Àwùjọ Wa (Our Society): Recent Episodes
Adejumo Barakat
We need to give our society the attention needed. Things are turning upside down and decaying as a result of negativities and atrocities.
Shouldn't we be more concerned about solving societal issues, knowing so well that the future of these young kids is important to the development of our society.
We need to take positive action in tackling societal issues! Be it family matters, education, economy, health, security and more. All these are the target of this podcast. We discuss all these issues & proffer recommendations.
I'm Barakat Adejumo I'm on a journey to make the world a better place.
The #Nigeria Economy is not just affecting our businesses. It is killing the ideas of young #entrepreneurs.
Hi!You're welcome to another episode of Àwùjo Wa. This is an interview with Dr. M O Adebiyi, a lecturer, Political Science Department, University of Ilorin.
Welcome to another episode of Àwùjo Wa.Here is an interview with Dr Kolawole Tosin, a Resident Doctor, Department of Microbiology and Parasitology, University of Unilorin Teaching Hospital.
Economic Recession in Nigeria is disquieting. Should food be a capital project? Why so much discomfort?
This episode is an interview withDr Olaleke Folaranmi Bsc, MBBS, FWACP (Anat.Path)Consultant Anatomic Pathologist, UITH We discussed Common Forms of Cancer, the risk factors/causes, the solutions and prevention.
As a man, why you'd prefer your wife to be a full housewife and as a lady why would you choose to be a full housewife? As a female, don't make the mistake of accepting a full housewife if you are career-focused! The regret and tears won't wipe on time.
A Date with Dr Adebola Balakare, HOD Political Science, university of IlorinDiscussing the State of the Nation.
A date with Dr Mrs Olasehinde Betty and Mrs Tawakalt AbdulAzeez on the show Awujo Wa. How do we contract #Aids #HIV? How do we manage it?
Here's an interview with Dr Olayide Agodirin, He's a Consultant General, Breast and Laparoscopic Surgeon at University of Ilorin Teaching Hospital. Also a Professor of Surgery (General Surgery)University of Ilorin. We discussed "Comprehensive Approaches to Breast Cancer: Prevention, Treatment, and Promising Advances in Finding a Cure"#breastcancer #cancer #awareness #health
The more we move from nature the more we move to grave.One of the best things to practice is learning more about our health. Our lifestyle is the major thing that affects our health.How amazing I got tested through my fingers to know about my eye defect.I thought it was magic but no, I got to know it's about knowledge and experience.I marvelled because we practised what we discussed on the show right in the studio. Without prescribing drugs, she did what is called Therapeutic Analgesic for my colleague in the studio who complained of a headache and quickly, sent a message to the brain through his fingers to relieve him from the headache. 😀I got some tips on how to boost the brain 😊 something so easy that I can do every day which I'd never thought of.Jokingly, I asked if the doctor could detect if someone has infection through the palms and she made me realise it's possible to some extent.I had a Date with Dr Mrs Rukayat Agbaje this morning on the show Awujo Wa. We discussed the Metaphysics and Epistemology of Pain in Acupuncture It was worth it to host such an amazing skilled Acupunturist. 😊Let me give you a synopsis of what Acupuncture is.Acupuncture is a traditional Chinese medical practice that has been used for thousands of years to treat various health conditions, including pain.Highlight of some points we discussed: 1. What Acupuncture is all about.2. How acupuncture theory explains the metaphysical nature of pain and its relationship to the body's energy channel.3. The Western philosophy of pain is often viewed as a subjective experience. How does the perspective align and differ from the traditional Chinese view of pain in acupuncture? 4. The role of Qi and vital energy play in the metaphysical understanding of pain within the acupuncture theory.5. How does acupuncture's approach to maintaining pain management contrast with modern Western medicine's understanding of pain and its treatment.Here is a take-home. 