begin the journey toward healing with honesty, faith, and mercy.
In this episode, you will discover:
· How children sense and are impacted by infidelity, even when it’s hidden
· The long-term emotional, spiritual, and psychological effects on children
· Qur’anic and Prophetic wisdom on protecting the family unit and preserving trust
· The importance of transparency, repentance, and rebuilding family bonds
· Practical steps for couples to heal their marriage and shield their children from harm
This is a crucial reminder for parents, couples, and counsellors who seek to safeguard the emotional health of the next generation.
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When trust is broken, can love be rebuilt? Can a marriage truly heal after infidelity? In this deeply reflective and hopeful talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores real-life stories of betrayal, heartbreak, and the courageous journey toward forgiveness and redemption. Learn how couples can navigate the storm of infidelity through sincere repentance, wisdom, and Islamic guidance, and discover that sometimes, even shattered hearts can find new strength.
In this episode, you will discover:
· The emotional and spiritual devastation caused by infidelity
· Stories of couples who chose healing over separation
· Qur’anic and Prophetic guidance on forgiveness, mercy (rahmah), and second chances
· What it takes to rebuild trust after betrayal
· Steps toward healing the marriage and the self
This is a vital lesson for couples, counsellors, and anyone seeking hope and guidance in the face of marital challenges.
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Did you know that betrayal doesn’t always involve touch? Emotional affairs can be just as damaging, sometimes even more so. In this insightful and thought-provoking talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi unpacks the reality of emotional infidelity, hidden attachments, and secret bonds that silently erode trust in marriage. Learn how to identify emotional affairs early and discover the Islamic path to safeguarding your heart and home.
In this episode, you will uncover:
· What counts as an emotional affair in Islam
· The subtle signs of hidden bonds that threaten marriage
· How emotional cheating harms trust, love, and faith
· Qur’anic and Prophetic wisdom on loyalty, modesty, and guarding relationships
· Practical tips for protecting your marriage from emotional betrayal
This is a vital reminder for couples, singles, counsellors, and all who seek to honor the sacred bond of marriage in light of Islamic teachings.
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Betrayal by the one you love — the pain runs deeper than words can express. Infidelity is one of the most devastating blows a marriage can suffer, leaving wounds that may take a lifetime to heal. In this powerful and compassionate talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the emotional and spiritual impact of infidelity, why it happens, and how couples can confront the crisis with faith, wisdom, andhope.
In this episode, you will discover:
· The emotional devastation caused by betrayal and broken trust
· How infidelity begins — and warning signs couples often miss
· The Qur’anic and Prophetic teachings on loyalty, trust, and forgiveness
· The path toward healing, repentance, and rebuilding after infidelity
· Practical guidance for safeguarding your marriage from betrayal
This podcast is strongly recommended for couples, counsellors, and anyone seeking to protect or heal their marriage through Islamic values.
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You live under the same roof, but it feels like miles apart. Emotional abandonment is one of the most painfulexperiences in marriage, leaving the heart lonely and love feeling distant. In this eye-opening and compassionate talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explains what emotional abandonment looks like, how it begins, and how couples can find their way back to connection and mercy.
In this episode, you will discover:
· The hidden signs of emotional abandonment in marriage
· Why couples drift apart emotionally — even when physically together
· The spiritual and emotional cost of emotional distance
· Qur’anic and Prophetic guidance on nurturing love, mercy (rahmah), and closeness
· Practical steps to heal, reconnect, and restore emotional intimacy
This podcast is an essential reminder for husbands, wives, counsellors, and all who seek to build stronger, more loving Muslim families.
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You may be there physically, but are you truly present emotionally? In this deeply reflective talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi invites us to examine our hearts and actions: Are we giving our spouses the attention, care, and presence they deserve? Discover what it means to be emotionally present in marriage, and how Islam calls us to nurture love, mercy (rahmah), and connection.
In this episode, you will learn:
· The meaning of emotional presence in marriage
· Signs that you (or your spouse) may be emotionally absent
· How emotional absence weakens love, trust, and intimacy
· Qur’anic and Prophetic guidance on attentiveness and kindness in relationships
· Simple, powerful steps to build emotional closeness and a stronger bond
This podcast is strongly recommended for husbands, wives, and all who seek to build a marriage of love, mercy, and peace.
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When a husband goes silent, the marriage begins to suffer — often in ways that are hard to repair. In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores why husbands emotionally withdraw and how this silentdistance slowly erodes love, trust, and connection. Learn how Islam teaches us to break the silence and build bridges of communication and mercy.
In this episode, you will discover:
· The hidden reasons why some husbands withdraw emotionally
· The devastating impact of silence on wives and families
· How emotional withdrawal damages faith, love, and the marriage bond
· Qur’anic and Prophetic guidance on communication, mercy (rahmah), and compassion
· Practical steps for husbands and wives to reconnect and heal
This is an essential talk for couples, counsellors, and anyone seeking to build stronger, more loving relationships in light of Islam.
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Not every wife who is hurting speaks up. Silence doesn’t mean she’s fine. In this deeply moving and insightful episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi sheds light on the hidden pain that many wives endure quietly in their marriages. Learn to recognize the silent cries for help — before it’s too late.
In this episode, you will discover:
· The signs of silent suffering in marriage
· Why many women choose silence over complaint
· The emotional and spiritual damage caused by neglect and indifference
· The duty of husbands to see and respond to their wives’ needs
· How the Qur’an and Sunnah guide us to build marriages of mercy, care, and connection
This is a powerful reminder for husbands, couples,parents, and anyone striving to build a loving, compassionate home.
