Eloka On The Eclectic: Recent Episodes
Eloka On The Eclectic
The Eclectic is a podcast, where we discuss a variety of topics, bordering on different aspects of life and its intricacies.
This week on The Eclectic, Joseph Ogaba joins us to share his lived-experiences as a person with disability. “It is our choices that show what we truly are far more than our ability.” This quote by J. K. Rowling is one of my favourite of all time. Clearly, life isn’t fair and it is only our choices that sets us apart. Please note that you should always talk directly to a person with disability and not the people accompanying them. Click the link and listen. How can we as a people achieve equity in our society? Is that even possible? Join the conversation and let’s hear your thoughts. Don’t forget to comment, like, and share!Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Ever wondered about persons with albinism? Yes, those folks we often refer wrongly to as “Albinos”. And by the way, for those who don’t know, albinism is a disability. Yes, it is a genetic condition caused by mutations of certain genes that affect the amount of melanin that one’s body produces. I’ve heard lots of myths about albinism. The most bizarre of them is that persons with albinism don’t die, as though they are some kind of immortal humanoid beings who are on a different level from the rest of us. Another silly myth is that having sex with a person with albinism will cure HIV! How crazy! Click the link. as the very perfumery Khadijah Ibrahim, a remarkable lady with albinism talks about among other things, some of the myths surrounding albinism. Join the conversation and share your thoughts. What other myth about albinism have you heard? Don’t forget to comment, like, and share!Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Imagine having to live with a disability and still face the extra burden of proving yourself even when it is not necessary to do so. Achieving academic success for a blind student studying in Nigeria is no mean feat. It takes sheer determination and some very high level of personal motivation to come out victorious. What with both physical and attitudinal barriers all seemingly conspiring to discourage you. Acquiring education should not be made to be this difficult. Clearly, we live in a society that is not built for persons with disabilities. However, with the right kind of approach and attitude, live can be made so much easier. Remember, we are all just an incident away from a disability. Do not say “God forbid, it is not my portion!” If it hasn’t reached you, it hasn’t passed you by. Click the link. as Ademola Adeleke shares with us among other things, his experience while studying at UNN and triumphing despite the odds.You can connect with Ademola by sending him a message on facebook @ https://www.facebook.com/see.demmySend us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
In this episode of The Eclectic, we hear from Angela Omale, the founder of Fight Against Rape (FAR) Initiative who shares with us a horrible experience that gave birth to her passion for ending violence against women and girls. Click the link, listen as she talks about her work with FAR Initiative and how persons with disabilities can be included in the fight.You can connect with Angela by following FAR Initiative’s facebook page @ https://www.facebook.com/share/L1ygpEBXr8sYQzwa/?mibextid=LQQJ4d to see some of their amazing work!Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Hi guys! In this episode of The Eclectic, we get to meet Asadullah, a blind young man who shares his experience with blindness and how it shaped him into the man he is today. Asadullah talks about his challenges and the choices he has had to make. Click the link. as he also shares with us the story of how he found love and is happily married with a child. Join the conversation and share your thoughts. Don’t forget to comment, like, and share!
