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Hey, Var!
Women are meant to live communally, but we don't do this very well anymore! This leaves us feeling alone and honestly, not sure who's with us. REALLY with us. This is the place we meet to restore life together; where we link arms in deep Friendship, pulling each other to a higher place of destiny, purpose and perfection in Christ.
We do this through two Hebrew words: Haver, which means "Friend," and Havar, which means "yoked together for a heavenly task."
This is "Friendship in Motion” - Women carrying the weight of their lives… together.
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We’re live inside Tabatha’s new group, Build Bold Branding Co Marketplace Revival, and this one’s for the women ready to chart new territory. Stacey and Tabatha talk about the adventure of finding your voice in business, the evolution of that voice, and why your voice is your authority.
This isn’t about playing it safe—it’s about stepping onto solid ground, not shaky footing, and daring to blaze a trail with confidence, expertise, and Spirit-led creativity. We’ll explore how branding can launch you, the crossover between marketplace and mental health, and the freedom, faith, and fun of being Confidently Original.
In this live conversation from the Release the Runners Crusade closed group, we talk about the beauty—and the challenge—of dreaming the same dream as friends and ministry partners. How do you stay united when you each carry different perspectives? What keeps you running together instead of pulling apart?
Here’s the truth: when God’s hand is on it, you don’t have to struggle or strain. He goes before us, and we get to ask, Where is the burden light? That’s where the fun, faith, and freedom are found—the space to push the envelope, follow the fire of the Lord, and run farther and faster together.
And at the heart of it all is friendship—the reminder that you do have freedom, joy, and connection, even in ways everyday life as women doesn’t always allow.
This week on Hey, Var! we’re letting you in on our live conversation from the Release the Runners Crusade Facebook group as we get ready for our New Hampshire crusade this November. We’re talking about why the middle of a mission matters more than the ending—and how real success is measured in the way we work together, not just how perfect the event turns out.
In the Havar way, leadership isn’t about one person giving orders—it’s about moving as a circle, pulling in the same direction, and keeping connection strong long after the crusade ends. It’s all about we over me.
High Stakes: Where Do I Put My Stake in the Ground?
Every woman comes to a moment where she has to pause, lean in, and decide: Where will I put my stake in the ground?
In this episode, we explore what it means to choose your ground—the places where your pain and passion intersect, and where God might be inviting you to build something lasting.
Like the pioneers who rode into new land and marked it as their own, there’s something powerful about saying, “This is where I stand. This is what I’m called to.”
We’re revisiting a moment from Episode 87: Trust Fall, thanks to a listener who asked us to go deeper.
Sometimes, putting your stake in the ground is simply about saying yes—even when the next steps are still unfolding.
We did it! FriendTrip 2025—our first-ever getaway with two other friend duos—is officially in the books, and today’s guests are living proof that you can roll with us and live to tell about it (mud, meltdowns, and all).
From deflated inner tubes in murky waters to soul-soaking conversations in the hot tub, we unpack what it looked like to let go, lean in, and laugh a lot. There were definitely moments we thought we’d lost them—but spoiler alert: both women said they’d do it again. That, friends, is a certified Var Land victory.
This episode is full of humor, heart, and holy moments. If you’ve ever craved adventure with meaning, deep connection, or a trip that changes more than just your scenery—this one’s for you.
Listen in. Get inspired. And maybe start packing for the next one.
We’re gearing up for our first official Friend Trip Getaway!
We’ve dreamed about this for years—and now it’s finally happening. Four women, two duos, have said yes to the call (and somehow trusted us with their friendship, their time, and possibly their lives for 24 hours). In this episode, we unpack what these Spirit-led adventures mean to us, how they’ve become altars of becoming, and why we believe they’re worth everything. These aren’t just getaways—they’re where friendship is forged in fire, laughter sounds like worship, and the Holy Spirit meets us in the wild. We wouldn’t trade them for anything.
It’s easy to say we trust our friends—until they ask us to prove it in ways that don’t make sense! If you’re someone who needs the full picture before you move, this one’s for you.
What happens when we freefall? When you trust a God-given friend before you fully understand, it doesn’t just build the relationship—it builds something inside them too. Your trust becomes fuel, and the confidence you show in her becomes the confidence she carries into the world.
We’re not talking about blind trust or ignoring red flags—we’re talking about the kind of faith that moves before it all makes sense. Let’s talk about what it really means to trust, to move with faith, and to walk the wild adventure of God-ordained friendship.
We’re breaking alone.
But shame and abandonment run deeper—convincing us connection isn’t safe, needing others is weakness, and hiding is survival.
We call it strength. God calls it stolen communion.
This episode uncovers the spirit of abandon—the lie that says you’re on your own—and how shame turns it into a lifestyle of silence and mistrust.
💥 In this episode:
– We name wounds that shaped your independence
– We break shame’s agreement that you must be okay alone
– We explore how God uses friendship to rebuild what trauma guarded
– And we remind you: you’re still worthy of being held
Healing isn’t just personal—it’s relational.
The rubble in your heart is real.
But so is the friend who won’t quit.
Who shows up.
Who stays to help you rebuild.
That’s covenant. That’s Kingdom friendship.
And that’s how you rebuild.
HEY VAR PODCAST – SEASON 3.0 EPISODE 85
Welcome back to HEY, VAR!- Outfitting Women for Kingdom Friendship since 2011.
This is Season 3.0, and we’re pressing deeper into the power of friendship forged in fire and anchored in purpose.
On this episode, we’re diving into how we’re exploring friendship through the Havar anointing—being joined together in friendship for a heavenly task.
We’re talking covenant, calling, and company.
And this season? We’re not just recording—we’re building.
🔥 Launching our new shop: Friendship Outfitters — gear + goods for the ones you’d ride into battle with. 🔥 Rolling out Friendship Adventure Getaways — because some friendships are meant to be formed in the wild. 🔥 And every episode is stirring up courage, connection, and the kind of friendships that carry Kingdom weight.
So grab your bestie, hit play, and pull up a seat at the fire. Let’s break alone, link arms, and run this trail together.
How do you know when you're running with the right people?
It's time to take an assessment and learn 3 markers of health.
Join us as we upgrade into Havar 3.0 where two besties are learning to navigate the in's and out's of true Kingdom community and connection the healthy way!
Is Leadership what we think it is? Is there a healthier way? Can we turn the tide? We think we can!
Stacey puts Tabatha on the reporter's hot seat to discuss how Tabatha is doing Leadership the New Wineskin Way. Whether you've been a leader for years or just getting started, we invite you to join the conversation!
