Welcome to the Reach New Heights Podcast where we dive into all things self-healing, transformation, and building dreams. In each episode, your host Julie Householder will share powerful tools and information to empower you to achieve new heights and build a life you love.
Please note this podcast is for informational purposes only, and should not be substituted for professional advice. Always consult your own therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, counselor, doctor or other mental health/medical professional.
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This week we are joined by Philip Lingle. Philip is the Founding Officiant of Love & Wisdom Inc., a team of open-minded wedding officiants based in Asheville, NC, and also serving SC, TN, and GA. They specialize in upbeat custom wedding ceremonies for couples who expect only the best on their wedding day.
We are talking all things:
Website: LoveAndWisdomInc.com
Premarital Essentials Course ($36) and Free Resources: https://loveandwisdominc.com/online-courses/
Social Media Links
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoveAndWisdomInc/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/love.and.wisdom.officiants/
Book mentioned: Smart Couples Finish Rich by David Bach https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Couples-Finish-Revised-Updated/dp/0525572937
Dave Ramsey: https://www.ramseysolutions.com
This week we are talking about how the transition of seasons can bring up restlessness, embracing growth and renewal, and reflection questions to ask ourselves as we enter this spring season.
Book Mentioned: The Wisdom of Anxiety: How Worry and Intrusive Thoughts Are Gifts to Help You Heal Poem: The Enkindled Spring byD. H. LAWRENCE, 1885 – 1930
https://openoregon.pressbooks.pub/poetry/chapter/1-poems-about-spring-renewal-rebirth/
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This week we are talking about the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health benefits of a Japanese practice called forest bathing, 森林浴. I will be sharing epic global research, recommendations, and accessibility about forest bathing & forest walking*.
*This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be substituted for professional advise. Always consult your own therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, counselor, doctor or other mental health/medical professional.
**All forms of outdoor recreation have a higher level of risk than most ordinary activities, and therefore can be potentially hazardous and/or dangerous. This includes hiking and especially off-trail adventure hiking. Risk is always a factor in hiking and off-trail adventure hiking, especially when weather is adverse or unpredictable, or when unforeseen events or conditions create a hazardous condition. It is the responsibility of the listeners to this podcast to learn the necessary skills for safe hiking, nature walking, and off-trail adventure hiking. All participants must assume responsibility for their own actions and safety, exercise sound judgment, be prepared for all conditions, and seek advice on current weather conditions. Those who use this information, and those who venture onto trails or into wilderness, do so at their own risk. You are solely responsible for using your judgment in interpreting and using this information to safely enjoy your own outdoor pursuits. Reach New Heights Podcast host (Julie Householder), guests, and anyone contributing information to this episode shall not be held liable for any inconvenience, accidents, rescues, injuries or loss of life should you undertake hiking, wildness trips, or forest walking discussed in this episode.
"Sound Bath in the Forest ✦ A=432Hz ✦ A Serene Forest Bath Accompanied by Gentle Ambient Tones" Video on Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fjo9ZwpepA
My references for this podcast episode and for my entire research capstone paper for anyone who wants to check these sources out:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hcMCJJD8kFI3TreMP5RiCz-0PrOxrPGhYTGod-gug14/edit?usp=sharing
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This week I am sharing a powerful exercise that I do when I am struggling through something, feeling down on myself, or notice that I am trying to seek external validation. It is a writing practice you can easily change or design in a way that works best for you in regards to time and form of expression.
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This week our guest Dr. Neal Klein will talk all things:
Dr. Neal Klein has taught at Lesley University, in Cambridge, MA for the past 40 years, teaching classes in cutting edge psychology, counseling, holistic health and wellness, and cross cultural psychology.He is the author of A New Operating Manual for Being Human, and his most recent publication Me, Myself, and Mindfulness: The Arithmetic of Consciousness.
Dr. Klein has over 30 years experience as a practicing psychotherapist. One of his life quests has been to help expand the current prevailing paradigm that we as human beings and psychologists use to formulate our beliefs regarding what is humanly possible emphasizing the nature of consciousness and human potential.
He has taught swing and ballroom dance for over 25 years. He is the owner of both Dancing Feats Swing and Ballroom, and The Dancing Fools. He teaches swing dancing at Lesley University and frequently highlights the focus on non-verbal communication in partner dancing as the essence of any lead/follow dance which demands paying attention to visual and tactile clues.
