The Potential Candidate: Recent Episodes
Jess and Tiffany
The Potential Candidate is a podcast about life after divorce, taking accountability and transforming your life for the better. On this journey listeners will hear from men and women about their path to foster meaningful relationships. We will share successful dating tips, relive epic horror stories, and leave you with powerful mantras to help you further manifest your goals. This podcast is for the person seeking clarity. Are you ready for the glow up? Are you ready to bounce back? Are you the potential candidate?
Music Credit: Daybreak Regret by Ron Gelinas Chillout Lounge
The holiday season is in full swing! Jess and Tiffany are joined by their good friend Lakire of Culture Uncorkd as they chat all things wine, holiday traditions, and more!
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Jess and Tiffany are back to wrap up their discussion on apologies. This week, they take a deeper dive into the 9 components that make up a good apology, as noted by Dr. Harriet Lerner.
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Do you know what it takes to issue a true, heartfelt apology? In part one of this two part episode, Jess and Tiffany share their personal experiences with apologizing, whether it be giving or receiving them.
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Have you ever gone on multiple "dates" in one night? Could there be a benefit to this method of dating? This week, Jess and Tiffany discuss a Ted Talk by Christina Wallace about "The Dating Hour." Listen to the talk here: https://www.ted.com/talks/christina_wallace_how_to_stop_swiping_and_find_your_person_on_dating_apps?utm_source=tedcomshare&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=tedspread
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Have you ever felt "stuck" immediately following a break-up, divorce, or other hardship? This week, Jess and Tiffany are talking about the transitional period that is experienced in these moments and share personal stories of how they came out on the other side stronger than before.
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This week Jess and Tiffany are catching up with their good friend Lakire to discuss whether it's possible to have both a career and a successful love life. But the conversation takes a turn. You do not want to miss this week's episode.
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We have all heard of #selfcaresunday. But how often are we truly doing things that feed our souls in a meaningful and honoring way. This week Jess and Tiffany discuss self-care and share some of their favorite tips.
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It is so easy to place sole blame on the other party when a relationship ends. How often have you sat down to reflect about ways in which you might have contributed to its untimely ending? How often have you thought about unhealthy patterns of behavior you might be engaging in that aren't having your desire effect? In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany discuss why doing your own inner work is so important, to include was to handle being around others who haven't done theirs.
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In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany talk about the various ways in which you can create yourself to be THE Potential Candidate.
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Jess and Tiffany are back with Season 4! This week, it's time to catch up with the girls to see what they're been up to, and see what's in store for the upcoming season.
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In a world full of chaos, it can be hard to find some semblance of peace. For the season 3 finale, Jess and Tiffany share how they achieve and maintain balance in their lives, and share some of their favorites with you.
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Is it the danger zone or can it be a safe space to reocover? Jess and Tiff reflect on their first serious relationship post divorce.
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How do you communicate your discontent in your relationship? This week’s episode is all about courageous conversations and how to effectively utilize them in resolving conflict. Join Jess and Tiffany as they share their experiences.
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This week Jess and Tiffany wrap up their discussion on managing the various aspects of divorce, and dive into the financial aspect of their respective divorces.
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Making the decision to divorce is difficult. Even more difficult is managing the "fall out" that can ensue. This week, Jess and Tiffany get personal and share their experiences related to events following their decision to divorce.
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Is it social anxiety, or "just being shy?" This week Jess and Tiffany discuss social anxiety and how it cam impact one's ability to exist within interpersonal relationships.
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From the Tinder Swindler, to Kim and Kanye, this past week has been a wild ride. This week, Jess and Tiffany weigh in and share their thoughts on the past week's latest hot topics
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Beyonce said it best, "If you liked it then you shoulda put a ring on it!" Is it ever ok to issue an ultimatum to your partner to get them to propose?This week, Jess and Tiffany share their thoughts and experiences.