It was time for a check-in! We've missed you, we've missed our mics, and even more than that, we think HAVAR is growing into a lot more than what we thought it was (what's new?!). Now we're at 82 and New. It definitely feels like a new day! We had an amazing weekend last weekend of seeing the start of something we've wanted to see for so long. Tabatha set a powerful table for local leaders and Stacey almost didn't show up. But in the end, friendship set the table, and we think it just might be friendship that keeps us there.
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Well, we didn't see this one coming. A passion to follow God and a calling to do it together sometimes doesn't look like what we imagined. In those times, we cling to Him and let go of what He asks us so that the greater things can come. Now we've come full circle to how we began: Sometimes friendship looks like staying, other times it looks like going, and always it looks like celebrating! Listen in today for how to separate your paths without separating your hearts. Together means together, even when it doesn't, and it's all going to be okay when it's God who holds you both.
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When we come to relationships only wanting to receive, it ends up being a pretty lonely feeling on both sides. The root of "I" is isolation, though it may not feel like it in the moment.
But when we come in the posture of service, it is life-giving to everyone. The root of "We" is community, and this is where we will always find our greatest fulfillment and purpose.
Join us this week as we turn our Receiving Stations into Service Stations so that we all get full!
We were excited to be joined by author, fellow podcaster, and our good friend Denise Pass, who shared biblical ways to change our mindset about relationships as well as her new book, "Make Up Your Mind: Unlock Your Thoughts, Transform Your Life." It just launched and we are so happy for you, Denise! Check it out here:https://www.amazon.com/Make-Up-Your-Mind-Transform/dp/1614841268/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3UG18F7KAMTQS&keywords=Denise+pass&qid=1649850572&sprefix=denise+pass%2Caps%2C89&sr=8-1
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Have you ever felt the pain of disconnection and with it all the painful emotions it brings? When those moments come, it may seem like it's easier to check out than to check back in. But we know in HAVAR Land that we are called to never stay gone long and to always meet back at the table because that is what God-designed Friendship does. Here's how we did it this week and WHY.
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There's nothing worse than having our own thoughts bombard us and not knowing where they come from or WHO's behind them! As Christian women, this can be a constant struggle since all of us have a deep desire to hear God but can't always be certain it's Him who is speaking to us. This week's podcast takes a few pointers from the Samaritan Woman at the Well on what it's like when Jesus starts talking to us, and how we have the right as daughters of God to take authority over our earthly thoughts so that they are are aligned with heavenly ones.
Have you read Tabatha's mini e-book yet?! For many women the battle for our destinies is often fought on the frontline of our minds. The taunts and torment from the enemy can leave us feeling stagnant and disillusioned.
When we are redeemed by the blood, walk in the light of God's truth, and are filled with His Spirit, His light shines upon the path to Freedom, Truth, and Enlightenment that paves the way to His purposes for our lives.
In "Girl, Take Yourself Off the Shelf, You Were Made to Shine," Tabatha calls us to rise up as Daughters of God, filled with His Spirit and ready to shine the light of Heaven with power and authority to a world in need of what we carry. It's the perfect companion to this week's podcast! Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Take-Yourself-That-Shelf/dp/B09NR9PNZC/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1T0VN4CWEUGE1&keywords=Tabatha+haines&qid=1648640841&sprefix=tabatha+haines%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-1
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Feeling an uptick in warfare lately? We know we are. But we are not helpless, alone, or without ways to fight! This week God is showing us how by calling us to cover one another through one powerful action word: honor. When we grasp what it truly is, an impenetrable shield of protection raises around and over us as we move together as one. This is a whole new level of Friendship in Motion that will keep us alive and advancing forward!
Do you feel far from God or like you can't hear what He's saying? Stacey's new book, "Chosen: The fire of intimacy with the Lord of the harvest" takes you on an intimate, 44-day journey to rid yourself of the noises and distractions that keep you from hearing God's passionate voice in your life. Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/Chosen-fire-intimacy-Lord-harvest/dp/B09SL32FJP/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2EKZ7W2U0S060&keywords=chosen+stacey+march&qid=1648035972&sprefix=chosen+stacey%2Caps%2C129&sr=8-1
"This is a sweet and beautiful devotional-style book that documents one woman’s journey of love with Jesus and, truly, in its essence, every woman’s journey of love with Him. I felt the ups and downs deeply as they mirror many of my own. So very relatable and effective in stirring the embers of love again."
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How do you know if your life is "good soil" and if you've planted the right things? God took us through a little "gardening" exercise this week to show us what to plant and how to protect the sacredness of our gardens together or individually. You're going to leave this podcast with fresh vision, renewed purpose, and a new garden that springs to life. It's planting time, Vars!
HAVAR LIFE IS THE NEW WOMEN'S MINISTRY OF THE 21ST CENTURY! Check our our website and contact us about our new The Well Life Workshop: The One and Only On-Site or Virtual Friendship-Building and Destiny-Discovering Intensive for your next women's gathering! https://www.havarinternational.com
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Ok ladies, here we go! Do alcohol and the anointing of God mix? Can Havar Life at The Well include a little wine every now and then? What's the harm, right??
Well, it seems the world is asking a similar question with a phrase we heard recently: "sober curious." People have started to wonder if drinking is actually benefitting them the way they think it does and are testing it out by changing their social drinking lifestyle. This week we're pressing in, but we're not so much "sober curious" as much as we are "Holy Spirit curious"!
What do you think? Does a little wine really matter at God's Well? We might ruffle some cocktail feathers this week, but we invite you to come in, grab a spritzer, and decide for yourself if you want the wine of the world that turns to water, or the water at the well that turns into wine. This round's on us, cheers!
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"Jealousy is an ugly monster! So many of us have been isolated from having true friends because of work, home, and life responsibilities, not to mention having calls on our lives that no one understands. It's hard to watch others find friendship when you know you need it as desperately as the air you breathe!"
These powerful words were written by our guest and dear friend Angie Naish, who came to us because she wanted to admit what she had been feeling - jealousy over our friendship! It was keeping her stuck and isolated, but more importantly, it was robbing her of destiny. So, we gave her a big ole hug and asked her to talk about it with all of us because she's not the only one who has brought this up recently!
Let's rip the lid off of this topic today, ladies! The devil can't have our destinies anymore.
