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One thing that amazes me is your unconditional form of giving. Anytime I need something, you never hesitate to offer and even more. If I happen to have a bad day, you listen to my problems and you reassure me that it will pass. And when I need your shoulder to cry on, you never hesitate to snap me back into reality and tell me to stay strong.
Stephanie Lee says in her letter, The love that surrounds her help to combat the anxiety that she faces.
I wanna share to all of you My Simple Steps to Happiness, I hope you guys learned from it.
Credit to Boiling Waters and LeiaswYouâre quiet and a man of few words, words that are full of wisdom affirming encouragement and love to others.
Written by: Matt Lily White âYou donât have to control your thoughts. You only have to stop them from controlling you.â
Thank you, for the moments you made me forget for a while, and for the nights you pulled me through. For teaching me how to laugh again. For proving it's safe to cry.
This year has taught me immensely about patience. Iâve learned the simple truth that taking walks with a coffee and a cool breeze in the air helps me more than anything to calm down. It doesnât solve my problems, but it gives me peace in times of chaos and a little hope that I can try again tomorrow. My time spent in rest affords me the opportunity to reflect, and even if by tomorrow things are still not alright, I know I can do it again.
I wanna share this from Desi Rossi from Quora where she shared about life that everyone ignores. I hope you guys like and reflect about your experience.
A break-up is meant to teach you that this love wasnât meant to be and maybe that means you were saved from being with the wrong person in the end. Life is full of change, sometimes not in the way we planned. I know itâs hard to understand, and thatâs okay. Iâll help you through it.
To become a better you, youâre going to have to go through some hard experiences. Youâll make it through to the other side. It might feel like your heart is breaking, but in the end, youâll be the best version of yourself. You deserve to better and have a happier life.
Today is my birthday and I decided to have A Day in The Life of Besa through Podcast Episode.
There are a lot of advantages to meeting and chatting with friends online. Compared to meeting in person, online meetings are preferred by most people these days.
My Bestfriend interviewed me on my birthday episode. Thank you Caramelodice to be my host and love you â¤ď¸đ¤đ
Believing in ourselves can help us achieve our goals manifest our dreams and increase our well-being. You can overcome self-doubt and have the confidence to take action.
Iâm willingly removing myself from your life as my last gift to you and I hope that you will find people in your life who truly love and appreciate you in a way that keeps your light shining much brighter than before you met me.
Regret is not absolution. You donât get extra credit for flagellating yourself with sorrow. You have one life, and you help no one by hating the part that you already lived.
To the friend I fell in love with, I don't regret you. You were the best friend that I have ever had. You taught me more than any friend I have had. You were the first person I loved, and still now, it's hard for me to find someone because I'm always comparing them to you.
Single no matter what age is a no bad thing. Self respect is a massive thing just like a healthy long term relationship is. I find the most damaged individuals are always pushing for relationships. They should happen organically and not be rushed.
Itâs natural to feel devastated by feelings of grief and sadness when a beloved dog, cat, or other pet dies.
These are my list If you have high emotional intelligence and you know it, trust your intuition about other people.
Your humanity, imperfections, flaws, & frailty. Embrace all of it. When we lose our authenticity, we disconnect both from who we really are and from others.
People are likeable in different ways, likeable because they like you or they listen to you and open up to you or just plain, cute, funny and sweet always remember likeable comes in lots of ways.
Let us accept love as strong, independent women. Let us grow in humility. Let us grow in sisterhood. Let us support each other and always reach out a helping hand -- and let us reach back with a smile on our face as we say, âI know, but thank you so much for reminding me.â
The only thing you can do is take a chance and spend time with them. The more time you spend with a person, the more you interact, the better you get to know them. It's that simple. There are no shortcuts.
I could sacrifice myself for you but, at the end of the day, I was going to give and you were going to take until you had left me with nothing but frustration.
Sacrifices and compromises are common in romantic relationships, but they are not the norm in real love.
We might fail multiple times, but we will find courage to get back up every single time to fight against negative thoughts.
Being negative won't get you anywhere and the more negative you are, the worse you end up feeling
Please never give up on me when we get old and we get impatient. Remember our love. Remember our joy instead of the many fights that weâve had.
Getting to know one another and allowing for growth and understanding working as a team. Partners in love, life or career it all starts with the foundation being set.
My heart skips a beat when I'm with you. I feel special appreciated, trusted, desired and so loved.
Maturity brings with responsibility. With responsibility comes sensibility. Sensibility leads to confidence. So move with confidence to show the world you have now matured.
