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Stories from successful LGBTQ business leaders, celebrities, activists, and maybe that person you bumped into at the supermarket. Success means to achieve a desired outcome. Beyond that it's subjective which each individual must define on their own. Guests share their definition of success, how they achieved it, the obstacles they faced, and what lies ahead for them. The show for those seeking inspiration for setting goals and those who enjoy positive accounts from within the queer community.

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Can a film change the course of LGBTQ+ cinema forever? Join a celebration of Pride Month with a deep dive into the landmark film "The Boys in the Band." Brad Shreve and film historian Tony Maietta guide you through a spirited discussion on this pivotal work. Brad courageously shares his initial reservations about the film and why he decided to give it a second look, while Tony emphasizes the importance of acknowledging both its triumphs and shortcomings.

In addition, Brad and Tony discuss the unique challenges the actors and honor the courage it took for them to take on these roles in the mid-60s and reflect on the tragic toll of the AIDS crisis on the cast. This episode not only celebrates the film's cultural legacy but also pays tribute to the bravery and resilience of those who brought it to life.

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Showtime's "Fellow Travelers," visionary Ron Nyswaner joins Brad and Tony for a revealing conversation about the series' theme of a clandestine love story which unfolds amidst the tumult of historical events, such as the Red Scare led by Joseph McCarthy, This episode is from the Going Hollywood Podcast.

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Vietnam War protests, the death of Harvey Milk and the AIDS crisis. Ron pulls back the curtain on the adaptation of Thomas Mallon's novel and has won critical acclaim, including a GLAAD Award.

In addition, Tony and Brad celebrate with Ron the profound performances of the cast, whose chemistry breathes life into the characters. Ron sheds light on the inclusion of real-world locations, historical figures, and introducing significant black characters absent from the original novel to weave more authenticity to the series.

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Amidst the political upheavals post-2016, non-binary and transgender rights have found a fierce ally in Sasha Buchert with Lambda Legal. Sasha and Brad delve into the evolving landscape of LGBTQ+ rights and representation. They shine a light on the progress made in the inclusion of LGBTQ+ individuals, while also addressing the challenges and discrimination by far-right groups, especially those faced by the trans and non-binary community. From the impact of local elections to the fight for gender-affirming care and the role of organizations like Lambda Legal, their conversation explores the complex and vital issues surrounding LGBTQ+ rights.

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Imagine your life as a page-turner novel, filled with clandestine operations and transformative work across the globe. That's the reality for Timothy J. Smith, our guest, who has led a life as intriguing as the fiction he pens. Smuggling plays from Czechoslovakia, spending nights in African jails, narrowly escaping a perilous journey to Puerto Rico, Smith's real-life adventures make for an engaging and unpredictable conversation and his thrilling tales don't stop at his own experiences; they serve as the foundation for his novels. We trace Timothy's journey from idealistic youngster to dedicated aid worker, an odyssey that has seen him influence both policy and people, shaping the Palestinian economy and founding the Tanzania Tree Project.

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Embark on a journey of self-discovery and inspirational leadership with Jim Fielding, the quintessential queer executive, who opens the pages of his life in "All Pride, No Ego." During his impressive corporate career, he has been president of Disney Stores and CEO of Clair's, but it's the deeply human experiences that shape his narrative. As we peek into Jim's personal journals that paved the way for his book, we uncover the profound influence of authenticity in both personal triumphs and professional endeavors. His story isn't only about climbing the corporate ladder; it's a lesson in finding one's identity amidst the towering expectations of society and the corporate world.

The conversation takes us through the corridors of Jim's past—from the art of retail perfection at The Gap to the enchanting leadership at Disney Store. We follow his path of coming out, the familial strains it initially caused, and the subsequent, heartfelt transformation into a network of support. Jim's personal anecdotes illustrate the struggles and victories of living authentically and how they profoundly enrich one's approach to leadership. We also celebrate the release of "All Pride, No Ego," a must-read for anyone on a quest for authenticity in life and leadership.

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Unlocking your true self can be a journey fraught with challenge. But take a moment to imagine the liberation, the sheer joy of stepping into the world as the person you've always known you were. This is the captivating narrative we explore with Wendy Cole.

Embarking on a gender transition at the age of 65, Wendy has walked the path of self-discovery and acceptance. She doesn’t shy away from delving deep into her own experiences. From the initial inklings of feeling different, to the pivotal decision-making moments of dressing and surgery, Wendy opens up about her voyage. But this journey isn’t just Wendy's, it's a journey shared by many others. Wendy helps guide others through their own paths of self-realization.

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Ever found yourself captivated by a story that perfectly blends heartache with humor? That's what you're in for. Join Brad as he sits with Jiggs Burgess, a queer playwright from Texas and the first winner of the Del Shores Foundation writer's search. They explore his deeply touching play, "The Red Suitcase," and how it has moved audiences. In addition, they delve into the themes of resilience and humor in the face of tragedy,

Jiggs shares his personal journey growing up gay in a small town in West Texas and his bright future as a playwriter.

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Talented documentary filmmaker Luchina Fisher dives into her powerful and emotional short film called "The Dads," which centers around the stories of five fathers who have transgender children. Joining them on a transformative fishing trip is Dennis Shepherd, the father of Matthew Shepherd, a gay man who was tragically murdered twenty-five years ago. This short film, available on Netflix, may only be twelve minutes long, but it leaves a lasting impact. Luchina takes us through the journey of these fathers and the challenges they face, yet despite the struggles, the film carries a message of love and resilience.