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Did you know that emotional fulfilment is a right in marriage, not a luxury? In this profound and enlightening talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores how Islam honours the emotional needs of both husband and wife. Learn how our faith encourages love, compassion, and emotional support as the foundation of a blessed union.
In this episode, you will discover:
· The Qur’anic and Prophetic teachings on emotional fulfilment
· Why emotional well-being is a right — not just an expectation — in marriage
· The balance between physical, emotional, and spiritual connection
· How to give and receive emotional support with sincerity and mercy (rahmah)
· Practical steps for nurturing emotional intimacy in your relationship
This is recommended for couples, singles preparing formarriage, counsellors, and all who seek to strengthen Muslim family life.
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What happens when the one who should know you best acts like you’re invisible? In this deeply reflective talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi addresses the painful reality of feeling unseen and unheard in marriage. Discover how emotional invisibility damages relationships, and how Islam teaches us to honour, value, and truly see our spouses.
In this episode, you will learn:
· What it means to feel “invisible” in your marriage
· How spouses unintentionally ignore or dismiss each other
· The emotional and spiritual cost of neglecting your partner
· Islamic guidance on showing appreciation, respect, and care
· Simple, powerful ways to restore connection and presence in marriage
This is an essential talk for couples, parents, and counsellorsseeking to strengthen emotional bonds and build marriages filled with mercy and love.
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Is your spouse present, but absent? Emotional neglect is one of the silent destroyers of marriages, often going unnoticed until deep damage is done. In this heartfelt episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi uncovers what emotional neglect really looks like in marriage, how it starts, and how couples can reconnect before it’s too late.
In this episode, you will learn:
· The subtle signs of emotional neglect between spouses
· How emotional distance grows over time — and why it’s so dangerous
· The impact of neglect on love, trust, and faith
· What the Qur’an and Sunnah teach about caring for your partner’s heart
· Practical steps to restore emotional connection and mercy (rahmah)
This is a must-watch for couples, parents, counsellors, and anyone who wants to build stronger, more loving relationships.
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When should you seek help in your marriage? Before it breaks. In this crucial episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi shares the warning signs that couples should never ignore — and explains why waiting too long can make healing muchharder. Learn how to recognize when your marriage needs help, and how to seek support with wisdom and faith.
In this episode, you will discover:
· Early signs that a marriage is heading toward crisis
· Why many couples delay getting help until it’s too late
· The Islamic view on seeking counseling, advice, and mediation
· How to approach marriage problems proactively
· Simple, practical steps for couples to strengthen their bond before it breaks
Whether you’re married, engaged, or advising others, this talk offers timeless guidance for building resilient, loving relationships.
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What are the biggest threats to a happy marriage? From years of experience counseling couples, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi reveals the Top 3 Marriage Killersthat silently destroy love, trust, and connection. If you’re married, planning to get married, or guiding others, this essential talk will help you identify and defeat these dangers before it’s too late.
In this episode, you will learn:
· The 3 most common and destructive forces that break marriages
· How these issues start small and grow unnoticed
· The Qur’an and Sunnah’s guidance on preventing and healing these problems
· Real-life examples from the counseling desk
· Practical steps to protect your marriage from collapse
Equip yourself with the wisdom to build a stronger, healthier, and lasting marriage — starting today.
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Why do so many marriages start on shaky foundations? Don’tmarry for the wrong reasons — a powerful reminder from Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi about the hidden dangers of marrying for status, pressure, wealth, beauty, or mere convenience. In this essential talk, uncover the true criteria for a blessed and lasting marriage in Islam.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- Common wrong reasons people marry — and the painful consequences
- How family, culture, and peer pressure influence bad choices
- The qualities that truly matter in a spouse, as taught in the Qur’an and Sunnah
- How to purify your intention before marriage
- Practical tips for singles, parents, and matchmakers
This is a must-watch for those preparing for marriage, advising youth, or seeking to strengthen the foundations of Muslim families.
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Is every divorce a disaster? Does separation always mean failure? In this eye-opening and balanced discussion, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi challenges common assumptions about divorce in Islam. Discover how divorce, while painful, can sometimes be a path to healing, growth, and mercy —for individuals, families, and communities.
In this episode, you will learn:
- When divorce is a mercy and not a failure
- The Islamic view of separation (ṭalāq) with wisdom and fairness
- How couples and society misjudge divorced individuals
- Signs that separation might be the best path
- Steps to part with dignity, compassion, and faith
Whether you are married, separated, or advising others, this talk offers clarity, hope, and guidance on navigating the sensitive subject of divorce in Islam.
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How can two people share a home yet feel so far apart from each other? Married but lonely — a silent struggle faced by many couples today. In this in-depth and eye-opening episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi delves into the causes of emotional loneliness in marriage and offers practical, faith-based solutions.
In this episode, discover:
• The hidden reasons why spouses feel lonely in marriage
• How communication breaks down between couples
• The role of emotional neglect, unmet expectations, and spiritual distance
• Islamic guidance on restoring rahmah (mercy) and mawaddah (love)
• Simple, practical steps to reconnect hearts and rebuild intimacy
Whether you’re married, engaged, or supporting others, this talk will equip you with wisdom to create stronger, more loving relationships.
