The Kink Perspective: Recent Episodes
The Kink Perspective
A weekly podcast dedicated to looking at the BDSM lifestyle and how psychology is interconnected. Looking at the latest research, day to day interactions in the community, relevant issues plaguing the community, and much, much more. Won't you join me for an in-depth look and enhance your kinky side...
On this episode, I discuss the complex interplay between BDSM and sexual shame. We explore how societal norms can create barriers to embracing one’s sexuality, the impact of guilt and stigma, and the importance of open dialogue in the BDSM community. Through insights and observations, I highlight strategies to navigate these challenges and encourage listeners to foster a more accepting perspective towards their desires and identities. Join the conversation as we work to dismantle misconceptions and promote a healthier understanding of kink.
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BDSM #Psychology #Shame #Sexuality-
On this episode I chat with the one and only Honeybeeeee. We cover everything from her life and family to her personal pursuits and her unique take on BDSM. With plenty of laughter, insight, and real talk, Honeybeeeee opens up about her experiences and what the lifestyle means to her. It's a laid-back, genuine conversation that touches on the highs and lows of her journey. Relax, tune in, and enjoy the ride!
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BDSM #Psychology #Life #BDSM #MidLife
On today's show, I am discussing the complexities for a new couple entering polyamory, from the initial excitement to the real-life challenges that come with navigating multiple relationships. I’ll explore the importance of communication, setting boundaries, managing emotions, and offer tips for those considering or currently exploring polyamorous dynamics.
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BDSM #Psychology #Polyamory #Couples #Relationships
On today’s show, I dive into the complex issue of emotional unavailability, a challenge that can affect both vanilla and lifestyle relationships. Discover how to recognize the signs of emotional unavailability, whether in yourself or a partner, and explore practical steps for improving emotional connection. From self-awareness and open communication to personal growth and resilience, this episode offers valuable insights for fostering deeper, more meaningful relationships.
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BDSM #Psychology #Emotional #Unavailability
On this episode I discuss into the complex dynamics of controlling relationships and the isolating tactics used by partners to undermine your autonomy. I explore how seemingly caring behaviors can mask deeper issues of control rooted in insecurity and past experiences. Learn to recognize the signs of coercive control and isolation, and understand the profound impact these behaviors can have on your mental and emotional well-being. I also discuss practical steps for addressing control, including setting boundaries, developing safety plans, and reaching out for support.
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BDSM #Psychology #Isolation
On this episode, I discuss the critical role of personal responsibility within kink dynamics. I explore why it's essential to take ownership of our actions and how failing to do so can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and hindered personal growth. Drawing from psychological insights, I examine the tendency to blame others and the impact this has on our relationships and self-awareness. Join me as I break down the importance of personal responsibility in creating healthier, more fulfilling kink experiences.
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BDSM #Psychology #PersonalResponsibility
On this episode I’m joined by Stormy and Raven, two incredible women from the Fetlife community who bring a refreshing dose of honesty and humor to our conversation. We dive into how their political views shape their experiences within the BDSM lifestyle and tackle misconceptions about women in kink.
Stormy and Raven keep it real, blending wit with straightforwardness in a way that makes this conversation both eye-opening and fun. They offer a unique take on the intersection of gender, politics, and BDSM, with plenty of laughs and real talk along the way. It’s a chat you won’t want to miss.
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BDSM #Psychology #Women #BDSM #Politics
On this episode, I discuss how to introduce vanilla partners to the world of kink. Navigating this conversation can be both exciting and delicate, as it involves bridging different perspectives on intimacy and pleasure. I delve into understanding what it means to be "vanilla," address common concerns and misconceptions, and explore practical strategies for starting these discussions with empathy and care. We’ll also cover how to manage reactions, set boundaries, and ensure that both partners feel comfortable and respected throughout this journey.
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BDSM #Psychology #Vanilla #Introduction
On this episode, I discuss the complex emotion of jealousy within BDSM dynamics. Explore how jealousy impacts both Dominants and submissives, and discover strategies for managing these feelings effectively. From fostering open communication and setting boundaries to reinforcing trust, learn how to turn jealousy into an opportunity for deeper connection and growth.
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BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Jealousy
On this episode, I discuss disposable relationships and their profound impact on individuals and the BDSM community. I talk about what makes a relationship feel disposable, explore the traits and motivations of those who treat others as expendable, and examine the emotional and psychological damage caused by such dynamics. We’ll also cover strategies for healing and moving forward, offering insights into how to reclaim your self-worth and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Disposable
On this episode, I explore the balance between our BDSM roles and our true self. We’ll discuss how getting too absorbed in our BDSM identities can impact our mental and emotional well-being, and provide practical tips for maintaining harmony. Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, or switch, this episode offers insights to help you stay connected to your core self while enjoying your BDSM experiences.
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BDSM #Psychology #Self #Identity
On this episode, I discuss the complexities of "Bridging the Distance: Navigating Long-Distance Kink Relationships." Delve into how partners maintain emotional intimacy and explore desires across physical separations, exploring innovative communication tools and the psychological nuances of trust and vulnerability. Discover insights and strategies that redefine intimacy in the digital age, offering a roadmap for fostering fulfilling connections despite geographical boundaries.