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Get ready to time travel with Tony Maietta, a seasoned actor, writer, and host, who will be our guide through classic Hollywood. Unearth the gems and unravel the mysteries around the charming Cary Grant as we explore his career highs, the many faces he donned, and the enigma of his personal life. Join us as we step into the shoes of a Hollywood gossip columnist of yesteryears and examine how Hollywood moguls used this to their advantage, and sometimes, their peril.

We take a walk down the memory lane of the golden era of cinema, dissecting the dynamics of being a movie star versus an actor, and how popularity often trumps merit during the Academy Award voting process. Be prepared to dive deep into the romantic saga of Katharine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy, a tale encompassing raw passion, unspoken emotions, and an enduring platonic bond.

Get set for a thought-provoking discussion on the evolving theater and home viewing experiences, and how this shift has affected the way we perceive and enjoy films. So, buckle up for an enthralling ride into the enchanting world of classic Hollywood with our beloved guide, Tony Maietta.

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The American National LGBTQ+ Museum's Executive Director, Ben Garcia, gives us a snapshot of the upcoming landmark as it blossoms to an exciting reality. We delve into the remarkable journey to open a physical museum in New York City in 2026, along with eight dynamic traveling exhibitions set to bring LGBTQ+ history and experiences right on people’s doorsteps across America.

As we wander the virtual corridors of the museum-to-be, Ben unveils the thoughtfully curated exhibitions that will grace the hallways and the memorial space planned to honor members of the LGBTQ+ community who have passed. We also navigate the streets of New York City, painting a vivid picture of why this city, rich in diversity and steeped in LGBTQ+ history, is the perfect choice for the museum's location. Ben also shares about the strong bond forged with the New York Historical Society and the incredible tide of funding support from numerous organizations and government levels.

But this isn't just about a museum; it’s about activism and advocacy. Ben opens up about his personal story of coming out and how it has shaped his commitment to activism. We explore how this museum project is a crucial part of the broader battle for LGBTQ+ equality and how each of us can extend our support.

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Lindz Amer opens a whole universe of queer representation in children's media that not only entertains but educates. We're painting a vibrant narrative as we explore the rise of LGBTQ+ representation in children's books and how Lindz storytelling, interwoven with queer theory, helps children understand complex topics like gender identity.

The Huffington Post calls Queer Kid Stuff a “groundbreaking YouTube educational resource.” The series is a haven for LGBTQ+ children's literature that celebrates storytelling and queer content. It's not all rainbows and unicorns though; we'll confront the challenges that come with creating such content, such as resource constraints. And we briefly touch on the dark side of harassment. Lindz also discusses the Rainbow Parenting, their book for parents and allies to understand LGBTQ+ children, and their upcoming picture book Hooray for She, He, Ze, and They!Queer Kids Stuff Website:
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Tate Barkley, a man who has walked through the fire and emerged stronger than ever shares his story. Battling alcohol addiction, enduring family conflicts and finding a way through it all, Tate's takes on a journey which is both raw and inspiring with plenty of laughs in his telling of it. His experiences serve as a poignant reminder, showing that sobriety isn't just about ceasing alcohol consumption, but learning to reshape your life without it. A reminder we can start over again.

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Imagine sitting in a history class, learning from a teacher who is not only passionate about history but also about advocating for LGBTQ+ rights. That's what Rodney Wilson brought to the table, a man renowned for his bravery in coming out as gay to his students nearly three decades ago. His audacity translated into a wave of change that outreached his school, hometown, and eventually made national headlines. His story extends far beyond his personal journey, reflecting the power of honesty, representation, and the fight for human rights, which we unearth in this fascinating episode.

Rodney's tale is not just a testament to individual courage but to the collective power of honesty and representation in the struggle for human rights.

This episode is a blend of Rodney's personal and professional life, all meticulously interlaced in the broader context of LGBTQ+ history. We delve into his small-town upbringing in Missouri, the challenges he faced as a gay man in a predominantly rural and religious community. We also take a closer look at Rodney's pivotal role in founding the International Committee on LGBTQ+ History Months, a group committed to advancing the rights of LGBTQ+ youth worldwide. Rodney's inspiring narrative continues to shape his educational endeavors and influence generations of LGBTQ+ teachers and students alike.

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Prepare to be inspired by a remarkable journey of resilience and faith. This week, we have the honor of welcoming Reverend Troy Perry, founder of the Metropolitan Community Church and a tireless advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. From the humble beginnings of his church in his living room to the grandeur of its international presence, Rev. Perry takes us on an awe-inspiring journey full of hope, defiance, and triumph.

We also delve into the more personal aspects of Rev. Perry’s life. This episode reveals the profound impact of his decision to come out during the Vietnam War, the harsh fallout that ensued, and the divine intervention that saved his life. It’s a powerful testament to the importance of self-belief, resilience, and the transformative power of faith.

In addition, Brad's conversation with Rev. Perry explores his remarkable legacy of activism. Prepare to be moved as he recounts the unity, protest, and change that he helped bring about in the 1970s, from storming the California State Building, demanding an end to anti-homosexuality laws, to leading a demonstration against the Hollywood Police Department. It’s a vivid reminder of the immense power we hold when we stand united in our fight for justice. Join us as we celebrate the strength of the LGBTQ+ community and the importance of making a difference together.

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This is the final week of introductions to podcasts Brad enjoys. He returns from his time off next week, and October is a special month. You'll enjoy the trailblazers he chats with.

Remember Paul Lynde as Uncle Arthur on Bewitched? Without it being said on the show and without us saying it to each other, we all knew he was Samantha's "gay" uncle.

Mike Johnson and Kyle Getz return in one of their recent episodes. The subject is guncles. You know, "gay uncles." The ones that were referred to as lifelong bachelors who were having too much fun to settle down. Their conversation covers famous gay uncles, gay uncle's celebrities have, and the 'Gay Uncle Hypothesis."

