BE[different] Podcast: Recent Episodes

Bryan & Shayla Moffitt

We invite you into our living room to have real conversations about people being different. We will talk about real life, everyday stuff. Things like marriage, parenting, and why doing life together is always the best option.

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On today's episode, we celebrate a big day within our marriage story and in Bryan's story. Just a couple of days ago on January 30th, we celebrated 14 years of sobriety for Bryan. We share what the journey was like before Bryan was healed from his alcohol addiction and the pain that Shayla experienced. Bryan shares how he surrendered his addiction and encourages those battling an addiction with three practical ways to fight off the temptation. If you or a loved one are battling an addiction, we are here to help you and we believe in sobriety for you or your loved one.

Matthew 6:34
Jeremy Riddle | Sweetly Broken

This completes season 5! We will be back with season 6 on February 22nd. This is a great time to go back and listen to past episodes.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we share three ways to improve communication in your marriage. Whether you find yourself struggling to connect as a couple or you feel your communication is pretty solid, we share how you can begin having deeper conversations. We begin our relationships by spending hours upon hours talking to each other, learning about each other, and connecting with each other. As the years past in a marriage, often times communication suffers and it is easy to point fingers at the other spouse. Take a listen to this week's conversation to overcome that wedge that is common and infuse a newly found connection into your stagnant marriage.

Genesis 2:18-25

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about the ongoing spiritual battle that we all face. Sin is crouching at our door, waiting to attack us when we let our guard down. We have to acknowledge that the battle is real and then fan the flame of the Holy Spirit to help us in the battle.

Genesis 3:1
Genesis 4:1-9
2 Timothy 1:6-7

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk through what it means to feel content and how to get there. Life is sometimes like the hokey pokey. We put one foot in of being content while one foot is is out. Sometimes both feet are in and sometimes both feet are out. We share examples of how we overcame seasons of discontent to find contentment.

Psalm 55:22

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we begin 2022 by concluding our two part discussion. With the beginning of the year here, it's a time of fresh starts. We share three practical ways to make 2022 the best year yet for you, your family, and your career. Last week we talked about things we need to stop doing and this week we talk about things we need to start doing. If we stop habits that are detrimental to our well-being and begin habits that contribute to our well-being, we can look back at the end of 2022 and see change.

2 Corinthians 4:16-19
2 Corinthians 5:16-17

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we finish out 2021 with a two part discussion. With the end of year here, it's a time of reflection and a time of new beginnings. For many of us, there are things we need to stop doing and there are things we need to start doing. The end of the year has a different feel to it than the end of each month. We can use this time as a closure and end to things we need to eliminate from our lives. Take a listen to part 1 and be sure to come back week when we finish with part 2.

Life.Church Christmas Service | Does God Love Me?

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we conclude our series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas is this week but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. The focus for today's episode is love. We celebrated 22 years of marriage this past week and shared thoughts about our journey. Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? Is it possible to find love that is everlasting? Take a listen to hear how true love saved our marriage, restored our broken love, and provided a foundation of love that is still standing strong 22 years later. This same love is possible for you too regardless if you are married or not.

John 3:16
1 John 4:7-21
Romans 5:8

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas season is upon us but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. The focus for today's episode is joy. How do we find joy when darkness seems to rob us of any light? What is the difference between joy and happiness? Where can we find and experience joy? We talk about these things and more.

John 15:11
John 15:1-2
Acts 16:25-34

The biblical definition of joy says that joy is a feeling of good pleasure and happiness that is dependent on who Jesus is rather than on who we are or what is happening around us. Joy comes from the Holy Spirit, abiding in God’s presence, and from hope in His word.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas season is upon us but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. We discuss what it looks like to find peace in the middle of the stress. When we go through seasons of stress, anxiety, or darkness, it can be extremely difficult to experience peace. We share how to find peace even when it seems impossible.

Philippians 4:7-9
Isaiah 9:6
Ephesians 6:15

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we begin our new series titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year". Christmas season is upon us but for many, it's the most stressful time of the year. We discuss what it looks like to find hope in the middle of the stress. Some of us are struggling through the darkness but we share how to find hope that is everlasting and well beyond just the Christmas season.

