IPV and Me: Recent Episodes
Amanda Goggin
I am a survivor of Intimate Partner Violence. Here I share my story with you, as well as give advice on everything I've learned over my recovery; how to spot an abuser, how to leave safely, how to get help and how to live life as a survivor of abuse. I have learned so much during my own experience and also as a spokesperson for domestic abuse with the Allstate Foundation. I also tell the stories of other survivors. Reach out to me on Instagram @mandgoggs or @IPVandMe, all DM's will be answered. https://linktr.ee/MandGoggs
This week’s episode is a little different. I’m taking a break from interviews and storytelling to just sit down and talk — about life, healing, and what it means to reach ten years since I left my abuser. As I approach my 40th birthday, I’m reflecting on how far I’ve come, what I’ve learned, and what freedom really feels like a decade later.
Help:
thehotline.org
Merch has launched!!!!!!:
Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.
https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.com
Socials:
ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com @mandgoggs on all socials
Love Island Australia:
My sister Tamara is on this season of Love Island Australia!! Follow her shenanigans on social media @tamaragoggin. To watch the show in the USA, Hulu will have the episodes from October 29th. Watch on Dailymotion or on 9Now, the official site, with a VPN if you are outside Australia. ITVX will have episodes for the UK and Ireland in the coming weeks. Please watch and support!
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In Part Two of our deep dive into the 1996 murder of Sophie Toscan du Plantier, we examine the man who would come to dominate headlines: Ian Bailey. As the Garda investigation unfolds, Bailey—a local journalist—emerges not just as a reporter covering the case, but as its prime suspect. We explore the timeline of events, the contradictions in Bailey’s statements, and his troubling history of violence.
Through this lens, we look at how power, control, and manipulation can echo in both intimate relationships and high-profile cases. As always on IPV and Me, we center the reality of coercive dynamics and the impact of gender-based violence.
This episode contains descriptions of violence and abuse.
Resources:
Thehotline.org
Contact Me:
Instagram: @mandgoggs
Email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com
Sources and Extra Information:
‘Sophie: The Final Verdict’ by Senan Maloney
West Cork Podcast
Sophie: A Murder in West Cork on Netflix
Murder at the Cottage: The Search for Justice for Sophie
In this special two-part, I examine the tragic and deeply unsettling case of Sophie Toscan du Plantier— a French woman who was brutally murdered outside her holiday home in West Cork, Ireland, just before Christmas in 1996.
In Part One, I’ll walk you through Sophie’s life, the days leading up to her death, and the strange, isolated setting where this horrific crime took place. We’ll look at the early investigation, the rumors that began to swirl, and the man who quickly emerged as the prime suspect: Ian Bailey.
Sophie’s story touches on issues of power, control, violence, and the way women are often failed by justice systems—no matter where they are in the world.
Resources:
Thehotline.org
Contact Me:
Instagram: @mandgoggs
Email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com
Sources and Extra Information:
‘Sophie: The Final Verdict’ by Senan Maloney
West Cork Podcast
Sophie: A Murder in West Cork on Netflix
Murder at the Cottage: The Search for Justice for Sophie
We're back after a very extended break so here is a very extended episode! (Take breaks, we'll hold your place!). And Happy International Women's Day to all you beautiful bold women!
In today's episode, I travel to Ireland for the story of one of the most courageous women I have ever encountered. Nicola Hanney not only dealt with a horrific case of domestic abuse but she was also battling life-threatening cancer at the time. I couldn't think of a better story to upload on International Women's Day.
My Interview For Bold Journey: https://boldjourney.com/meet-amanda-goggin/
Socials: @mandgoggs Instagram ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com email
Sources: Stronger: What Didn't Kill Me, Made Me' by Nicola Hanney https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-What-Didnt-Kill-Made/dp/1785375296
Poem by Bella Hope Smith.
We're back after a very extended break so here is a very extended episode in two parts... both released together (Take breaks, we'll hold your place!). And Happy International Women's Day to all you beautiful bold women!