Listen to an episode of Gayish, which Oprah Magazine named one of the “19 Best Erotic Podcasts About Sex."

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Ever wonder what it feels like to redefine yourself, step into a new identity, and navigate a world that feels like a foreign country? That's what Kit experienced when she came out as a lesbian at the age of 30. Recorded for the Coming Out Stories podcast, Kit and Emma Goswell explore her journey, discussing the societal expectations and realities that made her struggle with her identity. They examine the stereotypical portrayal of the "coming out" experience versus the sometimes anticlimactic reality, and the transformative process of creating a fresh life and a new identity. Kit not only embraces change but defiantly uses her story to challenge the status quo in the theatre production world.

Host Brad Shreve is on vacation and rather than give you dead air during his time away, he has chosen episodes from some of his favorite podcasts to share with you. This week's episode is from Coming Out Stories, a podcast hosted by the delightful Emma Goswell.

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Ever wondered how a film from the 90s shaped the contemporary queer landscape? Philip Bahr dives right in and breaks down the iconic 1994 Australian film 'The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert.' It's a frothy, fun, and deeply impactful film that still holds significance in the current political climate. He sifts through its layers, characters, and the harsh reality of that era, as well as elements of the film that may not have aged particularly well.

Brad is on vacation so rather than replay an older episode he offers one from one of his favorite podcasts. Reel Charlie Speaks is an LGBTQ podcast spin-off of the film and television review blog, Reel Charlie, which has been looking at movies and TV from a gay male perspective since 2009. Each month the host, Philip Bahr, selects a classic queer film, television series, or creator. He talks about how the subject spoke to him when he first discovered it years ago, and how it stood the test of time. Spoilers possible. Alerts always.

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Join us as we navigate the challenges of gay stereotypes with Mike Johnson and Kyle Getz from the Gayish podcast and their mission to tear down narrow perceptions. We touch upon the wide spectrum of topics their show covers - the good, the bad, the ugly, and the hilarious. Their diversity of episodes covering everything from farming and depression to butt plugs and penis size. We also explore the evolution of the Gayish podcast, from its humble beginnings six years ago to the buzz it now creates on platforms like Oprah Magazine, Esquire magazine, and BuzzFeed.

Mike and Kyle take us behind the scenes of their podcasting world, sharing insights about how they built their loyal community through a supportive and relatable environment for listeners, their knack for infusing humor into serious topics, plus how their years long friendship led to creating Gayish.

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What if you could find strength in the darkest of life's moments? Meet David S Peterson, an author whose bumpy road to success has been paved with resilience and positivity. His incredible journey, from overcoming school bullying and a brutal physical attack to harnessing the power of theater and choir, will leave you awestruck. This episode is a testament to David's indomitable spirit, his zest for life and his infectious positivity that radiates even when the going gets tough. And the excitement of National Underwear Day cannot be ignored.

David's not just about resilience, though. He's a man on a mission, an advocate for vegetarianism, environmentalism, and mental health. The Heath Barrington Mysteries and the Mason Adler Mysteries, his two mystery series set in the 1940s, are more than just page-turners, they are educational tools aimed at inspiring, enlightening, and making an impact on its readers.

But it's not all serious! Prepare to chuckle as we celebrate National Underwear Day with David. His ability to rebound from the most difficult situations includes a good amount of silliness. His appreciation for what life has to offer manifests itself in his love of laughter. Get ready to be inspired and motivated as you listen to David S Peterson's story - a beautiful illustration of triumph over adversity.

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Ready for an enlightening journey through the decades? We're thrilled to welcome Matt Baume, popular YouTube sensation and author of "Hi Honey, I'm Homo," to our podcast. Together, we traverse the fascinating terrain of queer representation in TV. We delve into the complexities of these portrayals and the courageous sitcoms that dared to feature queer characters.

We take a deep dive into the rich history of queer characters on American sitcoms, such as Bewitched, All in the Family, Golden Girls, Modern Family and more. With Matt's wide-ranging knowledge and our curiosity, we uncover the impact these characters had on the fight for equality and our understanding of the LGBTQ+ community.

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Picture a world where love transcends barriers, prejudice, and misunderstanding; that's the world seen through B Proud's lens. Guest, photographer B Proud, transports us into the heart of the LGBTQ community with her powerful and evocative images. She shares insights into her captivating projects, such as her 2014 book featuring black and white photographs of LGBTQ couples and her current visually stunning exhibit, the Transcending Love Project, celebrating transgender and gender nonconforming couples and families in vibrant color.

B Proud unearths the complexity of the transgender experience. With her Transcending Love Project, B Proud encapsulates the diversity, beauty, and resilience within the community. We delve into the creative process, the stories, and the significance of the project.

Together, we navigate the evolution of LGBTQ+ rights and representation as seen through B Proud's lens. We use the backdrop of her work to touch upon the landmark case of Edith Windsor, whose fight for love laid the groundwork for the Obergefell decision on marriage equality. It's not just a conversation about her photographs; it's a conversation about the message they carry, the progress that's been made, and the importance of keeping the dialogue alive. Join us, as we celebrate love, equality, and representation with B Proud.

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Do you know actors such as William Shatner, Chris Pine, Leonard Nimoy, Kate Mulgrew, George Takai, and others may have Lucille Ball to thank for advancing their careers? Without her, Star Trek may never have happened. And that's a small part of our discussion.

Tony Maietta is a man of many talents: actor, host, producer, writer, and author. His passionate and insightful tales of Tinseltown's golden era will have you leaning in to hear more. From his personal journey to LA in the 90s, with nothing more than dreams of an Emmy, to his intimate knowledge of Hollywood's transformation over the years, Tony enlightens us about the evolution of the film industry, the fading era of relationship-focused films, and the impact of CGI.

