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Here, AYOBAMI shared his opinion on why people cheat, while also addressing who the fault should be placed upon, and why.
According to him, Men are Polygamous in nature and would always want to cheat without reason regardless of how much love they receive from their wives, while Women would only cheat in a severe case of frustration or in a siutuation where they are no longer interested in their partners. Although this doesn't always apply, yet a majority fall into this category.
His opinion is shared in the video.. I do hope you enjoy watching this.
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Previous episodes of the Love and Sexuality Podcast!
Love and Sexuality Podcast #1- Communication in relationships
Love and sexuality Podcast #2- Misconception on exposing children to sex education
Love and sexuality Podcast #3- Pansexuality from the African perspective
Love and sexuality Podcast #4- Expressing your love interest as an African woman!
Love and sexuality Podcast #5- What do you consider a red flag?
Love and sexuality Podcast #6 - How would you manage the distance?
Regards!
Uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/nagaexty
In this episode of the love and sexuality podcast, @wummi shared her opinion regarding distance relationships, how long she thinks is too long, as well as what she feels would be a coping mechanisms for when the situation of inevitable distance occurs between she and her spouse.
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Previous episodes of the Love and Sexuality Podcast!
Love and Sexuality Podcast #1- Communication in relationships
Love and sexuality Podcast #2- Misconception on exposing children to sex education
Love and sexuality Podcast #3- Pansexuality from the African perspective
Love and sexuality Podcast #4- Expressing your love interest as an African woman!
Love and sexuality Podcast #5- What do you consider a red flag?
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/qnxdtcmt
This is a follow up to the last episode of the Love and sexuality podcast - Love and sexuality podcast #5 - What do you consider a red flag?, where I and @chrinnox discussed red flags and concluded that the best thing to do would be to take a break from such relationship while evaluating what you want from a relationship with what you're getting at the moment.
With more time put into reflection and observation, I realised that it's easy to give advice to people in situations without actually being there, hence I realised that the best solution wouldn't be to simply take a break or end the relationship. That solution would only work theoretically.
Relationships have to do with our emotions which require time to build. Time, energy, money and many other things have been invested into the relationship at some point, therefore it wouldn't be so easy to let go because our emotions will always be at play regardless of how logical we can be.
The best solution would be to discuss some of these imperfections or red flags you've observed with your partner in a very soothing way, after which your partners response will decide if the relationship should continue or not.
If your partner is accepts your opinion regarding the observed red flags and is willing/able to take necessary steps into correcting those imperfections where necessary, then the can continue but if not, then maybe it's time to let go.
The solution is not as simple as letting your partner go as soon as red flags are observed, but with effective communication, things can be resolved. Letting your partner go should only be on the condition that he/she is not willing to accept a red flag exists. That would be my definition of a one-sided relationship.
Feel free to drop your comment/opinion in the comment section.
See you on the next one.
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Previous episodes of the Love and Sexuality Podcast!
Love and Sexuality Podcast #1- Communication in relationships
Love and sexuality Podcast #2- Misconception on exposing children to sex education
Love and sexuality Podcast #3- Pansexuality from the African perspective
Love and sexuality Podcast #4- Expressing your love interest as an African woman!
Love and sexuality Podcast #5- What do you consider a red flag?
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/ztztokou
The concept of long distance relationships is not something that every one appreciates or can cope with. We all have our preferences regarding relationships and long distance relationships is something that people often question whether they can deal with or not.
As much as some people feel they can cope with distance relationships, once it happens due to situations beyond their control such as having to travel to a distant location due to their career path, they realise coping is much more difficult than they initially envisioned.
While Several people can cope with distance in relationships, several cannot since their partners being within arms reach at all times is what makes them feel loved and confident that the relationship is actually what it should be.
The activities done together is something that makes relationships enjoyable, and this is something that cannot be gotten over the distance regardless of technology which allows for constant communication via face-time and texts, which sometimes leads to the case of doubt and infidelity since each partner may begin to receive attention from someone within their reach.
In the end, a lasting relationship amidst the distance boils down to both partners having a certain level of understanding and trust while developing a top-tier communication which will allow them work things out regardless of the distance.
Appreciating the distance or not It's an individual thing which is solely based on preparing ones mindset for the unplanned situations while developing mechanisms to cope with it. Do what works best for you.
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Why Does Love Fade With Time?
Can you take back a cheating partner?
Deliberating on Love and Money!
