Stuttering Demystified & Beyond: Recent Episodes
Lori Melnitsky
Yes, I stutter and as an adult I discovered I have ADHD. I have been a licensed speech pathologist for 30 years. My career started out as an unhappy accountant. Being told I would never be able to communicate due to stuttering, I proved them all wrong.
My goal is to increase stuttering education and help all who stutter as well as learning about ADHD.
I am a life and ADHD coach for ambitious women/college students.
I own All Island Speech and Stuttering Therapy and online via tele health. I am licensed in NY, NJ, CT, PA, CA, MA
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Join me as I share personal triumphs over ADHD and executive functioning challenges. Discover the transformative power of life coaching with practical insights on self-belief, goal-setting, and unlocking your potential. Tune in for an empowering conversation tailored for those seeking guidance on personal development.
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In this episode Lori talks how to help the 2 year old who stutters. www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lori-melnitsky/message
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In this episode, Lori delves into an inspiring conversation with John, a young professional who stutters and excels in the fast-paced realm of sports media. Explore John's transformative journey with the MPI 2 Stuttering Intensive program, witnessing how it reshaped his life and bolstered his confidence in communication. Gain practical insights as John shares his strategies for navigating stuttering within the high-speed dynamics of his work environment. Join us for a compelling dialogue on resilience, triumph, and the power of finding one's voice.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talked about the stuttering journey and what acceptance means. Lori@allislandspeech.com Allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lori-melnitsky/message
Episode 69 Stuttering Demystified And Beyond How To Survive College Orientation If You Stutter Lori Melnitsky Lori Melnitsky is a specialist in stuttering, speech pathologist and someone who stuttered severely. In this episode, Lori shares her experience as a former college student who stutters and how she survived it. According to Lori, she found it very uncomfortable to be in a group setting. For instance, just after she had graduated from high school and over the summer, she had her freshman orientation at Hofstra University and they had to go to school for a one-night sleepover. According to Lori, everyone had a roommate except for herself as she ended up alone in her room and the electricity wasn’t working that night. To her, it was a spooky experience which left her kind of scared. Because of her stuttering, she felt very uncomfortable and worn out since she couldn’t say her name because the idea and the perception of stuttering while having other people staring at her was just so overwhelming. She was afraid of meeting people because she couldn’t express herself. According to Lori, she hadn't had intensive speech therapy before or dealt with the emotional side of stuttering. She also hadn't had any coaching at that time. That became a daunting experience for her as she wasn’t comfortable speaking and meeting new people. Yet, she made it through and in all her undergraduate years of college, she only had one or two oral presentations which she still found to be quite hard to do. However, she learned a lot from her college stuttering experience. First, as a stuttering student, you might want to notify your professor about your stuttering as this will probably create more comfortable environment for you in your presentations. It can also help you eliminate the worries of being found out as someone who stutters. Second, you might want to have some form of speech therapy. For example, you can role play in front of a mirror, record it so you can use it to hear your voice or take some breaths before you speak when you wake up in the morning. Recording and listening to yourself as you speak will help you roll out the fear of being left out or being misunderstood. You also have to learn to deal with emotions that come with stuttering especially if you are someone who feels like you are not normal but still feels like you have to say what you want to say because according to Lori, it's so important that we say what we want to say since sometimes it can be very humiliating to try and change words. Therefore, taking a few breaths, talking to your professor so that he is aware of your stuttering just before you do your presentation and talking in front of a mirror are some speech tips that will help you do your speech without stuttering. To learn more, you can reach out to Lori through her website at www.allislandspeech.com where she offers specialized programs specially geared for college students that will help you become a more fluent and confident speaker. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode I talk about why I don’t promote acceptance of stuttering. I do believe in a belting ourselves and praising our efforts. Please www.allislandspeech.com or email Lori@allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode I talk about believing in oneself. Lori stuttered severely and her confidence lacked. She went from introverted to confidence and nos never shuts up. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode Lori gives tips for a new school year for high school and college students for coaching or speech help please visit Lori@allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lori-melnitsky/message
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Lori Melnitsky, A speech path who overcame stuttering talks about how you are not responsible for stuttering and how you can be helped to speak.
