Coaching Through The Bible: Recent Episodes
Bini Maryles
Coaching principles (executive, leadership, life, spiritual, etc) are timeless. On this podcast, we go deep on one concept each week using bible personalities, stories, verses, and commentaries as our key resource. We'll then draw from life and learning to build out the concept into being of practical usage in your life and world.
"If you don't define the story, the story will define you.”
-Unknown
-----------------------------Ep 246 I On When The Wrong Voice Wins: On Fear, Framing, and Fractured Followership
In moments of crisis, whose voice do we trust?
This week, we revisit the story of the spies — not as a children’s tale of giants and grapes, but as a modern case study in leadership failure, emotional mismanagement, and the dangerous allure of tribal familiarity.
Why did the people believe the fearful report over God’s promise?
Why didn’t Moses reframe the narrative when he had the chance?
Through the lens of leadership psychology, decision-making, and real-world parallels — including the current volatile situation in Israel — we explore what happens when fear sounds more familiar than truth.
Key insights include:
- The hidden cost of leadership silence
- Why followership fails without emotional containment
- And how fear disguised as insight derails entire missions
This isn’t just biblical. It’s now.
“Silent service builds the strongest foundations.”
— Anonymous
Who carries the mission when no one’s looking?
In a world that celebrates visionaries, Episode 245 turns our focus to the Levites — the silent leaders who kept the sacred intact as the people of Israel moved forward. They didn’t stand at the altar. They didn’t perform miracles. But they carried the weight, held the center, and made sure the sacred didn’t shatter in motion.
This week, we explore:
^ Why invisible leadership matters more than we think
^ How modern teams rely on sacred infrastructure to survive
^ What Starbucks, the Tabernacle, and your leadership team have in common
Because leadership isn’t always in the spotlight.
Sometimes it lives just outside it — and holds everything together.
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Chapters:00:00 A Significant Day in History03:37 Leadership Beyond the Spotlight08:45 The Role of the Levites15:18 The Unseen Backbone of Leadership22:18 Acknowledging the Silent Contributors
“Leadership is about holding steady through the heat of uncertainty—allowing people to feel the pressures of change without ungluing the system.”
— Ron Heifetz
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What do you do when you just don’t know?
When suspicion creeps in, when trust is fragile, when emotions are high but truth is unclear… the Bible doesn’t offer punishment. It offers containment.
This episode explores one of the most emotionally complex and misunderstood passages in the Book of Numbers — the ritual of the suspected woman — and what it teaches us about leadership in moments of ambiguity and mistrust.
You’ll learn:
- Why the Bible pauses the journey not for logistics, but for emotional resilience
- What modern leadership thinkers like Ron Heifetz, Adam Grant, and Wilfred Bion teach about “holding environments” and emotional containment
- Four practical tools any leader can use to manage uncertainty without ungluing their team
Because leadership isn’t always about solving.
Sometimes it’s about creating a system strong enough to hold what you can’t yet fix.
Chapters
00:00 Celebrating Milestones and Embracing Change
02:46 Leading Without Knowing: Understanding Uncertainty
05:36 The Importance of Trust in Leadership
08:22 The Ritual of the Sota: A Case Study in Leadership
10:21 Creating a Holding Environment for Teams
12:25 Navigating Mistrust and Ambiguity
15:26 Practical Tools for Effective Leadership
17:13 The Wisdom of Containment in Leadership
19:45 Conclusion: Leading in the Wilderness
“Freedom without formation is erosion in disguise. The leader’s first task is not to advance the people, but to ground them in sacred purpose and shared order.”
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Before the Israelites take a single step toward the Promised Land, Moshe stops them.
Not to delay the mission — but to protect its meaning.
In this episode, we explore why sacred order is the only antidote to spiritual erosion.
What looks like a census and a camp diagram is actually one of the most profound acts of leadership in the entire Torah:
A leader forming a people before they fracture.
A leader grounding identity before asking for trust.
A leader building coherence before inviting movement.
From Bruce Tuckman’s team dynamics to Karl Weick’s sensemaking theory — this episode unpacks how Moses orchestrates formation as the only defense against collapse.
Whether you lead a team, a community, or your own life, this one asks:
Have you built a structure before asking people to move?
Or are you moving… without meaning?
“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes… including you.” — Anne Lamott
This week, we close the book of Leviticus for the fifth time on Coaching the Bible. And we do it with I think one of the more emotionally honest episodes we’ve ever recorded.
It’s about burnout—but not the kind you fix with sleep or time off.
It’s about the quiet kind. The soul kind.
The kind that makes you smile while hollow. Lead while depleted. Achieve while unraveling inside.
We tell the story of “Bob,” a nonprofit founder who never stopped—until his soul did.
We unpack the Bible's command to let the land rest.
We reflect on the wisdom of modern thinkers like Dr. Christina Maslach, Dr. Gabor Maté, and Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith.
And we ask the hardest question of all:
What happens when we ignore the rhythms of our inner life?
This episode is for leaders who are always on.
For teachers, parents, creators, and caretakers who forgot what rest feels like.
For anyone who has confused exhaustion for devotion.
You’ll leave with tools, questions, a sense of possibility—and maybe, permission to pause.
Because 'Shemitah' (the Bible's term for leaving the land fallow in year 7) isn’t just about soil. It’s about souls.
And yours is sacred.
Tune in now to The Cost of Ignoring the Soul.
You don’t have to keep pushing through.
“Our imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together.” — Brené Brown--------------------------------
What if not being chosen doesn’t disqualify you—what if it defines you?
In the Bible portion known as Emor, we are introduced to a priest who is born into holiness… but barred from service.
He carries the lineage.
The responsibility.
The sacred calling.
But because of a physical blemish, he’s excluded from public ritual.
And yet—he is not dismissed. Not rejected. Not forgotten.
In this episode our 'The Leader Within' series, we explore what it means to lead without the spotlight. To influence without permission. To step forward, even when the world says “not you.”
This is a conversation for anyone who has ever been overlooked, underestimated, or told they didn’t “look like a leader.” It’s about reframing disqualification. Reclaiming agency. And realizing: you don’t have to be chosen to choose to lead.
🎧 Listen now for the Bible insights, leadership psychology, and real-world stories of the unqualified leaders who changed everything—quietly.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Context
01:06 Unqualified Leadership: The Concept
04:12 The Disqualified Priest: Biblical Insights
12:20 Leadership Beyond Titles
15:44 The Myth of the Leadership Mold
19:26 Principles of Leadership
30:31 Tools for Reclaiming Leadership
“Integrity without humility becomes isolation dressed as virtue. The real work of leadership is holding the line—without drawing it between yourself and others.”-----------------
You're the leader of a team, a company, a community or even 'only' your household: how do you manage to balance being a person of high morals, ethics, behavior, ie integrity without it turning into everything seeing and thinking of you as 'holier than thou', living up high on your horse?
How do you make it relatable, connected, real, authentic and something people are inspired by and aspire to emulate?
That's this week's episode. No more no less.
Happy Learning!
Episode 239: Before You Fix It, See It – The Discipline of Diagnosis
Welcome back to Coaching the Bible: The Leader Within.
This week’s episode explores one of the most overlooked leadership skills: diagnosis. In a world that rewards action, leaders often move too fast—solving the wrong problems or making the right moves at the wrong time.
But the Torah, in its quiet brilliance, offers a different model.
In Parshiyot Tazria-Metzora, the priest doesn’t heal—he sees. He slows down. He waits. He returns. He examines again.
He models diagnostic discipline.
In this episode:
- Why rushing to act weakens your leadership
- What the priest’s model teaches us about judgment and clarity
- How top performers in medicine, coaching, and leadership build diagnostic skill
- A five-part toolkit to strengthen your diagnostic muscle
- Why you can’t fix what you haven’t fully seen
Leadership doesn’t begin with action. It begins with presence, observation, and restraint.
Episode quote:
“You can’t fix what you haven’t really seen.”
Listen in. This is a different kind of leadership.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Leadership and Diagnosis
02:24 The Role of the Priest as a Diagnostician
10:01 The Importance of Clear Sight in Leadership
15:06 Compassion and Context in Diagnosis
18:09 Tools for Effective Diagnostic Leadership
23:41 The Power of Slowing Down to Diagnose
“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”
— Martin Luther King Jr.--------------------------
Episode 238 | Leadership on the Hardest Day (S5:E25)
Series: The Leader Within I Coaching The Bible
Sometimes leadership demands a decision. Other times, it demands a presence.
In one of the most emotionally complex narratives in the entire Bible, Aaron — fresh off the joy of national triumph — is struck by sudden, devastating loss. His response? Silence. But that silence speaks volumes.
In this deeply personal episode, we explore what it means to lead when your heart is breaking. We examine emotional mastery, attentional control, the role of presence over performance, and what it takes to be the kind of leader whose presence alone steadies the room.
From Torah to trauma psychology, Prime Ministers to boardrooms, this is an episode for every leader who's ever had to hold it together — not because they wanted to, but because they had to.
🎙️ Includes:
- The emotional frameworks behind Aaron’s silence
- Moses vs. Aaron: two different leadership instincts
- President Bush on 9/11, PM Netanyahu on 10/7
- Coaching tools from Bill Campbell, Tony Robbins, and Navy SEALs
- The 5 tools every leader must develop before the storm hits
“The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.”
— Bob Richards
Ep 237 I The 4 Questions EVERY Leader Must Ask I Passover Special I Coaching The Bible I The Leader Within I S5:E24
What if the most powerful leadership breakthroughs don’t come from strategy… but from self-reflection?
In this special Passover episode of Coaching the Bible, we pause the weekly Torah portion and go inward. Because every great leader — biblical or modern — eventually faces four questions that change everything.
🟦 What’s it like to be led by me?
🟦 Am I focusing on what only I can do?
🟦 Where might I be wrong?
🟦 What am I pretending not to know?
These aren’t surface-level.
They’re not for the faint of heart.
But they are essential.
And you need to be asking them of yourself...regularly.
If you're leading a team, an organization, a family, or even just trying to live more intentionally — this episode is for you.
We'll explore how ancient wisdom and modern psychology come together to help us lead from within. Because when you grow the inner leader, everything else gets better.
Listen now — and maybe, take a note or two.
Happy Listening!
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Leadership Questions
02:35 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Leadership
07:27 Focusing on Unique Abilities
10:44 Embracing the Discomfort of Being Wrong
15:01 Facing Uncomfortable Truths
20:05 The Path to Leadership Excellence
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.”
— Pablo Picasso
Ep. 236 | The Call You Almost Missed
Series: The Leader Within | Leviticus Begins
This week marks the start of our fifth journey through the Book of Leviticus — and this time, we're going inward.
The Leader Within is a new series exploring how leadership isn’t just about power, plans, or platforms — it’s about presence, purpose, and personal growth. In this opening session, we examine the tiny letter that opens the book — the small aleph in the word Vayikra — and how it teaches us about the quiet, easily missed calls to lead that shape everything.
From biblical figures who resisted their call (Moses, Jonah, Esther) to everyday heroes who step into sacred roles — this episode unpacks what it means to feel called, how to discern it, and what tools we need to say yes when it matters most.
Happy Listening!
"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more — you are a leader."
— John Quincy Adams-----------------------------------
Podcast #235 | Pekudei | Beyond Sinai #4: The Legacy of Leadership – How Great Leaders Build What Lasts
Welcome back to Coaching the Bible. This week, we conclude our Beyond Sinai series with a powerful question: What remains after the leader steps back?
In this fourth and final session, we explore what it takes to build a leadership legacy that lasts — long after the speeches are over, the applause has faded, and the original builder is no longer at the center.
Drawing from Exodus 39–40, this episode unpacks the final steps of constructing the Mishkan and how Moses subtly transitions from central figure to sustaining presence — by embedding values into rituals, preparing successors, designing sacred space, and ultimately, letting go.
📌 In this episode:
- Why rituals are more powerful than rules
- How great leaders train successors to carry the mission
- What it means to build shared space that reinforces culture
- And why the ultimate act of leadership is knowing when to step back
This is leadership beyond charisma — it’s about building something durable, transferable, and holy.
🔗 Part 4 of 4 in the Beyond Sinai series:
- From Blueprint to Breakthrough
- Fueling the Mission
- Wearing the Weight
- The Legacy of Leadership
Whether you’re building an organization, leading a team, or raising a family — this is the session that reframes leadership not just as impact, but as endurance.
Listen now and ask yourself:
Am I building something that will last beyond me?
"You can delegate authority, but you cannot delegate responsibility."
— Senator Byron Dorgan
Beyond Sinai #3: Wearing the Weight — The Sacred Responsibility of Leadership
This is Part 3 in the Beyond Sinai series — exploring how leaders move from vision to execution and from influence to legacy.
In this powerful episode, we dive into the next crucial step:
✅ How the High Priest's garments reveal the emotional weight leaders must carry
✅ The difference between holding power and bearing responsibility
✅ Why great leaders understand that presence, accountability, empathy, and focus shape lasting influence
Previously, we explored:
➡️ Session 1: How Moses transitioned from survival mode to structured leadership
➡️ Session 2: How Moses inspired the people to move from passive followers to active stakeholders
🔥 Now, in Session 3, we confront a powerful truth:
Leadership isn’t just about what you do — it’s about who you become and what you carry.
➡️ Listen now and learn how to lead with strength, presence, and purpose.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Beyond Sinai
03:11 Wearing the Weight of Leadership
07:40 Leadership as Visible Identity
15:00 Accountability in Leadership
19:24 Emotional Presence in Leadership
24:07 Focus and Intentionality in Leadership
29:06 The True Weight of Leadership
"Leadership is not about being in charge. It’s about taking care of those in your charge."
— Simon Sinek
In this episode, we explore one of the Bible's most dramatic moments — the Golden Calf. Mistakes were made, leaders failed, and followers faltered. But within this crisis lies a powerful set of lessons about leadership, followership, and the choices we make when trust is broken.
This episode is also something new — after over 230 episodes of Coaching the Bible as a solo podcast, this is my first time bringing on a guest and shifting from monologue to dialogue. It’s raw, unstructured, and takes some getting used to — but it’s rich with meaningful insights and ideas that can reshape how we think about leadership and community.
Join me and Dr. David Leitner as we unpack the missteps of Moses, Aaron, and the Israelites — and discover what this ancient story reveals about navigating uncertainty, rebuilding trust, and leading through failure.
If you've ever wondered what it takes to hold a community together when everything’s falling apart — this episode is for you.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Leadership and Followership
09:51 Understanding Followership
12:10 The Golden Calf: A Leadership Perspective
12:38 Courageous Followership and Strategic Partnerships
12:57 The Dynamics of Leadership and Followership
15:26 Moses as a Leader and Follower
18:10 The Role of Middle Management in Leadership
20:39 Connecting Biblical Narratives to Modern Leadership
24:09 Leadership and Communication in Exodus
27:59 The Role of Aaron and Leadership Void
33:41 The Dynamics of Followership
38:55 The Golden Calf Incident and Leadership Response
43:50 Understanding Followership and Its Challenges
50:02 The Power of Choice in Leadership
52:51 The Dynamics of Followership
55:53 Understanding Leadership and Free Will
59:43 Lessons from the Golden Calf Incident
01:02:58 The Interplay of Leadership and Followership
01:06:11 Redemption and Growth in Leadership
01:10:14 The Complexity of Leadership Roles
Find Dr. Leitner here:
- https://www.drdleitner.com/
- https://www.rhydl.com/
"If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up people to collect wood—teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea."
— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry----------------------------------------
Coaching the Bible | Beyond Sinai #2: Fueling the Mission – How Great Leaders Inspire Buy-In and Build Ownership
After Sinai, the people of Israel face a new challenge: how do you turn inspiration into action?
🔄 Last week, we explored how Moses transitioned from direct leadership to structured execution—building a system for long-term success.
This week, we take it further: how do great leaders inspire true buy-in, ensure commitment turns into action, and know when to stop asking?
💡 Key Leadership Lessons:
✅ Creating Buy-In: How great leaders inspire voluntary commitment.
✅ Structuring Participation: Why enthusiasm needs clear roles and execution.
✅ Knowing When to Stop Asking: The rare leadership skill of shifting from gathering to implementation.
From vision to ownership, from inspiration to execution—this episode breaks down the psychology and strategy behind true leadership buy-in.
Listen now and learn how to lead with vision, inspire commitment, and build movements that last.
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"Ideas are easy. Execution is everything."
— John Doerr -----------------------------------------------
Beyond Sinai: Why Vision Alone Isn’t Enough | Coaching the Bible (Ep. 231, S5E18)
Having a vision is great—but how do you turn it into reality?
That’s the real challenge of leadership.
Even Moses had to figure out how to move from inspiration to execution after Sinai.
Welcome to Beyond Sinai—our new series on what happens after the revelation, after the commandments, after the big moment.
Because leadership isn’t just about having a vision. It’s about building something that lasts.
Why listen?
- If you’ve ever struggled to turn ideas into action, this episode is for you.
- Learn how Moses transitioned from charismatic leader to structured leadership.
- Discover why delegation is strength—and how letting go creates real impact.
- See how the Tabernacle’s construction is a blueprint for sustainable leadership.
This isn’t just history—it’s a masterclass in leadership for anyone building something bigger than themselves.
📌 Up next in Beyond Sinai: How to get real buy-in and turn passive followers into active participants!
Tune in, take notes, and start building!
CoachingTheBible #BeyondSinai #Leadership #VisionToExecution #MakeItHappen
"The best way to predict the future is to create it."
— Peter Drucker
#230: The Leadership Covenant: Trust, Action, and the Decision That Defined a People
What if your team, your organization, or your community could commit to a vision instantly—without hesitation, without resistance?
"We will do, and we will hear."
At Mount Sinai, an entire nation made the most remarkable decision in leadership history: full, collective commitment before knowing all the details. No deliberation. No second-guessing. Just absolute trust in the mission.
This wasn’t blind faith.
It was the result of a structured leadership progression:
🔹 Collective courage – The first belief in change.
🔹 Persistent leadership – Trust built through endurance.
🔹 Decisive action – The willingness to move forward without certainty.
🔹 Leap leadership – Taking the first step before seeing the results.
🔹 Covenantal leadership – Committing to the future before all details are known.
What does this mean for us today?
✅ How do great leaders create this level of alignment?
✅ What psychological and cognitive mechanisms make this possible?
✅ Where do we see this in history—moon landings, revolutions, business breakthroughs?
✅ How can you apply the Sinai model to build trust, vision, and action in your own leadership?
This is one of the most powerful leadership conversations we’ve ever had on Coaching the Bible.
If you lead a team, build an organization, or seek to inspire lasting commitment, this episode is a must-listen.
Listen now and step into the leadership of Sinai.
Happy Learning!
"You can do anything, but not everything."
— David Allen
Ep 229 I Strategic Leadership: Moses’ Pivot Beyond Survival & Into Systems
How do leaders transition from survival mode to building systems that last?
In this episode of Coaching the Bible, we explore Moses’ greatest leadership pivot—one that took him from handling every crisis himself to building a scalable system for the future.
After splitting the sea, confronting Pharaoh, and standing before God at Sinai, Moses should be leading at a higher level. Instead, he finds himself buried in every dispute, every decision, every detail—unable to step back. Enter Jethro, his father-in-law, who offers a radical leadership intervention:
“What you’re doing is not good. You will wear yourself out.”
This moment marks the first time Moses takes leadership advice from a human, not God. And what unfolds is a transformation from reactive, crisis-driven leadership to structured, sustainable governance.
🔹 How does the Eisenhower Matrix (Urgent vs. Important) explain Moses’ leadership shift?
🔹 Why do so many leaders struggle to delegate—even after major success?
🔹 What is the "Jethro Moment"—and have you had one in your leadership journey?
🔹 What is the Delegation Test, and are you passing it?
We unpack how modern leaders—from CEOs to community builders—face the same struggle as Moses: moving beyond hands-on execution to strategic, scalable leadership.
Listen now to learn how to pivot your leadership beyond survival mode and into systems that last.
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”
--T.S. Eliot ---------------------------------------------
LEADERS: EVER FELT STUCK BETWEEN THE SEA AND A RAGING ARMY?
No plan. No clear options. Yet the future demands you move.
Introducing “Leap Leadership.”
- Yes, The People of Israel stepped in before the sea parted
- Yes, Colonel Sanders launched KFC at 60+
- Yes, you might still be deciding whether to leave that safe shoreline
If your leadership style needs a bold jolt—or proof that late-in-life pivots can rock—this podcast episode is for you.
Click below to hear the full story on Coaching The Bible (Episode 228), and discover how one courageous step can change everything.
Your next big win might just be one bold decision away.(Because better a bold leap than getting trampled by chariots, right?)
"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing."
— Theodore Roosevelt
#227 On Decisive Leadership – Knowing When to Act and Never Looking Back
Every leader faces a defining moment—when the time for debate ends, and the time for action begins.
But how do you recognize that moment?
And once you do, how do you execute without hesitation?
In this episode, we dive into one of the greatest leadership transitions in history—Moses in the portion of Bo. We explore:
✅ How Moses moved from hesitation to decisive action
✅ The "moment of no return" and why leaders must recognize it
✅ The multi-step framework for mastering Decisive Leadership in Transition
✅ What FDR, Lincoln, Steve Jobs, and Netflix teach us about making irreversible decisions
This episode is for leaders facing tough calls, major pivots, and moments where hesitation isn’t an option.
Listen now and learn how to act decisively when it matters most!
"The strength of the team is each individual member. The strength of each member is the team." — Phil Jackson
226: In-Decision 13: Shmot: On Collective & Collaborative Courage
This week, we discuss ALL the leaders and decision-makers in the story who are not named Moses, Pharoah, or God and develop a new leadership concept.
