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Will Wavvy
Join Will Wavvy, Rick Harris, and Teneice Bowie for frank, witty, and honest dialogue on what men think, what women want, and everything else in between. Listen, call-in, chat and post your life and relationship questions.
Being a parent is a difficult job, but can be especially difficult when you two aren't together and there are negative emotions involved. Regardless of the nature of your relationship with your ex, it isn't your children's fault that the relationship didn't work out. Your child's best interests should be about your own, which includes having an amicable relationship as co-parents.
Even if it is difficult to be in the same room with your ex, you need to sit down and make a committment to set consistent guidelines and boundaries on your new relationship as co-parents. In this episode, we'll discuss co-parenting relationships, tools to make them successful; as well as, situations to avoid.
When it comes to sex and relationships, there is a general school of thought that you should not leave and otherwise good relationship just because you aren’t being sexually satisfied, and there are a lot of others things in a relationship that should be more important than good sex. While that sounds good in theory, what should you do when sex is an important part of your relationship identity? When should it be OK, not to settle for unsatisfactory sex?
In this episode, Will Wavvy has a candid conversation with a woman that decided relationship history with a good man isn't worth compromising for boring sex.
Join Will Wavvy, Rick Harris, and Teneice Bowie for frank, witty, and honest dialogue on what men think, what women want, and everything else in between. Listen, call-in, chat and post your life and relationship questions.
In this episode we're discussing the ins and outs of online dating.
In this day and age of social media becoming mainstream, is online dating still taboo?
What are the benefits and pitfalls of online dating?
Should you pay for a subscription... what are the best sites to be on?
Is online dating a complete waste of time?
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Join Will Wavvy, Rick Harris, and Teneice Bowie for frank, witty, and honest dialogue on what men think, what women want, and everything else in between. Listen, call-in, chat and post your life and relationship questions.
This Episode's Game Plan:
1st Quarter: Why do couples get stagnant in relationships? 2nd Quarter:Why do men want to turn the housewife into a ho, and are they as sexually explorative as they claim? 3rd Quarter: How to stay marketable in dating pool? 4th Quarter: Do women really care about what their current partner's ex looks like? Crunch Time: Audience decides
After a two-year hiatus, Playbook Radio, is back with a new time slot, format, and some added spice to the mix with Teneice Bowie of TeneiceTV. As usual, you can expect the usual frank, honest dialogue on how men think and why we do some of the things we do from Will Wavvy and Rick Harris - as well as, answers to your questions on life and relationship challenges.
This episodes game plan:
1st Quarter: Why are OK with our friend's flaws, but expect to have the perfect partner?
2nd Quarter: The problem with starting a relationship on "like" instead of compatibility?
3rd Quarter: What is chemistry and how do you recognize it?
4th Quarter: Skinny jeans... tight suits... eyebrows done... men dresses... has metrosexual gone too far?
Crunch Time: Audience Decides
In our last show before our summer hiatus, we're going to have a "barbershop" style show with no specific topic. We'll rap about the fun we had on our cruise, our favorite moments over the past season, answer your questions, and hint at what you can expect when we return in the fall.
You found THE ONE. The person that you are compatible with physically, emotionally, spiritually, and in every other way. Now comes the hard part - sustaining a healthy relationship. How do you translate those compatibilities into our gender roles in a relationship? Is he the "chalk" and you the "chalkboard?" In this episode we'll discuss traditional gender roles in these modern times. Should we go back to the old school or remix gender roles once and for all. In our give and go segment, Kevin Crawley of H.I.T. Squad fitness will give us some men fitness and nutrition tips.
Ask anyone what are the most important aspects in a relationship and without fail, communication will be one of the first things mentioned. Despite it's importance, very few people understand and know how to communicate. What is effective communication? How do you deal with different communication styles? What are some of the things that can hinder effective communication? If there's a problem with communication, how do you fix it? In this episode we're going to answer these questions and discuss communication in detail. In our, "Give and Go" segment, Marie Maire is going discuss sexual harrassment, how to recognize it, and different options on handling it in the workplace.
No scripts, special guests, or pre-determined topic. This is your chance to decide what the show will be about with our, "Ask the Fellas" episode. We are going to answer your random questions about life and relationships; as well as, give your insight into how men think about any and everything you ask us.
You ask and we'll answer. For those questions/topics that require a detailed discussion, we'll have future episodes dedicated to those topics.
You have always wanted frank, honest answers from men on how we think and why we do some of the things we do. Here's your opportunity to get them.
You can email your questions to: relationshipplaybook@gmail.com . Put "As the Fellas" in the subject.
It seems that we have become a culture that celebrates the "Ride or Die Chic"... the woman that will hold it down for her man, be faithful while he is on lockdown, remain loyal despite what he does. While that sounds great for the man, how realistic is it? Furthermore, what exactly are the rules and procedures that govern the "Ride or Die" chic? Do men even want this type of chic or is this something reserved for videos and street fantasies? We're going to discuss dig deep with this mentality with Jocelyn Mills of The Brownness Series. Also in our initial, "Give and Go" segment, Stacey J. Gholar is going to share some insight on Domestic Violence.
Puy. The lengths that men will go to get some make it one of (if not the most) the most valuable substance on earth. As the song goes... The power of the p.u..*.y. That's why every muthafr in the world dress fly... Every baller that can afford it, they cop the best ride For the power of the p.u..*.y.
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In this day and age of online dating, a black president, and all of the other strides we have made into becoming an integrated society, is there still a major stigma attached to having "jungle fever"? Does dating outside of your race reflect negatively on you? What are some of the challenges that come with interracial dating and what are some ways to overcome them? Are we limiting our happiness by only looking inside our race? Is the key to happiness, opening ourselves to other races? Join us to have an in-depth discussion on race and relationships.