Romans 15:13
Shayla's blog titled, "The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year?

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk through when it's okay to say "yes" to our kids. For us, we tend to say "no" or "maybe later" more often than "yes". However, we are working on this and have become better by applying four questions when faced to make a decision. By asking ourselves these four questions, we are now able to answer "yes" more often to create memories for our kids. We are confident that they will help you in your parenting too. Bryan shares a story about how not buying cotton candy for our kids made a lasting impact on how he responds to our kids when they ask for something. We call it the "cotton candy effect".

Matthew 7:11
James 1:17

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we kick off season 5 of the podcast! We talk about the season of change. The leaves are falling, Thanksgiving is around the corner, and Christmas will be here in just a few short weeks. Change is inevitable. When change happens, we can embrace the change or resist the change. We talk about how to navigate change and how to have one constant through any season of change.

Hebrews 13:8

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we celebrate Bryan's incredible marathon from this past weekend. Over the past 15 years, Bryan has run marathons all across the United States. On Saturday, he completed his 50th state in our hometown of Kansas City, Missouri. It was the perfect day with so many things coming together better than we could have scripted. We invite you into our celebration and talk through what the day was like. When you focus on something, even when things become difficult, you can achieve exactly what you set your mind to.

This episode wraps up season 4. We will be back on November 9th with season 5!

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about Bryan's upcoming marathon in Kansas City. 15 years ago this month, he made the decision to run a marathon. He shares the reason for making that decision and then how he decided to run a marathon in each state. The Kansas City Marathon will be his final state to reach his goal. For the longest time, Bryan was running after things that were temporary but now is running with purpose.

Hebrews 12:1-3
Kristian Stanfill | Jesus Paid It All

To support Addyson, Bryan and Shayla's daughter, change the world by providing clean water to kids in Africa, click here.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we celebrate the one year anniversary of our podcast. It's been an interesting journey as we have been stretched and challenged to record and produce a podcast each and every week. Through technology challenges and lack of margin at times, we have persevered to put out new content that encourages the listener. Our desire is to have a podcast that is different so you can be different in your life.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about navigating the different chapters in life. Sometimes chapters can seem like they go on and on while other chapters seem to come to a conclusion quickly. Friends come and go, experiences come and go, but we can embrace each chapter and enjoy the moment while we can.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

Like us on Facebook. Follow us on Instagram. Connect with us through our website.

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On today's episode, we conclude our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.

We talk through the last miracle that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a real conversation in our living room as we read these miracles that happened thousands of years ago to see if we can learn anything from them, be inspired by them, and to gain some hope from them.

Regardless of where you are at on your spiritual journey, our prayer is that you can see yourself in our conversation today. We want to encourage you and challenge you exactly where you are and to urge you on to your next step.

John 20:30-31 - Foundation verse for this series
John 21:25 - Jesus did so many other things that were not recorded

Jesus and the miraculous catch of fish

Brandon Lake | Son of Heaven (Live)

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

Like us on Facebook. Follow us on Instagram. Connect with us through our website.

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On today's episode, we continue our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.

We talk through one more of the miracles that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a real conversation in our living room as we read these miracles that happened thousands of years ago to see if we can learn anything from them, be inspired by them, and to gain some hope from them.

Regardless of where you are at on your spiritual journey, our prayer is that you can see yourself in our conversation today. We want to encourage you and challenge you exactly where you are and to urge you on to your next step.

John 20:31 - Foundation verse for this series

  1. Jesus raises a dead man - John 11:1-44

NEEDTOBREATHE | Carry Me (featuring Jon Foreman of Switchfoot)

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

Like us on Facebook. Follow us on Instagram. Connect with us through our website.

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On today's episode, we continue our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.

We talk through two more of the miracles that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a real conversation in our living room as we read these miracles that happened thousands of years ago to see if we can learn anything from them, be inspired by them, and to gain some hope from them.

Regardless of where you are at on your spiritual journey, our prayer is that you can see yourself in our conversation today. We want to encourage you and challenge you exactly where you are and to urge you on to your next step.

John 20:31 - Foundation verse for this series

  1. Jesus walks on the water - John 6:16-24
  2. Jesus gives sight to the blind man - John 9:1-15

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.