You took me for granted, you used me and you never realized how much I was actually there for you when you needed me. I was becoming invisible to you
Feeling unappreciated can lead to feelings of #resentment and #anger. Fortunately, these strategies can help you feel better and they might even prevent the relationship from being tarnished when you feel unappreciated.
Thank you for loving me despite my imperfections. Thank you for standing by my side when everything almost went upside down. Thank you for all the ice cold bucket of jokes and laughter.
Tonight's guest is someone who I think is a good role model. He is a consistent Multi-Awarded Real Estate specialist, a Sales & Marketing professional, a Motivational speaker who is popular on Tiktok, and a loving cat dad of Alfred.
Life is far from perfect, and what makes it beautiful is our ability to overcome and accept things with grace. Despite all of the trust issues I will forever battle with, the nights spent crying into my pillow of not feeling good enough.
Tonight's guest is someone who is enchanting, playful, witty, loves to play drums and is popular on Tiktok.
You will get dissatisfied no matter who you are with. And it could happen that you end up alone in life.
Tonight's guest is someone who is enchanting, playful, witty, loves to play drums and is popular on Tiktok.
A best friend is not seeing them all the time and still being so close it blows your mind, or getting so excited to see the other one when it might have only been a day that you've been apart, being able to call them at any time of day because you need them, feeling like you always have someone in your corner.
Erin Lao is a talented artist who specializes in making beautiful caricature drawings, and a Proud LGBT Member.
I wish you well my love and I hope that you'll meet a strong woman, not someone like me who's only good at pretending to be strong.
Reading a Letter by Yasmine Dalwood, I feel you, and I know you're being blindfolded by those dark thoughts but I still need you to count your blessings.
The saddest thing of all is that you were never mine like I was yours. I gave all of me and all I got in return were lies, games, and deceptions. You played with me like I was a puppet on a string that would move on your command.
Most people feel sad or depressed at times. It's normal reaction to loss or life's challenges. But when intense sadness, including feeling helpless, hopeless and worthless last for many days to weeks and keeps you from living your life, it may be something more than sadness. You could have clinical depression.
If you want your relationship to work, you have to choose to make it work, to be Happy and to be in Love.
This letter kept me going when I was tempted to believe that a true man of God no longer exist.
Most people think the election isn't their sole source of worry, but it can be one more thing on a list of worries that they already feel.
You will learn the invaluable lesson that your identity is not in what you do, but in who you are becoming. All the achievements mean nothing if you are not healthy and whole on the inside.
This is all based on my own experience and observations. I hope you guys learned from it.
Iâm here to tell you that a journey of self-love is done best when you have people around you that are only going to lift you up.
Emotional maturity is the process by which you learn to successfully navigate your entire emotional spectrum, taking responsibility for how you feel about yourself, others, and the world around you.
Reading a Letters by Jackie Hill Perry " The choice is yours, my friend. I pray you put your faith in Christ and flee from the lies of our society that coincide with the voices of your heart â a heart that Scripture says is wicked and deceitful.
Life gives us learning each day and learning turns into a unique experience. Thay will turn to GOLDEN ADVICE from life.
Reading a Letters by Kristiana Alvarado "I have learned to see the good in people, and more importantly, to see the best within myself.
You're smart, driven and passionate, That's everything I was looking for more. Let me tell you, You're worth it completely.
These are my list things we should never do. It will help you identify the key things that you need to STOP DOING so that you can have a better life.
One aspect of living a positive life is that those who lead those lives are confident in themselves. Yet the vast majority of individuals aren't in that position. Whether they are experiencing doubt, fear, or coming up with excuses.
Betrayal is one of the hardest things you can experience, and you may feel it's your fault. But I promise you it's not. It's not your fault that someone decided to back-stab you and treat you poorly. It's that person's fault for not valuing you or respecting.
What are the classification that we need to know and understand ourselves. Listen and reflect đ
If youâre ever feeling down or unworthy, try writing a love letter to yourself. Youâll be surprised at all the healing that can take place.
I do not think it is completely possible to love someone without expecting anything in return. We will always want a little acknowledgment of our love from them.
Let me be honest for the last time. There are still moments when everything I see reminds me of you. And I feel like the knot of air in my throat expands until it doesnât feel like breathing.
When they called to tell me my COVID-19 test was positive I thought there must have been a mistake and I felt perfectly fine.
Reading Letters a New Segment Every Thursday. Where I am about to read a letter of Rikki who lost herself while chasing the man of her dreams.