You are familiar with our, Ask the Fellas, episodes when we answer your random questions about dating and relationships. In this episode, we're flipping the script and ASKING THE LADIES, to answer the fellas random questions.
No scripts, special guests, or pre-determined topic. This is your chance to decide what the show will be about with our, "Ask the Fellas" episode. We are going to answer your random questions about life and relationships; as well as, give your insight into how men think about any and everything you ask us.
You ask and we'll answer. For those questions/topics that require a detailed discussion, we'll have future episodes dedicated to those topics.
You have always wanted frank, honest answers from men on how we think and why we do some of the things we do. Here's your opportunity to get them.
You can email your questions to: relationshipplaybook@gmail.com . Put "As the Fellas" in the subject.
Love is the most often used word in eternity. You hear about love spoken of countless times to describe many different things. However, despite its popularity, love, is one of the least understood words in existence. There are many references to the things we will do because of love; and just as many examples of the results of being in love, but rarely is love defined. In this episode we're going to define love, the role it plays in relationships, and the things we should/shouldn't put up with as a result of "being in love."
Ahhh the dreaded friend zone... defined by urban dictionary as "what you attain after you fail to impress a woman you're attracted to." Men and women alike loathe being placed into the friend zone, and look at it as being "good, but not good enough." In this episode we're going to discuss the friend zone in detail... What is the friend zone? Why do we put people in it? How can you get out of it? Are those in the "friend zone" potentially good relationship candidates?
You've heard of the "Bachelor/Bachelorette" auctions for charity where you bid to have a first date with an ideal catch. You know it's for charity, and it's all in fun, but could that work in real life? Could you eliminate a lot of the hassle when it comes to first dates, by bidding on your prospective dates? How is this different from gold digging - or is it? We'll discuss this with someone that not only says it works, but it's going to change dating for the better.
In most relationships, at some point you reach a crossroad - do you decide to stay in the relationship or do you move on. In this episode we're going to discuss tsome of the decisions that need to be made when you are in a transition phase in your relationship including: Why do we stay in relationships that we aren't satisfied in? Once we decide to move on, what should we do to prepare ourselves for future relationships?
We have all heard that men and women speak a different "language," and at times it can make communication challenging. What a man means can be completely different than what he says and in this episode we're going to help you with some of those challenges and "decode" what he actually means by some of the things he says.
It has been said that dating is a numbers game... How many children do you have? Relationships should be 50/50. The 90 day rule. What is your height? Salary? Credit score? "Size"? What is the ration of women-to-men The list of numbers is endless. Do these numbers really matter? Are they important in relationships or just road blocks we use to prevent us from having positive relationships?
Join Will Wavvy, Marcus Magee, and Rick Harris Monday Nights 9 PM EST, 8 PM CST, 6 PM PST on Playbook Radio - www.blogtalkradio.com/theplaybook
No scripts, special guests, or pre-determined topic. This is your chance to decide what the show will be about with our, "Ask the Fellas" episode. We are going to answer your random questions about life and relationships; as well as, give your insight into how men think about any and everything you ask us.
You ask and we'll answer. For those questions/topics that require a detailed discussion, we'll have future episodes dedicated to those topics.
You have always wanted frank, honest answers from men on how we think and why we do some of the things we do. Here's your opportunity to get them.
You can email your questions to: relationshipplaybook@gmail.com . Put "As the Fellas" in the subject.
No scripts, special guests, or pre-determined topic. This is your chance to decide what the show will be about with our, "Ask the Fellas" episode. We are going to answer your random questions about life and relationships; as well as, give your insight into how men think about any and everything you ask us.
You ask and we'll answer. For those questions/topics th at require a detailed discussion, we'll have future episodes dedicated to those topics.
You have always wanted frank, honest answers from men on how we think and why we do some of the things we do. Here's your opportunity to get them.
You can email your questions to: relationshipplaybook@gmail.com . Put "As the Fellas" in the subject.
Do any type of search on the web for “black women” and you will find all types of posts and videos of Black men insulting, criticizing, and blaming Black women for all the ills of the Black community. These criticisms are generalized as “Most” Black women act this way and they are inferior to women of other races. What are the causes of this misogynistic mindset? In this episode we’re going to discuss the misogyny epidemic, the responsibility men need to take for their own decisions, how unrealistic expectations come into play, and the reasons why Black Women need love too.
The explosion of the internet and social media sites have given the term "it's a small world" new meaning. At the click of a mouse you can meet and connect with someone from in another city or country with ease. In this episode we're going to discuss long distance relationships and share some realistic insight on how to make your relationship work from a distance. We will also answer your relationship questions and welcome your stories.
“If only” is a phrase you hear many times AFTER the fact in relationships… If only I had taken the time to get to know him better… If only we knew how to listen to each other… If only I knew how to speak her love language… If only we took our time and didn’t rush… The list goes on and on. Sure, advice is a dime a dozen. You can always come across someone willing to tell you what you should have done or how to handle a situation AFTER the fact, but the unfortunate reality is that you receive more training on how to ride a bike than we do on our relationships. It is rare that you are given the skills, support, and practical advice you need before you begin to have challenges. After this episode you will no longer have a reason to have “if only” in your vocabulary. We are going to discuss the things you need to know and practical tips you can use BEFORE you commit to a long term relationship. Our special guest is Dwayne Shigg, author of, Some Things to Know About Marriage Before You Have a Wedding.
If you let most men tell it, they are studs in the bedroom... have all the tools that can make every women fall in love with them in the bedroom... and are the reincarnation of the "Mandingo Warrior..." If that is not the case, then why are men selling those "wolf tickets"? Is it necessary to brag on sexual exploits and prowness to get a woman into bed? Whether a man is hanging to his knees or is not hanging at all, what is wrong with being completely honest and setting the proper expectations with women?
