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Russell has a fantastic story that goes from the mountains of Afghanistan as a 75th Ranger Team Leader to becoming an emergency medicine doctor.
About Erin from her LinkedInAs a society, we have never lived in a mentally weaker time. Everything is infested with ease and convenience. And, there are no repercussions for being a professional victim.Success is vilified. Mental weakness is celebrated.And this is the problem we face today.I've recently become concerned with how this modern narrative is influencing the next generation of leaders because I've witnessed first hand the impact that self-entitlement and cutting corners is having on American culture.AMBITIOUS AF™ is in response to that narrative.Through this project, we are dedicated to the bigger picture: the relationships we form, the organizations we work with, and our obligation to teach others what we know.In doing so, we believe that we can help steer this country back to its core values: freedom from tyrannical oppression.But I have to be honest here… AMBITIOUS AF isn't for everyone. But for everyone that is for us, there is no greater impact we can make than joining forces to become an uncommon force for good in the world.I hope you’ll follow us and even take part in what we’re doing. Life’s greatest adventures are ahead of us all. Let's do life together!WHAT I DO: I coach already successful surgeons to create, build, and defend the impact they have in the world by elevating their current baseline of mental strength training, mapping out and deploying a customized game plan of self-actualization work, and developing a new strategy for maximum personal fulfillment that aligns cohesively with their best self.COACHING APPROACH: Results. This may seem obvious, but it's not. I plant a stake in the ground for what my client can do. If my client waivers I do not because I help represent my client's most ambitious goals.My clients have unique requirements. They're not looking for a light weight. They want results-driven, evidenced based, iron clad coaching.Lucky for you I'm ridiculously talented, smart, and honest with a penchant for elbow grease and pushing boundaries.Feel that tingling in your fingertips? That's the magnetic urge to get started!P.S. If it’s 2am or you’re shy, email me and I’ll take it from there.Email: challengeaccepted@joinambitiousaf.comMOST COMMON QUESTION: Do you coach anyone other than surgeons?ANSWER: Yes. I currently coach U.S. Special Ops Forces, NFL Athletes, political candidates, the top 1% of humans.PODCAST: AMBITIOUS AF Podcast™. The raw, unfiltered truth.COACHING IS NOT: Unless licensed, coaches do not make or treat diagnoses nor collect case history data; it is not a replacement for licensed therapy.
Chuck's sacrifices for our country cannot be put into words. Listen to Chuck's stories. You will not be disappointed.
Michael DeSelm is an inspiration. He has many amazing stories about his time in the Navy and his post-Navy life, including how he started a church for people who don't like church and how he recovered from cancer. A must listen.
Mike is an awesome guy and someone you want with you during a gunfight. You can learn more about Michael from his LinkedIn below. I am a Special Operations veteran transitioning to the private sector in January of 2024. That is who I am, but there is so much more to tell. In the Autumn of 2001, I was a sophomore at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. It seemed to my father at the time that I was far more concerned with playing rugby and enjoying the social scene at UT than my studies, and he wasn’t wrong about that.On the morning of September 11th, I woke up late, most likely from festivities the night before and turned on the television just in time to see the second plane fly into the south Tower. As with many that day, my life would be forever changed.I was ready to drop out of school and enlist that day and that would’ve been the story if my father hadn’t stepped in and offered a piece of advice. “Finish your degree and then join. You’ll wish you would have if you don’t.” That tidbit of Fatherly advice was quite astute, and I give my father credit to this day about it.I would spend the next 20 years climbing the ranks of the Army, with most of that time in Special Operations. What initially was a challenge and a rush of adventure, turned into a passion and a career developing teams and mentoring subordinates to become more proficient leaders. Developing others and cultivating diverse teams that could accomplish arduous tasks in high-pressure environments became a personal calling card. It is fitting then that my Gallup Strengths turned out to be: Achiever | Harmony | Consistency | Context | FocusAs my military career comes to an end and I look to the next chapter in the private sector, I look forward to continuing to work with diverse teams of individuals to accomplish difficult tasks and improve the organization and community around me.“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou
