Dr. Jen Blanchette is the host of the TBI Therapist podcast. She is a passionate concussion and brain injury clinician, trauma expert, and clinical psychologist. The show hosts weekly guests who are survivors of a concussion/or brain injury. We explore the heart of brain injury. The emotions, struggles, messy middle, and most importantly the hope needed to recover and heal. See more at tbitherapist.com
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I'm releasing my email course on the podcast, the video will go away after March 10th, 2023! So if you'd like the video version with more resources, please go to: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/606e5015d0ab2d0103020f8a
I'm releasing my email course on the podcast, the video will go away after March 10th, 2023! So if you'd like the video version with more resources, please go to: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/606e5015d0ab2d0103020f8a
I'm releasing my email course on the podcast, the video will go away after March 10th, 2023! So if you'd like the video version with more resources, please go to: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/606e5015d0ab2d0103020f8a
I first met this inspirational person at the Krembels Center in New Hampshire. I was blown away by the center and this wonderful human's story and leadership among his peers. Jim Scott is a TBI survivor who shares his story with others through speaking and friendship with others at the Krembels Center.Meet Jim:n July 3rd, 2006 after partying in his childhood hometown, Jim drove drunk crashing into the woods in Durham, NH. Lucky to have survived, he would spend 6 weeks in Boston's Beth Israel's ICU in a minimally conscious state with a severe traumatic brain injury (TBI).After "graduating" from various rehabilitation programs in 2008, Jim became a member of Krempels Center (KC), located on Portsmouth's Community Campus. It was in KC's community-based day program that he truly started to build a "New Life After Brain Injury".Now more than 14 years post-injury, Jim is building on the community outreach he began as part of KC's "community education" group. Jim lives in Portsmouth with his adorable 4 legged son Clooney! After working in various financial services related jobs, when in 2015 his family launched a 100% cause-based animal nutrition company, Jim excitedly joined RAWZ Natural Pet Food. After experiencing the love and support of their family dog, Boomer, and witnessing the amazing services both sons' received post injury, the Scott's donate all of RAWZ's profits to providing service dogs, and to brain or spinal cord injury causes.More from Jim: https://morethanaspeedbump.com/More from Jen: www.tbitherapist.com
During this conversation, Bella Page candidly about mental health, depression, and more post-concussion. There is a trigger warning as we do discuss suicide. I was deeply moved by Bella's insights and commitment to helping others who struggle after a concussion.
Meet Bella:
Bella is a concussion survivor and host of the Post-Concussion Podcast where she has over 50 podcast episodes waiting for you. Be sure to check it out on postconcussioninc.com.
Bella offers her story of hope and insights into how she was able to cope with the mental health symptoms related to her brain injury.
More From Bella
https://www.postconcussioninc.com/
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www.tbitherapist.com
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This is my gift to you brain injury surviviors! Whether your struggling post stroke, TBI, concussion or other ABI, I think this holiday guide about grief and joy will be helpful in setting new priorities and expectations.More from Jen www.tbitherapist.com Do you love the show? Consider leaving us a five star review on apple podcasts, it helps the show grow and lets apple know that we are a solid show! Open apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tbi-therapist/id1587029041 scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode. It helps me plan for more content that you love :) Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. You’ll be the first to know about new episodes and it helps the show grow! As always, share with someone that you know could benefit from this podcast!
Concussion Survivor Story: Dr. Zeine is a retired Army flight surgeon. She offers her unique experience as a veteran and accomplished individual who discusses her concussion journey. Dr. Zeine discusses her key takeaways from her return to health and life post head injury. Amanda Zeine, DO, FAAP is a retired Army pediatrician who received medical retirement after a Traumatic Brain Injury in 2018. After her injury, she had severe sequelae causing a loss of identity, worsening depression, and weight gain. Now, after treatment, she has a new vision of herself and has begun a journey from Hot mess to Wellness which is the title of her book. Listen in to learn more about her specific recommendations for headaches, it’s SO good! More From Dr. Zeine https://www.hot-mess-to-wellness.com/ More from Jen www.tbitherapist.com Do you love the show? Consider leaving us a five star review on apple podcasts, it helps the show grow and lets apple know that we are a solid show! Open apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tbi-therapist/id1587029041 scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode. It helps me plan for more content that you love :) Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. You’ll be the first to know about new episodes and it helps the show grow! As always, share with someone that you know could benefit from this podcast!