We talk through two more of the miracles that Jesus performed in the book of John. We are going to have a real conversation in our living room as we read these miracles that happened thousands of years ago to see if we can learn anything from them, be inspired by them, and to gain some hope from them.

Regardless of where you are at on your spiritual journey, our prayer is that you can see yourself in our conversation today. We want to encourage you and challenge you exactly where you are and to urge you on to your next step.

John 20:31 - Foundation verse for this series

  1. Jesus heals the lame - John 5:1-15
  2. Jesus feeds the 5,000 - John 6:1-13

John 10:10: Jesus gives life and gives it abundantly

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The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about miracles. This is one topic that is probably more real than most of us want to believe or admit. For some, things are difficult. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s a loss of a loved one. Maybe it’s a dark secret you’ve lived with for most of your life or an addiction that just won’t stop attacking you. For many, you desperately need a miracle.

We talk through some of the miracles that Jesus performed. We are going to have a real conversation in our living room as we read these miracles that happened thousands of years ago to see if we can learn anything from them, be inspired by them, and to gain some hope from them.

Regardless of where you are at on your spiritual journey, our prayer is that you can see yourself in our conversation today. We want to encourage you and challenge you exactly where you are and to urge you on to your next step.

John 20:31 - Foundation verse for this series

We discussed two of the eight miracles in John during this week's episode.
1. Jesus turned water into wine - John 2:1-11
2. Jesus heals an official's son - John 4:43-54

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about the rush of back to school and all that comes with this season. When time seems to speed up and life moves at record speeds, we can still lead our kids with a routine that builds trust and comfort. We talk about ways to be prepared, ways to be consistent, ways to be active, and ways to be different.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about the importance of celebrating milestones within your story. It's easy to get caught up in the the next big thing and always looking ahead. However, it's important that we look back to celebrate victories along the way. When we do this, we can see how God has worked in the past and we can be encouraged that he will work again in the present and in the future.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we kick off Season 4 talking about a recent storm that we had to battle. Life seems to come crashing down all at once but it's how we respond to the trials that can help us get through whatever we are facing. There are times in life that you can sense the danger ahead of you, sense the danger chasing you down, and wonder if there is a safe place to take cover. Take a listen to hear about our storm and how we fought through the battle with the help of others.

Hillsong UNITED | Another In The Fire
Romans 12:12-13
John 16:33

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we continue our series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about your past. We all have a past. Things that happened to us, things that we did, or things that we did to others that can hold us back. Rather than let our past define us, we can use the past to motivate us to make a change. In order to look forward to the future, we can reflect on the past to not make the same mistakes.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we continue our series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about giving and living with open hands of generosity. Often times we get it wrong. We think or believe that the church just wants our money. That is anything but the truth. God doesn't want your money, he wants your heart. When we begin to live with open hands of generosity, invest in the local church, and experience real change within our hearts, we can give with faith which turns into giving faithfully.

2nd Corinthians 9:7: do not give reluctantly
Matthew 6:24: you cannot serve both God and money

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we continue our series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about the impact of the local church. The church is more than just four walls and a building. The church is the group of people inside the building, gathering together, and passionately following Jesus. This week builds off of last week's episode, "It's Not What You Think: Jesus". The church can be a place of healing and purpose for you. You can find authentic friendships with people who truly care for you and care about you. Many of us have been burned by the church but we hope that this episode will encourage you to give church another chance.

When I Say Jesus: Life.Church Worship
Proverbs 27:17: Iron sharpens iron
My Jesus: Todd Agnew

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we begin a new series titled "It's Not What You Think". This week we talk about why following Jesus changes everything. The name brings different emotions for different people. For some, the name Jesus brings comfort and peace. But for many, the name Jesus brings questions and hesitation. Our desire is that the name of Jesus stirs something deep within you and a desire to learn more about him. He is waiting for you to turn to him with every breath, every thought, and every action.