😊Water should be taken according to body weight and not just anyhow for the fact that too much of everything is dangerous. Plus, we drink sipping and not gulping water anyhow.The older we get the more our body feels to reject taking water! We have to force ourselves to do so. Breakfast should be taken before 7am while dinner should be taken 6pm-7pm, at least, 3 hours before sleep to avoid malfunctioning of the organ. High blood pressure patients are prone to not heal on time if they continue to have late dinner.Not using the restroom is not a sign of a good immune system 🙄 as my Yoruba people would say (Ara mí rán) I wish I could interpret that in English. 😀😀For individuals considering acupuncture for pain management, it's advisable to consult with a licensed acupuncturist and discuss how this traditional practice may complement or be integrated with conventional medical approaches.Listening to the show may interest you. 😊 Barakat Adejumo🌹#medicine #traditionalmedicine #chinese #nigeria #health #life #tips
Challenges and Perspectives for Older Mothers and Addressing Ill Parenting of New Mothers
Here's an interview with. Sulaimon Lekan Gadaff
In commemorating International Youth Day on Saturday, 12th August, I hosted one of the useful Youths here in Kwara State
Our focus is "Empowering Youth Voices: Shaping a Resilient Future"
What do you need to know about my guest? He is,
Immediate past Special Assistant to Kwara state Governor on Youth Empowerment
Director of Youth Mobilization for Kwara Central 2023 election for Senator Saliu Mustafa (APC)
ECOWAS regional youth Ambassador. (Inducted into Hall of Fame 2021)
Ilorin Emirate leader of the new skool (Seyidu Shabab)
Youth personality of the year 2023 by the Kwara state students union leadership
Do enjoy the conversation.
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This episode is tagged Anthrax Unmasked: Understanding the Threat, Spreading Awareness and Promoting Public Safety
Anthrax is a zoonotic disease and this interview explains it all.
health #anthrax #Nigeria
Hi, welcome. This is an interview with Dr. M. O Adebiyi. Discussing Removal of Fuel Subsidy in Nigeria: An Economic Necessity and Political Dilemma
Hi... You are welcome to this episode on the show Awujo Wa (Our Society), It was a great time hosting Dr Femi ArindeSenior Registrar, Gastroenterology and Hepatology Unit, Department of MedicineUniversity of Ilorin Teaching Hospital. We discussed Peptic Ulcer As A Disease: Myths, Facts, Symptoms And Preventive Measures 🌹 Fo well to enjoy and learn. #health #medicine #ulcer #learning #
You are welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa (Our Society ) , this episode is an interview with Barr. Hayyatullah, discussed The Position Of The Executive Orders And The Supreme Court Rulings; The New Naira Note Scarcity As a case study. Many brouhahas are caused by the issue of new notes scarcity, including the fact that the supreme court has given an order for the money to be a legal tender, yet, the executive order has been on standby conflicting with the supreme court order.
Hi, you are welcome to another episode of AwujoWa (Our Society). This episode is an interview with Barr. Ali Toyin Smart, discussing The 2023 General Election in Nigeria: Examining the Issues, Challenges, Successes and Lessons for Future General Elections #Inec did a great job and we appreciate that. Same as security agencies in all states.
Hi... You are welcome to another episode of AwujoWa (Our Society). The discussion was centred on Voter Apathy in Electioneering: The Perspectives, Effects and Panacea. Do well to listen and enjoy!
Hi... You're welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa. 🌹 This episode is an interview with Dr. Bello Kabir Yesbit , a lecturer from university of Ilorin. We discussed the State Of The Nation And National Development. Do well to listen and enjoy.
Hey! You're welcome to another episode of AwujoWa. This episode is a discussion with Dr. M.O Adebiyi on The Impact Of Enaira On The Economic Growth Of Nigeria.
Hi... You're welcome to another episode of Awujo wa. This episode is an interview with two experienced teachers. Mr. Ibrahim Sikiru and Mr. Shola Ojelade , discussing Teachers' Conditions Of Service And Teachers' Commitment. Enjoy it !
