Organised Chaos Podcast: Recent Episodes
Emily Mboya and Nicole Ada
Organised Chaos podcast is a refreshingly honest, fun and hilariously chaotic podcast brought to you by two best friends - Nicole and Emily, living in Australia. Episodes are available every Tuesday fortnightly. You can expect chaotic conversations, relentless banter, all while giving you and ourselves unprofessional therapy - basically your online sisters. We'll be talking about friendships, relationships, adulthood careers, basically everything and anything.
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Welcome to another episode of Organised Chaos. We speak about the madness that the internet has been on over the last couple of weeks - sex tapes, friends and wedding planning, etc. We discuss friendships and how to approach changing friendships dynamics when a friend enters a new relationship. We answer your dilemmas this week as well as share our songs of the fortnight. Enjoy!
In this episode of Organised Chaos Em vulnerably shares the changes she's going through and the tough lessons she's learning through therapy. We discuss how our parents did their best in raising us and raised us the best way they knew how. We go into friendship dynamics especially with more than two friends, also discussing how difficult getting over friendship breakups can be. We also answer a dilemma on whether or not someone should take a break from work or keep grinding. Enjoy!You can send questions, dilemmas, news, etc anonymously through our website: https://www.organisedchaospod.com/message-us
Welcome to another episode of Organised Chaos. Thank you for supporting us through our first event - we are looking forward for more to come through the years. In this week's episode, Em tells her story of the spider on her windshield when driving and how her mum listened to the episode on Em's new beliefs in God, and the consequent repercussions. Nicole contemplates what she wants to be remembered for when she's no longer here. We discuss our new segment, dilemmas, and our first dilemma is whether a lady is ready to be a step-mum after finding out her partner has been hiding his child from her. For dilemmas, questions of feedback, please send them anonymously through https://www.organisedchaospod.com/message-us
Another fortnight, another beautifully chaotic episode. This week we talk about Em's first love and consequently, first heartbreak and also Nicole being in a relationship by herself, We discuss the core differences we've experienced in interracial relationships and same-race relationships and also go into whether dating outside your race makes you a sellout. We also talk about whether or not we will physically beat our kids as we were and how being physically punished as kids as affected or influenced us as adults. As always, we share our top songs for the fortnight, Enjoy:If you haven't already, get your tickets to Sisterhood in the Vines: https://www.organisedchaospod.com/product-page/sisterhood-in-the-vines-event
On this episode of Organised Chaos, we talk about Christianity and where we stand in our Christianity walk and some of the questions areWe talk about what has recently happened that has made us realise we are adults. For Nicole, it's every elder asking her when she is getting married and when we'll be attending her wedding. For Emily, it was her hair bill and when she has to do her laundry. As usual, we share our favourite songs and make an announcement of our first podcast sisterhood event. Tickets to our first sisterhood event: https://www.organisedchaospod.com/product-page/sisterhood-in-the-vines-event
In a particularly hearty episode of Organised Chaos, we talk about healing and how we now navigate uncomfortable situations as adults. We go into marriage and companionship and discuss how that seems less appealing in this day and age after being exposed to a lot of people's struggles in marriages. Nicole explains to Em the dynamics of friends with benefits and it doesn't seem like a bad idea afterall.
As always, we talk and fuss over our songs of the week.
On another episode of Organised Chaos, we lament the small things in life. From long nails to soaps not being soapy enough, to men who don't like their girlfriends and everything in between.
We delve into Christianity and religion; how we are navigating our own beliefs away from the way we have been brought up. We also talk about Christianity and its stronghold within the black community.
Lastly, we delve into the popular topic of whether or not to post about your significant other on social media - very commonly, we have varying opinions about this.
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Welcome to 2023! On our first episode of 2023, we discuss how the year has begun for both of us - both hoping and praying for a better year. We talk about some of our aspirations for 2023.
Once again, Em talks about her hopes and dreams of one day being proposed to and Nicoles puts a price on the engagement ring she hopes to get. We talk about bringing back shame especially holding people publicly accountable.
We go into trauma and how we each respond differently to past experiences and past trauma - nature vs nurture. Lastly, we finish off by adding songs to our Spotify playlist.
On our last episode 0f 2022, we reflect on the year and what some of our highlights have been. Equally, we share some of our low moments of 2022. To cap it off, we discuss the things we are taking into 2022 and what we are leaving behind.
Enjoy and - wish you a prosperous 2023!
