Behind the Mother Mask: Recent Episodes

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I’m your host Annie Breen, registered Nutritional therapist, master NLP practitioner and transformational coach for exhausted mums who don’t feel enough. My mission with this podcast is to lead with vulnerability. To show up with honesty over perfection so that we can prevent unnecessary suffering in silence, for ourselves and for our children. From my experience it’s the hidden, sometimes unknown truths that we carry that drain us of our precious energy and peace.

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Today I'm back with a short and sweet episode on what advice I'd give my 20 year old self, and the things I could have done with knowing. I certainly don't want to change the past - it's lead me to where I am today - but perhaps those biggest pieces of knowledge I'd whisper to Annie of 20 years ago. 

What I talk about in this episode:

➡️ That it's never too late to heal but it’s always never too early to learn!

➡️ How understanding my multi-passionate self (ADHD) would have allowed me such acceptance in my younger years

➡️ Taking care of my body from a holistic standpoint - our bodies are our home and to be kinder to myself

➡️ Some of the things I could have leaned into more, the things that excite me, the things I'm drawn to

➡️ And therefore, some of the things that I could have repelled that were not serving me well

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My husband Dan and I recorded this episode on my 40th birthday!! Dan is asking me a list of questions - we’re calling it 'Annie’s alcohol-free conscious pub quiz' 😆 - catchy eh?! But as you'd expect the questions are a little more in-depth and reflective compared to what you'd usually find in your pub quiz...

Some of things I talk about in this episode:

➡️ Summing up the past decade and what I can take with me into the next 10 years

➡️ What I've learnt about myself in the past that I want EVERYBODY to learn about themselves

➡️ Dan asks me if I could go back, would I change anything? And what would I want my former self to know?

➡️ The films and songs that have represented / impacted my life so far - you know I LOVE my music and the messages hidden within films that resonate with you

➡️ Bonnie asks: “What were you born for mummy?”

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This episode is about finding your voice, which can be scary but going forth and doing it anyway is liberating! I am here in real time, as usual, talking about my REAL life, not the highlights only, not the difficulties only, but ALL of it including the in between parts that we often glide over

What I talk about in this episode:

➡️ Why finding your voice can be an ongoing process throughout life

➡️ I can struggle when it comes to the mundane everyday things in life, but we can't avoid them, they're part of it, but speaking my truth helps massively 

➡️ Being more creative with how to 'create the space' I need to keep my nervous system in check when life changes

➡️ Taking the plunge/first steps towards our bigger vision - AND IT'S BIG! We're going through a big change, we’re no longer just talking about it, we’re doing it

➡️ The importance of needing to express how we were feeling during this change - speaking your truth is non-negotiable 

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Today’s episode is special. It is a conversation with a previous client Gail Jones. Gail is a Mum of two girls, a Wife, a Librarian, a lover of books & learning, and so many other wonderful things. She came to me feeling completely lost in herself, with constant anxiety, over criticising herself and a list of physical symptoms to show for it. I am immensely proud of Gail to see the glowing version of herself that she is today, and can’t wait for you to hear it too. 

What we talk about in this episode:

➡️ Gail shares with us who she is and her story from 2020 detailing what stage her health and life had got to when she decided enough was enough and it was time to seek out help

➡️ Feeling a little lost in her everyday purpose besides taking care of her beautiful family - who was taking care of Gail? And why wasn’t she taking care of herself?

➡️ How her body was conveying a message to her through the physical symptoms she was getting including severe gut reactions to foods and dramatic weight change

➡️ Fear of other people’s opinions and judgments, how badly this was affecting Gail's life, and how she has managed to overcome this

➡️ Constant worrying and catastrophising the future

➡️ Getting to the root cause of Gails people pleasing, where it stemmed from in childhood and birth

➡️ How Gail’s health and life is different now compared to 2020 and what are the daily and foundation steps she took

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Today I'm back having a conversation with the incredible Dr Naomi Fisher. Dr Fisher is an independent clinical psychologist and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) consultant. She specialises in trauma, autism and alternative approaches to education. She works with children, adolescents and adults.

I came across Naomi's work very recently, and how timely it has been for us as a family! The current schooling system has many benefits and suits some children well, but not all children flourish in the same setting and this is what we are talking about today. 


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What we talk about in this episode:

➡️ Dr Naomi shares her work, her mission and what led her to looking at the schooling system differently when it came to her own children

➡️ What Dr Naomi thinks is the cause of children not being fine at school and what she sees professionally when working with families

➡️ The emotions parents can often feel in these situations when their child does not want to go to school and what to do next...

➡️ Which interventions might be worth trying, but for how long and what exactly are they

➡️ What are the first step in creating an environment in which children can thrive

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I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today, we’re talking all about ENERGY. It is such an important aspect of life; a necessary part of life, and especially if we want to live one of vibrancy and purpose, which I know we all do!

I’m going through the layers of the onion one at a time so we can properly understand where our energy is going to and how to harness it better. So, notepads at the ready for this one - it's going to be very useful. 

What I talk about in this episode:

➡️ Awareness that your energy may be depleted, and what this looks and feels like in the day to day

➡️ Our emotions are energy in motion. If we can manage our emotions and energy - we can do anything!

➡️ Reclaiming your energy can feel overwhelming as a mum - think 'the invisible mother load'. What are the visible and invisible energy drains, but also the energy radiators

➡️ You know I LOVE identity! What is our Identity and how this ties into energy - it's all connected

➡️ A practical exercise to find out 'Where is your energy going' through helping you identify what your common patterns are

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CNM Open Day - My Gut Brain Connection Talk

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Today's episode is the solo first episode for a while after sharing the spotlight with my lovely husband as a guest for the past couple of shows, and before that I had the honour of talking with YOU ALL on your 2022 reflections!

