BFF: Black, Fat, Femme: Recent Episodes
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“The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black changemakers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.
This week the BFF's are doing a full episode of Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam. We talk about the things we love, the things people do that bring us joy, the things we can't STAND and the things we hope to never see or experience again. It's our house and we live here!
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This week we are joined by our favorite Goddess on the court, Emma "Dilemma" Belizario as we unpack the myths and misinformation shaping the conversation around trans athletes in sports. In our convo we move beyond headlines to explore what’s truly at stake for trans girls and women, why these narratives persist, and what trans athletes are actually asking for when they step onto the court. It’s a necessary conversation about equity, dignity, and why we need to protect all trans people's right to play.
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This week on the show, we welcome back to the show our good Judy Dominque Morgan to talk hyper visibility and the ways it impacts Black trans people. We also discuss the ways we get used by our peers for clicks and how (and why) we are lost without a coin, NIECE!
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This week the BFF’s explore how camp in film and television can unlock Black queer joy beyond stories of pain. Actor Marc Sully Saint-Fleur (Jury Duty, The Good Place) joins us to share how camp shapes his performances, fuels whimsy, and creates space for bold, authentic expression while balancing chaos, humor, and heart without falling into a stereotype.
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In this week's episode we are joined by researcher and author Dr. Terrell J.A. Winder for a powerful conversation on the intersections of identity, stigma, and self-worth among Black queer men in Los Angeles. Grounded in Terrell’s work, we explore the earliest moments many Black queer folks come to understand their bodies as “problems” and how those messages are shaped by institutions like churches, schools, healthcare systems, and everyday public life. We also talk about their new book "Shameless" and how we all can imagine new pathways toward healing and liberation.
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On this week’s episode of the Black Fat Femme Podcast, the BFF's sit down with multihyphenate creator Kalen Allen for a deep, tender, and hilarious conversation about life after the show. Kalen reflects on his rise, the industry’s response once the cameras stopped rolling, and what it’s taken to rebuild his career and sense of self beyond daytime TV.
Together, they unpack grief, rejection, and starting over, what it means to be Black, queer, and femme in entertainment, and why nuance is non‑negotiable when you’re telling the truth about power, pain, and joy online.
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This week the BFF's are joined by Black Women Taught Us award winningauthor, educator and scholar to discuss why we are in the mess we are in and why we need to listen to Black women the first time. We also get into why Cheesecake Factory needs to stop changing its menu and why we will always celebrate pride, even if this trash ass government tries to take it away.
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This week on Black Fat Femme, we’re joined by our good sis Simone Mariposa for a powerful conversation on divine embodiment—what it means to listen to your body, mind, and spirit in a world that constantly pulls us out of alignment. We break down how to get your internal “systems” working together, where to start if you feel disconnected, and how Simone’s lived experiences shape her approach to healing and self-awareness.
Plus, we talk Obama Library rollout and the Tyra Banks documentary drama while rolling our eyes, hard.
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We got one of People Magazine's "Sexiest Men Alive" - Brian Michael Smith - on Black Fat Femme this week, and we get into discussions about authentic trans narratives, wanting more mediocrity (?!?), and the power of tranformative storytelling.
From The L Word: Generation Q and 9-1-1: Lone Star, to his advocacy in film and television, Brian breaks down his journey from sports star to TV star while your favorite cohosts share their hot takes about parasocial relationships, being paid more for less, and some of the "hidden figures" in trans history.
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This week on Black Fat Femme, we sit down with the brilliant Ericka Hart to talk about their powerful new book Nasty Work—a deep dive into sex, power, and the labor of intimacy. We get into what it means to claim pleasure unapologetically, especially at the intersections of Blackness, queerness, and fatness.
We also unpack the politics of credibility in the Black community—who gets taken seriously and why—sparked by conversations around figures like Cheyenne Bryant, and how degrees shape (and distort) trust. And yes, we go there: a candid, hilarious, and pointed discussion on why straight people should absolutely be paying more during Pride
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This week your BFF's are hanging out with the creator of Club 1BD, DJ David and talking all things music. We discuss what it's like to see your dreams manifest, how music is holding us in this moment while asking the most important question, is R&B really dead?
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This week your BFF's talk all things fat with special guest Mx. Pucks A'Plenty. We share our ways of pushing back against the notion that skinny equates healthy, discuss our gripes with the world's obsession with GLP-1's (bombastic side eye to Mindy Kaling and Serena Williams) and introduce something new and a little spicy for the dolls.
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This week your BFF's are joined for a tipsy trip through Black pop culture and history with Brandon Collins, host and creator of "Drunk Black History". We quiz Brandon on the wild, joyful, and downright unbelievable stories he’s uncovered with Drunk Black History and discuss the "that can’t be real moments". We also ask the most important question to date: why is Mary J. Blige so made about them damn chicken wraps?
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This week’s the BFF's dive into the intersection of bodies, fashion, and music with model, cultural curator and now musician James Corbin. They explore how bigger Black queer bodies become sites of art, resistance, and joy, talk about what it means to feel "Supreme" while asking the question:
How are you celebrating the art that is your body?
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This week, we’re honoring the ones who raised us and loved us without restraint—while telling the truth about how complicated that love can be. From navigating queerness and identity to unpacking harm, growth, and grace, we reflect on what it takes to build real, evolving relationships with the women who raised us. We share stories of support, moments of tension, and the quiet work of understanding—while asking: what does it mean to celebrate a mother who is still learning how to love you fully? It’s tender, honest, and maybe something you’ll want to bring to therapy next week.
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On this weeks episode, we are joined by Danielle Young as we dive into the messy magic of 2000s media and how it shaped a generation’s relationship to storytelling, visibility, and critique. We talk “2000s starter pack,” revisit TV, music, tabloids, Myspace, and early YouTube while unpacking what that era taught them about being seen online as Black storytellers. We also reflect on how 2000s media still lives in our work today, what we refuses to replicate, and the “big Beyoncé note” she’d send to an industry that remains nostalgic for harmful narratives.