Super-interesting...
Happy Learning!
"The very essence of leadership is that you have to have vision. You can't blow an uncertain trumpet."
— Theodore M. Hesburgh----------------------------------------------
#225: In-Decision 12: Leadership For The Future: On Balancing Vision, Tradition and the Weight of Change
No time this week for a snappy intro text, so click, listen, engage, learn, and enjoy!
--Bini
“The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humor, but without folly.”
— Jim Rohn
#224: In-Decision 11: Leadership In Balance: Joseph’s Mastery of Vision, Power, and People
Every leader faces the impossible balance—this week, discover a way you can master it.
You’ve been there.
Competing priorities pulling you in every direction. A team that needs clarity. Stakeholders demanding results. A future you need to protect.
This week’s episode of Coaching the Bible dives into Joseph’s ultimate test of leadership.
Balancing the survival of a nation, the unity of his family, and the weight of a larger mission, Joseph models how to navigate high-stakes decisions without losing focus or purpose.
💡 If you’ve ever wondered:
🔑 How do I lead when everything feels equally urgent?
🔑 What’s my guiding principle in the toughest decisions?
🔑 How can I balance short-term needs with long-term goals?
Then this is the episode you can’t miss.
Leadership isn’t about doing it all but knowing how to do it best.
Happy Listening and Learning!
"Leadership is a combination of strategy and character. If you must be without one, be without the strategy."
– General H. Norman Schwarzkopf
#223: In-Decision 10: Leadership at a Price: Emotion vs Strategy vs Legacy
In this episode of Coaching the Bible, we explore Joseph’s defining moment of leadership.
When his brothers—the very ones who betrayed him—stand before him unaware of his power, Joseph faces a choice that balances justice, mercy, and long-term vision.
Discover how Joseph navigates this collision of personal pain and professional responsibility, using strategic delay and moral testing to reshape his family’s future.
Packed with insights on decision-making under pressure, this episode offers timeless lessons for leaders navigating complexity and competing priorities.
“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
— Martin Luther King Jr.
Ep. #222: On The Brothers The Brothers Navigating Fear, Groupthink, and Moral Complexity
Brace yourselves—this is the longest episode of Coaching the Bible to date! But it’s worth every minute.
In this week’s episode, we tackle one of the Bible’s most complex and fascinating stories: the brothers’ decision to sell Joseph into slavery.
What looks like an act of betrayal is, at its core, a case study in fear, groupthink, and #moral_ambiguity.
But here’s the twist—it’s not just their story. It’s every leader’s story.
🔑 How does jealousy or #favoritism divide teams and undermine trust?
🔑 What happens when fear clouds your judgment and #groupthink suppresses critical voices?
🔑 How do you lead with #integrity in moments of moral complexity?
This episode dives deep into the dynamics that influence decision-making, offering practical tools to help you navigate the challenges of leadership today.
Join me for this deep dive into the heart of leadership and decision-making.
"The greatest mistake we make is living in constant fear that we will make one."
– John C. Maxwell
How often do you let fear or uncertainty guide your decisions?
We’ve all been there.
The stakes are high, the path forward is unclear, and that voice in your head starts whispering, “What if this goes wrong?”
In this week’s episode of Coaching the Bible, we explore one of the most relatable leadership struggles: Jacob’s preparation to meet his estranged brother, Esau. This isn’t just a story—it’s a window into the tough decisions every leader faces when fear and ambiguity collide.
🔑 What happens when fear clouds your judgment?
🔑 How can reframing your perspective change the outcome?
🔑 What does it take to lead with clarity, even when the future feels uncertain?
Jacob’s journey holds lessons for every leader who’s ever had to navigate tough conversations, uncertain outcomes, and the weight of responsibility.
💡 Listen now and discover how to lead through the unknown.
LeadBetter #Coaching #LeadWell
'In the midst of chaos, there is also opportunity.'
— Sun Tzu
𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗜𝘀𝗻’𝘁 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗪𝗶𝗻𝘀—𝗜𝘁’𝘀 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗦𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗮𝗹. 𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗚𝗮𝗺𝗲.
In every leader’s journey, there’s a moment when the stakes couldn’t be higher, the rules are unwritten, and every move carries a cost.
This week on 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘉𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦, we’re exploring Jacob’s story: a leader betrayed, navigating an impossible situation with strategy, patience, and resilience.
What’s at the heart of this episode?
👉 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗚𝗮𝗺𝗲: How Jacob endured betrayal and worked toward a vision bigger than himself.
👉 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗼𝗿𝘁 𝗚𝗮𝗺𝗲: His tactical moves to survive and thrive in a rigged system.
👉 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗖𝗼𝘀𝘁𝘀: The relational and ethical fallout of playing to win.
Jacob’s choices mirror the challenges leaders face today—delayed gratification, ethical dilemmas, and adapting in the face of adversity.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the high-stakes “games” of leadership.
🎙️ 𝗜𝗻-𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 #𝟳: 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗰𝗲: 𝗢𝗻 𝗝𝗮𝗰𝗼𝗯’𝘀 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗧𝗼 𝗣𝗹𝗮𝘆 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗚𝗮𝗺𝗲
📩 After you listen, drop me a note...I’d love to hear how have you played the long game in your leadership journey?
What lessons resonate most with you?
'Leadership is not about making the right decisions; it’s about making decisions and then making them right.'
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- Mike Krzyzewski
Leadership at a Price: Rebecca’s Choice Between Vision and Fallout
Leadership isn’t for the faint of heart.
Sometimes, it’s stepping into the unknown, making a bold and even scary decision or move, and hoping you can live with the fallout.
This week on Coaching the Bible, we dive into Rebecca’s unforgettable moment of leadership—her controversial plan to secure the covenantal blessing for Jacob.
It’s a story packed with lessons for today’s leaders:
✅ How to lead without formal authority
✅ The burden of seeing a future no one else understands
✅ The ethical tightrope of “ends justify the means”
Rebecca’s choice shaped history.
What do your choices say about you?
If you’ve ever had to make a tough call with imperfect options, this episode will hit home.
What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make as a leader?
Let’s talk about it in the comments!
'𝘐𝘯 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴, 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘥𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯.'
— John C. Maxwell
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙨𝙖𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩?
In this week’s podcast, we explore the incredible story of Sarah—a leader who faced impossible choices. As Abraham’s partner in the covenant, Sarah carried both the promise of a legacy and the pain of personal sacrifice.
She made bold, risky decisions: inviting Hagar into the family, navigating power struggles, and ultimately protecting Isaac’s future.
Each choice came with a cost—emotionally, relationally, and ethically.
For today’s leaders, Sarah’s story offers powerful lessons:
1️⃣ What do you do when no option is perfect?
2️⃣ How do you balance personal feelings with the bigger picture?
3️⃣ Can you act with courage, even when it hurts?
This isn’t just a history lesson.
It’s a timeless story about leadership, risk, and resilience that speaks to all of us.
👉 Listen now and uncover the lessons from Sarah’s journey.
'Mercy, even when risky, builds the world we want.'
--Anonymous
#217: In-Decision 4: On The Divine Leadership Dilemma: Justice vs Mercy
Every leader knows this truth: Some decisions define who you are.
This week’s podcast episode tackles the ultimate leadership dilemma:
👉 Mercy or Justice?
Do you act with faith in people’s potential or choose caution to safeguard the future?
Can you balance trust with responsibility when everything’s on the line?
Packed with frameworks, psychology, and real-world lessons, this episode will challenge your thinking, sharpen your leadership, and help you navigate decisions that truly matter.
Listen now, and let’s elevate the way you lead.
Because decisions define legacies.
'The greatest use of a life is to spend it on something that will outlast it.'
--William James
#216: In-Decision 3: On Abraham's Choice To Leave The Known: Isolation, Ambiguity & Deferred Impact
This week on Coaching the Bible, we explore a turning point in the life of Abraham. Imagine leaving everything familiar—the comfort, the stability, even your family bonds—for an uncertain journey to build something that may outlast you.
Abraham’s choice isn’t just ancient history; it’s a powerful reminder for today’s leaders about:
- Holding onto a vision others can’t see
- Navigating the tension of leaving the known for the unknown
- Building a legacy that impacts future generations
Join us as we dive into the lessons of faith, resilience, and purpose in Abraham’s story. It’s a call for leaders to embrace the challenges of vision, sacrifice, and legacy, asking:
➡️ What are you building that might outlast you?
➡️ How do you make decisions that serve both the present and future?
Tune in for insights and reflections that push the boundaries of leadership and purpose.
Leadership #Legacy #CoachingTheBible #Vision #Purpose #Podcast
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."
--Martin Luther King Jr
#215: In-Decision 2: Noah’s Dilemma: Obedience, Silence, and Moral Responsibility
In this week’s episode of Coaching the Bible, we explore Noah’s story—not just the ark, but the tough decisions that defined his journey.
Tasked with an enormous responsibility, Noah chose to obey without proof and remain silent in a world headed for disaster, setting himself apart in profound ways.
For today’s leaders, Noah’s choices raise timeless questions about conviction and courage.
When do we speak up, and when does silence become a form of strength?
How do we navigate the personal cost of leading with resilience and purpose?
Join us as we uncover the powerful lessons behind Noah’s choices and what they teach us about leadership, moral responsibility, and the decisions that define us.
Happy Learning!
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'We are our choices.'
-- Jean Paul Sartre
#214: In-Decision 1: On Obedience, Influence, Ambition & Integrity
We’re launching Season 5 with a deep dive into one of the oldest and most relatable stories: the journey of Adam, Eve, and the snake in the Garden of Eden.
Beyond the surface of temptation and disobedience, this episode uncovers the profound choices and conflicts that reveal the essence of human nature, the core of who we are.
In this episode, we explore:
- The snake’s subtle influence and its impact on belief and choice
- Eve’s bold ambition, curiosity, and the risk of pursuing knowledge
- Adam’s struggle between loyalty and integrity, and the cost of compromise
- God’s boundaries as a framework for growth and freedom
These characters aren’t just symbols; they’re reflections of our own lives, showing us how influence, ambition, and values collide in the choices we make.
Step into this story, into the spaces and decisions that each character makes and discover what it says about your own path.
🔗 Listen now to Episode 214 and join us in reflecting on the decisions that shape who we are.
Happy Learning!
“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river, and he’s not the same man.”
--Heraclitus
Episode 213: On 'Sukkah' Leadership
In this episode we dive into the profound leadership lessons found in the Sukkah, the humble structure built during the holiday of Sukkot (Tabernacle).
Join us as we explore how this temporary and fragile dwelling teaches us two key leadership principles: vulnerability and impermanence.
Drawing on insights from Brené Brown, Robert Jordan, and Marcus Aurelius, we discuss how vulnerability in leadership fosters trust and authenticity, and how embracing impermanence allows for resilience and adaptability in the face of change.
Whether you’re leading in business, community, or family, these lessons provide practical guidance to navigate life’s inevitable uncertainties.
Tune in and discover how the Sukkah’s wisdom can strengthen your leadership in real-world scenarios.
Happy Learning!
"𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘨𝘭𝘰𝘳𝘺 𝘪𝘯 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘭𝘭.”
--Nelson Mandela
𝟮𝟭𝟮: 𝗢𝗻 𝗚𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗼 𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗔𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻...𝗔𝗴𝗮𝗶𝗻
In this special Yom Kippur episode, we explore how true leaders rise when faced with familiar challenges, and this time, choose a higher path.
Drawing on Maimonides' concept of Teshuvah Gemurah—complete repentance—this episode unpacks the power of reflection, resilience, and personal growth in leadership.
Whether you've stumbled in the past or feel stuck in old patterns, this is a reminder that real change is possible.
Discover how the ability to learn from mistakes and lead with clarity can transform not only your actions but the people and teams around you.
This is leadership at its best: choosing better every time.
Happy Learning!
'When it rains, look for rainbows; when it’s dark, look for stars.'
—Oscar Wilde
#211: On Silver Linings
In this episode, we step into the power of finding hope, growth, and meaning during times of hardship.
We explore how leaders can use these silver linings to inspire and uplift their teams, transforming challenges into opportunities for connection and progress.
Listen now and move into the new year with renewed resilience and purpose.
Happy New Year, Shana Tova, and Happy Learning!
'Leadership is not just about guiding the present, but empowering the future, uniting the community, and standing strong through uncertainty.'
-- Anonymous
#210: On Leadership for Tomorrow: Unity, Resilience & Transition
Leaders, we’re switching things up this week!
This week, we’re introducing a new, fast-paced format as we explore Leadership for Tomorrow: Unity, Resilience, and Transition.
In just 15 minutes, you’ll gain valuable insights on how to build unity within your team, lead with resilience during challenging times, and transition leadership effectively.
So 3 principles in 15 minutes or less... Can we do it???
It’s a tighter format with the same powerful takeaways, designed to maximize your time.
Key Takeaways:
- Build unity and shared accountability in your team.
- Lead with resilience and stay strong through uncertainty.
- Develop the next generation of leaders for smooth transitions.
Join us for this new format—hit play and take your leadership to the next level!
'To win in the marketplace, you must first win in the workplace.'
– Doug Conant
#209: On Resonant Leadership
What can the sound of a shofar teach us about leadership? More than you'd expect.
In this episode of Coaching the Bible, we're going a bit deeper than usual into the Bible side of the pod as we break down the three essential leadership qualities embodied by the ancient shofar blasts: clarity, resilience, and action.
You’ll discover how to lead with unwavering focus, bounce back from setbacks like a pro, and most importantly, how to celebrate every step of the journey—even the small wins that fuel long-term success.
This isn't just another leadership theory.
It’s a guide for leading with purpose and building momentum that resonates across your team.
Key Takeaways:
- Why clarity is the ultimate leadership signal your team needs
- How embracing vulnerability strengthens your leadership
- The power of celebration in building sustained team energy
Listen now and lead better.
Happy Learning!
'We are only as blind as we want to be.'
--Maya Angelou
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#208: On Turning A Blind Eye
Today, we’re digging into the sneaky leadership trap of turning a blind eye.
Why do even the most brilliant leaders sometimes ignore the obvious?
We’ll unpack the underlying psychology, from ancient wisdom to modern boardrooms, showing how easy it is to slip into willful blindness—and more importantly, how to snap out of it.
Key Takeaways:
- Discover the hidden reasons why we look away—and how to confront those blind spots head-on.
- Learn actionable strategies to keep your team on track, your integrity intact, and your eyes open for what really matters.
Hit play and let’s break down the blind spots holding back your leadership!
Happy_Learning
'What it lies in our power to do, it lies in our power not to do.’
— Aristotle
#207: On Strategic Restraint
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we’re exploring Strategic Restraint—the surprising leadership strategy that’s all about knowing when not to act.
Drawing on examples from George Washington and the biblical King of Israel, we’ll look at how strategic restraint offers practical lessons on leading with ethics and intentionality.
Whether you’re navigating corporate challenges or leading a community, this episode provides valuable insights on the power of restraint in leadership.
Key Takeaways:
- Gain insights into the power of restraint in leadership and how it can lead to greater impact
- Explore timeless lessons from the Bible on how ethical boundaries can guide powerful leadership decisions
Ready to lead with intention and purpose?
Tune in and learn the art of restraint!
Leadership #CoachingTheBible #StrategicRestraint
“𝘕𝘰𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘣𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘥.”
— William Bruce Cameron
𝟮𝟬𝟲: 𝗢𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗔𝘀𝘀𝗲𝘁𝘀
We’re diving deep into the often-overlooked world of 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽.
Have you ever wondered why some leaders excel in roles that don’t have a clear-cut path to success?
It's not what you think...
Whether you’re managing a corporate team, running a nonprofit, or leading a community initiative, this episode unpacks the power of valuing the unseen and unmeasurable contributions within your team.
We’ll explore how ancient wisdom intersects with modern leadership principles to help you identify and nurture these essential, yet often neglected, roles.
𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀:
👉 Learn how to recognize and empower the roles in your team that might not grab the spotlight but are crucial to your mission’s success
👉 Discover actionable strategies to measure the impact of intangible contributions and elevate your leadership game
Join me and let’s uncover the hidden strengths that drive true leadership success!
Happy Learning!
"𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘶𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘪𝘵."
– Peter Drucker
𝟮𝟬𝟱: 𝗢𝗻 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽
This week’s episode of "Coaching the Bible" is all about 𝗚𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽.
How do you balance ambitious goals with the practical realities of your organization?
We’re exploring this essential skill through the lens of historical and contemporary leaders who have mastered the art of leading with both vision and pragmatism.
You’ll also discover the 𝗙.𝗢.𝗖.𝗨.𝗦. 𝗳𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸, a powerful tool to help you align your team’s actions with your larger vision, ensuring sustainable success.
𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀:
↪️ Equip yourself with strategies to ensure your leadership is rooted in ethical principles while driving toward ambitious goals.
↪️ Discover how to create a unified team by directly linking their day-to-day tasks with your organization’s overarching vision.
Ready to lead from the ground up?
Tune in and let’s take your leadership to the next level!
Leadership #CoachingTheBible #GroundedLeadership
'𝘙𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘶𝘤𝘬.'
--Dalai Lama
𝟮𝟬𝟰: 𝗢𝗻 𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗔𝗹𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝗚𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁
Life doesn’t always go according to plan.
But great leaders know how to adapt and thrive, even when things don’t turn out as expected.
This week on 'Coaching the Bible,' we're exploring how to lead when you don’t get what you want. Perfect for when you're facing a tough decision or a setback.
Click to listen and turn those challenges into opportunities.
𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀:
➡️ How to handle unmet expectations with grace
➡️ Turning setbacks into leadership opportunities
➡️Building resilience in the face of adversity
𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘮𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴, 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨!
'Shallow men believe in luck or in circumstance. Strong men believe in cause and effect.'
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
#203: On Cause & Effect
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we unravel the mysteries of cause and effect in leadership.
↪️ 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 how to pinpoint the true origins of your challenges and transform them into stepping stones for success.
↪️ 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻 strategies inspired by ancient wisdom, like how Moses managed a desert startup with a rebellious team.
𝘙𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘵𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘴?
Tune in and lead with insight.
𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀:
^ 𝗥𝗼𝗼𝘁 𝗖𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗔𝗻𝗮𝗹𝘆𝘀𝗶𝘀: Master techniques to identify what's really driving your problems.
^ 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗰 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽: Use cause and effect to make decisions that get results.
^ 𝗧𝗶𝗺𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝘀: Learn how ancient leaders like Moses turned setbacks into triumphs.
𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗡𝗼𝘄 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗳𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲!
'The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.'
--Marcus Aurelius
Ready to turn revenge into your secret weapon for success?
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we explore the emotion and power of revenge and how negative emotions can become your greatest allies.
Consider this:
You want 'revenge'. You're angry, upset, embarrassed or worse...
But what is the consequence and impact of your taking 'a pound of flesh' from your so-called enemy?
That's this week's conversation!
𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀:
^ 𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗰 𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲: Turn personal setbacks into fuel for innovation and progress.
^ 𝗕𝗮𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽: Blend ancient wisdom with contemporary tactics to manage team dynamics.
^ 𝗥.𝗘.𝗩.𝗘.𝗡.𝗚.𝗘 𝗙𝗿𝗮𝗺𝗲𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸: Implement this powerful tool to tackle challenges with confidence and creativity.
🔗 Listen now and, as always, happy learning!
'When wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost.'
--German Proverb
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#201: On Character & Reputation
Welcome to this week’s episode! We explore the powerful dynamics of character and reputation in leadership.
Learn from the compelling story of Pinhas and Zimri.
Discover how actions shape public perception and the lasting impact of integrity.
Key Takeaways:
- Character vs. Reputation: Understand the core differences.
- Real-Life Examples: Mandela’s legacy vs. Madoff and Lance Armstrong's downfall.
- Actionable Insights: Tools for self-reflection and ethical growth.
Tune in now and start leading better!
happy learning!
'Everyone you will ever meet knows something you don't.'
--Bill Nye
#200: On Learning From Unconventional Sources
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we celebrate our 200th episode by exploring the power of learning from unexpected places, people, and even animals...
Dive into the story of Balaam's donkey and uncover timeless leadership lessons that can transform your approach.
Key Takeaways:
- Embrace Unexpected Wisdom: Learn how to find insights in the most unlikely places
- Innovative Thinking: Discover how unconventional sources can drive innovation
- Humility in Leadership: Understand the importance of being open to all perspectives
Tune in now and elevate your leadership journey!
As always, happy learning and thanks for being here with me each week!
'Diplomacy is the art of saying things in such a way that those to whom we speak may listen to them with pleasure.'
--Blaise Pascal
New episode of "Coaching the Bible" dropping now!
#199: On Diplomacy
This week, we explore how Moses used diplomacy to lead effectively.
Discover the four core principles of diplomacy: negotiation, communication, building relationships, and promoting interests.
These principles are essential for any leader aiming to create a positive and productive environment.
Key Highlights: The 4 Core Principles of Diplomacy
- Negotiation: Learn how to negotiate like Moses and achieve win-win outcomes.
- Communication Excellence: Understand the power of effective communication in leadership.
- Relationship Building: Build lasting relationships based on trust and respect.
- Promoting Interests: Balance your goals with the needs of others for mutual success.
Don’t miss out on these valuable insights.
This is how we grow and how we get better as leaders.
Listen now and as always, happy learning!
“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”
– Mahatma Gandhi
𝟭𝟵𝟴: 𝗦𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽
This week’s "Coaching the Bible" delves into the essence of servant leadership, using the powerful story of Korach.
We bring together Moses, Aaron, Ghandi, Rabbi Sacks and Herb Kelleher to teach us, lead us and guide us through this ever important leadership style.