Learn more about Carlos from his LinkedIn below. Who is Carlos Vasquez, and what is How to Battle?The Catalyst of Change:Carlos Vasquez is not just a name; he's a force of transformation. An entrepreneur, author, speaker, and personal and professional development coach, Carlos's journey from incarceration to inspiration exemplifies the profound might of resilience and determination. At just 19, he faced a daunting 20-year prison sentence. This tumultuous phase nearly broke him, yet an influential encounter with a chaplain during his time in solitary confinement sparked an indomitable spirit and journey towards self-awareness and purpose.In spite of the bars that confined him, Carlos's spirit remained unshackled. He pursued education, attaining a degree in psychology, and transformed his tribulations into cornerstones of personal evolution. From the silence of his cell emerged The PRICE: Five Principles to Break the Bonds of Trauma and Achieve Personal Success. Published in March 2023, this book has since illuminated paths for many across the globe, heralded in educational institutions as a torchbearer of hope and a blueprint for achieving success.From Convict to CEO:Freed in 2021, Carlos's insatiable hunger for knowledge led him to the Drucker School of Management, where he earned a degree in entrepreneurship. Armed with his potent education, he founded How to Battle - not merely as a coaching business but as a transformative movement. Through this venture, Carlos shares his empowering message, offering keynote speeches and workshops in diverse arenas, ranging from academic institutions and foster homes to organizations and the very prisons he was once confined in.At the helm of How to Battle, Carlos is a beacon, testifying to the human spirit's innate ability to transcend challenges. His captivating oratory has inspired multitudes to face their adversities head-on, viewing them not as roadblocks but as launchpads for self-enhancement.Now rooted in Los Angeles, Carlos tirelessly propels others forward, converting his own saga of struggles into an emblem of hope and personal metamorphosis. His signature talks delve deep into leadership, teamwork, overcoming adversity, resilience, unwavering accountability, and the quintessential five principles that have steered his life's course.Embark on a transformative journey with Carlos Vasquez, as he equips you with the tools to combat life's battles, demonstrating that challenges, when faced head-on, can indeed pave the way for unprecedented success.
About Dave from his LinkedIn. The greatest joy for me is passing on life and leadership lessons, both the highs and lows, and knowing that I've made a positive impact on a future or current leader.During my talks, I delve into topics like leadership, high-performing teams, diversity, values in leadership, hard lessons learned, and the power of forgiveness. It's about sharing experiences that resonate with individuals and teams on a personal level.LDR Leadership, LLC, the company I'm passionate about, is a veteran-owned small business. We bring together evidence-based research and a wealth of senior leader experience to help companies grow their employees, build effective teams, nurture inspirational leaders, and create high-performance organizations. Our copyrighted performance management training system is designed to transform the dynamic of any organization.In my quest for continuous learning, I pursued a master's in leadership from Georgetown University. I wanted to go beyond my own experiences, delving into the science behind leading others and teams, ensuring that I can bring evidence-based leadership to our clients and partners.My journey started with enlisting in the army in 1992, earning my commission in 1997 from West Virginia University. I spent the next two decades on active duty, with the majority in special operations as an Army Ranger. Deployed eight times to combat, leading Rangers and special operators ranging from 200 - 1000. My final assignment was at Arlington National Cemetery, where I had the honor of laying our fallen heroes to rest.In 2016, I had a transformative experience summiting my first mountain, Mt. Shasta, in California. It was during that trip that my love for mountaineering was born, and I made the decision to retire from the Army.Throughout this journey, my core values of family, adventure, helping others, leadership, and relationships have been my guiding force. These values led me to LDR Leadership, which remains my tribe even after my military service. The combination of my diverse experiences has shaped who I am today, and I'm excited to share those insights with others.
Michael Halterman is a retired Special Operations Marine and current Vice President of Operations at The Honor Foundation.
For more information about The Honor Foundation and how to support the Leading With Vulnerability podcast, look for the links below "about Halty."
About Halty, from his LinkedIn
My Why,
I solve the problems of tomorrow so that others can bridge to the future. I have watched the monochromatic desert in southern Afghanistan come into a vivid array of sunrise colors. I have walked through the dense forest in the rolling green hills of Kosovo in early autumn.
During these moments and many more like them, I have had the privilege of leading teams of all sizes, cultures, religions, and ethnicities. For the first 20 years of my professional life, I honorably served in the United States Marine Corps as an Infantryman and Marine Raider.
These experiences have taught me a deep appreciation of different cultures and points of view. I was born and raised in California in a small town on the coast. I learned the value of hard work, sports comradery, and the art of self-reliance in individual sports growing up. After graduating from a small-town high school, I was ready to see the world and live a life of service. I found a connection with the United States Marine Corps and never looked back. My small-town upbringing, combined with my 20 years of global experience in the Marine Corps, has been instrumental in my current role at The Honor Foundation.
I listen mindfully and seek to understand before being understood. I find balance in my career by having a daily yoga and meditation practice, climbing, mountaineering, and running new trails in the great outdoors.