We'll discuss the male's need to brag and also what can he do when he is coming up "short" to satisfy his woman in the bedroom.
Relationship and Personal Development Coach, Febury Hassan, joins us to discuss the secret power of women in relationships. She is going to share the keys to unlocking the power women have in relationships including... Women have the power to have men do almost anything for them and that power is not just sexual... How you can create and have natural, loving relationships that go beyond physical attraction and enter into deep mental, spiritual, and emotional lasting relationships... How to get rid of the feelings of hopelessness and frustration with the dating scene and have more fulfilling relationships with men.
Join Will Wavvy, Marcus Magee, and Rick Harris Monday nights on Playbook radio - 9 PM EST, 8 PM CST, 6 PM PST.
We all know someone (if you haven't been through it yourself) that has found out their man was cheating with someone that does not appear to compare to their partner. Why did he do it? What's the appeal other than simply getting some new ass?
We'll discuss this strange behavior; as well as what men need to do, in order to be the strong provider and protector women desire. Our special guest is Mo "The Treasure Hunter" Stegall.
Monday nights 9 PM EST, 8 PM CST, 6 PM PST www.blogtalkradio.com/theplaybook
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No scripts, special guests, or pre-determined topic. This is your chance to decide what the show will be about with our, "Ask the Fellas" episode. We are going to answer your random questions about life and relationships; as well as, give your insight into how men think about any and everything you ask us. You ask and we'll answer. For those questions/topics that require a detailed discussion, we'll have future episodes dedicated to those topics. You have always wanted frank, honest answers from men on how we think and why we do some of the things we do. Here's your opportunity to get them.
"You got to keep the fire going... What you don't do, someone else will..." are some of the things we hear repeatedly in regards to keeping your partner satisfied in the bedroom. But what do you do when you can't or are unwilling to fulfill all their requests? Do women really need to be "closet strippers"... squirt on command... tie a knot with a cherry... and push their bodies to the limit just to keep their men happy? We'll discuss sexual needs and expectations, as well as, how to deal with sexual incompatibility in your relationships.
When you ask most people what they are looking for in a mate, they will begin reciting a lists of character traits they find desirable and things they must have in a relationship. However, when you ask the same people to describe the people they've been in a relationship with and many times you hear things that are not what they said they wanted in a partner. Why is there a disconnect between what we say we want and what we actually accept? Michael Cunningham joins us to discuss this topic and his book the Five F principals and how they apply to our relationships.
In most cases before you begin a relationship with someone, you go through the dating process - the first date... the courtship... what defines a good date... bad date, etc. Now, more then ever, it seems to be complicated and confusing as to what to do and what to avoid. In this episode, we're going to discuss the current dating scene - what men think about dates and how we plan for them... what is expected and desired during a date... and how we plan for them. We're also going to share our stories of good and bad dates; as well as, answer your questions and concerns.
Many women consider themselves to be the perfect girlfriend? They do everything in their power to please and gain his affection – cook his meals, clean the house, wash his clothes, give him sex on demand – and be his all-around nice girl. We all know someone that has been that woman and yet she was dumbfounded as to why she never got a ring – especially when she finds out later that he ended up marrying someone else. What makes a man want to marry a specific woman? You’ll hear from single men discussing what it’s going to take for them to turn a casual relationship into a committed one; as well as from married men sharing their thoughts on what made them decide to turn their committed relationship into a marriage. We’re also going to answer your marriage and relationship questions.
Everyone can agree that intimacy is a vital component of any romantic relationship. However, not everyone agrees on what intimacy really means. In this weeks' episode we will explore the definition of intimacy, the challenges that couples face with it, and how to improve it in your relationships with our special guest, intimacy coach Nikeema Lee.
For quite some time there has been an ongoing debate between men and women about the modern woman's mindset - "I don't need a man... I'm independent... men are no good", etc. Men complain about the mind set, and complaining has gotten us exactly where we are now on the issue - NOWHERE. In this episode, instead of complaining we're going to take a different approach - looking in the mirror. The mindset exists for a reason and instead of shifting the blame, we're discuss our role in creating that mindset; and more importantly, what we can do to change it. In many ways men, we have got to do better.
In this episode, we're going to break down the "hunt and chase" in dating, specifically... What is the "chase" and what motivates men to hunt and chase a specific woman? Is it something about her... mere bragging rights... or something completely different? What happens when you "catch" her? Is the thrill over and they move on to the next? HOw do you create and maintain a relationship once the chase is over? How do men feel about the roles being reversed and the woman does the chasing?
In this August edition of Ask the Fellas, we are going to answer your random questions about life and relationships; as well as, give you insight into how men think about any and everything. You ask and we'll answer. You have always wanted frank, honest answers from men on why we do some of the things we do. Well here's your chance to get them. Here are some of the questions that were asked... What are some of the things that men can do to have more successful relationships? In situations where women outnumber men, how can a woman stand out so that she stands out from the crowd? Infidelity and poor communication are two of the major reasons relationships fail, what would you consider to be another reason? What makes a man want to marry a specific woman?
With only a few strokes and a couple of clicks separating you and the rest of the world, Facebook (and other social networking sites) has made the phrase, “it’s a small world,” truly a reality. You know have the ability to meet and connect with people in ways that would have seemed impossible just a couple of years ago. Your life and those of your “friends” are now on display for the world to see. Is blurring the line between public and private helping or hurting your relationships? In this episode, we’re going to discuss the social media phenomenon and the effect is has on our relationships; as well as, the do’s and don’ts for maintaining a successful relationship while feeding your social media addiction.