HAVAR LIFE IS THE NEW WOMEN'S MINISTRY OF THE 21ST CENTURY! Check our our newly spruced up website and contact us about our new The Well Life Workshop: The One and Only On-Site or Virtual Friendship-Building and Destiny-Discovering Intensive for your next women's gathering! https://www.havarinternational.com
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We're celebrating Stacey's New Book Release! Stepping into the Call of Author never felt so good, and it was all made possible through Friendship—the kind that leads you onto the narrow way so that the world opens up to you. This is where the things we've prayed for our whole lives start making sense, and suddenly we know what we were made for. Join us as we take this very special look at Friendship through an excerpt from Chosen: The fire of intimacy with the Lord of the harvest.
Available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Chosen-fire-intimacy-Lord-harvest/dp/B09SL32FJP/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2MEK6E0TF4GEZ&keywords=chosen+stacey+march&qid=1645622687&sprefix=chosen+stacey%2Caps%2C74&sr=8-1
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Do you ever have these ridiculous moments in your friendships that you think will stay a joke between the two of you forever and ever and then suddenly you find yourself telling it on a very public platform... like, say, a podcast?
Ex. Normal-not-so-normal conversation one day:
Tab: I do care for you, Stacey.
Stacey: (completely, embarrassingly serious) But you never sit on my lap.
We still don't know why, how, where this came from, but we laughed for ten hours and refer back to it at least once a week when we need a little absurd friendship pick-me-up.
So, let's just say that after a couple of recent conversations where we both felt unheard, we successfully came back to the table to talk it over, and the result was Stacey got her wish.
Join us in the lap of friendship this week that shares how we we worked our way through friction by discussing the dividing line of reasonableness and 4 characteristics of true community that build trust.
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Q: What do you get when you put two best friends in a room with a lighter?
A: A prophetic act to burn man-made labels and replace them with the truth of our God-given design.
Once the smoke cleared, not only could we breathe again, but we could also see more clearly how God is doing this for all of us! Labels can be subtle little things that are spoken over us, sometimes maliciously but often innocently too, so we take them and wear them like badges. The trouble is that we never ask God if they're what HE'S thinking about us.
We've been on quite the journey the last three weeks that led us here—to dismantling the labels so that we can step into our true identities, not just individually but together, too! So grab a lighter and join us! You'll be glad you did.
One of the ways you can support Friendship Around the World is to subscribe and leave a review to this podcast. We are so grateful when you do! Each one brings a smile (and sometimes a good laugh or tear!) to us and also helps us reach more women who need this community. We are here to pull each other to a higher place of destiny, purpose, and perfection in Christ, and we don't want anyone to miss out on that!
Have you downloaded your FREE e-book, "Hardwired for Friendship" yet? If not, go to https://www.havarinternational.com to get our gift to you!
Also, check out Tabatha's newly released mini e-book, "Girl, Take Yourself Off That Shelf, You Were Made to Shine." Available on our website or on Amazon.
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Think Disney's just for kids? Well, look again... at Encanto! This story follows Mirabel who, despite lacking a "special gift" like everyone else in her family, fights to save her family's home, which is cracking from the inside due to perfectionism, control, an unwillingness to admit that something is wrong, and so many other reasons!
If Wisdom can scream from the streets like Proverbs says, then it can sure scream from our TV's. And that's exactly what it did as God wrapped up our 2-part series on spiritual gifts with an animated visual so powerful we're still trying to unwrap it.
Come join us on this episode, where we might have built a spiritual soap box 6 feet high, took our podcast mics to the top, and shouted for the prophets to come down. We'll talk about Bruno! And while we do, we think you'll see yourself in this story too.
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Do you ever feel like there's something missing, like you're not sure how to plug-in or show up, and when you do, maybe you still feel unsatisfied or frustrated? Like something just isn't clicking in?
The second you received salvation, you were given Holy Spirit gifts. They are unique to you and empower you to take your place in the family of God as an active and contributing member of His supernatural Body. When you understand what your gifts are and for what purposes they were given, there is a confidence and boldness that comes upon your life for the sake of those around you. Signs and wonders will follow you. Doors will open for you. And God's power will flow through you.
Paul said do not be ignorant about them! YOU have supernatural gifts.
We were so excited about this topic that halfway through the podcast, we realized we needed to make this a two-parter! We couldn't continue the discussion without pausing to let you discover your gifts for yourself... because when you know your power, you also know your position, and that makes all of us stronger!
To discover your gifts, you can try Stacey's method discussed on the podcast, or you can go to Tabatha's favorite tool - a quiz (linked below)! Either way, we're excited to hear what you discover, which will set us up for Part 2 next week with Tabatha's amazing encounter with God and Disney's Encanto. :)
https://www.biblesprout.com/articles/god/holy-spirit/spiritual-gifts-test/
One of the ways you can support Friendship Around the World is to subscribe and leave a review to this podcast. We are so grateful when you do! Each one brings a smile (and sometimes a good laugh or tear!) to us (we read them together) and also helps us reach more women who need this community. We are here to pull each other to a higher place of destiny, purpose, and perfection in Christ, and we don't want anyone to miss out on that!
Have you downloaded your FREE e-book, "Hardwired for Friendship" yet? If not, go to https://www.havarinternational.com to get our gift to you!
Also, check out Tabatha's newly released mini e-book, "Girl, Take Yourself Off That Shelf, You Were Made to Shine." Available on our website or on Amazon.
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On this special podcast spotlight, I am so excited for you to meet my (Tabatha’s) dear friend Lisa Cowling, as she releases a powerful, right now word from the Lord for the women of God.
On this episode, you will hear about how God connected us supernaturally, and how that connection led me to join a women’s supernatural gathering this week on Zoom, where Lisa shared a powerful word that she will release over us as well.
God is putting women face to face with him and shoulder to shoulder with each other to release Kingdom.
This gathering proved to me that one woman can connect many, so let’s dive right in to hear more!
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Okay, let's face it. No one likes to feel weak, walked on, or mistreated. Feeling powerful is a much better way to protect ourselves, right? But God doesn't want us to just feel powerful, He wants us to BE powerful. And that looks a little different than how most Christians go about it. This week God is showing us that the way to TRUE power, where the fruit of the Spirit is bursting from our lives to yield what it's supposed to, is found in this word: Vulnerability.
That might seem a little odd, and if we're honest, not very exciting and maybe even a little "ummm, no thank you." But hang on. God is leading us to a special place together of unbridled force through surrender that's not weak, passive, or boring. He's showing us that the way to powerful living is through opening our hearts so that heaven opens over us. This might be vulnerability the way you haven't quite heard it talked about before.