Galatians 5:13-16: living by the Spirit, not by the flesh
2nd Corinthians 5:17: a new creation, the old is gone
John 16:33: Jesus said that it won't be easy but he has overcome the world
Romans 10:9: confess, believe, saved

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk roles within a marriage. When roles are defined, it can often times form a wedge in your relationship. Should the wife always do the laundry and the husband always mow the yard? The answer is no. You need to do things together, intertwined, and without roles set in stone. Take a listen to hear how to avoid this within your marriage so you are on the same page when it comes to tasks within your marriage.

Romans 12:2
Genesis 2:18
The Dark Reality of Postpartum Depression: Season 2, Episode 9 // Shayla shares her struggle with postpartum depression.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we talk about creating a culture within your family. Culture is talked a lot about within the workplace and within organizations but do we talk about it enough within our families? We have been very intentional and specific when creating the culture within our family. We share real life examples on how you can begin to create a culture in yours. It's one of the most important things you can do as you parent your kids.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today we talk specifically about guarding our marriages from behaviors. Things like work behavior, hobbies, substance abuse, and pornography. We must be intentional and aware when creating boundaries with our behavior to minimize tension and increase communication with our marriage. This is one boundary that many couples overlook. Take a listen to see where you can apply healthy boundaries to have the marriage you've always wanted.

Ephesians 5:33: Loving our wife and respecting our husband.
James 1:13-15: Temptation is not from God but from our own evil desires which can lead to death.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today is Part 2 to last week where we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from the opposite sex. From text messages, to lunch meetings, to social media, we must be extremely careful, intentional, and transparent when creating boundaries and communicating with your spouse when it comes to interaction with the opposite sex. Our hope is that today's episode reinforces boundaries that you already have in place and also challenges to look at areas within your marriage that you could create new boundaries.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from the opposite sex. Let us be very clear. This is the most important boundary you can put around your marriage. There is no gray area. This is not the boundary to bump up against. You will destroy your marriage if you are not extremely intentional about this. Take a listen to Part 1 and learn how to implement boundaries from the opposite sex.

Matthew 5:27-30

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. Today we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from friendships. Often times within a marriage, friendships can cause tension within a marriage. There are both positive friendships and negative friendships. We must be intentional to guard our marriage against both. We share insight why this is important and how too much of a good thing can turn into a bad thing.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation about guarding your marriage. We recap what boundaries are, why they are important, and how to implement them. Today we specifically talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from extended family. Often times, parents and in-laws can cause tension and conflict within a marriage. We share insight on how to navigate those relationships so it is a win/win for everyone involved compared to a lose/lose that it often can be.

Mark 3:24-25

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we discuss the importance of guarding your marriage. Boundaries keep sacred what is intended to be kept sacred...your marriage. Today we specifically talk about what boundaries are and why we must have them. Over the next few weeks, we will talk about putting boundaries in your marriage to guard from extended family, friends, work, addictions, and much more.

We are excited to be back for Season 3! Thank you for your continued support. Hit that subscribe button if you haven't already!

Genesis 2:15-17
Genesis 4:6-7
Proverbs 4:23-27

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we discuss how to navigate life when you find yourself thinking, "it just doesn't make sense". We break down three groups of people who might find themselves saying this phrase. There is a constant spiritual battle going on within our minds and we want to encourage you to keep the faith, keep grinding, and keep following Jesus.

This episode concludes Season 2! Thank you for being a part of our community. If you haven’t listened to both seasons, now is the time to catch up. We are taking a 3-week break (we said 2-week break on today's episode but it's really a 3-week break) to get ready for Season 3. We will be back on April 13th with a new episode. Talk soon!

Acts 9:1-19 - Paul's (Saul) Damascus Road moment
Matthew 7:11- God giving good gifts to His children
Romans 10:9 - If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Deuteronomy 29:29 - The secret things are from God

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

Anguished Hearts Journal: Pick up a journal for you and your spouse!

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation from last week. We are talking about tension within a marriage. Today is part 2 as we finish talking through the list of “when things get tough within a marriage, the world says…”. We give real-life, practical ways to work through conflict within your marriage. By taking these steps, you can begin to eliminate the tension and start having the marriage you've always wanted.

