Construed: Recent Episodes
TUNJI ENAHORO
Construed is a 7-10mins podcast that covers everything in between Love, Adulting, Film and the Christian Faith.
I’ll be sharing my thoughts and “hot takes.” Don’t get it MISCONSTRUED!
Happpyyyyyy New Year people!🎉🎉🎉
It's a new year and I'm(we're) pumped to be sharing the first episode of Construed for 2024.
I featured Oreoluwa Abdullai Enahoro in this episode as she shared on New beginnings and calculated risks. We discussed the privilege of a fresh start that a new affords, and how we can stay grounded in our goals through the year, even if we started off the steam of others or the euphoria of the new year.
I believe you'd learn a lot in this episode as it was with one of the wisest people I know.
Feeleel free to send audio messages or a DM on how helpful you've found this episode or any feedback you might have for me here on Twitter or Instagram.
In this episode of Construed, I shared on how we can redefine self-love for ourselves and not get carried away by popular culture.
So, I'm asking what is the greatest expression of self-love?
For me, I'll say self-mastery.
Pls, feel free to send audio messages or a DM on how helpful you've found this episode or any feedback you might have for me here on Twitter or Instagram.
Are all our heroes frauds?
In this episode of Construed, I talked about meeting your heroes and the unrealistic expectations we have of strangers. Celebrity status does not bestow wisdom, so in choosing our mentors we must choose wisely. We must also not inherit the dogmas of our heroes when we meet them. It's okay to accept people in parts.
To the best week of our lives yet.
Please feel free to send a DM on how helpful you've found this episode or any feedback you might have for me here on Twitter or Instagram.
Hi people, in this episode I spoke about how hard work is perceived differently across generations and how our goals should decide how hard we work and not our emotions or public opinion.
As we go into a new week, pls keep in mind that hard work is relative and only your goals can dictate how hard you should work.
Please feel free to send a dm on how helpful you've found this episode or any feedback you might have for me here on Twitter or Instagram.
HEEEEYOOOOOO!
Welcome to this special episode of the Construed Podcast. In this episode, I shared the things I'm most grateful for in life and also the things I consider the tenets of my existence.
And most importantly, beyond whatever I'm most grateful for, I'm most grateful to God for the gift of life and for everything I am and have.
Pls feel free to send a dm and also share the things you consider the tenets of your existence or even any feedback you might have for me here on Twitter or Instagram.
BYA!
Heyyyooo People!!!!
Been a minute! Yeah I know, I've been busy (getting hitchedwinkwink**).
So in this episode, I spoke about consumerism and the need to break free from it. I also touched on the importance of differentiating between our needs ad our wants.
Lastly, I made a short explanation on the different kinds of happiness and how this might impact how we approach consumerism.
I hope you find this episode helpful. See you next week.
Have you ever failed and felt so betrayed? Almost like you gave it your best, but it was not enough. Then you ask yourself, how much is actually enough?
In this episode, I shared a personal lesson from failure, how to rise above the shame of failure, and how it can be seen as a stepping stone. I explained how failing forward can be seen as an iterative process to get results and succeed.
I hope this episode helps anyone who has ever struggled with the fear of failure.
Labels are lazy in most cases. And I have come to the personal conclusion that people who look for readymade philosophies, thought processes, and human experiences are very quick to take on labels.
In this short episode, 'Tunji Enahoro spoke on labels and why we must be intentional with the labels we take on.
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Is privilege always monetary? Are there non-monetary privileges? In this episode, I spoke on our peculiar problems—challenges that are specific to each individual—and how our privileges balance things out on the scale of our existence. How shining and being our most valuable self is a product of our individual privileges prevailing over our peculiar problems. And what exactly makes up the responsibility of our privilege?
In this episode, I talked about the 80/20 rule and it can be used to deal with procrastination and perfectionism. How the seemingly little decisions or tasks make up for most of our outcomes.
If you have ever struggled with prioritising your list of task or decision, the 80/20 principle is great framework to adopt.
Hellooo guys! In this episode, I talked about what the gospel really is and addressed the big misconception about the main benefits of the gospel and its attractions. And how the gospel should be preached according to the bible and the after-effects of preaching only the side attractions and leaving the main course.
I hope this episode helps you approach evangelism in a more effective way and our life of faith as believers.
Have a great week
In this episode, I shared a thought I had recently tweeted on—Indecision—and how many people get stuck at important decision-making junctions of their lives.I talked about one of the many factors that influence our decision-making process as humans, context, and I shared how this can sometimes be the source of indecision in our daily lives. It is not enough to get context, but we must be sure we didn't get it from unhealthy comparisons.I hope the few tips I shared on how to handle indecision help anyone listening who is going through the same.