Video mentioned: My Stroke of Insight Tedx Talk, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UyyjU8fzEYU
Check out Neal’s Youtube Channel Trace-Ending Times:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYlJ8RPDbe_xfiH-0PQF8Uw
Purchase Dr. Neal’s books at:
A New Operating Manuel for Being Human:
https://www.amazon.com/New-Operating-Manual-Being-Human/dp/1413467636/ref=sr_1_2?crid=154G5QVS7QFSN&keywords=A+New+Operating+Manual+for+Being+Human&qid=1642686857&sprefix=a+new+operating+manual+for+being+human%2Caps%2C95&sr=8-2
Me, Myself, and Mindfulness: The Arithmetic of Consciousness:
https://lesley.bncollege.com/c/Me-Myself-and-Mindfulness/p/MBS_2326757_new
Follow Neal on TikTok: @obt_tet
Website: http://www.trance-endingtimes.com/
This week we are talking about:
*Information shared in this podcast is directly from my class notes & discussion as well as from the resources below:
Video, The Power of Self to Heal our Parts:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LuJLv98ks-I&list=PLnYOIs33GgPSxRDqhDAvTGkE_S96uAM3Ls with
Other Videos With Dr. Richard Schwartz Explaining Internal Family Systems (IFS):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ym8o762U7uc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdZZ7sTX840&feature=emb_imp_woyt
4 Parts Circle Graphic:
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e0/25/88/e02588bda8fafb21f2627b4823903459.jpg
IFS Institute
https://ifs-institute.com
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This week we are talking about:
Sources from article reading and other information:
Three Science Based Reasons Vacations Boost Productivity: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/feeling-it/201708/three-science-based-reasons-vacations-boost-productivity
Emma Seppala's Website: https://emmaseppala.com
The Creativity Challenge,How We Can Recapture American Innovation by Kyung Hee Kim: https://www.amazon.com/Creativity-Challenge-Recapture-American-Innovation/dp/1633882152
Research mentioned out of Germany is by Sabine Sonnentag, professor of organizational psychology at the University of Mannheim in Germany https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=Uaea7S4AAAAJ&hl=en
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This episode is a 25 minute compilation royalty free songs by Jesse Gallagher I like to use in mindfulness practices (both movement and stationary mindfulness practices). I removed the intro and ending music typically present in my episodes so it can be used with these practices in mind. The music begins at 0:14 (14 seconds in).
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This week we are talking about “bookending” our day to establish routines in our life that support mind-body-spirit health and help us make transitions each morning and evening.
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Our guest this week is an inclusive activist, disabled content creator, model and speaker. Paula Carozzo has cultivated and created a space to redefine disability.At the age of five, Paula was diagnosed with cerebral palsy after an anoxic episode from a surgery.
On her journey with a cane, Paula shares her story on what it’s like to live with a disability by amplifying the voices of her community to share their laughs, struggles, and adventures from living with a disability.
Paula is recognized as a spokesperson for adaptive fashion, lifestyle with a disability, wellness, accessibility, and inclusive rights.
In this episode we will dive into:
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https://www.instagram.com/pauuzzo/?hl=en
https://www.tiktok.com/@pauuzzoo?
I am sharing part of my journey and update with my traumatic brain injury (TBI) that I initially spoke about in episode 20 “Why I have been MIA: My Head Injury & a couple things I’ve learned”.
This week I’m talking about:
Sources & Links to Learn More:
Brain Trauma Foundation https://www.braintrauma.org/faq.
WebMD's Visual Guide to Concussions and Brain Injuries https://www.webmd.com/brain/ss/slideshow-concussions-brain-injuries
Brain Stem:
Cleveland Clinic Brainstem Article https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/21598-brainstem
Kenhub Brainstem Anatomy Article https://www.kenhub.com/en/library/anatomy/the-brainstem
Reticular Activating System:
Youtube video explaining the Reticular Activating System (RAS)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfYeHHtj7so
UMN Video on the Reticular Activating System (RAS)https://extension.umn.edu/two-you-video-series/ras
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This week we are talking about New Year Eve resolutions, studies about their effectiveness, and why I ditched them for these practices:
Sources:
A large-scale experiment on New Year’s resolutions: Approach-oriented goals are more successful than avoidance-oriented goals. To read this study, click here.
Ten Breathing Exercises to Try for Stress Relief and More, click here.
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This week I am sharing a tool I use gifted to my class by my high school English teacher called S.O.C.W. that I still use today. This simple writing practice is great for releasing what is on our mind so we can focus and recenter ourselves.
What are some of your favorite writing and mindfulness practices? Answer on Spotify or message your favs to me on Insta@julhouseholder.
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This week’s episode we are talking about societal expectations around the holidays and the absolute importance of prioritizing our mental health* & peace. This week I’ll share the importance of:
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*This podcast is an informal blog-style podcast with my personal lived experiences. This is not a replacement for professional mental health or social services. If you are experiencing mental health struggles, challenging relationships, abuse, etc., reach out to professional health services. Here are some resources below:
Mental Health Hotline Numbers & Crisis Referral Resources:
https://www.apa.org/topics/crisis-hotlines
https://www.healthyplace.com/other-info/resources/mental-health-hotline-numbers-and-referral-resources
(USA) National Domestic Violence Hotline (with text, call, or chat options): https://www.thehotline.org
International list of Suicide Hotlines by Country: https://www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines
Ever hear any of these from others our within your own mind? ➡️ "Just get over it already. Crying won't help, just smile and you'll feel better. You should be grateful for what you do have. Just think positive. It could be worse.”