Is getting married an achievement?
People should not be forced into relationships!
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/czbdubwl
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I always find it weird that once you're approaching a certain age in my society today, people especially friends and family begin questioning why you're not in a in a relationship and what exactly it is that you're waiting for. After several questioning and pressure, they'd begin to conclude that there's something wrong and that you need help in the relationship department.
This is something I find very unpleasant and common even among teenagers. Once there is a person among their group of friends that doesn't have a boyfriend or girlfriend they'd begin to laugh at such person and make the person feel like the odd one out, while pushing such person and setting him or her up to a potential mate.
It is even more common with parents in the African society especially towards their daughters that are age 24 and above. Once they realise their daughters are not showing any sign of being in a relationship, they'd begin to pressure them while comparing them with other girls their mates.
They forget that there are several stages in life as well as priorities which are completely dependent on an individual's goals and mindset, hence comparing one person with another in terms of relationship status and pressuring them into one is something I do not appreciate because our lives do not revolve around dating and marriage alone.
The constant pressure from parents towards their daughters often causes long-term problems because the daughters will have to succumb to pressure at some point and will go for whoever comes their way in a bid to please their parents. This results in heartbreak, unhappiness and broken homes since they'd end up with someone they barely know not really interested in.
People need to understand that there are stages for building our future, career, finance and lots more. Although some people may be able to balance all these with their relationships, several others cannot. Hence it will be wrong to pressure anyone into relationships because we all have priorities and the right to our choice.
See you on the next one
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Why Does Love Fade With Time?
Can you take back a cheating partner?
Deliberating on Love and Money!
Is getting married an achievement?
Regards!
uchihanagato!
SPANISH
Siempre me parece extraño que una vez que te acercas a cierta edad en mi sociedad actual, las personas, especialmente amigos y familiares, comiencen a preguntarse por qué no estás en una relación y qué es exactamente lo que estás esperando. Después de varios cuestionamientos y presiones, comenzarían a concluir que hay algo mal y que necesitas ayuda en el departamento de relaciones.
Esto es algo que encuentro muy desagradable y común incluso entre los adolescentes. Una vez que hay una persona entre su grupo de amigos que no tiene novio o novia, comenzarían a reírse de esa persona y harían que la persona se sintiera como extraña, mientras la empujan y la convierten en una pareja potencial.
Es aún más común con los padres en la sociedad africana, especialmente hacia sus hijas que tienen 24 años o más. Una vez que se dan cuenta de que sus hijas no muestran ningún signo de estar en una relación, comenzarían a presionarlas mientras las comparan con otras chicas sus compañeras.
Olvidan que hay varias etapas en la vida, así como prioridades que dependen completamente de los objetivos y la mentalidad de un individuo, por lo tanto, comparar a una persona con otra en términos de estado de relación y presionarla en una es algo que no aprecio porque nuestras vidas no giran en torno a las citas y el matrimonio solos.
La presión constante de los padres hacia sus hijas a menudo causa problemas a largo plazo porque las hijas tendrán que sucumbir a la presión en algún momento e irán por quien se cruce en su camino en un intento por complacer a sus padres. Esto resulta en angustia, infelicidad y hogares rotos, ya que terminarían con alguien que apenas conocen que no les interesa realmente.
La gente necesita entender que hay etapas para construir nuestro futuro, carrera, finanzas y mucho más. Aunque algunas personas pueden ser capaces de equilibrar todo esto con sus relaciones, varias otras no pueden. Por lo tanto, será un error presionar a alguien para que tenga relaciones porque todos tenemos prioridades y el derecho a nuestra elección.
Nos vemos en la próxima
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Videos anteriores de la serie:
¡Entendiendo la reacción africana a la pansexualidad!
La mentalidad africana sobre la expresión de las mujeres
¡Las mujeres nigerianas y la mentalidad de las relaciones como medio para un fin!
¡Una cita con dieciocho damas +1!
¡La mentalidad del control en las relaciones!
¿Por qué el amor se desvanece con el tiempo?
¿Puedes recuperar a un compañero infiel?
¡Deliberando sobre el amor y el dinero!
¿Casarse es un logro?
¡Saludos!
uchihanagato
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/nhxbsyhi
ENGLISH
Achievements are like bucket lists which we tick on hitting certain hall marks, and are things we create for ourselves based on our interests in a bid to give our life a purpose. A life without purpose results in boredom.