James 4:1-12
Matthew 4:1-11

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

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On today's episode, we talk about tension within a marriage. Today is part 1 as we talk through a list of “when things get tough within a marriage, the world says…”. There must be an emphasis on “we” within your marriage rather than “me” within your marriage. Today’s episode can be a game-changer for your marriage. Begin to look at fighting together, for your marriage rather than fighting against each other, in your marriage. It's vital to have this mindset in order to have the marriage you were destined to have.

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

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On today's episode, we talk about the dark reality of postpartum depression. After having our first child, Shayla battled postpartum depression for 18 months. She shares how her identity was stripped from her when we made the decision to have her leave the workplace and become a stay-at-home mom. We will talk through how she was able to overcome the long, dark season. Plus, she shares practical steps to help you avoid the same struggles that she did.

Romans 12:12
1 Peter 5:7
Psalm 55:22

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BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

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On today's episode, we have a conversation around serving within the church and how it can be a catalyst for spiritual growth. We share examples from within our own story and experiences. We talk about what holds people back from serving, the importance of serving, and how your willingness to serve can be a breakthrough for someone else within their story. At the end of the podcast, we give a key takeaway to help you find a spot to serve within your own church.

1 Corinthians 12:12-14, 21-23
Matthew 20:28
1 Peter 4:9-11

BE[different] Weekend Marriage Experience: If you are a pastor or a church leader, we would welcome the opportunity to talk with you about our weekend marriage experience. The intent of the Weekend Marriage Experience is to have marriages be different as a result of the weekend together. We want to encourage and challenge marriages within the church.

The Weekend Marriage Experience was created for a husband and wife to reconnect and thrive the way God intended their marriage to thrive. We believe in married couples having fun together. We believe in married couples being intentional together. We will laugh together. We will cry together. We will strengthen our marriages together.

Marriage Mentoring: If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for February and March. Spots are limited!

33-Day Reading Plan: This is the reading plan that we read while separated. This tool began the restoration process in our marriage. We will also send you another powerful resource to help you on your spiritual journey. Both of these resources are free.

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On today's episode, we are joined by James Meehan of Life.Church. James is a student pastor, communicator, and content developer for Switch. Switch is the student ministry for one of the most influential churches across the globe. James is a dynamic speaker with a heart for the next generation within the Church.

James is a father to a newborn son, a husband of almost five years, and a fully devoted follower of Jesus. During our discussion, we talk about why Life.Church is so intentional about leading the next generation. There are so many voices speaking into the lives of teenagers but James' desire and Life.Church's desire is to make sure Jesus is the loudest voice. Today’s episode is powerful as James shares a ton of wisdom and practical tools to help you lead your teenager.

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On today's episode, we share two statements that will change your marriage. If you find your marriage in a dry season, we discuss ways to bring life back to your relationship. Marriage can become very routine and mundane because we get up, do the same thing, go to bed, and do it all over again the next day.

We also talk about the challenge of buying gifts, especially for Valentine's Day. However, we have the perfect gift for you this year. Invest in your marriage by registering for our Marriage Mentoring program. If you and your spouse are looking to invest in your marriage, our 7-week Marriage Mentoring Experience is the perfect way to reconnect with each other. We are now scheduling couples for March and April. Spots are limited!

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On today's episode, we continue our conversation from last week about addictions. Bryan talks about what it's like living as an addict. Shayla talks about what it's like living with an addict. Today's episode will help those battling an addiction and those who have a loved one battling an addiction. Just a few short days ago on January 30th, we celebrated 13 years of sobriety for Bryan from his alcohol addiction. We believe that healing from an addiction is possible for you and your loved one too.

If you need help with your addiction, please contact us. We believe in you.

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On today's episode, we talk about the destruction of addictions. Whether it is alcohol, drugs, pornography, or a different substance, an addiction destroys you from the inside out. Often times, an addiction will also destroy those around you. We celebrate 13 years of sobriety and freedom for Bryan from his alcohol addiction. This episode will encourage those in the middle of an addiction and also those who know someone battling an addiction.

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On today's episode, we talk about grace. Grace is one of those words that is thrown around Christian culture quite a bit. It’s easy to talk about it but is it easy to receive it? We break down the lyrics of the old hymn “Amazing Grace” to answer the question, “What’s so amazing about grace?” You might find yourself lost. You are aimlessly searching for something to fulfill a deep longing. Or you might be aimlessly running away from your past. We talk about being found by Jesus, our eyes opened by Jesus, and our longing fulfilled by Jesus.

