Advice with Alex and Friends: Recent Episodes
Advice with Alex & Friends
The weekly podcast that gives you tips and laughter. Every Wednesday Alex & Novella deep dive into how to achieve personal authenticity, build good relationships, and how to navigate the world with integrity.
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Ever wondered what it takes to build a compelling personal brand?
In this episode, Alex and Novella dive deep into the world of self-branding, sharing their own experiences and insights. From identifying your core values to crafting a compelling narrative, we'll equip you with practical tips to elevate your personal brand. Learn how to harness the power of authenticity, leverage social media, and overcome self-doubt to create a lasting impression. Don't miss this empowering conversation!
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Do you ever feel like you're constantly juggling work, love, friends, hobbies, and a million other things?
You're not alone! In this episode of Advice with Alex and Friends, Alex and Novella discuss the age-old question: can you really have it all? They explore the concept of balance, recognising that it might look different at various stages of life. They also delve into codependency, and how to identify and avoid unhealthy giving patterns in relationships. Join the conversation and share your tips for finding balance in your own busy life!
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Feeling stuck in your career? You're not alone! In this episode, Alex and Novella discuss the importance of pivoting in your career journey. Learn how to break free from the limitations of a job title and embrace the opportunities that come with exploring new paths. This episode is perfect for anyone feeling lost, unfulfilled, or unsure of their next step.
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Feeling overwhelmed by the homeownership process?
This episode of Advice With Alex and Friends is your roadmap to real estate reality!
Alex and Novella dive deep into Novella's recent home buying experience, unpacking the crucial first steps. Learn how to assess your finances, navigate conversations with partners, and secure a mortgage pre-approval. Even if the market seems crazy, Alex and Novella will equip you with the knowledge and confidence to start your homeownership journey. Don't miss out - hit subscribe and share with your friends who are ready to become homeowners!
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Struggling to make ends meet? Want to take control of your money? In this episode of Advice With Alex & Friends, Alex and Novella reveal their financial journeys - from saving scraps to strategic saving and investing. Discover how to:
- Increase your earning potential through career moves and upskilling.
- Develop a "non-negotiable" savings habit to build your financial security.
- Invest for the future with easy-to-understand strategies like ETFs.
This episode is packed with actionable tips to help you bust out financially in 2024!
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Have you ever wondered where to begin with investing? In this episode, we delve into Alex' and Novella's relatable story of financial illiteracy and the turning point that led them to explore the world of investments. We'll discuss the "old school" approach of keeping money under the mattress, credit card debt struggles, and the realisation that a traditional salary might not be enough. We share our initial saving habits and a crucial missed opportunity – not putting money to work! We'll also explore the concept of financial literacy and how it can empower you to make informed decisions about your money.
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Ever hold back from going after your dreams because of that nagging voice in your head? Join Alex and Novella as they discuss the fear of being seen and how it can manifest as self-doubt, people-pleasing, and holding back your true potential. Learn how to silence your inner critic and embrace your authentic self with actionable tips and inspiring stories.
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Episode Summary:
This episode of Advice with Alex and Friends is all about taking charge of your career! We'll be joined by our fabulous hosts Alex and Novella as they share their personal stories of navigating career challenges and achieving success.
Timestamps:
- (00:00 - 01:13) Introduction: Episode introduction and topic tease.
- (01:13 - 02:06) Setting the Stage: Story of frustration and determination in a previous role, ultimately landing a dream job.
- (02:06 - 03:05) Planning Makes Perfect: Importance of setting goals and taking action to achieve them. Strategies for getting certified and requesting feedback.
- (03:05 - 04:10) Patience is a Virtue (Sometimes): Description of disappointment and maintaining a positive attitude.
- (04:10 - 05:21) Divine Intervention (or Perfect Timing?): Unexpected events leading to the perfect role.
- (05:21 - 06:15) The Power of Networking: Importance of building relationships within your industry.
- (06:15 - 07:12) Rebranding for Success: Highlighting the importance of personal branding in career development.
- (07:12 - 08:15) Journey of prioritizing personal milestones.
- (08:15 - 10:09) Faith Over Fear: Importance of trusting the process and believing in a positive outcome.
- (10:09 - 11:12) Gratitude for blessings and lessons learned.
- (11:12 - 14:18) Rapid Fire Success: Description of feeling overwhelmed by positive changes.
- (14:18 - 15:39) Setting Intentions: Highlighting the power of setting goals and intentions for the year.