In today's episode, I travel to Ireland for the story of one of the most courageous women I have ever encountered. Nicola Hanney not only dealt with a horrific case of domestic abuse but she was also battling life-threatening cancer at the time. I couldn't think of a better story to upload on International Women's Day.
My Interview For Bold Journey: https://boldjourney.com/meet-amanda-goggin/
Socials: @mandgoggs Instagram ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com email
Sources: Stronger: What Didn't Kill Me, Made Me' by Nicola Hanney https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-What-Didnt-Kill-Made/dp/1785375296
Poem by Bella Hope Smith
October 4th, 2004, was a regular morning for Rachel Callaly, a mother and wife. She got her kids ready and dropped them off at school. But her journey back home would prove to be her last.
Social Media:
@mandgoggs email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com
Help:
thehotline.org women's aid
Sources:
https://www.dpbolvw.net/click-100872371-13261435?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.barnesandnoble.com%2Fw%2Fremembering-rachel-rose-callaly%2F1130591339%3Fean%3D9781844882205&cjsku=9781844882205 Remembering Rachel by Rose Callaly
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ea7i1DKe_xk faking it late late show interview
https://www.rte.ie/news/2007/0626/90522-oreillyr/ witness testimony
https://www.irishtimes.com/news/victim-s-brother-is-asked-about-cut-on-hand-1.1212698 - rachel’s half brother testimony
https://www.irishexaminer.com/news/arid-20037200.html - nikki pelley testimoney
https://www.irishexaminer.com/news/arid-30318742.html - texts between Nikki Pelley and Joe o Reilly
Welcome to a new side series called, 'Asking For It'. Here I will be telling stories of violence against women outside of the category of domestic abuse.
Today's episode is about Katie Piper who was viciously attacked by a man she was dating for only two weeks... but more horror was around the corner.
Sources:
'Beautiful' by Katie Piper (Purchase here: https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100872371-13261435?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.barnesandnoble.com%2Fw%2Fbeautiful-katie-piper%2F1102807994%3Fean%3D9781446406076&cjsku=9781446406076 )
Links:
Social media: @mandgoggs @ipvandmepodcast
Email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com
gofundme for Anthony o' Carroll : https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-anthony-his-parents-on-his-road-to-recovery?utm_source=copy_link&utm_medium=customer&utm_campaign=impact_sharesheet&attribution_id=sl:5137e955-76b2-4437-9614-fa0740a8b100
Mel B, otherwise known as Scary Spice, one-fifth of the bestselling girl group of all time, The Spice Girls. After a public humiliation by comedian and father of her child, Eddie Murphy, Mel found herself in a vulnerable position. Until along came a suave man called Stephen who would change her life forever...
Sources:
'Brutally Honest' by Melanie B:
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/brutally-honest-melanie-brown/1129066039?ean=9781787133525
https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/mel-bs-daughter-describes-mothers-abusive-relationship-ex-husband-stephen-belafonte-hear-fighting/
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10469233/Mel-Bs-daughter-Phoenix-22-relives-harrowing-moment-saw-mother-endure-domestic-abuse.html
https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/mel-bs-daughter-describes-mothers-abusive-relationship-ex-husband-stephen-belafonte-hear-fighting/
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10469233/Mel-Bs-daughter-Phoenix-22-relives-harrowing-moment-saw-mother-endure-domestic-abuse.html
Reach Out:
ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com Social Media: @mandgoggs
Help: thehotline.org
Mel B, otherwise known as Scary Spice, one-fifth of the bestselling girl group of all time, The Spice Girls. After a public humiliation by comedian and father of her child, Eddie Murphy, Mel found herself in a vulnerable position. Until along came a suave man called Stephen who would change her life forever...
(Apologies for the sound on this one guys! It's a little low. )
Sources:
'Brutally Honest' by Melanie B:
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/brutally-honest-melanie-brown/1129066039?ean=9781787133525
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3265976/mel-bs-flirty-sex-games-with-x-factor-co-star-cheryl-drove-husband-stephen-belafonte-into-total-rages-that-led-to-him-being-banned-from-studios/#:~:text=The%20pair's%20flirty%20antics%20led,The%20X%20Factor%20in%202014.&text=Sources%20say%20Cheryl%20played%20along,eventually%20banned%20from%20the%20studios.