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We have talked about deal breakers and red flags, but what about family? What do you do when your partner's family doesn't like you and vice versa? This week, Jess and Tiffany share their thoughts and experiences.
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It's common to hear people talk about the "glow up" one experiences following a break-up, but what does it truly mean? This week, Jess and Tiffany share with listeners what the glow up means to them, and how they achieved it following their divorces.
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Are you someone who often feels as though you are being walked over? Do you find that you walk away from your interactions with others feeling drained? If so, if might be time to put a boundary in place. Jess and Tiffany are again joined by Dr. Nicole Silk and Dr. Vivian Stovall to discuss the importance of boundaries, and how to implement them in various aspects of your life.
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Ya girls are here to encourage you during these crazy times! This week we are sharing positive reasoning for keeping prayer and peace the center of one's life. We also share tips on how to pray!
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The Potential Candidate turns 1-year-old this week! Join Jess and Tiffany as they reflect on the past year, share some tips on podcasting, and more.
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While the male perspective can be helpful, what is the allure in women seeking out the advice of men that are self-proclaimed relationship experts?Is doing so helpful, or does it do more harm than women are willing to admit? In this week's season finale, Jess and Tiffany share their thoughts.
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Buying a home can be viewed as an ultimate status symbol. Jess and Tiffany discuss steps one can take as they start to consider the home buying process.
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In the age of the Sneaky Links and Side Chicks, it can seem like maintaining a monogamous relationship can be difficult. What happens when your partner cheats? Is it possible to heal and remain in the relationship or is the relationship instantly over? In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany share their thoughts and personal experiences.
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While it is often said that Black women have "superpowers," what happens when it becomes the expectation for Black women to be "fixers?"This week, Jess and Tiffany discuss this phenomenon, as well as the implications it can have. https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.diverseeducation.com/demographics/african-american/article/15109094/why-college-educated-black-women-are-threats-in-2021&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1638842068453000&usg=AOvVaw2Tmoi00pZTqz6ME0l58koa
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If your significant other were to ask you about your credit score would you cringe or proudly share your score? In this week’s episode, Jess and Tiffany are sharing ways to build your credit to help ensure that you are The Potential Candidate. Check out the article here: https://www.forbes.com/advisor/credit-score/how-to-fix-your-credit/
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Is there a power shift that occurs when a woman makes more money than her partner? Does a man's value decrease if he is a stay-at-home father? This week, Jess and Tiffany are talking gender roles and how other societal "rules" can impact relationships.
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How often do you look for different ways to be intimate with your partner? How often do you allow yourself to be completely vulnerable with your partner so that you can achieve a high level of intimacy? This week, Jess and Tiffany are talking about Kama Sutra and the role it can play in your intimate relationship. Check out https://fmipa.umri.ac.id/wpcontent/uploads/2016/03/Hoopers_A._KAMASUTRA._Sex_PositionsBookFi.org_.pdf for more information about the art of Kama Sutra.
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Today's episode contains details related to graphic crimes. Listener discretion is advised. What happens with someone in a relationship "snaps?" Jess and Tiffany discuss two notorious cases in which women have snapped and murdered their significant others.
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Could you be in a relationship where your partner withheld physical intimacy for you for a "trial" period? Or maybe you have a "rule" of your own that you implement. This week, Jess and Tiffany are exploring whether such rules are beneficial, or if they can be harmful in nature.
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Imagine sharing an intimate photo of yourself with your partner. What happens when that person betrays your trust and shares it with others outside the relationship and/or when you break up?! Come along with Jess and Tiffany as they look at recent laws addressing revenge porn, and how you can avoid falling victim.
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Have you ever loaned money to your significant other or been the victim of a romance scam? This week Jess and Tiffany take a deep dive to explore the potential ramifications of loaning money to your partner, and ways to avoid falling prey to be scammed.