TW - SA is mentioned at 1:04:00.
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In this week’s episode, Jon and Joho sit down with Marquis the “Honey Bear,” for a conversation on visibility, creativity, and liberation. From bold fashion to viral, off-the-wall content, Marquis shares how he’s built a digital presence rooted in joy, style, and self-expression despite the pressures placed on Black, fat, queer bodies.
They also get into his relationship with the Bear identity—exploring desirability, sexuality, and what it means to feel sexy on your own terms. Playful, affirming, and just a little messy, this episode is all about showing up fully and having fun while doing it.
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This week Jon and Joho sit down with writer and comedian Guy Branumfor a powerful and hilarious conversation about the role of comedy as survival for queer folks. From turning trauma into punchlines to reclaiming joy in spaces not built for us, this episode dives deep into how humor becomes both a defense mechanism and a transformative tool. Guy opens up about his journey toward self-acceptance, using wit to challenge cis-normativity and anti-queer culture, and writing scenes that bring fat and queer representation to the forefront and a reminder that sometimes surviving means being funny — even when it hurts.
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What happens when men — cisgender and gender non-conforming — finally get honest about their bodies? This week, Jon and Joho sit down with Ronald Young Jr. to unpack body image, masculinity, and what healing really looks like in a cultural moment that feels like a 90s throwback. From childhood messaging to inner voice work, this conversation goes deep on body neutrality, self-acceptance, and the labor of unlearning toxic narratives. If you've ever been in a complicated relationship with your own skin, this episode is for you.
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What does it mean to be Black, gay, and free — all over the world?
This week, Jon and Joho sit down with Nick, creator of Black, Gay, and Abroad, to talk Black gay travel, safety, and storytelling. From MTV and BuzzFeed to building his own agency and passport-stamping his way across Spain, France, Mexico, Costa Rica, and beyond — Nick is redefining what it looks like to move through the world as a Black gay man.
We get into his iconic Yasss to Naur solo travel safety list, the art of long-form travel blogging in a short-form world, and why he went live from Puerto Vallarta during the El Mencho operation to counter the media narrative with truth on the ground.
Travel tips, queer joy, and citizen journalism — this episode has all of it.
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This week on B.F.F.: Black Fat Femme Podcast, Joho and Jon are joined by Tre'vell Anderson & Ray Love Jr. from the Seated Podcast for a deep dive into the Black moviegoing experience. Coming off the chaos of award season, the trio gets real about how Black and queer audiences find joy, connection, and meaning in cinema — even as Hollywood’s marketing still caters to whiteness and heteronormativity. From theater call-and-response moments to the rise of streaming culture, they explore what it would look like if Black, queer, and trans perspectives were treated as the default rather than the exception.
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In celebration of Women’s History Month, Joho and Jon dedicate this week’s episode to the Black trans women whose courage and brilliance helped shape movements for civil rights, LGBTQ+ justice, and social liberation — yet whose names are too often left out of mainstream narratives. Through stories of Frances Thompson, Lucy Hicks Anderson, and Mary Jones, this episode shines a light on resilience, survival, and truth-telling across centuries of systemic harm.
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This week, we’re joined by the hilarious and brilliant Nicole Daniels! Jon and Joho sit down for a deep (and very funny) chat about how real life inspires Nicole’s unforgettable characters—from the overly earnest craft store lady to the nonprofit boss we all know too well—and what it takes to make comedy look effortless. They dig into the creative process, queerness in comedy, and how Nicole stays grounded while balancing her own identity with the ones she performs.
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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Nina Parker to talk what it means to set boundaries in the workplace (and in your life), talking about the missing recipes in today's media and why we all should be thinking BIG.
YOU GOTTA THINK BIG BITCH!
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This week your BFF's unpack the thing we all can't stop talking about - yes, Netflix’s “America’s Next Top Model: Reality Check” documentary. We discuss our thoughts about the doc, Tyra's coat and why Tyra ain't the only one guilty in all of this. Plus, we discuss Grindr's new jab (get it?) at GLP-1's and why we all should have a problem with it.
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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Christopher Griffin AKA Plant Queen to get into the Category of growth, ask What's Poppin' with the Benito Bowl and holler Yes Ma'am to all the good news happening for trans youth in Southern California.
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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by Kevin Ortega-Rojas to discuss the Don Lemon of it all, why we should be concerned for journalism and why we need to keep holding all these media platforms accountable for what they do (and don't do). We also talk Grammys, Black History being made at the Grammys and why Benito is having the best year ever.
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This week Jon & Joho dive into a conversation about state‑sanctioned violence, body suppression, and the ways racism, fatphobia, and transphobia shape our everyday lives. The dolls also unpack ICE’s deadliest year, the war on marginalized bodies, the messy race dynamics on The Traitors, and Kanye West’s Wall Street Journal sad ass apology.
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the Black Fat Femme Podcast, Jon and Joho are fresh off the conference circuit and asking a simple but radical question: what does it actually look like to put yourself first when the world keeps telling fat people to shrink?
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This week you BFF's are joined by Scott Turner Schofield thriving in a dying industry (entertainment) and what it means to become a man in 127 steps. We also get into a conversation knowing to when to put up or shut up and why we are all sick of automated drive-thru (yes, we are looking at you Burger King).
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This week you BFF's are joined by the grandiose David Brandyn to talk everything Red Light Special. The dolls talk sexual education (and mis-education), the perfect playlist for getting it on and why will continue to scream "F**K ICE" until we can't scream it no more!
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This week your BFF's revisit our sit down with the one & only Bunny McKensie Mack to dish around why we should be paying more attention to A.I, where to get the best food in Cali & Chicago and how (and why) liberation doesn't start with a pride flag.
Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.
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This week your BFF's are on holiday vacation, but we didn't want to leave you without a little joy to bring into your new year. This week we are celebrating a year of Yes Ma'am (and no Ma'am Pam) to remind y'all to find joy whenever and wherever you can.
We will be back with new episodes on January 10th, 2026.
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This week (before they take a two week holiday break), your BFF's go a little deeper into a discussion of why the "New Year, New Me" mentality is a scheme the Todd set up and why we want our good sis to get off them damn NYE 2026 steps. We also rate what we believe are the best moments of 2025 and send a message to the HotGaysTM.
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This week on the show, your BFF's talk Cash Money taking over for the 99 & the 2000's, the Netflix/Warner Brother merger (big yikes) and why we love Jasmine Crockett - and why some of you need to be more like her.
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This week the BFF's are joined by Krystina Arielle to talk storytelling, the power of Black imagination and why we all cheered when that house fell on Nessarose. We also ask the important question - why do I have to pay for parking if I already paid for my hotel stay?
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This week is a the crossover episode you didn't know you needed. We are joined by Kris and Shana of the Bad Queer Podcast where we talk the origin story of our show, the love + lessons in their friendship, the success of their show, Jonathan’s book Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself, a surprise Loretta Devine stud reveal, their Bad Queer Opinions, and the nastiness online they brush off.
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This week your BFF’s discuss the complicated dance of activism and capitalism, why we need to bring begging back to R&B, shout out the 95 Pinto and talk why companies need to pay contractors on time.
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This week, we are joined by the mommas of all mommas, Jessica Rose of She Really Had a Baby. We discuss reframing parenthood through an equitable lens, why celebrity won't save us and why the Louvre needs better security.
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This week your BFF’s discuss the joy that is Zohran Mamdani, hope, give kudos to the state of Mississippi and talk about why we are both so tired of xenophobia. We also tell certain celebs why they need to close their racist a$$ traps!
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This week, we are joined by the hilarious Tyreak Told You live, loud and in color from NYC. The dolls talk about moments they want to relive, events from 2025 that need to stay in 2025 and why flying out of JFK is NUTS.
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This week your BFF’s dive into the obsession America has with dating shows, talk about who is the real underrated queer horror icon (just in time for Halloween) and discuss why our problematic fave might just be having the best year ever.
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This week, the BFF's welcome Kristian A. Smith to the third seat to talk about the difference between church hurt & religious trauma. We also pay our respects to legends (rest well D'Angelo) and talk about why we are sick of people heckling Kamala.
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This week your BFF’s dive into what Black shows from yesteryear made them feel the most seen, talk about why we love Bad Bunny and ask the million dollar question: who did the casting on this season of "Love is Blind"?
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This week your BFF’s aren’t just talking about coming out, but we answer the more important question - what is life like after you do? Both host drop life lessons, important pieces of advice and remind you of why loving yourself out loud is the perfect way to celebrate LGBTQ History Month 2025.
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This week your besties are joined by the iconic social media doll DeAndré Upshaw to talk all things pop nostalgia, what iconic 2000's items we miss and get down to the bottom of the important question, "which Black queer person was in Sister Act 2"?
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This week your besties are joined by legendary food critic Tim Chantarangsu to talk food, family and the importance of a good meal. We also do a tribute to "Send Foodz" because you know the dolls love to eat and put each of y'all on.
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This week your besties are joined by our favorite cousin jarrett hill to break down the Jussie Smollett Netflix documentary. We also get into Black sub-culture and talk Labubu price gouging.
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This week your besties are joined by the Kang of digital content - the one who keeps the content live, loud and in color, Chris Rodgers. On the show this week: a discussion about why we are sick and tired of being sick and tired as millennials. Chris also gives PayPal the stern talking too they deserve.
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This week the BFF’s are joined by Mandi Woodruff (AKA Mandi Money) of the Brown Ambition Podcast to discuss adulting, finances and why we should all be demanding a raise in this economy. We also send our love to those who need it most while reminding y'all that you can love your body at any time and any size.
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This week the BFF's talk taking up space, why "The Biggest Loser" doc is one of the worst docs we have seen in a long time and why Amanda Seales will always be better than us because...yeah.
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This week the BFF's are joined by cultural practitioner & curator Twiggy Pucci Garçon to discuss what it means to serve, why we must fight to keep preserving our history and why we are over homophobic and transphobic conversations related to the red dress run. You can add fatphobia to that conversation, too.
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This week the BFF's are joined by your favorite healer and empath Jeffrey Marsh to talk more about how we can counter those terribly awful thoughts in our heads and a more inclusive praxis to speaking kinder to ourselves. We also give Cheesecake Factory an earful for taking away something that all has brought us so much joy. Nasty work indeed.
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This week the BFF's have an important and timely conversation on burn out with our favorite doctor nurses, Dr. James Q. Simmons. The dolls talk warning signs, the importance of listening to your body and why it's so important to not let "get to the bag" culture drive you to the emergency room.
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This week your BFF's chat RPDR & fat-phobia, bad choices and how the devil thinks she's the fifth member of Destiny's Child.
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This week the BFF's are graced by the legendary Dashaun Wesley (Pose, Legendary) to talk ball culture, how to get your 10's and why it's important to know the history of ballroom before you use ballroom language. Now clock THAT tea.
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This week we welcome Virr to the show to discuss artist we wish got more shine, how their identity inspires their music and what lyrics we have always gotten wrong in songs. Did we also mention we play a round of song association and give Joho their flowers for being named San Diego's Business Journals Leaders of influences.
Applause, a round of APPLAUSE!
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This week, your BFFs sink their teeth into the blockbuster film, Sinners, by Ryan Coogler, and share how the movie has impacted how they see themselves (and how Annie is the true hero of the story). Then, we get into what the moviegoing experience means to us.