- (15:39 - 16:19) Breaking the Protocol: Importance of believing in a different path to success.
- (16:19 - 17:24) Get Ready to Receive: Importance of being prepared to handle abundance.
- (17:24 - 18:22) Collective Success: Discussion of the joy of witnessing others experience similar success.
- (18:22 - 19:09) Future Trippin': Inspiration from a TikTok video.
- (19:09 - 20:00) Wrapping Up: Tease of upcoming actionable tips for career progression and switching careers.
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Alex discusses the controversy surrounding the Meghan and Harry Netflix documentary, R.Kelly’s album release from prison, England’s World Cup defeat & more. Trigger warning! There are sensitive topics discussed in today's episode.
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(01:04) Asake’s London concerts are a success
(03:17) Meghan Markle and Prince Harry Netflix documentary review
(08:42) R.Kelly surprise album released whilst in prison
(11:19) Alexandra Gucci Zarini accuses stepfather Joseph Ruffalo of sexually abuse and sues family.
(16:57) Viral video of mother cutting daughter’s hair as a punishment for being “too pretty”
(20:47) 3 boys pass away after falling into an icy lake.
(23:16) England loses to France in the semi finals of the World Cup
(25:34) Reporter Grant Wahl dies mysteriously in Qatar after LGBTQ+ shirt incident
(28:58) Special advice
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Alex discusses Kanye West Twitter ban, claims of being a Nazi and hefty child support bill. Additionally what life is like after Love Island, racism from the royals & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(01:31) Kanye West claim he’s a Nazi
(05:43) Kanye west banned from Twitter
(06:26) Alex Jones files for bankruptcy
(10:14) Kanye West to pay $200k a month in child support
(12:22) Life after Love Island documentary
(15:29) Prince William’s godmother resign over royal racism.
(21:13) Nicole Thea’s health concerns ignored and resulted in death.
(28:00) Shenquella Robinson’s friend extradited to Mexico concerning her murder
(31:00) Special advice
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Alex & Novella discuss Brits and their entitlement abroad; whether Matt Hancock has redeemed himself; our “shock” that Gemma Owen and Luca Bish from Love Island UK have split; the do’s and don’ts of Christmas dos & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(02:22) Uproar as Qatar bans alcohol in the World Cup grounds
(09:42) Has Matt Hancock redeemed himself on “I’m a Celebrity, Get me out of here!”
(18:43) Luca Bish and Gemma Owen split
(22:30) Indiyah Polack and Tasha Ghouri of Love Island UK are winning with successful brand deals.
(30:38) The rise and fall of Twitter and other social media apps
(36:07) How to get back into good self care practices
(49:30) Advice with Novella: Christmas party HR edition
(01:04.09) Special advice
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Alex deep dives into the suspension of a teacher for racist views, the axing of BAME shows by the BBC, New apps to rival Twitter & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(0:44) Teacher suspended in Texas for ethnocentric views.
(3:50) BBC to axe all Afro Caribbean and Asian in local radio shows
(7:07) Drill artist Abigail Asante causes delays on the A12 for video shoot
(10:22) AJ Odudu to host the big brother reboot in 2023
(12:33) Primark to offer click and collect service
(15:19) Soulja boy to create his own social media app
(18:55) Special advice
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Alex & The Director discuss Murad Merali featuring on HC Pod; Da Baby’s buy one get one free tickets; Drake’s insult to Megan the Stallion & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(04:46) Should Chuckie have featured Murad Merali to HC Pod?
(17:59) Why are fans outraged that Justin Bieber is singing at Takeoff’s funeral?
(21:19) Did Drake intentionally insult Megan the stallion?
(32:10) Vogue to sue Drake & 21 Savage for using Bogie likeness
(36:53) Da Baby concert tickets are sold buy one get one free
(50:06) Special advice
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Alex & Novella discuss the declining state of the UK, Liz Truss out Rishi Sunak in, the difficulties in life as a whole & more.
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Alex and The Director discuss Kanye West's Twitter ban over anti-Semitic tweets, The Guap Gala, Suella Braverman's decision to reclassify drugs in the UK & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(0:37) Kano storms off of Top Boy film set over creative differences
(05:45) Suella Braverman proposes to change the classification of cannabis.
(09:35) Kanye West banned from Twitter for anti-Semitic tweets
(17:30) Angela Landsbury passes away at 96
(19:23) Have our electricity bills been hiked to force us into the office?