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BDSM #Psychology #LongDistance #Relationships
On this episode, I explore Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) within the BDSM community. I discuss the nuanced definitions, psychological motivations, and therapeutic dimensions of CNC play. Discover how participants negotiate intense scenarios of power dynamics and role-play, exploring taboo desires within a framework of trust and consent and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #CNC
On this episode, I discuss the complex and crucial role of punishments in Dominance and submission (D/s) relationships. I explore the psychological significance of punishments, their impact on both Dominants and submissives, and the importance of clear communication and consent. I'll discuss common mistakes such as inconsistent enforcement and overly harsh punishments, and their potential to erode trust and create negative emotional impacts. I talk about Dominant's educational responsibilities, the natural learning curve in D/s dynamics, and how to ensure punishments are fair and supportive of growth and so much more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Punishment
On this episode, I discuss the psychological effects of engaging with explicit content on social media platforms. I examine the processes of desensitization and normalization, the emotional impacts, unconscious influences, and the effects on self-esteem and body image. I also discuss the importance of contextual understanding, fostering resilience, and maintaining healthy boundaries within our community. and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Explicit #Content
On this episode, I dive into the significant impact of BDSM power dynamics on men's mental health in honor of Men's Mental Health Month. I explore how roles like Dominant, Submissive, and Switch can profoundly benefit psychological well-being. Understanding power dynamics, the psychological benefits of Dominance, and the emotional release found in submission are discussed in depth, alongside the flexibility of switching roles. Real-life examples illustrate these points, highlighting how BDSM can enhance emotional resilience, self-awareness, and relational intimacy. The importance of healthy practices, including communication, consent, and aftercare, and more!
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BDSM #Psychology #Men #Mental Health
On this episode, I explore the intricate dynamics of intermittent reinforcement in relationships, uncovering its profound influence on emotional well-being and connection. From dissecting its psychological underpinnings to offering practical strategies for navigating its effects, we journey through real-life examples to illuminate the complexities of human behavior.
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BDSM #Psychology #Intermittent Reinforcement #Relationships
On this episode, I explore the phenomenon of "ping-pong players" in relationships, particularly within the BDSM community. I discuss why some individuals engage in intermittent connection, focusing on fear of intimacy, need for validation, and lack of self-awareness. Hopefully, you will learn how to recognize these patterns and set boundaries to protect their emotional well-being and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Religion #Iconography
On this episode, we explore the fascinating intersection of religion and BDSM, focusing on the use of religious iconography in kink practices. Delving into the symbolic significance of religious imagery, we examine how these elements shape power dynamics, submission, and transcendence within BDSM communities and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Religion #Iconography
On this episode, I explore the common anxieties people face when visiting a dungeon for the first time and provide practical strategies to overcome them. I also delve into essential dungeon etiquette, highlighting the importance of consent, communication, and respectful interaction to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. Whether you're a newcomer or looking to refresh your knowledge, this episode offers valuable insights to help you navigate the dungeon environment with confidence.
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BDSM #Psychology #Dungeon #Etiquette
On this episode, I discuss the captivating world of mummification within BDSM, exploring its physical, psychological, and emotional dimensions. From the intricate process of total enclosure to the sensations experienced by participants, I examine how mummification fosters intimacy and arousal. And so much more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Mummification #Fetish
Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of a sensitive nature, including sexual practices and paraphilias. Listener discretion is advised.
On this episode, I explore the complex and often misunderstood phenomenon of coprophilia, or the fetishization of feces. I explore into the psychological underpinnings of coprophilic interests, discussing taboo, power dynamics, sensory stimulation, and psychological associations that contribute to this unique aspect of human sexuality. Additionally, we examine historical, cultural, and societal perspectives on coprophilia, challenging misconceptions and stigma surrounding this topic, and much more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Scat #Fetish
On this episode, I dove into a global AMA session, addressing challenging questions from listeners worldwide. From exploring cultural influences on BDSM to navigating personal and professional boundaries, I tackled a wide range of topics, providing insights into the fascinating intersections of psychology and kink.
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BDSM #Psychology #AMA
On this episode, I embark on a deep dive into the intriguing world of Adult Nursing Relationships (ANR). From exploring its psychological underpinnings to dissecting its cultural and BDSM-related aspects, we uncover the diverse layers of intimacy and desire within ANR. I challenge norms, expanded our understanding of human relationships, and highlighted the importance of communication and consent. Join me as we reflect on the complexity of ANR and the myriad ways in which it intersects with our lives. Remember, keep exploring, keep learning, and above all, keep an open mind.
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BDSM #Psychology #ANR
On this episode, I discuss the fundamental importance of authenticity in fostering genuine connections, particularly within intimate relationships and the kink lifestyle. I delve into the essence of authenticity, exploring its transformative power in nurturing trust, vulnerability, and emotional bonds. Drawing from psychological theories and insights, I examine how authenticity intertwines with autonomy to shape our sense of self and well-being. I navigate the complexities of challenges and boundaries, uncovering strategies for overcoming obstacles and fostering healthy, authentic connections, and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Authentic
On this episode, I delve into the intricacies of aging within the BDSM lifestyle. Exploring the physical, emotional, and psychological dimensions of this journey, we uncover the challenges and opportunities that come with navigating desire, communication, and community support as we grow older in the vibrant world of kink.
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BDSM #Psychology #Aging
On this episode, I discuss foot fetishes, how it is defined. I challenge misconceptions and stigma surrounding foot fetishes, shedding light on their diverse nature and psychological impact. From uncovering the causes and origins of foot fetishes to navigating their influence on relationships and societal attitudes, I delve deep into the intricacies of this phenomenon.
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BDSM #Psychology #Foot #Fetish
On this episode, I explore the nuanced phenomenon of trauma dumping, distinguishing it from healthy venting and examining its impact on relationships. From real-life conversations to online platforms like FetLife, we uncover how trauma dumping strains connections. By identifying signs and implementing strategies to address trauma dumping, listeners can cultivate healthier communication habits.
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BDSM #Psychology #Trauma #Dumping
On this episode, I delve into the nuanced world of dacryphilia, exploring its origins, diverse manifestations, and broader implications within the BDSM and kink communities. I navigate through the complexities of human sexuality, challenging misconceptions and promoting awareness and acceptance of diverse sexual preferences.