Tony delves the intricate life of Lucille Ball, a showgirl turned comedic genius turned Hollywood studio president, a feat few could even dream of achieving. We delve into Lucy's perfectionism, her unwavering loyalty to her friends, and her immense impact on popular culture.

We also discuss Grey Gardens, the now-celebrated mansion chronicled in a documentary and two feature-length films. Tony Maietta and Jerry Torre co-wrote a memoir on Jerry's time at the mansion.

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From the comedy stages of Los Angeles to the political epicenter of Madison, Wisconsin, Dina Nina Martinez Rutherford not only is a trans woman stand-up comedian who's been breaking barriers in the world of comedy, but Dina Nina also holds the distinction of being Madison's first elected trans official. Her journey is far from ordinary, marked with grit and resilience.

With a powerful message for trans kids and a call to action for everyone to participate in effecting change, Dina Nina leaves us inspired. Explore the multifaceted life of Dina Nina, a woman who continues to be a beacon of hope, advocacy, and laughter.

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Sam Kirk's murals are not just about aesthetics, they're stories that promote inclusivity and redefine public spaces. This episode takes you through Sam's journey from her magnificent installation in Times Square to her deeply personal mural in the Pilsen neighborhood of Chicago near where she was the victim of a brutal hate crime.

We go beyond Sam's art to uncover the person that she is. A queer individual from a mixed-race family, Sam's stories of resilience and journey of self-discovery are as captivating as her art. She delves into her coming out experience at an all-girls high school, and the challenges she faced in her decision to become an artist This episode paints a vivid picture of Sam Kirk - the artist, the advocate, and the trailblazer.

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Ready to embark on a melodious journey into the world of film music? Join Brad in an enlightening conversation with the extraordinary David Gonzalez, who has lent his mesmerizing musical talent to film and talent. David's insights on the significance of music in film – from its indispensable role during the silent movie era to its power to amplify cinematic brilliance in the present day – are nothing short of remarkable.

David's astute understanding of balancing sound effects' frequency ranges while scoring a busy action scene is just one of the many technical aspects that make him a maestro. Get ready to delve into the importance of a composer’s ego (or lack thereof) while creating a score that serves the narrative and not just their personal ambition.

As we progress, we turn our attention to the profound impact of documentary filmmaking and how it becomes a strong voice for marginalized communities. We discuss the importance of queer representation in film and television, emphasizing the need for characters to be more than just their sexuality. David and I also touch upon the controversial topic of straight actors playing gay roles. Brace yourself for an episode packed with insightful discussions on music, film and beyond.

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Can you imagine the profound impact of losing a child, and simultaneously choosing to transform that pain into a global drive for change? Our journey today is a deeply moving and powerful one as Brad sits with Judy Shepard, the courageous mother of Matthew Shepard, whose tragic murder laid the groundwork for a significant advancement for LGBTQ+ rights. Join them in this intimate conversation as they walk through the haunting night of Matthew's demise, the worldwide response it ignited, and the inspiring resilience of a mother's love leading to seismic shifts in societal attitudes.

In our candid conversation, we delve into how Matthew's horrifying end lit the fire of advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights, instigating the creation of the Matthew Shepard Foundation. Judy generously shares her story of transforming personal loss into a powerful force for change, fueled by the contributions of thousands and ironically bolstered by anti-gay protesters. We explore the Foundation's ongoing work since the enactment of the Matthew Shepard James Bird Federal Hate Crime Prevention Act in 2009, and its unremitting advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community.

This episode concludes with a heartwarming discourse on the power of love and the necessity of offering support to those around us. We invite you to accompany us on this emotional journey, a celebration of Matthew Shepard's life and the monumental changes spurred by his untimely loss.

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Host Brad Shreve takes us on a wild ride as he shares his personal story of love, addiction, abuse, and ultimately finding himself. From a life fueled by drugs, alcohol, sexual addition, to facing domestic violence, Brad opens up about the challenges he faced and the difficult decisions he had to make. But this episode isn't just about the dark times. Brad reminds us that amidst the negativity, there are powerful stories of resilience and triumph within the LGBTQ+ community.

Every scar tells a story, and Brad's are written across the pages of Brad's life. Join him as he bears his soul. Hear about the devastating effects of hiding his sexuality, finding any means to mask it, and his tumultuous journey to self-discovery. He eventually found stability and started anew, metaphorically throwing off his old persona and embracing who he truly is.

This episode originally aired on The Unexpected Guest podcast in April 2023.

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Caesar Zepeda struggled with his sexuality before coming out in a big and fabulous way in front of millions of people. After rejection from his family, he reached a low part of his life but rebounded by being an activist in his community and being an example for those younger than him. Today he is the first openly gay man on the city council in Richmond, California, located in the San Francisco Bay area.

In addition, the state of California has unique laws regarding the procedures for elections that end in a tie. Hear Cesar talk about the game of chance that won him the election (spoiler alert: later counts showed there was not a tie after all and he had indeed won by votes)

Be motivated during these tough times by his inspiring story of resilience, determination, and giving back to the next generations.

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What happens when a fictional character evolves alongside decades of LGBTQ history, reflecting the changes and challenges faced by the community? Join us this week on Queer We Are as we delve into the fascinating world of the Donald Strachey mystery series with its author, Richard Lipez, also known as Richard Stevenson. Together, we'll explore the series' 18 novels and the growth of its characters, from Strachey and his partner Timmy's early non-monogamous relationship in the 1980s to their eventual settled married life in the 2000s, while delving into the social issues that permeate the novels.