Well today, it's back to ME! Talking about the reality of change and creating 'a new normal'. I share some hard truths and including where I am at currently - in the midst of the storm of change, trusting my choices (and that of my child and the universe) and NOT SETTLING. 

What I talk about in this episode:

➡️ When old patterns and feelings creep back in - what are they trying to tell us

➡️ We have a BIG change to our family dynamic  - Bonnie is leading her and us out of the school education system. We've known this was coming for a while but now is the time

➡️ I speak about having the courage to embrace change and creating a new 'normal'

➡️ I'm sharing my steps on "Navigating the Storm of Change'

➡️The thing we can learn from Dolphins & Buffalos - it will make sense when you listen, I promise! 

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Hello and welcome back, I hope you enjoyed last weeks episode with my husband Dan and myself. If you haven't yet listened to it, I highly recommend you go back and give it a whirl, as today's conversation is the continuation from that particular episode and it will make much more sense! In this episode we finish talking through our reflections from 2022 on our hardships, challenges, heroes, highlights, parenting and more!

And yes our wonderful daughter Bonnie makes an unplanned appearance, not once but twice, because that is life, it's our life, and its beautiful! It's also very fitting with a lot of our conversation today being about parenting, our honest and real experience with being parents. 

Some of the things we talk about in this episode:

➡️ My journey of continuing to go ‘maskless’ and putting into practise speaking my truth

➡️ For me, hardships with complicated family relationships and struggling to hold space for Bonnie’s emotions

➡️ Facing my avoidant parenting which I would do to avoid triggering my own inner child wounds BUT through this came an even greater parenting CONNECTION

➡️ Both of us discovering how important it is to make time for one another even when it feels like there isn’t time, and the routine practices we do as a commitment to each other

➡️ Dan highlighted his challenges of not being able to find the words to use to help Bonnie and I in times of emotional dysregulation, but the AWARENSS of this leads to growth and massive learning

➡️ Dan’s wise advice of ‘don’t forget to have a vision for your own relationship’ 

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Last week I promised you this and I have stayed true to my word - today's episode is with me and my HUSBAND - Dan! What a legend to agreeing to this. But, in all seriousness, I am incredibly proud of him for coming on the show to talk about his personal struggles and achievements from 2022. 

It was a real, honest, in depth chat (a snippet into our conversations at home really!) about our own reflections, both individually and together. It was that in-depth that we now need to record a part 2 - which Dan has agreed to - we have the proof in the recording so stay tuned for that also!

What we talk about in this episode:

➡️ I share my hardship from 2022, particularly at the beginning of this year with ADHD, PMDD, post-covid inflammation - it was a dark place!

➡️ The wonderful ‘heroes’ in my life this year - Jo Gamble, Dan and Jen. And of course Bonnie - our evergreen hero and teacher

➡️ Why my highlight was also my darkest time 2022 (new level, new devil)

➡️ Dan bravely sharing his 2022 year of growth in terms of his health and personal development 

➡️ Dan opening up about the struggle as a man to voice his emotions, and his vision for the future to positively influence this for himself and others

➡️ Dan’s powerful words of wisdom after reflecting on 2022 - what a year it's been

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In this weeks episode I'm reading out the incredible responses from our community of STRONG, BRAVE & INSPIRING WOMEN. This episode truly is YOURS, and it was an absolute honour to share it with you all. WOW, just wow!

I’m blown away with all the responses to the 'Your Reflections from 2022' questions. There is so much in this episode and thank you for being so open, honest and courageous. You truly never know what someone else has gone through or currently going through until you ask, and listen!

I’m also going to warn you that I cry, more than once in this episode, but feeling our feelings is where its at, right?! I know you know that! 

Thank you to all you who were part of this episode, I appreciate and feel even more connected to this tribe now. I present this episode with compassion, pride, inspiration and joy at the people you all are and are constantly becoming. 

Meet some of our inspiring women:

➡️ Louise lived through financial hardship and struggles being a business owner, Mum and more in 2022 but by finding herself a coach/mentor has helped her believe in herself and realise how capable she is!

➡️ Karen, Mum of 2 says “Breathe, take things easy…don’t be so hard on yourself”. She’s had a an eye-opening year. It included giving birth to her 2nd child, separation from her partner. She pays thanks for her support group of friends and colleagues for their acts of kindness who helped her get through

➡️ Naomi, Mum of 3 shares her most challenging yet freeing year yet. She watched her brother successfully go through rehab which inspired her to ditch the booze and is now fully embracing feeling like the warrior she really is, loving herself and not relying on validation from others

➡️ Carol’s year has been one of bravery. Her children also needed her more than ever this year and as well as being there for them she began training in NLP and came to terms with past trauma that had impacted much of her life. She found using her ever growing understanding, training and tools to help herself and her family

➡️ Joanne came to terms with an ADHD diagnosis in October this year. While the diagnosis itself didn’t change anything physically it did give her a huge sense of validation, and answered those questions she’d had for most of her life. It allowed her to move forward with life in ways that work for her and her family

➡️ Maz shares her challenge when her then 11 year old daughter came out as transgender along with losing her parent within 3 weeks of each other, and how listening to inspiring podcasts, going alcohol free and prioritising her health has been one of her greatest achievements and strengths. 

