Purely Aligned: Recent Episodes
Melissa Machat
Purely Aligned teaches and empowers high achieving Entrepreneurs how to build an Aligned Business so you can experience the magic of living a fulfilled and purely aligned life.
Melissa Machat uniquely combines her knowledge and experience of Mindset and NLP with Aligned Strategy in a way that will help you achieve your goals, increase results, and create life and business on your terms because you're excited and inspired to take action! Living in Pure Alignment also means you're creating an aligned business without the hustle, grind, and burnout.
Melissa is a Speaker, Business Coach, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Master Practitioner, and Digital Course Creator, with more than 14 years of sales and Real Estate experience, and over $170 Million in Volume Sold in Residential Real Estate.
Do you know the last time you truly checked in with yourself? Questioned why you're doing things in your business and the way you're doing them?
What about taking a break?
I realized it's time for me to give myself permission to pause, step back, and re-evaluate, and truly embrace the season I'm in right now because we are not meant to be machines and be on 24/7, and that is definitely not my definition of success or freedom.
People say "consistency is key" but is pushing through just to be consistent worth it when you're feeling burnt out and misaligned?
This episode shares more about why I'm pausing, stepping back to release pressure and how important it is to give ourselves a strategic pause to refocus and recharge.
I also want to let everything I've already created breathe and work for me. It's so easy to get caught up in go mode and producing all of the time that we aren't realizing how much has already been put out in the world, and I think it's time to normalize that it's most likely already more than enough.
In today's episode, we dive into the concept of allowing yourself to take a break, step back, and reevaluate what's working and what's not so you can re-align and live a fulfilled and balanced life.
I also talk about prioritizing self-care, breaking the cycle of constant activity and tying our worth into our productivity and achievements.
I'm giving you permission to pause, and I'm not sure how long my pause will be, but there are now 82 amazing episodes for you to enjoy and go back and listen to!
It would also mean so much to me to reach out on social (IG @melissamachat) and let me know how Purely Aligned has helped or made a difference for you.
-Melissa
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In today’s episode, I talk with Natalie Ryan Hebert about how to stop denying your soul’s purpose or calling and take charge of your life.
So many people believe that in order to change our lives, it must be done consciously that way we are aware of it. But truly, to manifest a different life, we must change our belief systems at a subconscious level to make it stick.
Natalie shares how to stop playing small if you’re being called for more. Becoming aware of what is holding us back - whether it’s fear of judgement, fear of being seen, fear of success, or another common fear of many - and start living life for yourself.
We also discuss how to make a move without knowing the answer first, having trust in yourself, and connecting with your intuition and deeper knowing.
Do you know if you’re listening to your body? Natalie’s body was showing her signs of sickness and stress that she was not paying attention to and she shares how to started listening and receiving answers.
Natalie poses the dilemma of what is the cost of our life vs. what we’re being paid for it, coming across upper limits, shedding old skin, going to the root cause, and navigating cognitive dissonance.
Connect with Natalie:
Here is the free gift Journey to Your Wiser Self: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/625ebbcc96808aece7b0ed48
Insta: @natalieryanhebert
Facebook.com/natalieryanhebert
And for those interested in learning more about my online program The Red Tent: www.natalieryanhebert.com/the-red-tent
And to work with me 1:1 www.natalieryanhebert.com
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More about Natalie:
Natalie is a transformational therapist and coach who uses specific tools to help shed the layers of limitations we have gathered throughout our lifetimes, which keep us back from reaching our full potential as humans. She is a world-renowned therapist who has worked with thousands of clients worldwide, including Olympic athletes, actors, musicians, supermodels, coaches and CEOs. She is passionate about raising the consciousness of humanity by activating the great healers and those of influence. Natalie uses a combination of RTT, transformational hypnotherapy, inner child healing, intuitive coaching and energy healing to help her clients clear outdated conditioning so they can rise to new levels of spiritual awareness and self-actualization. She is also the founder of The Red Tent Programme for PMDD, a protocol for healing the root cause trauma underlying premenstrual emotional and physical imbalance. Natalie is a mother of four and currently lives in Sydney.
In today’s episode, I talk with Charlene Gisele, a Burnout Advisor, about how to notice if you’re experiencing burnout, how to take care of it and how to prevent it from happening again or ever.
Charlene shares her story about going from being a high-paced lawyer to a Burnout Advisor by having no sense of boundaries, saying no to self care, experiencing chronic anxiety, stress, and insomnia, and watching her dad go through a close to death moment due to burnout.
Do you feel your body is sending you signals, but you aren’t listening because you don’t have the time? Charlene tells us that the signals get louder if we’re not listening, urges us to not wait for a life or death moment to slow down, and explains why alignment is so important when navigating these experiences.
We go through the six pillars of noticing burnout, which pillars you may be neglecting, where you can start in slowing down, and how to look out for excuses you may be making that are holding you back. The language you use is so powerful!
Charlene asks you to take a look at what mask is behind the mask of “busy-ness.” Is it a bad relationship you don’t want to deal with? An obligation to your health that you’re not paying attention to? Or maybe avoiding the feeling of “not being good enough?”
She gives tips on how to approach your work proactively and preventatively, realigning your values, and how to stay consistent with your new way of being.
Connect with Charlene:
Twitter: https://twitter.com/charlene_gisele
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlenegisele/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachcharlenegisele/
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More about Charlene:
Charlène is an Award-Winning Keynote Speaker and has built an international reputation as ‘The Burnout Prevention Adviser’, which has earned her global invitations to speak at the most prestigious stages, law firms and financial services institutions. Charlène is known for her ability to inspire, engage, entertain and leave her audiences with strategies to maximize and sustain high performance. Charlene is a master NLP coach/Burnout Advisor to the leading organization who founded a unique Burnout Blueprint method. She specializes in empowering individuals and businesses to maximize their sustainable potential by optimizing wellness, building resilience, and optimizing performance. Charlene was featured in many publications and has also appeared on various podcast shows, where she has shared valuable insights and strategies on topics such as biohacking, high performance, burnout prevention, and recovery. MASTER COACH & BIOHACKER Certified Master NLP Practitioner and Life Coach Certified Primal Health Coach Certified 500hrs YTT, Yin Yoga, Yoga Nidra, Meditation and Breathwork Teacher CONSULTANT & SPEAKER Certified MindValley Business Coach-Consultant Sustainable High-Performance Keynote Speaker and Burnout Advisor
In today’s episode, I talk with Andrea Crowder, a former stripper & single teen mom who now runs a 7-figure coaching business & leads a movement of over 35K #unruleyentrepreneurs on Instagram and we dive into tapping into the essence of freedom and conscious decision-making.
We make around 35,000 decisions a day, so it's safe to say, our decisions run our life. Our conversation delves into the art of decision-making, how to start making decisions from genuine excitement rather than external pressure and keeping them in alignment with our deeply held values leading us to authentic living.
Andrea is also certified in Rapid Resolution Therapy and since our emotions also immensely influence our decision making, she talks about how regulating your nervous system and practicing subconscious reprogramming can truly change the trajectory of your life through making grounded and conscious decisions.
Connect with Andrea: https://www.instagram.com/love_andreacrowder/
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More about Andrea:
Who would you be without the emotional baggage?
What would your life, business, relationships & health look like if you were - wait for it - untriggerable?! 🤯
Andrea Crowder’s here to f*ck around and find out 💋
The former stripper & single teen mom now runs a 7-figure coaching business & leads a movement of over 35K #unruleyentrepreneurs on Instagram.
Featured on Entrepreneur.com, Andrea’s clients call her “human xanax without the side effects” & “a literal business genius”.
Andrea is certified in Rapid Resolution Therapy & specializes in nervous system regulation, subconscious reprogramming, & spiritual entrepreneur friendly business strategy.
When she’s not celebrating her latest 6-figure month, you can find her traveling the world, giggling hysterically over dirty jokes with her team, or savoring a cool glass of Cab on the Florida coast at sunset.
“Want more business? Book a vacation....” Ever heard that before?
It seems as if any time we go to book a vacation or fun time for ourselves, business starts rolling in. And this is because we’re already in the headspace of having fun, relaxing, vacation mode, and so we let go of the attachment of more business, our goals, making money or whatever it is that we’re always focused on.
In today’s episode, I share my experience of releasing attachment from the outcome, letting go of the pressure that comes with attachment and how I’ve stopped caring (for the most part) any sort of timeline to “success”.
As I’ve mentioned in previous episodes, when you put more weight on momentum over results, you will have the energy and mindset to keep going. Because, after all, being successful is a byproduct of doing something you love. And if your shorter timeline doesn’t match up with a longer timeline, loving the process is what makes it all worth it.
I also touch on how to know if you’re trying to do everything yourself, pointing out opportunities to go inward, releasing the goal and more!
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In today’s episode, I talk with Amy Elizabeth, the visionary behind Align By Design, a business helping you pinpoint your Human Design type for more impact, income and ease in business.
We discuss human design, energetic alignment and aligning with yourself instead of the outside world, using your intuition and the journey of personal growth. Amy Elizabeth shares her incredible personal journey – a shift from a teaching career to becoming a flourishing coach, achieving remarkable $100K+ months within a short span of just a few years.
We explore the concept of moving from misalignment to alignment, courageously embracing fear, and understanding that what we truly desire often lies on the other side of fear.
Amy delves into the profound implications of being aligned with one's human design and emphasizes the significance of looking inward for answers aligned with our thoughts, wants, desires, actions, and energies, rather than seeking them externally.