"Always be humble (lowly) and gentle (meek). Be patient (longsuffering) with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love." Ephesians 4:2 NLT
One of the ways you can support Friendship Around the World is to subscribe and leave a review to this podcast. We are so grateful when you do! Each one brings a smile (and sometimes a good laugh or tear!) to us (we read them together) and also helps us reach more women who need this community. We are here to pull each other to a higher place of destiny, purpose, and perfection in Christ, and we don't want anyone to miss out on that!
Have you downloaded your FREE e-book, "Hardwired for Friendship" yet? If not, go to https://www.havarinternational.com to get our gift to you!
Also, check out Tabatha's newly released mini e-book, "Girl, Take Yourself Off That Shelf, You Were Made to Shine." Available on our website or on Amazon.
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/heyvarpodcast/support
Well, as we so often say around here, God rarely lets us talk about a topic we don't first have to DO. We are Friendship in Motion after all! And this week, God called a big "change of play" through a friend. We were stunned, a little breathless, relieved, scared, excited, and oh so grateful!
In this season of Quick Turnarounds, we can't be confused when we start walking one way, only to have God call an audible and tell us to turn it around! This is strategy, but if we don't know that, we'll stay stuck in confusion. That's the enemy's inheritance, not ours!
Turnaround - noun
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an abrupt or unexpected change, especially one that results in a more favorable situation.
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the process of completing or the time needed to complete a task, especially one involving receiving something, processing it, and sending it out again.
When God calls an audible, it's our job to listen and respond quickly and courageously, remembering always that it's to keep us safe and move us to a more favorable place! So, get ready to watch God move in Sudden Turnarounds and Audible Plays. Listen in this week to hear about ours!
Have you downloaded your FREE E-book "Hardwired for Friendship" yet? If not, go to Havar international.com for our gift to you!
Also check out Tabatha's newly released mini e-book, "Girl, Take Yourself Off That Shelf, You Were Made to Shine." Available from our website or on Amazon.
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There might be a way to keep your New Year's Resolutions this year. We know, we know, some of you love this time of year when goals are set, resolutions are made, and words for the new year are optimistically etched into your journals for safe keeping. But if you're like us, maybe you're a terrible goal setter! If so, you are not alone, friend.
We figured the best way for us to explode into the New Year is to ditch the normal resolutions for some good old-fashioned God-revelation. That's something we can actually keep!
So join us for this New Year's Eve special episode as we break down some of the top resolutions Flaws style. Let's see what God is saying and help each other tackle this year with a little bit of accountability (but not too much, y'all) and a whole lot of fun!
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What does it mean to be a "prophetic" friendship podcast? What does it mean to be a prophetic people? And why should you even care?!
Well, we'll tell you, friends. There are so many things available to us in the Kingdom as Spirit-filled believers that we aren't accessing because we don't know that we can! Today, we banter (or, as Tabatha likes to say, we "blah-blah") back-and-forth about what it means to be women who hear the voice of God and move in the NOW word of the Lord together under the "palm tree" (Tabatha again) of Friendship. We're very thankful for living imagery around here.
So, from Blah-Blah's to Palm Trees, May Your Holidays Be Merry, Bright, and Prophetically Accurate!
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Should we feel guilty about using our God-given abilities and talents to make money? So much confusion and controversy surrounds this topic in Christian circles, so when the question came to us from one of our friends, we couldn't wait to put our Friendship two-cents in!
The Bible says that God gives us the ability to create wealth (Deut. 8:18) and Jesus didn't hold back much in Matthew 25 when He called the servant who failed to multiply his money "wicked and slothful." We don't want anyone around here being called wicked and slothful, friends. So, as any two good, opinionated friends should, we kept digging to get to the root of mindsets that keep us stuck and feeling guilty. When we have a healthy understanding of WHY God gives us abilities to make money, then we can become extravagant givers and resource centers for the blessings of God to flow.
Isn't that what we all want? We know we do! Big shout out to our friend Kiersten who challenged us this week! We loved it!
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From the latest release of Tabatha's first E-book (and how we thought it was a bestseller but as it turns out Stacey can't read) to learning and living out the meaning of Stacey's name, this episode is packed full of equal parts wisdom and equal parts wisecracks.
If life has you feeling a little stuck, listen to how Spirit-Filled Friendship can get you up and moving once again.
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We had fun with this one! Looking at some common advice out there in Friendship Land, we busted up a few myths that are almost true... but not quite! It's so easy to get swept away in what sounds good because honestly, there can be a lot of truth in conventional wisdom. BUT, when filtered through the Holy Spirit, it may not be quite as true as it sounds. As Christian women who are called to live and think higher, we have to soar above the noise to gain insight the world doesn't have so we can do what the world can't do!
This episode will help you filter out the good from the God. After all, isn't that what we should want for our Friendships?! MYTH BUSTERS, let's go!
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This isn't your typical Thanksgiving podcast, and we are over-flowingly grateful for that. We've just returned from the Fierce Women's Conference at Convergence Point Apostolic Hub in Independence, MO, where a banquet was set for us to feast around the table of the Lord. We laughed deeply, cried irreverently, worshiped with all we had, and made new connections with women who are giving their all in pursuit of Jesus. To say we are changed is an understatement. We are transformed.
To Pastor Shelley Lowery, our dear friend Cathy Tully, and all of our Fierce new sisters, this one's for you. We now know: The Feast is different when you eat with Warriors. Thank you for your fierce passion and unwavering devotion. We have tasted and seen and will remain in pursuit of the One who came to us this weekend. "He came. We knew that He would come."
May your Thanksgiving be different this year as one seated in the Presence of the One who prepares the table. Feast well, sisters.
"The anointing of your presence satisfies me like nothing else. You are such a rich banquet of pleasure to my soul." Psalm 63:5 (TPT)
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Welp, we have a new BFF in town! You are going to love Robin Gerblick, Founder & Visionary of Exodus Women's Retreats: crazy-fun, transformational adventures in the beauty of the wilderness where forever friendships are forged and faith is found. Who wouldn't want to be a part of THAT?!
You can hear some of the back story as to how we know Robin in Episodes 51 & 54, but on this episode we get to talk to this amazing, adventurous woman herself! It was such a rich conversation about Friendship: how it helped build her dream and keeps it going, the special bonds created through a common vision and working together, and how Friendships change when Jesus enters the scene, plus a lot more!
Wisdom was definitely flowing... so enjoy the Overflow from our friend, who shows us what incredible Adventure can be had when you take it with Jesus and your Friends.