ReQueered Tales - Publishes award-winning post-Stonewall LGBTQ Fiction
Publisher of the final Donald Strachey Novel, Chasing RembrandtAmble Press- Published the only novel in Stevenson's new series
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Killer Reunion (A Donald Strachey Mystery) on Amazon

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Can a love revolution truly start on the dance floor? Join us as we explore this possibility with my special guest, Mr. Slade, while discussing his unique blurring of music genres and allow his aggressive fun nature to motivate you.

Throughout our conversation, we dive into Mr. Slade's electrifying, sexy blend of metal, techno, and disco. We discuss the power of music and how it can transcend differences to connect people on a deep, personal level, fostering understanding and compassion. Discover the importance of maintaining integrity in the face of differing beliefs and how Mr. Slade's music acts as an extension of his political and spiritual views.

Learn how music can have a transcendent, healing effect even in the darkest of times, and connect people with differences in beliefs.

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Wendy Whitman, former executive and producer of Court TV and the Nancy Grace show on HLN, shares her fascinating journey from comedy to crime. Wendy opens up about her experiences collaborating with comedic geniuses George Carlin and Lily Tomlin and how the OJ trial led her to Court TV.

Throughout our conversation, we explore the darker side of true crime, discussing its impact on society and how to prevent fear from consuming us. We also touch on the therapeutic aspects of working with victims' families and having been a powerful motivator for Wendy. Plus, we discuss turning a devastating setback into a career as a mystery writer.

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Del Shores, a trailblazing gay filmmaker, playwright, and actor known for his contributions to the genre of LGBTQ+ entertainment is Brad’s guest. The conversation begins with a discussion of his plays and films Sordid Lives and Southern Baptist Sissies and includes a comparison between the two stories. The comparison reflects on how each represents different aspects of Del’s life.

Del also opens about his own creative process and the themes that show up in his work, like religious damage and exploring attraction. The conversation continues the discussion about the immense success of Southern Baptist Sissies, which tackled these issues head-on and the healing it brought to so many viewers.

The talk turns towards the recent loss of Leslie Jordan, a close friend of Shores, and how they are honoring his legacy.

Throughout the episode, Shores candidly shares about his personal life and struggles as a gay man, exploring themes of codependency and finding. He talks about the role of storytelling in his own life and how he hopes to inspire others to tell their own stories and connect with one another. His goal to inspire led to The Del Shores Foundation that helps budding LGBTQ+ southern writers and storytellers to the forefront with an annual competition for writers in the categories: short film, screenplay, and plays.

Through laughter and deep conversation, this episode is a testament to the power of storytelling and its ability to heal, connect, and transform.

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Two time Grammy Award winners Cathy Fink and Marcy Marxer are an American folk music duo who have been performing together for over forty years. Their newly released film All Wigged Out brings lightness, comedy, and hope, while also being honest about the challenges of living with cancer. You may not find cancer funny, but some of the eye-opening day to day rituals patients push through may have you in stitches. Add to that the sometimes odd, and sometimes silly reactions from friends and family and you get a great show.

They also discuss with Brad their careers, the art of storytelling, and their creative style to bringing their unique blend of folk, bluegrass, and roots music to audiences around the world.

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Mike Dorsey & Chih Lin are the Dumpling Dudez. They share their inspiring story ofleaving their safe and comfortable engineering careers to start a successful small business making dumplings.

"If I can create all this achievement for other people, maybe it's time for me to take a chance on myself and invest in myself instead of investing in other people's passions and dreams."

Their conversation includes the challenges of building a business in the middle of a pandemic and the importance of building and maintaining a healthy relationship with your partner. The guests share their personal experiences, challenges, and strategies for dealing with difficult situations. and the power of taking a risk to follow your dreams.

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Philip Bahr shares his moving and uplifting account of perseverance and the power of personal growth. His is an inspiring story of a librarian who faced numerous obstacles, including HIV/AIDS, and how he overcame them to find purpose and meaning in life.

His story includes facing the growing AIDS crisis, his involvement in activism with Act Up and Body Positive, leading support groups for both HIV-positive and negative individuals. In addition, he shares how he turned to the New Age movement to find his own spiritual journey after leaving the Catholic Church.

Reel Charlie: A Film and Television Review Blog

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Attorney Deb Guston shares her work in marriage equality and adoption laws for the LGBTQ+ community, assisting over 1,000 couples in building their families. The conversation also touches on the importance of inclusion and the conflict between civil society and religious expression when it comes to adoption policies. The discussion includes the history of marriage equality laws as well as their impact on adoption rights.

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Age is not a barrier to starting something new, as seen in the example of others who didn't let a few years in the bank stop them. Don't delay pursuing something you want to do, regardless of your age. Remember, limitations are often just in our heads, and if your brain is trying to hold you back, tell it otherwise and go for your goals anyway!

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Curtis Chin went from a TV writer to creating award-winning social justice documentaries after his father's death. His career took him to working for the Democratic National Committee and serving on a committee for the Obama administration. Curtis' upcoming memoir, "Everything I Learned, I Learned in a Chinese Restaurant," Is a coming-of-age story where he learned to embrace his identity as a American-born Chinese, where he navigated the divided city’s spiraling misfortunes. And what are the three "A"s which switched Curtis from conservative to progressive?

"If they've [Chinatowns] run their course and they're no longer useful, then maybe their time is gone. Maybe they do deserve to be a relic of society. But in doing so, let's at least examine why these things are happening." - Curtis Chin

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From Outback to opera to author. Dive deep into the inspiring life story of Garrick Jones who overcame an abusive childhood and traumatic experiences and thrived as a singer, writer, and academic lecturer.