Good Morning, you're welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa. This episode is an interview with Mr. Abdullahi Toyin. The discussion was on The Role Of Youth In Nation Building And The Credibility Of The Electoral Process. Do enjoy it!
You're welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa. This episode is an interview with Barrister Abdullateef Lanre Abdullah discussing The Increase In Divorce And Separation Amongst Newly Married Couples: Causes And Possible Way Out. #Marriage #love #intimacy #divorce
Hi, you're welcome! Today's show is focused on Policing: Ethical Issues in Law Enforcement, Leading To Loss of Public's Trust and Unsecured Society. With SP. Ajayi Okasanmi. Get to know more about the notion "Police is your friend"
There is ability in disability. They are so special and endowed only if our society give them the chance to live up to their potential. Here is another episode of Awujo wa, an interview with Mrs. Joy Bolarin, discussing Inclusive Society For People With Special Needs
You're welcome to another episode on Awujo wa (Our Society). This episode is focused on the Rights of both parties in a marriage. Barr. AbdulHameed Hayatullah was our guest on the show.
You are welcome to another episode of Awujo wa (Our Society). This episode is an interview with Mr. Owoade AbdurRahman. The discussion is on The Know-how of Utilizing Leisure Time For Health and Community Development Service
According to WHO, About 422 million people worldwide have diabetes, and 1.5 million deaths are directly attributed to diabetes each year.Factually, diabetes kills more than cancer as a result of low advocacy and societal perspective of diabetes.There are lots of myths that people feed themselves on diabetes.1. Diabetes is caused by eating too much sugar. The fact is, diabetes isn't only caused by sugar but also by some other factors such as too much cigarette consumption, alcohol, and genetics. 2. Diabetes only affects people with obesity. The fact is, diabetes doesn't only affect obese people but they are at high risk of it. 3. Another myth is type 2 diabetes is 'mild' diabetes.Fact: There are four types of diabetes, and they can all be managed if presented for treatment early. Yesterday, On Awujo Wa, it was a privilege to host Dr Nasiru SANNI, A Consultant Physician and Endocrinologist, University of Ilorin Teaching Hospital. He's a Member of Diabetes Association of Nigeria, Also a Member of Endocrine and Metabolism Society of Nigeria.We discussed extensively Diabetes; Myths, Facts, and Prevention. High lists of points discussed are:1. What is diabetes? 2. The types of diabetes. 3. The symptoms of diabetes4. How can it be diagnosed? 5. The myths and facts about diabetes. 6. The precautionary measures to fight against diabetes. 7. Societal perspective and reaction to diabetes. 8. Treatment of diabetes. Diabetes can live in an individual for up to 10 years without knowing. That's why it's important to get tested and be sure. Additionally, regular checkups are encouraged.#diabetes #health #radioshow
Sexual intimacy is important and meant to be enjoyed by both parties. If the woman is not enjoying the sex, there must be a reason behind it. It could be due to genital mutilation. Much harm is done in the process. Traditionally, it is believed that circumcision will prevent a female from promiscuity. And is that truly the case?
A story of a career woman who is 40 and never got the time to take care of her kids, nanny does everything.
She drops the children off with neighbors most of the time.
When she returns probably at 8 pm she picks them up, One of the children was raped and bullied, and she never knew.
The girl started having affairs with men and had already committed 2 abortions at 16.
The husband is filing for divorce, the fact that the woman's priority should be the children and not her job.
The woman came out to say, she was ready to live her dream life and not give up.
She wants her career over her husband. Who is at fault? Who can we address as a career woman. Good Day! You're welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa( Our Society ). Our society has become worse in parenting and how can we help out? Women have to work just to support their husbands. Then, how can we maintain a balance?