(24:40) The Impact of the Guap Gala
(33:57) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex & Novella discuss the impact of love, religion and culture when finding a companion; the pressure to appease parents when finding a partner; code switching; raising your children within your culture & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(0:42) Do people marry for culture, religion or for love?
(10:35) how do you code switch and which parts of the culture will you expose your children to?
(27:37) Advice to our younger selves.
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Alex & The director discuss Prince Andrew inappropriately touching daughter Eugenie, cancellation of events & services in lieu of the queens funeral, PnB Rock’s unfortunate death & more.
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(1:29) Why are there cancellations of events and services on the day of the Queens funeral?
(5:07) Is there more to Prince Andrew inappropriately touching daughter Eugenie?
(7:33) Will Camilla be called queen?
(8:01) Why are Harry & Meghan popular with Gen Z, whilst William & Kate struggle to connect?
(14:35) Why is the internet blaming PnB Rocks’s girlfriend for his death instead of the perpetrator?
(20:44) Nicki Minaj’s insensitive tweet, why do people/celebs make death about them?
(23:35) Why is it normalised to post and record a death?
(32:52) Black excellence at the Emmy’s with Sheryl Lee Ralph, Quinta Bronson and Zendaya winning Emmy’s.
(38:56) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and The Director discuss the state of violence in London, our new prime minister Liz Truss, The Tiffany Haddish child molestation debacle & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(02:04) Should we trust Liz Trust?
(06:27) Was Priti Patel pushed out?
(07:00) Is the new chancellor Kwasi Kwarteng for the people?
(10:43) Millionaire ditches wife for Ukrainian refugee
(14:10) Tiffany Haddish & Aries Spears accused of grooming
(23:00) UK Police shooting of prominent rapper Maddix
(32:28) Not£s accused of snitching
(43:39) Advice to the youth
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Alex and Novella discuss the triple viral infection of a Spanish holiday goer, Nick Cannon's growing army of kids, music at Nottinghill carnival & more.
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(0:45) Man catches money pox, Covid and HIV on holiday
(7:31) £3M Lottery winner dumps her boyfriend
(22:47) Nick cannon expand his family with 10th child
(36:06) which music should be played at Nottinghill carnival?
(50:07) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex discusses the freshest Love Island UK news, the reappearance of Owami Davies, the current state of RnB & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(01:07) Why was Gemma Owens picked for the PLT deal over Indiyah Pollock?
(04:00) Who will replace Laura Whitmore as the new Love Island host?
(06:26) Owami Davies is found alive and well
(08:55) Is RnB really dead?
(13:13) Why is Nicki Minaj only having her first solo number 1 now?
(17:26) Why is Marc Cuban suing his alleged victims?
(20:42) As a woman would you help your future mother-in-law in the kitchen the first time you meet her?
(23:52) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex & The Director discuss Love Islander Jacques ableist commentary, exposed as a misogynist and for making fun of deaf people, Neyo and Irv Gotti unnecessarily sharing information about women from their past on Drink Champs, Did Kanye West take it too far with his newspaper post, will there be a fortunate fate for Brittney Griner & more.
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01:35 Why was Jacques given grace on Love Island despite his ableist and misogynistic behaviour?
08.22 Do strikes work in the light ff driverless TFL tubes?
13:12 Has Asda shamed poor people?
14:58 Why is NORE of Drink Champs encouraging to talk about women of their past?
22:32 Have celebrates lost their allure as we review the outfits from Beyoncé’s Renaissance party?
24:29 Did Kanye West take it too far with his petty antics?
26:32 Will perpetrators actually face prosecution for Catcalling?
32:09 Why are fuel costs still rising?
36:10 Should you get a harsh sentence for accidentally killing multiple people?
38:14 Is America doing enough to save Britney Griner?
43:14 Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss the state of life right now, Instagram's poor user interface, Thomas Partey's rape victim breaking her silence & more
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0:00 Intro
3:11 Thomas Partey rape accuser breaks NDA
7:48 Will Smith delayed apology to Chris rock
10:48 Beyoncé’s Renaissance
15:03 Instagram’s poor user interface and copying TikTok
22:30 The state of life right now
31:01 advice to our younger selves
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Alex, Novella & The Director discuss not posting your location online in real-time for your safety, questioning why we save our best things for special occasions & more.