Dr. Smink and I had a rich conversation with regard to caregiving and TBI. He is a well versed and experienced speaker who freely drops SO much knowledge on this topic. It is a must listen for caregivers and survivors. We talk about anticipatory grief and acknowledging the emotions around the event. We dig into issues of faith and try to understand the huge “why” of the brain injury event. We also talk about the definitions of compassion fatigue and burnout. Edward Smink, the founder of The Soul of Caregiving Coaching Practice, is an in-demand speaker, coach, and author of The Soul of Caregiving, A Caregiver’s Guide to Healing and Transformation. Edward holds an Associate Degree in Nursing from Newton Junior College, a BA in Psychology from Boston College, an MA in Counseling Psychology, a MA and PhD in Depth Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute. He is a former Registered Nurse, Healthcare Executive in Mission, Values, Spirituality, Ethics, End of Life Care, and Community Health. Cultural Taboos Regarding getting support for caregivers and survivors. We discuss these and ways we should do the opposite!We don’t trust what we are experiencingDon’t communicate your storyDon’t acknowledge what you are feelingSend Audience To:More From Dr. Sminkhttps://soulofcaregiving.com/More from Jenwww.tbitherapist.comDo you love the show? Consider leaving us a five star review on apple podcasts, it helps the show grow and lets apple know that we are a solid show! Open apple podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tbi-therapist/id1587029041scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode. It helps me plan for more content that you love :)Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. You’ll be the first to know about new episodes and it helps the show grow! As always, share with someone that you know could benefit from this podcast!
For the next two weeks, I am focusing on caregiving. If you know someone who is a caregiver for someone with a concussion or brain injury, then this podcast is for you. Concussions and brain injuries can be difficult to deal with, both for the person who has them and their caregivers. In this video, we offer some tips on how to support the caregivers in your life.
I was over the moon after attending the 13th annual Defining Moments in Brain Injury Conference in my home state of Maine. There is just something magical about meeting with other providers, survivors, and caregivers. In this episode, I share my big takeaways from the conference, including some mind-blowing info on modern concussion care! More […]
In 2017, Carolina sustained a brain injury concussion after falling on her icy driveway. At the beginning of her recovery, she remembers having just one lucid hour a day. As a result, her relationships, business, and mental health all greatly suffered. Carolina felt unable to handle the normal tasks in her life. As a CEO and business owner, she even had to take out an equity loan for her home. However, with time and treatment, Carolina ultimately recovered from her concussion. Today, she says she has reengineered her life. While the road to recovery was long and difficult, it is important to remember that full recovery is possible after sustaining a brain injury concussion.
The podcast is back for the start of fall! My hope is to have episodes weekly for you on Fridays through the fall. I recorded this episode in the summer that was based off of this blog article that gives you an overview of brain injury emotions: https://tbitherapist.com/blog/the-emotional-rollercoaster-of-brain-injury/TakeawaysThere is a wide range of emotions after a concussion. It can feel very unsettling to say the least. The lack of control over these emotions can cause a lot of distress. Keeping a log or tracking your emotions is very helpful. Sometimes it’s the time of day or after overtaxing your brain. Sometimes just moving through the emotion and noting a beginning, middle, and end. It’s normal to get stuck. Tools for big emotions include movement, physical touch, using your senses, compassion for yourself about your changing emotions (this is HUGE!).More from Jen Therapy services in the US (I can provide telehealth in 34 states!) Click here to see if I can provide treatment to you in your state https://psypact.site-ym.com/page/psypactmap I provide therapy after a brain injury or concussion.I also help leaders and go getters optimize and prioritize their brain health. Book a consult call today it’s free! https://tbitherapist.clientsecure.me/ Do you love the show? Consider leaving us a five star review on apple podcasts, it helps the show grow and lets apple know that we are a solid show! Open apple podcasts Click Here scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode. It helps me plan for more content that you love :) Also, if you haven’t done so already, follow the podcast. You’ll be the first to know about new episodes and it helps the show grow! As always, share with someone that you know could benefit from this podcast!
Encore presentation! I will return with full episodes in September :) Until then I'm re-releasing some of the top downloaded episodes of the season.
Melanie is a survivor and advocate that did not give up when she couldn’t find answers. She didn’t have doctors to let her know what she was experiencing so she took matters into her own hands. She started fighting to find answers which led her to develop a course about concussion from a survivor perspective.