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Meeting your significant other's family can be anxiety provoking. There can be quite a bit of pressure to put your best foot forward. In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany are discussing some of the common mistakes that are made and how they can be avoided. Check out the article that's referenced here: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/meeting-your-partners-parents-first-time_n_5bef0c3de4b0b84243e23a69
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They say that there's nothing like a mother's love. What better way to commemorate that love than to create a legacy. This week, Jess and Tiffany are joined by Dr. Jessica Brown, author of "The Gabby Series," to discuss what generational wealth, family legacies, and much more.
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What is dating like for Black men? Do they experience the challenges that women often do? Jess and Tiffany are again joined by Lakire McKenzie to hear about the dating scene as a single Black male without children.
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They say that trust is the foundation upon which a relationship is built. What happens when the trust between you and your partner gets broken? Is it something that can truly be restored? Jess and Tiffany are again joined by Dr. Nicole Silk and Dr. Vivian Stovall to discuss the significant of trust in a relationship.
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In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany are discussing attachment styles and the influence it can have on your relationship. Don't know what your attachment style is? Here is a link to find out: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/ECR.php
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Are you carrying wounds from childhood that are rooted in the relationship you had with your parent(s)? Ms. Nailayh Kokyi returns to discuss with Jess and Tiffany tips one can utilize to help overcome those wounds, and how to identify the impact an authoritarian has made in your life.
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In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany discuss the power of manifestation and the role it plays in their daily lives. They will share stories of things brought into fruition as a result of manifestation, and ways you can incorporate the practice into your life.
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Is living together before marriage a bad thing or does it have its benefits? How do you know when it is the "right" time to move in with your significant other? This week, Jess and Tiffany are discussing "Shacking Up" and things you should consider before packing your bags and renting the Uhaul.
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Often time, being single and childless after a certain age has negative connotations. In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany share their experiences and perspective in hopes of showing others that there are benefits to embracing your season of singleness.
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Who doesn't love a good glass of wine?! It's no secret that wine is a favorite of Jess and Tiffany. The ladies are kicking off season 2 with Lakire McKenzie of "Culture Uncorkd" to discuss all things wine. Pour yourself a glass and get settled in.
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Have you ever dated someone and thought, “Man, they have some serious daddy/mommy issues?!” In this week’s season finale, Jess and Tiffany discuss authoritarian wounds and how they can impact your romantic relationships. https://www.brides.com/relationships-with-parents-5112051
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With all the buzz about high valued men and women, Jess and Tiffany discuss whether or not money matters in this week’s episode. https://www.ellevest.com/magazine/family-relationships/money-talk-relationship-finances
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Never underestimate the power of your dress! This week, Jess and Tiffany discuss how the way you dress can impact various aspects of your life, as well as some tips to enhance your esthetic. https://www.mantelligence.com/dress-for-success-studies/
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Never underestimate the power of your dress! This week, Jess and Tiffany discuss how the way you dress can impact various aspects of your life, as well as some tips to enhance your esthetic.
https://www.marcussherman.com/dress-for-success/
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Ever dated someone that was dirty? How fast did you run away? This week Jess and Tiffany are sharing their funniest stories about dating the unorganized and unclean person and how you can avoid being one! https://www.thesimplicityhabit.com/statistics-on-clutter-that-will-blow-your-mind/
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From Instagram models to sliding in DMs, there’s aspects of social media that can be challenging to navigate while in a relationship. This week, Jess and Tiffany discuss social media and the impact it can potentially have on infidelity in relationships.
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It can be hard to know without doubt that the person pursuing you, or that you’re pursuing has genuine intentions. Nobody ever wants to feel as though they’re being scammed. This week, Jess and Tiffany dive into the art of seduction, and how it is often used to make one seem more like the Potential Candidate.
https://www.businessinsider.com/robert-greenes-the-art-of-seduction-2014-5#disarm-through-strategic-weakness-and-vulnerability-13
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We all like to party! At what point does it become problematic for your relationship? Can you be a party person AND have a successful relationship? This week, Jess and Tiffany discuss how several indicators your relationship might be negatively impacted by partying.