We also touch on the powerful act of surrendering and embracing curiosity as catalysts for personal growth, dealing with guilt, fostering a belief in boundless potential, and the creation of building an unapologetically authentic life.
Connect with Amy:
Align by Design Social Media:
@alignbydesignhd
@theamyelizabeth
Website: www.alignbydesignhd.com
FB Group: Align by Design
Podcast: Align by Design
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More about Amy:
Amy is the CEO of the multi-million dollar Human Design brand, Align by Design, where she brings all the elements and integration of Human Design in a way you've never experienced HD before. Amy's work creates transformation based on ease, flow, magnetism and quantum leaps. All of her work is completely centred around integration and embodiment of Human Design. She is an expert in seeing, understanding and creating energetic strategies that will work for your business, based on your own energy. She is a 5/1 Splenic Projector and and former Teacher who trail-blazed in the Online Coaching Industry bringing Human Design mainstream, and changing her entire life, leaning into Human Design during the most trying moments of transformation. She has elevated and rapidly expanded her business while raising three beautiful Manifesting Generator children: Layla, Lucy and Hendrix. In this new, abundant stage of her life, she has entered into a beautiful relationship with her love and together they have blended a family of 7. She offers high level coaching and group programs based on alignment, manifestation and energy types!
Here's another behind the scenes of some huge breakthroughs and aha's I've had recently in my life and business and I wanted to share them with you as I'm sure I'm not alone!
I found certain lessons repeating and it can be so frustrating when you don't understand why things continue to happen, and the breakthrough I want to share with you is how Delegation and looking at what I thought were failures in a new perspective of feedback helped me reclaim my power and get clear about the direction I'm going.
In today's episode, I give you a behind the scenes look at my journey of realizing the importance of delegation, and offering the strategies and mindset shifts necessary to drive daily adjustments, implement changes, and look at the feedback as a sign and reminder to make sure I'm focused on what is truly aligned to me.
I realized that focusing solely on inner work wasn't enough. By embracing delegation and looking at feedback, I was able to get more time back and stay in my zone of genius and realize what the lessons repeating were really trying to tell me!
I also talk about my relationship with goal-setting and how it has led me to feeling unnecessary pressure and hindered my progress., and why its important to honor your pace of growth and the season of life you are in.
Join me in this insightful episode as we explore the transformative power of delegation, mindset shifts, and navigating the path to growth. For any entrepreneur, these real-life insights are sure to resonate and help you see that maybe there's some feedback you can look at instead of taking things so personally like I did.
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In today’s episode, I talk with Stacy Gissal, a human design specialist and owner of Evolve Beyond Limits, to discuss how human design can empower us, ground us, and relieve life's pressure and stress to find alignment, peace, and joy.
We all are subject to the common pressure of feeling the need to achieve things in order to find freedom, peace, and validation, and Stacy shares valuable insights on how to make human design information understandable and actionable in our daily lives.
Through Human Design, you can discover the blueprint of who you were born to be and understand your unique gifts, helping you navigate life with more ease and enjoyment.
We explore the idea that we are not broken; rather, we may just be out of alignment, how to find patience and trust in the universe's timing, the difference between being busy and achieving real progress in your life, finding true fulfillment in your actions, how to reframe your perspective on time and create your own narrative, allowing you to break free from the cycle of chasing the horizon.
Stacy guides us through working with the root center of our human design when making decisions or taking action, and how to avoid unnecessary stress from self-imposed imaginary timelines or to-do lists among many other actionable steps.
Learn more about Stacy:
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More about Stacy:
Stacy is a Human Design Specialist & the owner of Evolve Beyond Limits. Evolve Beyond Limits is on a mission to help people build strong and meaningful relationships through the use of the Human Design system. Stacy believes that all relationships have the potential to become sacred; meaning they are built on deep understanding & unconditional love. She has dedicated her life to understanding what it takes to create these kinds of relationships & uses the knowledge she has collected in her years of study plus her personal experience to guide others in creating unbreakable bonds within themselves & the people around them. She understands the frustration & challenges that can arise within our relationships & utilizes Human Design plus practical tools, exercises, and mindset shifts to empower you to move past frustration & take meaningful action that will leads to total transformation.
In today's fast-paced world, we often find ourselves juggling multiple responsibilities, leaving little time for self-care and personal well-being, and most of us are actually running on empty whether we realize it or not.
In this episode, I delve into the importance of rest, recharge, and recovery and discuss practical strategies I've done to make time for myself and create a more supportive lifestyle.
It's easy to get caught up in the daily grind, but waiting until we are completely drained, empty, or burnt out before recharging is counterproductive. I share my experiences of regular self-renewal and finding moments to recharge before reaching a breaking point.
Living a supportive lifestyle requires aligning our schedules with our well-being. I discuss the importance of identifying a sustainable pace that allows us to thrive physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Instead of obsessing over "finding" more time, take back the time you already have.
I share creative ways to regain time, such as hiring someone to help with tasks, trading skills or services with others, and reconsidering priorities.
Join us in this transformative episode of Purely Aligned, as we delve into the essential aspects of rest, recovery, and reclaiming our time. Remember, a life purely aligned with your well-being is within reach!
If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with your friends. Until next time, stay aligned and take care of yourself!
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Today's episode I speak with Kristy Pask, a Business, Marketing and Mindset Coach and host of a podcast called "Unpack This" where she covers all things marketing and mindset! Kristy left the corporate world in 2015 and started her own business helping small business owners with their marketing and strategy.
As Kristy continued to work more with small business owners, she realized that the problem wasn't necessarily the marketing strategy - there are so many options that work - but everyone had one similar roadblock - their mindset.
Our conversation covers business, holistic marketing, showing up, brand, and mindset.
Kristy shares the fears of her clients and many others including self doubt, fear of failure, fear of being seen, and strategies you can use to succeed. It's about following what lights you up, checking in with yourself, showing up imperfectly, confidently letting go, giving yourself permission to leave things and methods behind that don't fully align to you.
In addition to mindset, we also cover concrete business strategies you can start using today in your business - what works and what you should stay away from, why 30 day challenges may not get you the results you're hoping for, and how to stop getting distracted from all of the noise and 'best practices' and figure out what actually works for you!
Learn more about Kristy:
Follow Kristy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristypask/
Listen to Unpack This: https://kristypask.com/podcast/
Visit Kristy's website: https://kristypask.com/
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Click HERE to learn more about the 3 Keys to Consistency!
What's the next step to grow your business? It's probably not what you think it is and you can take the quiz AND receive your pdf action plan, FREE!
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More about Kristy:
Kristy Pask is a Business, Marketing and Mindset Coach.
With over 15 years’ experience in Marketing, Kristy has worked with more than 50 brands to develop and execute global, national and local marketing, social media, PR and sales strategies. Kristy is now on a mission to bring together everything she has learned about business and marketing (and continues to learn) to help small businesses owners.
A self confessed marketing nerd and recovering perfectionist, Kristy’s goal is to simplify marketing and help small business owners ditch the overwhelm and stop procrastinating, and instead focus on building momentum while gaining clarity and confidence as they grow their business.
What are you focused on? Building momentum, or seeing results?
I realized I was starting to focus more on results, focusing more on how much other people were accomplishing (and how much I wasn’t), and focusing on things I had no control over.
Do you get in these spirals as well?
If so, this episode is for you.
We talk about how to truly feel momentum, focusing on what we can control, releasing attachment from the outcome and timelines we’ve set for ourselves, change our perspective on things “happening,” big and small wins, and some questions to stop and ask yourself to get you back into alignment with your life and your work.
I am committed to slowing down, focusing on what I can control, and truly know that my actions determine my momentum and progress.
Here is the book I mentioned in the podcast:
The 4 Disciplines of Execution: Achieving Your Wildly Important Goals
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Today's episode we have the one and only, Kat Cozadd, a life coach who has built a multi six-figure coaching business and hosts a very successful podcast talking all things manifestation called The NO Bullsh*t Manifestation Show.
Kat Cozadd shares her story of growing up in a household of addiction, being severely bullied in school, then in 2019 finding herself $70k in debt and working 60+ hours a week and seeing no light at the end of the tunnel.
This is when she was introduced to the idea of intentional manifestation. Within just a few months, her life was drastically different. She started sharing her story on social media, leading her to coach clients one on one and building her coaching program the Abundant Babe Academy.
Since 2019 she has helped and coached over 300 women, lives debt free, travels the world often, and does the work she loves.
Our conversation cuts out the fluff and truly breaks down the process of manifesting the life of your dreams, giving you tangible takeaways you can implement now.
Follow Kat on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/katcozaddcoaching/
Listen to The NO Bullsh*t Manifestation Show: https://thenobullshitmanifestationshow.buzzsprout.com/
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More about Kat:
Kat Cozadd is a Life & Fulfillment Coach that focuses on helping other women learn how to tap into & use intentional manifestation to create the lives that they truly desire for themselves. After being at her “rockbottom” moment in June of 2019, Kat was introduced to the concepts of manifestation & The Law of Attraction and it completely transformed her life. From being $70K in debt, working 60+ hours a week in a dead-end job, living paycheck to paycheck and feeling so hopeless, Kat used intentional manifestation to create the life & business of her dreams that now offers her a life of complete freedom. She has taken all of her lessons over the past few years & created coaching resources, such as her top rated podcast The NO Bullsh*t Manifestation Show, to now help hundreds of thousands of people.