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Is your marriage silently falling apart? In this emotionally charged and eye-opening episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi reveals the subtle yet painful signs that a marriage is in crisis. Love rarely dies with a bang — it fades quietly, often unnoticed until it's too late. Discover how to identify the warning signs early and what the Qur'an, Sunnah, and psychology reveal about healing fractured relationships.
In this episode, you will discover:
• The hidden signs your marriage is at risk
• How couples drift apart emotionally and spiritually
• The impact of neglect, harsh words, and unmet needs
• Islamic guidance on rekindling love and mercy (rahmah) in marriage
• Practical steps to rebuild trust and connection
Whether you’re married, engaged, or advising others, this talk offers essential lessons for anyone seeking stronger, healthierrelationships.
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What is the true purpose of life? Are we merely traveling through time, or are we on a divine mission? In this thought-provoking episode, Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the grand scheme of life, breaking down the difference between a journey and a quest, and how understanding this distinction can reshape your mindset, your relationships, and whether you live intentionally with faith and vision or you live everything to chance.
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Is life a journey with no destination, or a quest with purpose?
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How the Qur’an distinguishes between scheming and scamming in life.
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The role of scheming, planning, purpose, and spiritual direction on the journeys through life.
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How the Sunnah shows a balanced view between effort and luck.
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Guidance for families, youth, and seekers of truth.
With deep insights rooted in Islamic wisdom and contemporary realities, this episode will help you reflect on your goals, trials, and legacy.
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Get ready to uncover the hidden world of human behaviour! “Life in a Snakearium: living with the most venomous humans in the world” is a thought-provoking exploration of the complexities of human nature, using the Snakearium and its inhabitants as metaphors for the convoluted subtleties of human relationships.
The Snakearium represents the elusive balance of power, trust, and communication in our personal and professional lives. Through insightful analysis, we will explore the twists and turns of human behaviour, revealing the fascinating and sometimes venomous ways we interact with each other.
Just as snakes shed their skin, we too can change our ways, and put the snake within our souls under control.
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The venomous vipers of toxic relationships
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The deceptive vipers of insecurity
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The lethal warnings of rattlesnakes
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And the ultimate battle with the serpent in your soul: the venom within.
Through this unique lens, we'll gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and others, as well as discover new strategies for building stronger, more meaningful, but cautious connections.
This audio is a must-listen for anyone interested in human behaviour, psychology, and personal growth.
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Get ready to slither into the world of ophidiophobia! “Who is Not Afraid of Snakes?” is a thought-provoking exploration of human fear and fascination with serpents. In this captivating talk, we'll delve into the psychology behind our reactions to snakes, from primal fear to curious fascination.
We will consult the Qur’an and Hadith to examine the contexts in which snakes are mentioned. Then we will explore the complexities of human emotions and the power of snakes to evoke strong emotional responses.
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The science behind ophidiophobia
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This video is a precursor to a deeper exploration of human relationships with snakes and will leave you questioning your reactions to these fascinating creatures.
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Marriage is often seen as a blend of choice, effort, and divine will, yet luck plays an undeniable role in shaping its success or struggles. While love, patience, and commitment are essential ingredients, certain uncontrollable factors can either ease the journey or make it more challenging. These “luck factors” are not solely about fate but about circumstances that a couple may or may not have power over.
However, luck is not everything. With faith, wisdom, and effort, even the most "unlucky" marriages can become sources of blessing and growth.
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In this talk, “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS IN ISLAM: BRIDGING THE GAP BETWEEN IDEALS AND REALITIES” (25 March, 2025), Abdulfattah Adeyemi discussed that marriage is neither a perfect fantasy nor a constant struggle. It is an effort in growth, learning, and companionship. It is about embracing the reality rather than clinging to expectations. It is about understanding that love is not just in grand moments, but in small, everyday choices.
Those who enter marriage with wisdom, patience, and sincerity find that even in the struggles, there is beauty. Even in the challenges, there is love. And even in the imperfections, there is a great opportunity to grow, to forgive, and to become better, together. An ideal marriage is not free of challenges, but it is one where faith, respect, and commitment create a bond that overcomes any storm.
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Life is a journey, but how we move through it differs from person to person. Some move very fast, some are quite slow, and some advance steadily, while others stumble, retreat, or remain motionless. Our choices, habits, and circumstances determine whether we are progressing, regressing, or stagnating.
While looking at life through metaphorical movementstyles, this lecture discussed five distinct patterns and suggested that moving fast-forward does not mean rushing blindly. It means advancing wisely, purposefully, and consistently in every area of life. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse!
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The path to Paradise is unseen, yet not unknown; hidden, yetilluminated by the words of the Divine. So, how many miles to Paradise? Is it a journey of distance or devotion? Is it measured in the footsteps that pace the earth or the weight of deeds that tilt the scales? Your answers arethe same as mine.
This lecture suggests that when the purified and free soultakes its final step, it will find that the journey was never about distance, but about becoming worthy of arrival. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse!
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It is a wild world out there, where animals eat the eggs of other animals. What if eggs were hearts, and hearts were eggs, would you keep your eggs with heart breakers? How many promises have been broken when the eggs of trust are kept with someone who cannot think beyond a hammer? You are you own egg! You deserve an EGGXEPTIONAL EGGXISTENCE! Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse!