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Have you grabbed your FREE copy of our newly released e-book: Hardwired for Friendship?
It can be devastating to lose a friendship you thought you'd have forever. In our first e-book (yay!), Stacey walks us from heartbreak to healing by discovering God’s true design for Christian friendship so that we can build meaningful connections that last and bring purpose to our lives.
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Does absence really make the heart grow fonder? What about in our friendships? Can friends survive physical distance but stay emotionally connected or vice versa? On this episode, Tabatha and Stacey kick around a topic from a teen flick that Tabatha watched from her sick bed this week. Jump in with us as we talk about the pros and cons of the distance that can come between us, and what we can do to bridge the gap when it does.
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A Flaws Hebrew Friendship Breakdown
Haver (n.) - Friend and companion
Havar (v.) - Yoked together for a Heavenly task
If you've ever wondered what in the world we're talking about over here when we say weird words like Haver and Havar, this episode will clear them right up (or maybe not). We mention them all the time, but today we're exploring them side-by-side so that we understand the kind of adventure God is calling us to together. We're pulling the plug on normal Friendship and "nouning" and "verbing" our way to deep connection and motion! So come along, Var!
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Nothing can kill a Friendship quite like the Comparison game. If she's pretty, I must be ugly. If she's smart, I must be dumb. If she's good at this, then I must be bad at it. A thousand little thoughts (LIES!) like these and you're doomed, and that just won't do in Friendship HAVAR Land, where we are called to pull the load side-by-side and together!
Aaaand you can't say we don't live out what we preach real good around here. It was Stacey's bright idea to talk about comparison, which landed us right smack dab in the middle of a Friendship fight during our first attempt at recording (for real). We pushed pause, got back our WE, hugged tight, and tried again. So, don't mind our kids Gabriel (4) and Addie (15) riding skateboards upstairs during this recording; we had to do an emergency late night Podcast session to make up for our Blow Up Gone Good. And it DID end up good.
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Sometimes it's hard to know how and where to move forward in our lives and friendships, but this week we just might have found a clue to help us. It's found in the word "zakhar," which means "to remember." Following the roots of our past helps us move forward in confidence, and it prevents us from making really dumb decisions in the present... just ask Stacey! Thank God Tabatha remembered who we are and saved us. Let's take some guidance from Hebrew culture this week and remember so that we can move forward in the fruit of our roots together.
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Join us for this Haver Homecoming Episode as Tabatha returns from her trip to AZ and Stacey rises up from her Netflix binge that carried her through worrisome flight delays and her Var so far away... Not even the wilderness of standby could stop this Exodus Retreat. There were friends made along the way and wisdom from the desert that brought Tabatha back home again.
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Can you have a husband ANDa best friend?! Well, we sure think so! But many women aren't quite sure if or how the two can coexist harmoniously. Prompted by a conversation Stacey had with her husband, we talk about how friendship is not only good for women, but when it's done well can be good for our husbands, too. Every one of us should find joy and fulfillment in both relationships without feeling guilty that BOTH are needed, wanted, and bring us life!
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Has God ever told you to “Drop your net" and "Come, follow me!" We remember when this happened to us—both of us in our own boats, doing our own thing, when Jesus said, "Hey, you two, drop what you're doing and come with Me... together!"
Little did we know all those years ago the sacrifices it would take but how much greater the "Kingdom catch" would be! If you're feeling called by God to new paths and adventures, listen in for encouragement and how Friendship tells "the story of survival, resilience, and beauty borne through perseverance" when you put your nets down and GO. This is Kingdom Friendship in Motion!
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Do you want to know what to do when you get yourself into a friendship pickle?! Well for starters, you can try not listening to this podcast! :) Sometimes it's okay to commit to something simply because your friend asks you to, but we are learning (through much pain and gnashing of teeth) that as God calls us deeper and higher together, no decision should be made lightly, and that sometimes the best thing you can do for your friend is to STAY when God calls her to GO.
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We have all been bogged down by struggles and challenges along life's journey, but when we allow our Faith to be our guide, we break free from the burdens that try to weigh us down, and we run the race that God has placed before us with endurance.
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We are in a remarkable new season where we get to exchange old ways for new, striving for rest, and limitation for freedom from all the things that have held us back.
The calendar year has been reset, and with it comes the grace to abide in Jesus and align with others who are on the same mission as us.
Friendship has never been so important!
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In moments of chaos and every kind of disorder, God will set apart persons to accomplish a holy work on the earth. If you haven't noticed, we are living in one of those moments now. The times are ripe for mighty women of valor to arise in power, to come forth in purpose, and to carry out holy assignments. It all starts with understanding who we are and what it means to be chosen and set apart.
To catch up on this week's main topic, listen to HIGH VOLTAGE Friendship, Episode 49 here.
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Have you ever wondered what makes some friendships stagnant and others a force to be reckoned with?! In this episode, we break down what it means to be set apart to accomplish a good and holy work, and how engaging in that work is like a high voltage electrical current, moving us from one point to the next. Basically, we're Friendship scientists now.
Also, Stacey announces a new venture that's been on her heart for a while that is finally launching with the help, of course, from her High Voltage Var. Hey, we can't talk about Friendship moving mountains unless we actually move mountains with it! So plug into the HAVAR (Friendship in motion) power and join us, and after you listen to the episode, we would LOVE it if you would follow the brand new Blink 3x on Facebook & Instagram!
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This Week's Friendship Friday is inspired by Behind the Chair Ministries Weekly Encouragements called "Lifelines."
Distractions and Confusion often come to hinder and entangle us along our Faith Journey, but when we learn to focus, we have the opportunity to persevere with guidance from God, the ultimate Path Maker and Lifeline.
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We found more Vars, and we couldn't be more excited!!! This week on the podcast we had the privilege of chatting with Alena Moore and Carlen Spruell from Behind the Chair Ministries. This dynamic pair is the real deal! They've been friends for over 30 years who work, minister, and do life together. Throughout this conversation, they give us a unique perspective on being a team while keeping the work of the Kingdom the most important thing through the challenges and victories of Friendship. We're inspired and happy!
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Are you mixing what you've heard God say with the faith to actually DO it? On today's episode, Stacey challenges us to step through the window of opportunity, because it won't stay open forever! It is to our benefit to not only hear God but to obey Him, and we must have the wisdom to step into the new before the old completely breaks down.