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In this Episode I talk stuttering and apraxia. How one impacts the other. www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
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This episode talks Lori Melnitsky, stuttering specialist Jake, a 26 year old who stutters. At age 23, he contacted me as stuttering was interfering with how he communicates. Listen to him now talk about fluency, confidence and hope. He has a new job and is confident. As Jake says have hope. Stuttering should not stop you. Give fluency a chance.
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In this episode Lori explains why stuttering can start in teens, www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
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In this episode SLP and ADHD Coach Lori talks about three important tips to help their child with ADHD. Lori@allislandspeech.com. Look up coaching. www.Lori Melnitsky.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode Lori talks about her journey with stuttering and how she overcame a de imitating disorder. Ck out MPI -2 adult stuttering plus coaching at www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode I talk how I sent from severe stuttering to inspirational speaker. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
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Episode 48- Tips for Talking on the phone if you Stutter.... by Stuttering DeMystified and Beyond
Hi, and welcome to episode 49 of Stuttering DeMystified and Beyond. This is Lori Melnitsky, your host, stuttering specialist, speech-language pathologist, ADHD life coach, and a person who happens to stutter. In this episode, I want to talk to you about a very personal topic to me.
I want to talk to you about how you talk on the phone if you stutter. And I'm going to be honest with you, when I was younger, I used to hang up all the time on people I called. Luckily, this was before caller ID.
They didn't have cell phones years ago. If I would call friends and their parents answered, I would hang up. I didn't mean to scare anybody. I was petrified of stuttering. And I didn't want to embarrass myself. I didn't want to be laughed at. I didn't want people to say, hello, hello, hello if it took me longer to get words out..
It was kind of a very convoluted way of navigating life until I got to the point where I dodn’t wat to avoid. And this was before I really had speech therapy.
I worked for my father from the age of 13 to almost 21. My father and uncle owned a pharmacy and I began to work for them. I had to answer phones daily . There was no way of getting around this. I had to say, hello, Modern Pharmacy. I didn't know who it was on the other end. There was no caller id. My father stuttered when he was younger, much more so he had to also answer the phone.
I sort of had to put myself in speaking situations. I had to work at a cash register. I had to answer a phone call. “Hello, Modern Pharmacy”. I had to answer. I had to ask for the prescription number. I had to ask for the date of the prescription. I had to ask for the doctor’s name. And in the early years, I'm trying to think, I don't think I had speech therapy because we didn't know that much about stuttering.
When I got older, about the age of 20, I think I had some speech strategies. So what did I do? And also, when I was in college, I worked in the admissions office, and at first I would run away from the phone. People didn't know that I stuttered. I think I probably hid it. And all of a sudden someone said, why is Lori not answering the phones? Uh-oh. Was I found out?
We don't want to let a phone or any technology control how we speak and how we lead our lives. So I hope some of these strategies and some of these tools help you. And again, it is a challenge, but it can be done and I now can make a call without worrying about it. I can say my name. And many of the people I work with are on the phone 90% of the day and have done really. So I want to just leave you with some words of inspiration. I think we kind of all need it, and this is actually by Queen Elizabeth II.
"It is often the small steps, not the giant leaps that bring about the most lasting change." So it's important to really do things one step at a time.
If I can help you in any way, please, my email is Lori@allislandspeech.com. My website is www.allislandspeech.com. I am Lori Melnitsky and I run All Island speech and stuttering therapy online. Have a great day.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talks with Dr. Karen Dudek -Brannan about her online education business. She supports SLPs and school educators in literacy and language. Karen’s talks about the role of educators as parents and collaborators as well.
Now I help pediatric therapists make a bigger impact with their services through her courses and trainings, and through the De Facto Leaders podcast. On the show, I share up-to-date evidence-based practices, my own experience, and guest interviews designed to help clinicians and educators feel more confident in the way they serve their caseloads, so they can help school-age kids grow up to be successful, kind, well-adjusted people. You can listen to the show on most popular podcast directories, and can scroll through past episodes on this page here.