Explore how empathy, healing, awareness, and stewardship are vital for effective leadership. Learn from real-world examples like Herb Kelleher of Southwest Airlines.
𝗞𝗲𝘆 𝗧𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘆𝘀:
^ 𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗵𝘆 & 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴: Discover how these core principles help build trust and connection.
^ 𝗔𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 & 𝗦𝘁𝗲𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽: Learn to anticipate needs and manage resources responsibly.
𝙃𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙮 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜!
'When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.'
--Viktor Frankl
197: Managing Dissension
- How do handle dissension within the team?
- What's your gameplan?
- Do you have one?
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we explore the vital topic of managing dissension.
Through the story of the Ma'apilim in Numbers 14, ie 'the defiers', we uncover the delicate balance between embracing dissenting opinions and maintaining unity.
Learn from the Talmud, Adam Grant, and Dwight Eisenhower about the value of honest dissent versus disloyal subversion.
Meet the Israelites, grappling with their fate, and Moses, striving to lead through turmoil.
Understand the five-step TRUST process:
- Transparent Communication
- Recognizing Emotions
- Unity through Involvement
- Sharing a Clear Vision
- Trust Building
Don't miss this insightful episode. Listen now and turn opposition into opportunity!
Leadership #ConflictResolution #CoachingTheBible #ManagingDissension #TrustProcess #TeamBuilding #LeadershipLessons
'To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.'
--Winston Churchill
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#196: Leading Through Inflection Points
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we dive deep into inflection points—those critical moments that shape the future of your business and life.
Learn how Moses handled one of the Bible's biggest inflection points, the people's journey to the Land of Israel.
See how years later Joshua does it differently .
Hear a real-world example from Intel’s Andy Grove.
Discover actionable strategies to navigate and leverage these pivotal moments.
Key Takeaways:
- Understand the emotional dynamics of inflection points
- Learn proactive leadership strategies
- Real-world lessons from life and business
Ready to turn challenges into opportunities?
Hit play and transform your leadership today!
Happy Learning!
'The challenge of leadership is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not a bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humor, but without folly.'
-Jim Rohn
#195: On Balanced Leadership
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we're taking a thrilling journey into the powerful concept of balanced leadership, inspired by the ancient Nazirite vow.
Yes, the Nazirite. Trust me here...
Imagine elevating your leadership game with the profound lessons of the Nazirite—a person committed to abstention and spiritual focus.
This episode uncovers five transformative principles: personal commitment and integrity, moderation and balance, setting clear goals and endpoints, community support and encouragement, and unwavering dedication and focus.
Along the way you'll meet Dave, our modern-day Nazirite in the business world, whose story will captivate and inspire you. Learn practical strategies to foster a balanced, high-performing team and unleash your leadership potential.
Don't miss out! Listen now and embark on your journey to becoming a more balanced and impactful leader!
Leadership #TeamManagement #BalancedLeadership #Nazirite #CoachingTheBible #PersonalCommitment #CommunitySupport #GoalSetting #Focus #Integrity #WorkLifeBalance
'Transformational leaders don't start by denying the world around them. Instead they describe a future they'd like to create.'
--Seth Godin
#194 On Transformational Leadership
Unlock Transformational Leadership with the Book of Ruth!
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we dive into the timeless leadership lessons from the Book of Ruth.
Suprising, right?
To me too!
Discover how the principles of transformational leadership like vision, integrity, strategic thinking, and resilience show up in this most random of books and how it can elevate your leadership game and drive sustainable success.
👉 Key Takeaways:
- Visionary Leadership: Inspire and motivate your team with a compelling vision.
- Integrity: Build trust and ethical standards in your leadership.
- Proactivity: Navigate challenges with strategic thinking.
- Resilience: Adapt and thrive in adversity.
Learn from leaders who missed their moment and gain insights to avoid their pitfalls. Don’t miss this transformative episode!
Happy Learning!
Leadership #Growth #Coaching #TransformationalLeadership #Inspiration
'There is no failure, only feedback.'
--Robert Allen
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#193: On Curses & Feedback
In the latest episode of "Coaching the Bible," we delve into the fascinating connection between biblical rebuke and modern feedback systems. Drawing from the portion of Bechukotai in Leviticus, we explore how ancient wisdom can inform today's best practices in leadership and team development.
🔍 What You'll Learn:
- The progression of biblical rebukes and their purpose.
- How this ancient approach parallels modern feedback mechanisms.
- The immense benefits of giving and receiving feedback for personal and professional growth.
- Practical action plans, including insights from Google's Project Oxygen, to implement a feedback culture in your organization.
💡 Key Takeaways:
- Create an environment where feedback is the norm, fostering growth and trust.
- Learn the SBI (Situation-Behavior-Impact) model for delivering effective feedback.
- Understand the importance of seeking feedback proactively to enhance self-awareness and team dynamics.
Tune in to discover how feedback can transform your leadership style and drive success for your team and company. Let's embrace feedback as the "breakfast of champions" and pave the way for continuous improvement and success!
Leadership #Feedback #Coaching #TeamDevelopment #GrowthMindset #BiblicalWisdom #ProfessionalDevelopment #ContinuousImprovement #Podcast #CoachingTheBible
'The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own.'
—Benjamin Disraeli
#192: On Whole-Person Growth
This week on "Coaching the Bible," we dive deep into the transformative concept of whole-person growth.
Want to truly transform your teams? Look beyond the tasks at hand. Focus on the whole person. When you do this, everything changes!
Discover how nurturing every aspect of your team's well-being—professional, emotional, physical, and social—can boost productivity, loyalty, and happiness. We'll explore how this comprehensive approach aligns with biblical principles and modern leadership theories.
Key Takeaways:
- Understand Whole-Person Growth: Learn what it means to support your team holistically and why it matters.
- 'Practical' Example: Hear how TechSolutions Inc. successfully implemented this approach, leading to higher employee satisfaction and innovation.
- Practical Steps: Get a 5-step plan to bring whole-person growth into your team, from assessment to ongoing support and adjustment.
Unlock the secrets to empowering your team in all areas of life.
Tune in and, as always, happy learning!
#WholePersonGrowth #Leadership #TeamSuccess #CoachingTheBible #Empowerment #Productivity #BiblicalWisdom
"I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples."
– Mother Teresa
#191: The Ripple Effect in Leadership
This week’s "Coaching the Bible" explores the hidden forces shaping our lives: the ripple effect.
- Discover how unnoticed elements can significantly impact your decisions and results.
- Learn to identify and leverage these forces for greater success.
Key Takeaways:
- Deep Dive into Hidden Forces: Understand how the butterfly, mushroom, and snowball effects shape your personal and professional life.
- Real-World Scenarios: From overlooked maintenance to misdirected emails, see how small actions lead to major consequences.
Examples in Action:
- Starbucks’ Journey: One store's consistent experience snowballed into a global phenomenon.
- The Arab Spring: A single act of protest sparked widespread political change.
We'll also talk about how you get better at managing and anticipating these effects for yourself and for your team.
Happy Learning!
'Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.'
- Buddha
#190: On Truth
Join me in starting a crucial conversation on "Coaching the Bible" this week as we tackle the elusive yet ever-important topic of truth.
Why Leaders Can't Afford to Miss This:
Unveil Truth: In a world swirling with misinformation, discover how truth, or the lack thereof, impacts everything from international politics to personal integrity.
Actionable Insights: Learn practical strategies for fostering a culture of truth in your leadership and among your teams.
Powerful Analogies: From historical examples to modern dilemmas, see how truth shapes realities and what happens when it's ignored.
Stand for Truth: Be inspired to champion truth in challenging environments and understand the real risks of complacency.
Join me as we navigate the complex dynamics of truth in leadership, uncovering insights that could redefine how you lead and influence.
Don't just lead; lead with truth, because transparency isn't just nice to have—it's a must-have in today’s world.
Happy Learning!
'The man who continually searches for a scapegoat, in the end, shall become the shepherd of his own isolation with no one to blame but himself.'
--David Roppo
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#189 On Scapegoats
Dive into this week's "Coaching the Bible" where we unravel the intricate dance of scapegoating in leadership and team dynamics.
Why You Need to Listen:
- Explore the historical significance and modern implications of scapegoating. From ancient rituals to pressing workplace issues, understand why this pattern is more relevant than ever.
- Learn how scapegoating can silently undermine your team's morale and productivity. We dissect how this behavior is often more than just assigning blame—it's a reflection of deeper organizational issues.
- Arm yourself with actionable steps to detect and dismantle scapegoating in your environment. Promote a culture where clarity leads and accountability thrives.
- Connect the dots with real-life examples from sports, history, and business that illustrate the destructive power of scapegoating and the importance of conscious leadership.
- Elevate your leadership by eliminating scapegoating and fostering a culture of transparency and integrity. Don't miss out on transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.
Join us to empower your leadership journey—your team's success depends on it.
Happy Learning!
'To create reality, focus beyond the outcome, as if it has already happened.'
--Gregg Braden
#188: On Orchestrating Outcomes
This week's episode serves up a compelling blend of ancient tradition and modern leadership strategy. Discover how the meticulous planning of a Passover Seder can be a masterclass in orchestrating successful outcomes for any leader.
Why You Can't Miss This Episode:
🔹 Precision in Planning: Dive into why detail-oriented planning or 'sweating the small stuff' isn't just for the meticulous—it's a staple for leaders aiming for the pinnacle of success.
🔹 Leadership Lessons: Learn how transforming a traditional event into an impactful experience parallels the daily magic that effective leaders create.
3 Key Takeaways:
🔹 Effective Management: Get the blueprint for aligning detailed tactics with overarching goals. It’s like setting the stage for a standing ovation.
🔹 Inspiring Engagement: Find out how to keep your team engaged, not just involved—think less mandatory seminar and more captivating masterclass.
🔹 Navigating Challenges: Equip yourself with strategies for smoothly handling the unexpected, ensuring your projects run as planned, no matter what.
Join me for a session that promises not just insights but actionable strategies to enhance your leadership playbook.
Happy Listening, Happy Learning & Happy Passover!
'The unexamined life is not worth living.'
--Socrates
187: Leprosy and Leadership? It’s Not What You Think.
Join us this week on "Coaching the Bible" as we explore a surprisingly powerful metaphor for leadership drawn from biblical leprosy.
Yes, leprosy—stick with us, it'll all make sense!
Why You Can't Miss This Episode:
Dive into ancient wisdom that sheds light on modern leadership challenges. Discover how the isolation and impurity associated with biblical leprosy can inspire a deep, transformative journey of self-examination.
What You'll Gain:
Learn to identify and address your hidden biases to refine your leadership style. Find out how self-scrutiny can lead to more empathetic and effective leadership.
Episode Highlights:
- Practical tips to clean up cognitive biases, making your decision-making process as spotless as a rehabilitated leper colony.
- Strategies for fostering a team culture that values honesty and constructive feedback—no isolation required!
- Insights on leveraging ancient stories to enhance modern leadership techniques.
In a world full of quick fixes and surface-level solutions, understanding the depth of your own character is what truly sets you apart as a leader. Ready to uncover the profound lessons hidden in an unlikely place?
Happy Learning and Leading Better!
'I’ve begun to realize that you can listen to silence and learn from it. It has a quality and a dimension all its own.'
--Chaim Potok
#186: On Silence
In this week’s episode of "Coaching The Bible," we uncover the silent forces that shape true leadership, inspired by Aaron’s story in Shemini. It's a poignant reminder of how silence can be a reservoir of strength and resilience for you, especially during challenging times.
Why This Episode Speaks to You:
- Delve into Aaron’s response to personal loss, reflecting on how your silent moments can forge a deeper connection with your team and guide them through adversity.
- Discover how embracing silence can elevate your leadership, making room for introspection and empowering those around you to voice their ideas and solutions.
- We’ll walk through practical steps together, showing you how to weave silence into the fabric of your leadership style and team culture, fostering an environment ripe for innovation and introspective growth.
This episode is crafted with you in mind, understanding the weight of leadership you carry every day. It’s an invitation to explore the strength in stillness, to pause more, listen deeply, and speak with purpose.
Let’s journey into the power of silence together, redefining what it means to lead with impact.
Looking forward to sharing this moment of learning with you.
'...Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose...'
--Steve Jobs
This week's episode of "Coaching the Bible" delves deep into the essence of leadership that endures: a legacy-driven mindset. 🛤️
Why This Episode Is Crucial for You:
- Uncover the principles behind building a legacy that outlives the trends of our time. It's about shaping a future that remembers your impact.
- Embrace the transformative concept of living and leading with the end in mind. It's more than a strategy; it's a philosophy for meaningful success.
Your Takeaways:
- Practical steps to articulate, share, and implement your vision for a lasting legacy. Because visionary leadership requires clarity and action.
- Strategies for embodying your values and inspiring your team or organization to contribute to this enduring vision. Leadership is a collective journey.
- Insightful examples and reflections that resonate with the challenges and aspirations of modern leaders.
In a landscape saturated with short-term achievements, defining and working towards a legacy sets you apart as a leader of profound impact.
As Always Happy Learning!
'Learning carries within itself certain dangers because out of necessity one has to learn from one's enemies.'
-- Leon Trotsky
#184: On Learning From Enemies
Hey there #leader
This week's episode of '𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲' just dropped.
I want to invite you to explore leadership through a lens you might never have considered before: the invaluable lessons hidden within our competition, our enemies, and yes, our villains.
Dive into the compelling saga of Haman from the Esther narrative. Far more than a mere recount of historical events, this episode is a deep exploration into understanding how adversaries shape us, revealing untapped strengths and unforeseen strategies for both personal and professional growth.
Here's what awaits:
• A fresh perspective on ancient wisdom, demonstrating its relevance and power in addressing today’s leadership challenges. (𝘠𝘦𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵'𝘴 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬...)
• An exploration into the art of turning adversarial dynamics into a catalyst for growth and innovation.
• Practical guidance on crafting a leadership style that is resilient, ethically grounded, and inclusively powerful.
Join me in this exploration and redefine what it means to lead with vision, purpose, and a touch of out-of-box, unconventional wisdom.
'𝘛𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘭𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧, 𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘥; 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘭𝘦 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴, 𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵.'
-- Eleanor Roosevelt
𝟭𝟴𝟯: 𝗢𝗻 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 (𝗦𝟰:𝗘𝟮𝟯)
Ever wondered what makes a leader not just good, but truly great?
𝗦𝗽𝗼𝗶𝗹𝗲𝗿: It's not the loud victories or the flashy successes.
This week, we're diving into the deep end - no floaties - to explore what I call the "𝘀𝘂𝗯𝘁𝗹𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽" through the lens of Moses.
We're skipping past the plagues and sea partings to focus on Moses’ less-talked-about acts of leadership brilliance.
Find out why being a good #listener could be your leadership superpower and how showing your #vulnerable side can actually be your ace in the hole.
Discover the #resilience that turns setbacks into setups for success, why #empowering your #team is like unlocking new levels in a game, and how a curious mind is your best asset.
You’ll learn how Moses's approach to leadership is strikingly relevant for today’s leaders in business and non-profits and he may have been the world's 1st 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿.
So many leadership principles are seen in his experiences, his wins and his learning, why not this one?
What is 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽?
Great question!
Join me and let's redefine your leadership greatness together.
learning #coaching #leadership #growth
𝘍𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘳𝘤𝘢𝘴𝘦.
— Martin Luther King, Jr.
Hey #Leaders-
Ever felt like you’re in a sinking ship and forgot how to swim?
Haven't we all?!?
This week on 𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲, I discussed why having a bit of faith can be your hidden life jacket.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗮𝘀𝗶𝗰𝘀: Even when your project’s doing a Titanic, it's your job to be the calm captain. Remember, Martin Luther King Jr said something super smart about taking steps even when you can’t see the whole staircase. (It's our quote of the week).
𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗜𝘁 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀: From CEOs to local the heroes, we all hit rough waters. This talk isn’t just spiritual; it's about leading with guts when the going gets tough and when people are looking to you to be '𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯.'
We go deep on the following 𝟰-𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽 𝗦𝗢𝗦 𝗣𝗹𝗮𝗻:
1️⃣ 𝗙𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝘂𝗿𝗻: Sit with the mess for a sec. It’s okay to not be okay.
2️⃣ 𝗧𝗶𝗻𝘆 𝗠𝗼𝘃𝗲𝘀: Do one small thing now to steer the ship. Think of it as your leadership cheat code.
3️⃣ 𝗣𝗹𝗮𝗻 𝗕: Have a backup plan. It’s like knowing where the lifeboats are.
4️⃣ 𝗦𝗽𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗶𝗹𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀: Find that one thing that 𝗶𝘀 going right. Yes, there’s always one.
We wrapped up with a gem from Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks,
“𝗙𝗮𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗰𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘆. 𝗜𝘁'𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘂𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘆.”
Basically, it’s okay not to have all the answers.
So, dear founders and C-suite legends, next time your world’s looking a bit dark, flick on the faith light. It might just be the spark you need.
(𝘸𝘰𝘸! 𝘭𝘰𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘸𝘪𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘢𝘱𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬! 😏)
Leadership #Faith #KeepSwimming #CoachingTheBible #StartupLife
'𝘙𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘷𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘥.'
--Harvey Milk
This is Episode #181 (S4:E21) On Managing The Bottom 20%
This episode takes you on an insightful journey, blending the strategic genius of Bill Walsh with an ancient biblical narrative, to uncover the subtleties of managing vocal minorities.
What's Inside?
^ A deep dive into the influence of vocal minorities and their disproportionate impact.
^ Exploration of the psychological, logical, philosophical, and sociological aspects that amplify their voices.
^ Practical strategies for leaders on engaging with and managing vocal minorities, before and after reaching the tipping point.
^ Inspirational examples and a biblical story that bridge the gap between timeless wisdom and contemporary leadership challenges.
Why Listen? In today's fast-paced and diverse environments, understanding the nuanced power of the vocal minority is essential for effective leadership. From the field to the boardroom, and even within ancient narratives, the lessons shared in this episode offer valuable strategies for nurturing inclusive and resilient communities and organizations.
Key Takeaways: Be inspired by the wisdom of Margaret Mead, "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has," alongside Harvey Milk's empowering reminder that "Rights are won only by those who make their voices heard."
Don't miss Episode 181 of "Coaching with the Bible" for a thought-provoking exploration of leadership, influence, and the transformative power of a vocal minority.
Happy Learning!
LeadershipInsights #VocalMinority #Influence #CoachingWithTheBible #Episode181 #StrategicLeadership #CommunityBuilding #ModernWisdom
'You cannot be a leader, and ask other people to follow you, unless you know how to follow, too.'
—Sam Rayburn
This is Episode 180 (S4:E20)
This week we explore the thrilling journey of stepping into a new leadership role. Whether you're at the helm of a business giant or steering a non-profit towards new horizons, this episode is your compass to navigate the uncharted waters of leadership transitions.
Inspired by the timeless wisdom of Sam Rayburn, "You cannot be a leader and ask other people to follow you unless you know how to follow too," we delve into the essence of what it means to now be a new leader. If you're moving into a new role or thinking ahead to when 'that day' arrives, then maybe take a listen here...
From the high stakes of NFL coaching changes to the biblical narrative of Aaron's transition to High Priest, we uncover the complexities, doubts, and exhilarations that accompany new leadership roles. Learn how Aaron's journey from a leader in Egypt to the first High Priest exemplifies the importance of empathy, understanding, and clear role definition in leadership.
Whether you're navigating imposter syndrome, defining new leadership goals, or establishing your leadership style, this episode offers invaluable insights. Discover the critical balance between being a visionary and a servant, and how to embody the leadership your team truly needs.
Happy Learning!
Leadership #NewRole #CoachingWithTheBible #Episode180 #BusinessLeaders #NonProfitLeadership #InspirationalLeadership
'Leaders become great, not because of their power, but because of their ability to empower others.'
--John C Maxwell
This is episode #179: On Creating Leadership Space
This week, we're introducing some fresh changes, including new cover art and a slightly updated format inspired by your valuable feedback. Our journey is always optimizing for growth, innovation, and insightful reflections.
In this week's episode (S4:E19), we'll explore how biblical narratives, like Moses' leadership, offer timeless lessons on empowering others. From delegating the role of 'lead architect' to Bezalel or to inspiring the community in the construction of the Tabernacle, there's a wealth of wisdom to uncover.
Consider this: "Yes or No: Do I make an effort to build up others on my team?" "How can I use my influence to grow emerging leaders?" or "What steps can I take to intentionally increase my team's decision space?" This episode not only poses these pivotal questions but also offers a practical 5-point plan for applying these principles in various aspects of life.
Remember: "Leaders become great not because of their power, but because of their ability to empower others." - John C. Maxwell.
Leadership #CoachingWithTheBible #Empowerment #NewEpisode #CreateSpace
'The best portion of a good man's life: his little, nameless unremembered acts of kindness and love.'
--William Wordsworth
New Episode Alert: Coaching with the Bible - On Preemptive Benevolence 📘✨
Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Coaching with the Bible, Episode 178 (Season 4 Episode 18).
This week we delve into an intriguing concept: Preemptive Benevolence. It's a principle that might sound novel, but its roots and impacts run deep. 🌱
What's Inside? This episode explores the powerful idea of extending kindness and goodwill ahead of time to prevent negative outcomes and foster positive environments. It's about acting with generosity and foresight to create a better future for ourselves and those around us. From personal relationships to community dynamics and workplace culture, we examine how preemptive benevolence can be applied across all areas of life. 🌟
Why It Matters: Beyond its innovative approach, this episode is packed with practical advice, biblical references, and real-life examples that showcase the transformative power of proactive kindness. Learn how to implement this strategy in your own life, understand its biblical roots, and see how it can lead to more effective leadership and a more harmonious society. 💼🕊️
Tune In to discover the essence of preemptive benevolence, its significance in today's world, and how you can start applying it to make a real difference. Whether you're seeking to improve your personal growth, enhance your leadership skills, or simply spread more kindness in the world, this episode has something for you. 🎧🌍💡
Podcast #Leadership #Wisdom #BiblicalInsights #PreemptiveBenevolence #Coaching #Grow #Better
'Leadership is about having principles. A leader must have a vision and principles that will endure for all time and must always be true to these principles, applying them to changing circumstances.'