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We all have them. Whether or not we want to admit they are there is another thing. In today’s episode Jess and Tiffany are going to share how to empty that closet and rid yourself of those skeletons!
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How many times have you vowed to never do something again? Have you ever considered your choice to do so is based on lies you might be telling yourself? Jess and Tiffany discuss inner vows, the impact, and potential consequences they can have in your life.
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When was the last time you took an inventory of your inner circle? Being intentional with who you’re spending time with can be just as important as how you spend your time. Jess and Tiffany discuss the importance of friendships in this week’s episode.
https://www.nm.org/healthbeat/healthy-tips/5-benefits-of-healthy-relationships
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What does it mean to submit to your partner? Is there a difference between submission and surrender? Jess and Tiffany take a deep dive to discuss what submission is, whether doing so makes you a more “ideal” partner, and the role it can play in a relationship.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-love/201905/why-surrendering-your-lover-is-delightful%3Famp
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We have all had those moments where we wonder if we have made the right decision in choosing our partner, friend, etc. But how do you know when it might be time to call it quits? Jess and Tiffany discuss ten signs that might indicate the need to re-evaluate the relationships around you.
https://time.com/5373451/break-up-someone-love/
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Dating can be challenging. Add children in the mix and things can get even more interesting! If you are a single parent, and/or dating a single parent, this episode is for you! Jess and Tiffany sit-down with Talei, full-time Consumer and Insights Strategist, Entrepreneur, and single mother as she shares her experience navigating the dating world, while maintaining a healthy work-life balance.
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Have you ever found yourself wondering, “What do men want?!” There’s so many celebrities, matchmakers, etc. that claim to know and share how you can be the potential candidate. But do they really know?! In today’s episode, Jess and Tiffany are joined by Dre and Te to hear from real, down-to-earth men about what they’re looking for in their ideal partner.
www.ebony.com/life/what-men-want-african-american-love-dating-marriage/%3Famp
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Don’t you hate it when you’re on a date, things are going well, and then all of a sudden......BOOM!!! They drop a bomb on you that makes you want to run for the hills. In today’s episode, Jess and Tiffany talk deal breakers.
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Have you ever had a date that you vowed to never speak of again because it was just so horrible? You’re not alone! Join Jess and Tiffany as they relive some of their most epic dating horror stories!
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Are you in a polyamorous relationship? Have you ever wondered if polyamory is for you? In today’s episode, Jess and Tiffany dive into polyamorous relationships and help debunk some existing myths.
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Today’s episode contains descriptions of physical violence as recounted by a Survivor. Listener Discretion is advised
To wrap-up last week’s discussion of Trauma Bonds, Jess and Tiffany sit down with a Survivor of domestic violence as she shares her story of how she was able to break the bonds that held gripped her for over 8 years.
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In today’s episode, Clinical Psychologists Dr.Nicole Silk and Dr.Vivian Stovall, join Jess and a Tiffany to discuss trauma bonds. We will discuss what trauma bonds are, how to break them, as well as the benefit/purpose they serve in our lives.
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Grab a cup! Jess and Tiffany are spilling the tea and whew chile..... it is hot! In today’s episode, Jess and Tiffany share more about themselves, as well as intimate details from their divorce.
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In this episode, Jess and Tiffany review an article published by LinkedIn that discusses 5 scientific studies proving the power of positive thoughts. Jess and Tiffany share tangible tools you can use to go into 2021 with gratitude. Finally, we share what we are grateful for despite a very challenging 2020!
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On this preview episode, we share a mantra focused on becoming a new person for the better. We also review ways to manifest your goals for 2021. Do you have a vision board? In what ways are you manifesting your goals? We would love to hear.
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Our official launch is January 6, 2021! Make sure you subscribe to our podcast on Spotify, Google, Radio Public, Breaker, Pocketcast, and of course Anchor! Catch you on Instagram!
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