Meet Melanie:
Melanie Wienhoven sustained a concussion in 2012. She didn't recover within the "normal timeframe" that doctors communicated with her. Her concussion turned into post-concussion syndrome and doctors didn't know what to tell her but to rest even more. After a few years, she was told that her brain injury was beyond repair. Unable and unwilling to accept that reality, she then turned her passive attitude into one of active recovery. She studied cutting-edge science, patients' cases and leading scholars and she experimented on herself for years. 6 years after injury (in 2018), she made a complete recovery from post-concussion syndrome - even though she was told that there was no hope. Now, she shares all that she learned through Lifeyana, so that others 1) don't feel so alone and 2) can cure their concussions much faster (because it didn't have to take that long)
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Don’t wait and see. Melanie says she waited too long with very difficult symptoms when she could have been progressing in her recovery.
Takeaway #2
Recovery is possible! She discusses the research of Dr. McCrea who told her recently that recovery is 100% possible. (maybe a future podcast guest!)
More From Melanie
https://www.lifeyana.com/
More from Jen
www.tbitherapist.com
Some notes about the program...I will be back in a week or two with a solo series on brain injury emotions :)
Have you been called “lazy” after your brain injury? My guest today talks about how people responded to her invisible injury. She discusses that her brain injury event occurred after an incident of domestic violence. She discusses that there were many mental health issues intertwined in her recovery and it was further complicated by it coming from a domestic violence incident.
She discussed how memorizing her lines helped her in her recovery journey. Something that I discuss all the time!
Mac Lawson sustained a traumatic brain injury in March of 2018 as a result of domestic violence. Her symptoms are mostly alleviated, minus some that are more long term. She pivoted after a brain injury to become a stand up comedian and her brain injury led her into comedy. Spreading awareness about TBIs is one of her life’s missions.
Tips for Recovery
Tip #1:
Brain injury was financially difficult. She found that she did things on her own with her self-care. She found that limiting her light exposure was helpful. She discussed many things through trial and error!
Tip #2
Try to remove people from your life that are invalidating. She discussed that she needed people around her that validated her experience.
Tip #3
She tried to be as normal as she could. She said “yes” to things that she knew would aggravate her symptoms. We talked about the push-pull of being social and pushing yourself after a concussion vs. being social and living a “normal life”.
More from MacLawson
@bigmaclawson
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www.tbitherapist.com
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Episode #24 It's been said that life is rarely predicted. We often find ourselves in unforeseen circumstances. If you've sustained a brain injury, it can be as disorienting as it is frightening. In this podcast episode, Andrew Davie, aneurysm survivor discusses how to embrace ambiguity after brain injury and what he's learned about goals, change, and embracing duality. Andrew was in the middle of an airport gangway when he was overcome with a headache so severe that he has no recollection of anything else that happened. The doctors found a few days later, Andrew had a ruptured brain aneurysm which caused him a lengthy physical and emotional recovery. He had to do basic things like walk, talk, and relearn daily functions.
Meet Andrew
Andrew Davie has worked in theater, finance, and education. He taught English in Macau on a Fulbright Grant, at the university level in New York and Hong Kong, and at the middle/high school level in Virginia. Currently, he’s pursuing his Clinical Mental Health Counseling Degree. He has published short stories in various places, a memoir and addendum, and crime fiction books with All Due Respect, Close to the Bone, Alien Buddha Press, and Next Chapter. He also co-hosts a music review show called Happy Hour with Heather and Guest.
Take Away #1: It's ok to have new goals When you've suffered a brain injury, it's easy to get stuck on the question of "what if?" What if I could have been the person I was before? What if life could be the same as it was before? But Andrew learned that when he got to the point where he was able to start working again, he couldn't compare his goals pre-brain injury to his goals post-injury. And that's okay! In fact, it's more than okay—it's a beautiful thing. Because now Andrew can work on enjoying getting there vs. where he is heading. For him, leaning directly into ambiguity was key as well as enjoying his journey.
Take Away #2: It's ok to not know what the next step may be... Andrew's story is one of uncertainty, and the importance of leaning into curiosity when the world is unpredictable. After suffering a traumatic brain injury from an aneurysm, he was left with a number of unanswered questions about his future. He shares how, after recovering from his injury, he realized that there was still a lot left for him to do in life. He says "you still have the opportunity to do something worthwhile, you just may not know what that is" he kept moving forward even though he wasn't sure of the direction.
