Life Coach Advice: Recent Episodes
Dr. Princetta R. Jones
Your INNER DIALOGUE!
What is the continuous conversation that your are having within your mind? What do you believe about yourself and your circumstances?
Whatever your inner belief is, will determine what continues to show up for you. If you are not happy with your present outer world, change your INNER beliefs and conversations, and your outer world, and perception will change.
Who Are You?
Why are you here? You are here to experience all aspects of yourself so that you can remember who are. And to remember who you are, you must first experience who you are NOT!
Keep GIVING!
Even if your own resources are limited, keep giving anyway.
Here’s why:
When you show the universe that you have complete trust and faith in this process, you will continue to be blessed with more.
The universe states that, “Give and receive are one and the same. Give is just the other side of receive. If you are not receiving enough of something in your life, it means that you are not giving enough in that particular area.
Always remember that the more you give, the more the universe will give, so that you can keep GIVING!
It’s All Part of the PROCESS!
This happens in every lifetime. You are playing a game to see if you can return to source. The trials, tribulations, wins, loses, and the struggles and gains, are all designed to help you to remember who you are! You are God, experiencing itself through YOU!
You are the I AM!
The teachings of Jesus or Yeshua were never intended to create followers. They were meant to empower you to become leaders to realize that you are the IAM who can do all things just as he did!
There is only ONE, source, and ONE CONSCIOUSNESS having MANY individual experiences!
Are You Sabotaging Your Success?
What if the things that you are trying to manifest are being blocked because of YOU getting in the way with limited beliefs? What if all you had to do is just BELIEVE to RECEIVE? What if?
You Are GOOD ENOUGH!
You are worthy enough, and you are GOOD ENOUGH! Just because everything or everyone is not for you it doesn’t mean that self-doubt needs to settle in.
Don’t feed it to believing that your self-worth is measured by any one else or anything outside of you! You are worthy enough and you are good enough because you are connected to, and are an expression of the I AM of everything that exists! Never forget that!
Stop Stressing Over it!
Can you control something by stressing over it? Will stress make something miraculously change? NO! We cannot change things by stressing over them.
We cannot control what happens outside of us. You are responsible for your own inner dialogue. Listen to the lesson, so that you can heal or release what's going on inside of YOURSELF!
What are ENDINGS?
Endings are part of cycle that has come to its completion. It’s a time when you have graduated, and now ready to move to the next chapter of your life.
Stand In Your Own POWER!
No matter what happens in your life, you always have a choice to stay empowered! You can only become disempowered if you BELIEVE that!
Impossible means I’m POSSIBLE! You have just forgotten who we are. Once you remember that you are the IAM of everything that exists, you will realize that you ARE possible!
Breaking Through the BREAKTHROUGH!
How do you break through the breakthrough? By believing that it’s already there, trusting the process, and staying on the feel good frequency of what you EXPECT to receive.
The how, or when, is NOT your business or concern. It will show up when you fully believe that it’s already here or when your consciousness can house or catch up to BELIEVING it and therefore RECEIVING it!
Your Relationship with MONEY!
Many times, what we believe about money and our relationship to it has to do with how we were taught to approach money issues and affairs surrounding it.
When we change our inner beliefs about money, our outer circumstances will change!
Choose the Change!
If you want to become something, or you want to grow in a specific area in your life, you have to CHOOSE it.
The soul aspires to grow in certain areas and it requires many challenges to learn certain lessons. So, if you want to grow in those areas, you will be presented many opportunities to CHOOSE that of which you want to BECOME!
Many of us believe that a relationship is there for completeness. But this is simply not true. The relationship provides an opportunity to become more conscious and aware.
So, when you come into a relationship, be happy, whole, and complete. And your relationship will be happy, whole, and complete. If you still need time to learn how to love yourself unconditionally, it’s perfectly okay to be alone until you do.
As Wayne Dyer quoted “ You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.”
Many of us continue to judge the coping abilities of others while knowing little about their situations. We tend to always think that we could or would handle the situation better if we were put in the same scenarios.
But that’s not necessarily true. And what does better mean anyway?
Because we would handle something differently, does not mean that it’s better or worse. Focus on your own path, your own challenges, and your own idiosyncrasies and watch what happens to your need to judge others.
If you want to manifest what you desire in your life, start by being grateful for what you ALREADY have.
