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Annie
Woke feminists have hijacked what it means to be a woman. Women are commanded to hate men, love abortion, and allow men to beat them in sports. These beliefs aren’t empowering -- they ruin women’s chances at living a fulfilling life complete with their own family and meaningful work.
If you love women but feel left out of the modern feminist movement — welcome to my channel. I believe women are valuable members of society whose contributions are needed in and out of the home. Together we will learn how to apply traditional values to modern times.
- Intro
- Daily Wire on red pill (0:35)
- Women shouldn’t be treated with kid gloves (9:25)
- MGTOW (12:18)
- Modern women are dysfunctional (15:35)
- Men and women have totally different values (19:12)
- The solution is that women need to do better (21:18)
- Intro (0:00)
- Jack Diamond explains how he met this woman (1:28)
- Woman is letting herself be used (6:51)
- Police come for Jack (8:42)
- Woman cared more about self than the truth (13:40)
- It’s crazy that women make themselves available for casual sex (17:15)
- Women make false accusations all the time (21:04)
- Intro (0:00)
- She is a divorce healing coach (0:22)
- Don’t talk to this woman if you want to keep your marriage intact! (1:21)
- She misses her kids (3:48)
- No one talks about how hard divorce is on kids (5:40)
- She says only god can fulfill you (9:34)
- She’s right (sort of)! (11:56)
- Intro (0:00)
- Mary Harrington on trad wives (0:24)
- Why are trad wives so unappealing? (5:09)
- Practical reasons women should be entrepreneurs (8:19)
- Intro (0:00)
- She divorces the good guy (0:30)
- She can only go down from here (3:33)
- It’s not enough to be the good guy (5:39)
- Women misunderstand WHY men work (7:31)
- Difference between good guy and good husband (10:11)
- Marriage without God doesn’t work (14:52)
- Intro (0:00)
- The risks associated with premarital sex (1:16)
- The guy pressuring the woman into sex is not the one (5:30)
- The places to meet men with long term relationship potential (7:43)
- Should women settle in a relationship? (10:55)
- Do you have to get married to live a meaningful life? (12:50)
- Women are valuable (16:45)
- Men bond through vasopressin (0:00)
- Vasopressin in the dating context (5:48)
- Feminism teaches women to behave in ways that won’t get them a long-term relationship (8:35)
- Feminism is not designed to foster healthy relationships between men and women (12:25)
- You’re allowed to reject feminism (14:09)
- Reacting to a comment (0:00)
- How do two people get together? It’s not their love for each other (3:27)
- What does it mean to “advertise” what you’re bringing to the table? (14:12)
- I would not marry a fat person (18:20)
- When we understand love is not random, we can improve our dating results (21:21)
- Ariana Grande’s flighty relationship history (0:00)
- The disney channel idea of relationships (4:20)
- Can marriage be magical? -- the pros (10:10)
- The cons (18:58)
- Mitigating the risk marriage brings (22:09)
- Proof we agree that we can’t be healthy at any random weight (0:00)
- Why men don’t find obesity to be attractive (3:20)
- Unhealthy people have a harder time with pregnancy (4:19)
- We shouldn’t take men’s preferences personally (8:00)
- How to lose weight (11:38)
Audio from my new episode on YouTube! Check it out at 3:00pm on July 31.
- I don’t believe “no one gets married just to get divorced” (0:00)
- Sofia Vergara didn’t ask if Joe wanted kids (0:56)
- Kim didn’t expect Kanye to change (3:17)
- Woman picks spouse based on height (6:47)
- Why don’t women care about getting divorced? (10:26)
- Raising the stakes for divorce (13:55)
Note: I certainly am not suggesting that ALL women approach marriage recklessly. However, it is becoming increasingly popular in Hollywood to get married just to get divorced shortly thereafter. This is totally preventable if normal people don't take cues from the celebs!