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This week your bff's talk about the power of prayer, hop into their Iyanla bag (I wonder how she's doing) while confronting generational curses and discuss the best and WORST places to eat (since we both live out of a suitcase).
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This week we welcome our favorite final girls, Kim and Ket from "Kim and Ket Stay Alive...Maybe" podcast for a mid-summer horror kiki. We talk weapons of survival, Michael Meyers getting in his ring steps and our favorite /not so favorite horror franchises. Jon also throws flowers at Los Angeles Parking Patrol.
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This week we welcome scholar, activist and movement maker Tigress Osborn on to discuss fat advancement, policy and why we all should care more about inclusion - even when it's not sexy. We also remix the last segment and discuss why we love our bodies exactly the way they are.
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This week your BFF's kick it with therapist & healer Emely Rumble to talk discuss why literature can be healing and why it's so important to jot down your story. We also discuss east coast/west coast vibes and scream, "F*** ICE" from the top of our lungs.
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This week your kick off pride month celebrating queer history, discuss what's at stake for our queer youth and what words of affirmation we have for those who are scared of what the future might look like. We also examine whether Joho might just be a native New Yorker.
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2023 LGBTQ+ Youth Report
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This week your bffs break down what it means to be gender expansive in a world that is constantly trying to keep us trapped in the binary. We also talk our love for Taco Bell and why folks need to mind their business when folks say they don't partake in alcohol.
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This week your bffs talk about what they have learned from being in the Beyhive, the struggles that marginalized people have to ignore perfection and the impact it has on Black youth. We also talk about why Sofi has the WORST layout ever and why you too should be rejecting the tariffs.
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This week your BFFs get into their tech bag and discuss how tech has changed their lives as they’ve grown up and the realness of Black Mirror (why it gotta be Black?!). We also discuss why we hate self check out.
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This week the BFF's talk to the stylish and ever etherial Danali Joël about Black art, Black influence and why people need to keep their thoughts and opinions on religion to themselves. Amen?
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This week your BFF's are joined by your favorite's fave Star Amerasu to talk being a digital girl in a digital world and why we all want to make space Gayle King & Katy Perry's permanent home.
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This week your BFF's dive into a conversation about faith, spirituality, the easter bunny (we know we late) and yarmulkes. Grab you a cup of the blood of Christ before Joho drinks it all!
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This week, your BFF's talk Rupaul Drag Race Season 17, why drag is so important in this climate and who truly deserves to be in the top 4.
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This week, Joho flips the script on Doctor Jon Paul, and puts them in the hot seat to talk alllll about their book, "Black, Fat, Femme: Revealing the Power of Visibly Queer Voices in Media and Learning to Love Yourself." Also, Joho has some words for furniture makers!
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This week your BFF's are joined by Marie-Adélina (Loveable Trans Auntie) to talk all things trans joy, visibility and why we need to uplift the trans community now more than ever. We also dabble into Jordan's Taco Bell obsession.
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This week your BFF's are joined by the queen Goddess Latrice Mtha Fckin' Royale - A house fave contestant of Rupaul's Drag Race and We're Here fame - to talk he legacy in drag, what it was like to be asked to write a foreword on a book and why the book is so important and needed now.
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Originally released March 20, 2023.
This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven.
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This week your BFF's chat with Marcy Guevara-Prete about sizism, fat fashion and why The Plus Bus is so much more than just a boutique. We also get into a conversation about forgiveness and why we are gonna need to offer more grace to those in community, especially now.
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This week your BFF's link with the illustrious Bay Davis to talk being Black 365, why we need to redefine community (yes we go there) and why we are so thankful to be Black, fat, femmes.
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This week your BFF's share their thoughts about living in (not-so-always-sunny) SoCal and what things folks need to consider when they tell BFF's that they will be "fine" in this climate, considering all the things we are up against. We also revisit the topic of authenticity and talk openly about why we need to stop telling folks NOT to be scared.
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This week your BFF's continue to celebrate Black History Month by talking to our favorite accomplice Jessica Marie Garcia about why, now more than ever - we have to work in solidarity to get free. We also talk about the true meaning of farm-to-table and why in 2025, we don't need another thinking piece.
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This week your BFF's celebrate Black history by hanging out with the one and only Jade & XD (Jade & XD/Gettin' Grown) to talk about both our favorite Black history moments and our favorite Black history anthems. We also give the cold and the horns in NYC their flowers.
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This week your BFF's dive a bit deeper into the DEI conversation, while touching on a much needed conversation around capitalism and asking the question, "Can capitalism ever be equitable?" We also get into why Bojangles (didn't) hit in Las Vegas and why people need to walk their dogs on a leash.
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This week, the BFFs are getting silly! We talking about some of our favorite historically Black phrases (see, what happened was...we got inspired by our good judys). Catch the phrases that move our spirit as we talk about how having McDonald's money has healed our inner children. Also, Joho rants about why One of Them Days is a must-see movie.
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Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality.
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Happy 2025! This week we discuss the wild ride that is already 2025, forgiveness and how folks can navigate ideation (we have added a chapter for Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam so you can skip). In addition, we also discuss the SoCal fires and why we are done with Influencers.
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Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!
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Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas!
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Hey BFF's! Yes we've reached the final episode of the year. We asked you all to share your favorite moments and we mashed them all together to give you all the high's (and lows) that made you chuckle.
Black Fat Femme will return with new episodes Tuesday, January 14th, 2025.
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This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole.
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On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and Archie: The Podcast host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more.
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This week your BFF's talk Black telekinesis, what makes A.A.V.E. (African American Vernacular English) so special and how we plan to stop being so hard on ourselves in 2025 - because honestly, life is already hard enough.