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When a person realizes that gaining Allah’s pleasure is the highest achievement, their perspective on life changes completely. They no longer chase the fleeting illusions of this world but instead devote themselves to seeking His approval in every aspect of life. The question that governs their choices, actions, and even their thoughts: “Is Allah pleased with me?” This talk gave some practical hints on how to know if Allah is pleased with you.
This lecture discusses a "Professional" approach to Ramadhan by adopting the "S.M.A.R.T" strategy and treating the fasing period as a form of spiritul retreat.
Every child, no matter their origin, carries within them thespark of divinity, the potential to illuminate the world in ways unimaginable. Because, in their small hands lie the power to shape the world, and in their boundless hearts, the courage to dream beyond the horizon. When you give them love, theyflourish. When you give them freedom, they soar.
The parent is the gardener of this delicate seedling. Theparent is the custodian of the promise that the child embodies. In the end, the measure of any society is found in how it treats its children.
With this topic, “Parent for Rent” Abdulfattah Adeyemi passionately appeals to parents: “Leave no Child Behind!”
This topic explores the Quranic concept of Antifragility, discusses examples from real-life experiences, and motivates the listeners to be antifragile to succeed in life. It calls for self-reexamination by asking, "How fragile are you?"Do let me know if this lecture resonates with you through your comments. Thanks for listening.
This lecture (delivered on the 21, of January, 2024) demonstrates that marriage is a sacred union of hearts. It is a refined relationship between two individuals who embark on a marital journey filled with joy, challenges, and growth. Understanding and patience emerge as steadfast companions in this journey that can lead to a resilient and lasting bond. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply, as you edit your Youniverse!
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When a child loses either or both of his parents, he faces so many economic, social, and emotional issues down the line. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of fostering or caring for orphans and considered it one of the noblest deeds in Islam. The lecture (delivered on 4 November 2023) shows us the “Big Picture”: we must never lose sight of the compassionate imperative to extend a helping hand to those who have known the depths of emotional trauma. Listen, learn, and reflect, as you edit your Youniverse!
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This lecture was held on 23, September 2021. The mode of communication is mainly Pidgin English and it covers a wide array of metaphors to explain the factors that can help build a happy family life. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse!
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This lecture (delivered on 9 April 2023), is a theoretical understanding of taste, food, and eating within the framework of Islamic aesthetics and philosophy. It is a discourse built around the verse of the Qur’an (Chapter 7, verses 31- 33), that teaches us to savour only what is pure and lawful, and to relish the gustatory pleasures in our cultured cuisine with respect and gratitude, as against devouring the impure and the unlawful in crude nourishment. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse! Visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com
You might not know the Swahili word for “Burden”, you might not know the Latin word for “Load”, and you might not know the Chinese word for what is heavy, but you know what the invisible burden you carry in your heart feels like. This lecture suggests ways out for those trapped in burdens that keep them trembling, scared, confused, disturbed, cold, sick, and collapsing under the yokes of inner rots and decay. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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Our journey did not just start from this world. It started from somewhere else. But where did we come from? Why are we here? Where is our final destination? This lecture (delivered on 9 February 2023), is based on the “stranger-in-transit” mindset taught in the hadith. It shows that life in this world is just one of the six stages of our journey from Allah and back to Him.The homesick soul can only find rest and tranquillity when it reconnects with its Creator. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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Instead of choosing to exist merely, this lecture (delivered on the 25, of December 2022) urges you to experience the good, wholesome, aesthetic lifestyle as the Qur’an and the Sunnah recommended. It describes how to live life as if it were a beautiful piece of art with its elements of harmony, variety, style, originality, and creativity. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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You were not born to live powerlessly. You were not born to struggle endlessly. You were not born to toil fruitlessly. You were not born to be subjugated perpetually. You are meant to experience life to its fullest with high energy, and fulfilled dreams, without having to organize a pity party for yourself.
This lecture (delivered on 17 July 2022) takes a deeper dive and a closer look into the concept, dynamics, and realities of power. It hits hard on your conscience as you understand how life works and the power you have inside you. You must reclaim your power to repel harm, prevent oppression, and bring benefit to yourself and to humanity. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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Should we be concerned about the future generation? Do we owe them anything? Are we under any obligation to “prepare” anything for the unborn children? To what extent can we take responsibility for the future of the planet, humanity, our communities, and our children? This lecture (12 November 2022) charges us to be responsible custodians for the next generation. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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The future is time’s way of getting us curious and bewildered. The future is abstract, not tangible. It is vague, not clear. It is a speculation, not a certainty. Despite the uncertainties, some people are eagerly looking forward to meeting and embracing the future fruits of their labours. In contrast, others are afraid of walking into the traps that destiny has already set for them. We are all potential. It is the future that unfolds for us.
This lecture (delivered on 12 November 2022) is a peek into the history of the future and what might hatch from the eggs of life that we are forced to incubate, blindfolded!
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Is faith something you have or something you do? Is faith a placebo, an emotion, a skill, or a kind of power? This lecture (delivered on 4 September 2022) asks more questions than gives answers, but it is an attempt to explain how our assumptions, perceptions, and expectations affect what faith means to us and what we do about it. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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The marriage medal is about giving honour, respect, appreciation, and recognition of our sacrifices, efforts, wears, tears, rigours, duties, obligations, and above all, our love towards our families.