This week we are diving into the concept of "toxic positivity".
Quotes, definitions and content sources:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/toxic-positivity#avoiding-toxic-positivity
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-toxic-positivity-5093958
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This week we are joined by actress, model, content creator, and screen writer, Michaela Reilly. Michaela is originally from North Carolina, United States, and is now living in the country of Ireland. She is currently working on her master’s degree in screenwriting and wants to share stories with the world about her beautifully mixed family and upbringing that viewers can relate to.
In this episode we are diving into:
Connect with Michaela on social media:
Instagram: @mamamichaela
TikTok: mamamichaela94
YouTube: Mama Movies
This week's episode we are talking about the current trend of "cancel culture" and some aspects to support us in carrying out more effective communications with others such as:
Resources mentioned in the episode:
Vienna Pharaon's Courses
https://vienna-pharaon.mykajabi.com, click here.
Follow her on Instagram @mindfulmft
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This week's episode we are diving into:
To read the research from this episode,
https://www.nih.gov/news-events/nih-research-matters/number-steps-day-more-important-step-intensity click here.
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This week we are talking about leading life with vision and intention by connecting to our “why” instead of relying solely on the feelings of motivation* to take action.
*Please note this episode will be looking at motivation with the general context of the self-improvement/personal development lens not through a clinical mental health lens. If you are experiencing lack of motivation, disinterest in activities you typically like, depression and other mental health symptoms please refer to a mental health professional.
Quote Mentioned:“When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier.” -Roy E. Disney
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This week’s episode we will be expanding, defining and reframing our understanding of the different types of trauma: PTSD (as defined by the DSM-5) Big T Trauma and Little t trauma Complex Trauma Developmental Trama Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Chronic “Toxic” Stress
Sources:
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This week's episode we are talking about the opportunity autumn brings to let go of what is no longer serving us.
Book & Poem Mentioned:
The Wisdom of Anxiety by Sheryl Paul and An Ode to Autumn & Letting Go by Anna Palmer
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This week on the Reach New Heights Podcast I'm sharing a bit about a health emergency I experienced recently, major shifts of perception I had, and a few things I've learned from this experience so far.
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This week we are diving into the “Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman. In understanding our love languages and the love languages of those we care about we can continue to enhance and grow our relationships-- not just romantic relationships, but our friendships and our family members as well.
Click here to learn more about the Five Love Languages https://www.5lovelanguages.com/
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This week we are joined by Filmmaker, Vlogger, Writer, and Social Media Specialist Jared Talbot where we dive into:
Connect with Jared on Youtube (The Date Hoppers) by clicking, here.
This week were are talking about the impact of trauma and stress on our "Window of Tolerance", a concept created by Dan Siegel, M.D.. We will chat about nervous system dysregulation, a bit on what is goin' on in the brain, and how we can work to expand our window of tolerance so we can face life's stimulus and challenges with more ease.
Articles:
“Understanding and Working with the Window of Tolerance” Article, https://www.attachment-and-trauma-treatment-centre-for-healing.com/blogs/understanding-and-working-with-the-window-of-tolerance
“The Window of Tolerance: Supporting the Wellbeing of Children and Young People” Government of Jersey Article, https://www.gov.je/SiteCollectionDocuments/Education/ID%20The%20Window%20of%20Tolerance%2020%2006%2016.pdf
Helpful Videos:
Window of Tolerance Reimagined video, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVEDueyZ2C4
Managing PTSD Series: Window of Tolerance video, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKc_xYB92So
Do You Ever Flip Your Lid? video, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enUqfAgI6F0
Book Referenced:
Yoga for Emotional Balance: Simple Practices to Help Relieve Anxiety and Depression by Bo Forbes, PsyD
Whenever I feel down and my sense of self-worth feels low, I like to do activities that bring me a sense of accomplishment. This week I'll be sharing my recent experience with this and the importance of doing tasks that help give our self worth a boost.
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This week we are joined by Co-Founder of Wholehearted, Speaker and Coach David Young where we will dive into:
Connect with David Young:
Click here, to go to David’s Instagram (@david.jyoung)
Click here, to go to David's website (http://beingwholehearted.com)
Books and Resources mentioned:
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This week we are diving into the autonomic nervous system, fight-or-flight response, and stress.
Resources:
Autonomic Nervous System Crash Course Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71pCilo8k4M
Trauma informed yoga video for grounding:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1OtxPbFAec
Article “The effects of chronic stress on health: New Insights into the Molecular Mechanisms of Brain-body Communication”: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5137920/
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This week I am sharing a bit about:
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This week we are talking about technology’s impact on our lives, setting healthful boundaries with technology and the importance of stillness.
