Minsan tayo yung unang basher ng sarili natin. But we can still change that, we can be kinder and gentler to ourselves.
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Minsan gusto mo lang talaga malaman kung seryoso na ba sya sa'yo. Kung ito na ba talaga. So I'd like to share with you yung 3 Cs na natutunan ko:
Clarity
Consistency
Community.
Hope this helps!
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As we keep on loving, we'll keep on learning, and in today's episode, I will share with you the things that I wish I knew back then.
Key points:
Hope this helps!
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What to do if the person you love, doesn't love you back? Awww, sakit beb! Hopefully, this episode can help you in this painful season of your life.
The key things mentioned here are:
1 - Accept reality
2 - Feel your emotions
3 - Seek support
4 - Redirect your affection to serve others
5 - Work on improving yourself
Hope this helps!
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Paano makaipon kung kulang yung sweldo? Kung ikaw yung breadwinner? Bills are all over the place, and constantly, laging may extended family that you “need” to help out.
In this episode, I shared what finally allowed me to be able to save money! Yay! I can’t believe that from someone na walang ipon before, I have now reached 6-digit savings. And I hope that this episode can help you begin saving too!
Books mentioned in this episode:
Chinkee Tan's Iponaryo Books
(L)earning Wealth by Vince Rapisura
The Abundance Formula by Bro. Bo Sanchez
Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
FB Groups and Platforms:
Ahon Pinoy
Financial Literacy PH
Tipid Living
Relationship Matters PH
Hope it helps!
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What can we do to stay in love? But first, have you asked yourself why you want to stay in love?
In this episode, I shared some of my learnings on how to handle my relationships better. What's nice about it is that some of these are not just applicable in romantic relationships :)
Hope it helps! And thank you for requesting this topic, LA Tan!
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Nasabi mo na rin ba yan? In this podcast episode, let me share with you what God has whispered to my heart that gave me so much peace. I hope it could help you too!
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Aside from money, what are 3 other ways that I'm able to assess my progress?
Sharing it with you too para di ka na masyado mag-overthink at mag-worry now that we welcome the new year. Share mo na rin sa'kin if napakinggan mo na tong episode na to ig: @gracerubis_
And if you're in your 20s or 30s and you're struggling with your finances, join us in this seminar called EmpowerED: How to achieve financial freedom for millennials and genz.
This is on Jan. 13 in SM Aura but you can also attend online and I will be with my mentors Bro Bo Sanchez, Edward Lee, Rex Mendoza, Pael Bustamante and Enro Mendoza. Just go to trc.ph/empowered to register.
As mentioned, here are the 3 inspirational posts:
1 - Pwede naman palang hindi masanay sa hirap ng buhay... - https://www.facebook.com/missgracerubis/posts/pfbid02HGkGSCtMbnUEMdja78h4WigHnr53XYsjRH9P7d2ZAn3cyyZEjjJKbSJzAedW1EBLl
2 - Dati takot akong pumasok sa Starbucks - https://www.facebook.com/missgracerubis/posts/pfbid04YvZgCo8xxXbTxbgrs1E1zTCcmL1QKg3okzXRhBRG1YAqkFebdQkjWUWwWRxn1m7l
3 - Hindi na tayo nape-petsa de peligro - https://www.facebook.com/missgracerubis/posts/pfbid02RSwJaBwnaZWcxUBMq6iLkKWJEHBUoHSLdzSpR5xkwnHtN3wLpzV1n2LeBQ56zRRtl
Is this the season of letting go? With the recent break up of KathNiel and my top listened to episode as How to Let Go (ep. 19), bakit ang dami yatang nagkahiwalayan this year? But what makes us leave a relationship? In this episode, I shared some of the factors that I consider when we have to face the reality that a relationship has to end. Please also share in the Q&A & your personal reasons when one has to let go.