This week on The Eclectic, we embark on a remarkable journey of vision and will with Dolapo Agbede, a Disability Inclusion Advisor with the Joint National Association of Persons with Disabilities, and the Founder of Wilway paradigm services, leading Diversity, Equity and Inclusion in Africa. Dolapo's story isn't just about overcoming personal challenges; it's about harnessing them to spark transformative change. So guys, buckle up as we explore her remarkable journey from navigating vision loss to spearheading inclusive solutions for underserved communities across the continent.Send us a mail to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
This week, we feature a guest who exemplifies resilience and the power of advocacy. Dr. Chike Okogwu, founder of the Centre for Ability, Rehabilitation, and Empowerment (CARE), joins us to discuss his inspiring journey fighting for accessible aviation in Nigeria. Dr. Chike's fight for equality is a powerful example of how one person's determination can create positive change. We'll discuss the impact of these changes and what the future holds for people with disabilities in Nigeria.The struggle for equality is never truly over. Dr. Chike's journey is a testament to the power of perseverance and collective action. We'll discuss what Dr. Chike sees as the next steps in achieving true accessibility for everyone. Dr. Chike's story is an inspiration, but the struggle for inclusion continues. We'll ask our listeners: What can we do in our own communities to advocate for equal rights for people with disabilities?Send us a mail to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
This week, we had a chat with Faith Ozioma Osemeke, a psychospiritual couples and relationship therapist who acquired a visual impairment while studying maths and statistics in the university. Following her impairment, Ozioma had to change her course of study where she found fulfilment in psychology. Today, Ozioma is the CEO of Arts and Acts of Love (ARAL), a counselling unit that specialises in psychospiritual therapy for couples, focusing on self-development and applying Bible-based theory where it aligns with science as her tool for therapy. On this episode, Ozioma talks about the reason she does not identify as a person with disability, and how she is able to provide counselling services to her cliants effectively and efficiently even as a person with a visual challenge. Explaining her views on impairment versus challenge, Ozioma believes that your interpretation of a situation determines how you respond to it. Click the link and listen to this fascinating conversation with Ozioma.Send us a mail to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Welcome back to The Eclectic, and a very special Happy International Women's Day! This week, we celebrate the theme "Invest in Women: Accelerate Progress," focusing on empowering women and girls, especially those facing additional challenges due to disabilities. We are honoured to have Dr. Tristaca McCray, the visionary CEO and Founder of NERDS RULE INC., an organization dedicated to empowering underserved communities. Dr. McCray's work goes beyond the ordinary, particularly in her focus on mental health awareness and support for women and girls with disabilities. Join us as we delve into:•Dr. McCray's journey: Discussing her personal inspiration and the driving force behind her dedication to empowering women and girls with disabilities.•Mental health and disability: Underscore the specific challenges and needs of women and girls with disabilities regarding mental health and well-being.•Breaking down barriers: Exploring successful initiatives and programs implemented by NERDS RULE INC. to address these challenges and empower women and girls with disabilities.•Investing in progress: Discussing the theme of International Women's Day and how investing in women and girls with disabilities contributes to social and economic progress.You can connect with Dr. McCray by sending a mail to info@nerdsruleinc.org Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Today on the Eclectic, we get to meet Daniella Ibikiri. Daniella's journey is one of remarkable courage and adaptation. A graduate from Niger Delta University (Amassoma) with a degree in computer science, she lost her sight just a few months after welcoming her first child. Yet, instead of succumbing to limitations, Daniella embraced her new reality with unwavering determination. She honed her skills, and blossomed into a loving wife, a devoted mother, and an inspiration to countless others. Our conversation with Daniella will delve into the depths of her experiences, exploring how she navigates daily life with grace and humour. We'll hear about the challenges she faced with suicide, the triumphs she achieved, and the unwavering support system that helped her redefine what it means to thrive. We'll also delve into her YouTube channel, "Living Beyond Limitations with Daniella Ibikiri," where she shares her perspective, offers practical tips, and champions the power of resilience.You can connect with Daniella by subscribing to her YouTube channel @ https://youtu.be/xYIPr1jxQ50?si=BPjLtc-vOFMCsIBJ to follow her story!Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Today, we have the privilege of meeting Olufemi S.A. Bayode, a Special Learning Needs Consultant who challenges perceptions and inspires action. While many are fascinated by his ability to navigate life as a visually impaired husband, father, and active professional, Olufemi goes beyond mere inspiration. He's here to share his lived experience, debunk misconceptions, and advocate for a more inclusive world. Join us as we delve into:•Olufemi's journey: How did he overcome societal expectations and build a fulfilling life despite visual impairment?•Embracing disability: What are the challenges and triumphs of navigating everyday life with a disability?•Expertise in assistive technology: How does Olufemi utilize computer technology to enhance his independence and productivity?•Championing inclusion: What are Olufemi's perspectives on disability rights, accessibility, and fostering an inclusive society?You can connect with Olufemi by sending a mail to support@slnconline.com.ng or visit his website @ https://slnconline.com.ng/ to access his collection of resource materials!Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