When you ask most women, "What do Men Want" or "What attracts a man to a woman" you usually get some variation of "cooking, cleaning, and sex"; and consequently, that is what women focus on. Are those REALLY all the things that attract and keep a man interested? In this episode, we're going to discuss in detail what attracts men to women; and more importantly, what keeps them interested. Believe it or not, it's more than you think.
Men think that they invented all the tricks to get what they want, but really, it's the other way around. Time after time, men who think they are winning the game are really losing. That becomes all too clear in this account written by stand-up comedian Kenny Mack, who looks at his own relationships to demonstrate that men have nothing on women when it comes to "game" -those skills that an individual uses to get what he or she wants. Get ready to discover hidden truths, including; why women really say I love you; why women don't want you to get to know them; why and how women recreate themselves; why it's so hard for men to admit they've been played. You'll also learn the many other games that women play to manipulate men. If you want to truly understand what a woman is thinking when she meets you, kisses you, or tells you she loves you, then you need to understand that Women Are the New Men.
When you ask a man or woman what they look for in a partner, you hear all of the same thing you expect to hear... Must be nice... respectful... Christian... good head on their shoulders... intelligent... goal oriented, etc. All of this sounds great, but why are many continuously deal with the dude that has nothing going for him except the pipe hanging to his knees or the woman who is tighter than a rubber band around a Sunday newspaper? Why do people leave an otherwise good relationship because of bad sex or stay in an otherwise bad relationship because of good sex? Do we put too much of a value on sex? What are we sacrificing in terms of mental and emotional health, just for good sex? We're also going to discuss Friends with Benefits. Are we kidding ourselves when we think we are sustain a "no strings attached" relationship? What happens you develop feelings? Should there be rules and expectations?
In most relationships the expectations of your partner are clear. He or she will fulfill ALL of your wants and needs in every way - emotional, physical, spiritual, romantic, sexual, etc. If you are "truly" in love with them, then you will never have a desire for anything from anyone else. But is that realistic or just some fairy tale that we have been sold? Can you have someone be your No. 1 without them being your only one? Are open relationships just for crazy swingers that participate in orgies, and adult parties or is it an relatistic option to our natural instincts... that one person is not enough. In this episode we're going to discuss the benefits and challenges of an open relationship; as well as, solutions on dealing with jealousy and negotiating boundaries.
Whether it is by choice or circumstance, society tells you that your life is not fulfilled and complete until you find your Mr. or Mrs Right. Being single is spoken as if if's a condition to be avoided like a plague, so in this episode we'll answer the question... What's wrong with being single? Are relationships all they're cracked up to be? Can you have a life of happiness without being in a relationship? If you are single and want to be in a relationship, what are you doing that's keeping you from finding the one? We'll also talk to a man that is not only a happy single, but he refuses to ever be in a relationship and he'll share with you why.
In our return to the air waves after a year hiatus, Author Jay West joins us to discuss her controversial book, "Be that B.I.T.C.H.," (Be In total Control of Herself) which chronicles the relationships of women to each other, their families, and the men in their lives. Some of the topics we'll dig into are, How to phase out a relationship, Marriage is a state of Mind, and the 10 most common lies women tell. But wait there's more... Jay West is also the author of, The Cheating Guide, a guide to help men become better cheaters. This is sure to be a controversial show for the ages.
Relationships. Marriage. How do they work, and why don't they last?
Flip on the TV or peruse the self-help section at any local bookstore and you see the same theme over and over again: Women need to alter their behavior, and should work harder at understanding men. But nothing could be further from the truth. Women in committed relationships are not to blame for men's bad behavior, or 100% responsible for failed relationships.
Based on author Charles Orlando's past experience as a "morally challenged" young man, and hundreds of interviews with men and women, The Problem with Women... is Men: The Evolution of a Man's Man to a Man of Higher Consciousness takes readers on a humorous, blunt, tell-all romp through the world of men and their issues.
Women can regain their sanity, men can evolve beyond their primal instincts, and perhaps society will start to raise the bar on what the term "man" means.
It doesn't matter where you choose to get your information from, there is no denying that we have an extremely high rate of out-of-wedlock births in our community - most of our children are born out of wedlock. We're going to discuss some of the many reasons why this is a "problem" in our community and if you even see it as a problem at all.
We're also going to discuss the roles and challenges of being a single parent; as well as dealing with absentee and deadbeat parents.
Christelyn Karazin of www.noweddingnowomb.com is our special guest.
"Ever wonder why some women marry while others never do? Or have you wondered how self-proclaimed bachelors suddenly find themselves at the altar?
Christine Pembleton from "Ready to be a Wife" to tell you the differences between Dating and dating to marry.
In our first show in a month, we have random conversation and discuss what going on with TRP.
Before you walked down the aisle, did it seem as though life was fabulous, sex was steamy and both you and your partner were satisfied? Six months go by, then a year; bedroom romps start to disappear, and faster than you can say “I do”, sex is at the bottom of a long list of priorities. Sexologist, Dr. Trina Read’s book Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible, delves into the issue that often divides couples, rather than conquers.
Funny, down-to-earth, easy-to-read and most importantly filled with concrete tips on how to turn your sex life around, Till Sex Do Us Part’s author makes reading the book feel like a chat with a good friend who’s been there before. Dr. Read’s simple answer to this unfortunate phenomenon, which affects married couples all over the globe, is a matter of transitioning from single-woman sex to married-woman sex.
Every couple, whether married or in a committed long-term relationship, should read Till Sex Do Us Part before sex becomes a thing of the past.
At the beginning of the season we had the fellas on, and last week it was the ladies, tonight we're combining the two for an honest dialogue between the sexes.
Tonight's topic: The "numbers" that are being circulated in the media about how women aren't getting married... men aren't committing... no one can find what they're looking for, etc.