➡️ Lucy has learnt when it’s time to finish a relationship and why! And the importance of sharing her truth in order to help others is life changing. She further developed her love and understanding of matresence and is fully embracing doing great things in the world

➡️ Laura's 2nd pregnancy was filled with extreme sickness and ill health, followed shortly but her two children being diagnosed with serious health conditions. She pays tribute to her husband but also to herself for the unwavering grit and determination she found within herself this year

➡️ Caroline suffered from post-natal inflammation and began the journey of healing her gut, mind and insomnia. She found peace and healing through mediation, breath work and self-care. It was so powerful, she now runs retreats helping Women connect back to nature and is awestruck with their transformations

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I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today, I’m joined by the brilliant and lovely Kate Moryoussef. We’re talking about ADHD, what it was like getting her diagnosis as an adult and how this has now turned into her purpose. Her ADHD diagnosis was a life-changing moment for her understanding she wasn’t broken, her brain just worded differently.

Kate is a wellbeing coach and EFT practitioner for late in life diagnosed ADHD women and host of the award nominated The ADHD Women’s Wellbeing Podcast. Kate helps women who have just discovered why they have always felt broken and not enough, learn how to accept themselves and thrive with a new understanding of their brain. 

In this episode we talk about:

➡️ Kate shares about herself and what her passion in life is

➡️ How ADHD people can focus heavily on the negative things rather than the positive and can have a hard time celebrating the wins

➡️ How Kate discovered she had ADHD and how she received her diagnosis

➡️ Her lifelong relationship with anxiety and constantly fearing the worst

➡️ The trauma in thinking there is something wrong with you 

➡️ Rejection Sensitivity Disorder - this can be a biggie with ADHD

➡️ Her initial reaction to her diagnosis and how she told her close friends and family

➡️ Moving forward in life knowing you have ADHD

➡️ How hormones impact ADHD and the connection with our menstrual cycle, peri-menopause, and menopause

➡️ Some tell tale traits of the ADHD and how this can change throughout your life and the strengths that having ADHD can bring

➡️ The connection between ADHD and the nervous system, feeling like you need to work harder to make yourself feel calmer

➡️ Her work with EFT and using this with her clients, and on herself to help calm the nervous system

➡️ The things Kate does to keep herself on track and balanced in daily life and her goals for 2023

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I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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In this episode, I'm talking about why Christmas can be a challenging time with many social engagements, pressures, and traditions. But, with that, it can also be a great opportunity to look at yourself, and how you can be your own cheerleader and biggest supporter to make Christmas an awesome experience for YOU and your family, and not just for Christmas, but all year long. 

In this episode I talk about:

➡️ What lead me to this 'Christmas awareness', my Christmasses of the past and what they looked & felt like

➡️ Who may benefit from looking at themselves in this light

➡️ What Christmas has taught me - bringing awareness to the patterns that no longer serve you

➡️ Values, Values, Values & the best gift you could give yourself this Christmas

➡️ I share my own values as an example

➡️ The importance of small, practical steps

➡️ Seeing things as a opportunity to practise knowing your worth

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Today I'm back with an episode detailing my relationship with alcohol. I said a permanent goodbye to alcohol 3 years ago and it's been a journey back to myself ever since!

Here, I’m chatting to the lovely 'Sassy Sober Mum' Teri all about my sobriety journey as she interviews ME for her podcast SOBER STORIES.

I had Teri on the podcast a few months ago but this time she asks me to share my thoughts & experiences with alcohol, getting sober and rediscovering who I am. 

If you listen my podcast on a weekly basis (how amazing - thank you so much!) then you are used to me sharing many aspects of my life. I’ve mentioned before that I no longer drink alcohol, but I haven’t shared the in-depth deets on my past drinking & substance use over the years. It was the thing I turned through to get me through situations - it was my emotional crutch.

In this episode I talk about:

➡️ What my relationship with alcohol looked like in the past

➡️ What was the pain I was feeling when I was turning to alcohol as a crutch

➡️ Binge related disorders and what it's saying about us

➡️ Some of the crazy things I did when I was drinking 

➡️ The 5 o’clock drinking as a Mother to help me 'cope'

➡️ What was the breaking point/turning point

➡️ When & how did I give up alcohol

➡️ My sober reflections 3 years later

Disclaimer: I've changed the free masterclass mentioned in this episode slightly but I think you going to LOVE it even more!

Free masterclass: "Feel Present" and release the urge to numb, avoid or escape your life. To sign up Click here. Taking place on Thursday 15th December at 10am via zoom

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today's episode is about a client of mine who came to me thinking 'it was all in her head'. This client felt frightened of her limitations and deficiencies. She was plagued by the belief that she was not enough for her daughter and was a burden to those close to her. This had gone on for long enough that she began to believe it was herself who was the problem, that she was broken, and that it was all in her head. 

How many of us have felt like this before? I bet it's a scary number!

In this episode I discuss:

➡️ My client's story and what made her seek out help 

➡️ Her environment and how this impacted her

➡️ The importance of gut health, inflammation and depletion

➡️ Hormones and how they are the messengers trying to tell us something

➡️ Her beliefs, past trauma and generational imprinting

➡️ Functional medicine testing and what this uncovered

➡️ How she gained awareness and began a journey of learning, and relearning 

➡️ How we joined all of these pieces of the puzzle together and what that looked like for her

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today's episode is with the wonderful Lucy Wylde, who is bravely sharing her experience with domestic abuse shortly into motherhood. This is a very sensitive topic, but one Lucy and I both feel if shared and spoken about, gives a chance for other people to recognise similar situations for themselves or those they love.

Lucy Wylde is a Birth Recovery Coach. Her work and passion lies in helping new mums to thrive (in body and mind), not just survive. Lucy is a highly experienced postnatal exercise specialist, advanced yoga teacher, baby massage instructor, massage therapist, matrescence activist and Mum, to Matilda, born in 2014. She has worked with the body for over 14 years and has a degree in Dance.

After a traumatic birth experience, PSTD, experiencing domestic abuse and a whole lotta healing, Lucy shares her love for all things body and mind, to help you adjust to the most life changing transition that is motherhood. Also known as Matrescence. 

You can connect with Lucy on...