Take Away #3: Find your people After his brain injury, Andrew Davie found that the best way to cope was by getting involved in a brain injury survivor group. He found that brain injury survivor groups were really helpful. He found that injuries may be different but everyone is going through the same thing. Andrew also recommends finding a support system within your family and friends. Remembering that you may have to educate your family about your brain injury is key. I would say providers can really help with this part!
More from Jen: www.tbitherapist.com--Where you can get my free email course on what people don't tell you after brain injury. Message me on instagram, yes, it's me, I'd love to "meet" you! @tbitherapist
More from Andrew: His other work can be found in links on his website https://andrew-davie.com/
Erica Baggett is an energetic, hopeful, and frank survivor. She discussed her difficulty with being a young mom and having a serious TBI. She discusses hope and her own drive to be the author of her own story. She recently ran in a whole marathon which was a big part of her healing journey. I was amazed by her presence and determination to be a beacon to other brain injury survivors.
Meet Erica:
On October 19, 2018, Erica sustained a severe TBI. She was involved in a MVA which left her unconscious and was subsequently airlifted for treatment.
After being in a coma for six weeks, she beat the odds and emerged. She was told she may never take care of herself or her son on her own. She was transferred to Shepherd Center’s Brain Injury Rehabilitation Program https://www.shepherd.org/ where she had to relearn everything, including walking, talking, swallowing, and dressing. She credits the dedication of her husband and family as well as survivor groups to her recovery and healing today.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Find your passion. For Erica that was running! So many of my guests have discussed passions assisting their healing.
Takeaway #2
Don’t give up. You won’t feel this way forever, even if things are very difficult now.
Takeaway #3
Get connected with the TBI community. One of my biggest recommendations as well!
Takeaway #4
Get some space from your emotions or overwhelm. For Erica that is counting down from 30 or a short walk, two great ideas!
More From Erica
https://www.instagram.com/erica.baggett/
More from Jen
www.tbitherapist.com
In today's podcast I talk a little bit about understanding trauma, burnout, and stress after an aquired brain injury. I talk a bit about the stress cycle. I do a deep dive in my free email course. Check that out here:
https://view.flodesk.com/pages/606e5015d0ab2d0103020f8a
Look out for a blog on my website soon on this topic with even more information www.tbitherapist.com
Tips for completing the stress cycle
Cry--It's true! Crying or engaging in time to grieve/feel the emotion is a powerful tool. To move through an emotion, we need to see its end, as the Nagoski sisters discuss in Burnout. In EMDR we do this by noticing the thoughts, images, body sensations, and emotions that come up with a particular memory. We then follow the channels of association or go down the emotional tunnel until there is no distress in the body.
Connect: Social Interaction is also medicine, with potentially even larger implications than exercise! A meta-analysis of social relationships and mortality risk indicates that we should really think about “prescribing” more social interaction, for our clients as well as ourselves. The researchers argued that “People with stronger social relationships had a 50% increased likelihood of survival than those with weaker social relationships." They further stated that "These findings indicate that the influence of social relationships on the risk of death are comparable with well-established risk factors for mortality such as smoking and alcohol consumption and exceed the influence of other risk factors such as physical inactivity and obesity." In other words, it's not only fun to connect with your social network, it's also really important for your health. (Holt-Lunstad, J. Smith TB, Layton JB, 2010)”
Our amazing guest Fred shares his journey of recovering from multiple concussions and other extremely difficult medical procedures. He shares how he dove into finding things that worked for him in his recovery. Part of that journey was diving into a passion project. Fred has been a lifelong learner and found that he started getting better once he found this key.
Meet Fred:
Fred Rutman, BA, CACE, MBA, Certified Marketing Specialist, Intermittent Faster and Coach, Death and Brain Trauma SurvivorCurrently writing the medical trauma memoir "The Summer I Died Twenty Times". He was a marketer/consultant and then a college professor. He was hospitalized numerous times and learned he was was a Type 2 diabetic. But it was worse than that - It turns he wasn’t simply passing out - his heart was stopping. He was clinically dead dozens of times. Each time his heart stopped, he collapsed and hit his head, sustaining multiple concussions. They eventually figured out that they had repeatedly misdiagnosed me and put me on a pacemaker. Which was great. Until the infallible pacemaker failed in 2013. And 2018, with more complications in 2019 and 2020.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Lifelong learning was a great tool for Fred’s recovery. He discovered that learning about the Talmud which is a religious text was something that aided in his recovery. He encourages survivors to find the things that will interest them such as painting, music, or literature.
