Reflections With Hector & Lucy: Recent Episodes
Lucia Suco
Reflections With Hector & Lucy are about a married couple who go back and forth with all things relationships while reflecting on their own struggles with dating, leading up to their fateful interaction that joined their destinies.
In this episode of Reflections With Hector and Lucy, the couple talk about Romance. What is it exactly? Is it only a type of chivalry that a man expresses to a woman? Can a woman be romantic with a man? How important is romance compared to the other things that make a relationship thrive? All that and more in this episode!
In this Special Episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple discuss Hector's board game creation called Now You're Dating! Hector discusses the inception of the game, the number of challenges presented in creating such a game, how the game is played, and who the best audience is for the game. You can follow the NYD saga on Instagram, @nowyouredating, and on Facebook. Go to nowyouredating.com to find out more information and to purchase the game.
In this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple discuss love. They discuss the love they have for each other. They do a deep dive into whether they think "Love at first sight" is a real thing. They discuss the importance of loving yourself before loving someone else. All important aspects of love are discussed in this episode. Enjoy!
On this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple reflect on their eight years of marriage. The ups, the downs, and everything in between. From the first year of marriage, to becoming parents, the couple share their experiences of the trials and tribulations and what it takes to start a marriage and start a family.
In this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple talk about being in a relationship. Topics include how many dates do couples need to go on before making it official, types of relationships, legalities, rating your relationship, secrets, temptations, and much more.
In this episode of Reflections With Hector & Lucy, the couple talk about their teaching experiences during the pandemic. They start with the news of COVID-19, but then go into how their teaching experiences were upended with the spread into their community. What followed was an array of challenges and each go into their unique perspective to come up with the best solution at their disposal. The couple also go into what the next school year may look like.
In this episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple discuss everything about dating. Topics discussed include the first date, who pays for the date, the first kiss, and whether to invite your date home. Dine and ditching and safety issues are also discussed. Enjoy!
In this episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple talk about the fact that one partner often spends an indefinite amount of time waiting for their partner to take their relationship to the next level. Whether it's approaching them for the first time, asking them out on a date, being in an official relationship, proposing, or having kids, one partner may be in a hurry to get to the next level. So, what are they to do? Listen and you may find the answer! Enjoy!
In this sensitive episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple talk about the rest of the Relationship Deal Breakers that couples will or may face as their relationship builds. The topics discussed in this episode are tastes in music, TV, and film, politics, traveling, occupation, and abuse (verbal, emotional, physical, substance, alcohol). Hector and Lucy hope that this episode can be a conversation-starter and not a triggering moment for our listeners. The opinions shared in this episode are all theoretical in nature as the couple always preface what they say with "What if a parent says..."
In this first of 2-part episode, Hector & Lucy discuss common Deal Breakers that should be discussed by potential or current partners about their relationship. Deal Breaker topics in this episode include children, how to raise children, life goals, religion, and finances. Enjoy!
In this episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the couple go through why it's important to reflect on one's past dating and relationship experiences. How can you know where you are going if you don't know where you've been? Key questions should be reflected on to see if one has a type so that they can have a clear picture moving forward. Enjoy!
In this podcast episode of Reflections with Hector & Lucy, the couple talks about the Friend Zone. What is the friend zone? What does it mean to be in the friend zone? Who puts who in the friend zone? Is there a way out of the friend zone? How long should one be in the friend zone? All this and more in this episode. Enjoy!
In this episode of Reflections with Hector & Lucy, the couple talk about the fear of being rejected. When approaching someone, how important are first impressions? How should one approach a stranger to start a conversation? What if they have their guard up? What is the one thing you need to leave with when meeting someone for the first time? The couple continue with dating apps, how to manage a bad first date, infatuation, being ghosted, and the nature of being rejected and the solutions moving forward.
In this episode of Reflections with Hector and Lucy, the topic is Romantic Attraction. What are the rules to follow when attracted to someone. Can people approach an attractive person out of the blue? Should they be upfront or have some sort of plan? What is kids are involved? Is it beneficial to be someone's friend first? All of these questions are dived into and much more in this episode. Enjoy!
In this episode, Hector and Lucy reflect on Being Single and the dreaded feeling of "forever alone." For the listener, specific questions are asked to make sure they are happy with their lives now, do you want to be in a relationship and why, how does one look for dates, etc. Enjoy!
In this episode of RHL, we introduce ourselves and the overview of this podcast. We go into detail of how we first met and lay down the groundwork of how we communicate and go back and forth. Enjoy!