Graduating from college, getting a dream job, travelling around the world, going to the beach, seeing a movie, and lots more are things people consider as achievements by simply following their heart.
Similarly, it would be wrong to impose the opinion of 'marriage as an achievement' on anyone because there are no fixed rules. As much as a certain percentage of people may consider marriage an important hallmark in their lives. Not everyone appreciates the concept of marriage due to certain reasons and situations which may have changed their mindset at some point in their lives.
Marriage and dating are not so different, except that in marriage, both parties are joined legally, which means that there is a more intense commitment, and going separate ways will becomes more difficult for them to split without going through a legal process. Which means that people can live a happy life with or without marriage since the difference is not so significant.
I've seen couples stay together for over twenty to thirty years without tying the knot, yet are comfortable and happy living together without any issues in their relationship, which proves that marriage is simply a mindset.
The very simple conclusion is that if you consider marriage an achievement to be ticked in your bucket list, there is no problem as long as it makes you happy. Similarly, if you do not consider it an achievement, then it's also not a problem provided you are happy with your decision.
It is in no one's power to impose an opinion on anyone because we have the right to our choices and opinion.
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Why Does Love Fade With Time?
Can you take back a cheating partner?
Deliberating on Love and Money!
Regards!
uchihanagato!
SPANISH
Los logros son como listas de deseos que marcamos al alcanzar ciertas marcas de pasillo, y son cosas que creamos para nosotros mismos en función de nuestros intereses en un intento por darle a nuestra vida un propósito. Una vida sin propósito resulta en aburrimiento.
Graduarse de la universidad, conseguir un trabajo de ensueño, viajar por todo el mundo, ir a la playa, ver una película y mucho más son cosas que la gente considera como logros simplemente siguiendo su corazón.
Del mismo modo, sería un error imponer la opinión del 'matrimonio como un logro' a cualquier persona porque no hay reglas fijas. Tanto como un cierto porcentaje de personas puede considerar el matrimonio como un sello distintivo importante en sus vidas. No todos aprecian el concepto de matrimonio debido a ciertas razones y situaciones que pueden haber cambiado su mentalidad en algún momento de sus vidas.
El matrimonio y las citas no son tan diferentes, excepto que en el matrimonio, ambas partes se unen legalmente, lo que significa que hay un compromiso más intenso, e ir por caminos separados se volverá más difícil para ellos separarse sin pasar por un proceso legal. Lo que significa que las personas pueden vivir una vida feliz con o sin matrimonio, ya que la diferencia no es tan significativa.
He visto parejas permanecer juntas durante más de veinte a treinta años sin casarse, pero se sienten cómodas y felices viviendo juntas sin ningún problema en su relación, lo que demuestra que el matrimonio es simplemente una mentalidad.
La conclusión muy simple es que si consideras que el matrimonio es un logro que debe figurar en tu lista de deseos, no hay problema siempre y cuando te haga feliz. Del mismo modo, si no lo considera un logro, entonces tampoco es un problema siempre que esté satisfecho con su decisión.
Nadie está en el poder de imponer una opinión a nadie porque tenemos derecho a nuestras elecciones y opinión.
Nos vemos en la próxima
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Videos anteriores de la serie:
¡Entendiendo la reacción africana a la pansexualidad!
La mentalidad africana sobre la expresión de las mujeres
¡Las mujeres nigerianas y la mentalidad de las relaciones como medio para un fin!
¡Una cita con dieciocho damas +1!
¡La mentalidad del control en las relaciones!
¿Por qué el amor se desvanece con el tiempo?
¿Puedes recuperar a un compañero infiel?
¡Deliberando sobre el amor y el dinero!
¡Saludos!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/vekjghek
I've come across several people deliberating on which is more important between Love and Money in sustaining a relationship. While some will choose Love over money, and others Money over love without considering the repercussion of ignoring the latter, it will be important to note that both Love and money plays a vital role in sustaining a relationship.
Relationships should be built on Love, which is built on the basis of communication and understanding. Love isn't selfish, hence it should about both partners coming together to achieve a common goal of growth in all already including financially. Love would allow the relationship to last through various life challenges, which is why the ability to tell the difference between actual love and mere attraction will make make a difference in the long run.
As much as Love should be the fundamental of a relationship, money is also important for sustenance. Love wouldn't pay the bills, neither will it bring a comfortable life.