Takeaway #2
Fred talked a lot about the role of nutrition. For him intermittent fasting was a big key in recovering from his concussions and brain injury. As always, please seek medical advice before starting a new nutrition plan.
More From Fred
https://www.linkedin.com/in/fredrutman/
More from Jen
www.tbitherapist.com
Episode #20: It’s me this week! I’ve received this question so many times while working with my courageous survivors, and recently a listener. Dr. Jen…why am I so angry? How do I stop feeling so pissed off!!
I talk about this and my journey to understand this complicated emotion and in the words of Berne Brown…a powerful catalyst but a life-sucking companion.
Things discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
It’s ok to be angry! But don’t stay there. Find ways to use it as a catalyst as it is a life-sucking companion.
Takeaway #2
Work through your nervous system. There are probably great physiological reasons why you are feeling anger. Check out my free email course below, I talk about that a bunch there!
Takeaway #3
Be mindful of your physiological state. Wearable technology has come a long way! Use measures of physiology as guides to rest and take a break when you are triggered or angry.
More from Jen
My email course, it’s free! https://view.flodesk.com/pages/606e5015d0ab2d0103020f8a
Announcing my new free email course! I've told myself I should really charge for it...because it took a long time. But I wanted to provide great information and have you get a sense of how I think about brain injury. It was my attempt to consolidate some of the best nuggets of information from my work in a condensed format. It is not exhaustive, but they are short, no more than 15 min videos (I think that's the longest one!). Here's the email course! I look forward to your feedback. https://view.flodesk.com/pages/606e5015d0ab2d0103020f8a
Bonus, a re-air from Hope After Head Injury! Have you wanted to learn about other therapies for concussion or acquired brain injury?
This week on the podcast I talk about EMDR and we have a re-air of a podcast from Cristabelle Braden’s podcast, Hope After Head Injury. I link the original episode on her podcast here:
https://hopeafterheadinjury.com/hopesurvives/
I thought you would get a ton of value from listening to her questions.
You can also hear me talking about EMDR here on a therapy focused podcast: https://thingsyoulearnintherapy.buzzsprout.com/
All the trauma things last week! Finally, I co-authored a blog…I will get it up on my site when I get some help with that!
Until then, check it out on Veronique's blog: https://www.weirdwonderfulbrain.com/post/emdr-processing-trauma
I also provide this therapy in my clinical practice in the state of Maine. Spend a week (or a couple days) with me in beautiful Freeport, Maine and heal from the trauma of your injury. www.newlifeofmaine.com.
Episode 17! Melanie is a survivor and advocate that did not give up when she couldn’t find answers. She didn’t have doctors to let her know what she was experiencing so she took matters into her own hands. She started fighting to find answers which led her to develop a course about concussion from a survivor perspective.
Meet Melanie:
Melanie Wienhoven sustained a concussion in 2012. She didn't recover within the "normal timeframe" that doctors communicated with her. Her concussion turned into post-concussion syndrome and doctors didn't know what to tell her but to rest even more. After a few years, she was told that her brain injury was beyond repair. Unable and unwilling to accept that reality, she then turned her passive attitude into one of active recovery. She studied cutting-edge science, patients' cases and leading scholars and she experimented on herself for years. 6 years after injury (in 2018), she made a complete recovery from post-concussion syndrome - even though she was told that there was no hope. Now, she shares all that she learned through Lifeyana, so that others 1) don't feel so alone and 2) can cure their concussions much faster (because it didn't have to take that long)
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Don’t wait and see. Melanie says she waited too long with very difficult symptoms when she could have been progressing in her recovery.
Takeaway #2
Recovery is possible! She discusses the research of Dr. McCrea who told her recently that recovery is 100% possible. (maybe a future podcast guest!)
More From Melanie
https://www.lifeyana.com/
More from Jen
www.tbitherapist.com
Episode 16! I’m very excited to introduce you to Cristabelle Braden, a fantastic advocate and champion of hope after brain injury. She was completely vulnerable regarding her journey through difficult relationships, symptoms of brain injury, and mental health struggles. She even sang for us with her inspiring new song. It’s a must listen!
Meet Cristabelle:
Cristabelle Braden is an award-winning singer/songwriter, speaker, writer, podcast host, and advocate for brain injury. After suffering a traumatic brain injury, she began to write music during the recovery process. Whether speaking or singing, she brings her powerful testimony and a message of freedom, healing, and love wherever she goes. She is devoted to bringing support and education through weekly episodes of “Hope Survives® | Brain Injury Podcast” and her online support community Hope After Head Injury.