- How far are we willing to go with euthanasia (aka suicide/murder)? (0:00)
- Everything fringe becomes mainstream (7:01)
- We misunderstand suffering (10:23)
- We make ourselves god’s when we decide who should die when (16:29)
- The problem with humans replacing God (18:45)
- Women don’t understand that a zero body count matters to men (0:00)
- What high body count reveals about the person (3:38)
- How a high body changes the person (7:12)
- Why aren’t men allowed to have preferences? (14:29)
- Two ways men/women are hypocritical in dating (16:22)
- Intro (0:00)
- Pitbull mauling stories and stats (2:54)
- Pitbulls are bred to fight (7:21)
- Why does anyone pretend that pitbulls are “family friendly”? (9:08)
- Why won’t pitbull lovers give up their dog to keep humans safe? (9:59)
- You don’t want to live in a world where we don’t value human life (15:58)
- Should we ban pitbulls? (16:41)
- The whatever podcast doesn’t intentionally make women look dumb (0:00)
- The host is not manipulative (4:41)
- There is no secret what the whatever pod is about (8:27)
- The women aren’t coerced into saying crazy things (11:06)
- There is a crisis in modern dating (14:17)
- Bella Thorne posts “sultry” pics while in a relationship (0:00)
- Why do women post revealing pics online? (1:57)
- What does the posting of revealing pics reveal about women and men? (9:40)
- Women need better role models (20:10)
Show Notes
- https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12137711/Bella-Thorne-leaves-little-imagination-blue-bodysuit-sultry-snap.html
- https://zero.sci-hub.se/6402/29aa696b79c2bd3ec8c114a7f64bc45f/ramsey2017.pdf
- Intro: Target doesn’t care about the lgbtq community (0:00)
- 3 companies that have taken positions on social justice issues (1:17)
- Companies know Gen Z/millennials will reward them for taking a stand (4:14)
- Woke companies can’t take the heat (12:37)
- Companies don’t have to be courageous to be woke (14:57)
- What does this reveal about 20-somethings? (17:07)
Show Notes
https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/26/sports/nike-colin-kaepernick.html
https://www.zurich.com/en/media/magazine/2022/how-will-gen-z-change-the-future-of-work#:~:text=Born%20between%201997%20and%202012,of%20the%20workforce%20by%202025.
https://fortune.com/2022/10/05/gen-z-versus-millennials-boomers-driving-most-workplace-trends/
https://www.forbes.com/sites/jiawertz/2018/09/30/taking-risks-can-benefit-your-brand-nikes-kaepernick-campaign-is-a-perfect-example/?sh=1aa3ddf145aa
https://fortune.com/2023/05/17/target-ceo-brian-cornell-interview-diversity-equity-inclusion/
- King Charles and his “terribly white balcony” (0:00)
- Biological differences explain differences in outcomes (4:38)
- Diversity is impossible to implement (10:22)
- Why do they push DEI on us? (14:33)
- How do we deal with DEI in the workplace? (17:05)
- Intro: Naked women at the Met Gala (0:00)
- You can self-objectify (5:12)
- If you don’t wear clothes, people will think you’re a hoe (11:23)
- College campuses are a dangerous place for young men (14:30)
- Hoes won’t attract long term partners (15:26)
- The sinister reality behind this (17:22)
- Our twenties aren’t meant to be wasted (0:00)
- Importance of weak ties (2:42)
- Look for a spouse in your 20s (5:18)
- Our brain is primed to learn (7:23)
- Warning: If you don’t waste time, people will think you’re weird (10:59)
- I do the podcast to protest against the evil leftist agenda (13:53)
- What do conservatives + classic liberals believe? (20:33)
- No one knows what an independent woman is (0:00)
- I react to definitions of independent woman (2:23)
- Why I am dependent (12:27)
- The independent woman lives a totally depressing life (16:36)
- Should someone be ashamed of their participation in hook up culture?
- People think hook up culture is a moral good (2:30)
- We will always suffer consequences for our actions (9:59)
- Is shame good for anything? (15:23)
- Public shaming works (17:38)
Show Notes
https://avoiceformen.com/featured/is-feminism-a-religion/
- Introducing Annie’s Husband
- Why do people like talking about dating? (1:00)
- The whatever podcast introduction (4:07)
- Dangers of porn consumption (5:30)
- Where to meet eligible dating partners (11:10)
- Are there consequences to having a high body count? (15:19)
- If you don’t participate in hook up culture, you’re not weird (24:30)
- Women confuse sexual interest with relationship interest (27:58)
Show Notes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SiEqtQ4mp9Y#t=13m45s
- Blac Chyna is giving up Only Fans
- Why is Blac Chyna turning away from Only Fans? (5:09)
- Why is hook up culture disempowering? (6:24)
- What should we do when we realize we’ve been off track? (12:23)
- Takeaway for young professionals (15:41)
Show Notes
https://www.distractify.com/p/how-did-blac-chyna-get-famous
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-11880285/Blac-Chynas-extreme-plastic-surgery-makeunder-Rob-Kardashans-stripper-ex-changing-life.html
https://bridgetphetasy.substack.com/p/slut-regret
- Dylan Mulvaney is in woman face
- The problem with the trans definition of men and women (2:19)
- You can’t define “women” without biology (5:03)
- Feminists have embraced trans ideology (7:08)
- Feminists want to turn women into men (abortion, hook up culture, women in stem) (7:48)
- Why do feminists hate women? (15:02)
Sources
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iy4vq8RdPGU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UVvOv1UwJLA
https://www.tiktok.com/@dylanmulvaney/video/7166696506697895214
- What is the dating marketplace?