"I was determined not to let this man ruin me."

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Do you enjoy listening to podcasts? I definitely do! Based on listener requests, in this episode, I'll share some of my favorite podcasts with you. I'll provide a brief overview of each show and why I enjoy it. I hope you'll find something new to add to your listening list.

Here are links to the podcasts listed:

Christopher & Eric

Ear Hustle

Coming Out Stories

[Redacted History] on Apple Podcasts
[Redacted History] on Spotify

Uncomfortable Conversations

Reel Charlie Speaks Podcast
Reel Charlie Blog

Queer Writers of Crime

Build a Big Podcast

The School of Podcasting

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The podcast Coming Out Stories will take you to one the most important moments in many people’s lives. It will perch you on sofas in suburban sitting rooms, stand you in front of officials’ desks, put you at the center of a crowd in a noisy classroom, everywhere where these conversations have happened.

On this episode of Queer We Are, you'll hear Brad's interview with Emma Goswell, when he was a guest on Coming Out Stories. A taste of an excellent podcast.

Brad's coming out story is a testament to the power of being true to yourself. He had to navigate the challenges of coming out later in life, after getting married and having a child. However, he found the strength to come out and live his life authentically. Brad's story shows that it is never too late to come out and be true to yourself. The coming out is a journey may be vastly different for each individual. Hear Brad's unique story about the path he took.

Coming Out Stories Podcast

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The book on the U.S. Amazon Website

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Eric was a man who lived on the fringes of society. He was a sex worker who survived by working the streets.   Through Eric, Brad learned the importance of perspective. It was the gift of being able to step back and see things from a different point of view.  A point of view many can learn from. 

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Have you been told you have to turn your life upside down to achieve your dreams? You don't have to risk everything. Success comes in many forms, and there are many ways to measure it. You can pursue your passion without changing every aspect of your life. Listen and you'll hear how it's possible.

You can learn more about Gregory Ashe on his website.
Or you can check out his books on Amazon now.

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Discussion with Mark McNease and Rick Rose, two Emmy award-winning friends who have maintained a strong bond despite going in different directions in their careers. Rick is still involved in television production, while Mark is now a prolific author. They also co-host a podcast together, In addition, they share the importance of long-lasting friendships.

Mark McNease and Rick Rose have been collaborating for over 30 years, beginning as members of a Los Angeles theater group in the 1980s. They've worked together in stage, TV and a number of projects, including many years as co-hosts of a series of podcasts, culminating in The Twist Podcast now in its fourth year. Mark lives in rural New Jersey, Rick lives in Madison, WI. They share two Emmys for the children's program they co-created, Into the Outdoors, that just celebrated its 20th anniversary.

Website to find "The Twist Podcast," Mark's "One Thing or Another Podcast," and information regarding Mark's novels:
markmcnease.com

The Twist Episode 213: Brad reads a listicle.
The Twist Episode 217: Brad is a guest.

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The title of this episode is a take on Dale Carnegie's quote:
 “Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.”

Should you greet an employee at an establishment? They are wearing name badges, after all. Survey's say some like it, some hate it, and some don't care either way. So, what's a good way to approach it? Brad offers a suggestion.  

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Cator Sparks has an amazing background in the fashion industry and as a journalist. He shares his story about the life changing events that led him to become a life coach for men who helps them find their purpose, passion and power.

Brad and Cator also discuss what you can expect from a life coach and what you should not expect a life coach to be.

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Kayla Gore's journey is a testament to the power of resilience and determination. Despite facing numerous challenges, she was able to build a life for herself and start an organization that provides critical resources and services to trans individuals in need. The tiny house project is just one of the many ways in which Kayla is making a difference in the lives of others. The project will provide permanent homes to black and brown trans women in need, offering them a sense of belonging and stability that they may not have had before.

My Sistah's House Website

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David Allwood earned the title of Mr. Gay England 2022, through winning five out of seven categories.

David aims to use this title to combat loneliness in the LGBTQ+ community.
He launched a campaign called 'Belong' to try and bring the community
closer together. Queer people are more likely to face discrimination which can lead to them disengaging or hiding their true selves from others. The older LGBTQ+ generation can feel forgotten about in the mainstream queer media and trauma from growing up LGBTQ+ can take its toll and lead to them feeling negatively towards their community as a whole. All of these factors, and more, can lead to loneliness and poor mental health.

David is also director of queer collective HOMOPARODY, who raise money
for gay charities, perform at major pride events and recreate music videos
and online content.

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David and John Auten-Schneider talk about how they accumulated $51,000 in credit card debt living a stereotypical gay lifestyle and trying to keep up with the expectations set by the community. They were purchasing acceptance and validation from the people they thought they needed to impress. They had designer clothing, went to all the cocktail parties, and traveled frequently.

They share their experiences of transitioning from living in debt to owning a successful business, the Debt Free Guys, which provides financial coaching to the LGBTQ+ community.

David and John's work has appeared on Forbes, Yahoo!Finance, NBC's Squawk Box and The News with Sheppard Smith, ABC News, Rachel Ray Show and Good Morning America to name a few. They've partnered with some of the best in financial services, including Capital One, Experian, MassMutual, American Express, and Prudential. They've partnered with some of the best LGBTQ+ organizations including, The Trevor Project, Callen-Lorde, The William Way Foundation, One Colorado and LGBTQ+ centers nationwide.

Queer Money Podcast & Debt Free Guys Website

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Jamie Bruesehoff studied theology, is married a to Lutheran pastor, identifies as queer, and has three children, including her transgender teenage daughter Rebekah. After a social media picture of Rebekah at a rally against Trump's policies went viral, she and Rebekah were thrust in the media spotlight and are now speakers and activists for transgender rights. Jamie discusses her outreach to help people of faith embrace their children who have the courage to step into the world as their true selves.