Things we discussed:
I never knew that I’d hear couples so fiercely discuss the topic of mashed potatoes! On the podcast I have a gem for you! This candid, funny, and authentic couple shares the ups and downs of recovering after concussion. Drew and Terry Neimann are the co-hosts of the battle within podcast. They shared insights on communication and individual stories of their own struggles. Towards the end, we had some fun discussing holiday foods and a long standing argument about the best things to eat around the holidays!
Meet Meet Drew and Terry
Terry and Drew Niemann are podcast hosts who tell stories of healing from Post Concussion Syndrome (PCS). The podcast focuses on the journeys of concussion survivors and their families. All of this is done in an effort to help others experiencing PCS. A Battle Within is a very intentional name. For those who do not know, people who experience a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) often have a war waging internally to find themselves again- all while trying to recover.
Things we discussed:
This has all the makings of an epic conversation! Jill Griffin is inspiring, candid, and doesn’t hold back from her experiences after a concussion.. She discussed sustaining a concussion while traveling to Australia. Her story of struggle and recovery from long lasting effects of a concussion shows tremendous grit and belief in herself to know what was best for her. Jill realized that she had to be her own advocate. She couldn't just accept that she couldn't get any better. This belief enabled her to seek out the support and help she needed to recover.
Meet Jill:
Jill D. Griffin is a Career Strategist and Gallup® certified Strengths Coach. For 20+ years her approach to busting through the belief systems and building a culture from the strengths of both the team and leadership is responsible for creating repeated and consistent results. She has worked with Coca-Cola, Microsoft, Samsung, Mondelez, and Honda.
Things we discussed:
Takeaway #1
Jill says to focus on physical reasons why things are happening. For her nutrition was a key to her recovery.
Takeaway #2
She mentions that you can't go straight from the negative to the positive without going through neutral. She talks about reality versus the worst case scenario.
Takeaway #3
Jill indicates that she blamed herself for much too long. She encourages finding beauty in the imperfections that this can bring.
More From Jill
She is the host of The Career Refresh podcast and at jillgriffincoaching.com or her Instagram @jillgriffinofficial.
More from Jen
www.tbitherapist.com
Have you ever struggled with how to take the best break after your brain injury? This week on the podcast, I dig into some of the best ways that we can rest and restore. I find that it is often very tempting to look at our phones instead of a restorative break. After all, it’s right in our pockets!
There is a better way my friends :)
Pandemic Changes to Breaks
Episode#12! Today we talk about all things speech therapy, mindfulness, and yoga. Katherine Noyes, SLP, CBIS is a licensed speech pathologist and brain injury specialist. She talks a little bit about what speech therapy looks like with someone who has a brain injury. She focuses on functional goals, that fit your life. She also believes in a holistic approach through wellness and mindfulness.
Meet Katherine:
Katherine Noyes, co-owner of Lotus Speech & Wellness, LLC, is a licensed speech-language pathologist, certified brain injury specialist, and registered yoga teacher. She has worked as an SLP for over 10 years in both inpatient and outpatient medical settings, as well as in the public schools. She specializes in helping adults with neurological impairments improve communication, cognition, and mind-body wellness through her speech therapy and yoga offerings.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Katherine says let's not reinvent the wheel! She finds that taking strategies from your life now is important to have something that may work for you post-injury.
Takeaway #2
Be your own advocate. Brain injuries can be complex and each one is unique. She suggests finding a professional who has training in brain injury.