You are welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa. This session is themed Inclusion Of Women In Governance (Politics and Leadership). It is a great honor to host the Honorable Commissioner for Women Affairs, Kwara State. Dr. Risikatullahi Mopelola
Hello! You're welcome to another episode of Awujo Wa (Our Society). This episode is to celebrate World Stroke Day which is done every 29tj of October. In this episode, you'll get to know what stroke is, its causes, signs, prevention, and management of stroke victims. Enjoy it! #WorldStrokeDay #health #stroke #
Hi... You're welcome. 😊 This episode talks about The High Prevalence of Hepatitis B Virus: The Symptoms, Complications and The Medical Intervention and the Guest is Mlsct Muhammed Olaitan Hamzah (BMLS; AMLSCN) .
Hey! You're welcome. 🥰 Here's a session discussing How to Leverage National Youth Service for Sustainable Development. Should NYSC be scrapped or reviewed?
You're welcome! You're about to listen to a recording of a live session addressing the Effects Of Dollar Rise On Nigeria's Economy. The guest is Mallam Sikiru Issa Nuhu, A lecturer,Department of Business and Entrepreneurship, Kwara state university. Some of the points discussed are listed below: Effect of Dollar Rise on Nigeria's Economy
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Why is the US dollar being used as a central currency for foreign exchange?
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How is the economy of a country determined with respect to foreign exchange?
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What factor determine the strengthening of Dollar against Naira and fall of Naira against Dollar?
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What effect does Importation of goods have on the foreign exchange- Naira to Dollar?
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What measures can be taken to ensure Naira rises against Dollar?
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Can we achieve market control? How?
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Is there a future in establishing here in Nigeria considering the tax rate? Enjoy it as you listen 🥰. #Nigeria #economy #Dollar #Naira #country #Importation #Exports
You are welcome to another episode on Awujo Wa ( Our Society). This is a recording session of a live radio program discussing Literacy: Poor Foundational Learning Consequence on Nigerian Children, and The Panacea.
Hi, You're about to listen to a recording session of a radio live program on Awujo wa. This episode is an interview with Olusegun Abiola, the Project Director of KwaraLEARN and Segun Sanusi, School Project Supervisor of KwaraLEARN. The theme of discussion is Steering Technology Towards The Advancement of Primary and Secondary Education: Its Employability, The Impact and The Role of KwaraLEARN. Enjoy it! It's all about #Education #Technology #Schools #Children #Future.
Here's a recording session discussing Birth Control (Ìfètòsomobíbí)
Myths and Misconception with a medical practitioner.
A recorded session of a live program discussing Child Trafficking: Its Effects on The Society and Impact of The Government in Curbing The Menace. The federal government and state government agencies responsible for kicking against child trafficking were the guests.
A recorded live session, discussing Education: Today's Ignorance, the Freedom of Now, and In Future.
This is a record of a live session discussing ASUU Strike: ASUU's Demands, The Government, The Students and The Society.
Our society is decaying as a result of our unconcerned attitude toward many menaces. Drug abuse is one of them.
A live program discussing 21st Century Education And The Digital/Technology Era: The Societal Impact, Implications And The Panacea. On the show, we discussed: 1. 21st Century Education and technology?
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What are the challenges of the Education sector in Nigeria?
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How do the challenges affect our children?
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How has technology affected education positively and negatively, and by extension, society?
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What's the societal perception of the use of technology?
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How can these problems be solved?
Advice as an experienced educationist, to teachers, learners, and parents on the use of technology. #education #technology #parents #children #21stcentury
How much are we concerned about beggars, children hawking on street. It's saddening when people see beggars as people who can be given alms in exchange for their destiny.
How much are we concerned about street children? The rate has increased to 18.5millionare according to UNICEF.
Some of us are majorly concerned about giving them 20 Naira, or 50 Naira, as much as can afford at present. For how long will that save them?
Yes, some beggars are millionaires in the business. You can say that, but is it all of them?
Ain't we worried about the future of these street kids?
Some children hawk whilst their mates are in the classroom learning.
Some drop out of school as a result of poverty and turned into street kids.
HSKI has been doing a great job in reshaping the future of these street kids.
