Have you ever wondered why it takes someone 6 weeks to reach their health goals while it takes others years to not even hit their health goals?
I'm Tom Shiyoya and I help people overcome their inner conflicts, self-sabotaging thoughts, and daily challenges so that they can unleash their full potential and live out the dream they truly deserve.
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Let's talk about our purpose. The WHY that gets us out of bed. The reason why we keep moving forward even when things are tough.
Something 90% of the population doesn’t do. It’s the simple plan to make you successful
We are so quick to point fingers. Have you ever asked yourself where we can start to make things right?
One thing that is killing most of us. Comparison, if you are doing this, you need to stop.
New year goals can be hard to achieve. The three things you need to put in place before you set your goals
5 types of people you need to avoid in 2022. Proximity is huge in achieving anything in life.
Keeping it real with you all. I am still greiving. December is the hardest time of the year for me. It hasn't been easy, but I want to share with you 3 things I do that has helped me.
Let's keep it real and reflect on our goals that we set for ourselves in 2021. How did it go?
Keeping it real and raw today. I want to share with you an important life lesson I discovered at my friend's funeral.
We have 2 more months until 2021 finishes. How are you feeling? Are you still waiting for everything to be perfect?
It has been a while since my last podcast and I want to share with you three factors to consider to get what you want in life.
As I sit here in my car, I felt inspired to share with you these 5 things that I believe will impact you in a positive way.
I was doing some self-reflection and was looking back at some key areas in my life. It got me asking, what makes me happy?
People always associate costs with money. However, the is a bigger cost that could be related to bigger and more impactful areas of your life. For instance, what is the cost of in-action?
A friend of mine walked in the other and I realize something was off. I picked up on his energy and the language he was speaking. All he saw was the bad things that were going on in his life and associated that to himself as a bad person. In reality, it couldn't be more further from the truth. I showed him what self-love is. Do you have self-love?
I was sitting here doing this podcast and something occurs to me. Instead of asking HOW can I do this, what if you ask yourself, WHO can help me do this. It is very important to do what you are good at and not force yourself to learn something that isn't in your natural nature.
I remember last year in 2020 when we were going through the Covid pandemic all of my gyms had to shut down. When we were allowed to re-opened we had to follow the government's new policy of having staff at the gym stay open. Going from 24 hours where members could tag themself in and not having to have staff there to having to have a staff to open the gym was a big shock. I found myself having to wake up at 3:30am in order to get my own workout and then be at the gym to open up for 5 am and come home at 10 pm. We have the ability to create more time.
I hear these words so much! I even catch myself saying it. But let's keep it real. Do we REALLY not know what to do? Or are we not willing to put in effort to learn what to do to take our lives to the next level?
I always get asked, "why are you so happy all the time?" I never thought about it too much until recently seeing so much sadness going around. I want to share with you my tips and techniques on how I find even more happiness in my life on a daily basis.
If something is working, would you change it? I want to share with you a different perspective on parents and kids and what I have noticed.
Did Roger Federer only practise his backhand once or did he practise thousands of times to master it? Consistency is key!
If you want to grow, if you want to succeed, if you want to get what you want, then you need to start getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. Growth is uncomfortable. So get use to being uncomfortable.
This happens to me all the time. I get asked, how can I look like you. I would give them my plan. My food plan, my workout plan every detail that got me to where I am. And they will always tell me, "I can't do that" or "that is too hard" or "do I really have to eat that". So let me ask you this, are you willing to sacrifice comfort and certainty so that you can grow and get what you want?
Most of the time we don't get where we want is because we don't have enough energy. When we don't have the energy we tend to say, "I don't have time", but the true reason is we don't have energy. We are too tired. So I want to share with you how you can create more energy and more time in your life today.
I am very blessed to have 2 countries to call my home. I am Australian and I am also Kenyan. Being fortunate enough to be exposed to 2 different cultures I believe we can learn a lot from one another. Today I want to share with you the 4 things I believe Kenya is better than other first world countries in.
A lot of us are very excited about the new year. We all want a fresh start. So how do we create the most out of a fresh start? I want to share with you how I do my goal setting every year.
This is a very common syndrome we all have including myself. I want to share with you a story on how to overcome this and live a more fulfilling life.
Someone reached out to me the other day and asked me what does it take to be successful. I want to share with you my top 5 things you need to be successful.
I want to share with you an important lesson that I learnt from a very special woman in my life. She was my mother and I have never forgotton what she taught me.
I want to share with you a story about my early days as a young African that just came to Perth, Western Australia, and my first experience as a personal trainer.
Have you heard of this before. Work on your weaknesses and turn that into your strength. It is something I use to struggle with as well. Now I see this completely differently.
I am always learning and growing. I have been very fortunate to attend a lot of weddings in the past but when I went to my good friend's wedding this weekend, I learnt something new and I wanted to share this with you.
When I first learnt about love language it changed my life completely. I didn't even know such a thing exisit. Once I learnt the languages everything started to make sense in my relationship.
A very interesting story I recently read about 2 groups of women who took part in an experiment. They were all given the same instructions and accept fo one small factor. That small factor ended being the reason why the results were so different.
It is amazing what you can learn and even more surprisingly who you can learn from. This stranger really helped me open my eyes.
One of my favourite things to do in catching up with my good friend, mentor and coach Cao Tran. I gain so much insight and wanted to share with you one of our conversation where we talk about resources and resourcefulness.
Who have you been spending your time with on daily basis? On a weekly basis? Even on a monthly basis? Are they adding to your life or taking away from your life? We don't realise how important our environment is and how much impact it has on our goals. When was the last time you did an audit on your surroundings?
Life is hard. I am sure you all heard this before. Let me tell you something, Life doesn't get any easier.
You just get stronger!
Whatever you are focussing on, that is where your energy is going! Whatever we feed grows. If you are focussing on negativity, guess what? Negativity will grow in your life. If you focus on positivity then more positive things will be showing up in your life. You choose!
A simple shift in meaning is all it takes for someone to take action or do nothing. It comes down to the meaning we give.
Some of us look at our health as an investment, some of us look at it as a cost.
How resilient are you? What you willing to do to achieve your desired goal?
If life doesn't go according to your plans will you just give up? Let's keep it real and talk about resilience!
Have you ever heard of the saying "I don't have time". I want to share you with a very funny story that you will be able to relate to and my definition of time. The story takes place in Africa and with my wife.