For married couples, children become a responsibility through the years, people get sick, unplanned expenses come through, daily upkeep, feeding, transportation, clothing, and a lot more expenses will always exist.
The lack of sufficient funds to manage a home often results in relationship problems as time passes, and one or both parties will begin to feel his/her partner isn't good enough. The love that they thought was enough eventually diminishes due to lack of comfort, and the inability to cater for daily needs causes the initial excitement that existed to be thrown into the gutters.
I'm a strong believer of financial stability to a certain degree before relationships because both Love and money are important. Therefore, there should be no such question as Love or Money.
See you on the next one
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Why Does Love Fade With Time?
Can you take back a cheating partner?
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/ajxiexqk
It is very normal for people to make mistakes, especially for people in relationships, since mistakes are a part of our lives which we constantly learn from. When mistakes are made, correction needs to be made with love, after all loving someone means that we understand that this person has flaws and weaknesses and we are willing to accommodate them.
Unfortunately, cheating is not one of such mistakes. Considering cheating a mistake would be very poor 'choice of words' because cheating is a very deliberate action. It is an action that requires pre-planning before execution hence it will be a mistake to say that your partner really feels sorry when caught in the act of cheating.
When people apologise after being caught cheating, I do not consider it a sincere apology. They're simply saying 'I'm sorry' because they were caught and not because they feel sorry for their actions. Not being caught will simply allow them go further. Being caught is also not an assurance that it wouldn't continue. I strongly believe that a cheating partner will always be a cheating partner, hence it is not in your power to control your partner's faithfulness.
Once my partner cheats on me, I'd simply conclude that whoever my partner cheated on me with is whom my partner is really interested in, while I'm simply a means to an end. As much as I may lover her, I wouldn't like to continue such relationship because cheating on me simply means she doesn't love me.
Best thing to do in my opinion is to let such person go. I can never take back a cheating partner.
What would you do?
See you on the next one
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Why Does Love Fade With Time?
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/owzkxvpp
Today, @chrinnox and I talked about red flags in relationships and how it could be detrimental to the health of the relationship in the long run. Chrinnox highlighted some red flags while making us understand that red flags are everywhere and very visible, hence it will be proper to address those red flags from the beginning of a relationship before it graduates further.
Several people in relationships have observed red flags in their partners yet they choose to push it aside in the name of love. Unfortunately, the problem that results from pushing away critical issues such as these aside is what often results in broken relationships.
The best thing to do when red flags are observed in our partners is to take a break from the relationship while evaluating what you want in a relationship with what you're getting at the moment. It becomes easier to make decisions based on logic thereafter.
Chrinnox appeared in the first episode of the Love and sexuality podcast #1, and I'm glad to have her here again. I also encouraged her to make her first video on 3speak which she published yesterday - [Join me] clean(https://3speak.tv/watch?v=chrinnox/tgszjqwj)
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Previous episodes of the Love and Sexuality Podcast!
Love and Sexuality Podcast #1- Communication in relationships
Love and sexuality Podcast #2- Misconception on exposing children to sex education
Love and sexuality Podcast #3- Pansexuality from the African perspective
Love and sexuality Podcast #4- Expressing your love interest as an African woman!
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/mwdxapfe
People often wonder why love fades with time without trying to understand if what they thought was love was actually love or something as simple as attraction or infatuation. The ability to tell the difference between love, attraction, and infatuation actually makes a difference in the long run and will allow for proper evaluation of feelings.
While attraction can be based on physical appearance, intelligence, proximity, mutual interests and lots more, infatuation is simply a function of attraction and provides a psychological projection of unrealistic perfection.
Love is built upon communication and understanding that your partner is not perfect but has weaknesses and flaws which you are willing to accommodate. Love doesn't fade, relationships simply get boring with time because it has begun to lack activities that existed at the beginning.
Couples often get so comfortable within months and years of courtship/marriage that they let go of those activities they enjoyed doing together perhaps because they're too busy with their career/ taking care of the children and forget that the relationship should be majorly about them both while the children are simply a product of the relationship and shouldn't be allowed to cancel out the activities they enjoy together.
Those random dinners, movie nights goes a long way in re-igniting those sparks in relationships, which means that true love doesn't fade but the excitement simply diminishes with time. This excitement can be re-ignited by revisiting those activities that once used to be a regular part of their lives.
See you in the next one
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Previous videos in the series:
Understanding the African reaction to Pansexuality!