Today's episode was inspired by a listener's question and did you know you can ask me about questions, topics, or challenges that can be answered in a future episode? You can reach out on Instagram @melissamachat and let me know what you would love to be supported with in order to live more purely aligned to you!
The question for today was about vulnerability, and how do you show up as all of you without fear of being rejected?
I've personally been learning this at a deep level and I believe this is a part of the inner work journey and remembering who you are, coming back home to yourself, and owning your power.
It's also important to identify what the real fear or hesitation is and what's going on beneath the surface.
What are you afraid of by showing up as all of you?
What are you hiding?
Is it something personal that actually doesn't need to be shared?
What if owning who you are is actually helping the right people find you and you can use it as a filter?
We go deep on this episode into the journey of becoming more authentically ourselves, and it's time we own all of us and use that as a light to help others find us!
I'm committed to no longer holding back, and it's empowering and liberating to free yourself of this fear and it's time to OWN IT!
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Today is a VERY special guest because Carinda Gosling is the genius behind building business in a more passive and sustainable way, leading with low ticket digital products! We're talking $27 digital products that have earned over $1 million in just a few years!
Carinda Gosling shares her story of going from C-Suite Corporate, to diving into entrepreneurship and figuring out how to build her business through low ticket digital products and running ads to do the heavy lifting for her.
With over 22,000 CLIENTS and 45,000 PRODUCTS SOLD in 3 years (as of this interview in June of 2023), Carinda has mastered how to work smarter, not harder and is now teaching entrepreneurs how to do the same!
This conversation also has tangible advice and things you can implement today, including how to get over the fear and take the leap even though you may not feel 'ready' yet, there's no failure... only insights and outcomes, and how to look at the evidence and data when making decisions.
If you want to learn more about Carinda's INCREDIBLE program to create your own digital product, check out Digital Product to Profit! *This is an affiliate link so commission may be earned if you purchase, and I am happy to answer any questions you may have about the program as I am an alumni and absolutely LOVE IT!
Digital Product to Profit:Check out Digital Product to Profit HERE!
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https://www.instagram.com/this_is_carinda/
More about Carinda:Carinda is a word-nerd + marketing sidekick + digital product mentor who has been helping small businesses for over 10 years get seen, loved and selling through copy, content and compelling marketing as well as scaling their business income + impact {+ enjoyment} through digital products.
From bringing brands to life through standout brand positioning + content, to helping small biz owners build their end-to-end marketing plans and master them with ease {and serious shortcuts} and then adding stand out, sell out digital offers into their biz so they can make impact and income without overwhelm or overwork {and often in their SLEEP}, Carinda is the support by the side of small biz owners and solopreneurs through it all.
You can come hang out with her and learn how to master words + marketing strategy for your biz to get seen, loved and selling at This is Co. https://www.instagram.com/this_is_co._/ and then come over to https://www.instagram.com/this_is_carinda/ to scale and make sales in your sleep.
When's the last time you checked in if you are falling into the trap of believing someday when I ______, THEN I'll Have _______?
Someday when I achieve a certain milestone, THEN I'll feel successful...
Someday when I make a certain amount of money, THEN I'll be happy...
Someday when I get my business stable and up and running, THEN I'll feel at peace...
Someday when I build my business, THEN I can afford help and can take a break....
What if that's not how it actually works because someday may never come?
You're actually giving your power away to an external event or circumstance in the future, instead of focusing on being present in the moment.
We are chasing things more than we realize and if we don't stop to check in with ourselves and reflect, it's easy for this to sneak in without even noticing it.
What would need to happen so you could experience what you're chasing now?
How can you see what's already right in front of you and appreciate what's already there?
Take a moment and reflect on where this might be showing up, and what is it that you really want when you get "there"?
Is it more freedom?
Releasing pressure and stress?
Feeling safe and stable?
Identifying the true intention behind the chase is what can allow you to start making adjustments to experience what you want now.
Stop waiting for someday, take your power back, and how can you have the essence of what you really want today?
3 Keys to Consistency: Want to build a business where you're actually excited and inspired to take action and be consistent? Check out the 3 Keys to Consistency to learn more!Click HERE to learn moreWant to learn more about 1:1 Options or just say hello? I'd love to hear from you on IG and if you loved this episode, please share it and tag me!
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If you are looking for tools you can use to start living a more empowered life, you're going to want to listen to today's episode with a very special guest, my coach Nikki Guiliani!
Nikki is a master transformational coach and trainer of NLP, and shares tools you can use and implement ASAP to start living more in alignment with what's truly important to you.
Values Workshop mentioned in this episode:
https://melissamachat.kartra.com/page/NLA
Connect with Nikki:
https://www.facebook.com/nikki.guiliani/
https://www.instagram.com/nikki_guiliani/
https://coachnikkig.com/
About Nikki Guiliani:As a Master transformational coach and a leading expert and Trainer in the field of neuro-linguistic programming, Nikki has traveled all over the world training thousands of students every year in mastery of spiritual, mental, emotional and physical bodies of empowerment.
She has helped people overcome phobias, addictions, abuse and more and has worked with top CEOs and top performers in their industry to people who are just starting out on their business journey. She has helped people break through their emotional blocks of fear and transition out of one career into the one they are passionate about making their dream a reality.
With 20 years of personal growth studies, training, certifications and coaches of her own, Nikki has incorporated an integrative approach to her work.
Also, specializing in relationship coaching, with people who feel lost in their relationships to find their inner voice again, build connection and strengthen communication.
A truly captivating speaker, Nikki has a gift for inspiring and motivating her audience like few others. Her insights and expertise have left crowds in awe at conferences, workshops, and corporate events alike. Her content is value packed and her delivery keeps everyone’s attention.
Purely Aligned was officially launched June 7, 2022 and here we are celebrating 1 YEAR AND 66 EPISODES and I am so grateful to everyone who has reached out, shared the podcast with someone who could benefit from it, and who takes the time to listen and it truly means the world to me, so THANK YOU!
**1 YEAR CELEBRATION GIVEAWAYS!
Ways to enter:**
- Write a review and take a screenshot
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- Share Purely Aligned on your social media and tag me for 1 entry
No limit on entries, and winners will be chosen on Wednesday June 14th at 12:00pm PST!
I wanted to share the 3 biggest lessons I've learned over this past year that can be applied to entrepreneurship in general, not just starting a podcast, and see how these lessons can apply to your journey as well.
The 3 Biggest lessons are:
1. Doing it for You First - Are you doing things in your business because you genuinely love it and it gives you energy?
Or are you doing things in your business for external results?
If you're playing the long game and relying on external results, it's a lot easier to give up and quit when you aren't seeing metrics and validation that it's 'working'.
Or are you doing things you love and you would do no matter what if you see results or not?
2. Trusting the Timing- Trusting it's all working out exactly how and when it's meant to and it's all adding up no matter what!
How deeply do you trust it's all happening whether you can see it or not?
It can take time to grow and some people see success really fast which is incredible, but what about the one's who don't see it right away?
What happens when you're putting yourself out there, and then assigning meaning on whether it's working or not and what that means about you?
It's about learning to detach from external validation and trust and surrender.
3. Falling More in Love with the Journey and the Process - It's falling in love with becoming the next version of you, and learning to be present in the moment and love where you're at now.
When you are in alignment, when you trust the timing, and when you fall in love with the journey and what you're doing every day, it becomes enjoyable because you're loving your life and what you do!
Where are you on your journey right now?
How can you implement these lessons today so you can start to be more present in the moment and appreciate where you're at?
What do you need to do to live more purely aligned today instead of 'someday when you get there'?
Thank you again for being on this journey with me and I would love for you to help me celebrate by sharing Purely Aligned, writing a review, and say hello on IG!
3 Keys to Consistency: Want to build a business where you're actually excited and inspired to take action and be consistent? Check out the 3 Keys to Consistency to learn more!Click HERE to learn moreWant to learn more about 1:1 Options or just say hello? I'd love to hear from you on IG and if you loved this episode, please share it and tag me!
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Today's episode is taking you behind the scenes of a HUGE breakthrough I recently had that has changed everything for me!
This is a personal experience I wanted to share with you because entrepreneurship can be isolating and lonely at times, and it can be extremely frustrating when it feels like things aren't working.
And if you're like me, I would blame myself. It must be my fault, I'm doing something wrong, and what do I need to do to fix it?
My default was to buy more programs, hire more coaches, and spend A LOT of money to try and fix myself.
And I was stuck in a loop and getting triggered over and over again and I couldn't figure out why.
I would say, "If my business was making money, then this wouldn't be an issue".
Which led to more pressure, more guilt, and more shame and feeling like I was failing.
Until my coaching call with my 1:1 coach led to a breakthrough I didn't even know I needed.
She challenged me to stop buying things for 3 months, which I quickly realized wasn't going to happen because I might be borderline addicted....(it's a problem, I see it now!)
And then we realized, what if I spent this money on HIRING SUPPORT instead of trying to fix myself?!
We can only fix things, do the inner work, and clean things up to a certain degree, and at some point, it's time to look forward and make sure we are clear on where we are going.
And my vision was so big, it wasn't clear what I was needing now in this moment.
Sometimes it's a simple reframe that can change everything, and for me it was why not redirect, instead of restrict and I'm putting my CEO hat back on and seeing exactly why things weren't working, and what actually needs to happen to move forward!