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Meet Monty below, and to support the show, the link below will take you to the Patreon page. Thank you! patreon.com/leadingwithvulnerabilityStarting from a young age in Costa Rica, dreaming about being different and excelling was always in my mind; I began my journey at the age of 21 (2005) by joining the French Foreign Legion; during my time there, I was able to expand my knowledge and views of the world, which showed me how much work I have in the future to be an authentic leader, during my adventures in Africa or Europe I realized that I have a lot of work to do on myself. Then I decided to join the US army (2012), but this was an arduous task; going to another country unprepared is going to be one of the most challenging tasks of my life, and it will take me two years to get in (2010-2012). However, it was possible to make it happen because of the determination of my belief in becoming part of the best army in the world… The US Army.Today I will say the 75th Ranger Regiment gave me everything for my professional and personal development; I'm always going to be thankful to the US Army for making me a better human being, and I will always be grateful to the 75th Ranger regiment for making me the best soldier that I could become. The Regiment gave me one last gift that would ultimately push my limits mentally and physically: the Lancero School. Today with 17 years of military life and with less than one year left in the Army, I decided to step away and continue a new adventure in which I will be able to see other paths and always be part in an indirect way of the safety and security of this unique and beautiful country the United States of America. My skills go from using languages, like complete knowledge of French and Spanish to considerable expertise with the Portuguese and Italian languages, Close Protection (bodyguard), and in Maritimes schools. Let's not forget that social intelligence is one of the keys to every aspect of networking and is one of my most significant qualities. I am here to be part of all this networking. I dream that no matter where I go, or the place that I'm going to work with, I will make it better, and everyone around me will be a better professional and a natural leader. Leadership will always be something that I will be working on until the last day of my life; leadership is an endless act.
Meet Monty below, and to support the show, the link below will take you to the Patreon page. Thank you! patreon.com/leadingwithvulnerabilityStarting from a young age in Costa Rica, dreaming about being different and excelling was always in my mind; I began my journey at the age of 21 (2005) by joining the French Foreign Legion; during my time there, I was able to expand my knowledge and views of the world, which showed me how much work I have in the future to be an authentic leader, during my adventures in Africa or Europe I realized that I have a lot of work to do on myself. Then I decided to join the US army (2012), but this was an arduous task; going to another country unprepared is going to be one of the most challenging tasks of my life, and it will take me two years to get in (2010-2012). However, it was possible to make it happen because of the determination of my belief in becoming part of the best army in the world… The US Army.Today I will say the 75th Ranger Regiment gave me everything for my professional and personal development; I'm always going to be thankful to the US Army for making me a better human being, and I will always be grateful to the 75th Ranger regiment for making me the best soldier that I could become. The Regiment gave me one last gift that would ultimately push my limits mentally and physically: the Lancero School. Today with 17 years of military life and with less than one year left in the Army, I decided to step away and continue a new adventure in which I will be able to see other paths and always be part in an indirect way of the safety and security of this unique and beautiful country the United States of America. My skills go from using languages, like complete knowledge of French and Spanish to considerable expertise with the Portuguese and Italian languages, Close Protection (bodyguard), and in Maritimes schools. Let's not forget that social intelligence is one of the keys to every aspect of networking and is one of my most significant qualities. I am here to be part of all this networking. I dream that no matter where I go, or the place that I'm going to work with, I will make it better, and everyone around me will be a better professional and a natural leader. Leadership will always be something that I will be working on until the last day of my life; leadership is an endless act.
What is leadership? How have you changed as a leader? How did you achieve balance in your life with the high demands of the Army + multiple deployments? We cover all of this and more during part two of our conversation. If you would like to support the podcast, see the Patreon link below, and thank you for the support. patreon.com/leadingwithvulnerability
What does Leading with Vulnerability mean? Why did you join the Army? Why the Rangers? How did you achieve balance in your life with the high demands of the Army + multiple deployments? We cover all of this and more during part one of our conversation. If you would like to support the podcast, see the Patreon link below, and thank you for the support. patreon.com/leadingwithvulnerability
Omar Vela has a personality as big as his home state of Texas. Omar served many years in the 75th Ranger Regiment and continued his service with the US Secret Service. He has a great story that spans the mountains of Afghanistan as a Ranger and the streets of Washington, DC, as a Secret Service Agent.
Meet Nate, in his own words. My Why: To lead others through the crucibles of our lives, so that we may bring our true value to the world!How do I do this?By helping others break through their our own “glass ceilings” that limit their view of themselves and the world, in order to show how much more is within the realm of the possible.How do I see the world:I contend that anything is possible! With a vision of a future-state well defined in my mind, I pride myself in being able to navigate rough waters and help my organization achieve greatness. I enthusiastically aim to prove that there are no “glass ceilings” holding us back from them achieving our own greatness. I am eager to find opportunities to better myself and those around me, while providing a “voice for the voiceless.” I delight in my coordination and scheduling skills; to activate my team and provide a sense of purpose to those whom I serve. I enjoy the challenge of keeping several assignments moving forward simultaneously, yet independent of each other; sparking my drive to excel at “plate spinning.”