Instead of hearing it from the opposite sex, you're going to hear it from each other. The ladies are going to tell the women what they need to do to be more appealing to women and the fellas are going to let the men know where they're falling off in being men and leaders.
Also Maryanne Comaroto will join us to discuss her Responsible Relationship Training Program.
It's said that men lead with their minds and women with the hearts and in our, Minds of Men, episode the fellas answered the pressing questions women have about how they think and why they do some of the things they do. Now it's the ladies turn to answer from their hearts and let the fellas know why they do some of the things the do. Some of the questions that'll be answered...
(Generally Speaking)
Why can’t women STFU? Why do you withhold sex from men as a punishment, when you know there are others who will gladly give it to him? Why are women so hateful, critical, suspicious, etc., towards other women? Why should we have to tell you what you want to hear? Why can’t we just tell you how we really feel? What’s up with the need to buy shoes and purses?
Those questions are just the beginning of a night of introspection into the hearts of women.
The Other Woman Code of Conduct, KiKi Richardson takes off the gloves and confronts one of the biggest taboo topics in relationships today. How do you help people who find themselves engaging in behavior that is completely unacceptable in society?
Infidelity is an unpleasant reality that we can no longer turn a blind eye to and pretend it does not exist. The Other Woman Code of Conduct offers detailed guidelines for what behavior is acceptable for those participating in these arrangements. Like it or not, there is “honor among thieves” and there is protocol involved in everything we do. Cheating is no exception. It is in our best interest to know all the facts so that we can make informed choices.
The Other Woman Code of Conduct serves as a handbook for women and men to understand the rules of engagement when having an affair.
Have you ever been sexually abused?
It's a simple, yet profound question. The answer is either yes or no.
Unfortunately, for as many as one in three females and one in five males, the answer is yes. Sexual abuse is not bound by race, economic status, or social class. It strikes every family. Because of the hurt, shame, and embarrassment it brings to families, no one wants to talk about it.
Do you think that it hasn't happened in your family? Think again! Have you or someone you know been sexually promiscuous?
Are you feeling lonely, confused, or depressed and don't know why? Do you wonder if the person who abused you ever thinks about it? Do you have problems being intimate with your spouse? Before you send your child off to another babysitter... Before you let your child play Hide-and-Seek... Before you let your child "spend the night" anywhere else... Before you call another pregnant teen a fast little girl... Before you say, "My husband would never touch my child..."
You must read, THE ENEMY BETWEEN MY LEGS!
It will change your life, how you parent your children, and make you think twice about ever judging another person -- including teenage mothers, prostitutes, drug addicts, and possibly yourself.
When it comes to dating most of us say we don't like playing games, yet we find ourselves playing and getting caught up in them. Don't you wish you could just avoid dating the Dumb, Deceitful, Dastardly, Dysfunctional, and Deranged men and women out there? Deborrah Cooper stops by Playbook Radio to share with you the rules of romantic games, how to avoid those types and just get down to the business of dating with Sucka Free Love.
Why don't men call when they say they will? Learn the reasons why men call days after you want them to - if they even call at all.
Are you being used for Sex? Avoid the "booty call" syndrome and learn the difference between like, lust, and love.
Is she really into you or your wallet? Proven techniques to avoid gold diggers and chicken heads.
Of course since Deborrah will be in the Coaches Corner for the night, we're also going to discuss some of her more controversial blogs from her site: Surviving Dating.com:
The Black Church - How they keep African American Women Single and Lonely. Can't have a conversation about the church and not discuss Eddie Long.
Exposing Black Male Privilege
Why Women should stop having children
Is the black man’s obsession with “money over bitches” and a lifestyle that glorifies the street life hinder their relationships with women? Do men really believe in the “MOB” mantra, or is just macho bravado.
Felicia Pride, and a select panel of men join us to discuss this hot topic…
Have you ever wanted to know what REALLY goes on in the minds of men? The no-holds barred, spare no punches, cold, hard truth? Well this is your chance to learn.
Will Wavvy is joined by his "Fab 5": The Champ and Panama Jackson of Very Smart Brothas, and Rick and Eric Willams and Jay Skill of TRP promise to leave no doubt about what men think when it comes to...
Independent Women - Stop putting Extras on Regular Ish The Game - And how to tell when he's running game on you The Pussification of Men and the problem with "Nice" guys Why men congratulate themselves but condemn women when it comes to sex.
And that's just for starters... we're also going to take your calls and answer your questions. After this show you can no longer use the excuse, "I didn't know."
Last show until Sept. 2010!
The first half of the show is dedicated to singles…
Whether reading the latest popular magazine, watching the newest reality show or listening to intimate conversations among friends, one topic that never seems to get old is love. Millions of people continue to search for love, and Shay "Your Date Diva" Williams, teaches women worldwide will be able to find love, and to find it fast.
The second half is couples…
With the divorce rate spiking at a dizzying 60 percent, it's safe to assume that young couples and experienced partners alike may lack the skills and understanding necessary to sustain a committed relationship. Psychotherapists Linda and Charlie Bloom present 101 techniques delivering practical guidance and make it clear that, regardless of past experience, anyone can develop the basic strengths, skills, and capacities needed for a great relationship.
J. Thurman stops by to share his guide that will save Black women time, money, and energy when it comes to dealing with Black men.
Learn why you think of yourself as princess and not a GODDESS.
Learn who's the real boss and why you don't have to tolerate what men do.
Learn to develop a strategy before your next encounter with a man.
Examine the MYTH'S that black women tell other black women, with real answers.
Find out how not to get PIMPED by your emotions and any man again!
Learn the Secret's of the Three P's.
Personalize your game plan and strategies of attack with black men.