3 Keys to Consistency: Want to build a business where you're actually excited and inspired to take action and be consistent? Check out the 3 Keys to Consistency to learn more!Click HERE to learn moreWant to learn more about 1:1 Options or just say hello? I'd love to hear from you on IG and if you loved this episode, please share it and tag me!
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This episode is a very important conversation around sustainable success, and are you creating your business in a way that is actually sustainable for you?
It's really easy to get caught up in what we should be doing to be successful, and follow someone's model because it worked for them, so why wouldn't it work for you?
It's not that the model is right or wrong, the real question is what you're following in alignment with you and HOW you want to be building your business and when's the last time you took a moment to check in and ask yourself if you are still in alignment with your vision.
It's really easy to follow someone else's model because you want what they have, but if you aren't careful, you might be building something you may not actually love or want.
And our ego's love to chase success and the next milestone, but again, are you doing it in a sustainable way?
Or are you in such a hurry to achieve the next thing that you are creating something that won't last if you take your foot off the gas?
It's time Entrepreneur's learn how to build a business they love and that's actually sustainable, and where you can take your foot off the gas and the business keeps going because you're building something that isn't 100% dependent on you showing up with your live energy.
If you want to learn more about the 3 Keys to Consistency click the link below because this is the first step in making sure you are creating a business model that is actually aligned to you and sustainable because you're excited and inspired to take action and be consistent!
3 Keys to Consistency:Click HERE to learn more!Want to learn more about 1:1 Options or just say hello? I'd love to hear from you on IG and if you loved this episode, please share it and tag me!
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It's great to learn more about yourself and take personality assessments, learn your Human Design or Astrology Chart, DISC profiles, etc...
But are you using this information in an empowering way?
Or are you keeping yourself stuck in a box because that's just how you are and that's what your results told you?
I absolutely love learning more about my blueprint and I've taken most assessments out there, including Astrology and Human Design classes, and I see how easily we can get stuck in the information instead of using it to help us see what we need to work through.
And there are also ways we can use this information to better understand how we operate, how we communicate, and also what to pay attention to.
If your curious about learning more about your Human Design or Astrology Chart, there are free ways you can find this information. (These websites might have paid options and I use the FREE profiles ONLY!)
Human Design:https://www.mybodygraph.com/
Astrology:https://www.astro.com/horoscope 3 Keys to Consistency:Click HERE to learn more! Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/melissamachat/
The worst financial advice I ever received is.... increase your lifestyle and expenses to keep you motivated.
This episode shares WHY this is not sustainable and can lead to burn out, and how forcing yourself to stay in the grind and continue to find business is actually coming from a place of lack.
The best financial advice I ever received was splitting my income into 4 bank accounts so I could see what I really had, and a $10,000 check is NOT $10,000 to go splurge and spend!
These are my personal experiences and opinions, and please make sure to consult with your financial team/CPA before making any decisions and how much you should be putting into each of your accounts!
If you want a more positive way to stay motivated, check out the 3 Keys to Consistency so you can build a business where you're actually excited and inspired to take action and be consistent.
Links mentioned in this episode:
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS TO CONSISTENCY!
DISCLAIMER: This podcast episode covers topics that may be sensitive such as body image and how judgmental and harsh we can be towards ourselves.
I really wasn't sure if I was going to move forward with this episode or not because it's extremely personal, and I realized it really is a conversation we need to be having and it's not talked about enough.
My self-talk, the way I saw myself in the mirror, my perception of my looks was completely filtered through the most negative perspective and I didn't realize how it was affecting my life until I had an awakening at NLP Master Practitioner training in 2020.
I realized the way I saw myself wasn't necessarily true, and my journey to loving myself began.
We are so conditioned that we 'should' look a certain way, when in reality we are judging ourselves compared to photoshop and social media filters that aren't realistic or real.
We can be picking ourselves a part when today is the youngest we will be, and someday we will look back and wish we were nicer and loved ourselves more.
Have you ever looked at a photo of yourself from the past and realized how amazing you looked then?
Do you wish you looked that way now?
What if we are missing out on the best years of our lives because we're being so harsh and critical, instead of appreciating our bodies in this moment.
I know this can take time, but what if we started small and just received it when someone gives you a compliment?
What if you look in the mirror today and you find something you're grateful for?
This is a journey and a process to falling in love with yourself again, and it's never too late to realize what's already right in front of you!
Links mentioned in this episode:
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS TO CONSISTENCY!
It's time to take back control of your mind, your life, and your business!
If you've listened to Episodes 4-7 it's about the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery, a 4 step process to help you make adjustments to make sure you are living in pure alignment, and I realized there's another layer to this that adds to this process.
It's beyond getting clear on your vision, doing a reality check and audit, being clear on your energy and intention, and then taking inspired action.
It's actually taking back control of your mind, your life, and your business and being clear on which area is needing support.
It's taking back control of what you CAN control which is your time, your boundaries, your standards, and what you're spending your time on.
Where do you have a choice that maybe you didn't see before?
What is something you can do to get some of your time back?
Entrepreneurship is a process and a journey and it doesn't need to take over your life and control you.
So which area do you get to focus on next?
Mindset, Systems, Hiring, or Leadership?
Links mentioned in this episode:
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS TO CONSISTENCY!
What do you do when things don't feel clear and how do you handle the unknown?
Are you trying to have all the answers and figure it all out before making a decision?
Because clarity actually comes from action and movement!
Trying to figure it all out first is only going to bring more resistance and frustration, and it's taking that first step that will help allow the clarity to come in.
Sometimes it's about doing nothing at all, going for a walk, going outside, having fun, and disconnecting to remember why you're doing this in the first place, and what you actually want.
So if you're looking for clarity, you're confused about your next step, or you are searching for answers, listen to today's episode to remind yourself that it's taking baby steps forward that will help you find what you're looking for.
Links mentioned in this episode:
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS TO CONSISTENCY!
What if you're not actually behind, and you don't need to catch up?
What if you're exactly where you're meant to be and it's about trusting the timing?
Is it possible you are trying to fit into a box and doing what you should be doing, instead of doing what would work best for you?
Links mentioned in this episode:
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS TO CONSISTENCY!
Did you get into entrepreneurship to have freedom in your life?
Do you feel like you have freedom in your business now?
Or has the business taken over?
I believe there are 3 stages on the entrepreneurial journey that lead to ultimate freedom.
- Alignment
- Scale
- Build Wealth
And this isn't someday when you've achieved a certain level, then you can be free and enjoy freedom in your life....
This is how can you start to build, plan, and create things in a way that you can have it now?
What is your definition of freedom?
For me it involves passive income, and a mentor once asked me what my passive income goal was, and I had never thought of it that way before.
Listen to the full episode to find out what the real path to entrepreneurial freedom is and how each stage has it's own challenges and blocks that can prevent you from achieving your goals if you aren't aware of what's really happening and how to solve it!
Links mentioned in this episode:
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS TO CONSISTENCY!CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE PATH TO FREEDOM FB GROUPLEVERAGE & HIRING ACTION PLAN - FREE PDFWEBSITECLICK HERE TO JOIN SIMPLIFIED WEALTH
Have you ever said "I wish I was more consistent?"
"Maybe I need more discipline, motivation, and need more accountability.."
If you are not being consistent doing what you're 'supposed to be doing', do you really want to be doing it in the first place?
The secret to consistency is NOT force, accountability, and discipline.
The secret IS making sure it's coming from you and what you want to do in the first place.
And I have created something new to help you create a business model that is true to your vision and how you want it to be!
3 Keys to Consistency:
A Real Estate Agent’s Guide to creating a consistent business that will make lead generation, finding more business, and making more money easy
If you’re a Real Estate Agent who wishes you had more discipline, motivation, or you don’t understand why you know what to do but still aren’t taking action, then this is for you!
CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS!
So what are the 3 keys?
- Why
- How
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What
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Why- Why are you doing this? Why did you get into this business? What was your vision?
It's reconnecting to your vision and what you want to create
- How- If no one told you how to do it, how would you do it?
When's the last time someone asked you how YOU want to do it? What excites you? What are you already doing? If you could build a business in a way that gives you energy and you enjoy doing it, wouldn't you rather do that instead of forcing yourself to do things you're 'supposed to be doing', but don't actually want to do?
- What- What's really stopping you from taking action?
Wouldn't it help to learn how to identify what's really getting in your way? Is it a fear or is there a skill that's missing? Learning tools you can use when life happens and you're feeling stuck to identify what's really going on gives you resources to do something about it!
There is a BIG difference building a business in a way that someone told you because that's what you should do, instead of building it in a way that works to you and is aligned to your vision.
There are thousands of ways to succeed in this business, and it's time we take a moment to figure out what we want in the first place.
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CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THE 3 KEYS!What if you could finally…
- Be consistent?
- Make more money?
- Be inspired to take action because you’re excited to go find business?
Are you ready to make these things a reality?
It can happen faster than you think and the 3 Keys to Consistency will help you make your dream business a reality!
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Is there an area of your life that seems to be easier than others?
It can be relationships, business, physical health, etc. and does one area seem to go better and come easier, or is there an area that seems to be more of a struggle?
How much are we forcing, pushing, and trying to make something happen without realizing we've become attached to the outcome that we want?
I realized something huge during a conversation with a friend, which was what would happen if we look at the areas of our life that are going well and seem to come easier, and figure out WHY!