Mitchel Coffman is a SCAD-educated artist and has drawn many portraits of American fallen heroes. During our conversation, Mitch discusses his SCAD education, his first encounters with the members of the 75th Ranger Regiment, and his process for drawing pictures of the fallen.
It's a great story, and we are thankful that Mitch is helping preserve the legacy of the fallen.
Cutis Kindred was a great Ranger and had all of the potential in the world. One mistake turned his whole life upside-down. He could have stayed on the dark path of failure, but he got up, dusted himself off, and built a multi-million dollar company. His story is one that can inspire us all.
Jeremy Noble is a board-certified psychologist. He served as the lead psychologist for the 75th Ranger Regiment and continues his practice in his civilian career. Jeremy has excellent insight into being a military psychologist, service, and life in general.
Here are a few things I have learned one year into my military retirement. And if you want to join the Salty Vets Discord, use the link below. https://discord.gg/8yAbCQUm
Who is David Nordel?
Proud hubby and father of two, 30 years active military service retired Command Chief Master Sergeant, Reached a point in my life when it is time to give back, I do part time emergency management helping communities stay prepared and maintain my registered nursing license and stay as current as I can in emergency medicine. I am privileged to mentor some terrific millennials and Gen Z superstars and speak on leadership and motivation. I recently started to write in a way to share my life so that others may travel an easier path through some of my experiences and lesson in life. Looking to expand that exposure and help and give back!
Matt Stevens is a former Navy SEAL commander and continues to serve the Special Operations community as the CEO of The Honor Foundation. I am humbled to serve the Special Operations Community through The Honor Foundation, a world-class organization of servant leaders who strive, every day, to assist our brothers and sisters transition to their next phase of life.The Honor Foundation exists solely to serve others with Honor, for life; so that their next mission is always clear and continues to impact the world.
The Objective Zero Foundation contributes to local, state, and national efforts that prevent suicide. We accomplish this by enhancing social connectedness and access to suicide prevention resources. A mission-driven tech start-up, Objective Zero seeks to connect service members, veterans, their families, and caregivers to suicide prevention support and resources.
https://www.objectivezero.org/
Pat shares his story about being in the conventional Army and making the leap to Special Forces. Pat has a great story and perspective. I hope you all enjoy it.
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Cleared Hot
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About Brian
Brian Slade is a Combat Rescue Helicopter Evaluator Pilot in the United States Air Force with 25 years of military service. He is also a real estate professional and recently minted author. His debut book Cleared Hot is a compelling, non-fiction account of what it takes to face your fears and overcome potential PTSD. When it comes to war and life, there are a lot of things that can happen. And while you can't always control what happens to you, you can control how you react to it. With wit and humor, he recounts his experiences in the military and how he overcame the challenges he faced both during and after his service. His story is inspirational and educational, and it's sure to help anyone dealing with PTSD or any other kind of trauma.
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*About Tony, from his LinkedIN*My passion is to create influence and purpose in people. I bring 12+ years of Leadership experience ranging from Military Special Operations to Amazon Fulfillment and Leadership Development. I am a published author and speaker in the leadership profession. I am consistently able to deliver results through teaching, coaching, and listening. I yield an unmatching level of ownership and empathy from the individual and collective levels by providing detailed analysis designed for the strategic long-term. I thrive in ever-changing and complex environments by developing a team’s resiliency, adaptability, and interpersonal skill.
Introduceing the ValhallaCowboy. The greatest Viking Cowboy of his generation. Let's help the Cowboy with his mission to raise money for Veteran mental health and mental health awareness. Follow and connect with him using the below links.
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Nick had a distinguished career in the 75th Ranger Regiment and continues serving with Darby Warrior Support in Arkansas. To learn more about Darby Warrior Support or to support their mission, visit their website. https://darbyswarriorsupport.org/
Time for a Veterans Day war story. I'll also talk about the meaning of Veterans Day and some of the unintended consequences of Veterans Day.