Lucy's INSTAGRAM

Lucy's FACEBOOK

Lucy's WEBSITE

What we discuss in this episode:

➡️ Lucy shares who she is and what she does to help others

➡️ How Lucy and her then husband's relationship changed after they had their daughter 

➡️ What the red flags were that indicated something wasn't right

➡️ The pressure she felt in those early days to be 'over' the traumatic birth experience and expected to jump back into work when what she really needed was safety & security

➡️ The 'MASK' Lucy wore and what her beliefs behind it were

➡️ What is GASLIGHTING and Lucy's experience of it

➡️ From one abusive relationship to another

➡️ The connection between emotions and physical illness & Lucy's example of this

➡️ Lucy finally recognising her self-worth and now helping others find theirs

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I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today, I'm joined by a fab guest and author of the brilliant book - "This is How Your Marriage Ends" - Matthew Fray.

Matt is a relationship coach and author who leans on the lessons of his own failed marriage and divorce to help others avoid making the same mistakes that he did

Matt talks about his own divorce and how he journaled to the internet in a bid to make sense of why it happened and as a way to process his grief and anger

He discusses his book "This is How Your Marriage Ends" (HarperOne) which he says often happens not with a bang, but with a whimper

What we discuss in this episode:

➡️ Matt openly and honestly shares his story with marriage and divorce

➡️ Matt's thoughts on the daily behaviors that can lead to relationship 'sickness and death

➡️ How divorce impacts a family dynamic when children are involved

➡️ Matt's 'She divorced me because I left a glass by the sink' blog that went viral, and what the meaning behind it really is

➡️ The 'invalidation triple threat' and how this can erode trust and safety in a relationship over time

➡️ How Matt feels we can learn from these experiences and how to teach the next generation better skills so they are more equipped for relationships

➡️ Why Matt believes we often hide behind a mask and suffer in silence

This is a brilliant episode, not just where marriage and divorce may be concerned, there's definitely no one size fits all, but for anyone who wants to invest in their relationship so it can THRIVE!

Link in bio to listen. Let me know if this resonated 😘

Matt's Website HERE

Matt's Instagram HERE

Buy This is How Your Marriage Ends Book Here

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Today's episode follows on from My ADHD Journey Part 1 & Part 2 (if you haven't listened to those, I highly recommend you check them out!). In this episode I'm talking you through the invaluable information I got from  cutting edge scientific functional lab testing, and how I used this information to get a clearer picture of what was REALLY going on behind the scenes at a cellular level and how this was influencing EVERYTHING else!

In this episode:

  • My reasons for seeking some deeper root cause answers and why I sought out to work with another practitioner
  • What is the Cell Danger Response, why is it so important and what are the things that can cause it to go awry
  • My Metabolomix test results showing markers for the following: antioxidant status, B vitamins, minerals, digestion, fatty acids and amino acids
  • My genetic SNPs - I certainly didn't win the genetic lottery that's for sure, but luckily knowing this info allows you to make changes!
  • My DUCTH hormone results showing my suspected hormonal disruption - I knew it!
  • The supplements and lifestyle interventions that I have since incorporated
  • The connections between all of these findings and ADHD/PMDD/PCOS
  • And of course, how trauma and stress is intertwined through all of this!

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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This episode is the part 2 to my ADHD journey released last week. However, it's not just about ADHD because that wouldn't be looking at the bigger picture. It's also about overall health and how to use this information to EXPAND and EVOLVE.

We look at TRAUMA as it's a biggie, we talk about purpose and mission, our emotional immune system, the balance of our nervous system, deep-rooted beliefs and so much more!

In this episode:

  • If you know me, you know I love a good quote or an analogy so we'll go through some of the most relevant to ADHD and all that it encompasses
  • Pulling back the self-discovery layers
  • The cycle of grief, why its important, how we can work through it and all its stages
  • Cognitive vs. Embodied breakthroughs
  • Finishing on some prompting questions to help you understand the why behind those patterns

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today's episode is one very close to my heart as it's my own personal experience with ADHD...part 1. If you listened to the first episode of this podcast 'Growing Through A Sh*t Year!' then you will have heard me mention ADHD among many other things which happened that year.

I like to think of ADHD less as another label that I have no influence over, and rather as a SUPER POWER I can definitely influence, and harness!

For anyone curious about looking into ADHD further, I will leave the link for the online platform 'MyPace' which I personally used CLICK HERE

In this episode I talk about:

  • My ADHD timeline & journey
  • ADHD symptoms I experience
  • Having both ADHD & PMDD
  • The role emotions play in ADHD
  • Being a parent with ADHD
  • What I believe are the contributing factors of ADHD
  • Wise words from others in this field

Also, just a little reminder that I will be hosting a FREE WEBINAR really soon...

'You are more than a mum! And your kids need to know that!'

How to reclaim your identity with sustained energy and resilience

My step-by-step pathway for Mums who feel broken and overwhelmed but know deep down they are meant for more

WHEN: Thursday 27th October at 10am via zoom

WHERE: Click the link for more details and to sign up

LINK TO SIGN UP TO MASTERCLASS

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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In today's episode, I continue the conversation from last week and take a deep dive into IDENTITY.  If you feel stuck in inner conflict, disconnected, unhappy, and unsafe in your own skin, you are in for a treat! By the end of this episode, you are going to have way more clarity to why this is and with WHO YOU ARE! 

Identity is where lasting change happens but it's also the source of a lot of suffering especially when you don't know, love, and trust yourself.

If you feel stuck in self-doubt, overanalyzing, overthinking and not being able to make a decision. And you are stuck in over-compensating patterns of behavior - chronic people-pleasing, perfecting, performing, and pretending AKA wearing the mask that says you have it all together when inside you feel like you're falling apart. Relate? Then this episode is definitely for you!