This lecture, delivered on 26 November 2022, is dedicated to the soldiers, parents, individuals, and all the hidden and unsung heroes amongst us who contribute gallantly to humanity's protection, preservation, and progress. These warriors deserve our admiration, honour, gratitude, and support. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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The life and death of Sulaiman (Peace be upon him) are indeed full of wonders from which mankind can derive incredible lessons. Though every prophet was given miracles, Sulaiman (Peace be upon him) was given extraordinary miracles, as Allah subjugated the ethereal and earthly worlds for him, and endowed him with the power to communicate with jinns, and animals. Despite his knowledge and privileges, wisdom and kingdom, he remained humble, grateful, and faithful.
This lecture (delivered on 24, September 2022) brings good news to the wealthy, the rich, the leaders, the wise, and the learned ones that these blessings are great opportunities to bring benefits to humanity. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
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This lecture (delivered on 29 October 2022) takes a metaphorical look at the arrow, the shield, and the target as concepts in self-development, and holding on to the shield of Allah’s protection against spiritual arrows of affliction. Enjoy this symbolic exposition on being focused, and responsible, building self-confidence, and giving our offspring the sprint to start life with a dart.
Be either an arrow or a shield, or else you’ll be a target! Listen, learn and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
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The story of Ayyub explores a particular kind of ordeal in which the pain seems both inexplicable and fruitless—it has nothing to do with any sin you must have committed, It doesn’t resemble a particular spiritual growth and not the type endured in acts of worship. It is neither a persecution by enemies nor a struggle for mentorship to find direction in life. However, it is a unique type of trial that is tailor-made for you. The good news is that this model of Ayyub-like suffering always has a triumphant ending! Listen, learn and think deeply about the Ayyub in you as you edit your Youniverse! (www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com)
Synergetic relationships can be useful measures of an ecosystem’s health, same as in maintaining sanity in marriage. This lecture (delivered on the 8, October 2022) summarizes it all with symbolic references from the Qur’an and symbiotic inferences from nature. The secret of success at home can be found in the pairing: what we have combined, joined, or coupled. Are we trying to bind what does not cling? Listen, learn, laugh and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse! (www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com)
As good as money is, what does it symbolize? Why bother accumulating cash and spending it to gather thingy-things that we shall still leave behind for others? Can we win the game of life when we live solely to pursue money at the expense of quality time with our families? Do we live to work, or do we work to live? How can we achieve a work-life balance such that we can have both?
This lecture, delivered on 15 October 2022, is a philosophical attempt to explain how we can make money and meaning simultaneously. Listen, learn and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse! (www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com)
This lecture (delivered on the 18, June, 2016) is a philosophical approach to our beliefs about money. It examines how we think about it, how we handle it, where we should look for it and what are the things that influence our perceptions of money. Is having money a matter of luck, choice, effort, or a spiritual thing? Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! (www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com)
The word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings and types, in different contexts. A similitude of marital love is that of a gardener and his flower garden. He nurtures the flower with utmost respect, regard, care, love and mercy. In this sense, love is ultimately not just a feeling, but a commitment to the relationship. This lecture, (delivered on the 19 February, 2022) recommends that it is better to stand in love, than fall in love. Listen, learn and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! For counseling services, visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com
From chagrin to malice, some spouses have crafted deceptive means of expressing their needs for attention, control, and domination. Should they not stop playing these tricky games of tit-for-tat? Listen, learn and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! (www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com)
Moods have essential connections with our mental and physical well-being. Moods can affect how you perceive, interpret, judge, and translate the world around you, and can also direct your behaviour. Bad moods are connected with depression, anxiety, aggression, poor self-esteem, physiological stress, and a decrease in sexual arousal.
A moody person may be going through a difficult stage in their lives; they may be exhausted, ill, chronically worried, or lacking what they need in terms of love, sleep, challenge, or security. But there is another type of moodiness; that of the bully, who will use their moods to intimidate and manipulate. They use it to garner attention, power, praise, and pity. It is some of these aspects of moodiness that I want us to look at in this lecture.
This discussion (held on 9 August 2015) attempted to explain some of the aspects of moodiness that affect our lives and those of others around us. Listen, learn, laugh, and edit your Youniverse!
Things happen to us and we happen to things, yet we cannot possibly wrap our heads around everything in the universe. That is why our outlooks on what is good or bad might not be as accurate as we think. Therefore, if you have ever wondered why bad things sometimes happen to good people, you need to pay attention to my anecdotes, examples, and analogies, as I attempt to explain the consequences, connections, and situations that affect the occurrences in our collective and individual lives. This lecture was delivered on 27 August 2022 as a further inquiry into concepts in Islamic spirituality. Before you say “Why me!” listen attentively and learn how to edit your Youniverse!
Do you feel unappreciated, rejected, inadequate, and worried about what people think about you? Is there any aspect of your life that you are perpetually embarrassed and disgraced about? Do you walk around with your head down because you are ashamed of who you are and what you do? The emotions of shame, when taken too far can adversely affect our self-esteem and we go through life as if we are sorry to be alive.
This lecture, delivered on the 13, August 2022, looks into ways of regaining your self-confidence so you can remove the heavy yoke of guilt and humiliation from your psyche over what is none of your business. If shame is a problem for you, then listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
This lecture (delivered on 20, August 2022) looks at some aspects of thinking: an introduction to a study in “Mental Security”. It discusses how fantasies, memories, and imaginations are all descriptions of our thought processes and how perceptions, contemplations, and assumptions are all manifestations of our minds at work. Listen and learn to protect your mind, direct your thoughts and edit your Youniverse!