What if you could find out that Prince Charming's not really that charming - before you sleep with him? What if you could feel strong and confident about your next relationship, knowing that you're doing what's right for you?
Maryanne Comarota stops by to discuss how Happily Ever After really begins within: by being the person you want to attract.
When you ask someone "Why Are You Single" you typically hear a bunch of reasons why it's everyone else's fault but their own. "Men are dogs... Women are gold digggers..." The list goes on and on. What does everyone you've dated have in common? You! So maybe they aren't the problem, you are. Nikki Nokes joins us to discuss taking personal accountability for your dating choices.
IN AN AGE WHEN AMERICA HAS EMBRACED a mixed-race president and a strong, independent black woman as first lady...when black women are on the move and more empowered than ever before...there remains one hot-button topic that stirs up cultural resistance and intensity of emotion like no other: interracial relationships -- or, specifically, when black women date or marry white men.
What is it about the black female/white male dynamic that sparks such controversy and depth of feeling? What keeps many single black women from exploring relationships outside of their race at a time when the pool of eligible black men is at an all-time low?
Why We Hate Black Women is a book that takes a critical look at the historical and contemporary lives of Black women in order to answer one question: Why are so many black women abused, abandoned, betrayed, devalued and hated by both their white and black counterparts? This quest for truth opens up a cultural Pandora’s Box of issues that date back over 400 years.
Whether we’re discussing corporate women, college women, church women or economically challenged women, their stories are the same. Whether they’ve reached the heights of an Oprah Winfrey or have struggled to make ends meet, there is one chord that binds them all together – the stigma of what it means to be black and female in America.
The award winning website Black and Married With Kids.com, Lamar Tyler, joins us to discuss his ground breaking documentary set to challenge negative stereotypes surrounding marriage and parenting in the black community.
Sex and Marriage - most were taught to believe that the two go hand-in-hand, but if that's the case then why do so many married couples have unsatisfying sex lives?
Veronica Monet, joins us for a discussion like no other.
First, we'll discuss the valuable lessons she's learned about men, sex, and marriage during her years as a successful escort.
Next, we'll discuss how even though most couples don't have issues of domestic violence; most participate in verbal violence which can be just as destructive to their sexual passion.
And of course we won't let her go with her sharing some bedroom tips and secrets for the married couples.
Why does it seem that some women are proposed to by just about every man they date, while others can't get a proposal no matter how hard they try?
Dr. Tartt joins us to discuss the answer: The Ring Formula.
The Ring Formula tells you everything men say they desire in a wife and how you can give it to them without losing your mind or integrity.
Get your wedding fingers ready!
From the time most girls are barely able to walk they're sold the idea of marrying their "Perfect Prince Charming" in a "Perfect Wedding Ceremony" and live "Happily Ever After".
It sounds wonderful, but isn't the reality of marriage much different than the fairy tale of dating?
Lori Gottlieb, joins us to discuss the differences and believes by adjusting your expectations to what's really important in a healthy marriage; women will have more options and have healthier relationships.
What is Love?
It's talked about constantly. You hear songs sung about it's power, read articles about it's misuse, and hear stories about how wonderful it is. But do we really KNOW what love is?
We're going to learn in this episode. Also Dwayne L. Buckingham joins us to discuss the challenges women and men face in their attempt to give and receive unconditional love in their relationships.
Unfortunately, most women haven't been taught how to date and find a compatible partner. You fly by the seat of your pants, get bad advice from friends and waste valuable time with unavailable men. J.J. Smith joins us to coach you on how to take a unique business approach to help you enjoy dating by creating action plans, checklists, and conducting research.
Which would you choose financial security or love?
Tabitha S. Jones joins us to discuss her debut novel about three women that seems to be living the American dream except they're lonely. Which brings up the question many women have...
"Can I really have it all AND the ring"?
Although we have a good time every week, we're going to REALLY have some fun this episode when Lewis Williams III, of iHustlenation, and the sexiest man in radio, Al B. Butler, returns to play our online version of, The Dating Game featuring Shelia Moss-Brown's "Authenticity" board game. We're going to show you a fun way of how to have better communication in your relationships.
We've heard the oft overused term women need to "Let a Man be a Man" in the relationship, but what does that phrase really mean? More importantly, is that really what the challenge is in relationships or is the real issue that women need to "learn how to be women?" We're also going to discuss some of the dating traps women should avoid.
A broken heart can be devastating. Tears, loss of appetite, and intense sadness are some of the typical behaviors a broken heart causes, and it can lead to much more destructive behaviors - even a lost of the desire to live.
We're going to discuss how to deal with a broken heart and more importantly, begin the process of healing and recovery.
We're also going to help reduce your chances of getting a broken heart by talking about some of the questions you should ask your potential partner before you commit.
What do men act so interested in a woman until he gets some? Why does it seem like no matter how much he gets he's never satisfied?
These are just a couple of the questions popular talk radio personality, and one of Ebony's Magazine's Super Sexy Singles of 2009, Albert L. Butler, will discuss with us; as well as, what single men really think when it comes to sex.
"Living Single" star Kim Coles opens up to The Relationship Playbook about life after abusive relationships how women can move beyond the hurt to excel into a life filled with G.I.F.T.S.! It all starts with YOU...and speaking of YOU, Dr. James Wadley, author "Would You Marry You" provides us with the Tools to make sure you are bring the best you forward in 2010
In his latest best seller, "The Conversation", Hill Harper gets us to start having the necessary conversations we need to have with ourselves and our partners to begin the process of repairing the state of Black male and female relationships.
So what happens after we have the conversation? After we talk, how do we fix it?
In this episode we're going to to discuss the concepts behind, "The Conversation", and more importantly talk about, "The Solution".