The African Mentality on Women expression
Nigerian women and the mentality of relationships as a means to an end!
A date with eighteen +1 ladies!
The Mentality of control in relationships!
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/ombbbhjy
Certain people in relationships have developed a sense of control towards their spouses and have cultivated the mentality that their decision should be final, while forgetting that there should be a sense of individuality in relationships and that each person has the right to his or her own choices and decisions.
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/jdfzwbyt
Tife wanted to share her opinion regarding the topic discussed in the video - The African mentality on women expression, so I decided to invite her over to the fourth episode of the love and sexuality podcast.
Surprisingly, she's in support of Women expressing their love interests as they see fit towards Men of interest, and appreciates it when they do.
It is worth mentioning that Tife is a Youtuber. Feel free to check out her Youtube Channel. I also onboarded her to the Hive community just yesterday with the username @beautifullyyou while encouraging her to share her contents on 3speak.
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Previous episodes of the Love and Sexuality Podcast!
Love and Sexuality Podcast #1- Communication in relationships
Love and sexuality Podcast #2- Misconception on exposing children to sex education
Love and sexuality Podcast #3- Pansexuality from the African perspective
Regards!
uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/axspsxpl
In this video, I expressed my opinion on a case where a man took his girlfriend on a date but she brought along 18 other ladies without informing him before hand and expects him to pay for all of them. The obvious happened and now she claims "nobody wants a broke nigga!".
It reflects that the relationship didn't begin on the basis of friendship and communication.
Bringing a third party along to a date that is meant to be for you and your partner is something I find uncomfortable, after all, it's meant to be your personal time together. Your partner is someone whose company you very much enjoy and would like to spend a lot of time with hence bringing a third party along simply reflects the opposite.
The concept of security issue is a very popular excuse but the fact remains that if you do not feel safe/comfortable going out alone with your partner then you shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place.
If in any case you intend to bring a third party, ladies please respect your partner by informing him beforehand, then let it be decided through communication and understanding.
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/esjeooxk
In this video I talked about the fact that a majority of Nigerian women have the weird mentality that relationships should be majorly about them and their happiness while the other party is simply left out and considered a means to an end.
These relationships are mostly one sided and they often consider material possessions and what they'd stand to gain in the long run to be top-tier without considering that the second party also deserves happiness and a loving partner.
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/fmvhykhf
In this video I addressed this societal norm that doesn't allow women to express their emotions and love interests without the fear of being judged.
Women are often considered cheap and 'throwing themselves at men' whenever they express their feelings and and emotions to person of interest. This is simply borne out of the weird African culture that doesn't allow women to express themselves as they see fit.
Asking women to not express their feeling is indirectly asking them to throw away what makes them human because our emotion is what makes us who we are.
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/iuqftalu
The internet consists of numerous opportunities which we can take advantage of based on our availability and willingness to take utilize it effectively by investing our time and resources into the right places.
Unfortunately, several people have been blinded by the mentality of going to school, graduating college and getting a job which is an outdated approach to building finance and financial stability.
With unemployment rate reaching 40% in Nigeria today and worsening inflation, poverty rate has increased tremendously and people cannot no longer afford the basics for survival.
Regardless, many opportunities exist on the internet which people simply need to open their minds to and step out of the illusion of searching for jobs which are inexistent since the world has shifted focus from degrees and certificates at hand into what you can do and your ability for creativity can be either a result of talent or time spent in immersing yourself in learning things that would bring about productivity hashtag the internet.
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/kftrmhad
Today's gameplay is a continuation of yesterday's game. I'm playing the chapter 2 of the Samurai II: VENGEANCE android mobile game while using more combinations this time.
Apart from the xxoxx and xoxxx, I also discovered other combos such as ooxxx and xxxxo which proved more effective for attacking multiple enemies at once and inflicting more damage!
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https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/syukuwyf
Today I'm sharing my Samurai II: Vengeance gameplay. I haven't played this game since 2016 hence decided to try it out once more while recording every step until the fight with the final boss Oroshi.
While fighting the small fries I was a bit rusty since I haven't played in years but I was able to remember some combinations which I used towards the final round such as XXOXX and XOXXX. There are several other combinations which I'd unlock as I proceed.
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https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/vibijldr
This video is a follow up to my last where Buzz Alvin and I talked about Pansexuality from the African perspective and how negative reaction is gotten from the African society and the government towards people that may Identify with other sexual preferences apart from the expected norm.
