Based on Real Events: Recent Episodes

Riley Torbus

Based on Real Events is a dating and relationships podcast with good stories and mediocre advice. Hosted by Riley Torbus and her friends, they will break down their dating history and share some of the things they have learned along the way.

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In this special end-of-the-year episode, Riley reflects on the year it has been and shares a list of the most important things she learned in 2023.

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First impressions are everything. Often, you can figure out all you need to know about a guy from your initial interaction with him. In this episode, Riley and Grace reveal the five different first impressions a guy can have on you and what they mean.

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After a relationship ends, looking back on the red flags you missed often becomes easier. Riley and Grace reflect on Grace's last relationship and discuss some red flags she definitely missed.  

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Throughout our life, it is nearly impossible to avoid dating at least one person who can only be described as crusty. Riley and Sydney discuss their experiences with crusty individuals and some other fun times throughout their friendship. 

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Everyone has insecurities, and that is no secret. But when it comes to relationships, the degree to which they affect us is not universal. Riley and Josiah recall their experiences dealing with insecurities in relationships and offer advice on how to deal with them. 

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When life is boring, you should never assume it will remain that way. Especially when you're a 20-year-old woman with any sort of dating history. Riley and Grace discuss a recent and unexpected update in Riley's life involving someone who previously put on an Oscar-worthy performance. 

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In this bonus episode, Riley and Grace take a break from talking about dating to reveal how they became friends and tell some of their favorite stories from college thus far.

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When it comes to dating apps, there are lots of unwritten rules. Riley and Caitlin break down some of those rules and reveal why Tinder is the last place you should go looking for a relationship. 

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Sometimes, clothing speaks louder than words. Riley and Grace discuss their feelings regarding men's fashion and the hidden meaning behind certain pieces of clothing. 

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Have you or someone you know gone through a breakup recently? Have no fear! Riley and Grace discuss how to deal with a breakup, and they share some of their favorite moments where they have failed to follow their own advice.

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Were you hoping to hear more about the man known as "the walking ick?" Have no fear! Riley and Grace divulge the rest of the juicy details about this man, and Riley does some self-reflection.

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Sometimes, the act that a person puts on in a relationship is so good that it deserves an academy award. Riley and Grace tell a story about the time that Riley dated someone who put on an Oscar-worthy performance.

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What is an "ick"? Riley and Grace answer this question and discuss Riley's personal experience dating someone known as "the walking ick."