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BDSM #Psychology #Tears
On this episode, I delve into the complexities of finding closure after unexpected relationship endings. I explore the emotional impact of such experiences and offer practical strategies for healing. Through reflective practices, acceptance, and forgiveness, I discuss how to navigate the journey toward closure with resilience and compassion.
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BDSM #Psychology #Closure #Breakup
On this episode, I delve into the often-overlooked realm of vulnerability in masculinity. As men, we're conditioned to suppress our emotions and uphold a facade of strength, but what if vulnerability is the key to genuine connection and personal growth? Drawing from personal experiences, psychological insights, and the dynamics of the BDSM lifestyle, we challenge societal norms and offer practical guidance for embracing vulnerability as a source of strength.
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BDSM #Psychology #Men #Vulnerability
On this episode, I discuss the trend of some sort of substance use prior to play. Whether comes in the form of alcohol, prescribed medications or something more illicit, and how that removes consent and elevates our risk profiles. How the outcomes of this elevated risk may cause more harm in the long run as we discard safety for an altered experience.
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BDSM #Psychology #SubstanceAbuse
On this episode, I challenge traditional beliefs about aftercare in the BDSM community by presenting alternative perspectives, including those who opt out of traditional post-scene support, individuals with remarkable emotional resilience who don't perceive a need for it, and those who question its universal necessity, celebrating diversity and urging respect for individual preferences in emotional support within BDSM dynamics.
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BDSM #Psychology #Aftercare
Distressing Content Discussion:
On this episode, I dive into the sensitive topic of a recent tragedy at a dungeon event in Atlanta. With empathy and compassion, we explore the importance of mental health awareness within the BDSM community, discuss strategies for suicide prevention, and highlight the power of supporting each other during times of crisis.
Resources for help:
AtlantaResources:
- Grady Health System: Behavioral Health Services
- Website: https://www.gradyhealth.org/behavioral-health/
- Phone: (404) 616-4949
- Details: Grady Health System offers comprehensive behavioral health services, including crisis intervention, counseling, and support groups.
- Georgia Crisis and Access Line (GCAL)
- Website: https://www.georgiacollaborative.com/gcal/
- Phone: 1-800-715-4225
- Details: GCAL provides free and confidential crisis intervention and access to mental health resources for individuals in Georgia.
- The Link Counseling Center
- Website: https://www.thelink.org/
- Phone: (404) 256-9797
- Details: The Link Counseling Center offers affordable counseling services and support groups for individuals, couples, and families in the Atlanta area.
GlobalResources:
- United Kingdom: Samaritans
- Website: https://www.samaritans.org/
- Details: Samaritans offers confidential emotional support for people experiencing feelings of distress or despair, 24/7.
- Canada: Crisis Services Canada
- Website: https://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/en/
- Details: Crisis Services Canada provides free, confidential support and resources for individuals in crisis, including a national crisis hotline.
- Australia: Lifeline
- Website: https://www.lifeline.org.au/
- Details: Lifeline offers 24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention services for individuals across Australia, including telephone and online chat support.
- India: VISHRAM (Voluntary Health Services for Rehabilitation and Mental Health)
- Website: http://vishramrehab.com/
- Details: VISHRAM provides mental health support services, including counseling and rehabilitation programs, to individuals in India.
- South Africa: South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG)
- Website: https://www.sadag.org/
- Details: SADAG offers toll-free helplines, support groups, and educational resources for individuals living with mental health disorders in South Africa.
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BDSM #Psychology #Community #Mental Health
On this episode, I discuss some interaction on social media(SM) over the weekend stemming from a lack of responsibility of enacting safety protocols and the responses we receive from the public on SM. When it comes to SM, we have a level of safety protocols we can choose to enable or discard while using it. We have to understand that not all of our public interactions will be fun in the world of the internet, but we can control what those look like. The choice is whether or not we choose to do so.
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BDSM #Psychology #SocialMedia #Responsibility
On this episode, I discuss the difference facets of our pain and pleasure based responses. The receptors that are involved, parallels to understanding why we enjoy certain activities, and how all of this differs from the emotional and mental components of either enjoying or not liking pain.
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BDSM #Psychology #Pleasure #Pain
On this episode, I sit down with Corey and Cassandra to discuss the subject of parenting and BDSM. How they have broached the subject of their private life with their kids, their openness about certain subject matter, promoting positive vulnerability within their relationship and more. This conversation bridged that gap of how parents can healthily talk with their kids while respecting privacy and their own autonomy.
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BDSM #Psychology #Parenting #Family
On this episode, I discuss all things collars. There symbolism, meanings, emotional exchange between parties, the commitment and trust building it takes to get there. I also comment on those who are rushing into the collaring process and what effects this may have long term. I break down a few different collar types and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Collar #Symbol
On this episode, we explore the intriguing world of hypnosis, from its scientific foundations to its therapeutic applications. Venturing into the BDSM community, we uncover how hypnosis adds a unique dimension to power dynamics, creating intimate experiences. I discuss the potential dangers, ethical considerations, and real experiences, highlighting its therapeutic potential, and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Hypnosis
On this episode, attention-seeking behavior takes the spotlight as I explore its diverse manifestations, from the pursuit of online validation to the challenges posed by boundary issues and dramatic displays. I dive into the psychological roots, examining causes like childhood experiences, personality disorders, and the intricate interplay between loneliness and seeking external affirmation.
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BDSM #Psychology #MentalHealth
On this episode, I dive into the controversial realm of financial domination, examining consensual power dynamics, the rise of scams, and the perils of addiction within the Findom community. I discuss the intricate interplay of desires and potential harm in this unconventional world of those who may fall prey to deceptive practices, and have their addictive personalities exploited, and more.