I want any African who may identify as Pansexual to understand that the negative reactions gotten are simply due to our rigid cultural values and beliefs which have stood the test of time and are unchanged regardless of civilization or ‘the new normal’.
Although other sexual identities may be legalized in other countries due to cultural differences and traditions, it should be known that the LGBTQ community is not legalized in Nigeria yet, hence it shouldn’t be surprising if authorities or the Nigerian/ African society do not react positively to this identification since it will be considered a transgression of cultural values and the law!
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/bvwzwhqk
Here, I and a newbie (@buzzalvin) talked about Pansexuality and how most Africans react to people that identify as Pansexual due on their cultural belief and the fact that every other sexuality preference apart from being straight is often considered invalid and an abomination. How parents react to their children based on their sexuality was also considered.
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/cysrgkte
Today, I and @fashtioluwa discussed the concept of impersonation and identity theft as seen in the world today while also sharing our personal experiences.
We recognise that it is almost impossible to avoid being impersonated as we can’t possibly control everything but we limit the amount of personal information shared on the internet so it wouldn’t be used against us.
Impersonation and identity theft has become a norm in the society especially on social medias like Instagram, twitter and many others. We see a lot of catfish accounts that imitate celebrities and influential figures.
While some are simply for fun and entertainment, the majority are used to tarnish the image of the real person as those accounts are often used to commit fraudulent acts in a bid to make money off their names and identity.
While my name is Kristoffer Quincy on every other platform such as read.cash, facebook, and on twitter, I couldn’t use kristofferquincy here on hive since it had already been taken by an impersonator.
It should be known that the username @kristofferquincy on hive is an impersonator and a fraud. This person created an hive account using my name and picture in the month of October 2021, copied my introductory article on read.cash and began making money off all my Axie infinity related articles.
I stopped playing Axie infinity and stopped writing about such but the impersonator began to translate previous articles to other languages and began publishing since he or she was out of Axie infinity related articles to copy. The user was discovered by hive watchers and was blacklisted.
I was accused of being responsible for the fraudulent action on joining hive last month and was surprised to see that there was already an account in my name and articles. On thorough investigation with Mr @jamerusell it was discovered that this person also created about twenty (20) other accounts using names and pictures of other writers on read.cash and began making money off their account as well.
A very surprising case of impersonation and damage of reputation. Impersonators are everywhere and cannot be completely avoided.
We simply need to be careful so we wouldn’t fall victims of scams using a stolen identity by double checking and verifying their identity by every means possible.
Feel free to share your experiencewith impersonators and identity thieves in the comment section. We'd be glad to hear it!
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Uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/vqzjgjhu
Today the issue of how our personalities are often misinterpreted to be an exhibition of pride without actually being examined properly to understand who the person is and why he or she acts the way she does.
Now certain people actually tend to not care about what goes on in their environment thanks to an 'I don't care attitude, and often use their personality as an excuse which is often detrimental in the long run.
It should be known that it is not pride but simply their personality at play since they do not appreciate human relations and small talks.
It is very well understood that people have various temperaments and personalities hence influencing our decision and ability to relate with people. But at the same time, we need to observe our environment and act accordingly especially when complains are being made about some behaviours we exhibit unknowingly so our personalities will not be misunderstood and misjudged as we acting as if we are better than those around us, thus the misconception of pride.
Now you don't have to displease yourself to please others but at the same time certain adjustments need to be made in order to live peacefully with those around you as no man is an island. We are social beings hence we cannot live alone.
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Feel free to drop your comments and contribution.
See you on the next one!
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/qbtgzfgq
Today I and a friend of mine (@wunmi) had a brief talk on the misconception of exposing children to sex education.
I have come across several parents with the mentality that exposing their children to sex education is an indirect way of giving them the 'go-ahead' to perform sexual activities. Unfortunately this is a very wrong idea.
Providing our children with sex education curbs the risk of teenage sex (sex before adulthood), unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases, addiction and emotional damage from being involved in sexual activities for the sake of exploration.
Sex Education is not limited to sexual activities alone but children need to be educated before hand on identifying their sexuality, sexual anatomy, the concept of safe sex as a preventive measure, and changes that may and will occur in their body as soon as they hit puberty.