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3138734/stephen-belafonte-mel-b-divorce-allegations-spice-girl/
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3290158/ex-lover-of-mel-bs-husband-stephen-belafonte-reveals-his-violent-evil-past/
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/7767480/mel-b-stephen-belafonte-beat-up-dog/
https://balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/mel-bs-daughter-describes-mothers-abusive-relationship-ex-husband-stephen-belafonte-hear-fighting/
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10469233/Mel-Bs-daughter-Phoenix-22-relives-harrowing-moment-saw-mother-endure-domestic-abuse.html
Reach Out:
ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com Social Media: @mandgoggs
Help: thehotline.org
We are finally back after an extended break! I missed you! On this week's episode, I discuss Victoria Ciller's story. Victoria met a man who was charming, loving and everything she ever wanted. But soon the lies started and a lot of things just weren't adding up. Then, Victoria had a horrific parachuting accident... or was it an accident?
Purchase I Survived by Victoria Cilliers here: https://www.jdoqocy.com/click-100872371-15777883
Instagram: @mandgoggs or @ipvandme
Email: ipvandmepodcast@gmail.com
Today's episode features my first guest: my little sister, Tamara! Today we tell the story of TV personality and former popstar Kerry Katona's lifelong journey with toxic men and focus particularly on her abusive relationship with her husband, George Kay.
Sources:
https://www.safehorizon.org/thethingswecarry/#:~:text=%E2%80%9CThe%20Things%20We%20Carry%2C%E2%80%9D,holding%20upon%20entering%20a%20Safe
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/2019/07/george-kay-died-broken-heart/
https://www.amazon.com/Kerry-Katona-Whole-Again/dp/1915306043/ref=sr_1_4?crid=3QZP8UK2WV5ES&keywords=kerry+katona+whole+again&qid=1698173960&sprefix=kerry+katona+whole+again%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-4
Socials:
@mandgoggs @ipvandme @tamaragoggin .
Help:
thehotline.org 800-799-7233
Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started? Part 2.Sources and Helpful Articles:The Sun Articles: https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/6159182/jk-rowling-genuinely-happy-johnny-depp-fantastic-beasts/ https://www.the-sun.com/news/1731157/johnny-depp-libel-case-wife-beater/UK Trial transcripts: https://www.nickwallis.com/depp-trial-court-transcriptsTwitter threads by user chateau bunny ‘:dismissing the lies against Heard: https://twitter.com/cocainecross/status/1665810099431149568Explosive evidence from the unsealed documents:https://twitter.com/cocainecross/status/1553508441796161537?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1553508441796161537%7Ctwgr%5E743c31774c7a3509e8a47ee181eedf959239c0b2%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.indy100.com%2Fcelebrities%2Fjohnny-depp-trial-recordshttps://twitter.com/cocainecross/status/1648516103033991169Amber’s Statement: https://www.instagram.com/p/CmWiuanLXPT/?img_index=1Amber Heard Open Letter: https://amberopenletter.com/How the unsealed documents backfired on Depp fans: https://www.indy100.com/celebrities/johnny-depp-trial-recordsEffect the case had on other survivors:https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/amber-heard-johnny-depp-verdict-metoo-trial-1361356/Unsealed documents: Documents
Everyone knows the media circus that was the Depp v. Heard trial. But did anyone truly listen to the evidence presented by Heard and her team or was it over for her before it even started?