Dr. Karen talks about different models to work with other SLPs and understand the systems involved. Her goal is to support others.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky. MA CCC-SLP, speech pathologist and stuttering specialist talks about changing negative thoughts into positive ones. I stutter myself and our inner demons can really control us. Lori shared ideas and tips how to talk to ourselves. For more information please contact Lori@allislandspeech.com www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
Episode Description:This beautiful episode touches on the everyday life of a speech pathologist who overcame stuttering talking honestly about the difference between stress and anxiety. Most people express concerns about stress and anxiety but don't know the cause or type of anxiety they are experiencing. It reveals the solution to this problem with practical examples from real-life situations. Stay tuned.Topics Discussed:• Being Intentional and brave: After Stuttering severely for over 40 treads I decided to be intentional about finding a solution. I joined the National Stuttering Association. Taking the open mic sessions was a big risk, and my long presentation was my major eye-opener on stress and anxiety.• Stress-specific situation and Generalized anxiety: it's important to know the stress and anxiety that is causing the Stuttering. Perhaps, it is inherited or generalized anxiety. This will help to know the right steps to take.• Some solutions to stress and Anxiety: If you are dealing with specific stress, you might need coaching, seeing a Speech therapist, etc. However, if it's General anxiety, you might need to see a psychiatrist, amongst other things too.• The misunderstanding about Stress and Anxiety: Anxiety and stress can make Stuttering worse, and It can be overwhelming. Don't Panic! Some stuttering causes need to be understood. • Importance of Mental Health: Mental health is really important. When you stutter, you have to speak to someone who understands.Quotes:• Stress might be more related to a certain situation, and anxiety is something you are feeling as a result.Time Stamp:[00:55] Intentional journey into Public Speaking[04:06] Finding out the reason behind your Stuttering and Solutions[05:53] Vacation story; how a young man got his solution[07:43] Overcompensating in Stuttering[08:14] Resources that could help[09:27] Mental health and Speaking outResources and References:• National Stuttering Association• ADHD Coaching• Dr. David Luterman• Brene Brown (Ph.D. in social work)• Dr. Bill Murphy, Speech pathologistConnect with Lori Melnitsky:I am a Stuttering Specialist. I own and direct All Island Speech and Stuttering Therapy in Plainview, NY, and online via telehealth. I am licensed in NY, NJ, CT, MA, PA, and CA. If you need more information, please visit my website, www.allislandspeech.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode Lori Melnitsky, stuttering specialist and person who stuttered severely, talks to Chris age 25, about improving fluency and the MPI-2 Stuttering program. We had fun, didn't struggle and discussed persistence and grit. Lori@allislandspeech.com
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Lori talks about hiding stuttering and how it’s easy to not hear it in school. Listen why and listen how people avoid or can hide it. www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode Lori Melnitsky shares how stuttering is not anyones fault. Parents are not to blame. People are not to blame. It just is what it is. If you stutter you can get a free pass. It’s no one’s fault. www.allislandspeech.com--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lori-melnitsky/message
In this episode Lori Melnitsky. SLP and recovered person who stutters, and stuttering specialist talks how the word acceptance is over used and people who stutter need hope.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talks about the importance of grit and practice with adults who stutter.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky, stuttering specialist and person who overcame stuttering shares tips to improve fluency and communication. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode I talk about the iceberg analogy and why stuttering is hidden. www.allislandspeech.com
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This week's guest is Michelle Yackow, a Speech-language pathologist. In this episode, Michelle gives tips for parents to help young children acclimate to school and feel confident. She works with children on their social pragmatic communication challenges while supporting their desired outcomes. Michelle has experience working with high-functioning kids with autism in elementary school.
For years, Michelle only viewed her work through the therapist's eyes. Now being a mother of two, her perception has changed. Ever since her daughter entered nursery school, she developed the urge to assist parents experiencing unexpectedly challenging times during these early school years.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talks about this topic. Is there a cure for stuttering? www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode I discuss if we should encourage others who stutter to come out and tell others. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talks about the confusion between word finding and stuttering. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky, SLP, stuttering specialist and adult ADHD coach talks about why learning to stutter easily isn’t the answer for all and even covers some insurance issues. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode stuttering specialist and speech pathologist explains why stuttering ebbs and flows and provides resources to help. She talks about the importance of stuttering therapy, self care and early intervention. Lori overcame a severe stuttering disorder.