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BDSM #Psychology #Findom #FinancialDomination
On this episode, I wrap up 2023. Go over the growth of the show thanks to the community, how much people have begun to listen, and what this has meant to me. Thank you for being on this journey with me. Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, I will see you all in 2024!
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BDSM #Psychology #Spotify #SpotifyWrap
On this episode, I explore the intricate dynamics of limits of self and growth. The crucial role in fostering self-awareness and psychological resilience. I discuss the exploration of emotional well-being, and the collective human connections within the lifestyle itself.
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BDSM #Psychology #Limits #Self-Awareness
On this episode, I sit down with my returning guess, Ms_Kitten_, for a discussion about Kink as a Self-Regulating Model. We look at a consent framework that she uses, which encompasses Autonomy, Capacity, Information, and Boundaries and Agreements. We find our passionate stride on part 1 of this discussion.
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BDSM #Psychology #Consent #Lifestyle
On this episode, I discuss the influence of music on our lives, how it enhances the states of those who study or who are athletic and that cross over into the BDSM lifestyle scene. I posit that using music can have the ability to elevate our scenes and draw us in for a deeper connection, and more!
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BDSM #Psychology #Music
On this episode, I delve into the intricate dynamics of online platforms, exploring the consequences of unchecked criticism of men within the BDSM community. Navigating through the complexities of emasculation, I unravel the far-reaching impact on mental well-being and relationships, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of masculinity.
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BDSM #Psychology #Men #Masculinity
On this episode, I discuss self-esteem and the lifestyle. What it is, how it is connected to the lifestyle, how it affects what we do and the community itself. How we should embrace our insecurities and learn find ways to grow from them, and much more...
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BDSM #Psychology
On this episode, we embark on a deep exploration of jealousy within alternative relationships. Delving into the complexities of the lifestyle community, we unravel the psychology of jealousy, its nuanced expressions, and effective communication strategies. Drawing insights from real-life scenarios and therapeutic experiences, as we begin to understand this "green monster." I discuss some coping strategies and more along the way...
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BDSM #Psychology #Jealousy
On this episode, I sit down with my returning guest, brooke_ish, to discuss the fascinating subject of Objectification in the context of the lifestyle itself. The range and overlap of the areas that Objectification has ties to, the emotional bounds that it can create, and how it plays out in different scene dynamics.
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On this episode, I delve into the fascinating realm of Relationship Ethics. Regardless of our lifestyle choices, whether it's the BDSM community or more conventional connections, the principles of consent, trust, and respect form the very foundation of our relationships. We explore these principles from a psychological perspective, unraveling the psychology of consent, clear communication, and trust, while emphasizing the significance of empathy and respect.
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BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Ethics
On this episode, I discuss electro-play in the context of BDSM. I discuss what it is, why we are attracted to it, safety, risks, definitions and the emotional and psychological issues that can arise. I also cover some studies that have been conducted on electrical injuries and long term effects and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Safety #ElectricalPlay
In this episode, I explore the psychological aspects of rebellion and rejection and their impact on personal relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. I discuss strategies for managing these complex emotions, emphasizing the importance of consent, trust, and boundaries and more...
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BDSM #Psychology #Relationships #Rebellion #Rejection
In this episode, I discuss the captivating world of BDSM, exploring the dynamic interplay between erotic toys and the richness of our minds. I examine the delicate balance between the tangible tools and the boundless potential of the psyche in creating fulfilling experiences. Central to this discussion was the concept that the core of eroticism is deeply rooted in the mind and imagination, underscoring its pivotal role in the BDSM lifestyle.
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BDSM #MentalHealth #Psychology #Toys
On this episode, I delve into the intricate dynamics of consent and boundaries, foundational principles in both the lifestyle community and beyond. Through clear definitions and real-world scenarios, I highlight the crucial distinctions between consent as an agreement and boundaries as personal limits. I navigate the complexities of online communication, emphasizing the importance of understanding consent dynamics within digital spaces. Join me as we unravel misconceptions, explore nuances, and pave the path towards healthier relationships and a more informed community.
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BDSM #MentalHealth #Psychology #Consent #Boundaries
On this episode, I discuss embracing our authentic sexuality and the damaging effects of reducing individuals to mere sexual worth. Understanding our desires and boundaries is crucial to mental well-being and self-acceptance. Delving into the psychological aspects, I highlight the detrimental impact of societal objectification on our mental health and relationships. The aim is to advocate for a society that values our complex identities beyond surface judgments.
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BDSM #MentalHealth #Psychology #Sexuality
On this episode, I delve into the enduring impact of words within relationships, unraveling their potency through poignant narratives. I stress the significance of responsible communication, particularly during emotionally charged moments. Through personal insights, I invite reflection on how our choice of words shapes the narrative of our relationships, and how hurtful words can crumble relationships.
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On this episode, I take us through the world of active listening—an art beyond hearing, diving into the heart of understanding and connection. Delving into the fundamental principles of active listening, I explore its transformative power in relationships, emphasizing its significance in both everyday interactions and within the nuanced dynamics of the BDSM community. Join me as I unravel the layers of active listening, recognizing its pivotal role in building trust, fostering empathy, and enriching the human experience.
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On this episode, I venture into the subtle art of desire, exploring the nuanced realms of eroticism, the raw beauty of sex, and their mixture into the world of BDSM. I discuss how eroticism transcends the physical, teasing the senses and kindling connections. The difference between the sexual and the erotic. And the effect of these two on the lifestyle itself.
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On this episode, I embarked on a profound exploration of sexual health, responsibility, and the complex dynamics within lifestyle communities. I dive into the critical role of disclosure in sexual encounters, emphasizing the ethical and emotional importance of transparent communication. I discuss the controversial world of bug-chasing, seeking to understand the motivations and psychology behind this practice while highlighting the substantial public health risks it poses. Finally, I examine how differing opinions on sexual health practices can impact community dynamics and mental well-being, understanding, and responsible choices.