Iâve been a fangirl, passionately and shamelessly, since 2005 till now and being a fangirl for me is such a wonderful and worthy thing I did for the rest of my life. FANGIRLING is simply the act shown once you are a fangirl. It can fascinate you and can also destroy you.
Paramount to the success of your recovery process.
People in recovery find that their physical, spiritual, and emotional
health are all connected, and that supporting one supports
the others. Taking care of all aspects of you will increase the likelihood that
you stay well.
Itâs been a year of ups and downs and major decision making !
It's been a lot of sleepless nights, crying, feeling worthless to
realising how strong I am.
Happy Birthday Lola Deling! Losing you broke my heart, and I still can not comprehend the fact
that you are gone. I have a lot of comfort and joy knowing that we will meet again someday. I am proud beyond words to be your granddaughter.
Feeling lonely doesn't only happen when you're alone. In fact, some people enjoy time to themselves.
You might even feel lonely when youâre in a room full of people. When you donât feel connected with anyone or you feel like no one understands you.
Smart people share some important personality traits. Itâs relatively easy for an intelligent person to recognize one of
his peers. Not sure you can watch a person in sleep for any length of time
to figure out how smart he is. Words and actions from said person
are generally necessary and probably the most reliable signs
of intelligence.
People nowadays feel insecure about their appearance.
Constantly worrying about how they look or trying to hide things and considered flaws, though, may indicate body dysmorphia. This is a serious mental disorder that can affect both men and women.
Parenting is a tough job that does not come with a rulebook, so parents have to make their own rules. They may have the best intentions when they discipline you, but some can be so strict they curtail a childâs independence and growth. Dealing with those strict parents can be difficult. So I decided to guest someone who can share his experience and Let's get to know him.
You should rather learn how to differentiate between good and bad and understand how to maintain it at healthy levels. When the relationship crosses over to the negative side of emotional attachment, it destroys the bond as well as the two people involved in it. In can disrupt and damage lives.
I am overwhelmed with the love I received this month on my birthday episode in my podcast. You guys have supported me every step of the way and every episode . The support of all of you is more precious than all the gold in the world.
The twenties are the best time of our lives when we open ourselves to people and possibilities. If I ever got to meet my younger self, I would tell her not to fret as much and just keep living life to the fullest.
I ask my followers on Instagram to ask me anything, so here are the question and my answers. I hope you guys enjoyed.
Besa, which literally means âto keep the promise.â One who acts according to Besa is someone who keeps his word, someone to whom one can trust one's life and the lives of one's family.
It's me Ask Girl with Besa, This month I will be celebrating my birthday month and I decided to have special episode for you guys. Catch me every Thursday.
A strong personality is one who is optimistic in all the situations, is witty enough to manage the situations calmly. A strong personality also includes someone who might have achieved a lot and is still humble, down to earth and is respectful towards others.
Making wrong decisions is inevitable. We all make bad decisions in our lives but we can reduce the frequency somehow. You're only human. Be kind to yourself. We have all made mistakes. Give yourself a break. No one goes through life without big mistakes. In fact, sometimes something good may come out from something bad.
Most people are not âthinkingâ they are just doing the repetition work. If you stop someone and ask them why they are doing what they are doing, they simply don't know the answer. Because of the work pressure and lifestyle issues they are simply existing and not actually living. REMEMBER Never stop learning and growing in life.
Compatibility is not a guarantee of a perfect relationship however it implies the strengths and challenges of each partner. Each person's astrological sign tends to influence their behavior and zodiac sign responds to different motivations and typically has a distinct outlook on life.
Self-worth is an internal state of being that comes from self-understanding, self-love, and self-acceptance. People will take advantage of you and do things that are not at all respectful.
Until you finally stand up for yourself and decide that you deserve more it will continue to happen. Once you do this you will discover the self-worth you are looking for.
Some days become very difficult, harder than wethink. This will be the day when you bite your toe and hold back your tears and scream. You don't even know why you are sad. This will be a day when the world looks too harsh and meaningless. The most difficult thing is to overcome.
Stress is an unavoidable part of life, but that doesnât mean you should ignore it. Too much untreated stress can cause potentially serious physical and mental health problems. The good news for us is that in many cases, stress is manageable. With some patience and a few useful strategies, you can reduce your stress.Learn to love yourself, learn to respect your decisions and learn to believe in the unique self you are. Stress is mostly a combination of low energy but heavy load. Just go out, try to re-energize and live life to the fullest.
Forgiving someone takes time . Yes, it takes a whole lot of time to forgive someone. Forgiving doesn't mean that whatever happened to you is justified. It's making peace and avoiding troubles.