From Nick's website | Linked below I am a transformational life coach, entrepreneur, father and former US Army Ranger. My mission is to empower you to live your life as an adventure - with peace, passion and intention. I do this by helping you embrace uncertainty and envision the life you want to live (your adventure). I guide you through first steps and hold you accountable for taking action. In addition to coaching sessions by phone and in person, I take you out in the wilderness for "adventure coaching sessions" to get you out of your head and into your heart. I listen, reflect, and support you to grow. I celebrate your successes and push you to be brave, go farther, and we do it together. Throughout this bold and adventurous life, I have won and lost. I have played with the fear of the deep unknown. I have tasted the sweet victory resulting from dedicated effort and hard work. I have felt the pain of trying to control things beyond my control. As a recovering “control addict” and former corporate employee (asleep at the wheel of my life), I have felt the struggle of living disconnectedly – void of true purpose – a vassal to the grind and societal expectations. I’ve been stuck in the preservation zone, playing safe and playing small. I got unstuck when a life coach, and friend, asked me one pivotal question. It was the question that cut deep and shook me to the core. It shook me awake - wide awake. I grabbed the wheel, and redirected my course towards passion and purpose. I chose to live with intention and explore the possibilities of my most adventurous life. With critical guidance from my coach – I now live my adventure. It's my turn to help you live yours! https://www.nickdevlincoaching.com/
Who is Paul?
"...To Find and Feed the spark in us, so that together we can each Lead our own Legacy." Experienced Leader skilled in Intelligence, Readiness, Operational Planning, Tactics, and C4ISR. USAF Academy Graduate with a BS in Engineering Mechanics. Strong program and project management professional. MBA from Trident University. Experienced Problem Solver accustomed to making high stakes decisions with strategic impact under tremendous pressure.
Jon Cobb is an executive coach and business transformation leader. Since leaving Deloitte Consulting and founding The Tempest Group, he has managed global transformations, M&A integrations, and startup scaling efforts for some of the most-admired companies in the world. Jon holds an MBA from Vanderbilt and an MPA from Harvard. He is also PMP certified.
In 2010 I sent socks in care packages to a friend deployed to Afghanistan - and that set off a chain of events that I never could have imagined! The socks were a hit, and the idea of SOLEDIER SOCKS was born. An entrepreneurial spirit, patriotic heart, and desire to give back were the perfect recipe to take that leap of faith and start my own company! Now, we create the most comfortable & durable socks possible, supporting our U.S. Military community with every purchase - making sure dealing with a blister is the last thing a deployed service member should be worrying about!
I am often asked, " why should I join the military?" There are many reasons, but here are 10 of my favorites.
Submitting a VA claim can be overwhelming. Listen while I share my lesson learned in VA submission jungle navigation.
Dr. Knouf is an inspirational and motivational author and speaker, coach and counselor. He has spoken publicly over 12,000 times for corporations, training events, television and radio, schools, colleges, professional seminars, business meetings and religious organizations. He holds a PhD. in Psychology and has been past President and CEO of successful corporations over the last 35 years. He is considered an expert in human motivation as well as an interesting and captivating speaker. He has been called "the eternal optimist" by some of his associates. His love of people and his desire to help people reach there maximum potential in life is his driving mission and message.
Cowboys and the military have more in common than you think. Louis Sanders is a true-blooded America Cowboy. He works hard to put a quality piece of meat on your dinner plate. Sadly many people in the government are making the Cowboy way of life more difficult than it should be. Listen to Louis as he shares some Cowboy stories and a little poetry.
The conclusion of season one of the LWV podcast. A look back on season one and revisit why I started doing the podcast.
David was wounded by enemy fire a few years ago in Afghanistan. Despite his best efforts, he could not fully recover from his wounds forcing early medical retirement from the Army. David initially struggled during his military transition, but David has found success because of determination and mentorship.
Everyone asks where they can find Raye's remarks from his retirement ceremony. Here you go. I hope you all enjoy listening.
Josh Jacobs spent 20-years leading from the front while assigned to the 75th Ranger Regiment. Listen while he says his final goodbye to the US Army and the 75th.
Military, college, MBA, construction works, ranching, or high school, It does not matter what you have done in your past. What matters is how you articulate and translate the skills and lessons from your past endeavors into your new life or occupation.
In this episode of the podcast, Kyle Cicora share's how lifelong learning and a willingness to ask questions and try new things can help you translate value from past experiences.
What is your definition of vulnerability? Weakness? Owning your truest self? Getting comfortable being uncomfortable? Admitting you may not have all of the answers?
I ask the question to all of my guests. What is your definition of vulnerability? I love the varying answers I get, and no answer is a wrong answer. I picked 13 guests from past episodes and shared their definitions in this one episode. Guests like Don Barden, Raye Perez, Jennifer Hartung, Ali Villanueva, and nine others. It is interesting to hear their definitions in succession. I hope you enjoy it.
Army Captain Justin Lane shares his story about commissioning as an Army Officer through ROTC. Justin has served in the 75th Ranger Regiment on two occasions. Justin also has a lot of experience in the conventional Army. Justin shares some of his stories about the Army, and as a husband and father. This is a great episode for anyone in leadership or curious about serving in the Army as an officer.