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Mabilis ka bang ma-fall? Saaaame, but I realized that not everyone we like could be a good match for us. That's why in this episode, I shared how you can take your time in the dating stage and not be color-blinded by possible red flags.
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#relationshipadvice #adulting #lovelessons#lessonslearned #loveuniversity #podcast
I was resistant to this at first but now, I will advocate this to anyone in the courtship and dating stage!
This is a very special episode too because a lot of friends, fellow podcasters and page followers gave their responses to this question as well. Thank you, everyone!
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A lot of love problems that are sent to me are ex problems. In this episode, I will share why I believe we need to block our ex, up to you for how long but ideally until both of you are fully healed and moved on.
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Napraning ka rin ba after may mangyari sa inyo? O kaya your partner is pressuring you to be intimate in this level? Let's talk about passion in this episode. Dati kasi akala ko MOMOL at hugging lang ang kailangan para masabing nasa relasyon kayo, hindi pala hehehe.
Timestamps: 00:00 - True love na ba if okay ang sex life nyo? 01:31 - Bakit kulang ang passion lang 03:51 - We need appropriate levels of these 3 things 08:44 - Sex is actually a gift 10:08 - What if hindi sya makapaghintay? 12:12 - or what if pareho kayong hindi makapag hintay? 13:31 - What to do with lust? 15:38 - I'm not KJ ha, I'm actually excited for you hehehehe 17:51 - If you're like me na nagkamali before...
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In this episode, I will talk about one of the most requested topics: the NO LABEL relationship. I don't know why more and more people are entering this kind of situation but this is certainly not the way to go.
If you think you need to let go of that person since they don't have plans of being fully committed to you, listen to this episode 19: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5nGxpadgDW8I27JFFgutez?si=727c20788970419c
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I was an ex people pleaser hahaha! I say yes to a lot of things until poof! I'm out and I realized it was so tired, irritated and burnt out.
That's why in this episode, I'd like to share with you the reasons why I found it so hard to say no before and how I apply these 4 things in deciding if I will accept or decline a request.
Sustainability
Delegation
Detachment
Clarity and firmness
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The actual title of this episode is how to stop comparing our success with others. Because feeling left out is a product of comparing our journey with theirs. In this episode, I will share 4 tips that have helped me lessen (I can't say I've totally stopped) being jealous of other people.
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Honestly, the direct answer is yes you can! But our episode today is deeper than that. Why does that person have no money? Is it because of their character or just a temporary setback?
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Sometimes, breaking up is inevitable. But nobody told us (or me and my exes!) how to respectfully break up. So with my not-so-amazing fair share of experiences, I'd like to share 2 things that I think we need to do when we decide to finally let go and say goodbye.
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Our glow-up is not just about our appearance. We need growth in at least 4 aspects of our lives:
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Wow, we can use Go, Grow, Glow in self-love! It sounds so easy but yes, I know even just the first step would be so difficult! Let me know what you think about this episode by tagging me on your IG stories @missgracerubis
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Bakit ba kahit gaano mo sya kamahal, minsan parang kulang pa rin? Bakit ba nakakafrustrate yung wala kayong label? I'd like to share with you the 2nd lesson that I learned about love: that love is not the same as a relationship.
Let's talk about commitment and why we often get this part wrong. But.. make sure that before (or after) this episode, you also listen to episode no. 15.