Today, we're venturing into the world of art and advocacy with Mark Stoddart, a Scottish sculptor whose bronze masterpieces and bespoke furniture have captivated audiences worldwide. But Mark's story is about more than just artistic brilliance. It's a testament to overcoming challenges, embracing neurodiversity, and using one's voice to empower others.Mark's journey began with dyslexia, a learning difference that presented unique hurdles in his early years. Yet, instead of succumbing to limitations, Mark found his expression through art, crafting sculptures that breathe life into bronze and tell stories with every curve and form. His passion for creation wasn't confined to the studio, though. Mark became a passionate advocate for dyslexia awareness, serving as an Ambassador and Board Member for RereGem Talent School and Dyslexia Kenya Organization. His book “Making a Mark Discovering the Power of Neurodiversity on a Learning Safari” is a true reflection of the kind of world we live in.You can connect with Mark by sending a mail to markstoddart99@gmail.com or visit his website @ https://www.markstoddart.com/ to experience his captivating artwork!Send us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
This episode delves into Jagwe Muzafaru’s inspiring story who is the founder of Blind Football Uganda, exploring how he's using Para-football as a platform to break down barriers and empower individuals who are blind or visually impaired to reach their full potential. Jagwe talks about the challenges and triumphs of building Blind Football Uganda and making Para-sports accessible, sharing his vision for the future of Para-sports and its role in creating a more inclusive society.You can connect with Blind Football Uganda by sending a mail to ugandablindsport@gmail.comSend us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
In this episode, we explore the world of Oluwakemi Odusanya who identifies as a happy blind woman! And is the Founder of Eagles Voice International. We delve into issues such as: Her personal story; Her experiences growing up blind; The challenges and triumphs she faced throughout her life; Her passion for gender-disability rights advocacy; Her work at Eagles Voice International; and a little insight to her most embarrassing moment!You can connect with Eagles Voice International by sending a mail to eaglesvoiceng@gmail.comSend us a mail also to elokaontheeclectic@gmail.com and follow The Eclectic on facebook https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063709292433 and join the growing community of people who are making life-changing discoveries!
It is true that as PWDs, there are certain tasks we may not be able to perform. However, the constant advancement in the world of technology has proven that impossibilities can be made possible. So before you write a PWD off, get to know their strengths and weaknesses through healthy and productive conversations. Press play to hear Freky Andrew-Essien discuss Disability and Power-Imbalance as we gradually wrap up the series on Disability Rights Advocacy Programme. Don’t forget to comment and let us know what you think about Persons With Disabilities. Do you think it is possible for a blind person to work in the army? Should a physically challenged person be allowed to be a surgeon? Let us know what you think and let us discuss in the comment box
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Most people with disabilities cannot have sexual relationships. Anyone can have a sexual relationship by adapting the sexual activity. People with disabilities can have children naturally or through adoption. People with disabilities, like other people, are sexual beings. Join Hellin as she speaks on DBV.
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Some people believe that PWDs are more comfortable with "their own kind." In the past, grouping people with disabilities in separate schools and institutions reinforced this misconception. Today, many people with disabilities take advantage of new opportunities to join mainstream society. Press play to listen as Mr. Ibrahim joins the discussion on DBV, highlighting the cultural difference in Nigeria and the UK
The notion that the lives of people with disabilities are totally different from the lives of people without disabilities is absolutely faulse. People with disabilities go to school, get married, work, have families, do laundry, grocery shop, laugh, cry, pay taxes, get angry, have prejudices, vote, plan and dream like everyone else. Press play to listen as Awashima joins the conversation on DBV
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I'll discuss my disability with you if you are curious, but it's an old story to me. I have as many interests as you do. However, don't be afraid to ask questions. We PWDs are more than willing to explain to you all the things you want to know about our disability. It's better to clarify things you don't understand than make hasty assumptions. Remember, questions don't hurt, ignorance does! Press play to listen as Oluwatomisin joins the conversation on DBV
This week, Grace Jerry talks to us about her disability, her experience with disability based-violence, the work her NGO does, as well as her most embarrassing moment as a PWD and more.