Sources and Helpful Articles:
Amber’s 2018 piece for the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-02ed-11e9-b5df-5d3874f1ac36_story.html
A timeline of Heard and Depp’s relationship: https://www.insider.com/johnny-depp-amber-heard-relationship-timeline-2020-7#:~:text=In%20December%202018%2C%20Heard%20wrote,Post%20saying%20she%20was%20abused
Heard and Tasha van Rees alleged domestic assault incident: https://www.eonline.com/news/771257/amber-heard-s-ex-girlfriend-tasya-van-ree-speaks-out-following-domestic-abuse-allegations
Heard $7 million donation: https://people.com/movies/amber-heard-makes-7-figure-donation-childrens-hospital-after-johnny-depp-divorce/
Heard’s court documents filed in response to Depp’s defamation suit: /Amber Heard Motion to Dismiss - DocumentCloud
Why Depp wanted the case in Virginia: https://www.necn.com/entertainment/entertainment-news/why-is-the-johnny-depp-amber-heard-trial-in-virginia/2741123/
Safe and Sound Think PIece: https://safe-sound.org/learningcenter/one-more-amber-heard-and-johnny-depp-think-piece/
This week's episode features stories from everyday women taken from the book series #SheWins.Address Confidentiality Program - https://victimconnect.org/learn/address-confidentiality/Lovern’s website - https://lovelifenow.org/Alisa’s website: https://www.alisadivine.com/thehotline.orgSources:Books - https://amzn.to/3LEEUnV and https://amzn.to/427BKiW
Audrina Patridge is well known for her time on the smash hit reality show 'The Hills', but Audrina spent many years suffering abuse at the hands of her partner, Corey. This episode goes to show you never really know what's going on in a celebrity's personal life. .
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I had the pleasure of being interviewed recently for the wonderful domestic abuse awareness podcast, 'Peace Over Pieces'. Check it out here and let me know your thoughts! https://open.spotify.com/episode/2ccUiVI6QygedeojEAQrTE?si=e3ab874dfd3e48e6
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Sources:
Audrina’s memoir - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/choices-audrina-patridge/1140469331?ean=9781982183813
Call Her Daddy Episode - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0ecduYgZnHIkWPqQXg1sXk
This episode highlights the danger of leaving an abuser. This is the story of Claire and Charlotte, and the Hart family.Sources:Book written by Luke and Ryan Hart: https://amzn.to/3ofvk2xLuke’s letter to Ryan: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/luke-hart/brother-strength-saved-me_b_16145554.html?1492844010Luke and Ryan Hart’s website: https://www.cocoawareness.co.uk/
Tanya Selavaratnam suffered abuse at the hands of the former Attorney General of NY, Eric Schneiderman. In her memoir, 'Assume Nothing' she gives a harrowing account of the abuse and control she suffered.
Help:
https://www.thehotline.org/
Patreon:
https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/mandgoggs/?hl=en
Sources:
https://amzn.to/3WF6vc3 - Tanya’s book “Assume Nothing”
https://www.tanyaturnsup.com/bio-photos - Tanya’s website
Four Women Accuse New York’s Attorney General, Eric Schneiderman, of Physical Abuse | The New Yorker - article that broke the story
https://ag.ny.gov/press-release/2018/statement-attorney-general-eric-t-schneiderman - statement of resignation from Eric Schneiderman
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/10/06/opinion/sunday/eric-schneiderman-abuse.html - tanya’s op-ed in the ny times.
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/11/08/nyregion/eric-schneiderman-abuse-charges.html - madeline singas statement
Part 2 of the story of Hedda Nussbaum.
Sources:
https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619
https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary
https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair
https://vimeo.com/45276028 documentary
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5WqVneeWBM - documentary
https://amzn.to/3HkAUI1 Hedda’s book
https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership - Patreon
Hedda Nussbaum spent years being tortured and abused by her partner, Joel Steinberg. Little did she know it would end in the most horrendous thing any parent could go through.
Sources:
https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/grieving-sister-alleged-murder-victim-28865619
https://medium.com/@johnmarkgreenwriter/unstoppable-722c5cbe7d03
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CfwWV-XVuY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9halqAwG3rM&t=28s documentary
https://archive.vanityfair.com/article/1988/5/what-lisa-knew article from vanity fair
https://vimeo.com/45276028 documentary
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5WqVneeWBM - documentary
https://amzn.to/3HkAUI1 Hedda’s book
https://www.patreon.com/IPVandMe/membership - Patreon
The missing person case and subsequent murder of Gabby Petito became a social media sensation in 2021. Her fiance Brian Laundrie had returned from their trip without her and was refusing to talk to the police or Gabbie's family, but where was Gabbie?