-- Margaret Thatcher
🎧 In Episode 177, Season 4, Episode 17, we are sharing serious leadership knowledge!
And guess what? We're diving deep into what I think is the ultimate Top 10 Leadership List—the Ten Commandments! 📜💼
We're taking a slightly different approach to the ten that'll have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about leadership.
That's right! This week's topic:
The 10 Commandments & Great Leadership
From Integrity to Visionary Leadership, Emotional Intelligence to Gratitude, each commandment holds the key to unlocking your full leadership potential. 💡💥
So, whether you're a seasoned leader looking to up your game or a newbie eager to make your mark, this episode is your golden ticket to success!
Tune in and get ready to revolutionize the way you lead. Your future self will thank you! 🎤🔥
LeadershipRevolution #CoachingWithTheBible #LevelUpLeadership
'The moral high ground, that just might be the most expensive real estate on earth.’
-- Larry Ellison
On this episode (#176, S4:E16), we'll delve into the intriguing concept of "high ground." Drawing inspiration from a biblical battle against the Amalekites, we'll explore how seizing the high ground goes beyond physical warfare, applying to various aspects of our lives, from leadership and business to personal values and ethics.
🗣️ We'll take you on a journey through history, sharing examples from the Civil War's Battle of Gettysburg to the strategic decisions of Moses in the desert. The metaphorical high ground, representing moral superiority and principled choices, becomes a core value that resonates across different situations.
💡 As we unfold the layers of this powerful concept, we'll learn how seeking the high ground is not just about the physical advantage but also the psychological and ethical dimensions. It's a strategic move that requires support, a clear understanding of core values, and a commitment to lead by example.
🌐 Join us as we explore the timeless wisdom of the Bible and uncover how the principle of taking the high ground can elevate your personal and professional life.
🎧 So, whether you're a leader navigating the complexities of your industry or someone seeking guidance in your personal journey, this episode promises to offer valuable insights that transcend time and circumstances.
CoachingWithTheBible #HighGroundWisdom #Leadership #Values #Growth #PersonalDev 🌟
'There's a trick to the graceful exit. It begins with the vision to recognize when a job, a life stage, a relationship is over- and to let go. It means leaving what's over without denying its value.'-- Ellen Goodman--------------------------------Hi all!This is Episode 175 (S4:E15)Our topic of the week: On How To Make An ExitHappy Learning!
“The most powerful symbols are not those created by paper and ink. They are the ones we keep forever in our hearts.”
– Vera Nazarian
Hi all!
This is Episode 174 (S4:E14)
Topic of the Week: On The Power Of Symbols
Happy Learning!
'Our opponents maintain that we are confronted with insurmountable political obstacles, but that may be said of the smallest obstacle if one has no desire to surmount it.'
-- Theodor Herzl
Hi all!
This is Episode 173 (S4:E13)
Our topic of the week: On Overcoming The Insurmountable
Happy Learning!
'To build a strong team you must see someone else's strength as a complement to your weakness and not a threat to your position and authority.'
--Christine Caine
This is episode 172 (S4:E12)
Topic of the Week: On Seeding The Future
Happy Learning!
'If you want a guarantee in life, get a toaster.'
-- Clint Eastwood
This is Episode 171 (S4:E11)
Our topic of the week: On Guarantees
'Helping other people can be a cure not just for those who are in need but for your soul as well.'-- Marinela Reka
This is episode 170 (S4:E10)Our topic of the week: On Helping Others Heal
If there is someone in your life right now (spouse, child, sibling, neighbor, co-worker, partner, etc) who is in pain and trying to heal, this is a great moment for you to be there for them.
No judgment.
Happy Learning!
'Physical strength is measured by what we carry. Inner strength is measured by what we can bear.'
– Anonymous
Happy Chanukah to all who are celebrating this week!
This is Episode 169 (S4:E9)
Topic of the week: On Developing Inner Strength
Happy Learning!
“To put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must first put the family in order; to put the family in order, we must first cultivate our personal life; we must first set our hearts right.”
--Confucius
This is Episode 168 (S4:E8)
Our topic of the week: On Unpacking The Moral Argument
Happy Learning
“In the end, Tipping Points are a reaffirmation of the potential for change and the power of intelligent action. Look at the world around you. It may seem like an immovable, implacable place. It is not. With the slightest push—in just the right place—it can be tipped.”
--Malcolm Gladwell
This is episode 167 (S4:E7)
Topic of the Week: On Tipping Points
Exploring what it is that 'tips' Jacob's decision to return home after so many years...
'Decisions are the hardest thing to make, especially when it is a choice between where you should be and where you want to be.'
--Unknown
Hi all.
This is Episode 166 (S4:E6)
Our topic of the week: On Making Moral Decisions
Enjoy!
'Words have the power to heal and enslave, uplift and destroy. Our words have the power to construct entire worlds or bring existing ones to ruin. They are perhaps the most potent tool humanity has been given. We would all do well to use them with just a little more care.'
--Nicholas DiNapoli
Episode 165 (S4:E5)
Topic of the Week: On Making The Case
“Few men are willing to brave the disapproval of their peers, the censure of their colleagues, the wrath of their society. Moral courage is a rarer commodity than bravery in battle or great intelligence. Yet it is the one essential, vital quality for those who seek to change a world that yields most painfully to change.”
-- Robert F. Kennedy------------------------------------------
This is Episode 164 (S4:E4)
Topic of the Week: Moral Courage
'You ask what is our policy. I will say, it is to wage war with all our might, with all the strength that God can give us, to wage war against a monstrous tyranny never surpassed in the dark, lamentable catalogue of human crime.
Yu ask what is our aim? I can answer in one word: Victory. Victory at all costs. Victory in spite of all terror. Victory however long and hard the road may be. For without victory there is no survival.'
--Winston Churchill
Episode 163 (S4:E3)
Topic of the Week: On How To Fight
'Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Episode 162 (S4:E2)
Topic: On Spreading Light
'The biggest threat to our wellbeing is the absence of moral clarity and purpose.'
-- Rich Shuman
This is Episode 161 (S4:E1) On Moral Clarity
'𝘖𝘱𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘮 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵.'
--Helen Keller
This is 𝗘𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟲𝟬 (𝗦𝟯:𝗘𝟱𝟭)
Our Topic: 𝗢𝗻 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗔𝗻 𝗢𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘀𝘁...
Hi all!!
This week's episode completes Rd 3 of Coaching With The Bible. Congrats to all and thank you to all who have been with us each week: listening, sharing insights, posing questions, and being a source of encouragement and inspiration.
I appreciate all of you.
I do not take it as a given that you would give me your time and your attention each week when those could be spent in other places! So thank you!
It's true... I am an optimist.
I may appear to be a grouch or a curmudgeon at first, but int here is an eternal optimist...
How else could I have attempted fundraising for a living...getting turned down by potential donors and prospects on a consistent basis...
Believing in the cause is great, but it can get hard to move forward and just 'keep going,' that's where the optimist comes out:
it is covered over sometimes by what appears to be belief or confidence and while that's true, at its core, it is a mix of faith, belief, resilience, discipline, and a heavy and healthy dose of optimism that 'next time' or the 'next one' will work out and 'be the one'...
So my question for you is this:
^ Where and when are you the optimist or the pessimist?
^ What about each situation makes you one or the other?
^ Why do you think that to be true about you?
Join me as we begin to explore being an optimist.
Enjoy!
'𝘐𝘵 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘦𝘹𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘰 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘪𝘯. 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘷𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘵, 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺. 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘧𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘪𝘨 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴. 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘢𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘢𝘯. 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘱𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘥… 𝘔𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥, 𝘐 𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘧𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘰 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘪𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦.'
--Nikki Banas
𝗘𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟱𝟵: 𝗢𝗻 𝗚𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗔𝗹𝗹 𝗜𝗻
Happy Holiday to those celebrating!
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Quick question: What are things in life that you are 'all in' on? 🤔
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Quick follow-up: Why? 🤔
Enjoy!
“𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 (𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘴) 𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘱𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘵. 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴: 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘧𝘭𝘢𝘸𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘦. 𝘉𝘶𝘵, 𝘮𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘭𝘺, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘢𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘶𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘦.”
- E.L. Worthington
This is Episode 158
So, you messed up, again, huh?
Made some choices that would make even a reality TV star blush?
Said something no one should say?
Well, don't worry, we've all been there. It's called being human.
But what do you do when you've got to forgive the one person who's hardest to forgive – yourself?
Forgiving yourself for your flaws, errors, mistakes, and blunders, maybe one of the hardest things you will ever do (and on a regular basis!)
I don't think it ever gets easier, but how do we do it?
We'll focus on two questions today:
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What is the process to self-forgiveness?
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Why is it so hard to do?
Happy listening!
“𝙏𝙤 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙞𝙨𝙝 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙬𝙚 𝙢𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙘𝙩 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙢, 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙥𝙡𝙖𝙣 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙫𝙚.”
– Anatole France
Episode 157: 𝗢𝗻 𝗠𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴
Wishing you a year of happiness and health, joy and laughter, success, blessing and significance, love and impact every day and at all times.
'You must not think a man has lived long because he has white hair and wrinkles: he has not lived long, just existed long.'
- Seneca
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🎙️ Episode 156 of "Coaching with the Bible" is here, and we're ready to explore the contrast between merely "being alive" and authentically "actively living." 🚀
Let me explain:
Life often 'just happens' and we go from Sunday to Saturday in a coma-like trance. Routine... Uggh!!!
We slip (sometimes numb) into autopilot mode: plodding along, day after day...maybe we notice it and maybe we don't.
At the same time, we know there's another way because we see it shows itself (hopefully) in certain moments in our life (but maybe not enough of the time): the full-throttle adventure of existence! 🌪️
Imagine waking up every day with boundless enthusiasm, prepared to conquer life's challenges head-on.
That's what "actively living" is all about and that's what I'm thinking and talking about right now.
It's about savoring moments and chasing your passions with relentless determination as if it were your last bite of the juiciest burger on the planet. 🍔✨ (LOVE a good burger!)
In this episode, we're going to talk about what it means to be 'alive' and what it would mean to be 'living'.
For you, it may mean unlocking the secrets that'll make the shift from the humdrum to the extraordinary.
Maybe it's injecting spontaneity into your routine, smashing through those comfort zones, and using setbacks as springboards to incredible comebacks. 💥💪
So, grab your headphones and join me on this exploration.
It's time to liberate yourself from the shackles of monotony and start living life as the thrilling adventure it truly is! 🌄🌟
Tune in now, and let's explore together. 🎧🙌 #ActivelyLiving #CoachingWithTheBible #Episode156
'𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗯𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗮𝗿, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗯𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱. 𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝗯𝗼𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗼𝗱𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝗮𝗿𝘆. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻.'
―𝘏𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘳 𝘙𝘪𝘤𝘦
️Welcome back to "Coaching with the Bible," Episode 155 - "𝗢𝗻 𝗠𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻."
In this week's episode, we're turning our sights toward understanding what motivates us.🚀
We'll cover some of the science, psychology, and real-world tactics to supercharge our motivation.
But we'll go a bit deeper and see what the first steps for better motivation can and should be. It's not what you think!🤔
No fluff, just real tools to unlock your potential, achieve your goals, and find more happiness in the journey. 📈✨
So, grab your notepad, hit play, and let's master motivation together. 🎧💪
motivation #action #learning #growth #coaching #personal_dev #leadership #indistractable #atomic_habits
'𝘋𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳, 𝘥𝘰 𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳'
-- Maya Angelou
🎙️ 𝗘𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟱𝟰🎙️
Welcome, friends, to another episode of "Coaching with the Bible"! In today's session, we're diving deep into the art of getting #better. Simple as that! 🌱
It's totally possible to be the 'CEO' of your life getting and being better, and it starts with embracing the power of being better. Sounds nice, but what does that even mean?
We're going to break down practical ways to elevate your life, both personally and professionally.
Sometimes, though it's the little things that make the biggest impact. We're talking about those everyday moments – the nods, smiles, and "how are you's" – that can turn the dial on your relationships. We will talk about how these simple and sometimes small gestures can ripple through your life.
Ready to get your hands on some actionable steps? We'll keep it real, simple, and effective.
And remember, it's not about instant transformation; it's about consistent progress.
Tune in to Episode 154 as we go deep into the magic of becoming a better version of yourself.
Join us for insights, inspiration, and a sprinkle of wisdom from the ages. It's all about embracing growth and walking the path to self-improvement, one step at a time.
Stay tuned, stay curious, and let's grow better! 🌱🌟
personaldevelopment #growth #learning #improvement #leadership #coaching #small_actions
🎙️ Welcome to a another episode of "Coaching with the Bible" (Episode 152).
Today, we're about to embark on a journey into uncharted territory – the realm of leaders and their vacations!
We'll explore how this much-needed escape can transform not just your bucket list of places visited, but your overall success...at work!
In this episode, we're diving deep into the boundless ocean of vacation's influence.
Q: Is it a mere getaway, or a powerful rite of passage that shapes your narrative?
We're unraveling the secrets behind the rejuvenating magic of vacation for everyone on the team.
But we're not stopping there! We're putting on our coaching gear to navigate the intriguing crossroads of relaxation and ambition.
Q; Can a vacation truly re-calibrate your destiny, or is it a mere pause in life's grand symphony? Get ready for eye-opening insights from both modern thinkers and ancient wisdom that'll leave you better contemplating your next journey.
So, fasten your seat-belts for Episode 152 of "Coaching with the Bible."
Should be fun!
Let's embark on this audio adventure together! 🎧🏝️🗺️
Coaching #Learning #Leadership #SuccessStrategies #CEOInsights #ModernWisdom #CoachingWithTheBible #RechargeLikeACEO
"𝘍𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘱𝘵, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺."
- Matshona Dhliwayo
🎙️ Welcome back to another exciting episode of 𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝗯𝗹𝗲 (𝗘𝟭𝟱𝟭)!
Today, we're diving into the topic of #fate, #geography, and the epic showdown between 𝗽𝗿𝗲-𝗱𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗮𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗰𝘆. Buckle up, because we're about to unravel the age-old mystery of how where you're born and the choices you make do and don't play a role in your life's grand adventure!
In this episode, we'll explore the intriguing interplay between geography and fate. Is it written in the stars where you're born, or is it all just a roll of the dice? We'll explore some of our beliefs and dive into a specific example based on a trip I went on this week with my son where the place of birth has shaped destinies, along with some trailblazing souls who defied the odds.
But wait, there's more! We'll step into some coaching (of course!) to tackle the ultimate face-off: pre-determined action vs. personal agency. Does fate pull the strings, or can we grab destiny by the horns and steer it our way?
Let's dive in! 🎧🌎💫
"In the realm of communication, words are merely the tip of the iceberg. Delve deeper, and you'll find the wealth of meaning hidden in the nuances of non-verbal expression."
- Unknown
Episode 150: "On Reading Between The Lines (Non-Verbal Communication)"
🎙️ Welcome back to "Coaching with the Bible," the podcast that delves into timeless wisdom and practical insights for becoming exceptional leaders in the modern world! 🌟
Today, we're exploring a topic that can elevate your leadership to new heights: the art of non-verbal communication. 🤫
Picture this: Solomon, the wise king, ruling with a mere nod of his head. Okay, maybe not exactly like that, but let's be honest - non-verbal cues can be incredibly impactful in leadership. It's like having a divine superpower that doesn't need a fancy cape! 💫
We'll discuss some eye-opening data and real-world examples that demonstrate how mastering non-verbal communication can make you a magnetic leader, someone whom people are drawn to like a moth to a flame. 🔥😉
Join me as we explore the subtle nuances of body language, the power of eye contact, and the divine dance of gestures that can convey volumes without saying a word.
So, tune in and prepare to unlock the secrets of non-verbal communication. We'll share practical tips, celestial insights, and ancient wisdom from the Bible that will empower you to lead with a new presence. ✨
'𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘰𝘵 ‘𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳’ 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘢 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯𝘦; 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘵. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘳𝘦𝘣𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘥. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘦 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦. 𝘕𝘰𝘳 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦, 𝘯𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰.'
— Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
This is Episode 149 (S3:E40)
Welcome back to another episode of 'Coaching with the Bible.'
In this episode, we delve into a profoundly relevant and sensitive topic that every leader may encounter on their journey: being the guiding force during times of grief and mourning.
For the Jewish community, this time of year holds particular significance as it marks a period of solemn reflection and mourning for the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.
As we embark on this episode, we find timeless and timely lessons within the pages of the Bible that offer valuable insights into how leaders can navigate and support their teams through these turbulent and difficult moments.
Grief is a natural and inevitable aspect of life, touching every individual at some point on their path. As leaders, it falls upon us to not only guide our teams through the highs and lows of everyday challenges but also to be a steady anchor when they face personal loss and heartache.
In today's discussion, we'll explore the psychology of grief and mourning, understanding why this process is essential, how people work through it, and why it can ultimately be a catalyst for personal growth and enhanced leadership.
Let us embrace the seriousness of the subject, while also acknowledging the hope and growth that can emerge from navigating grief together.
“𝘊𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦. 𝘎𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘨𝘦𝘵, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦'𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘺 𝘭𝘦𝘧𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶.” — Don Berwick
𝗘𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟰𝟴 (𝗦𝟯:𝗘𝟯𝟵)
In this week's episode, get ready to dive into the art of 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗱𝗶𝘁, a practice that can work miracles in transforming teams and taking your leadership game to divine heights.
We all know that sharing credit is like exchanging heavenly high-fives ✋, but have you ever wondered about the profound benefits it brings to both the team and the leader?
Well, hold on tight because we're about to unravel the secrets and equip you with the essential skills and tools to become a true master of credit-giving.
Before we plunge into the depths, let's pause and reflect on the immeasurable value of giving credit. It's like adding rocket fuel to motivation and engagement, igniting collaboration, and constructing a fortress of trust and loyalty within your organization.
Giving credit isn't just a nice gesture; it's a strategic power move 👊 that propels your team's success while propelling your own growth as a leader.
In this episode, we'll delve into the playbook of credit-giving champions like Abraham and David. We'll explore vital skills, from the art of active listening to the magic of timely recognition.
Let's get ready to let the credit rain down! 😉 ☂️ So, stay tuned, buckle up, and let's embark on this mystical journey of giving others credit.
Let's go!
'When you are laboring for others let it be with the same zeal as if it were for yourself.'
--Confucius
In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that will have you on the edge of your seat: Zealotry! 😮🔥
Now, I know what you're thinking, "Zealotry? Isn't that a bit... extreme?" Well, buckle up because we're about to uncover the remarkable potential hidden within this charged word.
Picture this: Phineas, the biblical zealot who fearlessly defended God's commandments, and Elijah, the fiery prophet who challenged the status quo and faced down false gods. These two larger-than-life characters embody the spirit of zealotry—intense devotion to their cause.
Take a listen as we explore the pros and cons of zealotry, its positive and negative dimensions, and how it can change the way you lead in today's world. 🌍
We'll uncover practical strategies inspired by these biblical figures and share real-life anecdotes that will leave you inspired and ready to take action!
We'll also delve into the dangers of unchecked zealotry, from the pitfalls of close-mindedness to the perils of extremism.
Zealotry: It's A Balancing Act!
So, whether you're a budding leader, an aspiring change-maker, or simply seeking a little extra zeal in your life, "Coaching with the Bible" has got you covered.
This is "Coaching with the Bible," Episode 147! 🌟✨
'Solitude is the soul's holiday, an opportunity to stop doing for others and to surprise and delight ourselves instead.'
- Katrina Kenison
Episode 146 (S3:E37)
In this week's episode, we delve into the concept of solitude—its profound benefits and practical methods to invite more of it into your life.
Our jumping-off point is the notion that the people of Israel were destined to dwell in solitude. But what does that mean for us today?
Join me as we unlock the transformative potential of solitude, right here, right now.
Discover the remarkable benefits of solitude that transcend time and culture. We'll touch on how embracing solitude can foster creativity, clarity, and enhancing decision. How making time to find a few regular moments of inner peace, will help you thrive in an increasingly noisy and demanding world.
But how do you actually bring more solitude into your life? I'll share a few tips and strategies that anyone can begin to implement, today. From scheduling intentional "me time" to creating a sanctuary of solitude, you'll gain actionable steps to cultivate moments of deep reflection and self-discovery.
So, grab your earbuds, airpods or headphones and join me on this week's episode of "Coaching with the Bible."
Let's dive in!
'All the adversity I've had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me... You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.'
--Walt Disney
Episode 145 (S3:E36) is here!
Our topic: Adversity
(No time this week for a long intro! 😀 )
𝘛𝘰 𝘦𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘦, 𝘸𝘦 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘸𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴.
-Tony Robbins
𝗚𝗲𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗲: 𝗘𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟰𝟰 - 𝗢𝗻 𝗕𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗔 𝗚𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗰𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘀 🎙️🔊
Tune in as we explore the realm of extraordinary communication and discover who truly reigns as the greatest communicators in the world. While Oprah, MLK Jr., and Churchill may come to mind, we'll even throw in a wildcard contender – Mr Beast! 🌟
🤔 What sets these exceptional communicators apart from the rest? What skills do they possess, develop, or avoid?
Join us on this thought-provoking journey as we unravel the secrets of their success.