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Bakit pag sa mga kaibigan nya ang dami nyang kwento, pero pag sakin wala masyado? I finally understood the reason behind this when I learned that one of the key aspects of a relationship is friendship. I'm starting a series of all the lessons I learned so far, and in this episode, I'm sharing #lovelesson number 1: friendship in a relationship. This is originally published on my YT so if you enjoy video format content, you can head there too. linktr.ee/gracerubis
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When I became more matured, I realized that in some of my past relationships, red flag din pala ako. And in this episode, Sis Maan and I talked about our past relationships and also our learnings along the way. We are proud to say that we are your #dontcha ladies hahaha don't commit our mistakes! You don't have to experience things just to learn them! That's why Sis Maan prepared a very special program for single ladies that you can access here: https://mariannemencias.com/fmp/grace/
We also have a gift from her! Claim your free e-book here! https://bit.ly/FREERealMen
For those seeking wholeness and healing in the single season: https://feastbooks.ph/product/why-is-my-forever-taking-forever/
For those searching for their purpose: https://feastbooks.ph/product/masterpiece/
Here are the books that she mentioned in this episode:
Recommended Devotional: https://www.lazada.com.ph/products/good-morninggod-by-pamela-steinke-i102524708.html
Three to Get Married: https://www.amazon.com/Three-Get-Married-Fulton-Sheen/dp/0933932871
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Pagod ka na bang maghabol sa taong di naman masyadong interesado sa'yo? In this episode, I'd like to share with you the concepts that allowed me to avoid being marupok again for the wrong people - those who aren't committed enough to pursue me. We will start with measuring your #rupokmeter and go on with the anti-rupok concepts. Hopefully, this can be of help to you or to anyone you know who might need it.
But if you haven't listened to the episode prior to this, then the process will not be complete so make sure to click on ep. 12 (How to Love Yourself Again) before or after listening to this one. https://spoti.fi/3MZuQYC
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Sabi nila, you can move on by loving yourself more. But the problem is, nalimutan mo na kung paano mahalin ulit yung sarili mo.
Let’s talk about it here in this episode.
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What if nagparamdam si ex, and you don't know what to do because you're also unsure of their intention? But if you're just wondering if may chance pa bang bumalik si ex, this episode is also for you.
What's the reason for the breakup?
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How do you move on from a painful breakup? AKA your first love? I realized I did not really try to move on, it was so difficult. Sobrang umsa pa ko na magkakabalikan kami. But there were a lot of things that I learned from it and allow me to share it here with you.
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Do opposites attract ba or does it attack? LOL nakakainis no kapag parang minsan feeling mo sobrang magkaiba kayo ng partner mo. Buti na lang ang ganda ng natutunan ko sa recent interview ko with Bro Tony sabi kasi nya, okay din na may differences kayo ng partner mo para mas magka-spice ang relationship . So I thought about what he said and realized na oo nga may point sya
So imbis na mainis ka kasi hindi kayo pareho ng partner mo baka pwedeng mag mindset shift tayo and see how certain differences can actually help you grow in your relationship. Here, I’d like to share with you yung 4 advantages na may differences kayo ng partner mo.
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This is part 2 of our interview with bro tony and he shared more on how he moved on and found the right one for him.
Reflection question: Kamusta ang love life mo with yourself and/or with God? Connect with our guest:
FB: Anthony Valenzuela
IG & Tweeter: @tonyrouben
TikTok: @TonySpark1984
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Naging martir ka na ba sa love? Then, today's episode is perfect for you. How did our guest, Bro Tony, move on from giving so much love and how is his love life status today?
Connect with our guest:
FB: Anthony Valenzuela
IG & Tweeter: @tonyrouben
TikTok: @TonySpark1984
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Walking red flag ka ba, girl? Are you too needy, too insecure, or a poor communicator? If yes, listen to this episode as I share with you why these 3 made me a red flag and what helped me overcome them.
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I'd love to journey with you, you can share your thoughts to loveuniversitypod@gmail.comEpisode Timestamps:
00:54 - Definition
07:14 - Disclaimer: my mindset
11:45 - vercoming too much neediness
18:22 - Insecurity as a red flag?
22:55 - Malabong ka bang kausap
26:26 - Bonus: have an evaluation date
References:
Link to The Feast: https://www.facebook.com/TheFeastPICCAM
Book: How to Avoid Jerks and Jerkettes by Bo Sanchez https://feastbooks.ph/product/how-to-avoid-jerks-and-jerkettes/
Book: Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov
Guys don't overthink love in episode 1: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/7eiqvZieDub
Evaluation date in episode 4: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/UisYIdfeDub
May pinagselosan ka na ba in the past? Kung makakausap mo siya, will you say sorry to that person? Weird no, pero yan yung ginawa ni Ate Matet to the persons na pinagselosan nya. Find out why in this part 2 of our interview with her.