- Women need affection (4:57)
- Men need sex (5:58)
- Women need intimate conversation, men need recreational companionship (7:15)
- Women need to trust their spouse (8:54)
- Men need domestic support (10:15)
- Women need financial support (12:33)
- Hot topic: men need a physically attractive wife (13:28)
- What if I don’t want to put in the work to increase my value in the dating marketplace? (15:52)
Show Notes
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a42803764/plus-size-woman-dating-apps-essay/
- No one ever believed that obesity is beautiful
- Prescription opioid abuse reveals our culture’s aversion to suffering (4:47)
- Examples of people using shortcuts to get out of suffering to achieve a hard goal (6:43)
- We need to identify the root cause of our suffering, not avoid suffering altogether (7:32)
- Suffering is an opportunity (8:57)
- Meaning of our lives is found in the journey through suffering, not in the end goal (13:09)
Show Notes
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/11/22/well/ozempic-diabetes-weight-loss.html
https://twitter.com/elonmusk/status/1576367983051489281
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/201203/is-our-aversion-pain-killing-us
https://variety.com/2022/film/actors/weight-loss-ozempic-semaglutide-hollywood-1235361465/
https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/health-every-size/
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-body-positivity-4773402
- Intro: TLC’s new show MILF Manor
- We’re told the show is not about incest, it’s about FeMiNiSm (2:54)
- The culture gaslights us on purpose (6:54)
- The culture looks to replace traditional marriage with revisionist marriage (8:04)
- Reason for concern: marriage might be a greater protection against tyrannical governments than guns (11:09)
Show Notes
- https://discussingmarriage.org/
- Prince Harry’s losing his virginity story destroys normal woman’s privacy
- Other times Prince Harry shared damaging personal details about others (6:41)
- Our culture has forgotten what it means to be a friend (8:49)
- Making friends is hard work but the the alternative is worse (15:51)
Show Notes
https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/21284665/sasha-walpole-dad-prince-harry-virginity/
False claims of sexual harassment hurt women in two ways. First, it makes women who are nervous about attending the gym even less likely to workout because they are told the gym is a sexually unsafe place for them to be (not true!). Second, it makes male/female interactions awkward. Men are going to be reluctant to interact with women if there’s a high probability they’ll be called sexual harassers when they were just being nice.
- Intro -- gym video goes viral for claims of sexual harassment
- What happened in the video (1:55)
- Where Jessica’s claims of sexual harassment fall apart (5:28)
- Jessica’s apology (10:39)
- When we can’t agree that the ends don’t justify the means, we can’t remain a country (11:42)
Show Notes
https://www.tiktok.com/@thejoeyswoll/video/7190847432073284907?lang=en
https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1ss7s26
How Hollywood Nepo babies and the Prophet Jonah from the Bible teach us that suffering is good and the only way to avoid being a boring, low personality person.
- The nepo baby represents the end of america
- The constitution assumed a strong middle class (5:34)
- How is the middle class doing today? (7:57)
- When the middle class disappears, people revolt (10:05)
- Our elites flaunt the end of the meritocracy (11:35)
- Takeaway: tell yourself you are oppressed and you will receive oppression (13:25)
Articles Mentioned
https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2017/03/middle-class-constitution/519909/
https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/04/20/how-the-american-middle-class-has-changed-in-the-past-five-decades/
https://fashionmagazine.com/style/celebrity-style/hailey-bieber-nepo-baby-shirt/
https://www.vulture.com/article/what-is-a-nepotism-baby.html
- Intro: Tom Brady’s 23rd season of football ends in divorce
- Married men are physically/mentally healthier, make more money, and spend less time in jail (3:10)
- Playing devil’s advocate with marriage studies (9:45)
- The pursuit of individual happiness erodes marriage and why (12:44)
- Pursue meaning instead (17:48)
- Brady should’ve quit football (20:18)
Sources:
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/inspired-life/wp/2015/04/02/dont-be-a-bachelor-why-married-men-work-harder-and-smarter-and-make-more-money/
https://scholar.harvard.edu/files/sampson/files/2006_criminology_laubwimer_1.pdf
- Intro -- we shouldn’t be forced to empower all women
- All women are not believable -- Rolling Stone Article UVA (4:03)
- Women don’t want to empower eachother, sometimes for good reason (10:16)
- It has not gone well in history when we labeled groups as “good” and others as “bad” (13:04)
- Real empowerment comes through the journey to achieve a really hard goal (15:16)
- The first time I experienced the journey (18:32)
- You can’t empower anyone else until you’ve gone on your own journey (20:12)
- Intro: Why does pregnant Rihanna show off her naked stomach?