In this week's episode of Coaching With The Bible, we delve deep into the compelling story of Moses and his remarkable response to the rebellion of Korach, Dathan, Abiram, and the 250 leaders.
🌪️💬 Discover how Moses navigated this tense and anxious moment, and gain invaluable insights on how we can handle similar challenges in our own lives – whether at home, at work, or within our community.
Don't miss out on this insightful conversation that blends ancient wisdom with practical application. Join us for Episode 144: Season 3, Episode 35, and unlock the power of effective communication, just like Moses did. 🎧✨
CoachingWithTheBible #GreatCommunicators #EffectiveCommunication #MosesAndKorachRebellion #tonyrobbins #greatcommunicators #coachingwiththebible #leadership #moses #korach
'𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘢𝘳𝘺 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘳. 𝘓𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘳 𝘯𝘰𝘵, 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘫𝘰𝘣 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘵𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘨𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘺 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘳𝘦, 𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨.'
— Iyanla Vanzant
Hey everyone! 🌟
I'm curious to know - what are the things that trigger you? 🤔
Understanding the 'why,' the 'when', the 'who' and the 'how' behind those triggers can help us work on improving our response to them.
Two threads in this week's reading brought this subject to mind for me:
^ The mental and emotional state of the people before, during and after the spies go on their mission
^ The color blue on the '𝘵𝘻𝘪𝘵𝘻𝘪𝘵' (fringes) of a person's 4 cornered garment (mentioned way at the end!)
This is Episode 𝟭𝟰𝟯 (S3:E34) and we are talking about #Triggering this week!
So, let's dive deep:
^ Why do you think those triggers affect you?
and
^How can we work to overcome them? 💪
KnowYourTriggers #PersonalGrowth #LetsGrowTogether
'Nothing important was ever accomplished without chutzpah. Columbus had chutzpah. The signers of the Declaration of Independence had chutzpah. Don't ever aim doubt at yourself. Laugh at yourself, but don't doubt yourself.'
— Alan Alda
Episode 142 (S3:E33) is here!
This week we dive deeper into the story of what was to become known as '2nd Passover'. Specifically, our focus is in their request in the first place!
Our topic: Chutzpah
Why?
Because what lives at the foundation and core of their question, 'why should we be any less', is a deep belief and hope that there is a solution, and a satisfactory one at that! Their hope/belief stems from almost nothing. There would appear to be no source and no basis for the question, itself.
It is, to use a phrase I once heard from Professor Ruth Wisse, a 'monumental chutzpah!'
So then our focus this week:
^ What is chutzpah and its English language counterpart 'audacity'?
^ What makes for an audacious leader?
^ How can we implement chutzpah more positively and more regularly in our own lives?
Happy learning!
'It takes a wise man to learn from his mistakes, but an even wiser man to learn from others.'
--Zen Proverb
This week I'm asking a basic question: how do you learn from others?
Meaning, there is so so much that we are observing of the lives and experiences of others, and I wonder as to the following two things:
- how well we are paying attention to it
- how much we are 'pulling' from it into our own lives vs dismissing or ignoring it outright
Think about how many people you are around each day in a good number of situations and how well or poorly they handle those moments and then how you might handle it...
I don't know about you, but I think about this a lot.
As much of the literature on this subject stated, albeit jokingly we don't have enough time in our lives to make all the mistakes and learn all the lessons.
This week on Coaching With The Bible, Episode #141 (S3:E32): On Learning From Others
Drop me a comment about how you learn from others or create an environment for others to learn from you.
Enjoy and happy learning!
'Personal mastery is the discipline of continually clarifying and deepening our personal vision, of focusing our energies, of developing patience, and of seeing reality objectively.'
--Peter Senge
We've all heard the phrase 'jack of all trades, master of none'.
I think it's one of the saddest quotes of all time!
Think about it.
The person in the quote has 'skills' and in many areas, just has never gotten 'it all together' and doesn't have even one thing to really call his or her own!
Sad!
I want to hope that each of us finds something that we are in fact a 'master' of, whatever it may be: athletic success, scholarship, kindness, or leadership.
No one should go through life feeling that they don't have a full grasp of anything they can call 'their own.' Yet, I do think that many people do go through life that way.
This week's episode, #140 (S3:31), takes a look at the concept of Mastery.
We ask the question:
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What does it take to become a master of something?
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Do we really need 10k hours of work to get there?
- Is there a tried and true path in the research that we can follow to become a master?
Our jumping-off point this week is the 6th chapter of the Mishnaic text, Ethics of The Fathers, known as 'Acquisition of Torah,' and the list of 48 ways that a person can use to become a Bible (Torah) scholar (ie 'master'). It's an amazing list of attributes, efforts, skills, etc and in truth, it can be used in basically every walk of life where a person wants to become a master.
Looking forward to it! I hope you are too!
Happy Learning!
𝘈𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘳, 𝘪𝘧 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘥, 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘵𝘰 𝘶𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘫𝘶𝘳𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘷𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘵.'--𝘚𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘢
Hello All!
This is 𝗘𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝟭𝟯𝟵 (𝗦𝟯:𝗘𝟯𝟬)
We finish the 3rd Book of Moses, Leviticus, for the 3rd time together! Exciting stuff!
So, what gets you angry?
What are the things in your life that trigger your wrath, rage, and fury?
Is it always true?
Does the same situation or person ALWAYS make you angry or is it sometimes but not others?
If so, why?
Why do you get angry at all? What's at the root of it?
We know in the bible that Moses gets angry and that even God shows anger, too.
It does not appear to be a sin, but what can we make of it?
So join me this week as we explore: 𝗔𝗻𝗴𝗲𝗿
^ What makes us angry?
^ What are the tactics and strategies that we can use to manage, reduce or even rid ourselves of anger?
Happy Learning!
“Sometimes the most scenic roads in life are the detours you didn't mean to take.”
― Angela N. Blount
This is Episode 138 (S3:E29)
Our topic of the week: On Unexpected Opportunity
I think we all have an idea about the direction of our lives.
We go to school. Major in a particular subject. Get a job. Move up. Try to make some money. Pay for life. Maybe meet someone along the way. Build a family. Make a home. Etc
It's a well-beaten path. We 'know' how it's supposed to go.
But what happens when it doesn't go that way? What happens when life gets in the way?
What happens when 'Option A' is no longer and you have to live 'Option B'?
Let's go one step further: what if you have to choose to live 'Option B' rather than having some circumstance dictate it for you? Ie it's your doing, your choice...
It's hard. Yet, we see it all the time.
How do you cope? What are the mechanisms you use to move forward?
Is there an alternative way to see it? Can you see it as what could be considered an 'unexpected opportunity' or a 'second chance'?
Does that change anything? Our mindest or our actions? Our level of happiness?
We go there by deviating a bit from the portion of the week and talking about an event that took place thousands of years ago on this date (Hebrew date) known as the 'Second Passover.'
Happy Learning!
'Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that...'
- Rev Dr Martin Luther King Jr
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Hi all!
I got a bit of a late start in prepping this week. Sorry about that!
This week, Episode 137 (S3:E28)
Our topic: On Hating Others
Hate is a terrible thing. It impacts us all, and only negatively. It hurts our bodies, minds and souls. It kills relationships and destroys societies.
Yet, we all have experienced and likely have felt some form of it (maybe even right now).
While we can't cover all of this subject in one episode, this week we'll focus on our hating of other people.
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Why we do it
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What it does to us
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A set of tactics and strategies to reduce if not remove the hate we may feel.
I am super curious to learn how you deal with hate in your own lives, so drop a comment and let me know a strategy, an approach, or a way forward.
Happy Learning!
'I think probably kindness is my number one attribute in a human being. I’ll put it before any of the things like courage, or bravery, or generosity, or anything else… Kindness—that simple word. To be kind—it covers everything, to my mind. If you’re kind that’s it.'
--Roald Dahl
So, when was the last time you did a random act of kindness for someone?
Or
When was the last time you could have acted kindly for someone and didn't?
This week... Episode 136 (S3:E27): On Kindness
We are continuing our work on The Ethics of the Fathers. This week chapter 2
It is true that 'Kindness begets kindness.'
The question we want to work on is 'How do I become a kinder person'?
That's a real question for me as I don't think of myself as the kindest guy around (I can admit that about myself...I'm working on it!), and I often feel that I am not aware of the opportunities for greater kindness that are around me...
and maybe for you too...
Happy learning!
'While I made my living as a coach, I have lived my life to be a mentor- and to be mentored!-constantly. Everything in the world has been passed down. Every piece of knowledge is something that has been shared by someone else. If you understand it as I do, mentoring becomes your true legacy. It is the greatest inheritance you can give to others. It is why you get up every day- to teach and be taught.'
-- John Wooden
Hi all!
Welcome back! I hope you had a great great holiday.
Quick question as always to get us started:
^ Who do you consider 'mentors' in your life?
Ok, what makes those individuals a mentor vs being a teacher or a coach? Is there a difference?
^ What value have they brought to your life/ impact have they had on you?
This week, in Episode 135 (S3:E26), we'll begin a conversation on Mentors.
We'll take a detour from the portion of the week and dip our toes in the classic work known as 'Ethics of the Fathers', a tractate of the Mishna that quotes hundreds of what you might call 'mottos', 'words to live by' or in the modern day, 'personal hashtags' of the most famous sages from the 1st thru (approx) 4th century.
As always, happy learning, and let me know what I missed and should have discussed.
'I know but one freedom and that is the freedom of the mind'
--Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
As always a question to start with:
- Where in your life do you experience the most freedom?
--> Is that while at work or at play?
--> Is that while reading and studying or on a run?
If we dipped our toe into slavery last week, then this week: Freedom.
This is Episode 134 (S3:E25)
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How do we develop a greater sense of freedom in our lives?
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What are the actionable steps we can take today to have more freedom, and perhaps more importantly, what would that mean for me?
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What would that look like or feel like?
Happy Learning and Happy Holidays Everyone!
'Mental slavery is the worst form of Slavery. It gives you the illusion of freedom, makes you trust, love and defend your oppressor while making an enemy of those who are trying to free you or open your eyes!'
--Unknown
What are the things in life that hold you back?
^ Is it your past bad experience?
^ Maybe it's something someone once said to you and it stuck.
^ Maybe it was just something negative that you began to think about yourself and now it's 'true'?
All 3 statements/questions belong to a category of negative self-talk related to 'limiting beliefs.'
You are, on some level, suffering from a 'slavery of the mind'.
It is true that even after a person is physically no longer a slave to anyone or anything he or she can and likely still is mentally enslaved by whatever it was.
Take the story of the people of Israel upon their leaving Egypt. They were no longer slaves. They were physically free. How about in their mind and their soul? Were they 'there' yet?
Mental slavery or as others call it psychological slavery is something that holds so many of us back from achieving great success in our lives.
Let's explore as we continue our series on 'Coaching With The Seder'
This is Episode 133 (S3:E24)
Our topic: On Slavery
Happy Learning!
'Life is filled with unanswered questions, but it is the courage to seek those answers that continues to give meaning to life.'
-- J.D. Stroube
Well, if last week we spoke about questions then this week is obviously going to be about answers!
This is Episode 132 (S3:E23)
Our topic: On Answers
As much as the Passover Seder IS about questions as we discussed last week, it is ALSO about sharing timeless and timely answers.
They are the kinds of answers that have connected with us from the beginning and still hit home with us today.
But, how do we (generally speaking) go about answering questions?
What is our approach? Do we have one? Perhaps we don't...yet
And
Curious: When was the last time 'I don't know' was your answer to a question?
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Feedback, please! Let me know how I'm doing, how I can improve, or what subjects you'd like to hear about! Thanks!
“To ask is to believe that somewhere there is an answer. The fact that throughout history people have devoted their lives to extending the frontiers of knowledge is a compelling testimony to the restlessness of the human spirit and its constant desire to go further, higher, deeper. Far from faith excluding questions, questions testify to faith – that history is not random, that the universe is not impervious to our understand, that what happens to us is not blind chance. We ask, not because we doubt, but because we believe.”
--Rabbi Jonathan Sacks
This is Episode 131 (S3:E22)
Our topic of the week: On Questions
When was the last time a question that someone asked you stopped you in your tracks? Left you speechless? Without an answer?
Now, the opposite.
When was the last time you asked a jaw-dropping question of someone else? Not to embarrass or make them feel bad, but more so to draw out a new perspective or a different answer.
In coaching, I get to ask a lot of people a lot of questions and then have great conversations about goals, success, failure, process, blockages, mindset, and more.
It's one of the more interesting and gratifying parts of the work.
But how about you? What questions do you ask? What questions are you asked?
The questions move us forward and give us the opportunity to challenge, to rethink, to unlock and to grow all at the same time.
This week, we talk a bit about the questions and forget about the answers for a while.
Happy Learning!
'There are no small parts, only small actors.'
- Konstantin Stanislavski
Q: In which relationships in your life are you 'the lead' and in which are you a 'supporter actor' or a 'bit player'?
I know, seems like an odd question, but the truth is that at every moment we are managing different roles for different people in our lives.
This week we go deeper into the idea that it's ok at times to not be 'the lead' and that the smaller role we play is not actually small at all.
The key for us is appreciating when and where we lead and where we don't
AND
perhaps equally as important is appreciating who is now or has in the past played those roles for us.
This is episode 130 (S3:E21)
Our topic: On Supporting Roles
Happy Learning!
'Everything that is past is either a learning experience to grow on, a beautiful memory to reflect on, or a motivating factor to act upon.'
--Denis Waitley
What's the first thing you remember in your life? Your first/earliest memory?
Not a simple question!
Now, do you actually remember it happening or do you know that it happened and more so remember people around you talking about it so often that it's 'become' a memory?
Almost imprinted on your mind...
I think I have a pretty good memory (not even sure what that means anymore!), but I had a hard time with that question...
It's questions like that that we'll explore in this week's episode of Coaching With The Bible!
Hi all!
This is Episode 129 (S3:E20)
Our topic: On Memory & Remembering
Happy Learning!
For those celebrating this week: HAPPY PURIM!
'Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence.'
-Vince Lombardi
Hi all!
This is episode 128 (S3:E19)
Happy Adar! Purim is on the way! woot woot!!!
Our topic this week: Perfection
Simple question: Have you ever not started something because you knew that in the end, it would not be perfect?
Another simple question: Have you stopped pursuing an idea, a project, or an opportunity because you felt that it wasn't 'just so'?
I imagine the answer to both for most of us is 'yes'.
Why? Because for whatever reason we are conditioned to believe that 'perfect' is a thing that we can achieve and on occasion, it creeps in and stops us from going after what is real: excellence.
Let's dive in.
Happy Learning!
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform (or pause and reflect).”
― Mark Twain
This is Episode 127 (S3:18)
Our topic this week: Following The Majority
Picture 2 moments in your mind:
The first, where you followed the crowd simply because they were doing something (good or bad), but without any real thought as to why you were there.
The second, where you DID NOT follow the crowd and you held your ground, stayed with your logic, reasoning, and point of view.
^ What was the difference?
^ Why in the first did you follow and in the second you did not?
THOSE are this week's questions and discussion!
Happy Learning!
'The vision is true north for the soul. It is a permanent, intuitive compass direction for a human being. Every person inevitably strays from the path. Life is an endless experiment and course correction. The vision brings one back to the true path.'
--Thomas G. Bandy
Hi all!
This is Episode 126 (S3:E17)
Our topic of the week: Sinai
Not simply what happened at Sinai. I think we all know that part.
^ But what does Sinai mean for us in the day-to-day?
^ Have we experienced our own 'Sinai' moments?
^ What impact has those moments had on our life?
^ Do they direct us, orient us, and anchor us when we have to make decisions?
^ Do we leave them in the past purely as memory?
In this week's episode, I'd like to introduce you to the term 'Sinaitic experience' and the concept of 'true north.' I am not the author of either though I am intrigued by both. I hope you will be, too.
Happy Learning!
'Singing provides a true sense of lightheartedness. If I sing when I am alone, I feel wonderful. It's freedom.'
--Andrea Bocelli
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Hi all!
This is Episode 125 (S3:E16)
Our topic this week: On Singing
The Bible this week tells the tale of the crossing of the sea and the subsequent Song of the Sea recited EVERY SINGLE DAY during the morning Jewish prayer.
It's a fascinating thing to me to imagine what the scene must have been like at the sea, hearing 2mm people reciting a song in unison.
The power, the spirit, the energy, the emotion, the freedom.
^ Where does that come from?
^ Why do we sing?
^ What can we take away from here?
So much to learn! Enjoy!
'Compassion is an act of tolerance where kindness and forgiveness reign. When we make the compassionate choice, we enhance the dignity of each individual, which is the very essence of loving them.'
--Leo Buscaglia
Hi all!
This is Episode 124 (S3:E15)
This week we read the story of the last 3 plagues, the commandment of the Paschal lamb and the exodus (Parshat Bo).
Our topic: On Compassion
We will dive real deep into an act of kindness not found in the text, but in the famous commentary of Rabbi Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin, known as Netziv, that takes place literally in the dark.
This singular act will set us on the journey to try and begin to understand what it means to be compassionate.
Super, uber interesting!
Happy Learning!
'Accountability and self-responsibility are critical to our in personal, professional, and public life. However, we often look for those character traits in others, rather than inculcating them in ourselves.'
--Vishwas Chavan
Hi all!
This is Episode 123 (S3:E14)
I hope you had a great week!
Our portion of the week is Va'era
Our topic of the week is: On When The Boss Is A Dictator
How many of us have worked for a 'Pharoah' in our day?
The boss who takes all the credit, dismisses all the blame, points fingers, fires at will, listens to no one...
I bet it's a lot of us!
So this got me thinking about what it might have been like to be a magician or advisor in the court of the most powerful person on the planet: Pharoah.
Could you argue or disagree without consequence?
Could you have alternate ideas?
Could you yell, rant, rave, and scream at such a supreme leader?
Amazingly, the answer would appear to be: YES!
And that got me thinking about how best to live with or survive in a difficult work situation.
Could you even thrive in such a place?
How?
Happy Learning!
'Don't think about why you question, simply don't stop questioning. Don't worry about what you can't answer, and don't try to explain what you can't know. Curiosity is its own reason. Aren't you in awe when you contemplate the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure behind reality? And this is the miracle of the human mind - to use its constructions, concepts, and formulas as tools to explain what man sees, feels and touches. Try to comprehend a little more each day. Have holy curiosity.'
--Albert Einstein
Hi All!
This is Episode 122 (S3:E13)
We begin Book #2! The Book of Exodus and the story of the formation of the People of Israel, from slavery to freedom, from a nation of tribes to the chosen nation.
Our topic this week: On Curiosity
All week I have been thinking about this topic and I think we generally both overlook and undervalue its importance.
At the heart of our creativity, our freedom, our thinking, and our success is the quality/value/skill of curiosity.
But I wonder, how much time do we give ourselves to continue to develop it, to cultivate it, to grow it?
If this is so vital to who we are (and I think it is), why don't we spend more time understanding it and working on it?
So, this week, we blend Moses, Steve Jobs, Albert Einstein, killed cats, and a Curious Monkey named George!
Happy Learning!
'True success is attained only through the satisfaction of knowing you did everything within the limits of your ability to become the very best that you are capable of being.'
--John Wooden
Hi all!
We complete Genesis... AGAIN!
This is episode 121 (S3:E12)
Our portion of the week: Vayechi: detailing the end of the life of Jacob, Joseph, and the generation that went down to Egypt as well as the blessings bestowed on each of the 12 tribes.
Our topic this week: On Predicting Success
^ How can we better 'predict' our goals and the results we seek in life?
^ Can we even do that? Is it even possible?
Happy Learning!
'When we truly are putting others first, we cannot but feel at peace with ourselves.'-- Eknath Easwaran
Hi all!
This is Episode 120 (S3:E11)
Our portion of the week is Vayigash
and our topic of the week: On Me vs We
- How do we know when to put ourselves first as opposed to putting others first?
- Can you think of a time in your life when you clearly put yourself first?
- Can you think of a time in your life when you clearly put yourself second?
- How did that feel?
- Why did you do it?
All of these questions point to a conversation that the Bible is having throughout the story of Joseph and his brothers.
The heart of that conversation is this question: when is it about 'me' and when is it about 'we'?
Can't wait to dive in with you!
As Always Happy Learning!
'The fact of being an underdog changes people in ways that we often fail to appreciate. It opens doors and creates opportunities and enlightens and permits things that might otherwise have seemed unthinkable.'
– Malcolm Gladwell
Hi all!
Happy Chanukah to all those celebrating with me this week!
Q: What do you get when you link the Moroccan World Cup Team, King David, a world-renown writer, the Hasmoneans, Joseph in the court of Pharoah, and Rocky Balboa?
A: Well, you get this week's episode of Coaching With The Bible!
Yes! This is Episode 119 (S3:E10)
Our topic this week: On Being The Underdog
So many people wrap themselves in the cloak of 'underdog' that you have to ask yourself 'why.'
^ What is it about the spirit of the underdog that is so appealing and connective to so many of us?
^ Is it that the underdog so rarely wins that we remember it more and therefore celebrate it?
^ Is it deeper and in some way connects to who we are or where we come from or how we see ourselves?
Those questions and so much more are in this week's episode! Take a Listen!
Happy Learning!
'A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.'
--Winston Churchill
Hi all!
This is Episode 118 (S3:E9)
Our portion of the week is Vayeishev and our topic for this week: On Opportunity
We are often told that opportunity is everywhere... Did you see it? There went another one...
But how do we really find opportunities in life?
Is there a method or a set of skills we need to have to see the opportunities that are 'right in front of us'?