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So many women have spent years trying to walk the path other people have told them to go, but at no other time than now is God calling us to break old systems, step into new ones, and bring Kingdom on Earth to the Marketplace! On this Episode we share 3 Foundational Branding Tools that every Christian Entrepreneur should know to build their Kingdom Business. If you think you're not an Entrepreneur but know you're made for more than you're currently living, this could be the episode that changes everything for you.
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Every woman has SOMETHING God has placed in her heart to do, but it's not always clear as to how to start it or keep it going. One of the dreams in our hearts is to help you figure out the paths you can take and give you what you need for the journey. If God called you TO it, then He will equip you to DO it. And when you need help, that's what Friends are for.
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We're playing Spin the Wheel! No topic was off limits (though maybe a few should've been). Marriage, children, religion, makeups, breakups, and more all got a few minutes of off-the-cuff musings. We probably should never do this, which makes us want to do it more. We hope you enjoy this (mostly) light-hearted conversation that was a little more tame than our kitchen table ones. Until we plop a mic there, be grateful and let us know how YOU would answer some of these if put on the podcast spot! At least we have Friendship to help us work it all out!
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It's easy to cross our own boundary lines, but the question is: How can we learn to work our way back into those safe areas once again?
On this Friendship Friday Podcast, Kiersten Banks will share how the practice of journaling can show us:
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Where our boundaries have been crossed
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Where our limits have been reached
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How to Reevaluate and step back to see what we need to address
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We're continuing our Boundaries conversation from last week (Episode 45) with our good friend Kiersten Banks—a delightful human being who is wonderfully transparent and straight-up wise beyond her years. She has so much to offer us in the ways and practices of self-care, a passion she carries because of her own road to health and healing. Kiersten says, "Somewhere along my journey, I learned that taking care of myself was selfish. I picked up the habit of ignoring all the red flags I was receiving, and my life slowly snowballed into a body with an autoimmune disease, a mind with constant disordered anxiety, and a spirit that was totally disconnected and numb." Who CAN'T relate to this in some way?! You're going to love this conversation as Kiersten teaches us to recognize areas where we lack boundaries, which has so much to do with knowing and admitting our limitations! But once we're aware and confident to say, "What's mine is mine, and what's yours is yours," then we are able to enjoy life and our friendships to the fullest! Connect with Kiersten on Facebook @Kierstenbs and Instagram @kierstenbbanks
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Do you have healthy boundaries OR could some of those boundaries actually be defenses? No shame here... we have all built them to keep us protected in some way. But the truth is, our defenses keep us from the connection and intimacy we crave while healthy boundaries move us toward them. This is an important distinction to make if we want our friendships and all of our relationships to thrive!
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I (Stacey) need to come a little clean here... I always thought boundaries were my thing. But have you ever heard the saying, "Fences make good neighbors"? Well, my fences were getting a little banged up and whacked down, so when Tabatha suggested we talk about boundaries on the podcast this week, I kind of freaked out a little (lot), went to a couple of therapists, wrecked my car in a parking lot, and took a day off work to ponder what my boundary-less, aimless life had become. Aaand, this was pretty much all because I needed to set a time limit on something pertaining to Flaws.
Look, you can't say we're not invested here.
This week we take a look at what boundaries mean in close relationships, why and how to have them, and what God says about them. Hint: He sets boundary lines because He protects what He loves, and they fall in very pleasant places for us, friends!
If you're experiencing any sort of burnout, it might just be because your fences are getting a little beat down, but this week we're going to repair and stand them up again so that blessing, not burnout, becomes the healthy marker of a life marked by God's overflowing protection over you and your friendships.
Flaw: Burnout
Law: Blessing
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Happy Friendship Friday. On this Episode, Tabatha takes us deeper into the topic of Gossip and explains What it is, What is does, and What we need to do about it.
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"Listen girl, don't repeat this, but did I tell you what Karen told me the other day? I'm ONLY telling you this because we should pray for her."
The reasons we find to gossip are pretty funny... well, funny until we learn how God feels about it and what effect it has on us when we do it. The Bible says gossip kindles God's wrath—against us, not the other person!—and leads to barrenness. We don't know about you, but ten minutes of getting something off our chest about someone else sure isn't worth an empty, fruitless life.
Gossip causes pain, so why would we want to inflict pain on those we love... especially on our best friends?! There's nothing quite like a behind-her-back conversation that will ruin her trust in you and your friendship, so the next time you're tempted to do it, push play on this podcast and remember:
FLAW: Destroy Her Reputation
LAW: Protect Her Reputation
Build-up your bestie before others; don't tear her down! You'll be so glad you did!
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On this special Friendship Friday Coaching Session, we'll give you a practical tool called The Wheel of Emotions that will help you not only NOT jump to conclusions about what someone else must be thinking or feeling, but also how to put language to your own thoughts and feelings. Basically, this will make you a champion communicator. Everyone will think you're amazing, and your friendships may just last one day longer! Join us every Friendship Friday for Story Time and Coaching On-the-Go!
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Have you ever had a misunderstanding in a friendship that caused a tiff, a rift, a blow up or a meltdown? No? Ok, us either, but let's talk about it anyway for fun's sake, shall we?
Misunderstanding probably gets us all everyday, multiple times a day! No shame here, friend; it happens to the best of us. But, instead of playing the blame game over how she was so wrong and we were so right, how about we better understand where misunderstanding comes from, how to communicate better to avoid it, and what to do if you're stuck in the middle of it now?
We might have a TINY (with capital letters) bit of experience in this area, so listen in for help and, as usual, a few ridiculous stories of our flawed ways and God's remarkable grace that continues to show us ways to do Friendship better than we could without Him or each other.
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Tabatha Haines & Stacey March
-The Friendship Coaches
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Today on the Podcast, Tabatha shares her take on how we are just one Spirit-Filled Friend away from tapping into our creative potential when we are courageous enough to allow them to encourage, elevate, and pull our creativity to the surface.
Tune in every "Friendship Friday", as we share a thought, tip, or highlight, from our Podcast Topic of the Week.
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Studies show that the Creativity factor is the number one recognized attribute in successful leaders; that creativity is a revenue generator; and that every person alive (that means you!) is born creative. Basically, we have to learn how NOT to be creative, and we’re sure doing a bang-up job at that (thank you western culture, technology, and the anxiety of hustle)!
So, I bet you can guess we’re going against that in this episode to unleash some Creativity, both in our personal lives and in our Friendships! We’ll talk about how to get Creativity flowing if you feel stuck, why it’s important that you create, and how to do it together so that you build something that lasts.