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On this episode, clinical psychologist Elise Loprieno and I, dive into the intricate world of emotional dysregulation (ED) and its profound impact on relationships. We explore the definition and contributing factors of ED, emphasizing its challenging dynamics within relationships and the importance of empathy, communication, and setting boundaries. We also discuss how the integration of DBT and CBT therapies can offerdifferent solutions. Lastly, we explore how teaching CBT principles can enhance emotional management and address specific relationship challenges, providing practical insights for improved emotional well-being and more harmonious connections.
Correction for some content said, the person's name mentioned should be Stephen Porges
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On this episode, I discuss the intriguing world of sensation-seeking personalities in BDSM. Delving into the psyche of thrill-seekers, I explore their unique desires, the psychological intricacies of risk and responsibility, and the profound emotional aftermath they navigate. I look at and try to unravel the complex interplay between erotic desire, discovery and dismissal of emotional after effects as lines become blurred between fantasy and reality for these types.
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On this episode, I discuss and explore the intriguing concept of emotional bleed. Delving into the realms of desire, risk, and intimacy, we unravel the intricate interplay between human psychology and sexual experiences. Understanding how we navigate the emotional aftermath of BDSM scenes and emphasize the pivotal role of communication and consent in ensuring safe and gratifying encounters, while mitigating our emotional health...
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On this episode, I discuss the evolving meaning of "incel" and its tendency to perpetuate harmful stereotypes when applied broadly, especially within the BDSM community. I discuss the overuse of "cultural appropriation" and the rich tapestry of shared cultural practices. Lastly, I emphasize the dangers of misinformation and labeling, underscoring the need for informed, nuanced discussions to address complex issues without resorting to hasty judgments, especially within the lifestyle.
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First, I want to issue a pause for those that may have issues with claustrophobia or any other emotionally constrained issues that may be touched based upon in this episode. On this episode, I take you through the journey of a more extreme part of our lifestyle, a burial scene. I discuss how two people wanted to explore a riskier style of play, how it began, the work that went into it, the culmination and so much more.
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On this episode, I sit down with BoundAshLeigh, and continue the conversation from the other side of rope. From a bottom's perspective. We discuss her journey into the rope world, emotions, her marriage and journey, and her passion for her rope future and more...
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On this episode, I sit down with SemenawaPrincess, and start the conversation from the other side of rope. From a bottom's perspective. We discuss her journey, emotions and relationships through her journey of rope and more...
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On this episode, I discuss the intriguing influence of nostalgia in BDSM relationships. I unravel the resonant memories of past BDSM partners and how they continue to shape our feelings towards our current dynamics. Exploring the valuable insights gained from previous experiences, we uncover how these lessons contribute to our present BDSM identities. Furthermore, I delve into the concept of "positive schemas" and how embracing nostalgic memories can enhance our connections with current BDSM partners and foster personal growth within the realm of BDSM.
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On this episode, I sit down with Sadist and Rigger, Mr TinkerTrain. We discuss some history of rope bondage, dispel some myths, some of the psychological aspects of rope. Our conversation opens the door to the world of rope bondage and gives a bit more insight not just of his pleasure of rope, but some of the psychological components of it as well...
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On this episode, I dive into the psychological dynamics of humiliation play. I talk about navigating this intense fetish with a focus on consent, boundaries, and emotional well-being. How this can impact us emotionally, and not just the s-type, but the D-types as well and more...
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On this episode, I discuss the emotionally charged topic of cord cutting and letting go of an ex. I discuss the importance of understanding cord cutting, the unique challenges faced in BDSM relationships, the process of healing and growth, and the tools and strategies available for letting go and more...
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On this episode, I explore the emotional effects on Bulls within the cuckold lifestyle. Drawing insights from an email received, and many thereafter, I discuss the definition of Bulls, their role in the dynamics of cuckold relationships, the emotional experiences they may face, and the moral considerations surrounding their involvement, and more.
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On this episode, I dive deep into the subject of hyper-masculinity within the BDSM community. I explore the defining traits of hyper-masculinity and its impact on power dynamics, all while emphasizing the fundamental principles of consent, communication, and respect. I also shed light on the potential benefits of embracing hyper-masculinity, cautiously examining its ability to intensify power exchange dynamics and foster personal growth and empowerment.
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On this episode, I dive into the world of punishments in the BDSM lifestyle. I discuss and explore the purpose and use of punishments in a correct sense, discussing their role in discipline, behavior modification, emotional release, power dynamics, and erotic stimulation. Discover the importance of establishing a solid foundation, the various types of punishments, and the significance of consent and communication in fostering a healthy and fulfilling BDSM dynamic.
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On this episode, I explore the deep-rooted fear of being alone and its impact on our relationships. Delving into the psychological factors that drive us into unhealthy partnerships, I discuss the influences of societal expectations, past traumas, low self-esteem, and attachment styles. Through self-reflection, embracing solitude, and seeking support, I encourage you to break free from the fear of being alone, cultivate self-growth, and nurture healthy connections based on mutual respect and genuine compatibility.
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On this episode, I discuss the dynamics of silence, projection, and emotional manipulation in relationships, uncovering their motivations and impact. By using silence and projection, manipulators assert control and distort reality. Breaking free requires understanding these tactics, establishing boundaries for healthier relationships and retaining one's value.
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On this episode, I sit down again with the wonderfully intelligent and beautiful soul, Brooke_ish. Spurred by a question on her social media page about the motivators for Dominants and Total Power Exchange (TPE). This led to bigger questions around what TPE means and its evolution. How desire, sexuality, effort, love, spirituality all contribute and on what levels, and more on this episode...