I think it's super hard, but we can do better!
Some of us will see the thing' in front of us and think: 'OPPORTUNITY OF A LIFETIME' and run toward it!
Yet some of us will see the same thing and think: 'RISK' 'THREAT' and run for the hills!
Same exact thing!
Why? What is happening at that moment?
Why is one person ready to attack and the other ready to run?
That's opportunity!
This week we will learn from Joseph and his brother Reuben. We'll encounter Aaron and Boaz along the way as well, along with a handful of famous entrepreneurs.
Happy Learning!
and
Happy Chanukah to those celebrating beginning on Sunday evening!
Quote of the Week:
'Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.' -Louis E. Boone
Hi all!
This is Episode 117 (S3:E8)
Our topic of the week: On Fear
When we last discussed the story of the meeting between Jacob and Esau we focused on the possibility that Jacob was suffering through a crisis of confidence. I still that is true, though this year I'd like to direct our attention to Jacob's sense of dread and fear.
I'd like to suggest that everything Jacob does right up until he meets the mysterious man in the night is done out of fear, and from then on, not so.
I think we can learn so many things about how we can better handle (manage?) the fears that we face each day.
Like so many of the other topics we've discussed, we all have fear.
We fear all kinds of different things and it is quite different for each of us.
For the most part we try (and hard) to defeat it.
I'd ask you this question:
^ Do you more often win or lose your battles with fear?
^ Is there a better way to deal with life's many fears?
I think so.
Take a listen and, as always, happy learning.
Quote of the Week:
'Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake' - Henry David Thoreau
Hi all!
This is Episode 116 (S3:E7)
Our topic of the Week: On Dreaming
We all dream and we do so all the time.
So many of those dreams are forgotten and even among those that we do remember, well, we try to share them with others, they don't make any sense at all.
Why we dream is I think a truly interesting subject and one we start with this week, but our main focus is the famous dream of 'Jacob's Ladder.'
Here's the question:
^ What is Jacob dreaming about?
^ How does he take that dream and make it his reality?
^ Does his reality match the dream?
^ What about our dreams?
^ How are we acting (not acting?) upon the dreams we have all the time?
--> Dreams about life, learning, growth, love, success...
^ Is there a method that we can implement that gets us there or close to our dreams?
Looking forward to diving in with you!
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'The victim mentality dilutes the human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.'
- Steve Maraboli
Hi all!
Happy Thanksgiving to those celebrating yesterday or today!
Happy Black Friday as well! (I know you're all celebrating that one!)
This is Episode 115 (S3:E6)
Our topic this week: On Playing The Victim
Let's begin by looking at the story of the brothers from the other perspective.
3 Questions:
^ How does Esav (Esau) experience that moment?
^ What happened to him?
^ What is his response to that event?
1 Last One:
^ What do we learn from it? (I think we ask this one every week!)
Happy Learning and Enjoy!
Quote of the Week:
'If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.'
--Chinese Proverb
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Hi all!
This is Episode 114 (S3:E5)
Our topic this week: On Seeking Help
I think asking for help is one of the hardest things to do, regardless of the stakes.
It seems to me that there are so many reasons for so many people as to why they DON'T seek help and equally why they should! No judgment there, just a statement.
Yet, we also know that we can't do it alone with most things in life. We need help.
So let's talk about it!
Abraham, Isaac, Eliezer, Rebecca, and a few authors and PhDs come together this week to answer:
^ Why we don't seek help
^ Why we should seek help
^ How we can seek help
Happy Learning!
If you are enjoying Coaching With The Bible please share with others!
Quote of the Week:
'Sometimes we are being tested, not to show our weaknesses, but to discover our strengths.'
- unknown
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Hi all!
This is episode 113 (S3:E4)
Our topic this week: On Being Tested
Abraham gets tested many times. So do all of us. Each day, each week, each month, and each year. It feels like it never stops. Especially the last number of years...
The question for me is:
^ How do we wrap our minds around the constant sense of being tested?
Which then leads to these questions:
^ Why is that the case?
^ Does it have to be that way?
^ What can we do about it?
^ How do we handle it?
So many questions, so little time!
Enjoy & Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
― Helen Keller
Hi all!
No time for a long intro, so here goes...
This is Episode 112 (S3:E3)
Recording live on location in NY as I am traveling this week for work and the chance to attend the wedding of the daughter of an old and good friend. Wh
This brings us to our topic of the week:
'On Friends'
Happy Learning!
If you get the opportunity to read the essay I posted earlier this week, please share your comments and feedback! It's the only way to grow and get better!
Quote of the Week:
'What lies behind you and what lies in front of you, pales in comparison to what lies inside of you.'
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Hi all!
This is Episode 111 (S3:E2)
Our topic: On Comparison
We will talk about that famous comment of Rashi comparing Noah as an all-time great vs just in his generation and we will jump from there to dive into the topic of 'comparison'.
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Who do we compare ourselves to?
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When do we make these comparisons?
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Why do we make these comparisons?
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Is comparison ever a good thing?
We get into some Brene Brown (of course!) and also talk about doom-scrolling, retail therapy, and get into something known as 'Social Comparison Theory.'
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'Be happy… not because everything is good, But because you see the good in everything.'
-Unknown
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Hi all!
Season 3 is upon us!
This is episode 110, and our topic this week:
'On Choosing Good'
The focus of this week is the following:
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When life does not go the way you want or expect, what do you do next?
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What is your focus: do you dwell on the bad, sad, and disappointment or do you seek out the good in that situation?
The questions for us this week:
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How can we understand and develop a 'philosophy of good' in our day-to-day and how does that help?
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How does this make our minds and our lives better?
We'll meet a former Navy SEAL and a 2nd Century Scholar as we first dive into the idea that God always 'saw it for good.'
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'To finish a work? To finish a picture? What nonsense! To finish it means to be through with it, to kill it, to rid it of its soul, to give it its final blow the coup de grace for the painter as well as for the picture.'
-Pablo Picasso
Hi all!
We have reached the end of Season 2!
This is Episode 109 (S2:E55).
Thanks, everyone for joining me on this ride through not just through year 1, but now, year 2!
I appreciate you all!
Keep sharing your ideas, questions, comments, critiques, and sources. ALL of them keep me going!
This week's topic: On Closing
This week we close out the annual cycle of studying the 5 Books of Moses. In the Jewish community the holiday of 'Simchat Torah' (translated as 'Joy of Torah'), is celebrated upon this accomplishment. It is a special day of singing, dancing and of course eating!
The next thing we do? Well, begin again! No breaks.
I wanted to jump a bit into how the 5 Books end, how Moses' life and story come to an end and then spend a few minutes talking about the art and skill of 'closing'.
Closing a deal or an 'ask' or a game is an expertise that some of us just seem to 'have,' but, the truth is, it is one that we can also learn, grow, and develop. We may marvel at someone who always seems to get the deal done or finish every project, and we should because it is impressive. At the same time, we too can be more like that and therefore succeed more often and at a greater level.
Let's learn!
See you in Season 3!
“Who are we, if not measured by our impact on others? That’s who we are! We’re not who we say we are, we’re not who we want to be – we are the sum of the influence and impact that we have, in our lives, on others.”
— Carl Sagan
Hi All!
Episode 108 is here! The second to last in the 5 Books of Moses, which means...
...that's right...
...next week we COMPLETE (AGAIN!!!!) OUR 2ND CYCLE!!!
{Insert celebratory emoji here}
Thanks for being along for the ride with me each week.
As always, I appreciate every single one of you and continue to encourage you to share ideas, comments, questions, sources, books, quotes, critiques, whatever with me! It's the only way I know how to do it and the best way to continue to grow and get better.
Our topic this week: 'On Compounding Impact'
Last week we discussed lasting impressions and as a corollary to that, I thought we'd talk and think about how it is that we compound our impact over time.
Not sure what I mean?
Think about compounding your money through interest and investment every year and then transfer that to your impact on others and on yourself and you'll get the beginnings of where we are headed.
Excited about this one and about completing the cycle!
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
― Maya Angelou
Hi all!
This is episode 107 (S2:E53)
Happy New Year to all those who celebrated this week!
Our topic this week: On Lasting Impressions
What is the connection between the commandment to gather the people every 7th year for the Hakhel ceremony and the concept of the lasting impressions we leave on others? It's actually a lot more than we think...
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
“All power is from within and therefore under our control.”
— Robert Collier
Hi all!
This is Episode 106 (S2:E52) and the last for the Jewish Year of 5782!
Our Topic this week:
'Upon Further Review'
We'll take a look at how we believe we did this past year and how we measure that.
On Track or Off Track?
Thumbs Up or Thumbs Down?
We'll also take a look at our goals from last year (specifically some of mine), our successes and failures, and how we can establish better ones for the coming year.
I just want to take a moment and thank you for continuing to join me each week as we dig deeper and go further with our growth. I appreciate every one of you.
Here's wishing you and yours a year of blessing, happiness, joy, pleasure, success, health, wealth, and all that is good in life!
Quote of the Week:
'If you can change the voice in your mind, then you can do anything.'- Proverb
Hi all!
This is Episode 105 (S2:E51)!
Our topic for this week: Self Praise
Think about the conversation that goes on in your mind after you've done something great...
Are you kind to yourself?
Do you give yourself praise?
Do you come away feeling good about yourself?
Or is it the opposite?
The bigger question is: How do you talk to yourself?
For many of us, it's not good, not positive, and certainly not healthy.
*Why is that true and what can we do to change it?
The simple truth is, that how we talk to ourselves actually impacts the results of nearly everything we do.
Let's learn about it together.
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'Good Habits Result from Resisting Temptation'- Proverb
Hi all!
This is Episode 104 (S2:E50)
Our topic this week: Temptation & Bad Behavior
There is sooooo much to say on this topic, and as often is the case, we will only scratch the surface of it.
Quick question:
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What are the things that tempt you?
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What comes up for you when you think about them?
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Why?
The Bible begins the portion by talking about 'going to war.'
The commentaries immediately tell us that the text operates at a second level: the war within each of us.
This is where we begin...
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
This is Episode 103 (S2:E49)
Our topic this week: On Being Wholehearted
I usually come to the podcast each week feeling 'ok' about where I am in relation to the subject matter of the discussion. So when I'm talking about strategy, leadership, or fundraising-related topics, it feels comfortable, as if I know what I'm talking about (at least a little).
Not so much this week.
Wholehearted living is such an important topic and vital for living a meaningful life, and I and so many people struggle with it.
If you're new to the concept and even if you've read, heard, or have worked on being more 'wholehearted' in your day-to-day, then this week is worth a listen.
We'll link Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Dr. Brene Brown and work to weave in some commentaries and a little bit of Hasidic thought as we work to develop a more 'wholehearted life.'
Here's Brene Brown's definition:
“Wholehearted living is about engaging with our lives from a place of worthiness. It means cultivating the courage, compassion and connection to wake up in the morning and think, ‘No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough.’ It’s going to bed at night thinking, ‘Yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable and sometimes afraid, but that doesn’t change the truth that I am also brave and worthy of love and belonging.”
Happy Learning & Enjoy!
Hi all!
This is Episode 102 (S2:E48)
Our topic this week:
On Home
We'll jump into the idea that the People of Israel are on the edge of coming into the Promised Land and what that means for them and what is expected of them while living there...
We'll go from there into some of these questions...
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What separates a 'house' from a 'home'?
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Why is it important for someone to have a 'good home'?
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What are the things you've done to make your place a 'home' rather than a 'house'?
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'There's no place like home' -Dorothy (Gale)
Quote of the Week:
'When you know your role in life, living makes sense because of clarity, and the loads become enjoyable to carry.'
-Innocent Mwatsikesimbe
Hi all!
This is Episode 101 (S2:E47)
Our topic this week: On Role Clarity
One of the things I spend a lot of time on with leaders is getting clarity around the role(s) that they and their employees/ teams/ partners play in their respective teams.
Getting clarity there: what is the role, who does it, how will they do it, how will it be measured, who else needs to be communicated with, etc, is VITAL to success.
A lack of clarity, or better true ambiguity, leads to frustration, disappointment, sometimes anger, and ultimately failure.
Let's take a minute and learn about the People of Israel's role and how that may help us understand better.
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
We have reached a milestone!
100 Episodes!!!
Thank you for joining me each week on an exploration of a biblical and coaching theme.
I appreciate you all!!
Your encouragement, your questions, your disagreements, your interpretations, your recommendations, and your ideas!
All of it is welcome, appreciated, and invited!
On to the NEXT 100!!! (somehow! I mean, what's left to talk about???)
This week's topic:
'On Representing'
Enjoy and as always Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'Attend well to your character, and your reputation will look out for itself'- Napoleon Hill
Quote of the Week:
'A frame is the foundation from which everything evolves.' - Bob Burg
Hi all!
This is Episode 99 (S2:E45)!
We begin the 5th book of the bible, known as Deuteronomy (Devarim) and our topic this week is:
'On Framing & Reframing'
- How often have you stared at a problem for an endless amount of time only to realize that you cannot find a solution?
It has happened to all of us!
The reason is often connected to the frameworks which we set in our minds and the frames through which we experience and understand the world around us and our own lives.
Well, when we are stuck, what should we do to get 'unstuck'?
--> Reframe!
I share a lot of time with leaders reframing constructs, problems, issues, and mindsets. That time together is vital and can sometimes being extremely difficult to work through to the other side.
When we can get to the core of the issue and then apply a different context, vantage point, and/or perspective we usually find our way.
Let's discuss...
Happy Listening and Learning!
Hi all!
This is Episode 98 (S2:E44)
With this week's episode, we complete the Book of Numbers, the 4th of 5 Books of Moses for the 2nd time! Woot Woot!!!
What a ride it's been! Thanks as always for being along the journey with me each and every week.
This week's topic: The Journey
The Bible lists so many places (more than 40!) where the People of Israel traveled over the 40 years in the desert.
Why list them and why so many places?
What is the Bible trying to teach us and how does this help us navigate and improve our day-to-day?
Well, let's learn about life's journey and Oh, All The Places You'll Go!
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'Man’s real home is not a house, but the road and that life itself is a journey to be walked on foot.'
– Bruce Chatwin
Hi all!
Episode 97 (S2:E43) is here!
Our topic this week: On Keeping Your Word
Happy learning to all!
Quote of the week:
“There is no greater fraud than a promise not kept.” – Gaelic Proverb
Hi all!
Episode 96 (S2:E42) is here.
Our topic this week is 'Overthinking'.
We all do it, some more than others.
The question is:
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What exactly is it?
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Why do we do it?
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How can we work our way to the other side?
Let's take a lesson from Pinchas and see where it leads...
Happy Listening and learning!
Quote of the Week:
'If overthinking situations burned calories, I’d be dead.'
Hi all! Episode 95 is here! This week we are discussing 'Blind Spots.' We all have them, it's just that we can't see them! Bilaam is the same as he can't see the angel before him and doesn't see that there's a real problem with his actions. Let's dive in! Happy learning!
Hi all!
Episode 94 (S2:E40) is here!
Our topic this week: On Problem Solving
This week, the Bible speaks about a few challenging situations that the People of Israel face as they are about to enter the Land. Some of these are familiar to us, as similar ones have happened before, and some are new. In each case, there seem to be a few possible solutions, again some we've seen before, and it's interesting to see which ones God and Moses actually use.
What is the process that they are using to solve problems?
What is the process that you use to solve problems?
We'll talk this week about 2 approaches that are popular in the business world: The Ohno Technique and The Kipling Method.
Super interesting!
Happy Listening!
Quote of the Week:
“We can not solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them”
― Albert Einstein
Hi all!
I hope you're having a great week!
This is Episode 93 (S2:E39).
The reading this week is Korach and our topic is: Persuasion
We will run the actions of Korach through a test of the 7 Universal Principles of Persuasion to see how many (all?) he uses to try to influence the people and then seize power from Moses and Aaron.
Appreciating how persuasion works will help us toward developing greater skills (ie it is learnable) and ultimately greater success and impact.
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
"Persuasion skills exert a far greater influence over others’ behaviors than formal power structure do.” – Robert Cialdini
Hi all!
Episode 92 On Trust
Ask yourself the following question: What, at its core, was the impact of the sin of the spies?
You might say: not going into the land
You might say: 40 years in the desert
You might say: disappointing God and Moses
I'd argue that in actuality, those are all results/consequences/punishments, but not the core impact.
This week's episode goes to the core: a breach of the trust-based relationship between God and the people of Israel.
We will discuss the benefits of having and building trust, a path to repair breached trust relationships, and my time in defensive driving school!
It's always fun and interesting here at Coaching With The Bible!
Enjoy, and as always, Happy Learning!
Hi all!
This is Episode 91 (S2:E91)
Our Focus this week: On Better Judgement
(Yes, I used the UK English spelling of the word judgement vs the US English judgment! Don't judge me!)
Think for a moment about a time when you made a bad judgment call. We've all done it. Hopefully, in your case, it was not painful or too consequential!
What was that moment like?
What was the situation like?
What were the consequences of that?
Why did you make that decision?
We've all done it.
So now, let's think about the future and how we might make better judgment calls.
What could we do differently?
What would it require for us to be more 'intuitive' in making better decisions the next time?
How would we know if we've done a better job the next time?
All of this is what we are discussing in this week's episode of Coaching with the Bible.
Our focus this week is better judgment and the storyline that we're going to focus on is the moment when Joshua attempts to defend the honor of Moses just after the moment when Eldad and Meidad are prophesying in the camp.
Happy Learning and Enjoy!
Quote of the Week:
'Good judgement comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgement.' - Will Rogers
Hi all!
This is episode 90! A-M-A-Z-I-N-G that we have reached this moment. Admittedly, it's a bit hard to believe, though I'm guessing episode 100, will be harder to believe!
Thank you everyone for listening each week. I appreciate it and I appreciate you.
This week is a special episode (S2:E36) because we are celebrating my birthday (today) and our topic this week is: BIRTHDAYS!
What is the connection between the Nazir and your/my birthday?
If you guessed holding back from wine, you'd be wrong! Not doing that!
So, let's think through what if any connection we can find between those two seemingly unrelated things...
Can't figure it out? Well, take a listen and, as always...
Happy Learning!
Hi All!
This is episode 89 (S2:E35)!
This week we begin the 4th Book of the Bible, known as Bamidbar in Hebrew and Numbers in English.
Our topic this week: On Belonging
This week, the Bible tells us about tribes, leaders, numbers of people, and flags (of all things!).
I got super interested in the issue of the flags and wondered about the origin of that idea and what flags actually mean.
Why do we have them, why do we need them, and what does it say about us?
That led me to start thinking about identity, purpose, fitting in, belonging, and authentic self...
So, in a nutshell, this week's episode took me along a long and vital path! So much to discuss on this subject! (I say that every week!)
As always: Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Quote of the week:
'The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.'
-Rudyard Kipling
Hi all!
We have reached the end of Vayikra (Leviticus), the 3rd of the 5 Books of Moses. Congrats to all!
This is episode 88 (S2:E34)
Our portion: Bechukotai
Our topic: On Learning
Most of the time, if I am not working, then you will find me reading something. Almost anything.
I like to read mainly because I like to learn. Almost anything.
Really I like to learn about everything, the universe, faith, business, leadership, sports, and politics. Name it and most likely I'm interested.
That is why this topic is so important to me.
I think it needs further treatment, but for today we'll talk about infinite learners, lifelong learners, toiling, and even shteiging (great Yiddish word!).
Happy learning!
Quote of the week:
'Learning is not a spectator sport where one can sit back and passively listen and maybe provide some color commentary. It’s an urgent & demanding, all encompassing, passionate and participatory endeavor.'
- Bini Maryles
Hi all!
This is Episode 87 (S2:E33)
We are closing in on the end of the book of Leviticus. Our portion (here in Israel) is Behar.
Our topic this week: On Sabbath
We are going to a deep dive into building a form of Sabbath into our lives, based on the concept of the land lying fallow for a year, and of course, the weekly commandment to observe Sabbath on the seventh day.
Amazingly, we will quote both Rabbi Elijah of Vilna and Ferris Bueller. Don't miss that!
Ask yourself this question and then start to listen:
'How have you built the idea of sabbath into your day-to-day'? If you haven't yet, then take a listen! You need to.
Ok, start listening!
Hi all!
Happy Israel Independence Day and Happy Mothers' Day!
This is episode 86 (S2:E32)
When I say the word 'respect' what is the first thing that comes to your mind?
For me, it was 'R-E-S-P-E-C-T' by Aretha Franklin. So, we're not going to go in that direction this week, but we are going to talk about the value and importance of respect.
Our subject comes to us this week by way of the seven-week 'Counting of the Omer' period that is discussed in the week's reading (Emor). The Bible does not describe this time period as either happy or sad, but it would seem from the commentaries that it was meant to be a happy time that joins the celebration of the Exodus and the giving of the Law on Mt Sinai seven weeks later. Yet, we commemorate at least the first handful of weeks as a time of mourning in memory of the death of the students of Rabbi Akiva. The Talmud describes the reason for the death of the '12k pairs' of students as a 'lack of respect for one another.'
How does that happen?
What does that mean?
What is respect/disrespect and where do we see it (not see it?) today?
How do we grow our self-respect and respect for others?
As always, super important topic (a bit long today!).
Enjoy & Happy Learning!
Hi all!
This is Episode 85! (S2:31)
Our topic this week: On Giving The Benefit of the Doubt
*Note: The podcast will be following the reading of the week in Israel for the next couple of months, fulling appreciating that it is then one week ahead. Sorry about that!
Happy Learning and Enjoy!
Quote of the Week:
'Give a good deed the credit of a good motive; and give an evil deed the benefit of the doubt.'
