Social disGraces: Recent Episodes

Erin Mullen

On Social disGraces we discuss social issues, spirituality and do a little deconstruction. We share stories from people who have been a part of oppressed or marginalized communities, overcome challenges, or advocated for change. We will often incorporate a faith tie-in and have several topics centered around spiritual issues and religious deconstruction.

Episodes will include topics such as progressive Christianity, religious deconstruction, purity culture, foster care, trauma, mental health, and feminism.

On this podcast we believe in loving thy neighbor, that black lives matter, lgbtq+ rights are human rights, feminism is for everyone and we all deserve a little grace.

Biweekly: New episodes every other Tuesday.

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In this episode we are joined by a special guest who bravely shares her story about how she went from a 31 year old virgin to embracing and reclaiming her sexuality. This episode was SO much fun and is packed with great insights, hilarious comments and real conversation about purity culture and sexuality. She is well educated, well traveled, bold, outspoken and a survivor of purity culture embracing a healthy heaux phase.

Links/Resources

  • Buy Heaux apparel at https://jenaya-global.myshopify.com/
  • Instagram:@melanatedstamps
    @heauxlycoitus
  • Email: melanatedstamps@gmail.comH
  • Heauxly Coitus podcast & blog: https://heauxlycoitus.home.blog/
  • Melanated Stamps podcast: https://melanatedstamps.com/
  • “Black in Denver” book: https://melanatedstamps.com/blackindenver/

Purity culture, sex therapy

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This episode focuses primarily on the topic of adoption - specifically international and interracial adoption from the perspective of an adoptee. We will be talking with Rebeka Jones, who some may know on Instagram by the handle @RebekaInWriting. Rebeka is a writer, mom and adoptee who creates safe spaces for fruitful discussion surrounding topics such as faith deconstruction, adoption, anti-racism, culture and more.

On this episode we will:

  • Get to know Rebeka a little better
  • Hear her adoption story and if or how adoption has played a role in her deconstruction journey
  • And talk about all international and interracial adoption focusing on Rebeka’s experiences as an adoptee when it comes to culture, ethical adoption and more.

Rebeka's topic related book recommendation: The Child Catchers by Kathryn Joyce

Connect with Rebeka on Instagram: @RebekaInWriting

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok @SocialDisGraces

International adoption, interracial adoption, international adoptee, interracial adoptee, adoptee voices, adoptee perspective

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In this episode, we talk with Brad Klausman of @Brad.LifeCoach on Instagram. Brad attended bible college and graduated with his Masters from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He went on to serve in full-time ministry for over 20 years. After taking a deep dive seeking to better understand things and answer some questions he had related to organized religion and the validity of the Bible he ultimately made the decision to leave the church.

In this episode you are going to:

  • Get to know Brad and a little of his story
  • Better understand religious deconstruction life coaching
  • Hear some of the things that Brad learned while deep diving into theology to better understand the Bible

We discuss things like the validity of the Bible and how it is interpreted, when the bible was written, who wrote parts of it, how it was pieced together to comprise what we know today as the Bible and more.

Have you ever wondered "what does a religious deconstruction life coach do?" Listen to this episode to find out.

Connect with Brad:

  • Instagram @Brad.LifeCoach
  • Website https://www.coachingwithbrad.org/connect

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

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In this episode, Guest Jessie Alex shares her personal account of human and sex trafficking in America. Jessie is a survivor or human trafficking and sex trafficking and walks us through more of her story, how she has overcome things and what you can do to help advocate or get help.

Jessie has been through an insurmountable amount of trauma and somehow come out on top of it all. I think her story is so valuable to both raise awareness about sex trafficking that happens right here in America and to offer hope to those who might be struggling with similar traumas in seeing how far she has come and knowing that things can get better.

TW: This episode does include discussion related to human trafficking, rape, drugs and various forms of abuse.

Explicit Rating: Language throughout this episode is pretty mild overall, however there is an F-bomb or two. Because of that and the general nature of this topic I have flagged this episode as explicit.

Guest: Jessie Alex. Connect with Jessie on her Facebook page Jessie's Awareness Network.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

Links/Resources

  • Myths, Facts and Statistics (about human and sex trafficking) https://polarisproject.org/myths-facts-and-statistics/
  • What is Human Trafficking? https://www.justice.gov/humantrafficking/what-is-human-trafficking

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In this episode, Guest Jessie Alex shares her personal account of human and sex trafficking in America. Jessie is a survivor of human trafficking and sex trafficking and walks us through what happened to her.

Jessie has been through an insurmountable amount of trauma and somehow come out on top of it all. I think her story is so valuable to both raise awareness about sex trafficking that happens right here in America and to offer hope to those who might be struggling with similar traumas in seeing how far she has come and knowing that things can get better.

This episode covers information about human trafficking, common misconceptions about human and sex trafficking and personal accounts of human trafficking in America.