The concept of sex education can be taught across children of all ages by using examples and materials tailored for their ages and level of understanding. For instance, children from age 2 to 5 should be taught to identify the parts of their body including their private parts and should be made to know that these private parts are for them only and shouldn't be touched by anyone else, and that alarm should be raised if anyone touches them as such.
Children at such age have a strong sense of right and wrong especially when instructed by their parents hence will adhere to this strictly and will even report their closest friends as soon as he or she attempts touch them in those places.
Excusing these necessary information from children can be really risky considering that the internet will provide it to them for free but from the unsafe perspective. Children these days are smarter and we see even two year olds with smartphones already accessing the internet without restriction or parental guidance, thus allowing them to see more than they should. What comes next is experimentation as children tend to imitate what they see out there.
Hence, regardless of some religious values which may consider talking about those things a taboo, parents shouldn't exclude sex education from topics to be discussed with their children as they grow since it a part of their lives they cannot run away from.
They should remember that if they don't teach their children, friends are people out there will teach them and will take advantage of their naivety and ignorance.
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https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/qgnzdifs
Love and Sexuality Podcast #1
For the first episode of the love and sexuality podcast I invited a special guest, a newbie on hive @Chrinnox. She's been married for some years and she shared some insights on communications in relationships based on her experience through the years from the point of being single till the present.
The importance of communication in relationship was simplified, it's importance, and what to do when it's lacking!
Communication in relationship brings about understanding that leads to agreement as a relationship without effective communication will go down the drain as quickly as it began!
I do hope you enjoy the first episode of the love and sexuality podcast.
See you on the next one!
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uchihanagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/omazljmq
In This video I talked about some mistakes I made during my cryptocurrency journey which began in 2017 and how those mistakes resulted to regrets in the long run, and how I was able to learn and grow through them in the present.
I remember my first encounter with trying to buy cryptocurrency, I was literally scammed and blocked by a supposed seller due to my ignorance. I can't exactly blame myself as I was new in all of it and was simply anxious to jump unto the train since I saw it as the next big thing.
In the long run I realised I could actually buy cryptocurrency on my own from a trusted source without having to go through a third party thus avoiding getting scammed over again.
Fast forward to 2019, XRP came but some mistakes were also made in the long run. Ethereum doubled and tripled right before me but I missed the train due to one thing- lack of capital and lots more.
I lost a lot of money to futures trading as I was basically following signals blindly without prior knowledge on candle stick patterns
The lots of my experience from 2017 till present day is covered in this video, and I do hope you find it enjoyable.
I learnt from my mistakes in the long run and I'm still in the learning process.
My advice - even when we make mistakes, we shouldn't allow those mistakes define us or hold us back from trying again. We make mistakes so we can learn ways that things wouldn't work.
I look forward to your comments, advise and recommendations, as it's what will allow me grow and improve in the long run.
Thanks for watching!
I broke my glasses hence I'm basically straining my eyes lately on the blue screen. The dark circles indicates.
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Uchiha Nagato!
https://3speak.tv/watch?v=uchihanagato/wnanbgpe
[Mortal Kombat Komplete Edition Gameplay]
Hello everyone today I'm sharing my Mortal Kombat Komplete Edition gameplay. In this game play I used my favourite character Scorpion and a character which I'm not very good at using Baraka.
I'm very familiar with each of Scorpion's moves- teleportation, the popular 'get over here' move, hellfire, grapple hold, and lots more including my favourite finishing move 'split decision' which I used at the end of every fight.
Baraka's moves were a bit difficult for me to grasp at first but I figured it out later on while pressing random buttons but it was a sort of disadvantage for me since it was my first time using the character.
The Tag ladder on difficulty "hard" seemed easy at first but it got tougher as I went higher. I first encountered difficulty when facing off against Skarlet and Johnny Cage.
[Screenshot from gameplay]
As seen in the screenshot, I had not lost any match till that point but encountered losses with Skarlet and Johnny Cage as they were two characters that seemed too tough to handle. It was basically a draw and we had to move on to round three where I took the lead and proceeded to Jade and Scorpion
[Screenshot from gameplay]
Then to Rain and Sub Zero
After which I climbed into defeat. I was defeated by the godfathers- Liu Kang and Raiden.
It was literally a beat down for me as I struggles to handle them but they were too strong and had speed on their side as an advantage.
I hope you enjoy this gameplay. Feel free to leave your thoughts, impression and suggestion in the comment section. Will be glad to hear from you.
Also feel free to suggest games which you think I may find interesting.
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