A lot of problems in your relationships come from assuming. You don't ask the right questions (if you ask any at all) and then when problems arise you kick yourself because you know you could've easily avoided them if only you didn't assume.
In this episode we're going to talk with a woman that made the mistake of assuming and it left her with a child she now has to raise on her own.
In the final installment of our 3 part series on gender roles, we're going to have the men and women sit down together, and discuss what their thoughts on what each other was saying.
In the second part of our Gender Roles series, three generations of women join us to discuss what it means to be a woman, their thoughts on a woman's role in relationships, and to answer some things about women that men wonder about.
Unfortunately, a lot of women don't know how to properly define what a man is. How can you say you want/need something and you don't know what it is? No need to be confused anymore. A group of men from three different generations join us to properly define what makes a man, what they look for in a woman, and the confusion we have today with gender roles.
No matter your thoughts on cheating, one thing most people would agree with - finding a mate that will remain faithful to you throughout a long term relationship is rare. So unless you want to continue jumping from relationship to relationship why not just accept your partner probably isn't going to be faithful? This is a hot button topic that you definitely don't want to miss.
Why Do Men Ho? Why Don't They Cry? How does a man define a good woman? These are questions women would like to know about men; but unfortunately although men think about it, they hardly ever tell you why they do some of the things they do in relationships. Well tonight, Steven Dixon, author of "Men Don't Heal, We Ho" joins us to tell you all of the things men think about in relationships, but never say. You can purchase preview some of his relationship insights at www.relationshipbeast.com
Ihustlenation.com's, Lewis Williams, stops by to educate you on why you're having issues letting go of your past relationships and why you just need to move on and let the next person have them.
In these times of over 50% divorce rates, an overwhelming number of out-of-wedlock children, and society's acceptance of the non-married, couple living together - does marriage serve a purpose anymore? Of course it does and we're going to discuss the benefits of tying the knot.
Since the beginning of time, one thing has remained constant between men, women, and relationships - the battle of the sexes. He wants to go let, while she wants to go right and you battle until one side surrenders. Do we really need to constantly battle each other or can we really settle our differences once and for all and co-exist in a happy relationship?
You've talked with your girlfriends, asked your guy friends, and even prayed to God about it for years, yet you still don't have the answer to the question...
Why Do Men Fear Marriage?!
We're discussing this hot-button topic and addressing some of the concerns men have with marriage. Are they really afraid of it or do women not make it appealing?
Money. It affects us all, so why is it so difficult to discuss? Even as daily headlines broadcast ever more alarming news about the fate of the American economy, few people are willing to acknowledge the enormous impact that personal finance has on their private affairs. Until now. Join us and our special guest, Hilary Black, as we discuss the unabashed truth about women, money, and relationships.
Why does it seem that black women have a difficult time getting what they want in relationships? Karl Perkins joins us to give a candid discussion about black women and their relationships.
We're bringing Tristan back for another show but this time she's going to breath new life into your bedroom and give you some sure-fire ways to expand your sexual repertoire. She'll also answer ANY and EVERY question you have about sex.
In this day and ago, it's become increasingly clear that monogamy isn't a desired goal of everyone; however is an open relationship healthy? Award winning author, columnist, and sex educator Tristan Taormino will join us to dispel some of the myths about open relationships and help you decide if it's right for you, and how to transform a monogamous relationship into a non-monogamous one.
When you have children that are products of bad relationships, just how much drama should you have to endure? We'll discuss some of the things you should put up with and If/when you should cut the other person off.
Does the right combination of genes really make a difference in your life? We'll discuss dating for genes and if we should be choosing our mates based on science instead of love.
Despite all the macho talk of being "the man" and "wearing the pants in the family", are men actually happier when they're wrapped around a woman's finger? Let's discuss gender roles in relationships and how they've changed over the years.
What's your sign? It's something we've asked or been asked countless times, but do you really believe it has bearing on the success of your relationship?
There are many reasons why people live live or consider living together. No matter what the reasons, there are unique challenges and opportunities for these types of relationships. Dr. John Curtis joins us to discuss how to live together and love it.
Unfortunately, it's easy to get into a boring and mundane bedroom routine when you've been with in a long term monogamous relationship. Join us as we discuss ways to put the naughty back in your bedroom and keep it there.
In this episode, we break down the game, players, and what you can do to avoid being a statistic.
In our 2009 season opener, Todd Wooten, joins us as we discuss how racial stereotypes and sexual perceptions influence how we view each other and our relationships.
Do you remember the "good ol' days" in your relationship when you and your partner treated each other like royalty? What happened to those days? In this show we'll discuss the things you can do to make sure those days never leave your relationship. Our special guests are the authors of "The Get 'Em Girls Guide to the Power of Cuisine".
October is Domestic Violence Awareness month and we're going to listen to Krazygem tell her story of survival from domestic violence. In the end she had to choose between leaving and seeing her children. This is an incredible story of strength and survival that you don't want to miss!
It's the end of summer, which also means the end of the summer fling. Now you're ready to begin looking for a serious relationship. Where do you begin? We'll answer that question and give you all the plays you need to successfully get back into the relationship game.
You're in a relationship with problems. You don't know how to fix them. You don't want to leave.
So what do you do?
Noel Biderman, of Ashley Madison has a simple answer...
Have an affair.
You don't want to miss this controversial discussion on the benefits of an affair.
This special edition of The Game will have an all-female, round table discussion about some of the major issues men have with women; as well as, the love/hate relationship we have with each other.
Our Guest panel will be:
CafeAuLait Host of Love,Life&EverythingInBetween
Jaxx Host of RealWomenRealTalk
Queen Unique Host of Queen Speaks
and
New Up and Coming Recording Artists- L'Renee
We all have made mistakes in lives our relationships. Our mistakes has much a part to do with the person we are as our successes, so if you could do it all over again would you? Would you shack-up before you got married? Would you even have gotten married? Would you have cheated? Would you take him/her back? Would you have left your mate for “greener grass”? Join us as we discuss relationship mistakes and the things we’ve learned from them.