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This week on the show your BFF's invite LEGEND Miss Lawrence to the mic to talk self preservation during the holidays, standing on BIG business and how we plan to fix our plates for turkey day, sans Christopher Columbus.
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This week on the show your BFF's invite our new sister to the show, Anania, to talk top and bottom of the crop bops, art as resistance and why we really need to keep praying to the ancestors for guidance at this time in history.
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In this week's episode, Jon and Joho break down their reactions to the election, and explore the role toxic masculinity may have played in its outcome. Also, your faves talk about the best candies, and knocking down transphobes.
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This week on the rewind, listen to one of our favorite episodes with the iconic and super funny Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you for making our show what it continues to be.
We will be back with all new episodes next week. 😁
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This week your BFF's get political and talk about direct implications of trans bills and California propositions. We also discuss why folks need to leave earlier for the airport.
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This week your BFF's are rejoined by our good Judy Mayhem Miller as we discuss the ever-iconic and ever-relevant Paris is Burning! We also dive into our beauty secrets, and Joho got a salacious no ma'am pam tell-all.
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This week your BFF's talk the vulnerability of coming out, the problems we have with Netflix's "Love is Blind" show and why we all need to move with more audacity.
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This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!
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This week your BFF's share their thoughts on conferences, the new hit Hulu Show, "How to Die Alone" and why Chappell Roan needs a chaperone.
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This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas!
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This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by Darren & Esther from the Second Sunday to chat the difference between being spiritual vs. religious, how one get's over religious trauma and why Jesus and Michelle have the same meaning.
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This week the BFF's talk about the thing that every millennial can relate to - parenting the parent. We also talk things our parents said to us when we were younger (that we now get as adults) and why Jon might actually like Sade.
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This week your BFFs invite the incomprehensible Bebe Soft on to talk about life, finding love for yourself while in transition and how fun it can be to deconstruct gender and identity expectations on the internet.
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This week, the BFFs do a deep dive into activism, how Black folks are sometimes made to be activists without their permission, and how we are actually doing ENOUGH. We also get into last week’s DNC and Joho gives his mama a special shoutout.
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This week your BFF's dive into a nuanced conversation on why each of us are the sh*t and what it has taken us to get there and why sometimes you gotta believe it to achieve it.
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This week your BFF's talk the anniversary of #FadeintheWater (Montgomery Riverfront Brawl 2024), Colorism and why ANYTHING is better than Panda Express.
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This week your BFF's talk adulting, things that feel racist and the name that's on EVERYONE's tongue - our good sis COMMA - LA (Kamala).
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This week your BFF's are joined in the third seat by returning guest Cheyenne M. Davis to ask the question, Am I the A$$hole (AITA)? We also go back to our roots and talk controversial food takes - which you know we love to do.
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This week your BFF's talk being Woke AF with the phenomenal Danielle Moodie as well as discuss why we might not want Britney Spears in our home. An episode that is both salient and silly.
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Originally Recorded January 2023
In honor of our dear sister, T.S. Madison, who was recently crowned as the LOGO LEGEND, we wanted to rewind and share this special episode with y'all. We kiki with T.S. about her life, her career (and how she's used it to further her activism) and why you sometimes have to just scream, F UM!*
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This week your BFF's dive into a robust conversation about politics (we know, we know) with our favorite pundit Richard Fowler and dispel many of the myths Black people when it comes to voting. Also, we discuss why this year's election is more important than ever.
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This week your BFF's kiki with revolutionary drag activist Ms. Amber St. James about why drag is a form of liberation for Black queer people - and why it's so important for us to remember Black drag queens of yesteryear who made drag herstory.
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This week your BFF's link with TAGG Magazine Editor-in-Chief Sondra Rose Marie to talk freedom songs, being a sapphic creator and why you should still be listening to "Cowboy Carter".
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This week your BFF's dive into a conversation on fears (both real and irrational), why fear exists in our minds and what we can all do to find peace with the things we might be afraid of. We also give the dolls their things for creating music that will get us through this hot ass summer.
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This week your BFF's celebrate both Pride AND their 100th episode with none other than the illustrious editor of greatness Chris Rodgers. We dive head first into a whole episode of "What's Poppin'" and suit up to protect Dolly Parton.
It's an episode you don't want to miss!
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This week, BFF brings you the audio from our "Pride or Die" live show recorded on 5/25 at the Media Pollution studios. Listen as we chat about what we love & hate about horror and what we wish we saw more of in the genre.
It really was an amazing time and we thank Horror in Color for inviting us.
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This week the B.F.F.'s talk with the studious & intellectual Dr. T.J. Tallie about navigating the in's and out's of academia as a minoritized person. We also give unsolicited advice about whether or not you should sign up for that masters or doctorate degree - especially in THIS economy.
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This week, the BFF's are joined by the incomparable D.J. Amorphous to talk about the power of words, speaking things into existence and the question we all have: what it was like to work with Beyus H. Christ.
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This week, the BFF's are joined by the one and only CeCe Telfer to talk about what we all can do to help trans athletes get to the olympics. We also talk about being uppity and why so many people hate leftovers.
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This week, the BFF's are joined by the one and only Keah Brown, creator of the hashtag #DisabledandCute to celebrate the episode you've all been asking us for - a deep dive into our favorite white people sh*t (an ode to Jade & XD if you will).
We talk tv, music and pop culture moments - and give Hilary Duff her flowers for ending homophobia, in that order.
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This week your BFF's discuss the definition of "pretty" and what how conventions of attraction shape friendship, relationships and how you feel about yourself. We also discuss the historical importance of buffets & why the world hasn't been the same since Sweet Tomatoes went out of business.
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Adulting is hard - so this week your BFF's clue you in to how they have navigated their financial wins (and losses), all while taking pride in having a big back.
We promise it will all make sense when you're done listening.