Books Referenced:
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Coach Ashley Ramirez joins us on this week’s episode. We dive into:
Ashley is a fitness professional based out of Miami, Florida. Her passions include yoga, healing, fitness, coaching women and integrating spirituality and mindset into coaching.
Click here, to connect with Ashley on Instagram @__ashleyramirez
On this week’s episode we are diving into some of the roadblocks that keep us from taking action in our lives in creating what we would love. We'll chat about: -What is the comfort zone? -Paradigms/limiting beliefs. -The many voices of fear. -Tips to help you befriend your fear and take action towards your dreams and goals. Follow me on Instagram @julhouseholder
Do NOT listen to while driving or operating machinery. This week’s episode is a guided awareness practice you can do sitting, standing, laying down, walking, or a combination of those postures (find and follow what feels good for you) to promote grounding and connection with your physical body.
Tune in and notice your body, thoughts and emotions without judgement or trying to force your mind to be clear. The key here is to be present with what is and observe the energetic information (thoughts, feelings, sensations) moving within without trying to change them or make them go away.
Royalty Free Music Adrift Volume 2 by Christopher Lloyd Clarke
This week’s episode our guest Melissa Alexis and I will dive into:
Melissa Alexis is Founder & CEO of Cultural Fabric, an applied mindfulness consulting company innovating specialized interventions for holistic well-being and leadership.
Since launching Cultural Fabric in 2016, Melissa has developed frameworks to integrate mindfulness, racial healing, mental wellness, embodiment, and leadership development. Combining these areas of expertise, in 2018 Melissa designed and launched the signature program, Healing Arts Institute, a Mindful Facilitation Certificate Program for Embodied Leadership & Social Transformation. On the leading edge, the program supports people to elevate their internal consciousness and embody their values to transform social environments.
She is committed to helping people connect ideas and solutions across sectors to move racial equity and well-being from theory to practice. Her work highlights the inextricable connection between self-care and care of the collective.
Connect with Melissa:
Follow Melissa on Instagram @culturalfab
Click here for the Cultural Fabric Facebook page
Click here to access the Cultural Fabric website
Additional References from this episode:
Welcome back to the Reach New Heights Podcast where today we are diving into the topic of self image and the roots of our self talk, standard of beauty, and how to begin building a new relationship with ourselves and our self image.
Video referenced of the model before and after photoshop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7PSMSNLcDg
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This week International Motivational Speaker And Life Coach Wayne Forrest is joining us to discuss:
Wayne Forrest is an International Transformational speaker and Life Mastery Consultant, and Co-Creator of CHB Swim 4 lives Non for profit, which supports local schools in doing deep water programs and swimming lessons, to help save lives from drowning. Wayne says his sporting accident in 1995, leaving him C5 Tetraplegic, was the catalyst for his on-going journey into personal development. Wayne shares his journey from the heart to enable others to believe that you too can build and live into your dreams and live a life you love, regardless of the challenges, struggles or perceived disabilities you face.
Watch Wayne's TEDx Talk, here.
Connect with Wayne on Instagram @wayneforrestnz
Click here to access Wayne's gift to you.
For his Youtube Channel, Wayne Forrest Coaching, click here
This week’s episode dives into the three tiers of self care (body, mind and spirit) and and how we can better nourish ourselves in our process of reaching new heights in our lives.
References:
Book- Minding the Body, Mending the Mind by Joan Borysenko, Ph.D.
Dr. Marisol Queen of Thrones https://drmarisol.com
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In Episode 4 of the Reach New heights podcast, we are talking about building emotional literacy and navigating difficult emotions.
We will dive into:
-Powerful reflection questions, tips and exercises to support you in self-improvement and navigating emotions.
-Societal stigmas and ideas that affect our emotional health and understanding of our emotions.
Book Referenced: The Wisdom of Anxiety: How Worry and Intrusive Thoughts Are Gifts to Help You Heal by Sheryl Paul
Riding the Wave of Emotions Article by Kendra Anderson, LCSW
https://www.mindsoother.com/blog/riding-the-wave-of-emotions
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Have you ever felt like you are behind in life? That your life isn't meeting this "timeline" for what it could or "should" be. In this episode we dive into this concept and feeling of being behind in our life schedule/path, power questions and tips to reveal the roots of these feelings, and nature's messages about pacing.
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In this week's episode we dive into:
Book referenced is:
A New Operating Manual for Being Human: A Humanistic/Holistic Perspective on Counseling Psychology and Personal Growth by Neil Klein Ed.D.
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In this week's episode, I share about how a health crisis changed the trajectory of my life and led me to my burning desire to change, and the importance of transformational willingness. Connect with me on Instagram @julhouseholder