It would be a blessing if we can have more hands on deck to help the street kids, not just to feed them but to secure their future and eradicate having children on the streets.
It'll amaze you to know that the beggars (AlMajiri) have a king in their turf, whose order is the final.
It draws one's jaw to hear about the 33years old woman (beggar) that has given birth to 15kids!
Why do you think they give birth to many children? 😂 get to know by listening to the audio.
On the show today, discussing The Street Children: Education and Our Society. Some of the things we discussed include:
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Who can we call a street kid?
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How does Society affect street kids/children?
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What are the causes of the rising numbers of street kids/children?
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What are the impacts of organizations in solving the problems of the street kids/children?
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What policies or programs have the government made to eradicate the challenge?
Advice to the parents and society, recommendations to government.
I profoundly appreciate Mrs. Funmi Omisope for joining us on the show this morning. 🥰
You can listen to the show here.
Impact the world, Take positive actions, I'm on the journey to impact lives, make the world better and the future brighter.
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Whenever we are told, we are malaria positive or diagnosed with fever or any kind of disease, first thing is to say " Olohun Onije, orimo ko" (God Forbid, over my dead body) 😂
It's just funny! Should we say, it's ignorance or what?
When health practitioners observed or diagnosed and give out their results, some would not return to such clinic or hospital, then started praying and paying traditionalists.
Same in the scenario, When the new mother noticed something in the neonate, such as yellowness of the eyes instead of going to the hospital to confirm and get treatment at an early stage, the grandma could say "the baby will be fine, you can't know more than me, I nurtured your husband or father... Blabla.
More reason we have to pay attention to our health issues before and after marriage.
Genotype, blood group and rhesus factor should be thoroughly checked for compatibility.
Yesterday, we discussed Neonatal Jaundice, which is a disease that affects neonates and could lead to brain damage. It's about the yellowness of the eyes that's ignored by people and it destroys the baby's brain so the child develops long-term complications like mental retardation, paralysis, etc and such child later turns to be abandoned without adequate care.
Some of them, become special needs children and, sadly, there are no adequate facilities to take care of them in our society today.
It was said that, if an incompatible blood group should have a baby, this disease could affect the child.
Same as Rhesus status.
It's said to be prevented right from the pregnancy stage and immediately after birth when confirmed to be what's affecting the child.
As a society, what's our role here, Firstly, ensure pregnant women around you go for antenatal as expected in a standard hospital.
Secondly, when anything seems to be wrong with a child, let's encourage the parents to visit the hospital without delay.
Thirdly, before getting married, advise singles and new couples to check their blood group and rhesus factor. If not compatible, medical practitioners would ensure the baby and mother are fine by giving the best treatment and guidance.
I heartily appreciate my guest, Ms. Najeebah Arikewuyo, It was a great experience with her. 😊
Why not listen to the full version of the program? 🥰
Know more about Neonatal Jaundice. 🌹 #experience #society #health
neonatalcare #family #motherhoo #stage #people #Radioshow #ignorance #babies
From research carried out here in Ilorin, 70% of parents are guilty of child favoritism.
Now, what if we do that across all states and see the statistics of affected homes.
Child favoritism could be intentional and unintentional as gotten from research.
Many unstable adults out there, would turn out to be aggressive people because they lack parental love, and in one way or the other were victims of child favoritism.
Loving a child is natural, but make it loving your children! Including the adopted child(ren) in your care.
It was said that parents can have a favorite from the children but shouldn't be placed on the forehead.
It will not only affect the favorite child, it'll affect the whole family, the society and the final result will bounce back on the parents.
Child favoritism has no positive impact but rather builds hatred, enmity, jealousy, and the gap between the parent and family.
Some parents tend to have the first born as their favorite child, while some choose their favorite due to how smart and intellectually blessed the child is, which should never be.
When a parent punishes a child now and the favorite child did the same thing, such would be overlooked! Why?
This alone affects the self-esteem of a child!