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The sad but true fact is that people often judge you on likability. This week, we dive into a conversation around what we are coining as, "The Likability Factor" and why so much of it is rooted in misogynoir and femmephobia.
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Y'all know we had to do it! This week we say "howdy" to Cowboy Carter and talk all about the album, its significance, and its impact. Yeehaw!
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This week your BFF's sit down with the one & only Bunny McKensie Mack to dish around why we should be paying more attention to A.I, where to get the best food in Cali & Chicago and how (and why) liberation doesn't start with a pride flag.
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This week we are replaying an episode that had us on the FLOOR. We talk with Laci Mosley about being a recovering people pleaser, why sometimes you gotta let your nail tech go and how you can return things from Amazon at Kohl's.
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This week your bffs discuss the difference between anger & rage and how we navigate both emotions in a time where everything feels heavy while also asking the same question we are all asking - WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THESE PLANES?
Article we referenced:
On James Baldwin and Black Rage by Myisha Cherry
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This week we joined by the dopest Black girl on the internet to talk about tech of yesteryear, what we are doing to disconnect and the importance of being well while in digital spaces.
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This week your bffs discuss some of their favorite words and do a bit of a break down around the word "queer" and what it means to you, the listener!
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This week we chat with the incomparable Angelica Ross and expound on the obsession that cis-gender people have with queer people, while also exploring activism, allyship and advocacy.
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This week your bffs discuss what it means to be the "gay cousin", what you need to look out for when seeking a therapist and why we should ALL be apart of the yeehaw agenda.
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This week we talk Seasonal Affective Disorder, #FFFFFF mediocrity and what it means to hold ourselves accountable.
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This week we begin Black History Month by talking about the USA Today article about the importance of Aunties and Othermothers to LGBTQ+ people, along with a pop culture moment (per a listener request) centered on Drag Race S16.
You know how DoctorJonPaul feels.
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This week Jon & Joho chat about the magic that lives in queer spaces (and the fear of them disappearing) along with why every city should have a Hamburger Mary's.
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We're back! This week Jon and Joho discuss intentional weight loss, the difference between “health” and “desirability,” and what prioritizing wellness really looks like for Black, fat, femmes.
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Originally recording January 2023.
This week, Jon & Joho talk with super producer Joelle Monique about the traps of new year's resolutions, how to set yourself for success in the new year, why Krispy Kreme is a scam and how sick and tired they are of NOT being verified on Instagram.
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This week we give 2023 the yes ma'am/no ma'am treatment. Special shout out to those who sent letters and offered their own YM & NMP for the show.
Thank you for listening and we see at the top of 2024.
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This week we talk about community, adulting and how so much has changed for Black, fat, femmes since gas was a $1.
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We're excited to sit down this week with icon, legend, and activist Ashlee Marie Preston, as we talk about change, engaging in our political cycle for our rights, and the snacks that need comebacks.
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This week we discuss how we navigate our emotions (and wallet) during the holiday season and what we like (and hate) about holiday foods.
The article Jon mentions about navigating family during the holidays
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This week we chat with Dr. Sami Schalk about the impacts that the pandemic has had on our hearts and bodies while also diving in deeper into the hatred the world has for our favorite chains - yes you guessed it: The Cheesecake Factory and Olive Garden.
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To celebrate National Trans Awareness week, we (intentionally) chat with Movement Lawyer + Political Commentator Olayemi Olurin about the importance of cisgender people using their platform to uplift the voices of Black trans women - and why Black trans women shouldn't always have to be the ones to speak up for their rights.
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This week we celebrate the inaugural "BFF Experience" live show with our friends Shar Jossell, Xavier D'Leau & Tre'vell Anderson. We also celebrate the gift that is fried chicken.
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This week we are joined by the ultra-talented YawnyBlew to discuss how revolutionary it is to create in spaces you often don't see yourself in, the art we love and why we are SICK and TIRED of scammers.
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This week we chat with the wonderful accidental activist Franchesca Ramsey about her the highs and lows of speaking truth to power on social media, what she would fix about the 2000's and the karma Jon got for laughing at Android users.
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This week we chat body with the iconic Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you who made it out to our live show!
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This week we chat with Raquel about self affirmations, the risk we all navigate when becoming our authentic selves and how we are sick and tired of getting robbed by Beyoncé.
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This week we chat affirmations, why "Kokomo City" should be at the top of your list to watch and why we all should have beef with Delta's new frequent flyer program rules.
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This week we chat about the ways in which the world is obsessed with Black (and queer) culture without actually being connected to Black (and queer) people.
Also, why we need to uplift those who are out here speaking truth to power.
Here’s some information about Black queer people's mental health.
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This week we discuss things we appreciate more now that we are older, how to remain a good person in what can often feel like a very, very, very, VERY terrible world and why we are tired of being nickeled and dimed to death by corporations.
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This week we talk about getting to (and staying) in your happy place, moving up the corporate ladder and why Beyonce's "Renaissance" tour is for Black queer people and Black queer people ONLY.
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This week we talk respectability politics, the authentic complications we wish we got to see around Black queer characters in television and film and why we all need to be putting our mask back on!
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This week we get learned some Hip-Hop feminism, discuss some of our favorite Black rappers, and the best hood snacks.
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This week we dabble with what revelations we have had this year (so far), what our big gay agenda is and why we are SO EXCITED for pumpkin spice season.
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This week we dabble with why we LOVE being Black and queer, the right way to handle accountability and why we need to forgive ourselves in the process of forgiving others.
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This week we talk about why we love being Black, the struggles that come with being Black + fat while flying, why we need to keep saying O'Shea Sibley's name and why aliens are our friends.
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This week we talk about the best in media, why folks (i.e. comedians) needs to be more careful with their platforms and how BFF's can navigate a world that is often always so very disappointing.
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Listen up, BFF fans!