We hope this episode leaves you inspired and ready to become the Creative Genius you are so that your personal expression lives loud on the earth today!
For more, check out the book Big Little Breakthroughs, How Small, Everyday Innovations Drive Oversized Results by Josh Linkner.
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Join us, Every Friday, as we check in on the Podcast of the Week by sharing a few special points, to give you something to think about over the weekend and work on in your very own Friendships.
On today's Friendship Friday Episode, Stacey talks about the importance of Covering your Friend in Grace and Love.
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Tabatha and Stacey,
The Friendship Coaches
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This week we’re moving from cheerleading to championing! Now listen, there’s not one thing wrong with having or being a cheerleader to someone. We all need and love our cheerleaders! But every week we try to pay attention to where God is leading us, not just give commentary on where we’re currently parked. And that means this week we feel God moving us from bench warming to getting inside the game with our friend. There IS a difference! We spent 8 years thinking we were one way, when in reality we were the other. You can be on the outside looking in or live with her from the inside out. Guess which one we’re going for?! THE CHAMPION on the inside! If you want to be one too, join us on this podcast. This is the difference between encouraging her in her calling and defending it right along with her. She has enough cheerleaders. What she needs is a Champion. Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE + LEAVE A REVIEW and FIND US on the Socials IG https://www.instagram.com/theflawsoffriendship/?hl=en FB https://www.facebook.com/theflawsoffriendship
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“Everybody wants change. But nobody wants to change.” Change is happening all around us. We can’t deny it. We can’t stop it. What we CAN do is engage with the kind of change God is calling us to make, and usually that involves changing something in ourselves first. Sound scary? It can be! Unless you have a Friend. Don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with YOUR Friends! Are We Friends Yet?! If not, find us on the Socials and say "Hey!" IG https://www.instagram.com/theflawsoffriendship/?hl=en FB https://www.facebook.com/theflawsoffriendship
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Have you ever asked yourself why you are here on the earth and how do you accomplish what you’ve been put here to DO?!
We never do this. Except every other day. We’re not entirely sure we have the answers, obviously, but we think walking fully in our Callings might have something to do with who we bind ourselves to in life. These people (if they’re the right people!) help us achieve what we never could alone. Even though it’s a big word that feels about as attainable as walking on water—come on, Friend, let’s see if we can make some sense of it!
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To move from casual connection to committed affection requires trust, obedience and, above all, a giving and receiving of love, as someone else's hopes, dreams, and destiny fill your arms with Life.
People are begging for a place to truly be themselves: accepted, loved, and not left behind. A place to truly belong, to stretch and grow with honest and loving accountability. But these places can seem like a fable, just out of reach.
But maybe, just maybe, we were made to experience something more: closeness to someone that makes us feel seen, heard, and known.
Look into the eyes of the friend God has placed in front of you. Her commitment is calling to you and daring you to test its breadth. And my dear friend, I can tell you right now, it's wide enough for you to step into. The arms of covenantal love that Won't. Let. Go.
And if you accept it, its power will heal, strengthen, and catapult you into deeper places of intimacy and calling that you have longed for but could never achieve... Alone.
Join us on Podcast Episode #38, as we discuss:
What Covenantal Friendship is and What Is It Not
How to Know If You’re Called to One
Why It Might Be Hard to Make One
How Covenant Leads to Calling
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Blog of the Week Excerpt:
So, I’m making a covenant with you.”
Perhaps the breakdown was in my delivery, but honestly, I expected something a little more grateful or weepingly ecstatic because of what I had just offered her—my undying commitment until my last earthly breath. Instead, she sounded somewhat alarmed as she asked what that meant and if she was supposed to make one back, sort of with the reflection in her voice that said she had just eaten one of her allergic foods that was triggering her gag reflex. I said I wasn’t really sure. She accepted my covenant, thanked me, and we hung up, my car rolling a little lopsided on the wheels of a one-way commitment.
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Where do you rank on the Friendship Courage Scale?! Do you think you’re a Beginner, Intermediate, or Expert? How to tell may surprise you! No matter where you are, come with us as we explore how to be Courageous enough to risk being open and honest with what we need in order to keep healthy, ongoing connection in the face of our differences. As usual this lesson came to us the hard way, but it was good and worth it in the end. Stacey achieved Repentant Status while Tabatha catapulted up a Level. Check out the blog “The Courage to Connect (Even When You Don’t Want To!)” here: https://www.flawsoffriendship.com/post/the-courage-to-connect-even-when-you-don-t-want-to Don't forget to Subscribe, Share, and Leave a Review to Join us on the Journey to Making Friendship Famous.
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Maybe we should stop focusing on what we can’t do, and start focusing on what God has called us to do! And sometimes those things He calls us to are blazing trails so that others can move forward in the paths we leave behind.
Are you one of those called to Blaze a Trail?! If so, this week on the Podcast we take a look at 3 Trailblazers in the Bible who show us that Intimacy with God, Risk in the face of losing everything, and Influence in the high places are vital to fulfilling our callings in this world.
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On this episode, we are answering 10 basic questions people are asking when it comes to starting a podcast.
We add a few stories of our own in order to help save time and money, giving you more freedom to start your own Podcasting Journey quickly and with greater ease.
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Join us this Episode as we discuss how to stop comparing and start offering thanksgiving in its place, in order to blaze a trail back to our own blessings and favor, so that we can be a better friend to others, and to the Lord!!!!
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Do you have a friend who you pray with? We mean really, really pray, like nothing is off limits, no time limits, anything goes in the presence of God? It takes a special friend, for sure, to go after prayer like that, and we have a name for her: Havar, meaning “one who helps you carry the weight of your life.”
Who doesn’t want a friend like that?!
We’ve learned that prayer with a havar can absolutely change your life, and that’s why we’re excited to share her on the Podcast with you this week! We talk about who she is and 3 main ways prayer with her is different, when we learn to:
Wait (Isaiah 41:31)
Communicate (Matthew 18:20
Activate (Acts 1:8)
This place of prayer is where deeper adventure and calling awaits, with the one who can help you carry the weight of your life. This is prayer that changes everything!
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We believe that God has some mighty big assignments that He wants to hand out in this next, epic season of Christian life and Kingdom advancement. These assignments can only be given to those who know how to abide in Him and recognize divine connections, so that women can carry out the weight of their callings together.