The favourite child mostly turns out to be a spoilt brat! And misbehave in society because they see themselves as the champion over other children in the family.
Only those who knew that their lives are at stake and did some self-reflection will break this bond and make other children in the family not have him/her as an enemy.
As a parent, what's the way out? As a society, what are we doing to curb this?
You and I, what impact have we made to stop this and help the victims?
I so much enjoyed the program with my Guest, Mrs. Ariyo Mariam M. On the show Awujo Wa.
It was a great experience!
You should listen to the Audio 🥰
Awujo wa always comes up every Saturday, on O.fm 92.5 at exactly 7am. 🥰.
Barakat Adejumo 🌹#family #society #children #favoritism #life #parents
A recorded radio show. Who are you before marriage? Who did you choose as your partner? All these are the foundation of responsible parenting.
Parenting starts when you decide to choose your spouse, became one, get pregnant and expect the baby.
It's seen as child abuse when children who are supposed to be in school are served responsibilities of hawking to feed the family, as this could lead to rape cases and even the male child can start having bad gangs, smoking, drinking and keeping bad company.
As a parent, you failed if you are not able to provide the three basic needs; Food, shelter and cloth, for your child(ren). And it should be known that part of your responsibilities is to give security and education.
Both formal and informal.
Parents should stop pushing all the responsibilities of their parenthood to teachers!
Parents are the first teacher, They are life models.
I'm glad one of our audience asked our guest her view on social media usage and the use of smartphones by these teenagers and youth.
I can't give you all the full details, this is just the synopsis of it. 😊
You should listen to the full discussion on the Responsibilities of Parents in society Development.
Learn and Relearn!
Remember, the goal is to live the world better than we met it. Our tomorrow must be better than today.
Listen to the recorded version, give your contribution and look forward to another amazing session next week.
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A child testified that he would have turned out to be a miscreant/thug, if not for the beating and punishment he got from his parents.
Another child developed a hatred for her mother as a result of memories of the beating she had from her.
Today on the program Àwùjọ wa (Our Society), we discussed Disciplinary Measures in child upbringing: should beating be condoned?
As both guests were not on the same page, it was an engaging moment with them.
I believe in beating, I don't believe in beating, as both guests give their lines and did justice to the topic.
Extensively we discussed if beating instills morals, corrects a child or instill fear in a child and should it be condoned as disciplinary measures.
Likewise, the psychological effect of beating on a child.
It saddens that some parents reign curses on their children whenever they offend them and engage in throwing tantrums, beating a child with sharp or harmful objects, we urge parents to put a halt to this, as their children are their future.
Here's the recorded version. Listen to their opinion on the best way to correct a child, aside from beating.
I believe all parents need sensitization and counseling sessions on parenthood as we are raising society and not a single child.
As I am on the journey to make our society better, do your part, Let's make the world a better place than we met it by taking positive impactful actions.
Àwùjọ wa
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"She talks too much, I can't cope in such a relationship, we aren't compatible".
"He's too quiet, it means he's dangerous and just pretending to be a calm man, I can't marry such a man".
Why shouldn't I talk freely insight of whom I called a lover? I asked, if being talkative is a red flag in a relationship or not?
Is it every quiet person that hides their true color to get a man or woman?
What if it's their nature? What if she loves engaging in meaningful conversation and not chitchat.
We should know, in a relationship what you viewed to be a red flag might be something that gives another person joy.
Nevertheless, let us try to make a balance and be more tolerant. It is like some people to be quiet not being pretentious.
Communication is good but too much of it might turn to some turning else.
Talk and act moderately. Why not listen to today's podcast to have the full gist. 🥰
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Love is blind as they say, but I say love is not blind. We humans just decide to turn a blind eye to some important things in our relationship. Red flags would have been showcasing and drifting but we claim to be in love and act as blind to it also claim to change our partner after marriage! The question is "Would it change after marriage?" What I take or opine to be a red flag in my relationship might not be a red flag for you. I don't club nor take alcohol if I meet someone who's into all sorts that means it's a red flag for me! Anyways... I took my time to discuss this in my latest podcast called #Redflags take your time to listen to it. Finally, don't die in silence .... If it's not working walk away. What you think would change after marriage might actually grow beyond your control if not controlled at the foundation stage.