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On this episode, I talk about what it feels like for new people entering the lifestyle. Breaking away from societal norms can feel daunting and scary, holding us back from embracing our true desires and identities. By challenging societal constructs, embracing self-acceptance, and finding strength in a supportive community, we can overcome these barriers, empowering ourselves to step into the unknown and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery.
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On this episode, I debunk common misconceptions surrounding the BDSM lifestyle. I explore the contrast between fantasy and reality, shedding light on the personal journey individuals undertake to become part of the community and embrace their roles. Join me for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges stereotypes and offers a deeper understanding of the consensual and empowering nature of BDSM.
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On today's show, I discuss the importance of men's mental health and the need to redefine positive traits of masculinity. I discuss the stigma surrounding men's mental health and the pressure to conform to traditional notions of masculinity, which can prevent men from seeking help. By promoting emotional intelligence and vulnerability, and by creating safe spaces for men to talk about their feelings and experiences, we can help improve men's mental health and more...
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On this episode, I discuss the topic of dark psychology and its exploitative use for manipulation within relationships. Examples of gaslighting, love bombing, and emotional blackmail were delved into, and the negative impact they can have on a partner's emotional and psychological well-being was discussed. The use of these tactics by governments and corporations, and the potential harm they can cause to society as a whole. Why it is crucial, in my belief, to not use these tactics in dynamics and more...
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On this episode, I discussed the internalized drama that can arise within kink communities due to power dynamics, such as jealousy, competition, and conflicts. I explore how open and honest communication, clear community standards, and education can help address these issues and create a safe and inclusive environment. We also highlighted the importance of creating a culture of mutual respect and consent within kink communities. The importance of creating a culture of mutual respect and consent to foster a safe and inclusive environment in kink communities and more...
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On this episode, I explore the concept of the praise kink, a sexual preference that involves a desire for verbal validation and approval from a sexual partner. Throughout the episode, I delve into the origins and effects of the praise kink, including the positive psychological and physiological effects of praise on individuals. I also discuss the importance of enthusiastic and explicit consent in sexual activities, and how individuals can better understand and explore their own sexual desires and preferences while respecting the boundaries and preferences of their partners and more...
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On this episode, I explore the topic of introversion and extroversion in BDSM. I defined what it means to be introverted or extroverted, and discussed how these traits can affect an individual's experience in the BDSM community. I talk about how BDSM can be both an extroverted and introverted activity, and the importance of setting boundaries and communicating effectively regardless of your personality type. Finally, I discussed the importance of finding a supportive and inclusive BDSM community that aligns with your values and preferences.
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On this episode, I sit down and have a candid conversation with Ms_Kitten_ on the subject of Needle play. A kink educator in South Africa, that has years of experience educating and exploring the world of kink. Due to some of the graphic nature of this discussion, please be advised we do discuss some sensitive subject matter on this episode. We dive into the aspects of needle play, the process Ms_Kitten_ goes through before a session, preparation for a scene and so much more...
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In this episode, I will explore the psychological impact of digital intrusion and blackmail on individuals who engage in BDSM. Due to the sensitive and potentially triggering nature of this topic, I will be discussing self-harm and suicide. I discuss how the exposure of one's private life and secrets can lead to feelings of shame, humiliation, and loss of control, as well as the potential for coercion and even thoughts of suicide. I highlight the importance of protecting our private information and more...
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On this episode, I explore the fascinating topic of attachment styles in kink relationships. I go over the main attachment styles and how they can impact kink dynamics, and discuss the challenges and opportunities of exploring kink with different attachment styles. I discuss how to navigate attachment-related challenges in kink relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, trust, effort and empathy, and more...
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On this episode, I discuss what happens when you find out the person you are in a BDSM dynamic with, does not have the same political beliefs as you do. With such contentious times surrounding this topic, I discuss ways to navigate this issue. To not let it be the hill to die on, and work through those differences even from across the aisle and more...
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On this episode, I continue the discussion on loss. What do we do and how our roles change if our partner has a terminal illness or passes away suddenly. These are not easy conversations to navigate, but I argue necessary ones. I talk about some of the things we encounter, how we cope with the process and preserving memories along the way, and so much more.
If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com
On this episode, I have begun the discussion of what we do on an emotional level, when a dynamic ends. This is quite a large discussion, and I am going to break this up in up into at least 2 episodes, with the second part focusing on when a partner passes away. These are sensitive subjects with deep emotional ramifications. If you have discussed or worked this into your dynamic, please let me know in the comments. I want to thank LunaLux and Brooke_ish for spurring this discussion.
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On this episode, I discuss the subject of aftercare for Dominants. When we think about aftercare, what normally springs to mind is Dominants caring for, nurturing their submissives after a scene or play session. What about Dominants though? I discuss what we need to be on the look out for, some things we can do to conduct aftercare if you are a submissive for your Dominant and much more...
If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com
On this episode, I discuss the dilemma with the self-professed Kink Educators within the community, the stories that are becoming more prevalent about abuse of power, manipulation and emotional and physical abuse, and talk about the subjectivity of BDSM. I also suggest new terminology we could consider when looking at "Kink Educators," and more...
If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com
On this episode, I discuss the vanilla influx of people that have swarmed the scene over the last two decades. The effects it has had on newcomers into the community as they mask who they are with a stolen lexicon of terminology and creating issues in the local scene. Conversely, I also discuss the response by BDSM practitioners offering helpful suggestions that are shut down for trying to help with the pejorative of, "There is not true way," yet discarding the rules, competency and respect the rest of us adhere to, is exactly what keeps us safe and enjoying the lifestyle, and more.