A few questions I am often asked about LinkedIn. Do I need a LinkedIn? Will LinkedIn help me find a job? How do establish my LinkedIn? Simple questions to ask, but not simple questions to answer. I'll do my best to break down LinkedIn so you can make a more informed decision.
Life is full of transition. The transition from middle school to high school. Transition from single to married. Transition from no kids to a house full of kids. Transition from the military to civilian.
Transition is everywhere, and how do we ensure the transition is successful? Today on the podcast I will share my tip and lessons learned for a successful transition in any phase of life.
Josh Jacobs and my remarks at my retirement ceremony. The words spoken here transcend the ceremony and are a tribute to all Rangers and their families, past, present, and future.
Tony Mayne is dedicated to the men and women defending the nation. His purpose is to optimize the personal and professional development of individuals and teams to build principled communities in the public, private and nonprofit sectors. Experienced in change management, Tony applies biblical business principles from the strategic planning process through project management completion.
Josh Jacobs and I have some fun talking sports, breaking down the Super Bowl, and having a friendly bet among friends.
Dan Damschen shares his story about his time in the military and life. The ups, the downs, and the lessons learned. He is a servant leader, and I am proud to call him a friend.
Brian Marx is one of the best people I know. He is hardworking, reliable, strong, intelligent, compassionate, and dedicated—basically, everything you want in a 75th Ranger leader. If I have my pick of all the Ranger communicators I have had the privilege to work with over the years, Brian is my number one pick.
In episode 27 of the LWV podcast, I will wrap up 2021 and discuss how to prepare for 2022.
In my 20 years in US Army Special Operations, I have worked with great leaders from many Special Operations Forces. They all had the five traits I will discuss in today's episode.
A few months back, our daughter suffered a severe seizure. The result was me giving her CPR. Listen to our story to find out why.
Matt is a great leader, and he comes from a line of great leaders in his family. Matt shares his story of service to our nation and about his pursuit of an MBA from Emory University.
Another incredible story of perseverance from Kari Merriken. Listen while she tells us about her journey as a mother. This journey includes losing a baby, raising two children with special needs, and her own struggle with mental health.
Kari Merriken is one of the most resilient people I have ever met. Part I of her story covers the entire range of emotions. Our Military Spouses are truly amazing.
Dr. Anthony Randall has served for 25 years as a transformational leader and trusted professional. He specializes in moral and ethical leadership and character development, confidential executive coaching (ICF ACC), and keynote speaking. A trusted leadership advisor to senior leaders and teams, he has taught, trained, and coached over 12,000 professionals in their respective marketplace. He has served as a member of elite US Special Operations Units, Major League Baseball, NCAA Division I Athletics, Academia, Corporate America, Law Enforcement, non-profits and religious institutions.
I found my purpose while on the back of a CH-47 helicopter in Iraq and I didn’t even know I was looking for it.
Brittany is an enthusiastic keynote speaker and coach. She has trained over 250 businesses globally. Her passion is to motivate individuals to live a life true to who they are. As a speaker, she has shared the stage with names like Dominique Wilkins, David Goggins, Jesse Itzler, and Dave Sanderson (survivor of "Miracle on the Hudson"). A few past corporate training clients include notable companies like Susan G. Komen, Georgia Chamber, and Southern Company.
Brittany recently earned a Certification in Entrepreneurship from HBX Harvard business school and was named a 40 under 40 class at Georgia Southern University. Go to the website to learn more BrighterWithBritt.com.
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Medic. That word will always hold a special place in my heart. I have had a medic at my hip for most of the last ten years in uniform. I did not go anywhere without my medic. I can hear myself now. Doc! Where’s Doc?! Get Doc up here! Have you seen Doc? On the podcast today, I once again have a medic on my hip, which brings a smile to my face.
Zach Conaway is one of the most genuine people you will ever meet. Be careful if you ask for his opinion Zach will tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. His candidness is one of the qualities that make him a great medic.
Zach has been a medic for all of his military career and is a good one. Medics are special people. They train their whole career honing medical skills they hope never to use. Nothing grabs the attention of people like hearing the call “get the medic up here, now.” Zach and his medic brethren are the best at what they do, and I would trust them with the life of my wife and kids.
I am proud to call Zach “Doc” Conaway a friend
Saunders worked in local churches for 22 years and an international charity for the last 8. R.D. is now the Director of Advancement for Dr. John C. Maxwell's EQUIP Leadership Foundation. R.D. and I talk about life, leadership, and everything in between in this episode.
Jeff is an experienced leader with over 10 years of experience in the financial services, defense, and consulting industries. He has a history of success in small team leadership. Jeff is passionate about leadership, teamwork, and helping people achieve their goals-financial and otherwise. On top of all that, Jeff is an amazing person and mentor to transitioning service members. Jeff always finds the time to give back to the military community. I hope you enjoy our conversation.