Also, a little reminder that I'm hosting a FREE MASTERCLASS. If you like today's topic then you will absolutely LOVE this masterclass. I'm beyond excited to virtually meet some of you and to help you make some radical shifts.

'You are more than a mum! And your kids need to know that!'

How to reclaim your identity with sustained energy and resilience 

My step-by-step pathway for Mums who feel broken and overwhelmed but know deep down they are meant for more

WHEN: Thursday 27th October at 10am via zoom

WHERE: Click the link for more details and to sign up

LINK FOR WEBINAR 

In this episode:

  • Identify - what is it and why is it so important
  • Finding your own values, identity & mission
  • When you lift the labels that define who you are – who are you?
  • Examples of identity triggers
  • The 4 parts that makeup your identity
  • Journal Prompts to help you discover who you truley are!

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today, I'm back with a solo episode talking about something I find to be SO IMPORTANT. Personally, I feel this deeply but have also found this to be true when working with other Mothers. This episode is about establishing your values and mission to get you back on track, to help keep your focus - it's playing the long game with the life you envision. 

This episode is definitely going to determine my tribe! I feel so strongly about this topic that I will be hosting a FREE WEBINAR on it...

'You are more than a mum! And your kids need to know that!'

How to reclaim your identity with sustained energy and resilience 

My step-by-step pathway for Mums who feel broken and overwhelmed but know deep down they are meant for more

WHEN: Thursday 27th October at 10am via zoom

WHERE: Click the link for more details and to sign up

LINK TO SIGN UP TO MASTERCLASS

In this episode:

  • What it means when you feel overwhelmed and craving alone time
  • Useful question to ask yourself in those moments
  • Journal prompt/tool to use when you’re next feeling overwhelmed and craving you own time and space
  • The important of environment
  • Why upsetting the normal is sometimes the answer
  • The importance of your values, identifiying those and sticking to them
  • Overwhelm and underwhelm
  • Identity who you are as a individual, outside of being a parent
  • Where do you place yourself in your life, what’s the order you’re currently living with
  • Reframe what balance means in your life
  • Looking at how societal norms may not be what’s right for your parenting style
  • Holding the vision for you life
  • Keeping your Mission as your focal point
  • Being a cycle breaking parent and changing the future for you children

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today's episode is with the awesome Steven Burns, the creator of Mind School. Steven is a coach and trainer in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and hypnosis. I met Steven when undergoing my NLP training and he's been an inspiration ever since

Steven teaches people psychological techniques to get the most of out life. He has been doing this work for 23 years and admits he is fascinated with Human Psychology

From personally training with Steve I can tell you he is 'proper passionate' about his work and helping people harness the power of their own minds to reach their full potential.

It was during the NLP Master Practitioner training that Steve that led me through one of the most powerful and healing change techniques I've ever done which we chat about in this episode.

I'm so grateful to Steve for being so open and honest about his slightly different fatherhood path and demonstrating there's no one size fits all when it comes to parenthood

You can connect with Steven through his Website & YouTube:

Steven's Website HERE

Steven's YouTube HERE

What we discuss in this episode:

  • Steve talks about his journey with social anxiety, self-doubt & lack of confidence and how he discovered various methods including meditation, self-hypnosis & NLP
  • Steve’s overall approach to life is to 'experience as much joy and happiness as possible
  • He wants people to understand how accessible mind training is to everyone and believes it should be a integral part in all our lives
  • Steve's shares his unique story of when he discovered he was a father, and how he and his son’s mother manage this from different countries
  • That strong paternal feeling of connection and needing to be involved in his son’s life
  • How Steve approaches parenting from a Dad’s perspective, from long distance, and bridging the gap between authority vs. friend as a parent
  • He discusses 'parental timeline reimprinting - a form of therapy as a life-changing tool
  • Steve's thoughts on a conventional vs. unconventional family setup and how this may impact children, including his own son
  • The mask of perfection and conformity that Steve wore

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

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Today I'm back with another guest episode this time with the incredibly insightful Fiona Ng. Fiona is a Parenting Coach with significant hands-on experience of working with parents and families in unique contexts. She has undertaken intensive parent coach training through the Jai Institute of Parenting and also holds qualifications in neuro-linguistics programming (NLP) and is a qualified positive parenting workshop facilitator.

Fiona is also OUR parent coach so I can speak personally and from my own experience when I say she has be hugely influential and pivotal in my life.

You can connect with Fiona through her Website & Instagram:

Fiona's Website HERE

Fiona's Instagram HERE

What we discuss in this episode:

  • Fiona's journey into parent coaching
  • Fiona’s thoughts on the term ‘Conscious Parenting’
  • What is Nervous System Regulation/Dysregulation and how to understand your child’s response
  • Why looking at our own nervous system is CRUCIAL when it comes to parenting
  • Self awareness is the first step with nervous system regulation
  • The childhood trauma that was passed onto Fiona when she was growing up
  • How she started ‘creating patterns’ in her own parenting to begin on this journey
  • Her advice to all parents on where to start

Fiona's Book Recommendations:

The Conscious Parent by Dr Shefali Tsabary

The Awakened Family by Dr Shefali Tsabary

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolt

When the Body Says No by Gabor Maté

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today's episode is a conversation around an important topic that is still brushed under the carpet. Some of you may have come across Teri from her Instagram account @sassysobermum, but those of you who have yet to meet her and be inspired by her, I'm delighted to introduce you.

Teri is 44 years old living in Poole, Dorset. She is a married mum of three daughters, working full time in technology, running an instagram support page and podcast for people in sobriety or looking to get sober. And, she's been sober since April 2019.