TW: This episode does include discussion related to human trafficking, rape, drugs and various forms of abuse.

Explicit Rating: Language throughout this episode is pretty mild overall, however there is an F-bomb or two. Because of that and the general nature of this topic I have flagged this episode as explicit.

Guest: Jessie Alex. Connect with Jessie on her Facebook page Jessie's Awareness Network.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

Links/Resources

  • Myths, Facts and Statistics (about human and sex trafficking) https://polarisproject.org/myths-facts-and-statistics/
  • What is Human Trafficking? https://www.justice.gov/humantrafficking/what-is-human-trafficking

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In this episode we are joined by poet, musician and deconstructionist Austin Jenkins. Austin shares his religious background, deconstruction story and the role that poetry and music have played in his journey.

Book referenced by Austin in this episode: Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans

Connect with Austin:

  • Instagram@TheExistentialWandererPod
    @AustinJenkinsPoetry
  • The Existential Wanderer Podcast https://anchor.fm/austin-jenkins5

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok @SocialDisGraces

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In this episode we will be speaking with Erin Billings. Erin is an audio/visual production consultant and project manager who has worked with Grammy award winning artists. She has a couple podcasts of her own and is not afraid of tackling some Touchy Subjects when it comes to things like racism or deconstruction in the church. Today we are talking about being an ally, especially in white and Christian spaces.

Connect with Erin Billings

  • Website: https://www.ebcreates.com/
  • Touchy Subjects Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/letstalktouchysubjects/
  • Magnetize Me Podcast: https://solo.to/magnetizemepod

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok@SocialDisGraces

allyship, deconstruction, exvangelicals, ex fundamentalists, racism in the church, affirming churches

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In this episode, Guest Carol Mullen and I are talking about how the church treats people in the LGBTQ+ community and why even some of the things that people often think are the right thing to say are problematic.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

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In this episode we  will be speaking with Erin Billings. Erin is an audio/visual production consultant and project manager who has worked with Grammy award winning artists. She has a couple podcasts of her own and is not afraid of tackling some Touchy Subjects when it comes to things like racism or deconstruction in the church. Today we are talking about being an ally, especially in white and Christian spaces. 

Connect with Erin Billings

  • Website: https://www.ebcreates.com/
  • Touchy Subjects Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/letstalktouchysubjects/
  • Magnetize Me Podcast: https://solo.to/magnetizemepod

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok@SocialDisGraces

allyship, deconstruction, exvangelicals, ex fundamentalists, racism in the church, affirming churches

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In this episode we are joined by Jenaya Perdue who bravely shares her story about how she went from a 31 year old virgin to embracing and reclaiming her sexuality. This episode was SO much fun and is packed with great insights, hilarious comments and real conversation about purity culture and sexuality. Jenaya has a super interesting story. She is well educated, well traveled, bold, outspoken and a survivor of purity culture embracing a healthy heaux phase. 

Links/Resources

  • Buy Heaux apparel at https://jenaya-global.myshopify.com/
  • Instagram:
    • @melanatedstamps
    • @heauxlycoitus
  • Email: melanatedstamps@gmail.comH
  • Heauxly Coitus podcast & blog: https://heauxlycoitus.home.blog/
  • Melanated Stamps podcast: https://melanatedstamps.com/
  • “Black in Denver” book by Jenaya L. Perdue: https://melanatedstamps.com/blackindenver/

Purity culture, purity culture survivor, purity culture recovery, sex therapy

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In this episode we are joined by poet, musician and deconstructionist Austin Jenkins. Austin shares his religious background, deconstruction story and the role that poetry and music have played in his journey.

Book referenced by Austin in this episode: Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans

Connect with Austin:

  • Instagram
    • @TheExistentialWandererPod
    • @AustinJenkinsPoetry
  • The Existential Wanderer Podcast https://anchor.fm/austin-jenkins5

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok @SocialDisGraces

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This episode focuses primarily on the topic of adoption - specifically international and interracial adoption from the perspective of an adoptee. We will be talking with Rebeka Jones, who some may know on Instagram by the handle @RebekaInWriting. Rebeka is a writer, mom and adoptee who creates safe spaces for fruitful discussion surrounding topics such as faith deconstruction, adoption, anti-racism, culture and more.

On this episode we will:

  • Get to know Rebeka a little better
  • Hear her adoption story and if or how adoption has played a role in her deconstruction journey
  • And talk about all international and interracial adoption focusing on Rebeka’s experiences as an adoptee when it comes to culture, ethical adoption and more.

Rebeka's topic related book recommendation: The Child Catchers by Kathryn Joyce

Connect with Rebeka on Instagram: @RebekaInWriting

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok @SocialDisGraces

International adoption, interracial adoption, international adoptee, interracial adoptee, adoptee voices, adoptee perspective

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In this episode we talk with former child prodigy Carol Mullen. Carol made some local headlines when she started college at Purdue University at the age of 11 after ranking 4th in a pre-med physics course. 