Our Gold Star families are national treasures, and Pat Marek is a treasure to my family. Pat is the mother of Matt Commons. Matt was my Ranger buddy, and he gave his life in service to our country on March 4, 2002.
Pat and I admittedly stayed distant from each other over the years to not emotionally hurt one another. That has changed with this podcast as we shared laughs and tears while we remembered her son and my friend.
I hope you all listen to Pat's story, and if you are struggling with a loss, I encourage you to talk with someone. It really does help.
I am convinced that Don Barden is the most interesting man in the world. Don is a classically trained economist who earned his M.B.A. in Global Technology Management and International Business with an undergraduate B.B.A. in Economics and Finance. He is A.B.D. with doctoral studies in International Finance and Behavioral Economics. He resides in Atlanta, Georgia, and is fluent in international business affairs.
Don is also one of the most generous people I know with both his time and resources. He is a servant leader who sets the example for others to follow, and I am lucky to call him a friend and mentor.
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Kanaan Merriken is the definition of perseverance. An IED struck the vehicle Kanaan was in, leaving him with severe injuries to the head and neck. Kanaan was acting as the medic on this deployment, and instead of seeking cover to address his wounds, he did what he could to save others. Eventually, his wounds incapacitated him, and at one point, Kanaan was void of all vital signs. Kanaan was dead. However, in true warrior fashion, he denied deaths call. Kanaan spent several days in a coma, but he persevered.
Upon recovering from his wounds, Kanaan received a medical discharge from the Army. What does Kanaan do now? Not much he’s just a Sergeant Major in the Army! Yes, from death to 100 percent service-connected disability to Army Sergeant Major.
I am only telling you part of the story. I am proud to call Kanaan a friend, and I am grateful he was vulnerable enough to share his story with us.
Dr. Justin Finney suffered a career-ending injury 10 years into his Army career. Then, married with two kids and no higher education, Justin had 90 days to figure out what to do with his life. Justin chose to continue a life of service and became a teacher. He continued climbing from teacher to Principal and is now Assistant Superintendent of Business Services and Technology with the Harris County Georgia School System.
Justin left the Army and the 3rd Ranger Battalion just over a year before 9/11. His military career did not end on his terms. Watching the events of 9/11 and the next 20 years of conflict unfold had a profound impact on him. Everything happens for a reason, and this is no different. Even though Justin did not deploy to combat the last 20 years, he has kept a faithful watch over the hundreds if not thousands of military children who have passed through the school hallways while their moms and dads deployed.
I believe many military leaders would thrive in education administrative roles, and Justin is a great example. If you have a thought to become a teacher or school administrator, you should listen to this podcast.
Justin, thank you for your service to our nation and community.
David was born in New York and raised in New Jersey. He joined the Army months before 9/11 and, like many of us, watched the terrible events of that day unfold in the barracks on Hunter Army Airfield. David deployed five times during his Army career, and when he transitioned out, he continued to set the example for others to follow. David completed his undergraduate studies and continued to law school at Northwestern Pritzker School of Law. Currently, David works in corporate law in Miami, Florida. David is one of the most authentic people I know and has great stories about his Cuban ancestry and his time in the 75th Ranger Regiment.
Ali is an excellent example of what can be accomplished with hard work. Ali and I discuss his journey from Spain, West Point, 10th Mountain Division, and finally to the 75th Ranger Regiment in episode number one of two. Ali is just as good a person as he is a Ranger and football player. I hope you all enjoy part one of his story.
Chaplain Alfsen and his wife served the 75th well and always did it with a smile on their faces. It takes a special person to be a Chaplain, and being a Ranger Chaplain is no easy task. Rangers can be a bit rough around the edges and drift away from our faith from time to time. Chaplains are always present during a service member's most challenging moments. How does a Chaplain find the words to comfort someone after a loss in combat? I am not sure anyone has the correct answer to that question, but they are always there and prepared to serve.
Dan comes from a long line of distinguished service members. He grew up as the General's son and lived in more houses on Fort Benning than I have lived in my entire life. Dan is one of the finest military officers I have ever worked for and with. He always finds the good in any situation and brings contagious energy to every environment. If you are around Dan for more than ten minutes and do not laugh, you better check your pulse. Watching Dan communicate with people is a thing of beauty, and if he did not have a successful Army career, he would have made one heck of a salesman.
Raye Perez is an excellent example of what someone can accomplish with hard work. Raye was the first enlisted member of the 75thRanger Regiment to attend Emory Universities' Executive MBA Program. Raye attended Emory while leading one of the most critical training sections in the organization, the Small Unit Tactic Course (Pre-Ranger). There is one person I would pick to go into battle with and pitch a business plan to a Fortune 500 company, and that person is Raye Perez. Raye sets the example for others to follow now and will for the remainder of his days.
