Can You Relate?: Recent Episodes

Alicia Aguilera

Hi everyone! My name is Alicia Aguilera. I have been inspired and motivated to create this podcast due to many different challenges/experiences life has thrown at me. I also have witnessed difficult situations that my family and friends have encountered throughout their life and feel it would be awesome to talk about them as well. I am excited to be starting this new endeavor and I hope you guys enjoy!

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Hello everyone!!!

I hope you all are doing well! 

I have been feeling the need to give you guys a bit more intel in regard to my inconsistency of my content. Time is valuable to me and I know others value their time too! I hope y'all can stick around but if you can't I understand. Please take care and stay healthy.  I will see you guys soon!

LOVE AA!  

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What is up everyone!!!

I hope you all are doing well! 

In this episode I talk about how I dealt with the choice I made to separate  from my ex-husband. So many emotions to process and so many things to consider. I hope you all enjoy this episode. Thank You for tuning in. 

LOVE AA!  

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Hello everyone, 

I hope you all are doing amazing!

In this episode I am basically giving you guys a taste of how a person that was important to me at the time made me feel when I would get my MC. It was hell!  As a female we did not ask to endure so many situation that cause physical pain.... these are the cards we were dealt with....so we learn to embrace it. However, it makes it harder when you do not have a partner that is understanding of the shit we go thru. I hope you all enjoy this episode!

Thank You for tuning in!
LOVE AA!

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Hello everyone!

I hope you all are doing well! 

This episode is basically dedicated to the situation I experienced about a week ago possibly two lol. I was in a rear-end collision...I was trippin! So many emotions to process. I hope you guys enjoy this episode. Please be careful, we all want to make it back home safe to our love ones.  Thank You for tuning in enjoy! 

LOVE AA!

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Whats up everyone!

I hope you all are doing well.

In this episode I talk about how I handled co-parenting with my ex. I have made mistakes, I learned and I continue to learn everyday! I hope you all enjoy this episode. Thank You for tuning in.

LOVE AA!

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Hello everyone!
Happy 2023!!!

In this episode I talk about how my ex-husband and even myself in my younger days did not know how to handle MA DRINKS. I hope you all enjoy this episode. Thank You for tuning in! 

LOVE AA! 

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Hello everyone! 

I hope you all are doing well!

This episode is basically about experiencing people acting with Entitled Attitudes, while minding your business. LOL... I hope you all enjoy! and once again Thank You all for tuning in!

LOVE AA!

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What is up everyone! 

I hope you all are doing well.  This weeks episode is a bit intense. You will get to hear my emotions through out. Damn IT!! Thanksgiving week was rough. I hope you all enjoy this episode and as always thank you for tuning in! 

LOVE AA!  

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Hi everyone!

I hope you all are doing well. 

This episode is touching base on the pressure, we females go through due to our spouses making us feel, not up to par. I hope you all enjoy. 

Thank You for tuning in!

LOVEAA!  

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Hello everyone!!

I hope you all are doing well! This weeks episode is about how I've experience not so pleasant interaction while working and how I have also witnessed others being treated in a rude manner while they work. I hope you all enjoy. 

Thank You for tuning in!

LOVE AA!  

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Whats up everyone!!

Even though this happen two weeks ago, I had to follow up real quick! OMG!! I heard about four suspects collecting money for a child's funeral in Rialto CA  and  it turned out to be a SCAM!!! This is why I struggle! Anywho, I hope you all enjoy! 

Thanks for tuning in!

LoveAA! 

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What is up everyone!!

I hope you all had an awesome Halloween! (A WEEK LATER) This episode was meant to go out on Halloween but life happens.  In this episode I talk about a weird situation that happened to me while working as a baking assistant. I hope you all enjoy! Thank You for tuning in! 

LoveAA! 

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Hello everyone!!!

I hope you all are doing well!

In this weeks episode I share the dilemma I faced when I became pregnant. Which was considering to become dependent on my ex-husband. I hope you all enjoy this episode. Thank You for tuning in & enjoy!!!!

LoveAA!  

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Hello everyone!

This episode is about my  personal opinion in regards to assuming the private school community is a bit snobby/entitled. This experience is actually fairly new due to my daughter attending private school. I hope you all find something in this episode that will be useful at some-point. 