Shondaland Audio and iHeartPodcasts have some exciting news, The Laverne Cox Show is back for season two. Get a spiritual makeover each week as actress and activist Laverne Cox goes with her guests. We think you'll want to hear this season, but don't just take our word for it. Check out the trailer and decide for yourself!
About the podcast: Years ago, a therapist said in our very first session that there are only two things that we can truly control in our lives - our own perception and our own behavior. That's it. Nothing more than that. Each week, The Laverne Cox Show will feature intimate conversations with folks who help me to see and think differently so that maybe I can act differently. It is my hope that this becomes a place that fosters perspectives that might inspire new behavior in each of us, which in turn gets us closer to becoming the very best versions of ourselves. Let's have a spiritual makeover together.
Listen to season 2 of The Laverne Cox Show starting July 27th on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts!
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This week, we FINALLY give y'all the Drag Race episode you've been asking for, specifically name our favorite Black drag queens of yesterday and today (rest well Chi-Chi!), talk Tik-Tok snacks and pride conspiracy theories.
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This week we celebrate 50 years of hip-hop (again) by talking about the good, the bad AND the queer, discuss rejection (edges SNATCHED) and why we deserve at least one more album from Rihanna. We will be back next week with another all new episode
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This week we sit down with creator Michael Rice to discuss the exploitation of Black queer bodies, when we feel most authentic and why America's got a true problem.
Trigger Warning - Discussion of drug usage - for those who might want to skip this weeks "Category Is" section because of the discussion of chem sex, you can fast forward to 51:19. Keep in mind that this is not an episode shaming those who use drugs - but a conversation about how Black queer bodies are exploited through drug usage.
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This week we sit down with TV Producer and writer of the amazing book, "My Government Means to Kill Me" to discuss why it is so important for BFF's to use their voice intentionally - specifically in times like now where the government is actively using any means to take it away.
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This week we get into a (closing Pride) conversation about growth, why we need to change our outlooks on activism and why this Pride season is giving Great Value over Up & Up overall. IYKYK.
IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST!
OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here.
“Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme, Apple Podcasts' Spotlight pick for June 2023. “Our show does that.” Paul is joined on the mic by co-host and friend Jordan Daniels. Both are experienced storytellers, creatives, and social justice educators. They launched the podcast one year ago and since then, BFF has become a beacon of light for folks who feel their voices don’t matter. “I want them to laugh fully, feel part of our conversations, and nourished,” says Daniels. BFF tackles heavy topics but Paul says, “90% of the time we’re cracking jokes and celebrating our intersections.” “I love making this show because we get to express all pieces of ourselves, share it with the world, and create a space for our BFFs to exist alongside us,” says Daniels. “This show is for them as much as it is for us. I hope listeners take away a whole list of fascinating and incredible people that they can follow, connect with, and learn from!” says Daniels.
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This week we get into a conversation about why we love being Black, accountability around fat-phobia and if oatmeal can be savory.
IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST!
OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here.
“Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme, Apple Podcasts' Spotlight pick for June 2023. “Our show does that.” Paul is joined on the mic by co-host and friend Jordan Daniels. Both are experienced storytellers, creatives, and social justice educators. They launched the podcast one year ago and since then, BFF has become a beacon of light for folks who feel their voices don’t matter. “I want them to laugh fully, feel part of our conversations, and nourished,” says Daniels. BFF tackles heavy topics but Paul says, “90% of the time we’re cracking jokes and celebrating our intersections.” “I love making this show because we get to express all pieces of ourselves, share it with the world, and create a space for our BFFs to exist alongside us,” says Daniels. “This show is for them as much as it is for us. I hope listeners take away a whole list of fascinating and incredible people that they can follow, connect with, and learn from!” says Daniels.
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This week discuss the idea of what it means to be a "mean queen" and projection.
IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST!
OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here.
“Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF: Black, Fat, Femme, Apple Podcasts' Spotlight pick for June 2023. “Our show does that.” Paul is joined on the mic by co-host and friend Jordan Daniels. Both are experienced storytellers, creatives, and social justice educators. They launched the podcast one year ago and since then, BFF has become a beacon of light for folks who feel their voices don’t matter. “I want them to laugh fully, feel part of our conversations, and nourished,” says Daniels. BFF tackles heavy topics but Paul says, “90% of the time we’re cracking jokes and celebrating our intersections.” “I love making this show because we get to express all pieces of ourselves, share it with the world, and create a space for our BFFs to exist alongside us,” says Daniels. “This show is for them as much as it is for us. I hope listeners take away a whole list of fascinating and incredible people that they can follow, connect with, and learn from!” says Daniels.
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This week we chop it up with the incomparable Amber Abundance about how Black Fat Femmes can make "abundance" a mindset, navigating intergenerational healing and why Target shouldn't be the standard for pride merch.
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This week we get into a deeper dive around Pride Month, how to celebrate it without being problematic and how to support the movement - now more than ever.
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This week Jon & Joho are traveling, but they didn't want to leave you without a beat to step to! Enjoy a quick kiki as they talk about all the mess that is pop culture.
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This week we welcome one of the baddest, Cheyenne M. Davis, to the show to talk about pleasure in all its forms, media representation both on screen and behind the scenes, and the oppression still caused today by that bag Carrie gave Louise in the SATC movie.
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This week we talk about what truly defines legendary status, the range of anti-blackness in our community, and how it's ALREADY MAY.
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This week we welcome the one and only Laci Mosley to talk about being a recovering people pleaser, why sometimes you gotta let your nail tech go and how you can return things from Amazon at Kohl's.
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This week we welcome the one and only Dirty Lola to discuss the ways we are relearning love from a queer lens and how we can continue to love ourselves, even when love doesn't seem to love us the way we want to be loved.
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This week we discuss the wave of anti-trans and anti-queer legislation (we reference VOX in this episode) and what you can do to help the community.