What are we doing that's different, who are we being, how can we apply that to the areas we are struggling with?
It's detaching from the outcome, being unattached, and applying that energy to the areas that feel like they aren't working.
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Hustle and Grind is not sustainable, and can we please normalize rest, recovery, and putting our energy first?
What if we lived in a world where it was honored and respected to reschedule or ask for an extension? (there is a disclaimer to this in the episode and it always starts with effective communication of course)
An Instagram post from last year reminded me that we need to continue this conversation that sucking it up and pushing through leads to burnout even faster and it's honestly not healthy at all.
How long are you willing to force and push before the signals to slow down start to get louder?
What if this is really about normalizing asking for what you need?
It's also MS (Multiple Sclerosis) awareness week and I'm sharing how the lessons I've learned about listening to my body actually apply to entrepreneurship and this conversation as well.
The free hiring class I mention in this episode is linked below, and it's time to let your body lead and learn to slow down to listen!
Hiring Masterclasshttps://melissamachat.kartra.com/page/Leverageclass
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What is your definition of Pure Alignment?
I think it's important to take a moment and define what it means to you, and what it looks like to live a Purely Aligned life!
In this episode, I'm sharing my opinion on what living in Pure Alignment means, and it's more than the 4 steps of the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery (episodes 4-7).
My definition of Pure Alignment is:
It does start with the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery (episodes 4-7).
- Being Connected to your Vision
- Reality check and audit
- Energy and Intention
- Inspired Action
And then to add to it and what makes it 'pure' is making sure you are following your own rules and what works for you, creating a life you desire because it's what makes you happy and what you want, deep trust and surrender, and doing it for you first!
Living in Pure Alignment is a daily practice and reflection so you can make small adjustments every day to make sure you are living authentically to you.
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Are you feeling burnt out right now and wondering where your motivation went?
I taught a class at the end of 2020 called Avoiding Burn Out, and it ended up being one of my most popular classes because I think we've all experienced moments of complete exhaustion, and questioning if we should just forget what we're doing and move to the middle of nowhere! if you're thinking about moving to a cabin or an island, this could be a sign you're experiencing one of these 5 things!
5 things that could be causing you to feel this way are:
- Doing something out of alignment with your soul purpose
- Unequal energy exchange - Putting in more effort than you receive
- Toxic Environment
- Lacking Boundaries
- Working too much without rest, recovery, or leverage
This episode goes into an overview of each thing and what you can do to work through it!
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How well do you handle change?
When it's time to make a big decision or take a leap, do you resist, or go all in?
I'm sharing a BIG announcement and behind the scenes of what my ego was holding onto for years, and it took until recently to be ready to make this decision.
I knew deep down something was off, and I kept trying to fix it, restructure, change things up, thinking that would solve the problem.
Until I realized, there was no fixing it if it's not really what I'm meant to be doing.
It didn't matter how hard I tried, how much I learned, how much I changed....
It was still out of alignment.
My ego did not want me to see that there was another way, more purely aligned to me, because it wasn't ready to let go, until now.
I realized I needed to take the leap because you go first, then the universe responds.
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We are celebrating the 50th EPISODE of Purely Aligned!!!! Thank you so much for being on this journey with me, for reaching out and telling me you're listening, for subscribing, and for taking the time to make sure you really are living a Purely Aligned life!
Today's celebration episode is an important topic, because we seem to search for answers everywhere else, when they're already within us.
We think we have to go find answers, go find another coach or program, go fix it, go do more, when in reality, the answer is taking the time to actually check back in with ourselves.
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Have you ever wondered if you're on the right path?
How do you know if you're going in the right direction?
Someone asked me recently if they were going the right way, and it made me realize how important it is to pay attention and take the time to evaluate instead of keeping your head down and pushing through and then wondering why you're burnt out, exhausted, miserable, stuck, frustrated, etc.
What if it's not about the right or wrong path, it's about how true it is to you and your vision and what you want?
What if it's measured by how happy you are, being energized and loving what you do, and enjoying the journey?
If you're feeling the opposite, it might be a sign that something is out of alignment, and you're getting further away from what you really want...
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Do you believe things are happening exactly when they're meant to?
Or are you putting deadlines and timelines on when things SHOULD happen?
Have you ever taken a moment to check in and ask yourself if this timeline is something you made up, and does it really matter?
Today's episode shares some personal examples of how I've done a complete 180 on wanting things done by a certain time, to releasing control and trusting it will happen when it's supposed to.
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Do you believe you have to sacrifice in the beginning of building a new business... until you earn the right, paid your dues, worked your way up? Or do you believe you get to build your business YOUR way from the beginning?
So many Real Estate Agents and Entrepreneurs have a belief that they HAVE to grind it out in the beginning, work extra hard, and sacrifice their life and freedom so SOMEDAY they can have the life they want.
What if I told you that's NOT how it works?
Someday isn't a guarantee, and is it worth missing out on enjoying your life now?
How present in the moment are you?
This is a quick and deep conversation to help you shift your perspective, because what are you waiting for? Do you even know? Is it even true?
Life is too short to be miserable, and it's time to start living your purely aligned life now!
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How does one go from working 24/7 with intense pressure and performance standards, climbing the ladder of success, and achieving what everyone seems to think success looks like, to realizing it's not actually what you want or what makes you happy?
Today's special guest is Tina Beliveau and we discuss how she reclaimed her time and energy to create more space to live and love her life.
Tina Beliveau | Real Estate Coach & Trainer
IG: www.instagram.com/tinabeliveau
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Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/tinabeliveau/
About Tina:
Fueled by a huge passion for leadership, growth, and sharing my talent and energy with everyone around me, my career has progressed over 20 years in the real estate industry from working as a highly productive solo sales agent, to building one of the most successful real estate teams in Maryland, to building the number one selling real estate office in Maryland, to growing that company from one franchise location with 300 agents to three franchise locations with over 500 agents. In short: I love leading, selling, consulting, and marketing. My boutique sales team, The Beliveau Group of eXp Realty, has cumulatively sold over $300 million in sales volume and over 1,700 homes. My experience coaching and training realtors as a brokerage manager led me even closer to my greatest passion: teaching agents, sharing my wisdom and experiences, and being a source of inspiration and tactics that really make a difference in their businesses.
I really enjoy bringing my experience as a successful realtor, brokerage builder, team builder, business consultant, and marketer to like-minded professionals who are ambitious and driven like me. On a personal note: I became a first time mom a year ago to a little boy named Austin! I love mom life. A huge part of my professional journey in the last few years was focused on taking a step back from over-working and finding a new way to thrive professionally, set better boundaries with what time and energy I devote to work, and explore my passions. I rebuilt and reimagined my real estate team to be set up to have me in the seat I enjoy most (behind the scenes, marketing, and building relationships) and hired an elite crew of incredible women, placed them in their ideal seats, and set them loose with a mix of high autonomy and lots of back office support. I also started teaching spin classes, flipped a house, bought an Airbnb in my happy place (Hilton Head, South Carolina), started a family, and spent a lot more time with my husband, family, and friends!!
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Are you always late? Running around stressed because there's so much to do and you seem to never have enough time to do it? What about trying to get from one place to the next and no matter what you do, you never make it on time?
As a recovering 'always late to everything and running around stressed 24/7', I realized something that completely changed my life, and my schedule that I want to share with you.
I was self-sabotaging my schedule and I didn't even realize it!
I set myself up for failure, I was saying yes to things at times that didn't even make sense, and I thought I didn't have a choice to do anything about it.
What if you are self-sabotaging your schedule? What if there was a way you could make changes that actually set you up for success?
What if you even started being early!
It all starts with awareness and figuring out what works best for you, and this episode of Purely Aligned will teach you how to stop self-sabotaging your schedule.
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Have you ever set goals and then the end of the year comes around, you look at your business plan, and wonder what went wrong? You thought this was the year you were going to grow your business and make things happen, so what happened?
It's because we forget to do the MOST important piece of the puzzle....
Experiment and make adjustments as we go, instead of setting something new in place and never evaluating if it's working or what you really want.
It's common for Real Estate Agents to say this is the year I'm going to get on the phones, lead gen, and find new business in new ways.
Yet they forget they are adding a whole new skill they need to learn, maybe they were overly ambitious in their goals, and instead of making adjustments they give up or say forget it, this isn't for me.
And they typically throw what IS working out the window, because they think they have to become someone else in order to succeed.
This episode shares how to avoid making this mistake, and how to make sure you are staying purely aligned to you in the process.
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On a scale of 1-10, how was 2022 for you? Are you counting down the moments until it's over so you can start fresh in 2023? Or are you taking a moment to reflect and celebrate everything that went well first?
Why do we think that a new year is going to solve all of our problems when we can't appreciate and be grateful for what already happened?
This episode is a reality check and time for pause and reflection to make sure you are capturing the lessons and celebrating what went well, and there's a new way to make and set goals that have nothing to do with money and transactions.
It's time to stop putting pressure on achieving and start focusing on what matters and the life you want to live, experiences you want to have, and how you want to feel.
Happy New Year and make sure to reach out and let me know your new goals for 2023 and what you're celebrating for 2022! (and this applies to any time of year when you want to reconnect and remind yourself what actually matters, and you can reach out anytime to share your new goals with me!)