Brander Matthews
Running late!
This is Episode 84 (S2:E30)
Our topic: Miracles
Quick question:
How do you distinguish between miracle and luck, natural and supernatural, explainable and the unexplainable?
Can you tap into the miraculous or do you dismiss it out of hand?
How does the story of the people of Israel standing at the edge of the Sea, help or hurt how you think and consider the miraculous in life?
Happy Learning and Happy Holiday!
Quote of The Week:
'In Israel, in order to be a realist, you must believe in miracles'- David Ben Gurion
Hi all!
This is Episode 83 (S2:E29)
A special edition of Coaching With The Bible for the holiday of Passover (Pesach).
Our topic this week: Storytelling
Quick question:
- How well do you know your parents' story?
- How well do you know your family history?
- How tied in are you to how your family got to where it is?
Well, in this week's episode we connect our personal story to our communal story, and our personal narrative to our covenantal narrative as we aim to understand the value and benefit of telling good stories.
Knowing the answer to those questions above is crucial!
We'll also tackle a bit about what makes for a good story and how we can share our own story at the seder and why that's important.
Happy listening and Happy Holidays to all!
Enjoy!
Quote of the week:
“Stories have to be told or they die, and when they die, we can't remember who we are or why we're here.”
-- Sue Monk Kidd (author, The Secret Life of Bees)
Hi all!
This is Episode 82 (S2:E28)
Our topic this week: Personal Redemption
Happy Learning and Enjoy!
Hi all!
Episode 81 is here!
Our topic this week: On Shame & Guilt
Can you explain the following 4 words: Shame, Guilt, Embarrassment, Humiliation?
Each has its own definition and impact on us and in this week's episode, we'll talk about all 4 in the context of the biblical leper and, what else, Will Smith and Chris Rock (The Slap Heard Round The World).
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
This is Episode 80 (S2:E26)
Our topic this week: On Getting The Timing 'Right'
Last week we discussed the first of the 4 Rights of Asking, being the 'right person'. This week we are skipping #2 (the 'right' ask) and instead we'll be talking about 'right #3': Timing
As the saying goes: 'Timing is Everything'
Happy Learning!
Hi All!
Happy Purim for those celebrating tonight/tomorrow!
This is Episode 79 (S2:E25)
Our focus this week will be the holiday and not Tzav (this week's Torah portion)
Topic: On Being The 'Right' Person
Have you ever been in a situation where you needed something from someone else, asked them, got rejected, and could not for the life of you figure out why that happened?
Well, then this week's episode is for you! Spoiler alert: It's not personal. It's just that you were NOT the RIGHT person for that moment. It's ok. (Maybe) You'll get them next time!
So jump in, take a listen to a bit about Mordechai from the Book of Esther and see how it applies to you and some of your past experiences.
Happy Learning!
Hi All!
This is Episode 78! (Season 2:24)
We begin the 3rd book of the 5 Books of Moses, known as Leviticus (Vayikra). Much of the book revolves around issues of the pure and impure, the holy and unholy.
Our topic this week: On Behavior Change
What do a Stanford professor, an ultra-athlete and a 13th-century Rabbinic scholar have in common? Take a listen as we begin to think and speak about how we can change our behavior no matter our age and current direction.
Super interesting stuff!
Hey, I'd love your feedforward (it's a more future-focused term than feedback), so hit me up with your thoughts, questions, ideas and suggestions for the future! Always looking to learn and grow.
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'If you want to change attitudes, start with a change in behavior.' -William Glasser
Hi all!
This is Episode #77 (Season 2:23)
This week we once again complete the Book of Exodus with the building and establishment of the Tabernacle (Mishkan) in the desert. A story that has occupied much of the bible text for the last 5 weeks.
Our topic this week: On Measuring Success
The question: How do we measure our successes in life? Is it purely a calculation of numbers, overall impact? Is it emotional or is it something else? If we look at the bible story would we measure the people's success by virtue of the number of donations, or the time spent volunteering to build the Tabernacle or would it be the end when God 'rests' on the building?
Each is a worthy measure in its own right, but which is correct?
Or is there no right answer?
Let's find out.
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Happy learning!
Quote of the week:
'Success is not measured by what you do compared to what somebody else does. Success is measured by what you do compared to what you are capable of doing.' - Zig Ziglar
Hi All!
Welcome back to Coaching With The Bible! This is Season 2, Episode 22, and overall #76!
Our topic this week: Talent
We talk about talented people all the time. Some we see as 'prodigies' and others as 'naturals.' They have 'God-given ability' the likes of which we could never approach.
Is that actually true? Is there truly a thing as 'innate ability?'
When you think about it, ask this: What is 'talent'? What do we mean when we use that word to describe someone's ability?
Hmmm... Good question, no?
So, this week, we will look at the choice of Bezalel to build the Tabernacle (heb. Mishkan) for the people of Israel. Where does he come from and where does he get the ability to do the things he is tasked with?
How then, does that relate to us?
Such an important topic!
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'Hide not your talents, they for use were made, What’s a sundial in the shade? ― Benjamin Franklin
Hi all!
Welcome back to another week of Coaching With The Bible!
This week: Ki Tisa, Episode 75!
Our Topic: Anxiety
We will look at one approach to understanding what the people of Israel were thinking when they determined it was time to make the Golden Calf. We will not excuse the act, but rather explain what is going on in that moment and perhaps appreciate how that could be us, though not in building idols but in many other moments and situations in life.
I get a little vulnerable this week and I hope it helps deepen your understanding of this top-layer conversation on anxiety.
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
“Anxiety was born in the very same moment as mankind. And since we will never be able to master it, we will have to learn to live with it—just as we have learned to live with storms.” – Paulo Coelho
Hi all!
I hope you are having a great day!
This is Season 2 Episode 20, #74
Our topic this week:
Tetzaveh: On Showing Up
We take a look at George Washington at his first inauguration and the High Priest as he enters the Tabernacle. Yes! A comparison between the two exists! But that's not our focus...
Our focus is on the idea of how each 'showed up' when they needed to.
What is it that the leader has to have in mind and pay attention to when it is that he/she has to 'show up' somewhere?
What is 'showing up'?
Showing up is the impression, the vibe, the energy, and the presence we bring to any moment that we find ourselves in. It could be a meeting, a sporting event, a dinner with family or friends, or even a religious service. It begins before we arrive, but it shows itself in the first moment that we do arrive.
How do we come into those spaces and moments?
How do we prepare for them?
As a leader at work, in the community, or at home we actually do get to choose how we can show up. So the question then is, how do I think about it and how can I prepare better for those opportunities? So Important!
Enjoy & Happy Learning!
Quote of the week:
Showing up is essential. Showing up consistently is powerful. Showing up consistently with a positive outlook is even more powerful. – Jeff Olson
Hi all!
Season 2 Episode 19 is here!
Our topic this week: On Volunteering
The bible spends a lot of time over the next few weeks discussing the many intricate details of the Tabernacle (Mishkan) and the clothing of the Priests, but we should not lose sight of the many contributions that the people made to the success of that massive project.
We go deep (and long! sorry) on what it means to volunteer and why it is so important.
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
‘Volunteers are not paid- not because they are worthless, but because they are priceless’- Sherry Anderson
Hi all!
Welcome back to Coaching With The Bible! Season 2: Episode 18 (#72)
This week's topic: Responsibility
So my question for this week is: Is there ever a point where our responsibility for actions ends? Is there a line we can draw after which we are no longer responsible for what happens? Does it differ between a legal and perhaps our own moral/ethical standard?
Ok, that was more than one question.
Oh, and what is the difference, assuming there is one, between responsible and accountable?
BIG Topic!
Looking forward to diving in with you!
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life. – Hal Elrod
Hi all!
Episode 71 has arrived!
This week we are discussing 'Boundaries'
Some will call them borders, others will call them fences, and still others, walls. They are the things that separate us and divide us, or so we might think!
What if boundaries are actually good for us, help us, allow us to grow? Then maybe they're not so bad and maybe we should consider the boundaries we have and perhaps more importantly the ones we don't yet have...
This week, we will take a look a the People of Israel as they stand at the foot of Mt Sinai to experience the revelation and the receipt of the Torah from God and focus on the boundaries that God sets up around the mountain in advance of that all-time powerful experience.
Happy Learning!
If you are enjoying the podcast each week, then please take a moment to share it with others and share your thoughts with me!
Quote of the week:
“Healthy boundaries are not walls. They are gates and fences that allow you to enjoy the beauty of your own garden.”- Lydia Hall (Nursing Theorist)
Hi all!
We have reached another milestone! Episode #70!!! Feeling quite grateful and thankful!!!
This week's discussion, for Season 2 Episode 16, is Beshalach: On Obstacles
The people of Israel hit the ground running this week and run into obstacle after obstacle, adversity after adversity, problem after problem and the question is 'why?'
Why does God have to constantly make it so difficult for them? Can't they rest? They've been slaves forever! How about a week off, then bring on another challenge?!? It seems endless... What is going on?
The truth is, I think many of us feel that right now it's the same for us as well. If that is the case, then what is going on? What can we do about it? How do we handle/deal/approach it? What does the story of the People of Israel in the desert this week have to teach us about life's many obstacles?
Happy Learning! Happy Growing!
Quote of the week:
“Obstacles do not block the path. They are the path.” - Zen Proverb
Hi all!
Season 2 Episode 15 is here!
Our topic this week: Patience
When you hear the word 'patience' what comes to mind? Passive? Laziness? I think a lot of people do 'hear' those words. To me, patience is one of those 'soft skills' that are so hard to develop.
We take a moment this week to consider the long history of the Exile in Egypt and the patience of the generations before the Redemption takes place.
Patience is more than a virtue! How much do we value it?
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'Patience is a form of wisdom. It demonstrates that we understand and accept the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.' - Jon Kabat-Zinn
Hi all!
Season 2, Episode 14 (#68) is here.
Our topic this week: On Feeling Overwhelmed
Who doesn't feel a bit overwhelmed by what is happening around us right now? I know I do. It's hard and it's complex and it's a feeling that few if any of us at all want to feel: Overwhelmed.
So, let's talk about it because the people of Israel seemed to feel the same way in this week's reading.
Take a listen! Stay safe and healthy wherever you are and thanks for being with many for another week.
Happy learning!
Quote of the week:
'Life has many ways of testing a person’s will, either by having nothing happen at all or by having everything happen at once.' - Paulo Coelho (author of 'The Alchemist')
Hi all!
Welcome back to another edition of Coaching With The Bible. This week we begin the 2nd book of the Bible, Exodus, for the 2nd time together! I am excited!!!
Our topic this week: The Leadership Process
We will spend our time learning and appreciating the 'overnight success' that Moses becomes as the leader of the people of Israel.
That is to say, we will delve into how did he become the leader he was to become?
What is the process of becoming the person that we know and learn and read about week after week, year after year for millennia?
Happy Learning!
If you are enjoying learning with me each week, then please share with others! Happy to meet and connect with more and more people wherever they may be.
Quote of the Week:
'A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others. He does not set out to be a leader, but becomes one by the equality of his actions and the integrity of his intent.'
-General Douglas MacArthur
Hi all!
Another week, another episode and this week the end of the Book of Genesis (again!)
Season 2, Episode 12(#66) is here and our topic for this week is:
'On Being Selfless'
We will spend our time focusing on a possible reason as to why Joseph never reaches out to his family while in Egypt or at least from the moment he begins to lead there.
If you are asking yourself how does that fit into being selfless, well then take a listen.
Selflessness is hard and the more I read and read the more I realized how much work I have to do to even begin to come close to getting this character trait down! #LiveTheCoaching #LiveTheLessons
Happy Learning!
Quote of the Week:
'It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.'- President Harry S Truman
Hi all!
Season 2 Episode 11 (#65!) is here.
Our topic this week: On Choosing The Leader
How does Jacob make the decision to choose Judah to lead the family down to Egypt? Seems obvious? Not so fast! How does that decision help us learn and understand how to select great leaders for ourselves?
Happy Learning!
Our quote of the week:
'A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others. He does not set out to be a leader but becomes one by equality of his actions and integrity of his intent.'
- General Douglas MacArthur
Hi all!
Happy Chanukah to those celebrating this week!
Honored to bring you Season 2 Episode #10 (#64) of Coaching With The Bible.
Our topic this week: Team Building Part II
Last year around this time we focused on dysfunction in our teams, this year we'll learn about how to hire using a strategy known as 'Humble, Hungry, Smart' based on the story of Pharoah and Joseph at the beginning of this week's reading!
Quote of the week:
'Hiring the Best Is Your Most Important Task'- Steve Jobs
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Welcome back to Coaching with the Bible!!
Missed a week there, but never ever 2 in a row!
I do plan to make up that episode.
This week's episode (#63) overall is entitled:
Vayeishev: On Jealousy
We will begin to dissect the issue of the Brother's jealousy of Joseph, the roots of their jealousy, and one really key insight as to how to work on any jealousy-related issues that we may have. Not an easy subject!
Quote of the week:
"The jealous are troublesome to others, but a torment to themselves”- William Penn
Hi all!
This week's episode of Coaching With The Bible, Season 2 Episode 7, is #61 overall! Thanks again for being with me each week. This week's topic:
Vayeitzei: On Planning
Our quote of the week comes from author, Alan Lakein, who wrote and spoke a lot about time management, famously said:
'Failing To Plan Is Planning To Fail'
We go deep this week on Jacob's time at the Academy of Shem and Ever, what it was he learned there, and how that helped him throughout his time in the House of Laban.
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Season 2 Episode 6 is here!
This week's topic: Commitment
Overall we have reached our 60th episode, which is really crazy! Thanks for being on this journey with me each and every week. Much appreciated.
Our quote of the week:
'Commitment is the foundation of great accomplishment.'
We discuss the role of Rebecca in our story this week and her level of commitment to her sons, her family, and her mission. Though, it does not end there as we then delve into what does it mean to commit to anything, how we can think about what it is that we do and do not commit to, and why.
Enjoy and happy learning!
Hi all!
Season 2 Episode 5 (#59 Overall) is here!
Chayei Sara: On Goals
This week we go deep on the concepts of both goal setting and achievement through the lens of Abraham and the purchase of the burial plot for Sara.
'Your goals are the road maps that guide you and show you what is possible for your life'- Les Brown
As always Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Click below for Coaching with the Bible Series 2 Episode 4.
This week's topic: Alignment
Let's change it up a bit and use a quote to start us off:
‘How we think of ourselves (our self-image) and how we behave in accordance with that image in the real world is the stuff of congruence. It’s one of the most profoundly powerful drives we have as humans – to live in consistent alignment with who we think we are, how we want others to perceive us, and who we want to become. When we don’t behave as the person we believe ourselves to be, we feel “off”, “out of sorts” and often frustrated or angry. If we think we’re lions, for example, but we act as mice, we secretly loathe ourselves.’ – Brendon Burchard
THAT is our topic for today!
See you inside and as always, Happy Learning!
Hi All!
Season 2 Episode 3 is here! Our topic this week Lech Lecha: On Conflict Resolution
We are delving ever so briefly into the fight between the shepherds of Lot and Abraham and learning a powerful lesson in how to quickly and effectively both manage and end conflict.
See you inside!
As always, happy learning!
Hi all!
Season 2 Episode 2 is here!
Our topic this week: Communication BreakdownOur focus this week: The Tower Of Babel
Ask yourself:
- What is the reason that I am occasionally not able to communicate with someone else? Is it me (no way! for sure it's them!)?
- What is happening inside that exchange (speaker/listener) that is not working?
- How does the story of the Tower of Babel provide answers to this vital life issue that we have all (you can admit it!) dealt with?
Enjoy and Happy learning!
Hi all!
Welcome to Season 2 of Coaching with the Bible! Excited to be back for more!
This week we delve into the story of Cain and discuss the moment when it all goes 'south' for him. No, not when he (Spoiler alert!) kills his brother, Abel, but before it when God seems to reject his offering/gift.
Have you ever been knocked down? Well, then you know how Cain must feel. The question is, what did you do next? How did you handle being down? THAT is our focus this week!
We'll meet some (surprising) but well-known 'philosophers' of the 60s thru 90s and beyond, and of course hear from a variety of biblical commentaries along the way.
Exciting stuff!
Happy learning and if you enjoyed this week's or any of the past episodes please share with friends, family, etc.
Hi all!
Welcome to Episode #54 and the completion of Series 1 of Coaching With The Bible!
When we started 1 year ago I had hoped we'd get here, and with but one exception when I was late with an episode, here we are! Cycle DONE. YR 1 GOAL ACCOMPLISHED!!!
Thanks to everyone who joined along the way, who listened each week, commented, shared ideas and resources, and more than anything encouraged me to keep going (and improve, of course!). I appreciate all of you and thank all of you.
I cannot wait to begin Series #2, next week, with our return to Genesis. Exciting!
This week we tap into an important topic: Personal Red Lines. 'Red Lines' are the boundaries we place in our lives across which we do not cross, ever. Our time this week is a look at an act of valor, risk, heroism on the part of Moses, the core principle that act teaches us, and then the question about our own 'red lines'. We will get into a discussion about the development of our moral and core values and how we can continue to work on them as we continue to work on ourselves.
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Episode 53: On Momentum is here!
I hope those of you celebrating and fasting on Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, had a most inspiring and meaningful day. A quick(er) than usual episode for this week on a topic I MUST return to during Series 2.
Looking forward to a great holiday of Sukkot beginning Monday evening.
Shabbat Shalom and Happy Holiday to all who are celebrating.
How's your momentum today???
Hi all!
Episode 52 is here!
This week: On Forgiveness
A slight departure from our usual dissection of a subject that is based on the weekly reading of the Torah and instead, a topic that is timely to the holiday of Yom Kippur: Forgiveness.
So, my question of the week: How forgiving are you? When someone (friend, relative, co-worker) wrongs you, how quick are you to not only NOT just blame, yell, argue, fight, etc, but rather to forgive?
Not an easy question to answer (especially if we are being truly honest with ourselves), but one we need to take quite seriously all the time and in particular at this time of the year with the New Year just ushered in and Yom Kippur (The Day of Atonement) ahead of us.
Take a few (extra) minutes this week to explore this topic and let's get to working forgiving others!
Shana Tova, Happy New Year, and may you be fully sealed in the Book of Life!
Hi All!
Episode #51 is here. This week we discuss a timely topic: Repentance.
With the Jewish New Year upon us in just a few days, our minds are a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions. One of the many things we are thinking about and perhaps actively working on is repenting for all that we may have done wrong during the past year. Repentance as a commandment is beautiful, if somewhat difficult to fulfill.
We often feel a sense of guilt about all of the 'bad' we may have done, and then feel guilty about the guilt and about the repenting, and so on and so on! It's hard!
This week, I want to delve a bit into the benefit of the repentance process and take a moment to zoom in on two things:
- How close in actuality we are to it
- How to say 'I'm sorry'
Apologizing is a key ingredient to successful/proper repentance.
Happy Learning!
2 last items:
- Happy New Year to all of you celebrating the incoming Jewish New Year this week, and wishing you and yours nothing but a year of blessing, success, happiness, and health
- Shout out to my parents for completing Tractate Sukkah with the Daf Yomi cycle! #nevertoolatetostart
Hi all!
We have reached a milestone: Episode 50!!!
Thanks to all of you who have listened over the last almost 50 weeks and have encouraged, commented, questioned, and critiqued my words. I appreciate all of you and I am incredibly grateful to you for taking some time to learn and think along with me each week.
This week: Ki Tavo: On Happiness!
Happy Learning!
(also, remember to download the Personal Annual Review from earlier this week. I recommend it!)
Hey! This is a SPECIAL EDITION of Coaching with the Bible!
That's right! Episode #49 is coming to you early in the week (no worries, there will be another later this week) because we have an important matter to discuss: YOU
The High Holidays are fast approaching, 2 weeks from today and we need to get to work on: YOU
Ask yourself this question:
How often have I reviewed myself in the same way that probably happens at work (annual performance review) or happened to me as a kid in school (test or semester report card)?
My guess is probably never.
Yes, on occasion when we say or do something we shouldn't have said or done, we'll look back on it and feel bad, maybe even apologize. A full-scale personal review of everything? Not likely.
No worries, that was my answer too! (until now!)
But to quote a world-class coach, John Wooden: 'Without proper self-evaluation failure is inevitable.'
I invite you to take a listen to this special episode focused on 'the what, the why, and the how' of a personal annual review, and then below I share a special link to your first 'personal annual review'.
As always, we'll begin with the current week's Torah reading and work from there to our own lives.
This week, different than before, I'm asking you to share:
- Your comments, critiques, questions, and ideas about the below-linked review
- If this resonates with you, then share it with others (friends, family, colleagues)
The more people who work through this the better their upcoming year will be and by extension, the better all of us will be.
Note #1: Your answers are your own and neither I nor anyone else has access to nor needs to know your answers
Note #2: To use the document, first make a copy of it and then get to work!
Happy Learning and Growing!
Click HERE for the Review
How self-aware are you?
For example, when scenarios pop up that you've been in before, do you think/work it through before acting/reacting, or 'nah', you jump headlong in without a care in the world?
Do you try to understand and appreciate why you do what you do when you do it (a bit of a tongue twister there!)?
Do you try to tune into your emotions, feelings, and thoughts while you are in a moment that can go either way?
Do you take time to reflect, evaluate, and introspect before heading into the same day-to-day scenarios or do you go with what comes natural or out of habit?
How does all this fit into the bible and where does the bible discuss this?
This week's episode, #48, is entitled 'On Self-Awareness,' wherein we take our first direct look at the critical role that reflection, evaluation, and introspection can play in our lives. We'll briefly touch on the benefits, barriers, and some active practices to improve the level and quality of our self-awareness!