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This week talking about what it means to be seen, ideation & suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again.
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This week we chat with Dr. Torie Weiston-Serdan about the power of mentoring, why more Black queer youth need mentors and what we can learn from them in the fight against systematic oppression.
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This week, we come to you LIVE and in living color for this special episode recorded in February at Irvine Valley College where we talked with the Office of Student Equity about the show, our BFF experiences, and how to twirl on them haters!
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This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven.
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This week we get into the history (and appropriation) of ball culture, the need for chosen family and why we hate the people who love us but never want to help us.
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This week we talk about the body, what products we love and hate and why people (yes those people) need to stop sexualizing the trans experience.
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This week, we talk with the one and only Aurielle Marie about manifestation, how we continue to be our ancestors' wildest dreams, why we all need a little more support these days and why Florida AND the NYT's can go straight to hell with gasoline drawers.
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This week, we celebrate 50 years of hip-hop by talking about the queer influence, discuss rejection and why we deserve one more album from Rihanna.
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This week, we talk with the one and only Jimanekia Eborn about the journey to self love, the struggles that can come with loving yourself radically and why Girl Scout cookies should come in a multi-pack.
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This week we talk about the ups and downs of being fat in public, our love for brown bread and why the Grammys are a scam.
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This week we get into a very nuanced conversation around the multitudes of layers that is interracial dating, how tired we are of Black pain and why Jon is ready to turn Wendy's upside down.
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This week we kiki with the one, the only - living legend T.S. Madison about her life, her career (and how she's used it to further her activism) and why you sometimes have to just scream, F UM!*
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This week, we take a peek behind the curtain to talk with our show's editor about how they got started in the biz and what they have learned as a creator up to this point. We also talk about what's on our plate for the year and how we hope to feel!
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This week, Jon & Joho talk with super producer Joelle Monique about the traps of new year's resolutions, how to set yourself for success in the new year, why Krispy Kreme is a scam and how sick and tired they are of NOT being verified on Instagram.
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This week, we talk with our good Judy Dr. James Simmons about our health, how to navigate all the challenges COVID has offered us and why it is so important for each of us to give ourself grace as we enter the new year.
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If you didn't get a chance to hear them all in 2022 - don't worry, we've got you covered. Catch all new episodes of the BFF show in 2023!
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This week we chat with the incomparable Dominique Morgan about equity, justice and why Black queer people deserve so much more than what we are given.
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This week we chat with poet, performer, advocate and activist Kelsey Daniel about the importance of reclaiming the space that you so rightfully deserve as a Black fat femme!
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This week we chat with the one and only Sis (Oklahoma, American Horror Story) about her journey and why Black fat femmes deserve the whole cake and nothing but the cake!
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This week we hang out with the life of the party, Ms. Mayhem Miller - and get into a discussion about how we are not just resilient, but relentless!
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This week the amazing, talented & EMMY WINNING writer (did we forget to say icon?) Ryan Ken drops by the show to talk about the joys of being non-binary while Black, safety and why folks need to stop appropriating AAVE.
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This week we talk with Jewish writer, educator, culinary historian - and let's not forget to mention TIME100 Next 2022 baddy - about why cooking is so close to the heart of Black, fat and queer people.
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This week Jon & Joho get into the hateration and holleration that is navigating family dynamics, how to disengage from toxicity, and why it's best to leave certain chapters closed.
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In a super early and TIMELY episode of BFF we talk to Odessa Kelly about her run for congress, the power of our vote and why it's so important for marginalized people to get to polls this Tuesday - quick, fast and in a hurry!
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This we talk candidly about what it's like to be a Black Fat Femme content creator, why we don't go up for people who put down those who love Olive Garden or Cheesecake Factory and why we think some stans are fatphobic.
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This week we dive into a deep convo about friendship (the good, bad and the ugly) and why you can't make a safe space in an unsafe place.
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This week we get into a conversation about fat icons and why you too should be paying them homage.
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This week we get into a conversation about the work that goes into manifesting & what makes us worthy with our new BFF's Tracy & Cara - the OFFICIAL hosts of the @RedTableTalk podcast - Let's Red Table That. Trust us when we say that this is the episode that you didn't know you needed.
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This week, we get into the nuances of words, specifically the fear that people have around saying words like "Black" and "Fat".
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This week, we talk candidly about rejection, redirection and how to keep going in a world that wasn't built for us.
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This week, we get into a conversation about what it's like to be the "other" in the workplace with our guest, Jade & X.D. - and why sometimes you have to throw a hamburger at somebody to maintain a boundary.
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This week, we dive head first into a conversation on religion and how the film, "Honk for Jesus" challenges the complexities of spirituality.
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This week is a 2 for 1 special! Our sister's from "Fanti" drop by to talk about why we are all tired of the word "allyship" and why change requires action.
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This week we talk being a rebel, what it means to be a disruptor and why everyone should be over the status quo with the one and only, Clarkisha Kent!
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This week we talk about being a work in progress with Armand Fields from the hit shows, "Work in Progress" & "Queer As Folk"!
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This week we discuss why every body is a good body, body positivity vs. body (fat) liberation and why candy corn is good.
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This week we dive into the topic of digital activism and the ways it helps Black Fat Femmes attain the equity they deserve!
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This week we dive into the topic of creating the content you want you see, what we would say to our teenage self and most importantly: Beyoncé's "Renaissance".
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This week we talk being fat in fashion with the one and only Ryan Mitchell (TheSlayGawd).
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In this week's episode, we get real about the lies we have been fed about masculinity.
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On what is our FIRST episode, we get real about living at the intersections of Black, Fat and Femme and what it means to not just survive, but thrive.
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“The B.F.F. Podcast” gives voice to two of the leading queer, fat and Black change makers while calling in the world to examine and understand what it means to love oneself unapologetically - in a world where loving oneself often feels impossible.
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