Episode Sources:
Killing of Gabby Petito - Wikipedia
https://www.instagram.com/gabspetito/
Gabby Petito timeline: Everything we know about her disappearance
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCGsW41aQEw
https://abc7ny.com/gabby-petito-cassie-laundrie-family-speaks-sister-breaks-silence/11025914/
https://twitter.com/josephpetito/status/1439716307268739072?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1439716307268739072%7Ctwgr%5E666df44336dbc72ca4384447ba55bfa8b27a3587%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fabc7ny.com%2Fgabby-petito-disappearance-timeline-brian-laundrie%2F11024821%2F
https://abc7ny.com/gabby-petito-memorial-vigil-candles-blue-point/11049324/
https://abc7ny.com/brian-laundrie-parents-warrant-gabby-petito-case-updates/11054071/
https://www.wfla.com/news/sarasota-county/read-brian-laundries-notebook-confession-message-to-gabby-petito/
https://www.cnn.com/2022/06/24/us/laundrie-notebook-petito/index.html
https://www.peacocktv.com/watch/asset/tv/the-murder-of-gabby-petito-truth-lies-and-social-media/4bd675ef-fe13-37a7-bcef-afc00bcdb8c6?orig_ref=https://www.google.com/
Help:
800-799-7233
thehotline.org
text 'start' to 8878
This week's episode takes us to my home country, Ireland and is the devastating and brutal story of Nadine Lott. This one is particularly violent so listener discretion is advised.
Sources:
Nadine Lott's mother: 'We are haunted by her terror, fear, panic, cries'
https://www.irishmirror.ie/news/irish-news/nadine-lott-told-former-partner-24628380
Nadine’s body had 64 injuries - PressReader
https://www.independent.ie/irish-news/courts/murtagh-boasted-about-his-outburstsof-anger-40723899.html
https://www.the42.ie/nadine-lott/news/
https://www.irishexaminer.com/lifestyle-columnists/arid-40820133.html
https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=199421838961620
Taylor Armstrong is an OG Real Housewife of Beverly Hills. When the show first aired, little did the viewers know that her Stepford Wife's outer appearance was a ruse to hide the fact that her husband, Russell was brutally abusing her.
Sources: https://tidd.ly/3GTriSX Taylor's memoir.
Camille reveals Taylor's abuse on Real Housewives: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fL1qnfllUPo
This episode contains stories of intense physical violence, suicide and rape. Listener discretion is advised.
For help, please see thehotline.org or call 800.799.SAFE (7233)
Contact me on all social media platforms @mandgoggs links here: https://linktr.ee/MandGoggs
Taylor Armstrong is an OG Real Housewife of Beverly Hills. When the show first aired, little did the viewers know that her Stepford Wife's outer appearance was a ruse to hide the fact that her husband, Russell was brutally abusing her.
Sources: https://tidd.ly/3GTriSX Taylor's memoir.
Camille reveals Taylor's abuse on Real Housewives: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fL1qnfllUPo
This episode contains stories of intense physical violence, suicide and rape. Listener discretion is advised.
For help, please see thehotline.org or call 800.799.SAFE (7233)
Contact me on all social media platforms @mandgoggs links here: https://linktr.ee/MandGoggs
This concludes the story of Leslie Morgan Steiner.
Sources:
TEDTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/leslie_morgan_steiner_why_domestic_violence_victims_don_t_leave?language=en
Book:
https://tidd.ly/3EmKg2R
Welcome back for part 2 of the story of Leslie Morgan Steiner.
(Warning: Leslie's story is particularly violent at times.)
Sources:
TEDTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/leslie_morgan_steiner_why_domestic_violence_victims_don_t_leave?language=en
Book:
https://tidd.ly/3EmKg2R
This week I start Part 1 of the story of a true hero of mine. I have discussed Leslie Morgan Steiner on almost every episode of my show so far and thought it time I discuss her story and her wonderful book, 'Crazy Love'.