You can connect with Teri through her Website & Instagram:

Teri's Instagram HERE

Teri's Website HERE

Teri's Podcast HERE

Teri's Free eBook HERE

What we discuss in this episode:

  • Teri talks freely about her addiction with alcohol from her early teenage years through into her adult life
  • The breakdown of her relationship after having two young kids and finding herself at a crossroads, her life-changing overnight and further turning to drinking to 'help her cope'
  • Being vulnerable is what is connecting her to other people who are feeling similarly and allowing her work to grow and reach more people
  • Finding healing in sharing her story and vulnerable moments despite them being her deepest darkest moments
  • Teri shares about trying to understand the root cause of her drinking and the key points from her childhood which influenced this. Why she didn’t love or even like herself!
  • How she can use reflection from her childhood to influence her parenting for the better
  • Finding an acceptance towards herself for how she parents her children. There’s no rulebook in parenting and we can’t be perfect all the time but reflecting and talking with them is important. Communication being key between her and her family - Amen Teri!
  • 'Fun Mum' being the mask she wore and hid behind. Joining the 'Mummy Wine' culture almost gave her permission to justify her drinking
  • Teri’s mission of trying to break the stigma around drinking. Regardless of how much you drink if it’s used as an escape to cope with life - learning how to feel your feelings instead of dumbing them with a substance
  • Not getting wrapped up in the shame of who you used to be under the influence...“you were a good person trapped in a bad cycle”
  • Her new feeling of gratitude and peace that she now lives with everyday

Teri's Book Recommendations:

The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober by Catherine Gray

The Easy Way to Stop Drinking for Women by Allen Carr

This Naked Mind by Annie Grace

Quit Like A Woman by Holly Whitaker

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Sarah Travis was a client of mine who I had the joy of working with 1-2-1 back in 2020. Today she shares her journey from feeling frazzled, anxious and surviving, to living life from a place of calm through the lens of joy.

Wife and mama to 2 little ones, Sarah is committed to trying to live life in a less ordinary way. Passionate about parenting, child development and self-actualization she is on a journey of growth and understanding catalysed by the birth of her son. On a personal mission to challenge mainstream narratives around what it means to be successful and live well, Sarah is learning to prioritise joy and gratitude for the everyday moments in life.

What we discuss in this episode:

  • Sarah's approach to life and motherhood
  • Sarah shares how she was feeling back in 2020 - Frazzled, anxious, and feeling controlled by her environment
  • We talk about deep-rooted people pleasing and how Sarah tried to please and give to others at the expense of her own peace and energy.
  • Sarah shares how she was very career-focused prior to motherhood and how finding the balance between motherhood and her work left no time for her
  • Sarah talks about how she felt like she had to prove herself and her belief - because she was a mum she wasn't a good employee.
  • We talk about the wider impact of Sarah's 'busy mum' lifestyle on her parenting and relationships.
  • Sarah shares her turning point - when and why things had to change
  • Sarah's biggest learnings/lightbulb moments that gave the biggest personal shifts
  • Sarah shares how she has transformed her perspective on life
  • The power in the little changes and some practical tips for you to try
  • How Sarah Let go of her busy mum lifestyle and the need for the approval of others
  • How you can’t supplement your way out of an identity crisis - which I love!
  • The values/beliefs Sarah wants to instil in her children
  • Why Sarah thinks so many mums suffer in silence? And her advice knowing what she knows now?

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today’s episode is a solo episode…with a twist. I’ve brought in my incredible friend Nic Greenock to ask me questions about getting through some challenging times in my life.

And as always I feel like I bring my whole life story to the party! (Nic does a great job at keeping me on track). What can I say, there's a lot of difficult times to choose from (no sympathy needed). But today I focus on one significant challenging period of my life - my transition into Motherhood, which presented one of the most difficult times in my life AND which also became my awakening.

I think reflection is such a powerful resource. I know when you're 'in it' it can feel all-consuming and overwhelming. It's easy to get stuck in the problem. But what I also know is often your magic is on your mess

In this episode, I'm doing my best to be open and honest and bring you 5/6 of my most valuable life lessons to date when it comes to navigating difficult times. With the hope, it will offer you a fresh perspective when it comes to responding to both life's daily challenges and the unexpected curve balls.

In this episode we discuss:

➡️ One of the most difficult times in my life

➡️ What I uncovered and learned about myself

➡️ The big life-changing turning point

➡️ How this changed me and my perspective on life

➡️ My 5/6 biggest learnings to date

➡️ How this helped me evolve as a person as well as change my approach to future challenges

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Nic can be found on the socials, do go give her a follow…

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Brian Costello, NLP Practitioner and founder of headstrong minds - home of one of Scotland’s leading and most inspiring teams of mental health and change professionals

Brian started his Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) training and experience while working for one of UK’s biggest Wealth Management companies – a firm staging ground for practising many of the techniques both in a personal and business context.

Brian’s dedication to NLP helped him build HeadStrong almost completely on word of mouth. His ability to spot the right intervention at the right time and explain NLP in a way that makes total sense has helped him become one of Scotland’s most respected NLPers. He is also a specialist in utilising NLP to deal with depression and anxiety issues.

HeadStrong’s immensely popular weekend workshops such as The BreakThrough Weekend have been delivered as far a field as the Channel Islands and continue to pack out venues whenever they are held.

“We are experts in changing the way people think. It is a simple fact that if you can change the way you think then you WILL change the way you feel and if you change the way you feel you will act and behave differently in everything you do.”