This week on The Eclectic, a young man with multiple disability tells his story. Press play to listen
Click the link to listen as Wunmi joins Lucky and Eloka on The Eclectic to commemorate international women’s day while discussing Gender-Based Violence Against Women and girls with disability
The ban on cryptocurrency in Nigeria has been in existence since 2017 so this is not new. But what is the difference between this ban and the previous one? Press play to listen
This week on The Eclectic, Lucky Pastor who is a visually impaired singer, song writer, poet and an author, talks about his new book titled Braving the Storm
Emotional intelligence helps you build stronger relationships, succeed at school and work, and achieve your career and personal goals. It can also help you to connect with your feelings, turn intention into action, and make informed decisions about what matters most to you Press play to listen to the concluding part of this exciting conversation on emotional intelligence with Sanni Alausa-Issa
Many times, we as individuals are faced with certain situations that may cause us to lose our cool and act irrationally. Our failure to deal with stress, manage conflicts efficiently, find ways to surmount challenges and communicate our feelings effectively might just be as a result of poor emotional intelligence. Our guest this week will sure help us solve that puzzle. Press play to listen as we discuss emotional intelligence with Sanni Alausa-Issa. How important do you think emotional intelligence is in our daily encounter with people?
Our guest is a fitness and lifestyle content creator that shares resources about weight loss and positivity on socials. She talks a lot about her ongoing weight loss journey and the mindset shifts that are helping her on the way. She also has a blog heyyitsjoshie com. Press play to listen as she takes us through her personal weight loss journey
Economists see money as anything that serves as a medium of exchange in a given society. However, it is important to note two key things. The first is that whatever serves as money has to be generally acceptable in settling financial obligations. The second thing is that anything whatsoever can serve as money provided it is acceptable as money within a given community. With this in mind, to what extent has digital currency met the above criteria? And what are it’s chances of supplanting the traditional fiat money? Ress play to listen as Jeffrey joins Lucky and Eloka on The Eclectic.
Networking is the process or practice of building up or maintaining informal relationships, especially with people whose friendship could bring advantages such as job or business opportunities.
A certain man was set for his book launch; so he paid a rich neighbour a visit to see if he can help with its cost. The neighbour promised to help, but requested the author carries out an exercise. He added that the success or failure of the exercise would not in any way influence his decision to assist with the launch. Then he gave the author a note pad and a pen to enumerate ten names he could invite for the book launch and he is certain they can all afford to give him ten thousand each during the launch. To the surprise of the author, he could not even put down a name. So the question is, what kind of network have you built and what can you benefit from it? Press play to listen as Iyiola Oladunjoye joins Lucky and Eloka on The Eclectic to discuss the power of networking. Is there any comparison or contrast between networking and being an opportunist? How can one develop a good network and sustain it?
Many people ask, How can I get to know someone without slipping into inappropriate behavior? How can I build a relationship based on friendship rather than physical attraction? The answer lies first in understanding the nature and purpose of friendship, which is to build character, and, second, understanding the different levels of friendship and the behavior that is appropriate for each level. Listen to this exciting episode and learn about building healthy relationships and setting boundaries
Many people ask, How can I get to know someone without slipping into inappropriate behaviour? How can I build a relationship based on friendship rather than physical attraction?” The answer lies first in understanding the nature and purpose of friendship, which is to build character, and, second, understanding the different levels of friendship and the behavior that is appropriate for each level. Listen to this exciting episode and learn about building healthy relationships and setting boundaries.