Fire, water, air, and earth as we commonly know them are but outwardly manifested forms of the Elements themselves. However, each of the four elements is inherently neutral and is neither good nor bad. The human organism also contains all four elements, often manifested in the theories of personality traits.
This lecture (delivered on the 8, November, 2014), is for matchmakers, those intending to choose a spouse and those already married. It shows that Compatibility is overrated: the similarities or personality traits that attract people to each other may not hold up over time, especially if the couples get too comfortable with each other.
Couples should look for the best in each other; develop the disposition, attitude, and willingness to work on the complementarity parts of their compatibility. Listen, laugh, and learn as you edit your Youniverse!
This lecture was presented at a workshop organized by the Abuja Enterprise Agency (AEA), Abuja on 8 February 2022. The workshop was organized as pre-retirement training for civil servants and senior citizens. Although financial security is an important element in retirement plans, this presentation lays more emphasis on the psychological aspects of retirement, especially in matters of adjusting to retirees' new identity and what can be called, the “New Normal” in their personal, family, and social lives. Listen, learn and laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
This keynote address was delivered at an event of Toastmasters International, Abuja, Nigeria on 10 June 2022. It comprises clear examples, deep metaphors, and insightful analogies as it discusses four steps towards transformational leadership. Listen, learn, think and edit your Youniverse!
Our identities can refer to what we do, what we call ourselves, or what people call us. Are you identified by what you have achieved, or you are still not sure how you fit into your community? Do you know the core of your uniqueness, or you are going through an identity crisis? This lecture throws a challenge at you, to see if you truly know who you are, or if you are just an assumption. Listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
This short lecture is an analogy of what a marriage can do to us: it can define, confine or refine us, and whatever we make of it is entirely our choice. Listen, learn and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse! You can book a counseling session with me at http://calendly/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling
If the car is the marriage, the man is the driver, the passenger is the wife, and the fuel is the money, what can the passenger do, if the driver is lost, confused, or does not fuel the car? Who is really in charge of determining the speed, the direction, and the destination of the car: the driver or the passenger? This discussion is an analysis of the car as a metaphor in marriage for husbands who understand. (Recorded on 28 October 2021) Listen, Learn, Laugh and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse!
What actually makes us valuable to ourselves and relevant in the lives of others is our ability to keep the flow of our nature from human-being to human-doing, and from human-doing to human-being. This nugget is for you to listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
This discourse takes an analytical look at the reasons behind our trials in life and suggests ways to develop a consistent mentality regardless of our changing realities. Listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
Having Taqwa (God-consciousness) is not just a fleeting moment of excitement or spiritual lift. It is a journey in spirituality that is characterized by flow, growth, sincerity, transcendence, true knowledge, and service to humanity. Spirituality, therefore, is a relationship and a connection with Allah and with the universe. This lecture (recorded on 30 April 2022) is a glimpse into the study of some aspects of Islamic Spirituality. Listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
In the pursuit of pleasure, people buy things, use things, and own things, yet pleasant sensations do not guarantee lasting happiness. Where then does real happiness lie? What exactly does it mean to be happy? Is there any real source or condition of happiness? Can you recognize and sustain happiness when you “find” it? Do we inherit happiness? Is happiness a skill that we can learn? Is being happy destined? This lecture (recorded on 5 March 2022) is a step into a long inward journey towards internally generated happiness. Listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
This lecture (delivered on 19 March 2022) highlights some of the overwhelming surprises that the everchanging times bring, and attempts to suggest answers to some existential questions. Are these emerging changes positive or negative? Do our interpretations of changes depend on our personal perceptions? What should we do when these unpredictable changes seem to weigh so heavily on our minds and greatly affect our mental health? Things are changing more rapidly than our foresight can capture; how then should we prepare ourselves for the shocks of a future that we can’t predict, at a present time that we don’t even understand? Listen, learn and edit your Youniverse!
You can learn to make meanings, gain insights, make adjustments and make improvements in very important areas of your life if you pursue both qualitative and quantitative existence. This lecture (recorded on 11 June 2022) takes you on a journey towards self-knowledge through numbers, as you self-track your life, knowing what works for you and what you work for. Listen, learn, laugh, and edit your Youniverse!
This lecture (recorded on 4 June 2022) highlights some of the narcissistic traits as mentioned in the Quran and explained in the Hadith. All in all, it can be emotionally draining and psychologically daunting to live with narcissists; hence the talk gives some hints on coping strategies if you must stay, and some advice on how to leave if your safety and sanity are at stake. If you have fallen victim to a narcissistic spouse and you have been finding it difficult to cope or you think it is time to escape, then, this lecture is for you. Listen, learn and laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
Marriages pass through all sorts of trials before they stabilize, hence the need for couples to be equipped with the necessary knowledge and skills to cope with the ever-changing matrimonial challenges and growing responsibilities. However, it is not enough to find out what is wrong with a troubled marriage so as to fix it, but we should also find out what is right about a successful one so as to cultivate it. This lecture (recorded on 30 January 2022) is a scratch on the surface of what it means to apply positive psychology in marriage and in life generally. Listen, learn and laugh as you edit your youniverse!
This lecture features the comparative analysis of our lives and the game of football or soccer, from the temporality of time to the compelling and obvious fact that something is happening in our lives at every point in time. Despite the delight and the disgust in the game, we need to develop the ability to focus not only on the goals but also on the process. The game is beautiful if we play it with fairness, dexterity, and creativity.