“Loving and supporting your child for who they are and not who you thought they were is somehow extraordinary is flawed. It's just part of parenting.”

Jamie Bruesehoff's Website:
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Jamie's book on Amazon:
Raising Kids beyond the Binary: Celebrating God’s Transgender and Gender-Diverse Children

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John Berendt captivates readers with the eccentric inhabitants of Savannah, GA in 'Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil'. Hear John discuss his love for the unique city and how it inspired him write his Pulitzer Prize nominated novel telling the stories of many of the cities unique characters, leading up to an antiques dealer on trial for the murder of a male prostitute.

Since the publication and unprecedented success of "Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil," Berendt has become a Savannah celebrity and was even presented with the key to the city. “I took it down to City Hall one night to see if it would work, but it didn't.” (Syracuse Post Standard, 4/5/1994)

Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil
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Meet Emma Goswell and Sam Walker, the creators of the hit podcast ‘Coming Out Stories’ and the book of the same name. They join Queer We Are to share their journey to defining success in their lives. Their story is inspiring, filled with lessons about happiness, contentment, and understanding. Listen in as Emma and Sam explore their paths to success, from Emma becoming a 51 year old stay-at-home-mom to Sam’s journey as an ally of the LGBTQ+ community.

Coming Out Stories Website
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Coming out Stories Book on Amazon
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Cary Alan Johnson is an author, activist, and Africanist. Raised in Brooklyn and currently living in Central Africa, he is the founder of several organizations, including the Black Heart Collective, gay Men of African Descent, and the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission. He is currently the country director for Population Services International in Burundi.

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How has Cary Alan Johnson's experiences as an African American and a Peace Corps volunteer in the Congo shaped his commitment to service?
2. Capacity building for government and local affairs in impoverished nations.
3. Coming of age as a black man during the AIDS crisis as featured in his novel, Desire Lines.

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Cary's novel:
Desire Lines on Amazon

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With a breakthrough cover feature in Men’s Health magazine, multiple appearances on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, and the CEO of the Point of Pride nonprofit that’s helped over ten thousand people receive gender affirming garments and surgeries, Aydian Dowling is an admired household name in the transgender community.

Aydian faces off against a system that puts trans and nonbinary people as second priority and created a social platform, Trace, where they are celebrated and safe.

"It's like Cinderella. The shoe fit and I was like, okay, now I can go back to my castle.”

TRACE mobile application:
www.thetrace.app
Point of Pride - providing financial aid and direct support to trans folks:
www.pointofpride.org
Aydian Dowling's website:
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Aydian on Instagram:
Aydian: @alionsfear
The TRACE app: @thetrace.app
Point of Pride: @pointofprideorg

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The TRACE app: @TheTraceApp
Point of Pride: @pointofpride

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Peabody Award-winning filmmaker Vivian Kleiman confronts the underground comic world, unearthing the inspiring stories of five queer comic artists and their daring fight for justice, representation, and personal expression.

"People were giving you a gift, and one that doesn't happen very often in our daily lives. So, I thought that documentary filmmaking was just miraculous in that regard." - Vivien Kleiman

Vivian Kleiman is a Peabody Award winning filmmaker and Emmy Award nominated producer/director. She is renowned for her challenging subjects and edgy film approaches and has received support from the MacArthur and Ford Foundations. Her documentary, No Straight Lines: The Rise of Queer Comics, premieres on PBS January 23, 2023.

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"Giving voice to the voiceless and covering those stories is incredibly important - there are people who have died doing that." - Miguel Marquez

Miguel Marquez is a CNN senior national correspondent that has worked in broadcast journalism for 25 years. He and Brad discuss covering difficult stories from around the world and if being gay has affected his career. He has covered many difficult stories such as the Iraq War, the War in Afghanistan, the Bahrain riots, and domestic clashes. Most recently, as a reporter, he documented the heartbreaking stories of the pandemic in hospitals in New York and Texas. Despite the challenges of reporting on such a chaotic and random enemy, Miguel Marquez shares the importance of allowing people to tell their stories and respecting their opinions even if he didn't agree with them.

You will learn:
1. Miguel Marquez's experience reporting on the pandemic in US hospitals
2. Objectivity versus subjectivity in reporting on protests against COVID-19 mandates
3. Coming out in the professional environment and the challenges it poses.

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Join commedian ANT as Brad's guest and be inspired to get up and create change with kindness.

"It cost nothing to be kind. And I wasn't always kind. I got wrapped up in fame for a long time. I got wrapped up in money. I got wrapped up in the trappings. And I forgot the cardinal rule that my parents brought me up with, which is kindness is always important."

ANT is an internationally renowned comedian and actor, known for his appearances on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno, The Tyra Bank Show, and NBC's Last Comic Standing. He is passionate about using comedy to bring attention to different perspectives and to help people forget their pain.

ANT shares this story, and reflects on his journey as a comedian addiction, recovery, and how kindness is essential. He emphasizes the importance of laughter. He also encourages people to ask for help if they are struggling with depression or mental illness. In the end, he reminds everyone "It costs nothing to be kind."

In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The Role of Comedy in Raising Awareness: Explore how comedy can be used to draw attention to difficult topics and how comedians take the "temperature of America".
2. Mental Illness in the Entertainment Industry: Investigate why depression and substance abuse are more common among entertainers, and how to foster a supportive environment.
3. The Power of Kindness: Uncover the importance of kindness and how it can help people overcome difficult times.