More From Katherine
https://lotusslp.com/
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Why a break is never a waste of time! The Rutgers's Business school found in an analysis of research on leisure that those who felt leisure was a waste of time had higher levels of depression, anxiety, and stress than those who placed value on those pursuits. Article is here. The pandemic has reduced people's sense of control and increased depression (already elevated in folks after ABI). I think that many things we used to do for leisure were eliminated or changed in the pandemic. I'll add that layer for folks with a brain injury, they types of leisure that you enjoyed before may have also changed. How to find leisure breaks in your day… Know the benefits! Benefits of leisure: -reduced stress -reduced depression -lower cortisol -lower anxiety -increased productivity Types of leisure: -Fandom! Are you a fan of a sport, show, book series, band, type of music, craft, etc? For me my serious fandom resulted in becoming a Zumba instructor and even going to a Zumba convention with thousands of others (pre-pandemic). It was seriously SO much fun and I felt on top of the world. My family also loves to travel, think and plan about trips. This was put on serious hold in the pandemic, but we took an epic trip to Yosemite this past summer. Recently, I enjoyed watching the Australian Open (serious tennis fan here!!) I know I have several Australian listeners so shout out to Australia on their big wins with Ash Barty and in mens doubles. Of course, I had a serious fan moment when Raphael Nadal won his 21st major title. I was seriously happy for him! I took note of my feelings as I knew I'd be talking about it on the podcast! In what ways can you engage in “serious leisure” by leaning into your fandom? Remember research indicates that you should NOT feel guilty about the time it takes to engage in that activity! Takeaway #1 We are likely not taking the breaks that we need. In fact, most likely in the pandemic you're working more. Takeaway #2 Taking a break to do a leisure activity like watching a favorite TV series or book has wonderful mental and physical health benefits. Can you do something with someone you love or find ways for movement through leisure. If so double win! Takeaway #3 Allowing yourself to enjoy leisure vs. feeling guilty about the time you take ensures you get the most benefits from the activity. Taking a break is never a waste of time! Join my newsletter
Concussion and nutrition is a hot topic! But does it need to be? My guest Krystal talks about her role as a nutritionist and her concussion recovery. We talk briefly about the HUGE topic of intuitive eating and brain injury. She found that people were often on restrictive diets, supplements, and tracking when they were struggling with their recovery. She found that no one was offering more of an intuitive approach to eating after a brain injury.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Routine! The brain and body love routine. Get your three square meals a day. It’s a great place to start!
Takeaway #2
Think about what to add vs. what to cut out. Figure out what you like to eat and how easy that would be to add in to your day.
Take away #3
How can food be healing in more ways than one? Think about making a family recipe, enjoy some time of rest/calm, or spend time with loved ones.
Takeaway #4
Routinely have laughter in your day. Krystal loves to find ways to laugh and encourages this for others.
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It's just me on the podcast today! I'll be sharing my favorite tips on grounding skills. I hope to incorporate these at least once a month to give you manageable (short) nuggets of information on your brain injury or concussion journey. This week, we are talking about all things grounding skills. Which is something we all know how to do!
We'll talk about how to incorporate it into your life. Here's my pdf on this episode:
My Free Grounding Guide
During this conversation, Bella Paige talks about the reasons she started her own podcast The Post Concussion Podcast. She discusses the importance of mental health in concussion recovery and her journey leaving the sport of horse riding. She discussed feelings of depression when she had to give up her sport. She discusses the grief of seeing other people carry on with their lives and she felt that her social life really struggles. She discussed needing to move home because she needed more support. Nothing seemed to work to improve her symptoms and did not tell people about her mental health symptoms.
Meet Bella:
Bella is a concussion survivor and host of the Post-Concussion Podcast where she has over 50 podcast episodes waiting for you. Be sure to check it out on postconcussioninc.com.
Bella offers her story of hope and insights into how she was able to cope with the mental health symptoms related to her brain injury.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
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During this conversation, Seth talked about his experiences with brain cancer. It started with horrible headaches and a cascade of appointments. We talk about the difficulties he discovered as he first faced a brain tumor in 1997 when he was 19 years old. He talks about what it was like for the tumor to come back at a different phase of his life. It was a wonderfully inspiring discussion that included the intersections of faith, struggle, and hopefulness.
Meet Seth:
Seth is the executive pastor at Pathway Vineyard Church (which is where I (Jen)) attend! I’ve heard his brain injury story on Sundays on various occasions while in church. He is an inspirational survivor and pastor, husband, and father in my community. He shares his journey with recovery from a brain tumor and other medical complications.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
You’ve got to be your best advocate. You have to make sure that you make that call. Bug a receptionist. Make things happen!
Takeaway #2
During this conversation, Julie talks about the shame after a brain injury. She discusses one of the most difficult memories after her stroke. She’ll explain strategies that worked for her to manage depression after a brain injury.
Meet Julie:
Julie Kuch is a life coach for people with brain injuries. She has helped hundreds of people around the globe live happier, more joyful lives after their brain injury. She has also experienced brain injuries of her own. In 2009 she had a stroke and in 2020 she had a concussion. Knowing firsthand how it feels to live with the TBI has helped her tremendously in reaching her clients. She is a mother to five amazing kids, and a wife to a super rad husband. She loves running and doughnuts but not necessarily in that order. But …..not against it either.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
You are your best advocate. Your doctors and others in your life may have different ideas. If something feels off, continue to pursue what feels right.