You can connect with Brian through his website & social media:

Brian's Website HERE

Brian's Instagram HERE

Brain's Facebook HERE

Video Link - Putting Yourself First HERE

Books by Brian:

Breakthrough: A Blueprint for Your Mind

Cracking the Teen Code: How to Find Calm in the Chaos

What we discuss in this episode:

  • How Brian became aware of NLP
  • Brian's company HeadStrong & the work they do
  • His own experience with mental health
  • His work with teenagers & schools spreading the word about mental health and NLP
  • What are the commonalities he sees with young people
  • Brian's experience of the effect of technology and social media on teenagers today
  • Establishing a solid foundation between Parents & Children

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest take home. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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My guest today is the ever-inspiring Gwen Warren. Prepare to be emotionally moved by her story (I know I was), and yes it is a heavy topic so this may be a trigger for some, but I hope as you listen you will feel a sense of peace and be uplifted by Gwen’s incredible wisdom!

Previously a Programme Manager and Leadership Coach for Senior Managers, Gwen qualified as a Nutritionist and Fitness Instructor in 2006 and set up Business Fit Ltd her nutrition, fitness and wellbeing business. In 2015 she launched GW Business Fit Ltd and has since helped thousands of NTs and health coaches to start and grow their practice whilst helping them shine out of their comfort zones, conquer their fears and create simple but profitable businesses and practices that they love, on their own terms. 

In 2021 she then plucked up the courage to launch GW Property Fit Ltd, a property investment business which has helped support her “freedom” vision, values and lifestyle .

Gwen lectures student practitioners in the business modules on the ION Diploma and BSc, the Worcester MSc, CNELM, and regularly delivers free business trainings for practitioners in partnership with other professional bodies including BANT, the NANP, The Institute of Health Sciences and the NNA. 

She is a recreational athlete, competitive cyclist and single mum to two mini adult humans in Hertfordshire. 

Gwen’s work and lifestyle is based on her philosophy that everyone has the right to a joyful, vibrant and fulfilling life. All her work centres around her belief that everyone should love who they are, love what they do and do what they love. 

You can connect with her through her website & social media:

Gwen's Website HERE

Gwen's Instagram HERE

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What we discuss in this episode:

  • Gwen’s 21 year experience with abuse
  • The coping mechanisms she used
  • What was the Mask she wore
  • What were the turning points
  • Gwen’s GIFT of tapping into out-of-body experiences
  • Healing Generational Trauma
  • Letting go of fear
  • Gwen’s wisdom & advice for others

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest takehome. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today, I have the absolute honour of chatting to Natalie Ryan Hebert.

Natalie is the founder of The Red Tent Program for PMDD (Premenstrual dysphoric disorder). She has helped hundreds of people all over the world to heal deep trauma, find freedom from limiting, negative belief patterns and step into their authentic selves to live the life they really deserve through her unique protocol which combines Rapid Transformational Therapy, Hypnotherapy and Metacognitive Psychology. She has combined all her professional and personal skills, knowledge and wisdom from her own personal journey of overcoming PMDD to create her programme – "I have poured myself into it and it is my honour, purpose and privilege to do this important work".

Natalie is also mum to four amazing kids who are 7, 8 16 and 20 years old. She is originally from Australia and now lives in Copenhagen with her Danish husband who works as a paediatrician.

You can connect with her through her website & social media:

Natalie's Instagram HERE

Natalie's Facebook HERE

Natalie's Website HERE 

Natalie's LinkTree HERE

Natalie's Red Tent Programme HERE

Free ebook download - Inspirational Stories from 'The Red Tent' HERE

Other links mentioned in the episode:

Personality Test

Podcast Interviews POD1 & POD2

What we discuss in this episode:

  • Natalie’s personal story with PMDD
  • What the ‘turning point’ was for her
  • How does she work with clients to overcome PMDD
  • Rapid Transformation Therapy
  • The underlying cause of PMDD
  • What is trauma & how does it connect to PMDD

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest takehome. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today, I’m back with a follow-up episode to last week's 'Showing Up When You Feel Like Sh*t'. Reflection really is your best friend, so here I am reflecting on last week and explaining the why behind it.

Last episode I spoke from an honest place talking all about my PMDD & ADHD. Whether you resonate with those conditions or not, today's practical exercise will help you shift your focus towards what you want and help break the pattern of feeling stuck in your 'problem'! Have your pen & paper at the ready for some life-changing journal prompts - they're seriously good! I hope today inspires & uplifts you with these actionable takeaways.

In this episode:

  • What I learned from last week
  • What is pretty constant in most physical symptoms in ADHD & PMDD
  • Start with understating the needs of YOUR body
  • Creating change and testing it
  • The power of our thoughts
  • The Wheel of Motherhood & journal prompts
  • Step by step guide to creating YOUR VISION

I would LOVE to hear from you - please let me know if this episode resonated and your biggest takehome. And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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OMG recording this was hard! On a positive note, I have a lot of sweary out-takes! In this episode, I'm truly sharing from the ‘Messy Middle’.  I really didn’t want to show up to record this podcast episode but I did it anyway, and I’m so glad I did! I’m here keeping it real, speaking from Day 25 of my cycle (and the hangover from day 22)  when I’d rather retreat and go hide in the woods like a hedgehog! I’m talking about my experiences with both PMDD & ADHD. It’s raw, authentic, and honestly, HARD!

A little disclaimer: In this episode especially, I'm not giving you advice or 'telling you what to do' that's not my style, but sharing in the hope it validates you and your experience if you can relate to my story. 

In this episode:

  • My personal story with PMDD & ADHD
  • Rejection & fear of judgment
  • My reason for showing up messy
  • What conditions are needed for psychological, physiological & nervous system regulation (ie to feel happy, grounded and more like you)
  • Post Traumatic Growth - how do we become less affected by our family and inherited patterns of intergenerational trauma
  • Practical ways you can support yourself during these times (a rough overview - I will go into this is more depth in another episode)

If you can relate to the issues shared in this episode and would love to chat, please just drop me a message via my website below or Instagram and we can arrange a call x

I would LOVE to hear from you - questions, feedback, coaching - you name it! And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today, I’m delighted to introduce my friend - Lorna Dougan. Lorna is an Educator, Coach and NLP Practitioner based in Kilmarnock Scotland.