I'm grateful for you and for listening to Purely Aligned,
Melissa
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Do you consider yourself a perfectionist? Have you ever noticed that it could be holding you back from taking action? I personally don't consider myself a perfectionist, however I realized how my own expectations of what things 'should' be or 'should look like' were actually keeping me from moving forward. Once I realized what was happening, I discovered a secret that actually increased my productivity even more, and allowed me to get back into action.
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I found myself extremely overwhelmed recently and took myself through a 4 step process to help me get grounded, and this episode takes you through what I did to overcome being overwhelmed. Especially with the Holidays around the corner and the new year in a few weeks, it seems everyone is on overdrive and overwhelmed with everything on their plate.
Today's episode shares how I went from freaking out and overwhelmed, to calm and grounded trusting it's all working out.
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We are celebrating the 40th episode of Purely Aligned with a very special guest, Yolanda Boyarin!
Yolanda and I discuss how impatience is usually a sign of our own lack of belief, and do you really trust, or are you searching for external validation and evidence that things are working?
This conversation is a great reminder to check in with how strong your own self trust and belief is, and how doing more isn't the answer.
Yolanda is a spiritual business coach for the driven entrepreneur that is looking to combine practical sales and marketing strategies along with energetics.
As a Human Design expert and coach, she has been able to grow her business to a 7 figure brand and she also helps certify other coaches in this modality while significantly increasing their sales and income…. all from a place of alignment without the hustle.
Yolanda has a special free gift for you!
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Have you ever heard the saying "reasons or results, you can't have both"?
What if I told you I completely disagree with this saying, because I believe your reasons = your results and are a sign of what's going on unconsciously that's preventing you from taking action.
I believe when you're in alignment, you don't need force or accountability because you're inspired to take action, and if you say you're going to do something and then not following through, something is out of alignment.
This episode is a must listen because it shares personal stories of how I was unconsciously protecting myself and holding myself back and I had no idea that's what was making me feel like I wasn't disciplined or motivated enough, and it could be happening to you too.
There are new 1:1 Options happening if you are looking for more support and figuring out what's really holding you back, so reach out on social or on my website (links below) to learn more!
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Have you been feeling frustrated that you can't get everything done in the limited time you have? Are you trying to accomplish 50 things at once and wondering why nothing is actually happening or moving forward? How often do we mistake busyness with achievement, and in reality we're focusing on things that don't really matter or move us towards our goals.
Today's episode dives into WHAT to do if you want to increase your productivity, and HOW to get focused on what matters!
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Do you consider yourself a workaholic? Are you currently working 24/7 and have so much on your plate you don't really have time to do anything for yourself, let alone take some time off? I've found there are two groups within this non-stop 24/7 go mode:
Group 1 is burnt out and overwhelmed, exhausted, maybe miserable, and doing so much it's draining them and they need help and aren't sure how to delegate or who to delegate to and it's completely exhausting.
Group 2 is doing what they love and what excites them, but they say yes to everything and don't realize some of the things they're saying yes to are actually NOT helping them get to where they want to go.
This episode gives you an exercise to figure out everything you're committed to, and what can be delegated, rescheduled, or renegotiated, and how you can learn how to start saying no.
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I believe there are 4 foundational pieces going from Solopreneur to CEO, and this episode gives an overview of what they are. It seems like these are not taught very often which can make the journey of entrepreneurship overwhelming and it doesn't have to be that way.
The 4 foundations are mindset, sales skills, hiring, and leadership and if you've ever tried to scale your business only to hit a ceiling and realize you'd rather stay small, listen in and learn what you're actually missing.
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Does it feel like things aren't working? It can be any area of life, and have you had frustration because you thought you'd have different results or be in a different place than you are? This episode gives you 5 reasons why things aren't working the way you thought, and a lot of questions to help you self reflect and figure out what's really going on beneath the surface.
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Have you ever said part of you wants one thing, and part of you wants something else? That could be a sign that you have an inner conflict that could be preventing you from taking action or moving forward.
Melissa shares some life updates as well as what came up in her NLP breakthrough session around her own inner conflicts, and why resolving them can help you move forward and do what's best for you.
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Do you wish you could take a day off without your phone ringing or someone needing your help? Have you ever taken a vacation and had to deal with work problems while you're gone? This episode is going to give you tangible steps on HOW to disconnect AND keep your business going... without you. Sound too good to be true? Here's a hint...it's not you, it's WHO is going to handle it for YOU.
Reach out to Melissa on IG or Facebook @melissamachat if you would like a copy of her real estate team's vacation checklist and let her know how you are going to apply this information! Is it a day off, a weekend off, or an actual vacation?!
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This is a special episode all about aligned relationships. We are celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary today and 18 years together and I wanted to share lessons I've learned over the years and what changed everything in our relationship. Enjoy a different angle on being purely aligned in relationships!
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available. You can reach out on IG or checkout the 24 Hour VIP GO! Session link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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Have you ever gone down memory lane and looked back to see how far you've come? Melissa shares lessons that came through after watching high school and college videos and sometimes it takes looking back to piece things together.
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available. You can reach out on IG or checkout the 24 Hour VIP GO! Session link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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We are celebrating Purely Aligned's 30th Episode!!! Tune in for a special gift and how to redeem as a thank you for being here with me.
Today's episode is about enjoying the journey, and what to do if you are NOT enjoying the present moment.
Do you hate it when someone tells you to enjoy the journey? It's not about the destination, it's the journey along the way! Well if you're hating the journey, it could be a sign that something is out of alignment. Waiting for someday when you've achieved a milestone, earned the right, or built a big enough business that you're now able to get what you want is NOT how it works!
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available. You can reach out on IG or checkout the 24 Hour VIP GO! Session link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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Strategy vs Energetics seems to be a hot topic in the online space right now, and the Real Estate Industry is pretty much built on logical strategy. The real secret to success is combining both and making sure you are creating a purely aligned strategy that comes from what actually lights you up, instead of what logically makes sense and sounds good on your business plan. Melissa explains the difference and why it's so important to make sure you are doing it for you first, get clear on your vision and what you truly want, and then create an aligned strategy you're inspired to take action on.
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available. You can reach out on IG or checkout the 24 Hour VIP GO! Session link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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Are you investing in yourself AND building wealth? Do you have money in reserves, or are you re-investing everything back into the business and your own personal growth? There's a slippery slope when it comes to the personal development and coaching world where we can easily spend more than we realize, and if we aren't aware of how much we really have, it's a rude awakening when you look up at the end of the year and wonder where it all went.
Melissa shares what helped her start to learn how to manage her money and see what she actually had, and how she still overspent this past year and sees it happening to too many entrepreneurs who don't have a solid financial foundation in place.
Check out Simplified Wealth in the link below to learn more about how to set yourself up with a solid foundation first.
Simplified Wealth:
https://melissamachat.kartra.com/page/2tW1193If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available. You can reach out on IG or through the website link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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Melissa shares more about her health journey and diagnosis, and why advocating for yourself is so important. There's also a powerful message around letting things go even if it feels like it's all falling apart, what if that's the point? What if we need to let go and let it crumble, so we can rebuild from a pure and solid foundation that's purely aligned to what we really want?
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available! You can reach out on IG or through the website link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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Today's episode is a recording of Melissa's Facebook live in the Path to Freedom free Facebook group (you can join in the link below!) from March 2022. Melissa shares behind the scenes of feeling stuck and frustrated, and how sometimes the answer is to zoom out and look up. Where can you adjust slightly, move over and see an easier way. Why do we ask ourselves disempowering questions that actually keep us seeing more of what we don't want? This episode will give you more empowering questions to ask and how to zoom out and look at the big picture.
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Melissa shares some personal stories and examples of how she realized she says "yeah but it's not that good, or it doesn't count" and couldn't even see she received what she asked for. How often are you negating or blocking what you say you want? Why are we conditioned to want things to look a certain way, and when they don't, we can't see that it did in fact happen. How do we stay present in the moment and learn to appreciate that we've already created what we said we wanted?
This episode gets deep on Melissa's experience with how often she blocked receiving, and what happened when she realized she was doing it.
If you've ever said 'yeah but', this is a must listen!
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available! You can reach out on IG or through the website link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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This is an episode you'll probably want to listen to multiple times! Have you ever put someone on a pedestal, thought that when you achieved something then you'll be happy, or when you get certain results someday you will be so happy and grateful, and how could someone still think it's not enough when their results are what you wish you had? This perspective shift is going to help you realize that if you can't be grateful and appreciate exactly where you are in the present moment, then someday won't change that either.
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available! You can reach out on IG or through the website link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go make things happen!
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Do you feel like you have to choose one OR the other? If you have 1 hour for example, does that mean you only have time for one thing? Or is there a way to split your time and energy so you can do both? Living a life of AND is practicing saying yes, and removing the limitations that you have to choose.
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available! You can reach out on IG or through the website link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go!
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Have you ever heard the saying Be, Do Have? Maybe you've heard of it as a KW Bold Law, or in NLP, and this episode shares how we tend to have it backwards. What results do we want and what do we want to have, so let's work backwards and figure out what we need to do in order to have it. Do you need to become more disciplined, accountable, consistent, or motivated? Wouldn't that need you need to become MORE so you can DO MORE? What if that's not how it works? It's about becoming more authentically you so you are inspired to take action and create the life of your desires.
If you are interested in learning more and working with Melissa directly, 1:1 options are now available! You can reach out on IG or through the website link below to learn how Melissa can help you get clear so you can take inspired action and go!