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0:00 Intro
01:16 Why is it essential to practice online safety?
08:47 The dangers of posting new apartment/hours tours online
14:05 Why do we save our best things for special occasions
27:33 Why can’t we dress up every day?
38:28 Advice to our younger selves
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Alex, Novella & The Director discuss R.Kelly’s sentencing, the unfortunate murder of Zara Aleena, the effects of the overturning Roe v Wade & more,
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0:00 Intro
01:18 Was 30 years enough for r Kelly?
08:38 Zara Aleena murder, How can women protect themselves?
21:22 How does the overturning of Roe v Wade affect women?
31:30 Nonsensical things of the week
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Alex and Novella have a mid-year life review and discuss becoming more vulnerable in relationships, cherishing and maintaining good friendships, the fast pace of life, practising good self-care & more
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Alex and Novella discuss the end of SPAC nation, Evri driver stealing goods, whether BBLs are no longer in vogue & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(0:42) Is SPAC nation truly over whilst under investigation for £1.9 million fraud?
(17:19) Evri driver caught stealing trainers, how can we get rid of the company altogether?
(24:06) Is the BBL era over as Khloe Kardashian removes hers?
(30:32) Advice to our younger selves
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Trigger warning: Alex & Novella discuss couples exploiting family members and friends to fund their weddings, rich men exploiting and abusing women in Dubai & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(0:40) Why are rich men not held accountable when they sexually exploit women, especially in Dubai?
(19:20) Why are couples allowed to exploit family and friends to fund their lavish weddings?
(34:44) Advice to younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss our trust issues with direct debits, managing hay fever symptoms, how to make more money in 2022 & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(01:15) How do you manage your hay fever/allergy symptoms?
(08:03) Why is renting such a controversial topic?
(17:05) How can you make more money?
(26:39) Why are we being forced to pay deposits for restaurants?
(36:00) Advice to younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss whether fast fashion is on its way out, whether we should be worried about Moneypox, the rise in vicious racial attacks on children & more.
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(0:00) Intro
(01:09) Is this the beginning of the end for fast fashion as Love Island goes for second hand eBay wardrobes for contestants?
(08:33) Are these fashion houses trolling us as Balenciaga rolls out items that look used?
(10:22) Is Monkeypox the new Covid or even HIV as the number of cases in the UK rises to 20?
(17:52) Are we becoming numb toward racial attacks on black children in light of the amputation of 11-year-old Raheem Bailey following a racial attack at school?
(45:58) Would you reveal your identity if you win the lottery?
(50:50) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex, Novella & The Director discuss whether an Uber Eats for breastmilk will help with the baby formula shortage in America, the RICO case against rappers Young Thug & Gunna, whether its truly over for cryptocurrency & more.
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TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(02:59) How do governments allow shortages of goods to occur in light of the baby formula shortage in America?
(13:40) Why don't white supremacist groups such as the KKK have RICO charges in light of YSL (Young Slime Life) rappers Young Thug and Gunna pending RICO case?
(28:26) Is it over for crypto currency in light of the Luna crash?
(34:09) Is it ever too late to go for what you want in light of a Great Grandma recently graduating with a Masters in Business Administration.
(36:42) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss society’s tolerance of deadbeat dads and the importance of holding them accountable, as well as whether we really want to exist in a world that allows full freedom of speech & more.
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TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(0:51) Should women pick better to prevent their children having a deadbeat dad?
(12:15) Why women becoming less patient in relationships as we move through generations?
(19:11) Is it possible for freedom of speech to really exist and if so do we really want it?
(24:24) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss whether luxury influencer content is till relevant, being estranged from your parents because they refuse to accept you in your entirety, the harsher punishment black children face at school & more.
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TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(01:01) Are luxury content influencers losing their appeal?
(07:40) Could an all black Real Housewives franchise work in the UK following the launch of Real housewives of Lagos?
(13:29) Why do people hide behind religion to be homophobic in light of comedian Jerrod Carmichael being estranged from his mum after coming out as gay on SNL?
(19:18) Are children more forgiving of their parents or vice versa and do you feel your family is fully accepting of you?
(27:34) Should the police be allowed to police themselves in light of Metropolitan police officer only facing suspension despite committing rape whilst off duty?
(37:31) Why are Black children more likely to face tougher punishment at school?