If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com
On this episode, I discuss the current relationship climate newer generations have found themselves in, the Disposable one. I talk about what led us here, my thoughts about how this may go in the future. I discuss the signs to look out for, to discover if you are involved in a disposable relationship. I discuss ways you avoid your relationship from becoming one, and so much more.
If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com
On this episode, I talk about Auralism. It is being sexually aroused by sound. That sound can differ from person to person, from crumpling paper to the sounds of passion, many of us are affected by sounds. Some people, are sexually aroused by non-erotic sounds. I discuss different ways we can explore and enhance this fetish, and even if you are not within the realm of the BDSM or Fetish community, this is something you can explore to enhance your relationships. I discuss some of the places you can find different erotic sounds that may turn you on and more...
If you are looking for a therapist that is knowledgeable about the lifestyle, or just a therapist in general, please feel free to reach out through my website at www.enhanced-mind.com
On this episode, I talk about the signs that our relationship dynamics are beginning to fade. Those subtle tells that let us know that we are not evolving along the same path anymore. How to identify, talk about and resolve these issues before they lead to more problems. While we all hit those marks of time with our partner, keeping that romantic and emotional intimacy moving forward is crucial to keep a healthy balance for your dynamic. I discuss recognizing the signs of when we drift apart and so much more...
If you are looking for a lifestyle therapist, or therapist in general, feel free to contact through my website, www.enahanced-mind.com
On this episode, I discuss consent violations. What they are, how we perceive them and their effects on the community. It is an important topic that we have to be aware of and discuss, to keep a healthy dialogue going on, as to further evolve how we address when a consent violation happens. It is not an easy subject, but it is a necessary one for the community.
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On this episode, I look beyond the shiny Veneer of open marriages and how happy they want everyone to believe they are. I look at all of the issues that people in an open marriage face, the mental health ramifications of them, financial strain, priorities, and more. I am not here to bash on what works for a small percentage of people, more so, to discuss the things that people do not consider or think about when entertaining this idea. Finally, the biggest question, what do you do when your needs are the only one that matters, and more.
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On this episode, I had a chance to reflect on many of the things I have talked about, the few people I have had wonderful conversations with, and things I have learned by doing this podcast over this past year. I talk about some questions that I have been asked and what is coming up next. I want this to remain informative and fun. A place that those in the community benefit from and learn about new things they have never considered. It was a good time to reflect and tell you what is next and much more...
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On this episode, I had the opportunity to sit down with Brooke_ish and discuss the fetish of Lactation. This was an insight into a kink that is far more intimate, effort driven, and bonding, than I first realized. We discussed the process of induction, the commitment to maintaining this and so much more. This was such an enlightening conversation and glad I had the opportunity to learn more.
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On this episode, I talk about feeling empowered versus feeling disempowered. What these terms even mean. How are sexual identities in a social media age can lead to feelings empowerment online. To the pitfalls of exposing our inner sexual desires online and dealing with negative reactions which lead to a disempowerment. What we experience once we are connected to someone else and so much more on this episode...
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On this episode, I had a chance to sit down with Scorpio1375, a rising male influencer on Fetlife. We talked about what brought him to the lifestyle, his struggles with mental health and how he is vocal advocate for men's mental health, his views on what he is looking for in the lifestyle and so much more. Was an absolute pleasure to have this conversation and I look forward to the next one.
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On this episode, I discuss the interrogation scene and what is becoming a prevalent style of play, Waterboard. I go over the evolution of a typical interrogation scene and how that can be psychologically fulfilling, while weighing the heavier risks of waterboarding, that in my opinion, have no business being involved in the BDSM community. I discuss the origins of waterboarding, some of the effects if the scene goes wrong and more on this episode.
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On this episode, I discuss what happens in our brain when we meet someone. When we develop attraction for someone. The neurochemicals that are produced, the effects of their scent on us and during long term relationships, the process of chemical bonding. I discuss the reactions of missing someone's smell and why it is so powerful and much more...
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On this episode I talk about this question that was posed last night online on social media. I want to thank Brooke for this really in-depth question. The question is between Transcendence and Euphoria versus Connection to the scene and being grounded. Do we feel these things, are we in our own head space or do we just count the lashes as we go and more are discussed on this episode...
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On this episode I talk about the Ross and Rachel Effect. What happens when we breakup or are on a separation and our partner cheats? How do we reconcile our feelings? How do we work through those issues? Were we actually on a break. I discuss what we do in a therapeutic agreement and so much more on this episode...
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On this episode, I discuss the lifestyle and BDSM community resiliency to rejection. in every aspect of what we do, from negotiations, to meeting people, to discussing likes and dislikes, there is always the element of rejection. It is not personal nor a slight, and from that we learn to grow and evolve into our dynamics. We learn over time, that because these rejections on any level is not personal nor an attack, how we build up our confidence even when we are rejected and more...
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On this episode, I delve into the subject that I have seen floating around social that a Dominant needs to take on and be the emotional balance, anchor and center for a submissive in a D/s relationship. That a submissive needs a Dominant to define their self-worth and value, instead of figuring that out for themselves. This creates dependency and an unhealthy relationship dynamic that would be destined to crumble. I discuss why Dominants are not emotional counterweights and more...
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On this episode, I talk about the seemingly growing trend of people exposing their kink, the lifestyle or themselves to unsuspecting, non-consenting people. How this trend shapes the behaviors and views of the general public towards those in the lifestyle community, and more.
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On this episode, I discuss a subject that should always be discussed. I talk about the difference between Hurt vs. Harm and their meanings. How do we differentiate when the play is hurtful in a good way, versus harmful in a bad and long lasting way. I also discuss the differences of the types of harm people can encounter and more.
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On this episode, I look into the difference. The questions came from someone that wanted to know more. There are a lot of similarities between being a sadist and someone suffering from the disorder. One of the main caveats we all know, consent or violating it. I discuss the characteristics of the disorder as well as treatments and more.