John 9 | Jesus Heals a Blind Man
Grace Upon Grace | Life.Church Worship

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On today's episode, we are joined by Jonathan Meisner of Life.Church. Jonathan is the Sr. Director of Digital Experiences for one of the most influential churches across the globe. From producing videos for the YouVersion app to filming music videos for the Life.Church band Switch, Jonathan is one of the best story tellers in the Christian industry.

More importantly, he’s a father of two boys, a husband for the past 13 years, and a fully devoted follower of Jesus. During our discussion, we talk about recognizing God-given talents and stewarding those gifts for God’s kingdom. We also talk about the power of stories. Stories matter and our prayer today is that listening to Jonathan’s story will encourage you in your own story. Be sure to listen to the very end to hear some incredible wisdom about flipping your mindset when you find yourself wanting things to be different.

Life.Church YouTube Channel
Life.Church Online

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On today's episode, we discuss the importance of being involved in the local church. For many, a negative church experience in the past impacts your view of church. This leads to people pushing church away and not understanding the importance of church. We talk through three groups of people when it comes to church attendance and also share five guidelines to help you find a church home.

Acts 2:42-47
Ephesians 2:19-22

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On today's episode, we share Part 2 of our story. If you missed Part 1, pause this episode and go listen to Part 1. As we stated last week, our story is gross, messy, and includes a ton of pain and brokenness. But it's our story. And it's full of grace, healing, hope, and restoration. If you or someone you know needs a miracle in their marriage, family, or life, this episode is for you and for you to share. A miracle happened in our story and it can happen in your story too.

This episode wraps up Season 1 of the podcast. But don't worry, we will be back with Season 2 on January 5th! We have some powerful topics on schedule and great guests lined up for 2021. We look forward to the new year.

Psalm 55
2nd Corinthians 5:17

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On today's episode, we share our story. It's gross, messy, and includes a ton of pain and brokenness. But it's our story. And it's full of grace, healing, hope, and restoration. Our hope is that it encourages you and challenges you to look at your own story to experience hope and healing. Today is part 1 and next week will be part 2. Be sure to hit the subscribe button if you do not already so you don't miss part 2!

Season 1 of the podcast will be wrapping up on December 15th. But don't worry, we will be back with Season 2 on January 5th! We have some great guests lined up for 2021 and look forward to the new year.

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On today's episode, we talk about the advent season. Regardless of when you begin to celebrate Christmas each year, we can all agree that it's December 1st and it’s Christmas time. Today we are going to talk about expectations even in the waiting and inviting Jesus into whatever you are going through. Shayla shares a real-life example of how she encouraged our daughter by inviting Jesus into the worry.

Advent simply means arrival. The arrival of something. The arrival of Jesus as a baby born in a manger. However, we can also anticipate the arrival of Jesus in our everyday. The anticipation of Jesus. The expectation of Jesus. Jesus has moved in the past, he will move again.

Matthew 14:13-21 | Feeding of the 5,000
Matthew 15:29-30 | Feeding of the 4,000

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On today's episode, we share a list of things that we are thankful for. Before we do that, Shayla shares a sweet treat recipe that will be loved by all during your Thanksgiving Day feast. This great Thanksgiving snack hack is easy and tasty! We then talk through our thankful list. This is a powerful exercise to do as we often go through life, trying the best we can to get by, and we forget to pause long enough to be thankful. Take some time this week to make a list of things you are thankful for and then share the list with someone. We promise that it will encourage you!

As we shared during this week's episode, Season 1 of the podcast will be wrapping up on December 15th. But don't worry, we will be back with Season 2 on January 5th!

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On today's episode, we have our first guest! Jerrad Lopes of Dad Tired joins us in our virtual living room. He is the author of the best-selling book, “Dad Tired: Stumbling Your Way to Spiritual Leadership” and “Stop Behaving: A Gospel-Centered Devotional for Men. His podcasthas been downloaded over 2.5 million times as he has partnered with thought-leaders like Bob Goff, Gary Chapman, David Platt, Paul David Tripp, Jefferson Bethke, and many more to help equip men for the sake of the Gospel. He has a powerful story of how he used his own struggle as a man, husband, and dad to create a ministry that now encourages other men on their own journey. However, this episode is not just for men!