The aftermath of divorce or single parenthood is not felt only by the parties involved in the relationship. It is a long lasting cycle that affects even the children borne out of such environments. This week we discuss about living with a single parent with our guest.
Listen to E-Daniels chat with Lucky and Eloka on The Eclectic about the challenges he encounters in the music industry as a visually impaired person
White Lies are lies not intended to harm, but told in order to avoid distress or embarrassment. If this is the case, how important is the telling of a white lie in our dealings with people?
Many parents raise their children in ways they feel is best for the child. However, raising a child or children as the case may be, is no mean feat. Click the link to listen to a mother of six share her experience with us this week on The Eclectic
Listen as we discuss the importance of leadership and the role of followership with Mr. Henry Eyo, management consultant
It is believed that forgiveness does not destroy our memory. Forgiveness is not a feeling but a decision. Click the link to listen to this thought-provoking episode of The Eclectic
With me to discuss emotional cheating and the different scenarios surrounding this controversial topic is Lucky! Also, joining us on this roller coaster, our guest is Dr. Kingsley Oliver! Click the link to listen as we dissect the triangle that is Benita, John and Richard!
Click the link to listen as we comemorate world health day and explore the world of mental health with folajaiye kareem, a clinical psychologist and mental health advocate along side Lucky pastor and Eloka on the Eclectic!! Please share your thought, feelings and experience with us on Facebook and Instagram regarding the topic on mental health!.. Thank you
For Dr Edwin Cole, Communication is the basis of life When communication stops, abnormality sets in The ultimate end of such abnormality, when it is not corrected, is death to the relationship Unfortunately, the effect of the lack of communication is present in all forms of relationships Hence, the need to discuss and proffer solutions to the problem Click the link to listen to this fascinating conversation as Mrs Agnes Eneji who is a marriage counselour and has over twenty years worth of experience when it comes to the business of marriage, joins Lucky and I as we discuss the importance of communication and find out if the flow of communication is a particular person’s job! Don’t forget to drop your comments on our facebook and Instagram platforms!
It is argued that some women are breadwinners in their homes and if they are capable of providing for their families, why shouldn’t they be allowed to call the shots? Click the link to listen as Miss Nneamaka Obodo, a lecturer from the Department of Political Science and Diplomacy, Veritas University, Abuja alongside Dr Sunday Adejoh, a lecturer and a public affairs analyst from the Department of Defense and Security Studies, Nigerian Defense Academy, Kaduna, answer this pertinent question and lots more! share your thoughts with us concerning this topic on our facebook and Instagram platforms!
Amanda Maha Joins me on The Eclectic as we take a look at this crucial topic along side Lucky Pastor! Click the link to take a listen and let us know what you think! Does the child have a role to play in the process of fostering a good working relationship with the parents? Leave your comments on our facebook and Instagram platforms!
According too Dr Myles Munroe in his book Waiting and Dating, “Success rarely occurs without planning, and plans without wisdom usually fail God has given us the capacity to make plans, but He expects us to look to Him to make them succeed: “In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps” (Prov 16:9) ” “From this we find two principles that are necessary for our success in anything First, we need a plan, and second, we need godly wisdom for executing that plan successfully The plan is our responsibility; the wisdom for its execution comes from God If we want a successful dating life, we must plan for that success Unless we plan for success, it won’t happen Then we must learn and follow God’s principles in order for our plan to succeed We must make plans in our hearts and then trust the Lord to guide our steps ” Click the link to listen as Isabella Ibiam, Chiamaka Ohadiugha, Lucky Pastor and Eloka on the Eclectic, attempt to find out if God does really choose life-partners for people
In this episode, we will be focused on single motherhood and get to find out the economic, social, emotional, disciplinary, and psychological challenges single mothers face and how they can successfully surmount them all