Forgiveness should be done for the betterment of us. The more you will involve yourselves with bitter memories the more you will degrade as a human,as a person. Degradation of self performance will lead to Depression and Health disruption.
Forgiveness is the purest form of love. It's essential to gain Inner Peace.
I understand and it feels really sad knowing you want to trust and get close to people but you have a fear that keeps you away from doing this. If you are really willing to find a way to get out of this fear, then you have to be positive and also be neutral about people.
The only reason behind your trust issues and fear of intimacy is your PAST. Always remember; Donât be afraid to get hurt and donât let this fear hold you back when you know you can trust and get attached to people.
Just by believing in yourself and believing in the power of love and honesty.
Jealousy comes from the thought of not having enough for yourself. You become jealous of others when you think that they have more than you, even though you deserve that thing more.
It is simply a lack of certainty, confidence and happiness within yourself. You will not find a person who is genuinely happy who also will be genuinely jealous of anything, because they do not need to be.
One sided love is a kind of great feeling, you may start thinking about the person and end up thinking about them for hours, in their thoughts and imagining being together. I think one-sided love is actually true love if you are not merely attracted to the person and if it is not just an Infatuation, sometimes you may have mature love for the person, like if the person you love is happy, so you are. But maybe in expecting more, sadness may take a toll over that happiness.
Best Friends help each other to become a better person, despite all the struggles they go through in their life, They will stick by you and always accept you for who you are. A person who will always tell you what you need to hear even if itâs not necessarily what you want to hear and who can make you laugh even on your bad days and who makes all the problems in life seem easy to overcome as long as you have them by your side.
Being nice doesnât mean you have to be nice all the time. Yes, I always feel tired. I just want to stand up for myself. Sometimes, I want to let people know I am in a bad mood without sounding rude. I want to express that something is making me uncomfortable but I canât but if someone is being disrespectful, I will definitely say something. Sticking up for myself or for someone else doesnât lessen my âniceâ trait.
Values exist, whether you recognize them or not. Life can be much easier when you acknowledge your values â and when you make plans and decisions that honor them. My Top 3 things which people should value in life are:
Fear of being unsuccessful in life can be turned into an unstoppable driving force and motivation to work towards success in life and You just need to realize one thing that you have got all the power inside of you as your soul . Have your own set beliefs and work on them.
Mentally strong individuals have guts to express how they truly feel and act how they want to. Always remember First step is to STOP thinking and feeling that you are weak.
We always wonder that when we miss someone, is it because we love that person, we like that person or maybe it's just an Infatuation? We keep on fighting with ourselves that what's the reason for missing that person? Remember Life is too short, if you love or you miss someone do let them know.
Do you feel unloved and unwanted all the time? Feeling unloved is one of the worst feelings you can have. Before you forget What love feels like, always remember that it's everywhere. I have 6 reasons to understand why you're feeling that way? and 10 ways to fix it for good.
Physical attraction is important, but not everything. Real Attraction is not just about appearance but a combination of various aspects like physical, emotional & spiritual connection along with friendship and other qualities.
Raising a child as a single parent is not easy you have to handle several challenges to support and nurture your children. Let's talk and understand the positive and negative effects of Single Parenting.
These are my list from what i learned from this pandemic. While coping with this crisis, We still have an opportunity to rediscover basic values of humanity and the bonds that connect us. Always remember Don't get Covid positive, instead be positive that covid ends soon.
People cheat because their needs and wants are more important to them than the needs and wants of their partner and the relationship. Remember this: To cheat on someone is your choice.
Let's be honest to ourselves, We have tendency to over-react or jump to conclusions easily and We are all guilty of overthinking, getting emotional. So men suffer the consequences of our traits.They are no where near perfect, and neither are we. Let's get to know the things we shouldn't get mad to our partners.
Are you one of the many people dealing insecurities? When your partner has given you no reason to feel insecure. Life can be challenging if you feel inadequate to cope with your demands. So here are reasons for you to STOP being insecure.
Relationship are supported to feel good and you need to feel very well with that person. If it's not so the chances are not with the right person.
Every person looking for a great relationship knows the importance of compatibility and you want to find someone who beliefs, interests, goals align with your own. Don't be confuse with Chemistry and Compatibility.
Falling in love is always good, It is a wonderful state of mind.Love can happen anywhere, by any means. Just don't be blind to give your all feelings for one person.
People say that the right person comes along at the right time and being single is not BAD it is a place to be.
This is a very personal experience i had and i will share it with you guys. Sometimes you will meet the right person but it's just the wrong time.
5 Different ways of Expressing and Receiving love. Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Services and Physical Touch