(45:51) Advice to our younger selves
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TRIGGER WARNING: Alex discusses the BBC Three documentary on disgraced DJ Tim Westwood's detailing his history of sexual misconduct, the unfortunate quadruple homicide of four family members in South East London by 28 year old Joshua Jacques, Tory MP caught watching pornography in the house of commons & more.
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TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(0:51) Why do people like to divert attention away from predators like ex Capital 1XtraTimothy Westwood 64, and argue about miniscule facts? Social commentators such as Lin Mei question whether Tim Westwood was really with underage girls according to what she could see despite several victims coming forward online.
(06:04) Should we continue to discuss sensitive topics on Twitter spaces? The popular moderator Ashley Louise/TalkswithAsh and social commentator/podcaster Kelechi Okafor held spaces this week to discuss the gross sexual misconduct by Tim Westwood and more women came forward and shared their stories.
(07:33) Should we allow grace to predators that have already been outed? Other prominent twitter members have been outed as predators and on the Joe Budden podcast he coins the term "victim bullying" when victims continue to shame the perpetrators several months/years after their abuse.
(11:09) What is so funny or questionable about black women women's trauma? People continue to gaslight and make light of Megan the Stallion after the alleged shooting by Tory Lanez in 2020.
(13:02) When are we getting rid of this disgraced conservative government? Tory MP caught watching pornography in the house of commons as witnessed by two colleagues who reported the incident to the Whips office.
(14:18) What is the real reason why Elon Musk wants to buys Twitter?
(14:58) Donald Trump says that Prince Harry is whipped by Meghan Markle and their titles should be removed on the new Piers Morgan show.
(16:40) Joshua Jacques, 28, has been charged with the murders of four family members in Bermondsey, South East London. Joshua is accused of killing his girlfriend Samantha 27, her mother, grandmother and grandmother’s partner.
(18:33) Let's pray for the UK because inflation and bad vibes is crippling the nation.
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TRIGGER WARNING: Alex and the Director discuss gatekeeping the culture and our communities from predators in light of social media influencer and BKChat star Marc Cuban abusing fellow cast member Esther Falana and forwarding revenge porn of Lani Good; whether Big Latto should out the male rapper that made sexual advances toward her; whether Trengz Songs will be convicted of sexual assault in the near future & more.
TIMESTAMPS
(01:12) - Did Trend Central exploit Esther Falana and Lani Good's unfortunate experience with Marc Cuban on full Disclosure? Discussion points: Bianca, BKChat, Nunu
(13:22) - Do these social media influencers really have money and should we fake it till we make it? Discussion points: Lani, Tion Wayne, Rolex
15:44 - How can we ensure we hold abusers accountable? Discussion points: Marc Cuban. Tinder Swindler
20:17 Should Big Latto name and shame the male rapper that made sexual advances toward her? Discussion points: Lil Wayne, Kodak Black
25:54 Should bloggers and journalists be made to name their sources when a false story is spread? Discussion points: Louis Pisano, Rihanna, ASAP Rocky, Amina Muaddi, Jason Lee, The Queen
28:10 Is a Trey Songz sexual assault case around the corner? Discussion points: Rory Farrell, sexual assault
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Domestic Abuse websites and helplines
Domestic abuse - Victim Support UK
Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline - 0808 2000 247 (refuge.org.uk) UK
Domestic abuse: how to get help - GOV.UK (www.gov.uk) UK
Nigeria · Commonwealth Says No More Nigeria
Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team – DSVRT Lagos Nigeria
Alex, Novella and The Director discuss our frustration with celebrants and attendees' lateness to events, pressure applied upon family and friends to support business ventures, why are people shamed for being single & more.
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(01:34) Why are we still late to events post-pandemic? Discussion points: Are we rewarding bad behaviour by waiting for latecomers? Why are we on time for work but late to events?
(15:50) Why do we expect support from family and friends regarding personal ventures? Discussion points: The importance of building a network, strangers showing you support and making you money, communicating why you won't support someone on a particular venture.
(30:02) Should we have therapy before entering into a new relationship? Discussion points: Shaming people that are not in relationships, the importance of our relationships with ourselves.
(50:24) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss the saga between Ari Fletcher and Taina Williams regarding the alleged abuse of Ari's and rapper G Herbo's son, dating after having a child, the accidental shooting of a 14-year-old boy by his 12-year-old cousin, the importance of being able to speak your mother tongue & more!
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(02:11) Did Taina Williams abuse Ari Fletcher's and G Herbo's son Yoshon?