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Names have a much greater significance then most of us understand or give them credit for. When we understand that our names are prophetic declarations, then we understand more of who we are and what we were created to do. Learn how your name: -Acts as a compass to help you map out the plans and purposes for your life; - Thwarts the attacks of the enemy on your life by empowering you live out your name, as God intended, in purity and power; - Uncovers your unique Kingdom potential by acknowledging and activating the power and provision that God has poured into your name, which, in turn, releases how you are known, addressed, and referenced in this world. Read more at: https://www.flawsoffriendship.com/post/the-coffee-shop-encounter-what-s-your-name-by-the-way The Coffee Shop Encounter: What's Your Name, By the Way? www.flawsoffriendship.com
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There is no better time than today to take authority as a daughter of Christ over our blood lines. We must tear down the idols, erect the godly altars, and ask God to let His fire fall. What exalts itself against the name of the Lord will fail, but what we build in His Name shall prosper and stand for eternity. This declaration and stance might be as important as it gets for us while we're alive.
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Last week on the podcast we talked about the benefits of having a good friend, but this week we flipped the coin to talk about the benefits of being one. After all, the best things about friendship aren’t really what we get, but what we give, that change us.
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Have you ever heard of the phrase, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade?" At the Flaws, we are learning the valuable lesson that although this life is guaranteed to give us lemons, the benefits of true Friendship will provide an extra pair of hands to help us squeeze them.
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If you've been hurt by Friendship, would you say you're more likely to leave or stay, and either way, would you be willing to try again? At least in our experience, we don’t know any other way to heal Friendship wounds than to bind them up with Friendship. Join us on this episode as we talk about the Healing and Hurt that Friendship can bring.
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Join us This Friendship Friday, as we chat about the Call to Writers in this season, the Writing Process, and How we want to help you with your Hidden "Works" that are just waiting to be taken off the shelf of your mind (and the fears that keep them in there), with the help of your FRIENDS.
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If friendship is inherently something we know to fight for on behalf of our kids, then why do we as moms so easily give up the fight when it comes to ourselves?
On this episode we're discussing how our children learn what’s important in life by watching us, which means the road to friendship for them starts with us.
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What time is it? It’s Friendship Time! In a recent poll you told us Time was your biggest obstacle to Friendship, so we are here to Bust Up That Myth! What if instead of measuring time by appointments and schedules, we instead measured it by who and what matters the most, completely changing the rhythms of our everyday lives?
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Have you ever been spending time with someone, thought all was going along just fine, and then suddenly something shifted in you? You can't put your finger on what happened, but you could feel yourself getting agitated and all you wanted to do was run,...
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Join us as we talk about how the Enneagram interrupted our day and about blew our Friendship up again. But we made it to the other side and now we're going Live to talk about it. Tell us your number and join the conversation!
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Join Tabatha Haines and Stacey March for the Friendship Station: pop in coaching sessions that fuel you up fast. In this session, The Friendship Coaches will walk you through 3 questions to the Lord (each question will be followed by a brief response...
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Friendship expands our capacity to increase and grow in ways that without it we forget or can't see anymore. Join this week's conversation that never runs out of things to say, and it keeps our lives flowing in the holy waters of movement and grace.
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On the podcast this week are best friends Christopher, Ashton, and Justin, who basically just taught us that we don't know anything about friendship! These young men probably know more about what it is to love and be loved than most. Not only are they...
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Staying when things are good is easy, but sometimes God will ask you to leave when things are going great. And that, my Friend, takes some character, determination, and nerve! Join us today as we talk about the times God will call you away from the good...
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True Friendship can be hard to navigate (ask any woman!), but if we can get it right, it can be the catalyst that changes everything in our lives! Today we’re talking about how Faith, Fire, Friendship, and Freedom are the necessary way to biblical...
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This week on the Podcast, we are so excited to welcome two friends, yoked together in faith-filled Friendship, with plenty of stories about how to work, play, and stay together through it all!
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For the very first podcast of 2021 we are hitting on the FUN aspect of FRIENDSHIP and how valuing it and creating it can fuel your mission together this year while healing the gigantic, all caps FRIENDSHIP in the world around us! Here's to the Fun, the...
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We are wrapping up a year that brought us back together as friends, a new podcast and blog, and a new, growing sisterhood of women who believe in Friendship as much as we do. And now we’re ready to pivot! In this episode, we excitedly look forward to...
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Is anybody else feeling a little WILD?Sometimes we’re your Friend Next Door (and we love being her!), but other times a little something gets into us. That’s what happened this week. -WE WENT A LITTLE WILD. -I think we can all identify with the feeling...
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Identity wouldn’t be such a big topic right now if it wasn’t so misunderstood! If we struggle to know who we are, then chances are we won’t make the best decisions, choose the best relationships, or behave the best either! Friendship is one of the best...
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Too many times we ignore the messages our emotions are sending instead of understanding that they are gifts that help us navigate ourselves and the way forward better. This is where our friends come in! Today we talk about the gift of the women in our...
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Really hearing each other can be a challenge between friends who love each other but still feel like there’s a silence between them. Today on the podcast we’ll meet Raya—Stacey’s brand new, hearing impaired Boston Terrier puppy—who teaches us a few...
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Do friends make good business partners? They certainly can, but let’s be honest… business is hard and friendship is hard, so combining the two can be disastrous to a relationship unless you know how to do it well! We think we’ve found two women who are...
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Join us as we talk about how friendship is the first step to loving like Jesus.If we want to like one another, we need to learn how to experience a deeper love, through the gift of friendship.
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Join us for some straight-talking and realistic ways that you can negotiate your relationship while keeping your connection, which is always the goal of tough conversations. It’s not always easy but definitely worth it!
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In today’s episode, we’re taking a humorous approach to the much more serious topic of when your friend just ain’t yo friend.
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Whether we realize it or not, we are all longing for someone who cares enough to actually... care. The kind of person who steps in to not only hear about your life, but to actually live it with you. That everyday kind of friend. The one who is willing...
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Have you ever been hurt by friendship? If the answer is yes, you are not alone! The only way to move from hurt to healed is to give our wounds from the past a short minute to say, “I see you. I feel you. That sucked. And now I’m ready to move on!” There...
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One person should never be responsible for meeting all of our friendship needs. It’s not fair to us, them, or the other friends we need in our life to help bring the balance that only diversity can. This week we will discuss 5 Friendship Personalities...
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This Podcast is all about how our friendship crashed.
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This week on the podcast we thought it would to make a list of what distinguishes good friends from best friends because sometimes we get them confused, and not knowing the difference can sure get us in trouble. Connect with us on Instagram and...
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