Parenthetically, I am quite self-aware that I went a bit long during this week's episode (see what I did there!)
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Episode 47 is here!
How comfortable are you at saying the following words: 'I don't know?'
It is so hard for so many of us to utter those words. For some, it's a matter of feeling tarnished by not knowing something. For others, it's a sense of diminished intellectual capacity. It can sometimes be brutal to say it out loud. I imagine we've all been there.
That said, most (if not all) of us, can acknowledge that we do not know everything, nor that anyone thinks that we do. Yet still, we struggle with it.
- Why can't we say it?
- Why must we learn to do so?
- How can we go about beginning to say these 3 words?
Where in this week's portion does this matter come into being? Fun topic!
Say it with me: I DON'T KNOW!!!! (I feel better!)
Happy learning!
Hi all!
Episode 46 is here!
Our topic this week: Giving!
I spend much of my time each day talking about, thinking about, creating content around, and coaching on the subject of giving, ie donating, philanthropy, etc.
The episode this week focuses on the why and the what of giving.
Enjoy!
Bini
Hi all!
Episode 45 is here!
This week we go a bit deeper on a concept we've mentioned before while we were exploring other ideas: Mindset.
We hear a lot about 'mindset' in many places and from many people, from athletes to entrepreneurs and everyone in between, but there is one overarching question: What is 'mindset?'
Once I know the answer to that one, I have a key follow-up question: how do I develop what some call a 'winning mindset'?
Well, as always, we look to the bible for some insight and then we'll bring in a bit of Dr. Carol Dweck, the authority on the subject, and Rob Dial, the host of the Mindset Motivator podcast.
Happy Learning!
Do you ever go Above & Beyond? 'Go The Extra Mile'?
When?
Why?
How?
For who?
Do you know someone who lives that way? Meaning, their entire mindset and approach to EVERYTHING in life is 'going above & beyond?'
(If that's not you, totally ok, though I am so curious to ask you how THAT person makes you feel! I won't ask, but I think I know!)
It is a legitimate approach to life and one that highly successful people often ascribe to.
How about you?
The bible teaches us this idea this week in commentary on the words 'Do that which is Right & Good In The Eyes of God'. What does that mean exactly and how, if at all, does this differ from all of the commandments, laws, rules, etc already defined and described in the bible?
Let's find out on this week's episode (#44) of Coaching With The Bible!
We'll learn about the concept of 'Going Above the Letter of The Law' and we will learn from Rashi, Ramban (Nachmanides), R' Aharon Lichtenstein, The Netivot Shalom, Wayne Dyer, Zig Ziglar, and Gary Ryan Blair (a new personality on the podcast!)
I went a bit long this week! Sorry about that, though I'd ask you to stay to the end!
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Episode 43 opens up the 5th and last book of the Five Books Of Moses, known as Deuteronomy (or Devarim).
We pick up our conversation with a discussion of the key role that teaching plays in being a great leader.
Quick question to consider as we begin: Think of the great leaders in your life, were they also great teachers? If so, how? If not, how did they lead if they did not teach?
We'll learn from Pres Washington, Rabbi Sacks, Harvard Business Review, and from our own experience of great leaders as teachers.
Thanks for being with me through the first 4 books and I am raring to go on Book 5!
(this week not on location, but back home!)
Enjoy & Happy Learning!
How do we ask for things? Do we have a strategy, an approach to develop our 'ask'?
Episode 41: On Asking!
Hi all!
We have reached episode 40! AMAZING!
This week's topic: On Succession
We delve a bit into Moses' concern for the person that would be chosen to follow in his footsteps as the leader of the People of Israel and the person to be tasked with taking them into the Land and settling it with them. An ENORMOUS task!
The question though is: what if any succession planning, development, and execution have you set in motion in your life, whether that is business or personal? what does it mean to establish a plan of succession and why don't most people have that done?
Important subject! We'll hear from Rabbi Sacks, Rabbi Hayyim Angel, Marshall Goldsmith and others as we scratch the surface of succession.
Happy learning!
Shabbat Shalom!
Hi all!
Episode 39 is here (a little later in the day than even I'm comfortable with)!
This week we are focused on 'Focus', and our person of the week is not Bilaam, but rather Balak.
What does the King of Moab have to teach us (and the People of Israel then)?
How can we do better implement 'focus' in our lives? We briefly explore a two-step process that can begin to help us improve our focus day to day.
Happy Learning!
Hi all!
Welcome back for episode 38!
Chukat: On Discipline
This week we take a look at Moses at the moment when he hits the rock rather than speak to it as God had commanded and we will learn a deep lesson about discipline, the 3rd of our key principles for Great Leadership (courage and humility being the other two).
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Yes, we have discussed this topic before, but...
...different time, different crisis, different approach!
Moses vs Korach: The Ultimate Rumble in Desert...
A bit long this week (sorry!), but really valuable discussion on the way Moses handles the disaster that is the story of Korach.
Enjoy and Happy Learning!
Episode 37 is Korach: On Crisis Leadership II
We ALL know of the cowardly lion from 'The Wizard of Oz' seeking only a bit of courage.
I imagine we can name others who we deem as 'courageous' or 'brave' and certainly have many we believe to be cowardly.
The question is: what does it actually mean to be a person of courage, where does it come from, and maybe most importantly, how do we get some?
This week on Coaching With The Bible (episode 36) we go deep on the 2nd of the Three Traits of Great Leadership: Courage
Our focus this week will be the story of the spies and in particular Caleb, the spy of the tribe of Judah.
Can't wait for this one!
Enjoy and as always Happy Learning!
If I asked you what does it mean to be arrogant, you could tell me without issue. You might even want to point out a person or two (please don't!)
If I asked you what does it mean to be conceited or cocky, you could tell me that, too.
If I asked you what does it mean to be humble, what does it look like, I think you are more likely to tell me what it isn't than what it is. Sometimes that is easier because humility is hard to define and explain.
What does it mean to be humble or display humility?
Is it something we can build and practice or is it inborn?
Why is it important (it truly is!) In every part of life to be humble?
Let's learn from the MOST humble person who has ever lived: Moses.
In this week's episode, we begin to tackle the subject of humility, why it's important for leaders, and how to grow it.
Episode 35: Behaalotecha: On Humility
Fun topic!
How do we create unity on our teams?
To me, this question opens up a long conversation about the concepts of unity and diversity and goal setting and success, etc. It's a BIG one and it is also one that we will only begin to delve into this week. More to come...
So...
- How do we create unity on our teams?
- Does unity relate to or stand distinct from last week's discussion on harmony?
- What lesson(s) do the biblical tribal leaders teach us about building unity?
- How do we see that in the long listing of gifts that the bible details in this week's reading?
Episode #34 is here!
Enjoy!
Hi all!!!
Quick shout out to my oldest daughter who is proudly and bravely defending our people as a member of our armed forces! I don't think anything I ever personally do, will come close to that! So proud of you!!!
Please have her and all of her fellow soldiers in your prayers today and every day.
This week's episode is entitled 'Bamidbar: On Harmony'
Harmony is not usually a word we associate with coaching. I get that. We would more often speak of congruence and alignment whether around an idea, a plan, or a goal. However, just based on the way I think about the work and the goals we are trying to achieve, I don't think those terms go far enough, nor do they always get us to where we ultimately want to be. This is why I am partial to the term harmony. When we think of harmony in the sense of flow, being in sync, teammates intuitively knowing where to go, what to do, and how to act, then we can see how this idea fits into Coaching With The Bible.
In this week's first episode of the Book of Numbers, we talk about harmony and how we see that concept built out by the architecture of the encampment of the people of Israel in the desert. We'll go a bit deeper and learn from the concept of 'emergence' as it relates to the way fish swim schools and birds come together as a migrating flock.
We will then touch on an interesting approach to building harmony within our teams based on a structure first introduced by Dr. Bill Tuckman in the late 60's known as 'Forming, Storming, Norming, and Performing.'
Ah!!! So much to learn and so little time!
Happy Learning!
PS Wishing all a Shabbat Shalom and a Shavout Same'ach (Happy Day of Receiving The Bible!!).
Hi all.
A tough couple of weeks here in Israel. I hope you and yours are safe, healthy, and happy.
As we head into the holiday of Shavuot and the acceptance, once again, of the Torah from God, that we do so with great reverence, humility, respect, joy, and excitement. There is so much to learn and so many ways to grow.
As we did at the end of both Genesis and Exodus, I thought I'd share a short BONUS summary episode for Leviticus entitled:
'Leviticus: Upon Reflection III'
Leviticus included only 7 episodes, even as it contained 10 bible portions!
As I mentioned in both prior 'Upon Reflection' episodes, our ability to reflect provides us with a great opportunity to appreciate, give gratitude, grow, and learn again both from what we did and did not do well the first time through this book. Leviticus holds within it so much depth that I think we barely scratched the surface, yet it did feel as though we hit on some deep insights and ideas.
In our 7 episodes we learned about:
- Intentionality
- Preparation
- Owning Mistakes
- Office Gossip
- Sanctity & Holiness
- Vulnerability
- Consequences
Another incredible list of topics and ideas!
Take a listen for the key summary lesson from Leviticus and looking forward to Book 4: Numbers (Bamidbar)
Happy Listening and learning! Thanks for being with me each week!
Episode 31 coincides with the conclusion of the Book of Leviticus! (That happened way too quickly!!)
How much of what happens to us in life is a direct result of our actions? It's a heavy question, I know, and not one that is answerable in a single podcast.
Allow me though to continue with the following:
When the Bible describes incredible blessings and horrific curses in this week's reading do we see them as blessing and punishment, and up to God to determine whether we receive one or the other? What happens if we see and understand them as directly connected, for good or otherwise, to what we did or did not do? Meaning to say, if we view them as a consequence, ie the direct result of our actions/inactions, and therefore positive or negative consequence, rather than reward/punishment, how does that potentially impact what action/inaction we take?
In this week's episode, we discuss consequences and by extension, the manner in which we plan, consider, and strategize the actions we take and the ones we skip in bringing about a specific result. How far down the line can we or should we think before we act, and how much better our decision-making practices can be if we did plan this way.
We'll discuss the concept of secondary and tertiary level thinking as well as briefly mention the role of choice as it exists between, as Stephen Covey writes, stimulus and response.
Happy listening and learning and congrats on completing Leviticus/Vayikra!
We have reached episode 30!! Definitely worth a moment or two (or three) of gratitude and appreciation! Thanks for being with me each week along this journey. I know that it's not a given, so I appreciate it. Thank you!
This week's topic is one I think many of try to avoid: being vulnerable and our capacity for vulnerability. We avoid it, I avoid it. I can admit that, which made preparing and presenting this a bit more difficult. What can I say, I am (still) a work in progress and my willingness and ability to be more vulnerable can only make me a better person. I definitely know that and can put that out there.
The literature and data are clear: the path to courage, leadership, joy, and (even) creativity all require a dose of being vulnerable. If we want to get to our best, whole-hearted selves, then we need this conversation and self-work.
So onward and upward with being vulnerable! (Do we celebrate that? I have no idea!)
Our starting point will be the story of the blasphemer way at the end of the reading this week and we will then use the work of Dr Brene Brown to unpack the concept and develop a plan of action for ourselves and for our teams.
Happy listening and learning
Emor: On Vulnerability
So this week we went on location! Our episode was recorded live from the local baseball field, and incredibly that fit right into our topic for the week.
This week: On Sanctity & Holiness
How do you mesh work life and spiritual life?
Where does sanctity and holiness fit into the work environment? Or perhaps it doesn't at all?
If you are the leader, is there a way to balance those different aspects of your life and somehow bring that into the office space and into your teams?
Initially, I struggled with this one, so let me know your thoughts on where we end up!
Happy listening and learning. Have a great week!
Have you ever heard the quote: 'The only thing to be doing behind someone's back is patting it'? Well, that idea was shared with me years ago in one of the office environments in which I had worked. Unfortunately, the person who shared it, didn't live by it, but the idea stuck with me and very much rings true to me.
What is it that we are or are not doing behind the backs of our teammates? Are we talking about them? gossiping? sharing personal details either true or worse, false?
What is the impact both obvious and hidden on morale, success, productivity, trust, etc?
This week on Coaching With The Bible we get into the matter of 'The Office Gossip'.
Using the lessons from the Bible's leper as learned in this week's portion of Tazria-Metzora and the deep understandings of the Sages, we'll form an approach to designing and implementing a basic but solid structure to manage the gossip in our work and leadership environments.
Enjoy!
We ALL make mistakes. We do and it's ok.
The question is what do we do when that happens? What's our approach post-error?
Do we own it? admit it? blame others?
How can we learn to lead through our mistakes?
Well, Moses teaches us a powerful lesson in owning our mistakes and we will build on that idea with the help of some business leaders and well-known commentaries.
This week's episode: 'On Owning Mistakes'
Happy learning!
What can we learn about preparation from the Priest who 'took out the trash' each day in the Tabernacle?
What can we learn about preparation from the Priests in the lead-up week to the inauguration of the Tabernacle in the desert?
Why do we need to prepare at all? What's the benefit? How does it help?
Let's learn!
Episode 26 of Coaching With The Bible: On Preparation
Welcome to Episode 25 of Coaching With The Bible!
Looking forward to Leviticus?
OF COURSE YOU ARE! WHO WOULDN'T BE?!?
We begin our journey with this book discussing a bit about animal sacrifices, but don't worry, we don't get into the nitty-gritty of the offerings themselves as we focus on the person making the 'sacrifice.'
So, let me ask a question to start us off: What are 'Intentional' about in your life?
Are there things you do, practices you have that you are truly 'zoomed in' on and others not? Why is that so?
How do you improve your practice of being more intentional and focused?
How is it taught to us in the bible and specifically from the animal sacrifices at the beginning of the Book of Leviticus (Vayikra)?
Oh, this is going to be fun (I promise!)
Happy learning!
As we did at the end of Genesis, I thought I'd share a short BONUS summary episode for Exodus as well entitled:
'Exodus: Upon Reflection II'
Exodus included 10 episodes, and twice we strayed beyond the weekly reading to be mindful of upcoming holidays.
As I mentioned in our prior 'Upon Reflection' episode, reflecting gives us an opportunity to take a moment to appreciate, give gratitude, grow, and learn again both from what we did and did not do well the first time through this book.
We covered some key people and went 'deep' on the following topics:
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Beginnings
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Expectations & Excuses
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Stubbornness
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Complaining
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Giving/Taking Advice
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Empathy
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Sacred Space
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Finding Your Why
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Crisis
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Time Management
Another incredible list of topics, ideas, and people!
Take a listen for the key summary lesson from Exodus and looking forward to Book 3: Leviticus (Vayikra)
Happy Listening and learning! Thanks for being with me each week!
What do we mean when we say 'I don't have time'?
What do we mean when we say 'Time is money'?
What exactly are we 'managing' when we speak of 'time management'? Is that even possible?
How often do we think about the time we have, the time we use and the time we waste?
On this week's episode, we begin to explore the depths and reach of time, through a basic understanding of the 1st commandment handed to the People of Israel: The New Moon.
Why is that first?
What does it mean for them and for us?
How does our understanding of that commandment help to guide us to better use of our own time?
So many questions, so little time! (see what I did there?!)
Enjoy!
How well do you handle a crisis?
Are you calm, cool, and collected, or are you a mess?
Are you a manager at that moment or a leader?
How are we to deal with crises in our world?
What do the actions and reactions of Moses, Aaron, and the people teach us about crisis moments and what can we incorporate from the experts on the subject?
How can we (too!) not let a good crisis go to waste?
This week's episode (slightly long!) takes on the story of the Sin of the Golden Calf and the incredible leadership displayed by Moses in that moment.
Happy learning one and all!
The Book of Esther teaches us many things and perhaps none as great as the lesson of finding your why and purpose in life. We'll take a look at a key moment in the story when Esther and Mordechai 'discuss' her going to the King to save her people and what that meant for her in the moment and in history.
How did that clarify Esther's 'why' and 'purpose' and how did Mordechai explain that to her in a way that clearly hit its mark?
That will take us to an important discussion on the concept of figuring out your why in life, why that's important, and how to set about doing it!
A little delayed this week. Sorry about that!
Happy learning and listening.
In this week's episode of Coaching Through the Bible, we discuss the idea of creating 'sacred space' in our lives to maximize and optimize our productivity. Our discussion uses the biblical Tabernacle designed by God, constructed by Moses, and contributed to by the People of Israel.
We will bring in ideas from 'Deep Work' by Cal Newport, in particular the design of the Eudaimonia Machine, as well as some super interesting ideas from James Clear in his work 'Atomic Habits' on environmental design contributing to our inability to bring about remarkable results.
So, how do you create space in your life for productivity, spirituality, and overall growth?
What is your approach based on?
Is there anything in your spaces that specifically contributes to or detracts from your success?
Let's find out!
Happy listening and learning! Celebrating Episode #20!!
Empathy is one of the characteristics that we ALL need to work on. While some of us are more naturally empathic, others (including me) are not.
So, what is empathy? How does it differ from sympathy? What are the limits of it and how do we grow it?
Lastly, of course, how do we learn it from and see it in the bible?
Enjoy!
In this week's episode, we dive into the super-interesting interaction between Jethro and Moses and we ask ourselves: have we ever been either of these two in a situation of giving or receiving advice?
Jethro arrives, he watches, he listens and then he dispenses incredible insight as to running a better, more efficient and effective judicial system and...Moses listens!!! and completely!!!
Amazing! Jump in and join me and as a bonus get an update on how I did with the 'no-complaining challenge'...
Celebrating our 18th episode!
See you inside!
The Nation Doth Complaineth Too Much!
As the people of Israel leave Egypt and cross the sea, they become habitual complainers, or at least so it seems.
Why is that?
And why do we complain so much? Is it ever constructive or valuable or even helpful?
Can we change our habits? I hope so!
- Why do we set the bar so low on our expectations of ourselves?
- Why do we constantly make excuses for ourselves? Is that ever ok to do?
- What does Moses have to teach us about these two issues and why does he mention again the idea that he cannot speak?
This week we go deep on expectations, excuses, impostors, and self-handicapping as we continue to Coach Through The Bible!
Happy Learning!
Why are 'All Beginnings Difficult'?
We know that statement to be true from our own experiences, but why is it so and is there anything we can do to reduce the difficulty and succeed sooner?
Let's learn from Moses this week and his first meeting with Pharoah! Exciting stuff!
Summarizing all that we learned during our 12 weeks inside the Book of Genesis.
Reflecting gives us a moment to appreciate, give gratitude, grow, and learn again both from what did and did not do well the first time through the book.
We covered key personalities and went 'deep' on the following topics:
- Accountability
- Growth vs Comfort
- Passion
- Leading Up
- Loyalty
- Grit
- Gratitude
- Self Confidence
- Team Building
- Listening
- Perspective
- Failure
Great list and more to come!
When Jacob comes to bless his children at the end of his life, he is quite tough on sons 1 through 3. In fact, it might be hard to even view what he tells them as blessings!
In truth, we learn deep lessons about honesty, integrity and perhaps most importantly, growing from failure from what it is Jacob says to Levi and then how the descendants of Levi play that out over time.
Learning to succeed from our failures!
How do we learn to develop or even change our thinking on anything? How do we grow to evolve our perspective on life's events good or bad?
Joseph gives us a window into perspective when he forgives (twice) his brothers and tallies it all up to God.
Let's learn!
Let's learn about listening from Joseph in his first interaction with Pharoah. See how he displays incredible 'active listening' skills that get him to the place where he can provide the ultimate piece of interpretation and advice!
We don't typically think of the 12 Tribes in terms of being a 'team', yet so much of the literature and research on team-building and its opposite (dysfunction) can be extracted from their story, and in particular the beginnings of the story of selling Joseph down to Egypt.
What is happening to Jacob when he is alone in the night? Who is the person he wrestles with? How is he different than he was before the fight happens?
This week, we explore the ideas surrounding confidence and the role it plays in Jacob's life and in ours. Enjoy!
How do we learn about gratitude? Who do we learn about it from and what does it tell us? What can we do in our own lives to increase our gratitude and appreciation for all things good?
Take a listen to a Harvard professor, a matriarch and a 2nd grade student...
How do we understand the role of Eliezer, Abraham's servant, in this week's story? Is it loyalty, is it friendship? And how does that come to us in our lives?
A leadership vantage point applied to the story of Abraham arguing/disagreeing with God on what to do with the people of Sodom and the surrounding area. Learning about how God opens the space for Abraham to argue and learning about how Abraham steps into that space and leads up.
Generally, we think of leadership only as it funnels down the chain of command and that is understandable. However, it is vital for teams, companies, countries, and even for families that there is also leading up the chain. This is crucial for overall success and accomplishment but more importantly for creating a good culture and growth for everyone involved.
We learn it this week from God, the Ultimate Leader, and Abraham, the first leader of the faith.
Enjoy!
Abraham is more than just a patriarch. He is an original thinker, a leader, and an entrepreneur, specifically a spiritual entrepreneur. Among the many life lessons that we can learn from him is the idea of living life with a set of core beliefs, but more importantly, living those beliefs with great passion... How?
What separates Noah as he enters the Ark from the people of his generation?
More importantly, why do they not see it and change?
How can we move out of a comfort zone and into a growth zone?
Let's find out!
Accountability. Some say it is the difference between success and failure. In this episode, we start at the beginning and learn the concept of accountability from one person's failure to be accountable. That person: Adam. The moment: Just after eating the fruit. The source: Genesis 3.
Enjoy!