(18:48) As a woman could you date a man with a very young child (under 2)? When is an appropriate time to start dating again after having a child?
(30:19) What are the best safeguarding practices for children in the home and outside of school? Should there be consequences for the adults present whilst a 12-year-old girl accidentally shot her 14-year-old cousin?
(44:15) Whose responsibility is it to make sure that children know their mother tongue? How important is it to you to know your native language? Based on Mariam Musa and Adeola Patronne featuring on Madam Joyce's Cocktails and Takeaways podcast.
(1:02:27) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss the rising costs and stress of getting your hair done; whether people genuinely like the eccentric fashion trends or just follow fashion; how to maintain changing friendship dynamics as an adult and more!
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(02:25) Is the high cost of hairstyling justified? Discussion points: Instagram hairstylists vs Aunty hairdressers, the rise of inflation, drop in demand for braided hairstyles.
(16:48) Are fashion houses trolling us? Do people actually like the extreme fashion trends or is it pressure to keep up? Discussion points: Balenciaga tire trainers, Kanye West, fashion faux pas, fashion police, retro trends.
(28:21) How do we maintain changing friendship dynamics as adults? Discussion points: Main character syndrome, redefining friendships, boundaries, support systems, empathy, compassion.
(50:16) Advice to our younger selves. Discussion points: Holding yourself and others accountable, asking appropriate questions, aiming for good friendships not perfect ones.
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Novella is back! We discuss the unfortunate events surrounding the Child Q case, Mary J Blige's recent Vlad TV interview and the pressure society places on women to want to have children, the pressure on the WFH gang to return to the office and more.
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00) Intro
(03:29) Why are UK brunches subpar compared to Dubai brunches? (A la carte menu, buffet, watered-down drinks)
(11:12) Why was Child Q failed? (Institutionalised racism, safeguarding and police)
(27:18) Why are people being forced into the office? (Office politics, anxiety and microaggressions)
(31:07) - Why do we shame and pressurise women into wanting to have children or have more? (Mary J Blige VLAD TV interview)
(45:49) Advice to our younger selves
(49:35) A special Mother's Day message
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Alex and The Director discuss why people are querying Davido's sold out at the 02 arena, Netflix's Inventing Anna and fraudsters we have personally encountered, the rehabilitation of abusers based on the Dizzee Rascal domestic violence case and more. Timestamps (0:00) Intro (03:00) What do the empty seats at the Davido concert really mean? (05:42) Keep your private life private (09:42) Who really paid off Prince Andrew's victim? (13:10) Why is the Tinder Swindler an overnight celebrity? (14:24) Netflix's Inventing Anna review (23:02) Everything is going up but salaries (30:31) Dizzee Rascal's rage at his guilty verdict (37:44) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss everyone’s favourite fraudster the “Tinder Swindler” Simon Leviev and our lack of empathy towards his victims, whether the power of the tongue works, knowing when you’ve levelled up in life and more.
Timestamps
(0.00) Intro
(0:57) The Tinder swindler and our lack of empathy/sympathy for the victims.
(12:50) Going through different seasons like a waiting season.
(23:20) The power of the tongue and speaking good or bad things into your life.
(31:49) How do you handle messengers?
(40:49) When did you know you had levelled up or made it in life?
(50:39) Advice to our younger selves
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Alex and Novella discuss catching omicron, Kanye continuing to publicly harass Kim, the UK emphasising animal cruelty over racism, male podcast slander, why we are so obsessed with celebrities and more.
Timestamps
(0:00) Intro (2:04) Our encounter with Omicron (13:06) Is animal abuse worse than racism (Kurt Zouma scandal)? (19:48) Is Molly Mae making money moves with her new book? (27:30) Red flags in a relationship Kim and Kanye edition (39:33) Why are we obsessed with Celebrities? (47:15) Focus on the good male podcasts (55:25) Advice to our younger selves.
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Alex and Novella have a "wine down" and reminisce on our favourite episodes, the year as a whole, and both podcast and personal goals for 2022.
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Alex and Novella discuss their Christmas plans, what might happen if Boris Johnson resigns, the issue that some men have with well of independent women and more.
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Alex and Novella discuss their experiences of turning 30, having a renewed mindset since turning 30, and finding the balance when sharing personal information, especially regarding your relationship.