She founded ‘Mind Positive’ in 2020 to help people Change, Grow and Heal – combining coaching, educator and therapeutic techniques.

Her passion and energy comes from supporting clients discover who they truly are – presenting solutions to problems that have blocked them from reaching their full potential. With over 20 years experience, she has a proven track record of excellent results across the Mind Positive portfolio; Conversations, Workshops and Perform.

You can CONNECT with Lorna through her website & social media:

Lorna's Instagram HERE

Lorna's Facebook HERE

Lorna's Website HERE

Lorna's Tiktok HERE

What we discuss in this episode:

  • The Mask Lorna hid behind growing up & in adulthood
  • The lightbulb moment when everything changed
  • The importance of boundaries
  • The milestones in her life of feeling like she didn’t fit in which then lead her to discovering herself
  • Juggling motherhood and a busy career
  • Becoming conscious of seeking external validation
  • Using disassociation to get through a difficult time
  • Learnings from these difficult times
  • The importance of instinct and reconnecting with your intuition
  • The therapies and tools that have helped
  • How purpose & belief are CRUCIAL to Lorna

I would LOVE to hear from you - questions, feedback, coaching - you name it! And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today I’m back with a solo episode sharing from the MESSY MIDDLE, particularly when it comes to anger & overwhelm as a parent. I tell you one of my most recent parenting stories and upon reflection, it was actually my own trauma response that I was experiencing. It's these conversations, the open and honest ones that I'm passionate about sharing as they are really important to help us shape ourselves and our children's lives!

In this episode I cover:

  • How those small trauma moments, that are easy to discount build up over time
  • The emotion of anger and where is it coming from
  • Does anger hold the path to peace?
  • Viewing the healing journey as an adventure and opportunity for growth
  • Creating an environment to feel and release emotions
  • How movement is really important in processing emotions, particularly anger
  • 3 things we can learn from anger

I would LOVE to hear from you - questions, feedback, coaching - you name it! And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

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Today, we meet my friend and mentor - Katie Helliwell

Katie is a Psychic Medium with a difference, not only is her clientele list full of celebrities, she channels her own psychic development activations to support, guide & activate those looking to connect to Spirit. Having struggled to find spiritual support with her gift she has dedicated her time to creating Psychic Skool - an online platform to provide lifetime training to those wishing to explore their gifts & spirituality. 

She also works closely with multiple six figure female entrepreneurs using her gift to uncover where they can grow, prosper, and develop in every area of their lives, not just business.  Katie also provides training on how to incorporate the spiritual practices alongside strategy, this is where her clients rocket and become incredibly powerful.

Katie’s mission is to change the way spiritualism is perceived in the media and wants to activate as many gifted souls to connect, share & step into becoming wealthy multiple 6 figure lightworkers. Katie welcomes her followers to embrace spirituality into their everyday life to enable them to become spiritually rich.

You can connect with her through her website & social media:

Katie's Instagram HERE

Katie's Facebook HERE

Katie's Website HERE  

What we discuss in this episode:

  • How Katie got into the work she does
  • How she navigated both being a Mother of 3 & a Physic Medium
  • Wearing and hiding behind the ‘perfect’ mother mask for a long time
  • How to approach work-life balance as an entrepreneur and Mum
  • Learning to be present with her children
  • Getting over ‘what will people think’
  • Finding your purpose when you feel stuck
  • Welcoming trust into your life

I would LOVE to hear from you - questions, feedback, coaching - you name it! And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

And connect with me on social media:

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Today, we meet a friend and colleague of mine - Jo Gamble. Jo is a Nutritional Therapist, Functional Medicine Practitioner & Fellow in Integrative Oncology running a thriving practice

Jo joins me to chat about her story - her personal journey, and her journey with Motherhood. We discuss how Jo has turned some of her biggest challenges into her purpose and harnessed this in her work

We get to find out WHO Jo is, rather than just what she does as she kindly passes on her wisdom including those big 'AH-HA' moments and her advice on how to lighten the emotional load as a Mother

You can connect with her through her website & social media:

Jo's Website - Embracing Nutrition HERE

Jo's Instagram Page HERE

Jo's conversation with Corrie - stage 4 cancer THRIVER

I would LOVE to hear from you - questions, feedback, coaching - you name it! And if you could leave me a rating and review to help spread the word to other Mums about life Behind the Mother Mask, that'd be brilliant!

You can also book a FREE discovery call with me to see how I can best help you to RECLAIM YOUR ENERGY and start feeling like YOU again. Click WEBSITE HERE to book your free call...

And connect with me on social media:

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In this episode, I take you through what was a challenging year in 2021 - I'm sure many of you can relate!

I'm taking about all the stuff that you tend to brush over in conversations of small talk, the areas of life you pretend you're totally fine with and coping in. In this episode, I touch on my ADHD diagnosis and how this can show up differently in women. I talk about the challenges of regulating you and your child's emotions, respecting your nervous system, trauma, memory, concentration, procrastination, perfectionism, fatigue, and overwhelm. I'm sharing my reflections from 2021 and some of the most powerful lessons I've learned from a tough year and, how awareness of these alone can be a super power!

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Hello!

And welcome to this first episode of Behind the Mother Mask. I’m your host Annie Breen, registered Nutritional therapist, master NLP practitioner and transformational coach helping mothers reclaim their energy.  

In this episode, I'm talking about my why and my mission for starting this podcast. I explain what the Mother Mask is and why I feel its so important to talk about the invisible mother load that we carry! 

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