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With it being the week between Christmas and New Year's, there is no new episode released this year, but I will give you a taste of some of the many great guests schedule in 2023.

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The founder of POZ Magazine Sean Strub chats with Brad about The Sero Project, whose mission is to end HIV criminalization and social injustice. Sean also discusses being mayor of a small Pennsylvania town in a conservative area despite years of LGBTQ & HIV activism. And he talks about the rocky, yet fun filled days of the 1970s sexual revolution followed by the AIDS crisis in the 80s and 90s.

The Sero Project Website:
seroproject.com

Sean's Website:
seanstrub.com

Milford, Pennsylvania Website:
milfordboro.org

Twitter: @theseroproject
Instagram: @theseroproject
Facebook: TheSeroProject
YouTube: TheSEROProject

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Rosie Wilby is an award-winning comedian, author and podcaster based in London. Her new book The Breakup Monologues is based on her acclaimed podcast of the same name and is published globally by Bloomsbury.

Rosie discusses with Brad why she gained a strong interest in the breakup process, her comedic career and why it was an easy transition from her earlier music career. Bias against the queer community, especially for lesbians, and much more. Of course, they discuss her novel The Breakup Monologues.

Multiple online options to choose from to buy The Breakup Monologues.
https://geni.us/TheBreakupMonologues

Link to view and purchase Rosie Wilby's book on Amazon
The Breakup Monologues on U.K. Amazon
The Breakup Monologues on U.S. Amazon

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Former Pennsylvania House Representative Brian Sims discusses his ten years in public office with Brian. They cover how Brian was convinced to run for office, and the difference between battling policy versus battling bigotry. I addition, Briand talks about his fight for equality for women, minorities, and LGBTQ people. On the lighter side, Brad gets Brian to speak openly about some of his personal side, including the awkwardness of being both a politician and a social media sex symbol.

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Out Leadership website:
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Husbands, Yuval David and Mark McDermott discuss with Brad the documentary Wonderfully Made - LGBTQ+R(eligion) which was directed by Emmy®winner Yuval and Mark executive produced. "Wonderfully Made" explores the challenges and aspirations of LGBTQ+ Catholics through art. The film is the first of a planned docu-series, which focuses on other faith traditions and LGBTQ+ identities.

You can find more links, and learn more about Yuval, Mark, and Wonderfully Made LGBTQ(R) on the podcast's website, including trailers. https://www.queerweare.com/episode/wonderfully-made

Film's website:
www.wonderfullymadefilm.com

Find Wonderfully Made on social media:
Instagram: @wonderfullymademove
Twitter: @wonderful_made_
Facebook: WonderfullyMadeLGBTQReligion

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Cathy Renna Talks with Brad about her history of activism, including playing a central role in shaping nearly all major issues affecting the LGBTQ+ community, from the beating death of Matthew Shepard in 1998 to the Fight for marriage equality. She also shares the progress we've made, efforts to end violence again trans people, and why voting for Donald Trump was a hate crime.

National LGBTQ Task Force Website
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Instagram  @cathyrenna   @thetaskforce

Twitter  @cathyrenna    @thetaskforce

TikTok  @cathyrenna

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Bryan Ruby talks with Brad about coming out last year and being the only out while active ball player at the time. They also discuss Proud to be in Baseball the nonprofit he started to provide resources, educational opportunities, and raise awareness while building the LGBTQ community in America’s pastime. And as if that's not enough, Bryan is a rising country music star.

Bryan Ruby is a trailblazing professional baseball player and rising country music artist based in Nashville, Tennessee. In September of 2021 he became the only active professional baseball player to come out as gay, and his story was featured in USA Today as well as 100+ media outlets around the world including CBS, Yahoo, Bleacher Report and Teen Vogue. As an artist, he won Season 7 of the talent-search competition Nashville Rising Song, and his first single, ‘Left Field’, was featured on The TODAY Show and added to rotation on SiriusXM Country Pride, as well as the Academy of Country Music's Ultimate Pride Playlist.

BryanRubyMusic.com
ProudToBeInBaseball.org

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@bryanrubyofficial @proudtobeinbaseball

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@proudbaseball

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Robyn Gigl is an attorney, author and activist who has been honored by the
ACLU-NJ and the NJ Pride Network. She and Brad discuss the Transgender Day of Remembrance which honors the memory of the transgender people whose lives were lost in acts of anti-transgender violence. They also discuss Robyn's experience transitioning while working as a prominent lawyer with a major firm, how people can support the transgender community, and her outstanding Erin McCabe Thrillers, featuring a criminal defense attorney who is a transgender woman.

Robyn Gigl's Website
robyngigl.com

Robyn's Amazon Author Page

Instagram @robyngigl

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LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/robyn-gigl-39b74816/

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Brad and Coco Peru chat about lending her voice to the new Netflix groundbreaking animated show Deadend-Paranormal Park as Pauline Phoenix.  The also reminisce over her work in film, television, and stage for 31 years, including how she got her start, the birth of the signature Coco flip wig, her connection to the theater play RENT, and of course the movie Trick.

Coco also shares high school life in Brooklyn, what the future looks like for Trick 2, and what does she feel most bitter, and bothered about these days.

Where to find Coco:

Misscocoperu.com

Instagram @misscocoperu

Twitter @themisscocoperu

Facebook.com/miscocoperufans

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Keep your ears open for Queer We Are, coming November 2022. Brad Shreve will chat with LGBTQ celebrities, athletes, activists, politicians, business leaders…the list goes on. We’ll talk about their accomplishments, what it means to them, and how they reached it. Seeking inspirational stories and motivation, or maybe just good conversation and maybe a laugh or two? Now you know where to find us, because Queer We Are.