Timestamps: (0:00) Intro (0:41) Novella’s experience of turning 30 (7:13) Alex’s experience of turning 30 (15:23) Reevaluating friendships post 30 (22:42) Oversharing your relationship woes (33:36) Seeking external council (43:00) Advice to our younger selves.
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Alex and Novella explain why they've been gone for so long. Trigger warning as we talk about death and how to support people that are dealing with grief and loss.
(00:06) Intro (01:02) Our hiatus explained (09:10) Tips to support a person grieving (28:38) The importance of life insurance (35:15) Overcoming the stigma surrounding death (43:52) Outro
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Alex and Novella discuss the politics surrounding black hair, poor party etiquette, and finding local restaurant gems.
Timestamps (0:00) Intro (0:31) The podcast summer Hiatus (1:11) GRM Gala's best and worst dressed (6:28) Will there be another 'Plymouth Shooting' due to poor mental health post-pandemic? (9:20) Reconnecting with the community post-pandemic (12:49) Victory for Britney Spears (15:14) The politics surrounding black hair (22:10) Proper party etiquette (30:18) Love or hate relationship with London (39:03) Advice to our younger selves.
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Alex and Novella discuss overcoming imposter syndrome, holding yourself in high esteem, and relinquishing control.
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Alex and Novella are perplexed by the unhealthy obsession that some cis straight men have with gay men and whether bathing is an act of privilege.
Timestamps (0.00) Intro (1.00) Dababy's homophobic antiques and homophobia in music (11.45) Is mandatory to bathe daily? (25:10) The impact of Millennial managers and whether Gen Z rates us.
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This week Alex & Novella discuss what life would be like if we were Prime Minister and why you're not obliged to spend your money with black businesses.
Timestamps (0.00) Intro, (01:03) Why are phones so expensive? (6:28) Follow London, You will go Broke! (15:25) Alex & Novella for prime minister (21:31) Hoarding syndrome (30:17) Black-owned business horror stories.
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Alex and Novella discuss Chrissy Teigen suffering from depression due to cancel culture and our personal experiences with overcoming jealousy.
Timestamps (0:00) Intro (03:00) Love Island 2021 Review (12:30) Are you cut out to be an influencer? (18:02) Chrissy Teigen battling depression after being cancelled (24:56) Why do some people post more on socials than others? (43:10) Overcoming jealousy (58:19) Stay safe post Freedom day (01:06:54) Advice to our younger selves.
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This Week Alex & Novella discuss how to achieve rich aunty vibes and how to avoid being ripped off as an intern.
Timestamps (0:00) Reviewing fast-food establishment in London, (03:44) Intro, (04:34) What it really takes to be a rich Aunty, (20:59) Who should foot then bill at a birthday celebration? (24:28) Legalities surrounding internships and work experience in the UK, (52:19).
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Alex & Novella have a candid discussion concerning matters surrounding weight and contraception.
Timestamps (00:52) Wisdom from our parents and how our relationship with them changes as we grow (08:33) Our contraception journey and the best contraception for us (36:15) Handling fat fighters and weight shamers.
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Alex and Novella discuss everything from the Matt Hancock affair to The Derek Chauvin sentencing.
Timestamps: (01:19) Has justice been served with Derrick Chauvin? (04.40) Matt Hancock failed to keep his hands to himself. (21:45) Is it right to use religious leaders to encourage anti-vaxxers in ethnic minorities (35:30) Covid is spread when you dance? (38:20) Britney Spears was held captive in a conservatorship battle with dad. (52:18) Does a man still have a duty of care after a relationship ends (58:18) Advice to our younger selves.
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Alex and Novella discuss 2021 being filled with postponed events, Our confusion regarding high profile men cheating on their beautiful wives (Carmelo and Lala Anthony), Men that handle rejection badly, Toxic masculinity in fatherhood & more.
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Alex and Novella discuss whether Christianity is a flexible religion, whether there are any real benefits of being a nice person, how to respect money & more.
Timestamps (0:00) Intro, (3:25) Should we consume controversial religious online content? (15:28) Is it worth being a nice person? (24:50) How to avoid being taken advantage of (31:30) Money Taboos (44:53) Instagram business pet peeves.
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Alex & Novella discuss the various responses to the recent cryptocurrency market crash, performative allyship and attacks on influencers in regards to the unfortunate circumstances in Palestine, Identifying Jamel as the real villain on Blue therapy, the alarming rate that people are going missing & more.