As the match goes on, whether we score goals or not, we should all be grateful that we are having the privilege of playing together on earth. I invite you to listen, learn and enjoy the metaphors, analysis, and approaches to life’s football matches as you edit your Youniverse!
The women have always had to put in extra efforts in ensuring that they play their roles in taking care of their families during the month of Ramadhan, so much so that it is unimaginable what the month would be like without them. This is why we should appraise their immeasurable contributions and appreciate their sacrifices.
This lecture gives hints on how the women can make things easy for themselves while cooking for their families, and how to also create time for worship activities during the month of Ramadan. After all, the reward system in Islamic worship provides that everyone, male and female will be rewarded in whatever ways they are able to serve humanity, especially by providing food to feed the needy. Listen, laugh, and learn as you edit your Youniverse!
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It is not such a bad thing to be concerned about others, to be helpful, or be generous so as to increase your own happiness level. However, when altruism is taken too far, it becomes unhealthy. How then should you live a balanced life between pleasing others and pleasing yourself? How should you determine the right persons to please such that it becomes a pleasure pleasing them? What are the right approaches to pleasing your spouse such that you add pleasantness to your mutual pleasurable marital experiences? This lecture seeks to answer these questions with real-life examples. Listen, laugh, and learn as you edit your Youniverse!
Our faces define our personalities and that is the gift we are to give to humanity. The face of fellow humans and other creatures in the universe are like mirrors that reflect the Face of Allah. So, in order for us to see the Face of Allah, we should seek His Face in bringing happiness to the faces of fellow humans through love, kindness, and charity.
This concept is taken from the Qur’an chapter 2, verse 115, and it explores the connection between the Face of Allah and the face of humans. It is an attempt to explain the Philosophy of the human face as well as the power and the mysteries of the human gaze. Listen, learn and enjoy as you edit your Youniverse!
Reality is the state of things as they actually exist, rather than as they may appear or might be imagined. Reality isn't harsh, and it isn't easy either. It is just what it is.
In the midst of our daily struggle to fix, to figure, to pursue, to evade, or to sustain, one should not forget to appreciate what “today” entails. It is this adventure, this struggle, this “work in progress” nature of life that is probably part of what makes life an interesting journey. Realities have taught us that prayer doesn’t work with laziness, the guidance doesn’t work with ignorance, understanding doesn’t work with short-sightedness, and blessing doesn’t work with indiscipline.
Whatever our life or marital realities are, we should maintain a constant mentality of hope, love, and mercy. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
What type of crime has anger not led people to commit? People have killed and destroyed because they were angry. Anger is a deviation from momentous cerebrations; an aberration to meaningful articulations. You would just kind of talk without saying anything, and you would say things without talking! Anger makes you shout, it makes you scream, it makes you hate, it makes you hit, it makes you hurt, it makes you cry. Then, it makes you suffer and makes you do stupid things; real stupid things that make you look really stupid! Anger makes you mess up your life, mess up your marriage, mess up your career, mess up your relationships, and mess up your destiny.
While we cannot completely rid ourselves of the emotion of anger, we must not let it becloud our other noble emotions of patience, understanding, and love. Anger in its right place may add grace to the overall quality of your life. But if you let it fester into malicious iniquities, the consequences would make your destiny appear complicated as if it was put together by a committee! This audio lecture was recorded on October 30, 2017, and presented here so you can listen, learn, laugh, and edit your Youniverse!
Domestic violence comes in many forms such as physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, financial/economic abuse, and so on.Under no circumstances are such abuses against women and men, in their various manifestations, encouraged or allowed in Islam. There are many examples in Qur'ān and ḥadīth that describe the sort of loving, respectful, and kind behaviour that husbands and wives ought to exhibit to one another. Islamic teachings indicate that marriage is mutual love and mercy between a couple and that its objectives, besides perpetuating human life, are emotional well-being and spiritual harmony. NOT violence! Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
A good friend is like a tonic: a medicinal concoction that is brewed to make us feel healthier, livelier, and re-energized. A “tonic friendship” therefore, is like a healthy blend of mutual respect, positive attachment, affection, loyalty, love, respect, and trust.
Conversely, toxic friends don’t nourish our souls but suck the verve out of our spirits. Is it not time for us to reconsider our stance in relationships that add no real value to our lives other than frustration and distractions?
The point is, many are successful in life today because they flowed with the right group of friends, while some are not getting ahead due to the toxic friends they are drifting with. Most importantly, the message of this audio lecture is that we should take into account not just what kind of friends we make, but also what kind of friends we are. So, listen, learn, laugh, and edit your Youniverse!
If you don’t take time to sharpen the axe of your relationships, you will lose touch with your true nature, and you become unable to create boundaries that protect, nurture, and sustain your self-worth. You misplace your crown.
This audio lecture tells stories to prod us to think, and practice the art of silence so as to listen to our spouses’ heartbeats every day. It teaches us to take care of ourselves and to take time to learn and grow, to love and rejuvenate our marriages. This is how to bring out the Kings and Queens in us, just like Sulaiman and the Queen of Sheba did.