Free Alignment Audit Guide:
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Have you ever heard the saying "How you do one thing is how you do everything?" Melissa shares why she disagrees with this and gives insight on how alignment and value can determine how you actually show up. Are there certain things you are so excited about no one has to convince you to do it? Are there other things that feel heavy and you resist? What if it's your values and unconscious that determine whether you take action or not, if you're excited or not, and how you do one thing is NOT necessarily how you do everything.
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Have you ever evaluated whether your effort and consistency are sustainable? Do you have the energy to be consistent to your commitments? Or do you give yourself permission to evaluate, adjust, and change your mind? Melissa explains that a big mistake can be setting goals without reflecting on if you have the energy to sustain your commitments and action plan, and how to look at it as an experiment instead.
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Today's episode is best described in the following caption. If you want to learn how we are self-sabotaging when we don't follow our calendar exactly, you'll want to listen to this episode about how the effort matters more than when it actually happens.
How often do you give up or quit because you didn't do something when you were 'supposed' to?
Example:
If you were supposed to prospect or lead gen, workout, post on social media (insert whatever you want to apply to this) at a certain time but you were running behind or got distracted...
Did you do it the next moment you had a chance and got refocused?
Or was the day ruined and you'll start over tomorrow?
I believe it doesn't matter WHEN you do it, as long as you do it!
And yet we are somehow conditioned to believe that if it doesn't happen according to when society's rules thinks its best, then we messed up and it's too late.
Have you ever heard you 'need' to...
😳 Work out first thing in the morning or it will never happen
😳 Lead gen first thing in the morning or it will never happen
So what happens if you don't do it in the morning, is the rest of the day ruined?
Or could you technically still do it, even if it's later than what you would have liked?
How about we change the narrative to...
IT DOESN'T MATTER WHEN, AS LONG AS I DO WHAT MATTERS!
That sounds more empowering if you ask me....
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Melissa dives deeper into how we are conditioned to tie our self-worth to our achievements, and how that is preventing us from focusing on what we truly want. If we're so caught up in chasing the next milestone for external validation, we are giving our power away and will never be satisfied. It's time to normalize celebrating it all, and make sure we are doing it for us first.
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Have you ever heard in sales or real estate.... "start every day at zero" or "if you don't find new business daily, you'll be out of business"? Melissa shares how she heard this for years and believed it, and didn't realize how this was training her to be in survival, scarcity, and lack. Starting over every day at zero can feel heavy and exhausting, and if you've ever started a new month wondering how you'll ever achieve your numbers again, this episode will give you a different perspective that's more empowering.
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This is a must listen before deciding you're ready to build a Real Estate team or if you already have one! Melissa shares 3 steps before creating a purely aligned team because it's not one size fits all. Are you clear on your vision and what you want? What type and size of team aligns to you? Melissa gives examples of what you can do if you're a solo agent and feeling overwhelmed and options for what your first step can be in creating your own team, your way.
Step 1: Vision
Step 2: Audit and Reality Check
Step 3: What's the first step to make it happen
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Melissa shares a different idea around the concept of slowing down to speed up, and how to embrace the season you're in. What would happen if the days you don't have as much energy or you're feeling under the weather you actually listened to what your body needs and rest? What if the days you feel amazing and have tons of energy you maximized what you were doing to increase momentum and flow? Are you giving yourself space to be flexible?
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Want to learn 3 things that could be causing you to procrastinate? Melissa share's what could be going on beneath the surface and really preventing you from taking action. And here's a hint, it's not because you're lazy or need more discipline! If you've ever had a task on your to-do list that keeps getting moved to tomorrow, you'll want to listen to this episode and find out if it's one of these 3 things!
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This episode is a must listen for anyone that works in Real Estate and if you've ever felt like you wish you had more discipline, motivation, and always feeling behind when it comes to lead generation and finding more business. There's a toxic side to the Real Estate Coaching industry that promotes accountability and punishment if you don't hit your numbers for the day, and this is actually coming from scarcity and lack.
Do you want to build your business from a place of avoiding pain and punishment?
Or would you rather figure out what's really preventing you from taking action and build your business in a way that aligns to you?
Listen to the full episode to learn the first steps in HOW to switch from doing what you're 'supposed' to do, and figure out what excites you and inspires you to take action!
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Melissa gives you 3 tips when it comes to choosing your next coach, mentor, program, or mastermind group and making sure it comes from a purely aligned place! Sometimes you won't know until you're in it, and don't forget you always have permission to make adjustments so it's more aligned to your vision and what you want.
- Are you clear on your vision?
2. What's the gap and what's missing? What support do you need?
- Who or what is going to help you get there?
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In today's episode, Melissa dives deep into what your Values are at the unconscious level and how they determine everything! Values determine what you spend your time, money, and energy on and whether you feel fulfilled or not. If they are so important and determine so much in our lives, how are we not aware that they are actually driving decisions behind the scenes?
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Melissa shares her favorite 4 questions to help you figure out what's really going on beneath the surface. You can use these as a tool anytime you are feeling stuck, in a mindset funk, or are procrastinating and avoiding taking action.
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What is causing me to feel this way?
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What outcome am I avoiding?
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What do I actually want?
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What's the first step to make that happen?
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Melissa shares strategy around how to create space in your life and business. Do you need permission to change your mind? You're allowed to say no, reschedule, renegotiate, delegate, and cancel to give yourself space in your calendar. If you are a busy entrepreneur going 24/7, this will give you practical steps on how to start saying no and get clear on what truly matters in your business.
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- You are allowed to change your mind
- One of the most important lessons is saying no and boundaries
- We get to decide and choose
- You get to restructure and delete
- You have permission to do what is best for you
- Take back power and ability and choose and learn how to put yourself first
- What are you saying yes to? Is it to please others or for validation?
- The first step is to write out everything you are currently doing
- How much time are you giving yourself between appointments?
- What is NOT the highest and best use of your time?
- It can be anything including cleaning and cooking and grocery shopping
- Is there something else that you can be doing that you can enjoy more?
- How much is it costing you doing the things that drain you?
- Recharge time and relaxing will increase your productivity even more
- Listen to the signs and messages of your body when it tells you it needs a break
- Can you find an hour or 30 min to yourself? It doesn’t have to be a vacation
- Your body will eventually force you to stop
- I have been there and should have taken time to recover and now I can share the lesson and say you can gradually do it now
- There are some things on your list that can be sneaky
- Even though I loved doing these things, it prevented me from taking the time to do things my way and for my business
- It was actually costing me money, time and energy
- Make sure you pay attention and really dig
- Are you getting a return? What kind of return are you getting?
- Give yourself space to think and process
- If someone asks if you’re free say "let me double check my calendar and I will get back to you"
- Success is giving yourself space to breathe and think and take care of yourself
Melissa shares how to make big decisions faster. Where are you sitting on the fence, waiting until you're ready? What are you waiting for exactly? Melissa shares how she's made big life and business decisions and the questions you can ask yourself to help you get back into action and make a decision.
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Melissa explains Step 4 of the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery, Inspired Action. The Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery is the 4 step method she created to help you live a purely aligned life!
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- When you are in pure alignment, you don’t need force or accountability because you are inspired to take action, that’s where the magic happens
- If you are doing that and not seeing results go back to the other steps and see where things might be out of alignment and where you are following someone else’s rules
- It’s constant practice and use these tools daily, it's an ongoing process
- Where are you using “should” “supposed to” or feel guilty or bad or feel shame because you didn’t do something or thought you should do something
- What if you reframe it, pick an area in life that you do feel a little guilty that things aren't as easy as you would like it to be, what is it about that that you are resisting?
- Is it the way you are doing it or the reason you are doing it and what would you rather do it instead?
- What is the bigger intention and purpose behind why you are doing it
- Break down why you may not be doing the things you want
- Gym example, can I feel healthy and fit without going to the gym. Yes
- This is about finding what lights you up, the essence of what you want to do
- Where can you identify the area where you are feeling inconsistent and what would you do instead?
- When you do things that nobody has to convince you, that’s what you love and is true to you
- Its the essence of who you are
- Step 4 is evaluate where you are still doing things out of obligation instead of doing what you want and choose something that aligns with you
- Its about making daily adjustments
Melissa explains Step 3 of the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery, Energy and Intention. The Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery is the 4 step method she created to help you live a purely aligned life!
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- I believe this is the missing piece of alignment that is not talked about enough or not taught
- When you’re in alignment you’re inspired to take action
- For me something was missing
- We put people on a pedestal
- What is the energy and intention behind why you are doing what you are doing?
- Is it for external validation to prove and show that you are great, are you giving your power away to other people?
- Are you doing it for an expectation and result?
- This is part of becoming and embodying who you are what you came to do and owning your voice and your power
- Its a process of becoming more authentically you and less about doing
- I wanted to do the same thing that other online business owners were doing and I wasn’t getting the same results as they were and it was bringing up a lot of things that I had to deal with
- Its another planet to me of feminine energetics
- The energy behind it is what matters
- Detach from the outcome
- All these things and emotions came up when I was going through it
- Questioning "when will it happen" will prolong the suffering because its lack and distrust
- I just wanted an answer and know what to do
- What is the energy behind it? Are you attached to a result and expectation?
- Intention - what is the reason you are doing what you are doing? Is it to prove to belong or for validation?
- For me, it was to feel like I belonged, that I was worthy to be in the same room other incredible women
- If I wasn’t making money I was assigning that I wasn’t good enough
- Are you attached to someone's results but not doing it according to how you want to do it
- “Trying” is a clue or word that you’re not doing things according to you
- Are you chasing someone's else results?