(Warning: Leslie's story is particularly violent at times and I also discuss some stories from my own life which may be triggering to some of you).
Sources:
TEDTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/leslie_morgan_steiner_why_domestic_violence_victims_don_t_leave?language=en
Book:
https://tidd.ly/3EmKg2R
This week I tell the story of Tina Turner's years of abuse at the hands of Ike Turner.
Sources:
‘I, Tina’ My Life Story Tina Turner with Kurt Loder book: https://tidd.ly/3udM8bi
Tina documentary HBO https://play.hbomax.com/page/urn:hbo:page:GYB2e7gq3xivCIgEAAAAb:type:feature
Links:
Rte article and show: Domestic abuse in Ireland - a year in crisis
https://www.rte.ie/player/movie/rt%C3%A9-investigates-domestic-abuse-a-year-of-crisis/259680296305
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandgoggs/?hl=en
Help:
Text 'start' to 88788
National domestic violence hotline 8007997233
This episode is dedicated to the memory of Ashling Murphy.
A slightly different episode this week as I try and process the senseless murder of Ashling and violence against women in general.
Sources: Picture of bike from Ashling Murphy investigation: https://www.rte.ie/news/ireland/2022/0117/1274155-ashling-murphy-investigation/
Facts about VAW https://reliefweb.int/report/world/16-shocking-facts-about-violence-against-women-and-girls
How to help end VAW https://www.unwomen.org/en/news/stories/2020/11/compilation-take-action-to-help-end-violence-against-women
Reach me on social media: @mandgoggs or @ipvandme
I'm finally back! This week I tell the story of Nicole Brown Simpson. One of the most infamous cases of DV and the biggest trial of all time.
Link to my article with Real Woman magazine: https://www.mydigitalpublication.com/publication/?m=52852&i=723499&p=66&ver=html5
Instagram: @IPVandMe @MandGoggs
Sources:
Documentary: OJ and Nicole: An American Tragedy. https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/morning-prayer-by-ogden-nash
https://www.voanews.com/a/usa_simpson-case-changed-how-america-sees-spousal-abuse/6169935.html
https://evergreenreview.com/read/in-memory-of-nicole-brown-simpson/
This week I talk about the murder of Shanann Watts and her children Cece and Bella by her husband Chris. A story that shook the world.
Sources: Netflix Documentary: https://www.netflix.com/search?q=family%20next%20door&jbv=81130130
https://www.insider.com/chris-watts-murder-timeline-2018-12
A reminder that October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month!
In this week's episode, I discuss the disappearance of Susan Cox Powell and the abuse she suffered at the hands of her husband, Josh.
Sources:
- https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/powells-story-cruelty-abuse-from-an-early-age/
- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disappearance_of_Susan_Powell
- https://truecrimetimesblog.medium.com/the-sordid-saga-of-josh-and-susan-powell-6fba6717b446
- https://www.susancoxpowellfoundation.net/about-susan/
- https://abcnews.go.com/US/inside-marriage-josh-susan-powell/story?id=15552031
- https://abcnews.go.com/US/powell-family-tragedy-timeline-events/story?id=15520239
- https://heavy.com/entertainment/2019/10/susan-cox-powell-disappearance-timeline/
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ElBY_mHsYjg (home video)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwTi_WDSkmo (Josh's ABC interview)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIyfp0u2R-Y (911 call)
Welcome back! This week I talk about the recovery process. It's a long road but you will get there.
Sources: VOCA fix act: https://www.congress.gov/bill/117th-congress/house-bill/1652
https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FLearning-How-to-Leave%2F9781838352707
https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visible-Bruises%2F9781912854851
https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FCrazy-Love%2F9780312377465
Welcome back to part 2 of 'Leaving'. This was recorded during a thunderstorm and flash flooding in NY so you may hear some rain and thunder in the background!