We are talking with Carol about her how she got started and the process involved in starting college early. She also shares her experience with bullying, talks homeschooling, IQ tests, what shes doing now and her work in the foster care system. 

Instagram @SocialDisGraces

TikTok @SocialDisGraces

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In this episode, we talk with Brad Klausman of @Brad.LifeCoach on Instagram. Brad attended bible college and graduated with his Masters from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary. He went on to serve in full-time ministry for over 20 years. After taking a deep dive seeking to better understand things and answer some questions he had related to organized religion and the validity of the Bible he ultimately made the decision to leave the church.

In this episode you are going to:

  • Get to know Brad and a little of his story
  • Better understand religious deconstruction life coaching
  • Hear some of the things that Brad learned while deep diving into theology to better understand the Bible

We discuss things like the validity of the Bible and how it is interpreted, when the bible was written, who wrote parts of it, how it was pieced together to comprise what we know today as the Bible and more.

Have you ever wondered "what does a religious deconstruction life coach do?" Listen to this episode to find out.

Connect with Brad:

  • Instagram @Brad.LifeCoach
  • Website https://www.coachingwithbrad.org/connect

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

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In this episode, Guest Jessie Alex shares her personal account of human and sex trafficking in America. Jessie is a survivor or human trafficking and sex trafficking and walks us through more of her story, how she has overcome things and what you can do to help advocate or get help.

Jessie has been through an insurmountable amount of trauma and somehow come out on top of it all. I think her story is so valuable to both raise awareness about sex trafficking that happens right here in America and to offer hope to those who might be struggling with similar traumas in seeing how far she has come and knowing that things can get better.

TW: This episode does include discussion related to human trafficking, rape, drugs and various forms of abuse.

Explicit Rating: Language throughout this episode is pretty mild overall, however there is an F-bomb or two. Because of that and the general nature of this topic I have flagged this episode as explicit.

Guest: Jessie Alex. Connect with Jessie on her Facebook page Jessie's Awareness Network.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

Links/Resources

  • Myths, Facts and Statistics (about human and sex trafficking) https://polarisproject.org/myths-facts-and-statistics/
  • What is Human Trafficking? https://www.justice.gov/humantrafficking/what-is-human-trafficking

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In this episode, Guest Jessie Alex shares her personal account of human and sex trafficking in America. Jessie is a survivor of human trafficking and sex trafficking and walks us through what happened to her.

Jessie has been through an insurmountable amount of trauma and somehow come out on top of it all. I think her story is so valuable to both raise awareness about sex trafficking that happens right here in America and to offer hope to those who might be struggling with similar traumas in seeing how far she has come and knowing that things can get better.

This episode covers information about human trafficking, common misconceptions about human and sex trafficking and personal accounts of human trafficking in America.

TW: This episode does include discussion related to human trafficking, rape, drugs and various forms of abuse.

Explicit Rating: Language throughout this episode is pretty mild overall, however there is an F-bomb or two. Because of that and the general nature of this topic I have flagged this episode as explicit.

Guest: Jessie Alex. Connect with Jessie on her Facebook page Jessie's Awareness Network.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org.

Links/Resources

  • Myths, Facts and Statistics (about human and sex trafficking) https://polarisproject.org/myths-facts-and-statistics/
  • What is Human Trafficking? https://www.justice.gov/humantrafficking/what-is-human-trafficking

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In this episode, Guest Carol Mullen and I are talking about how the church treats people in the LGBTQ+ community and why even some of the things that people often think are the right thing to say are problematic. We also discuss some things you can do and say to be more inclusive and make people feel welcomed in the church.

Have you ever wondered what to do to help people in the LGBT community, why LGBTQ+ people do not feel welcome at churches or why people in the LGBTQ+ community are leaving the church? Well you will definitely want to give this episode a listen.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces.

SocialDisGraces.org. 

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In this episode I am letting you get to know me a little better, understand my background and see if you vibe with me at all. This is a shorter episode and I don't go too deep, but I'm sure there will be over-disclosures to come if you stay tuned. Haha. I am walking through my background with church and family, why I started this podcast and some things to look forward to.

Connect with me on Instagram @SocialDisGraces. 

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Hello and welcome to Social disGraces where discuss all things social issues, spirituality, and deconstruction - often breaking away from or taking a critical look at traditional thinking. 

I have so many exciting things planned for this podcast and I am really hoping you join the conversation and connect with me! 

Future episodes will include discussion centered around such topics as progressive Christianity, religious deconstruction, feminism, LGBTQ+ rights, trauma and mental health. 

We will have new episodes biweekly - every other Tuesday. 

ConnectInstagram: @SocialDisGraces