- If there were no rules what would you do?
- Money is a byproduct of you living your purpose and being purely aligned
- We have so much experience and knowledge within us now
- Now I feel it so deeply that this is working for me better than I could even imagine
- It takes time to actually program and embody that you are enough
- When you are in it, it is hard to see it
- What if this is part of your path to becoming purely aligned
- Take a moment to pause, reflect, and disconnect listen to what you already know, the answers are already within you
Melissa explains Step 2 of the Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery, Disrupting the Patterns. The Alignment Vortex of Self-Discovery is the 4 step method she created to help you live a purely aligned life!
- Step 2 is disrupt the pattern
- Last episode step 1 is vision, did you have an awareness that something is out of alignment?
- There is no need to self implode or disrupt or start over right away, it starts with awareness
- Step 2 is part of the awakening and we are noticing the patterns and doing an interrupt to wake us up and ask is there a different way, is this even what I want?
- The first thing we do is uncover rules that you are following that you don't even know you are following
- An example is an early riser what defines early, and do we associate that with success
- We have a natural rhythm in our bodies and we are all different
- Disrupt going through the motions because you are following someone else’s
- Are you willing to do the inner work to make sure you are living as purely aligned to you as possible?
- How to disrupt the unconscious patterns, get into the thoughts, patterns, fears, beliefs
- I suggest have a coach, guide, or therapist to get whatever support you need because sometimes you need the support
- Sometimes the self awareness can be enough to change things, it doesn’t necessarily take years, it’s small adjustments that can be made daily
- Things can change fast when you decide, when you choose, and when you are aware in the first place
- The first question to ask yourself is “where might something be out of alignment?” and I suggest choosing one area in life (health, relationships, finances, career, etc.)
- Check in with your vision and have you realized or know what you actually want, we want to identify what the gap is
- Sometimes it can be huge and it can also be small shifts
- Huge gaps take time to undo and restructure and change things to get back on path
- Be clear about your vision and what you desire to figure out the first step to make it happen
- When you are clear, opportunities, solutions, people, and things seem to appear out of nowhere and all of a sudden possibilities are available to you
- Who is already in your environment? Sometimes the answers are right in front of us but we don’t even see it
- Slow down to do the audit and evaluation to see where you can make small adjustments
- When you grow new things comes up because you are at a new level and having new experiences
- This journey is daily reflections and daily adjustments
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Melissa explains Step 1 of the Alignment Vortex of Self Discovery, Vision. This is the method she created to help you live a purely aligned life!
- Step 1 is vision
- Wherever you are right now, can you look back and see what you were dreaming of and wishing for back then, do you have an element of that right now? Most likely yes
- Will it ever be enough? Why did I feel like it was never enough, because I had to get to the next thing and had this chase of someday
- Step one and vision ties into it because are you even clear on what you want?
- We are programmed to see the things we don’t want and create more of that
- What you resist, persists and sometimes it takes time to process
- There is no way to predict what we want our life to look like, there might be an essence, an idea, a picture, of what you want
- What is it about that, that you want? Is it freedom, time and space to enjoy life, to travel, to do what you want when you want, is it health and feeling good?
- Vision can be many things, dive into the essence of what you want, not exactly the how or the why you want it and create something on your terms
- It’s easy to get caught up building something the way someone else is doing it based on their results because it seems like the only way to do it
- It's great to model someone else’s success just make sure it’s the way you would do it
- Where are you currently frustrated or following someone else’s rules or methods because it works for them
- What would you do differently if there were no rules? Ask yourself the questions, pause and reflect to get clear on what you want
- Get clear on what you want and be aware of coaches and programs that are teaching their method and holding you accountable to the way they do it
- We don’t know what we don’t know, yes I had an idea about what I wanted, but deep down is that really what I wanted or what I wanted my life to look like?
- When I say growing your business or scaling business what do you think? This is where you really need to take time to reflect and think of the ideal scenario for you and your business
- Dive deeper into your definition of success and check in to see what is important to you and what you actually want
- Deep down in your unconscious you know the answer
- What are you inspired to do? You get make the rules, decide and choose
- We have permission to do it our way and play and experiment
- Sometimes taking action is the best way to figure out what works, what doesn’t and to change it if we need to
- Take some time to get clear about what you want
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Melissa explains her definition of alignment and signs to look for that you may be out of alignment without realizing it.
- How do you know if you have it? Are you in are you out of alignment? What does it even mean to be purely aligned?
- I struggled with mindset and had severe anxiety and had to work through the what is wrong with me default
- Even though I understood alignment it took me a few years to really experience things at an uncomfortable deep level to see there were pieces of alignment that are not being taught
- My intention for today is you walk away having a clear understanding of what may feel that is not working, what is frustrating to you, where are you saying you’re going to do something and not taking action, to give you clarity of what is going on
- Alignment is when your conscious and subconscious actually line up when your thoughts and behavior are in agreement
- What people tend to think is laziness or a lack of something, it’s something in your unconscious that is actually preventing you from taking action, something is out of alignment, that is the foundation of what I’m teaching
- If you feel guilt or shame because you are not doing enough and know you can be doing more, that may actually be a sign from your unconscious mind that you are following someone else's methods and rules of what it's supposed to look like instead of following what you want it to look like
- This journey is learning to become more authentically you
- There are 4 pieces to alignment
- The Alignment vortex of self discovery - a tool you can use in all areas of your life. Life is not linear and not someday when I fix and get better, and become the next version of myself, then I’ll be happy and feel good and feel fulfilled
- Its adjustments made in your life daily where you are repeating lessons and doing things over and over again but every single time you are repeating a pattern its actually getting you closer to pure alignment
- Its reflecting and making small adjustments everyday not a someday get there, it will help you make adjustments daily and experience alignment no matter what
- Step 1 is vision, what do you actually want, it’s self reflection and remembering who you are, be clear on what you want to create
- Step 2 is disrupting the patterns, an alignment audit, where is the gap, what is missing, where are things not aligned the way that you want them to be
- Step 3 is energy and intention, what is the energy and intention behind it, is it wanting to fit in and be good enough or doing it because it genuinely makes me happy no matter what
- Step 4 is inspired action, taking inspired action
- It can be the smallest things that make the biggest difference and something that everyone gets to experience if they are willing to do whatever it takes to make those adjustments
- I’m here to awaken you to the realization you’ve been unconsciously chasing things your entire life and guide you to pure alignment
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If you want to learn more about Melissa and her story, this episode shares how she went from dance and musical theatre, to dealing blackjack in a Las Vegas Casino, to building a successful Real Estate business and team, to NLP and creating Re-Align Coaching and Consulting and a lot of lessons learned along the way.
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Welcome to the Purely Aligned Podcast! I am so grateful and excited that you are here because this has been a long time in the making and I cannot wait to share with you tools, & resources to help guide you on a path to pure alignment and how it will completely change your life the way that it did mine.
My intention for this first episode is to give you context, what to expect, and how you can use this podcast as a resource. This is a place I want you to be able to come home to as a reminder who you are and what you truly want.
We are the creators of our life, of our experience, we get to make the rules and somehow we were taught that’s not how it works, we have to do more, we have to do what everyone tells us to do, if I want to succeed this is what it needs to look like. And somehow we forget what we actually want.
And I don’t know if you’ve ever been there where someone actually asked you what do you want? And by the way we are human it is natural for us to default to the negative and what’s not working and what we don’t want. And I had an experience with someone, actually a coach years ago asked me, “Melissa what do you want” and I didn’t know how to answer it because I was so stuck and used to focusing on what I didn't want and what wasn’t working.
**That’s why I am here, to help you remember what you actually want your life to look like. How you even figure that out. We don’t know what we don’t know, if all you’ve ever done is what you’ve been told or taught it can be a little bit of a shock to your system when all of a sudden someone is challenging your thinking.
My goal is to change the way you think, the way you perceive what you are accepting and what you want in your life to look like.**
**I’m going to explain deeply, what is alignment. How do you know if you have it, how do you know if you don’t have it, and I want to start out by sharing with you this is not a someday destination when I get there, alignment is not something outside of you, further down the road like hopefully if I get there someday I can experience ease and flow and happiness and inner peace and fulfillment but yet that’s how we are taught.
The answers are actually within you. Alignment isn't someday I hope I can get there, it’s what can I do to make small adjustments so I can experience it right now. That’s the difference.**
**No matter where you are in your journey, I am here to help remind you that pure alignment is something attainable and it doesn’t have to be far away and it doesn’t have to be hard and it doesn’t have to be someday when. I’ve been caught in that trap many, many times.
Someday when I have money I’ll be happy, someday when I achieve success I’ll prove I’m good enough and I can make it.**
**That is the purpose of Purely Aligned. It’s to be a guide, it’s to help awaken you to the fact that you’ve been unconsciously chasing things your entire life and help guide you back to pure alignment.
To being truly you, your essence, your gifts, your strengths, what you are here on this earth to do.
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Welcome to Purely Aligned with your host Melissa Machat, a multi-passionate Entrepreneur, Alignment Activator, and transformational coach teaching you how to create life and business on your terms, have freedom and success, and help you experience the magic of living a fulfilled and purely aligned life.
This is about remembering your vision, creating your rules, and doing it your way…..and this isn’t someday when you get there…living in pure alignment gets to start now.
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