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In this episode, Speech-Language Pathologist Lori talks to Ava, an 18-year-old who stutters. Ava explains how speech therapy helped increase her fluency when speaking. Her confidence and fluency increased so much that she pushed herself to even speak during morning announcements in school. Ava is now headed to college with confidence and no longer fears speaking.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talks about failing and overcoming. She discusses the importance of failing sometimes to succeed later on.
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In this episode internationally known stuttering specialist talks about the best treatment for stuttering under age 7. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode, I talk about ADHD and EF coaching, explaining how it simplifies executive functioning related to learning and ADHD. www.allislandspeech.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/768563444534843/?ref=share_group_link
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In this episode Lori talks about how fear can stop you. Lori is a life coach helping people overcome challenges and also ADHD. Lori@allislandspeech.com
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In this episode, I discuss my journey to fluent speech after age 30. As a person who stutters, a stuttering specialist, and a speech pathologist, I am confident that not all stuttering adults are nervous and need medicine. www.allislandspeech.com
Do not give up: I was way over age 30. It took me time to find the right help. Do not give up!!!!!
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In this episode I talk about helping college students succeed with ADHD and how to listen as parents.
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In this episode I talk about the MPI 2 stuttering program for teens and adults. Listen to fluency specialist and speech pathologist talk about her personal journey as a person who stutters and has treated hundreds of children and adults who stutter. www.allislandspeech.com
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Part 2: In this episode Leah continues her heart breaking and heart warming story with ADHD and dyslexia.
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Part 1: In this episode, I interview my daughter Leah who talks about her experience with ADHD and dyslexia in high school and college.
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In this episode I talk about the basics of ADHD and why understanding it is so important. Many people with ADHD and executive functioning view themselves as having a deficit as the name implies. However if we explain early on what it is and how we can live with ADHD productivity and confidence improved.
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In this episode I talk about using the word stuttering so it is not a taboo word. There no reason to not use the word. Lori Melnitsky is a speech pathologist who stutters. As a young child the word was not heard often. Many use smooth vs. bumpy instead of stuttering. Here is my opinion of using the word.
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In this episode, I talk with Rebecca Koltun. At the age of 22, Rebecca had to learn to speak after a tragic skiing accident that left her paralyzed from the neck down. She is an extraordinary young woman with an incredible story.
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In this episode I talk when to start stuttering therapy in children and three easy tips to follow. Feel free to enter info below
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In this episode I discuss ways to use positive words to encourage and motivate our children.
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In this episode I talk about fun and innovative ways to work with preschool stuttering.
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In this episode I explain why some fluency strategies work and others do not. Click here to download my free guide: Myths and Facts Behind Stuttering.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky, a SLP who stutters discusses three simple ways to decrease stuttering in adults and improve communication.
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In this episode you will hear how people who stutter avoid situations due to fears of being found out as a person who stutters.
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In this episode I welcome Alina Rivkin. She specializes in stuttering in Boca Raton, Florida. Alina is a speech pathologist who stutters and directs Clearversation Speech and Stuttering Therapy. She inspirational and has great advice.
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I am thrilled to have on Thomas, a college student who conquered fluency and fear to soar in college and life. Believe me when I tell you Thomas stuttered severely three years ago. He is an inspiration and a positive force in this world. For more information, please contact Lori@allisandspeech.com www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky talks about a personal journey and letting go of fear…Fluency is much more than learning tools
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In this episode I discuss how the relationship of breathing and stuttering. Breathing is over addressed and misunderstand. PWS know how to breathe. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode I talk about stuttering and how important the word fluency can be too many. Yes. I stutter too.
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In this episode Lori Melnitsky, a person who stutters and stuttering specialist discusses how to help school aged children who stutter. www.allislandspeech.com
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This episode will discuss the importance of how to talk to preschool and early elementary children who Stutter with your host Lori Melnitsky. www.allislandspeech.com
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In this episode I talk about a stuttering misdiagnosis and what stuttering is and is not.
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This episode is for all who stutter, speech pathologists and their families. In this episode I talk about why I became a speech language pathologist. #stuttering
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