- This episode is NOT about debating modesty standards (5:02)
- 4 positive messages women can communicate through clothes (6:13)
- The No Clothes Movement makes women seem less competent and hurts their chances of finding a man interested in committing to a long term relationship (10:55)
- The No Clothes Movement pretends to benefit women but only benefits men (18:25)
Show Notes
- Research article on perceptions of women based off of their clothing: https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.02401/full
- Introduction of Twitter graphs on how we spend our time
- Benefits to investing time with family (4:49)
- Why do we accept we won’t see our parents anymore after college? (12:57)
- Corporations and government are incentivized to be anti-family (15:25)
- You’re allowed to love your family (18:48)
Show Notes
- The tweet that inspired this episode: https://twitter.com/sahilbloom/status/1591424548280610816
- The article that inspired the tweet: https://ourworldindata.org/time-with-others-lifetime
- Article on jewish lady with lots of descendants: https://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/21/nyregion/21yitta.html#:~:text=WHEN%20Yitta%20Schwartz%20died%20last,claim%20perhaps%202%2C000%20living%20descendants
- Intro -- the church’s teachings on money suck because they don’t understand money themselves
- You can start living a richer life today (2:28)
- 2 strategies for becoming wealthier (9:37)
- Good people should become very rich so they can use money to feed good ideas and starve bad ideas (16:16)
- The culture wars are being fought in business and culture, not mud huts in India (20:52)
- Intro: How I perpetuated self pity (0:00)
- How to channel self pity productively (2:37 )
- What if you’re not a goal oriented person? (7:10)
- What is the process for setting goals? (11:12)
- How do I decide what goal to set? (13:18)
- What if I want to give up on the goal? (16:02)
- Achieving goals buys you freedom (17:51)
- Intro -- whiny open letter from twitter employees to Elon Musk.
- Reading of the letter in question with commentary (2:01)
- Twitter employees feel entitled to get paid for being lazy (7:46)
- Lack of humility enables Twitter employees to believe they are irreplaceable (10:44)
- Twitter employees believe lay offs for not working hard are abuse (13:38)
- These attitudes breed discontent (14:54)
- Bigger picture: employees at brand name companies become leaders of the country who hate the people they rule over (16:57)
- Intro: Two conflicting ways to define what it means to be a person
- What is main character energy and why does it become necessary for a main character to curate their personal brand? (4:14)
- Young adults who subscribe to the individualistic main character energy lifestyle experience anxiety at unprecedented rates (9:45)
- We don’t need each other to survive physically so we don’t believe we need one another to survive socially (11:49)
- It’s better to be a nobody who belongs to and is deeply cherished by their community than a loser celebrity with no friends (14:13)
- Intro: The Health At Any Size Movement (HAAS) hurts women
- The one example we can all agree on that disproves you can be healthy at any size (1:56)
- The HAAS movement is designed to stop women from getting dates (12:38)
- You don’t have to look like a fake Instagram model to get a date (17:33)
- Health is attractive (19:24)
- How do we explain the differences in what men and women look for in dating? (20:40)
- How to change your life without the process of change sucking (22:45)
- Intro: Kim Kardashian is a cultural disaster but we should be rooting for her to pull it together
- Values that led to Kim’s failed marriages, the selling of her body for attention, and being booed for being narcissistic and why we should care (1:36)
- Kim has the potential to lead millions of followers to the right values if she uses her own unhappiness to drive behavior change (11:50)
- 3 things that would prevent Kim from reaching her full potential (17:49)
- If there’s hope for goofy people like Kim, there’s hope for aimless young adults to get productive (24:27)
- Intro -- our 20s is our opportunity to build financial, physical, and intellectual foundations
- The earlier you invest, the richer you’ll become (7:51)
- You don’t know when you’ll wish you had “fuck money” (10:53)
- You have a duty to your community to be physically healthy (15:19)
- Grow intellectually today so you can’t be controlled later (20:25)
- Big corporations don't want you to be financially, physically, or intellectually prepared because they need cogs for their machine (23:01)