Thank You all for tuning in! Enjoy!

LoveAA

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Hi everyone!!!

I hope you all, are doing well!!

This weeks episode is about always finding myself in drama. At times I would complain about it too! I definitely realized somethings along the way and certain situations changed my way of thinking. Can you relate? Please let me know, I would love to hear your story. I hope you all enjoy and thanks for tuning in! 

email me@: canyourelatepodcast444@gmail.com 

LoveAA!  

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Hi everyone!

I hope you all are doing well!!

This episode is about dealing with FAKE people. Honestly, it can be difficult to spot fake vibes. LOL.....Wow! I have had my fair-share of experiences in this arena with friends and family. It can be difficult for DAMN SURE! However the more you go through it you will become aware  of this and be able to avoid or get away from people that are not genuine.  Can You  Relate? Let me know: @canyourelatepodcast444@gmail.com

I hope you all enjoy! Thank You all for tuning in!

Love AA

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What is up everyone!

I hope you all are doing well! 

This episode is about a special memory I will never forget.. I am truly grateful this special person was placed in my path. This taught me many lessons and continues to teach me. This memory that I hold dear to my heart, adds to the sentimental feelings I experienced and continue to experience, when I see homeless people out on the street. I would love to be able to help all of them....I can only do so much. It is also the reason why I have conflicting thoughts as to who really is in need. If anyone can relate to this, am there with you! I hope you all enjoy and thanks for tuning in! 

Wherever You Are, I got nothing but Love for You Fly! 
Your Homegirl 4 Life Alicia !

LoveAA

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What is up guys!!! 

I hope you all are doing swell! 

In this episode I talk about my thoughts towards homeless people. Ever since I was a child I disliked seeing homeless people on the street. It would get me emotional. As I got older, I began to notice how a lot of females started asking for money with their children on the side walk/side of the road etc. I had several experiences that unfortunately made me start doubting homeless people. Unfortunately this caused me to experience conflicting thoughts....r they really in need or am I being con? Who can relate to this? I hope you all enjoy and thank you for tuning in! 

Please if any of you can relate, reach out to me @: canyourelatepodcast444@gmail.com 

LoveAA

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Hello everyone!!!

I hope you all are doing well! In this episode I  am taking about bullying. I definitely did not experience a severe case of bullying; however I did witness a love one getting bullied. It was tough to see my love one go through bullying, especially at a really young age. If you or anyone you know are being bullied please SPEAK UP.  I hope you all enjoy this episode.  Thank You for tuning in! 

Love AA 

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What is up everyone!!!

I hope you all are well! This weeks episode is about how my father was really strict on how my sisters and I would dress. Uhm, he did not allow us to wear feminine clothing. It was always over size t-shirts, basketball shorts or baggy sweats. Trust me when I say I love this style how can i not right i grew up wearing this shit around the house. However, it did cause myself and my older sibling some turmoil as to why we were not feminine.  Can anyone relate to this? Thank you for tuning in and I hope you guys enjoy this episode.

LoveAA

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What is up guys!!!! 

I hope you all are doing well!! 

This episode is basically my thoughts on this certain situation. I honestly did not remember I did actually experience this topic until I started to record!!HAHAHAHA!!! Anywho, to answer my own question I believe someone that pretends to have good intentions and drops you as soon as they get what they want is definitely worse.  I strongly felt the need to share my opinion about this, I feel like someone needs to hear it. I hope you all enjoy this episode! 

Thank you all for tuning in!!!

LoveAA 

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What is up guys!!! 

In this episode I talk about how I changed every time I would be in a relationship.  From style, interest, etc. I later came to realize that I wasn’t happy with being me! I hope y’all enjoy this episode ! Thank you so much for tuning in, I will catch you guys in the next episode! 

LoveAA! 

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What is up guys!!! 

I hope you all are well! 

This episode is about my experience with being ghosted and obviously my thoughts on this childish act. Were did the courage that once existed go? I did not grow up in the "ghosting" era.  Can you relate? Really quick i would like to share with you all,  I would like to purchase a better mic setup, to allow me to record podcast on the go/on the spot..... but them thangs are pricey! I am not able to afford it. With that being said, I am thinking about adding a donations link to my podcast I still haven't decided yet! Any-who, I hope you guys enjoy this episode and thanks for tuning in! I appreciate it! 