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On this episode, I talk about how our emotional responses are formed, how they vary in difference between men and women, and how Dominants and submissives both respond to emotional vulnerability.
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On this episode, I discuss what we should actually be on the lookout for in a healthy relationship. Those things that signify we have found a good person, how they help lay the foundation for a trusting relationship dynamic and so much more. We spend so much time focusing on the bad, we often miss the good.
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On this episode, I discuss the issues surrounding Diversity, Inclusion and Equity, or D.I.E. philosophy, in BDSM. What I see that these people who follow this mantra really want and demand. While dismissing meritocracy in the name of inclusivity and diversity and equity, because conformity is what they are after while suppressing types of speech. This is not inclusive, and goes against some of the fundamentals of what BDSM is about.
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On this episode, I talk about the BDSM community on social media, and the blatant misandry that goes on in regards to Age Gap Relationships (AGR), calling all men pedophiles and predators and more. These tired old tropes are nothing but abhorrent and detrimental for men that are being collectively lumped together by people who are doing no more than seeking attention at the cost of men.
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On this episode, I talk about Exhibitionism and Exhibitionistic Disorder. The difference between the two and how those in the community that self-identify as "exhibitionists" are pushing the lines between the two. As well as, when they are taking their exhibitionism public, how they are violating the consent of others and the bigger impacts at play and more...
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On this episode I talk about self-objectification, self-sexualization, victimhood and exhibitionism, and how these definitions are being intertwined and misused to provide a sword and shield effect. Thus, people can monetize themselves while retaining their status as a victim at the expense of those they want to be exploited by. It is a vicious cycle...
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On this episode, I explore Kink Shaming and how people are demonizing others for their kinks because of their ideological views. What effects it has on those who are shamed, and what it says about the person who is doing the shaming.
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Are we losing the art of talking and debating with each other? Have people and their ideas become indistinguishable? On this episode, I discuss what is going on with civil discourse within the BDSM and Fetish community and how it is beginning to break down into nothing more than attacking one another.
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On this episode, I talk about our core values and what we hold important. How the values that we grow up with change and are influenced through our environment. If those values change or do we question them? And what effects pop culture has on those values.
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On this episode, I talk about our sex drives, our sexual thoughts and things we find sexual. When these are good versus when they become intrusive in our lives, and so much more. I do apologize for last week, life got busy.
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On this episode, I cover the trope that submission is a gift. Delve into what giving a gift actually means and reflections of what people may want out of a BDSM dynamic before they get involved and more...
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On this episode, I look at the fascination with Water Sports. Why we do them, what attracts us to it and more.
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The power of Dirty Talk in a relationship. What drives it, motivates it, why we like it and more on this episode.
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What is sensory deprivation? On this episode, I talk about removing or depriving the different senses we have during a scene and how it may effect us. How it can heighten our sexual connectivity with our partner.
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On this episode, I talk about what I am seeing again all over BDSM social media. Being under the influence and getting involved in play. Comparing that level of impaired influence to our bodies natural neurological chemicals and how they react. It is a contentious subject, I choose the side of abstinence.
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On this episode, I conclude my discussion on BDSM and Religious ritual practices, and their connection to BDSM. How secularism and decline of religion have led many to a new "alter" to pray or worship at.
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On this episode, I discuss how religion is in decline but its practices and transcendent states are used in the practices of BDSM. That the way we conduct ourselves within the community and rituals we conduct within the lifestyle, take on their own religious meanings.
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On this episode I discuss what Aftercare is, the benefits of Aftercare, the types there are and whether or not everyone wants or requires it.
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On this episode, I discuss the untapped resource of a BDSM mentor. Things to look out for, moments to reflect and the benefits of having one.
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On this episode, I discuss how people that have experienced trauma in their lives, can learn valuable new coping techniques and ways to explore their trauma in a safe environment, allowing them to develop new skills in managing and coping with trauma in their lives.
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Why is vetting in relationships important? More so, why is it so important in a BDSM relationship? On this episode, I explore that.
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On this episode I discuss behavior of men and women in the lifestyle. Of those on social media that carry a double standard of behavior. While we need not to tolerate certain behavior and nor is all behavior excusable, we need to also question what behavioral influences lead to the responses and interactions we have with each other in the community.
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On this episode, I am going to talk about BDSM and one-sided relationships. How they can be toxic and affect who we are and take tolls on us.
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On this episode, I sit down with @LunaLux and @Sovereign_Kane, both on Fetlife, and discuss their relationship. They are both Dominants, that share a masochist on one side, and a slave on the other, both the same person. We explore and discuss what challenges they have faced, their views on their relationship, preconceived notions and their takes on the future.
I do want to apologize for some of the audio, mainly on my side.
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On this episode, I talk about the origins of Operant Conditioning, applications and understanding of it and what do after a dynamic ends and you are reeling with the effects of the modifications.
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On this episode, I discuss what happens when infidelity happens, especially within the BDSM community, a story about a couple that went through this and how we can come back.
I look at Praise and how affirmations play a role within the dynamic of a relationship. How they can be confusing when used and how they are misused.
This is a story about John and Michelle, BDSM practitioners who found themselves through the lifestyle. The life they had, and in the end how the roles changed, because of love.
In this episode, I go over what is a Fetish. What defines it, how healthy it is, when it becomes a problem, how it can be treated and what things cannot be fetishes.
In this episode, I will be discussing Mindfulness and Intimacy. How we can be sensual, and not just sexual.
In this episode, I go over some of the common psychological myths associated with those involved in the BDSM and Lifestyle community.
In this episode, I discuss the principles of BDSM, how the they apply to the BDSM community and some personal insights.