- Take the smallest next step to kick off habit change (26:12)
- Intro -- people laugh when I ask “do these people want women to die”
- Use comedy to tell the truth about societal problems and everyday annoyances (4:33)
- It’s hard to tell the truth because we, especially women, are pro social cohesion(5:14)
- It’s imperative we use comedy to tell the truth because otherwise bad ideas go unfettered… (6:55)
- …and infiltrate how YOU live (10:08)
- Don’t say puns and don’t put limits on what you’re allowed to say (17:43)
- Loser Academics teach our young adults, aka future leaders, absolutely nothing
- Lesson 1: Plagiarism is how you learn the basics of an industry (2:38)
- Lesson 2: Life punishes you if you don’t do your part of the group project (8:11)
- Lesson 3: Push your work out into the world before you’re ready (12:42)
- Intentional job experimentation in your 20s is necessary to identify your calling (15:43)
- Why are we paying academics who know nothing and who hate my values to teach me zero? (18:20)
- Intro -- Young adults are wondering if their boring corporate job is as exciting as work will get.
- Our past experiences, most of which were out of our control, reveal our purpose (6:14)
- There is meaning in our life’s work not belonging to ourselves (16:42)
- There is meaning in the monotonous pursuit of a higher ideal (24:15)
- Action Items (32:04)
- Intro: We do a disservice to women by focusing on if they’re comfortable in tech
- We should encourage women to embrace being the “only one” in a space because that’s life (4:38)
- Women who can’t cope with obstacles suck at their job (8:00 )
- People forsake an individual girl’s real passions for the sake of promulgating a movement (9:40)
- People like doing things they’re good at (10:56)
- If you love women, and want them to be at the top, figure out what the individual is best at (12:45)
- Action Item: Tell women the truth -- many men are not out to get them in the workplace (13:19)
- Action Item: Tell women to reframe challenges as opportunities (15:16)
- If you don’t love women who disagree with you, you don’t love women (17:00)
- Intro: language reveals narrative truth and what is narrative truth
- The person who controls the language controls you (7:03)
- Living a life untrue to yourself products in regret (what else do old people think about when they’re retired) (13:30)
- Need to identify our values before someone controls us into living a life we don’t want (16:10)
- Exercise telling the Truth like it’s a muscle (21:21)
- Intro
- Features of dream community (3:30)
- You won’t have friends if friendship is based on how someone makes you feel (6:30)
- Love as an action (9:30)
- Different engines for love as an action (11:40)
- Have I been loving as an action or have I been waiting for people to make me feel good? (16:30)
From the 2021 archives...
- My mom felt undervalued after running into a former babysitter
- 3 (of many ways) you can define a meaningful conversation
- Lots of laughs (4:18)
- Affirmations (7:23)
- Sharing knowledge (13:50)
- 3 (of many more ways) we can get to meaningful conversations
- Awareness of the value of the other person (15:56)
- Vulnerability in sharing personal details (18:57)
- Investment of time in people with similar values (26:46)
- How friendly can we be with our coworkers (29:26)?
- Action items we can implement to get to meaningful conversations today (32:05)
From the 2021 archives...
- Intro
- Poor sleep makes you sick (4:51)
- Sleep controls our emotions especially when we are around irritating people (11:25)
- Great relationships made in the morning (22:41)
- Choose short term discomfort in changing sleeping habits (28:20)
- Action items -- question is not how to get better sleep. Question is how do i as a lazy person who doesn’t want to change their habits make the smallest change possible to yield greatest results (34:49)
From the 2021 archives...
- I am to dogs like psychopaths are to violent images -- unimpressed
- Dogs are expensive. They should be free. Given that they cost money, invest that money in a Roth IRA instead (3:32)
- Dogs make your house dirty and your friends don't want to hang out in dirty homes (7:24)
- Dogs distract from human relationships (11:26)
- Takeaway: Young professionals don't want a dog, they actually want personal responsibility. Personal responsibility is a lot less expensive and a lot more fulfilling than a dog (16:21)
- Compromise: you can get a dog after you have fulfilled these obligations (20:16)