Ladies find it so difficult to express themselves to the man they love, thinking such a man would take advantage of them! Before you confess your love think about it twice! Ask yourself if he's matured enough to handle it. I expressed myself to my crush and it ends well. I'm happy I did it!
"She has been a great partner since we met, we live in the same neighborhood and always pass by. We started dating not up to two months and I told my mother about her and said she likes her and claimed the lady has always been on her best behavior ever since she knew her. Just last week my mum said my girlfriend doesn't greet her well enough! Oh, someone I just told you about and nothing like formal introduction has ever taken place. What am I to do or say? I told my girlfriend to be greeting my mum very well anytime she passes by, she was surprised and say she has always been doing that which I also know. I don't want anything to come between my girl and me and the same with my mum. I love and respect them both!" My advice is to maintain a good relationship with both of them, let your mum knows your relationship has never been legalized, and it's obvious the lady is on her best character as she claimed herself. Tell your girlfriend to do more, try harder, because if it's her mum that complained of the same thing she would definitely adjust and she shouldn't see your mum as a weasel or enemy from now. The mother-in-law should calm down, it's too early for those allegations. A relationship of barely two months. What do you think?
Dating involves two persons, there's a need to define your relationship for you to know your stand. Don't get served breakfast all the time! Red flags are obvious. If you're not ready for marriage stay away from dating someone whos ready! Don't play with people's emotions and feelings, it hurts. Let your intentions be clear to your partner. If you want to have a fun look for someone you're both ready for fun and not a serious relationship. Some date men because of money and material gifts, and some men date ladies just to satisfy their sexual urges. It's left to you to determine and define your relationship to avoid wasting your time chasing shadows.
It's about a beautiful lady who has been dating a man for years and believes sex can hold the man because she never denied him sex. She always satisfies him. The question is when you're not married while courting does it mean your body belongs to your man? Can't you say NO!? Satisfying a man you're not married to makes a harlot. The guy broke up with the lady when he said he's not ready for any commitments. She thought of suicide but was saved by friends. This is a lesson to all ladies turning prostitutes in the name of displaying wife material. Learn to say No! Your body is yours until you're married.
I was just 23 when I married my husband. Love is blind as they do claim but Love is not blind. We humans decided to turn a blind eye to some vital things in the name of LOVE.
We never bothered to know our genotype neither our blood group.
After two years, we were blessed with a son which became our source of sorrow.
We started spending and spending on his health, he was a sickle cell as we were told by the doctor.
We never knew our Genotype! And never care to know before marriage. We are both AS, Had it been we had known we would have quit the LOVE.
Had it been we had known we would have done the needful than birthing him for pain and suffering.
We lost him after a while, We thought we could cope with it but NO,
We believe LOVE is enough for everything but I must say we realized a lot in marriage as a lot unfolds when we never expect.
We divorced and each of us had to start a new life!
It hurts.
Don't birth that child for suffering. It's not only about you! Think of that generation coming from you.
You need to know your Genotype and Blood Group.
Do the needful before it ends with tears. Never say YES without confirming your compatibility.
Today's Gist 🥰 Can you allow your parents to choose your future partner for you?
My parents are always not in support of my relationship.
There's a girl I love so much, I introduced her to my parent they said No!
I continued with her, we had our first child but gave up the ghost! The second child... Died after birth!
The lady left me 😥 I met another charming woman, we started well but my parent said No again!
I met her parents, we continued but different calamities from different angles, every day!
She decided to leave as well, my parents mocked me, saying they warned me but I didn't take heed.