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This week Alex & Novella discuss the necessary repercussions for calling your partner sister a b***h regarding Chioma from Blue Therapy, Joe Budden firing his castmates on-air, poor money management & more.
Timestamps: Intro (0:00) Encouraging Paul to leave Chioma after slandering his sister (7:13) The Joe Budden podcast debacle (21:51) Planning for a better financial future (29:13).
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Alex & Novella discuss the ridiculous rise in wedding costs, why women aren't allowed to have standards, people learning to keep private affairs off social media & more.
Timestamps (1:50) Eternal Khloe Kardashian and Tristan saga, (15:49) Berating women for their standards, (28:30) Keeping private matters off social media, (36:00) The evolution of afrobeats, (48:29) why are weddings so expensive these days (53:20) Advice to our younger selves.
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Alex and Novella discuss the new show Blue Therapy focused on couples therapy, our disappointment in light of the 20 women accusing Noel Clarke of sexual misconduct; horror stories of women and their partners with poor hygiene & more.
Timestamps (0:00) Intro, (2:16) Blue Therapy (YouTube show) Review, (13:25) Can a single/unmarried person give marriage advice and counselling, (19:00) The BENEFITS of individual and couple's therapy, (28:28) Sexual misconduct allegations against Noel Clarke, (49:23) Experience of people with poor hygiene.
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Alex and Novella discuss the complicated dynamic of being an adult and a child simultaneously; breaking generational curses and patterns; why relationships break down & more.
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Alex & Novella discuss being honest about your finances with people especially over the past year, the pressure to lend money, craving the freedom to travel and more.
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Alex, Novella & The Director discuss whether most people rush marriages, is it really for richer for poorer in sickness and in health, watching the unfortunate demise of relationships & more.
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Alex, Novella and our Director discuss misogyny becoming a hate crime, our encounters with the police at home and abroad, racial ignorance as a result of covid #STOPASIANHATE & more.
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Alex, Novella and our director discuss all rappers Saweetie and Quavo breaking after numerous infidelities. We also explain why we wouldn't reconcile with a cheating partner and emphasise that men need to do better to not chest and more.
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Alex, Novella and The Director discuss the blame that women take even when they are the victim. We discuss mother’s teaching daughters how to act when approached by strangers on the road and why women don’t speak up after being harassed. We also talk about rape being illegal in Dubai and why people should be really careful when they’re out there & more.
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Alex, Novella and our director hop on the mic to discuss the pitiful 1% pay increase for NHS workers, the shambles that is our government, the British royal family debacle concerning Harry and Meghan on Oprah and more. We recorded the episode before the interview aired but our predictions were correct including Piers Morgan continued harassment of Meghan Markle.
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Alex and Novella and our director hop on the mic to discuss our obsession with celebrity breakups; healthy co-parenting, Bobby Schmurda's release and whether we would do time for our friends. We also discuss whether the 21st of June will actually mark the end of lockdown as we know it or whether it's a ploy & more.
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Alex and Novella discuss weight insecurities, what we're giving up for Lent, why are people obsessed with body counts, the benefits of online dating and more.
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Alex and Novella discuss the controversy surrounding usurping of presenter Candice Brathwaite for Rochelle Humes in the BBC docuseries on the mortality rate of black pregnant women in the NHS. We also discuss the rise and rise of BBL's in the black community, our obsession with hourglass figures and big bums AKA Yansh and where the obsession stems from.
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Alex and Novella discuss the difference between the UK and American attitudes to anything remotely sexual. We compare stripper culture, only fans and influencer culture and ask why there is a lack of respect and privacy afforded to our British peers.
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Alex and Novella discuss all things money. From the Reddit group pumping and dumping Game and AMC stocks to their own financial mistakes, we take you through how to have a better relationship with money in 2021.
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Alex and Novella go down memory lane of working in retail as we mourn the loss of Debenhams. We also cover the importance of reflecting after arguments, questioning whether a private life is a happy life, understanding the impacts of cheating emotionally in a relationship referring to Maya from the show Girlfriends as an example & more.
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Alex and Novella discuss their favourite podcasts, establishing firm boundaries, whether we're taught to respect elders or fear them, the fine line between prying and being a good friend & more.
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Alex and Novella discuss gender roles in relationships, love languages, addressing relationship goals & more.
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After a year hiatus, the show is back talking about why the show was on a break, unlearning people-pleasing, blackness in the pandemic workplace and more.
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