It's a question women have had since the begging of time, why do men cheat? Can they be faithful? Join us as we discuss what do men really think about monogamy and if it's a realistic possiblity.
Despite the common perception that men and women who are single are not happy, hate the opposite sex, need therapy, or are just full of bs; more of us are choosing to remain single now than ever before. Why? Is it still a couple's world or is being single, the new married?
Have you ever known and felt that you should end your relationship, but didn't know how to do it? Once you get closure how do you avoid dating "suckas"? These questions and more will be answered with our special guest, Big Boom, author of the national best seller, "If you want closure in your relationships start with your legs."
The rivalry between women and men goes back to the beginning of time, and has continued to the present day. I'm sure you've thought that one day a winner would be declared, and the discussion will be finally over. Well that day has come! Join us and a few of your favorite BTR hosts (3 Chicks on Lit, Luvologist, & Alan Currie) in a special 90 min show as we discuss the differences between men and women and battle for gender supremacy once and for all!
In today's age of sexual freedom and promiscuity is it possible to date outside of the church and maintain your spiritual values? If so, how? Can you have a worthwhile relationship without sex? Join us as we discuss this and a few other issues dealing with dating and the church
Join us and S.S. Neely, author of, "Avoiding the Dating Games," as we discuss how to avoid being "played" in the dating game. Also Battle of the Sexes Topic, Who plays more games in relationships?
It seems that after only a couple dates, you magically become a "couple" and you make yourself unavailable to everyone else. But does dating and relationships have to be exclusive? Is there anything wrong with having more than one lover? Mo' Flames joins us to discuss this and her debut novel, "One Ain't Enough." We're also going to have a LIVE version of the dating game. Three gorgeous women and three eligible bachelors that are looking for love will be taking your phone calls and see do y
Why are Black women so angry? I'm sure you've heard or even said that Black women are bitter, angry, and keep a 'tude. Do they have a right to be angry? Are they really angry at all? Join us as we discuss they "angry Black women" with Rhonda Johnson and Tina Clark... the founders of DearBlackMan.com
I'm sure you've heard or even said these statements: "All Black men are either gay or in jail." "Black men prefer to date outside their race, because they think all black women are gold diggers and ho's." The list goes on and on. But ask yourself, are those myths really the truth?!
Director, Janks Morton, joins us to discuss his powerful DVD documentary, "What Black Men Think."
MySpace, Facebook, Yahoo Personals, etc... nowadays, it seems that everyone has an online profile. Why is it that some of us can easily turn an online chat into a physical encounter and others can't? "Flyness," joins us to discuss his book, "From MySpace to My Place," and give you tips on how to master the game of online hookups.
Unfortunately, in today's age of sexual promiscuity, men and women no longer understand or respect the power of their sexual organs. Controversial author, Alexyss K. Tylor, joins us to discuss Vagina power and spiritual sexuality.
Are you tired of being broke and in debt? Do you need money to start a business, pay for college, pay off some bills... or do you just simply want to be pampered and spoiled with the finer things in life?
Then, this show is for you!
Leidra Lawson aka Queen Sugar Baby, is the controversial author of "Sugar Daddy 101 - What You Need to Know if You Want to be a Sugar Baby," and she'll be joining us to answer your questions and share her secrets on how to meet a sugar daddy and begin living
No specific discussion this show, we just took random calls and had a entertaining and frank discussion on celibacy, role playing, love, etc.
The differences between the dating philosophies of different generations. Do you prefer the old-school romantic, or the new school bluntness.
Authors Alan Currie, and O.G. Mac join us for the spirited debate.
In this day and age, does race still matter in relationships? Why or why not? What are the challenges of dating interracially?
Is your love only reserved for someone of a certain race?
Do you only date your race exclusively? What about outside your race?
Do women really want a "Good Man?"
Most single women say they aren't in a relationship because "they can't find a good man," there are no good men out there", "the good ones are taken", etc.
If that's the case, then why are there just as many good men out there that say they have problems finding a woman while the man that's no good has a steady supply of women?
We'll discuss this hot topic with J. Duval, author of "The Good Man's Survival Guide."
Abusive relationships occur now more than ever. One out of every three women have had atleast one physicall assualt by their partner. Factor in emotional abuse and the numbers are overwhelming.
This week we're going to discuss this disturbing trend and how you can recognize, survive, and most importantly overcome abusive relationships
How to keep the fire burning in a relationship when you've been together for awhile and feel like you've done everything there is to do intimately.
You Meet Mr Right. He's intelligent, attractive, financially stable, no drama... everything you can ask for in a man. Well almost everything... he's lousy in bed. What do you do? Do you stay in a sexually unfulfilling relationship or do you move on?
Are long distance relationships worth it? If so, how do you properly love and maintain a long distance realtionship
TV host and relationship expert, DT from Dating Tips for Men, join us to discuss What Women really want, and why they have problems finding it.
Join us as we discuss Who has to deal with the most problems when it comes to dating. Men or Women?
Mercedes Terzol will discuss her latest book, "999 Ways To Say No To A No Good Man" (or Woman)
Relationship Expert Lucia tells us The 10 Things You Should Never Say When You First Start Dating
Robert "The Love Doc" Frazier, is going to diagnose, prescribe treatment, and put you on the road to recovery from your unhealthy relationships.
Why do Women drag nice guys through hoops, but let the bad guys have their way with them?
Comedian Rick Carter joins the Professor and Mel as they discuss their "interesting" online dating experiences