Love AA!

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What is up guys!

I hope you are all doing well! 

In this episode I will be talking about my experience getting a D.U.I! Gosh, it has been  nine years!  but a memory that has stayed with me for DAMN SURE! Please think twice before you conceive, the idea of  getting behind the wheel after having drinks. IT IS NOT WORTH IT! I hope you guys enjoy and be safe! 

Love AA!

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Hey all!! 

I hope all is well. In this episode I will be talking about some of the arguments I have seen in public. Not only have I seen this happened but I have been in those shoes several times. If you currently find your self in a situation like this. DONT CHASE. DONT FORCE TO FIX THINGS. LET IT PLAY OUT. Tomorrow is another day. I  hope you guys enjoy!

Love AA! 

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Hey all!

I hope you all had a great Fourth Of July! Alrighty guys, in this episode I will be talking about how my oldest sister took on my parents responsibility while she was growing up. Even though, this taught her to be responsible at an early age it also affected her in a negative way. It definitely cause many imbalances in within our household and at times the middle child and I found it difficult to navigate certain situations. Can You Relate? 

I hope you all enjoy! & Thanks for Listening! :)
Love AA

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Hi guys! 

This weeks episode is about how myself and my family, experienced enabling. We all know how enabling can affect people. Its  not a cycle you want to find yourself in, that's for sure!  I hope you all can relate! Thank You all for listening and I hope you guys enjoy! 

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Hi guys! 

Happy Father's Day and that goes for all single parents out there too! 

This weeks episode will be about my experience dating men with kids. Unfortunately, my experience was for the most part negative. Of course this is not the case for everyone  who has dating either a man or a female with kids. With this being said I hope you can relate to many of the issues I encountered in this type of relationship. Thank you all for listening!!  

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Hi guys! 

This episode will be about the physical/emotional abuse I unfortunately experienced with an ex-partner years ago. I was actually inspired to talk about this experience because as we all know the Johnny Depp vs Amber Heard trial was shinning the light to the domestic violence realm. I was triggered by some of the alleged events one party claimed happened. Domestic, emotional, sexual, mental abuse is NOT A JOKE!  If you find yourself in a situation that is causing you harm, please reach out to your loves ones, friends and if you do not feel comfortable or feel ashamed, reach out to a therapist. There is NOTHING WRONG WITH LOOKING FOR HELP! I hope this episode encourages any one going through it, TAKE THE FIRST STEP.  You Got This! And I hope that any of you that have gone through something like this, Can Relate.  I hope you guys enjoy and I greatly appreciate you guys for tuning in! 

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Whats up guys! This weeks episode will be focusing on some of the struggles I encountered due to not speaking English well. I hope you guys enjoy and can relate to these struggles.  Thanks for listening! 

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Hi guys! This weeks episode will be focusing on many factors that contributed to experiencing unfaithfulness while in a relationship. While I talk about being hurt, this happened to me several times ok! I also speak about the way I contributed to this situation, which didn't make the situation better. Eventually, this encouraged me to take a deeper look and with outside resources, I have been able to grow.  I hope you guys enjoy!! Thanks for listening!!!! 

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Hi guys!
This episode will be about the struggles that come with being related to a love one, involved in gang activity. I will talk about some of the dangers my sister's and I were exposed to and the stressful situations my parents went through.  

Can You Relate? 
I hope you guys enjoy and thanks for listening! 

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Hi guys! In this episode I will be speaking about the parenting skills my parents exposed my self and siblings to. Unfortunately, my parents were not aware that these skills were toxic AF! I hope some of you can relate. Thank You for listening. Enjoy! 

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Hi guys! this episode will give you a brief understanding of how difficult it was for me to find myself in a healthy relationship. Of course, this is just the tip of the ice berg! 
I hope you guys enjoy!  

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In this episode, I will be describing my personal relationship with my parents and some of the issues that our relationship suffered from. 

How would you, describe your relationship with your parents?  Can You Relate?

Thanks for listening!