Heyoooooo! So this is the concluding episode of the LOVE SERIES and I'm super excited to have you listen to my friend Oyindamola Bethel.
In this episode, she shared the importance of being intentional with our friendships and not only our romantic relationships. She also answered whether we should cut off our friends who do not share the same political perspectives with us or not.
I hope the LOVE SERIES was as impactful as promised, promising much more insightful content in the coming weeks. Thank you for always listening.
All my love. XOXO
Hi Guys! So I got two amazing humans to join me on this episode and it was a great conversation.We spoke about friendzone and situationships, how to get out of them, and how to make lemonade with the lemons of undefined breakfast. If you have ever struggled to get out of a friendzone or situationship, Adedolapo and Gbohunmi have some gems for you.Also you can check our Adedolapo & Gbohunmi too. P.S. Gbohunmi also has a podcast and you can check it out. Cross Cluture
In this episode, I brought my friend Paul Okaome to share his thoughts on shot shooting. He is one of the most socially intelligent people I know and I believe that the gems he shared would be helpful to anyone looking to shoot their shot in the future.
Sadly, we narrowed this down to romantic relationships shot shooting but most of the tips shared still apply to shot shooting of any kind as it concerns human relationships.
For anyone who might be shooting their shot this valentine, this episode is definitely for you.
Happy Valentine's!!
In this episode, as promised, I invited a “friend” to join me in discussing the first topic of the series, which was insightful.
She shared tips on how to make quality friendships and keep them, especially the type that transcends time.
Oreoluwa is a wise woman and you will see why I chose her.👀
You can follow her on IG here if you'd like to be her friend lol
https://www.instagram.com/oreoluwa_abdullai/
In this episode, I tried to expand on the investment side of this series. I mentioned a few practical considerations and psychology toward investing, especially as a young person just working their way up the investment ladder.
We should never forget that every investment comes at a risk and we should invest only what we can afford to lose.
Book reference here: https://www.amazon.com/MONEY-Master-Game-Financial-Freedom/dp/1476757860
In this episode, I talked about the rationale around saving and why we should all save for rainy days. How we should know what is seed and what is bread, so we don’t end up eating up our seed with our bread and indirectly eat our harvest. I also did a little explanation on some market instruments available to invest in.
In this episode, I covered one of the most integral steps to getting budgeting right which is tracking your expenses.
Also, how tracking our expenses helps us to see our spending patterns and triggers. Finally, some personal tips on upping your income.
This episode will help to put the next episode in proper context and I'd recommend that you pay rapt attention.
Happy new year! We're starting the year on a high note. In this New year & new money series, we'd be starting with the Psychology of money.In this episode, we'd discuss what money is, how the word views it, and how God wants us to see money.
In this concluding episode of the series, I talked about how we should reevaluate our relationships and how we should not mistake value to only mean material possessions. That we can have different friends for different purposes and we should be able to differentiate who is who and commit to them. And lastly note that we cannot commit to everyone as much as we’d want to, but we can have a select few and keep them close.
In the episode, I discussed briefly how the next mistake people make after making a mistake is to hide from God. You made a mistake but are you a mistake? The gravity of your mistake is not as important as the way you choose to recover from it. It was a short one and I hope this blesses you!
In the episode, I discussed what is important when setting a goal and how we can be reflective on our goals. How to stay realistic with our goal setting and how your previous achievements have strong precedence on your goals. It is not enough to just dream, we must also learn how to hold ourselves accountable in the most graceful way possible.I also mentioned how this series will be the last series for the year and we'll be closing out with the other to episodes left in the series. Also, a little gist about my Spotify unwrapped playlist.
In this timely episode, which is the introduction to the new series "Re-Evaluating Your Life," I discussed what it means to hold a conviction and how convictions are formed. I also talked briefly about the Cognitive Behavioural Theory Cycle of humans and how that affects our beliefs and experiences. In the subsequent episode, we'd be exploring the complete re-evaluation list that I plan to explore, re-evaluating your;
- Convictions
- Goals
- Mistakes
- Relationships
No movie review in this episode :(
In this episode, I talk about contentment and the lack of it. How to rise above anxiety and how to live in the realm of assurance. Lastly, the Black Panther 2022 brief movie review.
In this episode, I spoke about the healthiest state of heart to have towards other believers who were once fervent in the faith—who have strayed. How we should not get distracted and become unnecessarily sanctimonious. And how we can walk in love like God wants us to. Find out how to keep your heart in this episode.😊 Yours sincerely, your fellow 99 sheep 😂
In this episode we’ll talk about the sudden craze for clarity that we might be finding ourselves in. The urgency we attach to knowing the when, the how and the what, per time. What is really important? And a quick “hot take” on a movie.🌚 Listen to find out which one.
In this episode I answer the question “Tunji, why this?” Everything you need to know about the podcast Construed.