If you are consistently complaining about not receiving, or unhappy where you are in your life, you are showing the universe that you want to remain on the frequency of NOT having. So, stay on the gratitude frequency, and watch what shows up in your life.
If you want to see something different in your world, you must first change your internal belief about your external.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that things will physically change. It means that your “perception” about the world will change. You will see things as indifferent as opposed to expecting everything to be or appear certain way.
Anyone who is in your space should only have the privilege of being in your space if he or she is supportive of #teamYOU! If someone is not supportive or not helpful in your success in ALL AREAS of your life, then they don’t deserve to have that privilege!
Can You Break an ADDICTION? How is an addiction formed?
An addiction is formed by your inability or refusal to move through your own pain! You can release an addiction by accepting that it’s there. Remember that it’s not you, it’s just a masked emotional coverup that was formed because you didn’t want to deal with or feel the pain.
You can release this pain by forgiving yourself and others, and by acknowledging that it exists as a coverup of a deeper issue that no longer serves you! You CAN break the addiction!
When you are focused on getting people back, and feeling like they deserve the wrath of you settling the score, that person has control over your actions and reactions.
This control will determine if you become triggered or not. Stay on the frequency of love. Your power lies in indifference!
There is a metaphysical cause or a disconnect of mind, body, and spirit that’s linked to all illnesses/diseases.
True healing begins when you go within to find the cause of the disconnect. Give it love, and not judgement. Make the space to observe it with indifference, and then send it out into the universe with love.
Trust the process! There are always blessings that follow drama, trauma, pain, disappointment, and loss. Just TRUST that the blessings are coming, because they ARE!
Your consciousness can only house what it can house. Meditation will help you to expand your beliefs because you can release compulsive thinking to allow new, empowering information to come in.
Indifference means that you don’t see things as good and bad or right and wrong. You see them as an opportunity to learn and grow.
You are no longer emotionally charged by situations and circumstances. You are detached from the results of anything, and your awareness is reflective of compassion, understanding, and forgiveness for yourself and others. It’s called, “LOVE.”
Many times we struggle with manifestation because we concern ourselves with the how something will materialize instead of commanding the what to just BE! When we BECOME the thing or experience, we will SEE IT!
What are you focusing on? Whatever it is, you will continue to receive the vibrating energy and frequency of that awareness. So, to change it, just observe it and notice how it’s making you feel. Then you can shift it by consciously connecting to a higher vibration.
When we notice that we are not conscious and that our energy is focused on a lower vibration, this is when we become AWARE of our thoughts. And when we become aware of our thoughts. We can better direct them to the feel good way of thinking! It’s a process, so don’t put too much emphasis on expecting it to change right away—because it WON’t! Just give it love and compassion, and you will see the gradual changes HAPPEN!
If you cannot see it, and you don’t believe it, you CANNOT BE IT! Your imagination plays a major role in the process of manifestation! You can have whatever you desire, if you can SEE IT in your mind's eye.
You are here to be the best version of your expression of the IAM! When you remember that, competition will no longer exist!
Stress can set in when we have too many incomplete projects.Take breaks often and work on one thing at a time to get the results you DESIRE. Again, work on one thing at a time for optimal results, and take breaks to refocus, refresh and recenter.
There is a direct correlation between meditation and connecting to your higher knowledge. Meditation helps to quiet the mental chatter, so that you are better able to hear the guided intelligence of your intuition. Consider adding meditation to your daily spiritual practice, and then watch h what happens.
If you want to experience something manifesting in your life, you must first BECOME that thing or experience by connecting to consciousness or feeling of it!
Many times, others do not want to see you succeed or become greater than them. This is largely due to the fact that he/she has not excelled in consciousness.
Unfortunately, this can include family, friends, or your significant other. So, it’s best to keep your aspirations and ideas to yourself until you are READY to launch!
Karma is not punishment for what you have done to others. It’s has to do with missing the mark. You’ve missed choosing the higher vibration of something.
There is no such thing as a good heart or a bad heart. If you are not receiving or giving love, it only means that you are blocking the natural flow of energy in this area. Look at your life to see what you can do to adjust some things. Where are you not giving or receiving love?
Take responsibility for your well-being. The connection of your mind, body, and spirit, all need equal support. Pay attention to what you are doing to support this trinity of life.