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Nireserve mo rin ba ung first kiss mo para sa papakasalan mo? Ako kasi hindi e hahaha. In life, I think there are 2 types of students, may mga sumusunod at mga hindi sumusunod. And this episode is a clear example of that. When I was in YFC, there’s this Ate that I highly look up to because she really upholds and embodies our faith especially in chastity, which I found very difficult to do hehehe. So let me share her learnings with you today through this episode. Just a heads up, she talks about things that I was so shocked to hear so you would hear my raw authentic reactions in this episode.
She also firmly believes that better communication can yield great results in any type of relationship and she shared how that helped her in her life.
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Pwede bang babae ang mag-first move? For me, pwede yan! Lately ko lang narealize na ako pala yung nag first move sa current boyfriend ko hahahaha! As in after 4 years ko lang yan narealize! Listen to this episode to know how it happened and how you might be able to do it too :)
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We are excited to journey with you here at Love University and this is designed to be interactive, so we will have a special Love Notes episode too so we can share our reflections with each other.
Think of it as classmates having an open notes exam, all in pursuit of an answer but this time, in our love life. You can share the most insightful parts of the episode with us and how you can apply them in your own context. Since we don’t have the same situations, we’d like to hear your reflections too because that may be helpful to other listeners/viewers as well. Feel free to send your thoughts toloveuniversitypod@gmail.com before Wednesday, 11:59 PM. No extensions on this one! :D
What’s stopping some guys from courting women properly? Is this connected to what guys are afraid of? In this second part of our interview with Bro JPaul, he shares with us how guys can overcome this fear. Let’s continue our chat with Bro JPaul and let’s get to know what guys are afraid of and if that is related to why some guys don’t do courtship properly.
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Bros, you can sign up for his workshop here: bit.ly/MOAMClass
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We are excited to journey with you here at Love University and this is designed to be interactive, so we will have a special Love Notes episode after each guest so we can share our reflections with each other.
Think of it as classmates having an open notes exam, all in pursuit of an answer but this time, in our love life. You can share the most insightful parts of the episode with us and how you can apply them in your own context. Or you can answer our reflection question too at the end of each guest episode. Since we don’t have the same contexts and situations, we’d like to hear your reflections too because that may be helpful to other listeners/viewers as well. Feel free to send your thoughts toloveuniversitypod@gmail.com before Tuesday, 11:59 PM. No extensions on this one! :D
Have you ever wondered how a man can change for the better? In our pilot episode, we invited a changed man to share his story - from broken to “builder”. The first part of this episode is about his personal love life journey and in the second part, he shares with us what guys are afraid of and how they can overcome it.
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Buy his book: https://feastbooks.ph/jpaul-hernandez/
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Share your journey with us and get a chance to be featured!
We are excited to journey with you here at Love University and this is designed to be interactive, so we will have a special Love Notes episode after each guest so we can share our reflections with each other.
Think of it as classmates having an open notes exam, all in pursuit of an answer but this time, in our love life. You can share the most insightful parts of the episode with us and how you can apply them in your own context. Or you can answer our reflection question too at the end of each guest episode. Since we don’t have the same contexts and situations, we’d like to hear your reflections too because that may be helpful to other listeners/viewers as well.
Feel free to send your thoughts to loveuniversitypod@gmail.com before Tuesday, 11:59 PM. No extensions on this one! :D
Welcome to Love University!
Finding our lifetime partner is one of the most important decisions we have to make in life, yet we don’t receive formal education on how to achieve that goal. Love University is here to ask married couples and relationship mentors how we can be one step closer to achieving our happily ever after, one lesson at a time.
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