Tyler Szczecina served his country with distinction, and like many of us, he had to make a decision. Remain in the Army or transition to spending more time with his family, Tyler chose the latter. Tyler had a bright future in the 75th, and we were sorry to see him leave. Tyler has had a successful transition, but it did not come without challenges. The same is true for his journey into the military. Listen in while Tyler shares his story. The story of a standout football player from Chicago who went down a destructive path but corrected and found success in the Army and the 75th Ranger Regiment. Tyler is an outstanding husband, father, and Financial Advisor, and we can all learn from his story.
Kate Barnett, aside from being my wife, is an incredible wife, mother, and teacher. Kate has many great stories and perspectives. Two years into our marriage and just eleven months after having our first son, Kate’s mother passed away. Now with our young son and still newly married, I deployed once again. Being a new wife and mother can be challenging enough but is compounded when you can no longer ask your mom for advice. Kate is the epitome of resilience and the “brave face.” I am blessed to have her in my life, and I hope you enjoy her story.
Lee Garcia is a fantastic leader, and his leadership transcends his time in the 75th Ranger Regiment. Lee is a pillar of his community and is constantly seeking ways to give back. Lee shares some stories everyone can learn from, and to top it off, he is an ordained minister. Yes, you read that correctly.
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Chris Greca is the definition of a servant leader. Chris served in the US Army for 31 years. His stories are exceptional, from the story about how he found out about 9/11, or delivering the news of a son lost too soon to a Gold Star Mother during the early stages of the war in Afghanistan, he has a lot of stories to share. Chris is a husband, father, and grandfather, and he continues to serve today outside of the Army ranks. He understands the value of mental health and is a strong advocate for the Emory Veterans Healthcare Program. Chris had an amazing Army career. I hope you enjoy listening as much as I did.
Josh is a man who is no stranger to vulnerability. During his time in Army Special Operations, he deployed numerous times, became a father, and struggled through a difficult divorce. He also experienced the loss of his father while deployed, but he persevered, and always with a positive outlook. Josh is straightforward, and a call it how he's see's it, leader. He is an amazing person and an even better friend. I hope you enjoy.
Jennifer is one of the most kind-hearted, genuine, funny, and honest women you will ever meet. Jennifer instantly brings laughter and joy when she enters the room. I even learned during the interview that she also served our county and basic training was where she met the love of her life. Please listen and enjoy Jennifer's story, and you might want some tissues nearby.
Leading With Vulnerability
What does it mean to lead with vulnerability? I am sure some of you think vulnerability is a weakness, and I am not weak; vulnerability is not for me; I have never been vulnerable; I seek out vulnerability and kill it. If that is your take on the subject, I would say you lie to yourself and others. I know I have been part of the same lie earlier in my life. Truth be told, vulnerability is a natural part of life, and some of the greatest moments in life have happened during moments of vulnerability. I know some of you still have doubts about this.
The first school dance you attended, boys on one side, girls on the other. Finally, you work up the courage to ask that special girl to dance. High school football tryouts as a freshman on a team made up of juniors and seniors, and you are thinking, am I good enough to even be here? Taking your driving test with the less than approachable driver's education instructor, are they all weird, or was it just mine? Stepping off the bus at Charlie Company 1/50 for basic training, why is that drill sergeant staring into my soul? First airborne school jump. First day in a Ranger Battalion. First firefight. Hearing taps played after the final roll call, knowing you will never see your friend again. In the delivery room, watching your first child be born, should I look away or hold a leg? Are you feeling vulnerable yet? Can you relate to any of these? Vulnerability is the best of times, and it can be the worst of times.
What does it mean to lead with vulnerability? To me, it means showing up as your most authentic self for your people. It means owning your greatness for the benefit of others. It is human. As I have matured as a leader, I have found that the more I humanize myself in front of my reports, the better our relationship is, and the better they understand me and where I am coming from. For example, when I bring my kids into the office, they see that I am more than just a senior leader. I am a father, a husband, a person trying to get through the day just like them. Vulnerability is asking tough questions and giving honest answers. Vulnerability is setting an example for others to follow. It also has the courage to admit when you were wrong.
In the words of the late great Jimmy Valvano, "To me, there are three things we all should do every day. We should do this every day for the rest of our lives. Number one is to laugh. You should laugh every day. Number two is think. You should spend some time in thought. And number three is you should have your emotions moved to tears, could be happiness or joy. But think about it. If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that's a full day. That's a heckuva day. You do that seven days a week, and you're going to have something special."
That is vulnerability, and I challenge us all to Lead With Vulnerability.