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Wise counsels have freed us from paralyzing fears, severe anxieties, and overwhelming burdens. Can you imagine where we would be if not for people who offered us great, life-changing advice at every stage of our lives? Don’t people fail in life because they got bad advice from the wrong people? Should we take advice from just anyone who shows up to give us counsel? This audio lecture offers insights into the crucial things to consider before seeking, receiving, or giving advice in relationships, careers, financial matters, health issues, legal concerns, or spiritual journeys. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
Malice is a form of emotional abuse typically employed by people without good communication skills, an inability to express a high level of empathy, and avoidance of conflict resolution. Keeping malice appears to be deeply ingrained in our culture, such that it is acceptable to shut somebody out as a way of punishment. A malicious husband or wife, because they cannot prevail over their spouse, or they have been insulted, offended, or have been deprived of their coveted ego massage, continues to harbour enmity towards their spouse, and the flames of anger and acrimony consume the love they share. This audio lecture explains pointers to narcissistic tendencies and how to handle malice in "loverland", depending on your unique situation. Listen, learn, and enjoy, as you edit your Youniverse!
If we manage to eliminate those worries that torment our minds and make us ill, then clearly what we have left is that which is timeless, that which is beyond the body, that which is beyond attachments and beyond the mind, that which is truly beyond our comprehension and is called happiness! Indeed, the Qur’an itself speaks of happiness as being one of the rewards for those whom Allah chooses to admit to Paradise. This part 2 of “THE MYSTERIES OF A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE,” seeks to explain the factors for attaining real happiness in this world and the hereafter, and to ask the listeners, “What are your own personal secrets to happiness?” Is it true that happiness lies in making others happy? Is it possible to bring about another’s happiness? Should one pray for happiness? Could it be that true happiness is Allah’s gift and requires no effort? Is it a matter of destiny to be happy? Can this destiny be edited?
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Happiness is simply an emotional state of feeling good, of being free from pain and unpleasant emotions. Unfortunately, happiness is an elusive state of mind that all men strive for but few attain. For some people, happiness is contentment, joyful satisfaction, felicity, or blessedness. What does happiness mean to you? What are the ‘ways’ and ‘means’ of attaining happiness? What ‘gives rise to’, ‘creates’, ‘causes’ happiness? What ‘contributes’ to it? What is the ‘road’ to happiness? Do we inherit happiness? Does it depend on whom you marry? These audio lectures “THE MYSTERIES OF A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE,” (Parts 1 and 2) ask more questions than giving answers, but let us interrogate some clues to the mysteries of what can be described as a Happy Married Life. Listen, Learn, and Laugh as you edit your Youniverse!
It is not everyone that walks the streets that is “normal”. A whole lot of married individuals have lost touch with the acceptable standards of what a happy marriage should look like, feel like, or be like. From profanity to irascibility, from insincerity to infidelity, husbands and wives have had to grapple with the stark reality of their spouses’ insanity. Whereas, to the outsiders, everything appears “normal”!
This audio lecture gives hope to those trapped in non-functional relationships and gives an insight to those yet to enter into what looks more like a trap than a marriage. How do we determine normalcy in marriage when most people are not “normal” enough to live a normal married life? The answer is another question: what normal situation can come out of a union between a snake and a scorpion, between a bee and a housefly, or between an ant and an elephant?
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People have been driven out of their minds and compelled by some inexplicable circumstances to experience creepy episodes in their lives. Matters of jinns, sorcery, charms, mental conditions, and psychological situations, are all both sinister and intriguing. By making efforts to understand these phenomena, we can explain many of the mysteries and issues which bother us. We only need to pray hard and be cautious, so we can defend ourselves from these hidden forces that force us to the extremes of confusion. Listen, learn, laugh, and edit your Youniverse!
Dreams are parts of the glimpses that remain for us from the unknown. They are voices from our collective subconscious, portents of deep inner disturbances in the individuals’ psyche, bearers of glad tidings of good things to come, or echoes of happy or sad and long-hidden memories.
When some people see an unpleasant dream, their lives become disturbed. They become terrified and unable to relax until they find someone to interpret it for them so as to discover whether it brings glad tidings or bad news to them.
If we stop at the limits which are set for us in the Islamic guidance, then such anxiety would not be felt, our fears would melt, and we would not be disturbed by the activities of our brains when we are asleep.
In order to discern the best way of dealing with this widespread phenomenon in our individual lives, let us look broadly at the types and meanings of dreams within the safety net of some explanations that can be acceptable to our conscience. Stay awake!
Some people’s stories are all about the friends who walked into their lives at a point in time, enemies who made them run in thorns, benefactors who brought happiness their way, cruel people who pruned their wings when they were about to fly.
Lucky ones amongst us can remember the stories of how they helped others to grow. How they helped a fallen little bird back to its nest. How they offered a shoulder for someone to cry. How they removed heavy burdens off someone’s neck. How they rescued someone from drowning in the rivers of life.
Besides, you have used things and things have used you. You’ve got marks. You’ve been hurt. You’ve felt pain. You’ve been bruised. From fresh wounds to dried scars, you’ve been broken, you’ve been gored. You’ve bled, you’ve had boils, and you’ve discharged purulent pus and blood. You’ve had a high fever, your nose ran, your stomach ran, your head ached, and your heart ached.
You’ve certainly got a lot of stories to tell. Take charge of your stories. Edit your Youniverse!
This audio lecture teaches you not to confuse humility with humiliation, pride with self-respect, arrogance with self-confidence, obedience with slavery, and gentility with stupidity! Learn, Laugh, and Enjoy!
Ever wondered why the sick people in the hospital are called PATIENTS? It is because they have to PATIENTLY endure the sickness, the pains, and the inconveniences till they get well. This audio lecture explains how to be patient with the trials of life till you overcome your challenges.