Takeaway #2
Sleep is essential! Julie discusses a digital sunset. Her routine is taking a bath and using bath salts to settle her brain and body for sleep. She also discussed a cool room, etc.
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Calming the Storm: a 6 week intensive group coaching program focusing on reducing overwhelm, understanding big emotions after injury, and learning so great hacks for brain injury.
During this conversation, Melissa and I talk about mental health and concussion. She shares her insights about concussion recovery and mental health. She is such a wonderful resource for concussion information and hope! There’s always something that you can do according to this brain expert.
Meet Melissa:
Melissa Biscardi is a Registered Nurse and osteopathic therapist. She calls herself a brain crusader. Her practice and research focuses on concussion treatment and brain optimization.
She is the founder of Concussion Rehab Lab and Brain Tool Kit Concussion Rehab Lab is her clinic space for patients and an online group for clinicians who want to learn more about concussion management from a non pharmacological approach. The Brain tool kit is an affordable, easy to use app that patients can use on their own or with a clinician for eye exercises, concentration, memory and word recall.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Make sure that you are laying the foundation for recovery. Make sure that you are getting rest and the body knows how to rest. Cells need nutrients, oxygen, stimulation, and rest. Go for walks, stay in nature, and support your mental health. She recommends yoga nidra (meditation).
Takeaway #2
Work with someone who will work with you on your path. See someone right away! We used to think you had to rest, but it’s safe to ride a bike or walk after 48 hours. Early intervention is associated with faster recovery. If you are intolerant with exercise it gives more information about being str
This was such a rich conversation about the story of brain injury. Lethan says don’t get stuck on a plan. He says he was stuck initially on being an actor, which changed after his injury. When he didn’t feel the same drive, he felt lost. When he realized he didn’t have to do those things, he started to enjoy his life. He talked about how he is enjoying his international life that would have never happened without going through his injury.
Lethan Candlish is an author, educator, inspirational storyteller, and brain injury survivor. As his graduate thesis project in Storytelling, Lethan researched, composed and performed Who Am I, Again?, a storytelling piece that has been shared throughout the US and is praised for its candidly honest language. Most recently, Lethan published his acclaimed book, Who Am I, Now? Using storytelling to Accept and Appreciate self-identity after TBI. He is currently studying the best way to use storytelling as a tool in recovery with rehabilitation academics in New Zealand and Australia.
Tips for Recovery
Tip #1:
Just start talking about your story. Talk with people that are closest to you. Lethan says this is vulnerable, but necessary from his perspective.
Tip #2
Keep a journal-put your story in order to make it relatable to other people. Spend time to compose a story of your brain injury. Lethan composed an actual story of his event and found it very helpful for him. It helps when you are ready to tell your story to others.
Tip #3
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Who Am I, Now? Using storytelling to Accept and Appreciate self-identity after TBI
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Episode #2: Worklife Balance and Brain Injury with Joe Sanoch. During this conversation, Joe talks about his new book Thursday is the New Friday. We talk about how to optimize your schedule and work less! Most importantly, we discuss how our expectations of our ability to work more hours or do more things doesn’t make us more productive or achieve more, even before a brain injury or the pandemic for that matter.
Meet Joe:
Joe Sanok is the author of Thursday is the New Friday: How to work fewer hours, make more money, and spend time doing what you want. It examines how the four-day workweek boosts creativity and productivity. Joe has been featured on Forbes, GOOD Magazine, and The Smart Passive Income Podcast. He is the host of the popular The Practice of the Practice Podcast, which is recognized as one of the Top 50 Podcasts worldwide with over 100,000 downloads each month. Bestselling authors, experts, scholars, and business leaders and innovators are featured and interviewed in the 550 plus podcasts he has done over the last six years.
Things we discussed:
Takeaways
Takeaway #1
Make hard and soft boundaries around your weekend. What is one thing that you can do to bring yourself joy over the weekend? What is one thing that you can take away that is draining your energy?
Takeaway #2
We don’t do our best work when we are burned out or stressed out. Bend the system until it breaks! Fight for your needs from your family, work place, etc.
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Joe Sanok - Speaker, Author of Thursday is the New Friday, Business Consultant, Podcaster
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