Sources: The Danger Assessment http://ncdsv.org/images/DANGERASSESSMENT.pdf
No Visible Bruises by Rachel Louise Snyder https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2Fsearch%3FsearchTerm%3Dno%2Bvisible%2Bbruises%26search%3DFind%2Bbook
The Hope Card https://dojmt.gov/victims/hope-cards/
Welcome back! This week is a two-parter as I have so much to say on the leaving process. Reach out to me on @IPVandMe on all social media platforms or my personal account on Instagram @MandGoggs. thehotline.org for help.
Sources:
New York Daily News Article: https://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/ny-wake-victim-crowbar-attack-20210623-pe46vwmsmfdvbebmuyuwveezgm-story.html
No Visible Bruises book: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visible-Bruises%2F9781912854851
Crazy Love Book: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FCrazy-Love%2F9780312377465
After the Silence Book: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FAfter-the-Silence%2F9781784298890
This week I talk about my experiences with physical abuse and how I was in denial until very recently about these incidents.
Sources: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/escalation/
https://www.harborhousewi.org/news/blog/they-never-hit-me/
Link to YouTube Documentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bw_yMvNxhEk
Link to purchase 'How to Leave' by Michael Padraig-Acton: https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FLearning-How-Leave-Michael-Padraig-Acton%2F9781838352707%3Fref%3Dgrid-view%26qid%3D1623872720776%26sr%3D1-2
In today's episode, I talk about the emotional and physical toll that abuse takes on your body. I speak about how I was constantly ill and how I did everything to I could to hide the abuse from family and friends.
Sources:
https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visible-Bruises-Rachel-Louise-Snyder%2F9781912854851%3Fref%3Dgrid-view%26qid%3D1623280477963%26sr%3D1-1
https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FCrazy-Love-Leslie-Morgan-Steiner%2F9780312377465%3Fref%3Dgrid-view%26qid%3D1623280530661%26sr%3D1-1
For help: www.thehotline.org
800 799 SAFE (7233)
Contact me: @IPVandMe on Instagram and Twitter.
Welcome back! And Happy Pride Month! June 1st also marks National Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day. In this weeks episode, I discuss my experiences with financial abuse; something which occurs in 99% of domestic violence relationships.
DM's always open @IPVandMe on Instagram and Twitter.
Contact the hotline.org for help or 800 799 SAFE.
For sources:
joinonelove.org,
https://theconversation.com/why-do-men-kill-their-families-heres-what-the-research-says-132314
https://www.ctpost.com/local/article/Family-annihilators-The-psychology-behind-14979910.php
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1167196/Revealed-Why-millionaire-Christopher-Foster-slaughtered-family.html
https://www.elizabethyardley.com/blog-1/the-case-of-jill-and-kirstie-foster-12-years-on-part-two
This week I discuss some common traits and tactics of abusers and give some more details of my experiences of abuse in the early days. Some stories may be triggering so please take care and take some time to ground yourself after listening.
Link to purchase 'No Visible Bruises' https://www.awin1.com/cread.php?awinmid=5487&awinaffid=879747&ued=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bookdepository.com%2FNo-Visible-Bruises-Rachel-Louise-Snyder%2F9781912854851%3Fref%3Dgrid-view%26qid%3D1621973958799%26sr%3D1-1
Link to Fabio D'Andrea's 'Love Should Not Hurt' starring Mel B https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6xWu4xaKTg&lc=z22chtejqxequjldzacdp43aamw1e2gxxexj4udaf4dw03c010c
For help contact thehotling.org
Instagram and Twitter @IPVandMe
This week on my very first full episode I speak about the early days of abusive relationships, how the abuser entraps their victims, and specifically 'love-bombing'.
If you or anyone you know needs help please contact TheHotline.org 1800.700.SAFE. Follow me on Instagram @IPVandMe.
Sources: www.healthline.com; Crazy Love by Leslie Morgan Steiner; No Visible Bruises by Rachel Louise Snyder.
Hi, and welcome to IPV and Me! This is an introductory episode where I tell you a little bit more about me (Amanda) and what you can expect from this podcast.