In the second last episode of 2022, we talk about weddings happening around us and how much goes on behind the scenes in public social media relationships that we do not know about. Emily talks about how she cannot wait to be engaged and how she will sing it from the rooftop.
We go back on the campaign of 'Fear Men' as we discuss how we have seen men show us dust on these streets.
As usual, Nicole has a new wine tool that annoys Em. Lastly, we talk about how we're all paying for Adam and Eve's sins.
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Another episode of organised chaos is here and we talk about depression, work, pressure of getting married and what we consider the purest form of love is.
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After a short break, we are back - hopefully, bigger and better. In this episode, we discuss why we took a break and what we are bringing to the podcast moving on. As always, we discuss how we are doing with life and life updates. Nicole tells us about how she found out she was a girlfriend without her knowledge and preached to us about hypergamy. We discuss dowry and also the things we are unlearning in our adulthood, now that we know better. As always, enjoy! (Please leave a like and subsribe to the Podcast - it really helps with our growth :) )
On another episode of Organised Chaos, we delve into reciprocity - Nicole's favorite R word. We get into what you do with gifts from exes and how soon are we buying presents and gifts for people we are newly seeing.
We talk about consent and how no means no during sex.
From the Twittersphere, we dissect one tweet from our fellow sister and her ick board with her ex-fiance;
In an interesting turn of events, we talk about all the positive things going on in our lives.
As usual, thank you for listening and please like, follow and subscribe.
On another episode of Organised Chaos, we delve into reciprocity - Nicole's favorite R word. We get into what you do with gifts from exes and how soon are we buying presents and gifts for people we are newly seeing.
We talk about consent and how no means no during sex.
From the Twittersphere, we dissect one tweet from our fellow sister and her ick board with her ex-fiance;
In an interesting turn of events, we talk about all the positive things going on in our lives.
As usual, thank you for listening and please like, follow and subscribe.
We are back with another chaotically organised episode. In this episode, we talk about how we think the podcast ends. Em checks if she is a thief and Nicole tells us of a time she ate breakfast delivered to her house without knowing who sent it. We also discuss the overly extended talking stage and the red flags we look out for - Nicole explains misery Olympics as a red flag! As usual, we end with a question, is it better to have had and lost or not had at all? Enjoy!!
In this episode, we talk about our lives recently and some of the sticky situations we have found ourselves in. We talk about how everyone around us is getting married and also touch on normalising distancing ourselves from parents and family.
Nicole tells us of a time a man moved house just to be close to her #mustbenice. On top of that, you get to hear us singing some of the current Afrobeats bangers - albeit with the wrong lyrics. Enjoy!!!
On another episode of Organised Chaos we talk about what's been happening in our lives lately. Nicole tells us about her honeymoon time away that has given her more confidence in the idea of love. Emily thinks she is part Spanish and tires us with long and broken Spanish throughout the episode. We also discuss expectations in relationships and how to offer reassurance to your partner.
On another episode, Emily rants about how life does not come with a manual, and she thinks it should. We talk about getting over heartbreak and having to go on with life after chopping breakfast, also, how quickly Nicole gets over heartbreak. Lastly, we talk about some of our most embarrassing moments and what a contrast between Nicoles's and Em's.
In a new episode of Organised Chaos Podcast, Nicole tells us about her Thai massage experience. Emily tells a story of smelly feet and we talk about body odor and how men's cologne should match their looks! We dive into business and how we've survived being business owners and whether or not we would have partners in business. Lastly, we dissect the lyrics of the old skul hit 'Love is Wicked'. Enjoy!
In another episode of Organised Chaos, we discuss. our exes and things our previous relationships have taught us. We also talk about when we know it's time to walk away from situations/ relationships/jobs/ friendships etc. We check in our friends in relationships as it looks like everyone is chopping breakfast us!! In all of this, we remind ourselves to live in the moment and enjoy what's happening at the moment.
We're back with a second episode of #organisedchaospod. We talk about attachment in friendships, and attachment styles while completing a test to determine our attachment styles. We also talk about mental health and the need for us to be vulnerable and create the space for vulnerability and openness, especially with men - hence our episode title. While Nicole doesn't have an update on her new man/ we touch on exclusivity and force an update for the next episode - it's only fair.
ENJOY.
This week we talk about dating and life in the dating world. From first dates, discussing exclusivity and how to navigate old and new relationships. 1
Emily tells the story of when she thinks she overreacted with a new date and Nicole delights us with a story of what the wildest thing she's done for a man that's not her man.