We talk about the power of surrender to follow Jesus, fighting for your marriage when it doesn't seem worth it, and how we can encourage our spouse in all that we do. We finish our conversation with Jerrad sharing two vital ways to live a life that is different. Whether you are a man or woman, husband or wife, dad or mom, we promise that you will be encouraged by today's episode!

Matthew 11:28-30

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On today's episode, we talk about how most of us fall into one of two categories.

  • I am a professional worrier
  • Worrying isn't something I lose much sleep over

Before we jump into that discussion, we talk about last week's election and the unsteady state of our country. During such times, we must find joy in little things like Shayla does in Almond Joy candy bars. We share the joy we found in a day of geocaching with the kids. We then share the hope we found in Psalm 46:10 through Sunday's message by our pastor, Craig Groeschel at Life.Church.

You can check it out here: In God We Trust.

When we find ourselves in a season of worry, some of us keep it inside, others verbally express it in an emotional burst. Each of us battle worry from time to time. There are minor worries and major worries. While in that season of worry, we can turn to Scripture to help us get through it. We can find direct hope from the red letters, the words of Jesus, in the Bible. We break down Matthew 6:25-34 and share 7 reasons to not worry.

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On today's episode, we begin our conversation talking about the best Halloween costume of 2020, election Tuesday, and how we need to love each other through this time of our country being divided. We share a powerful quote from our lead pastor, Craig Groeschel. "No matter which party holds the office, our God still holds the world." We then talk through how to turn on the light when you find yourself in complete darkness. We share four ways to battle your own darkness to find hope, experience hope, and to share hope with others.

Life.Church | In God We Trust

John 1:4-5
Genesis 1:4
John 8:12
Matthew 5:14-16
Psalm 18:28

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On today's episode, we have a discussion about why we must be on the same team within our marriage. For many marriages, it becomes a game of playing against each other. We agree that marriage is incredibly hard but we also believe that it can be incredibly rewarding and fun. We share practical ways to grow together as a team, fighting for the name on the back of your jersey.
Genesis 2:18
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On today's episode, we explain why popcorn and brownies mean so much to us and why it should be a part of your life too. This sweet and salty combination represents so much more to us than just a great snack. We talk about the danger of isolation and the importance of community. To live in community with others, you have to invite them in. Do you have a 2am friend? Are you a 2am friend for someone else? Join us as we talk about what a 2am friend is and why it's a must for each one of us.

Galatians 6:1-2
Proverbs 27:17

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On today's episode, we talk about the idea and concept of BE[different] and why it's the name of the podcast. Are you blending in with your surroundings or are you being a light in the darkness? We break down three ways that you can be different in your own story and encourage others. It only takes a small shift in order to be different.

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Romans 12:2
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

1 John 2:15-17
2 Corinthians 5:17
Romans 8:11
Luke 9:23
Matthew 22:37-39
Matthew 5:14-16

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On this episode, we talk about the stress of everything virtual and how it impacts our kids and their emotions and actions. When stress comes, we are allowed to have the feelings, but we can't stay there. We must work through how we are feeling in order to navigate the stress together as a couple and in order to lead our kids. Hear why Shayla felt like she failed this past week as a wife and mom. We also share a "not so shining" parenting moment and how we recovered to use it as a teaching moment.

Ephesians 4:26-27
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On today's episode, we talk about why we are launching the podcast on October 2nd. We reclaimed the date because 14 years ago today, our marriage was destroyed. All of us have painful memories associated with certain dates on the calendar. Today we share three ways to reclaim a date on the calendar. You can turn a date of destruction into a date of celebration.

Isaiah 43:18-19
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Bryan and Shayla Moffitt have been married for over 21 years. From divorce papers drawn up to now sharing hope with others, they have been through it all within their marriage. They are now inviting you into their living room to have real conversations about people being different. So grab your popcorn and brownies and get ready to be challenged and encouraged! Visit www.anguishedhearts.com to learn more about their story.