I regretted everything! Almost 10years revolving around the same thing! Nothing to write about achievement neither family love.
Something happened later and I confronted my parents... Guess what?
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I regret following my Mum's words. It happened, she became pregnant but it was a toxic relationship.
I wanted her to be my baby mama... Because I have a lady I love deeply.
But my mum said I must marry her! I broke up with the love of my life and married my baby mama, then life became miserable. No peace at home! I always want to stay outside than my home!
She nag! Threatens and never appreciates.
I wish I married whom I loved and found joy and peace in, but it seems too late!
I just want to quit! Start all over, Divorce her and never allow someone to tell me who to marry or be with!
But guess what... Life is complicated! What works for A might brings downfall to B!
Have you ever had issues with your mother-in-law or father-in-law?
Can you quit if your parents are against your relationship?
What's the assurance that if your parents choose for you, there won't be any problem?
Independence Day in Nigeria. Should we continue to celebrate Nigeria? Why are we celebrating Nigeria? Are we Celebrating Nigeria or Nigerian? I love my fatherland ❤️, I pledge to Nigeria my country, to be faithful loyal, and honest. To serve Nigeria with all my strength, to defend our unity and uphold our honor and glory, So help God.
Are we working with this oath? We complain about everything without doing anything! Two wrongs can not make a right! We made Nigeria what it is today, why can't you fix your fault?! Why blame the government for everything? A graduate that can not writes and compose a good Cv, how's that the fault of the government?
Job seekers supersede job creators! We worship money in this country! Who has no money is not successful! That's why money ritual is rampant! Kidnapping too!
Corruption is not just happening with our government but with all of us! Corruption and embezzling are flowing in our blood!
We don't want to work for anything! We want everything to happen within a twinkle of an eye.
Should we only focus on crude oil as a source of revenue for Nigeria?
What do you gain in cursing your dear country? I'm not telling you to agree to my mindset but letting you know what the future would look like if we continue this way!
Change your mindset, nothing good will happen if we don't adjust from ourselves! Who can we make a leader in Nigeria? The Imam that embezzles the mosque offering? Or the pastor that builds his house with church tithes or You that was made a group leader and ran away with little contribution from people? Who?
Nigeria shall be great! Nigeria will be great! I love you my dear country. Happy Independence Day Nigeria. Nigeria @61.
What has been your experience when it comes to checking your partner's phone?
Can you leave your phone with your lover or not?
Is it my phone, your phone, or our phone?
A lot of people shared their experiences when it comes to checking their lover's phones. But come to think of it, is it normal? We call ourselves lovers, why must you have something that will hurt be on your phone?
I imagine what people go through when they find out they're out of the game by going through their lover's phone.
It was through the phone someone discovered her husband is HIV positive and the man bever for once tell the wife!
Are you also in support of not checking each other's phones or against it?
Remember, Love is sweet and beautiful when there are no trust issues! phones have revealed a lot of secrets, destroyed many homes and it has saved a lot of homes. What's your view? Should we keep our phones away from our lovers or not?
It's about two lovers, the lady gave the phone to his man after he requested to use it to watch films. The guy refused to return the phone to the lady and he started abusing the lady. She reiterated and insulted him . The guy threatened to deal with the lady in all ways. The guy wasn't the one that got her the phone, they never had any intimacy and the lady happened to be a decent young innocent one. Plus, she's from a well-to-do family. The guy continued to threaten her, using her social media pages and chatting with people pretending to be the Lady.... Hmmm, it led to a police station ... Listen to the podcast and learn. Now, who is at fault? Can you give your phone out in the name of love? Lesson; don't you ever keep nude pictures of yourself on your phone.
It's about my best friend and my fiance. They've been having a sexual relationship since I introduced them to each other. I felt betrayed! I don't think I can cope with being a cheater in my marriage.
It's about the experience of going out with a guy to have fun but he disappeared not to pay my bill. I don't know if you've had such experience, how did you react to it? Did you pay or got embarrassed?