Dear Girlchild: Recent Episodes

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Our hearts go out to you, for this far you have tried to comprehend and understand our complicated minds and our misunderstood hearts. We agree, we haven’t been as expressive and understanding as we ought to be. We want to take this chance to mend this wrong and peer beneath that gorgeous smile and have a heart to heart. With love, Boychild.

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Have you ever had a dream or vision in mind that you wanted to actualize but you end up doubting yourself and to make it even worse, you end up asking people what they think and they end up discouraging you a whole lot? Well, this week we look at ways we can overcome this struggle and just doing it, you know Nike style.

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Howdy listener! another week, another episode and this week we bring to a close the story of how we got to where we are at health wise. Aptly named 2020 The story, we know how hard the year 2020 was for all of us with a pandemic ruining most of the plans and sending the entire planet into crisis. I am pretty sure you have your own story to tell about this particular year and how you coped with it. Here today, is the end of my story with hospital and I hope it does encourage you to keep going and to not give up or give in.

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This episode, a personal one for me, is about the story of how I got to where I am in terms of my health. For the last two years, I have struggled with my mobility and its been quite the ride for me and today I opted to share this story with you. I do not have much to say about it here but I hope you enjoy the episode and you can always share, like and subscribe to the podcast on all streaming platforms.

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After unceremoniously taking a leave of absence, we are back again trying to pick up from where we left off but this time with a different twist.

I rarely describe or speak about myself and the struggles I have in this life, but this time round, I intend to try something new, let you in on a couple of secrets here and there and be sure to look out for a surprise somewhere in the middle of the episode.

As a podcast host, most times its all about the content you plan on giving to your audience and how they will receive it.

Maybe this time as Dear Girl-child we can try take this a different route.

This one is specially dedicated to the people who listened to the podcast even in my absence.

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Consistency, the one thing we expect from all people we are invested in. We often ask people to be consistent toward us but the real question is are we consistent towards them? This is a classic example of asking of ourseleves what we ask of others. Get your cup of tea and listen in. Follow us on Instagram @dear_girchild Leave us a voice message on anchor.


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Quick question, how many times have you had a situation where you've felt so bad about yourself? Maybe its over a couple of decisions or life choices? Well, I have been there and so many times I have found it so hard to forgive myself. I've beaten myself up numerous times and its had a ripple effect on the choices I have made after. Maybe we can help each other find the time and place to forgive ourselves?


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Most times, we are so concerned with blaming ourselves for the pain, we go through in all forms of relationships. We end up so busy closing ourselves off from the simplicity of life. We forget to live! I forget to live! Would you join me to come alive?


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Have you ever been in situation where you are in an active pursuit of somebody who has their interest vested elsewhere? It is utter PAIN I can tell you that for sure! The experience though shapes us to who we become. I share my story of how my heart broke. Also the title to this episode is perfect click bait!


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For the last episode in the month of April, we have our last Q&A session from one of our listeners. I fondly enjoy answering questions and interacting at this level. I hope one day we can actually have a physical session with people, also, thank you so much for listening to all the episodes back to back when I don't upload. Danke schon!!!!


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The second part of Q & A is here and I am so glad that you have come back and even more people are reaching out to give their questions!!! So much fun!!  


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I recently realized that I have been asking you to contact me, yet I have never actually taken note of them! Today I have finally caught up with them and I have done a short Q&A to answer your questions. I hope you enjoy this, hopefully more of the same is to come.


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Men, we failed, that's it nothing else.


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Dear Girlchild has come such along way, making each other better one date at a time, that's all we could ever ask for! This week we look into what guys really want! Are you ready for it? Listen in.


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Happy International women's day, I am three days late to this one but why not celebrate them all times?


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Happy new month, the last time March was around, she whipped up a storm!!!! Well, she's back and let's hope this time she will be a bit kind. Meanwhile, we have a new episode for us to listen to. Ever curious to what girls want? Listen in!!!


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And I actually don't have a description for this one but I know how much I did miss being part of this! I just.......... ugh! ........Listen in!!! 


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The year is rapidly coming to an end and what better way than to chill back and listen to the episode before we start our festivities.


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My heart goes out to you for the many instances and situations you've had to endure all in the name of love. This is our apology and as much as it doesn't do much, I hope it can allows us to start our healing process.


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Have you been in a situaton where you just do not trust someone's intentions or vice versa and subsequently you withdrew from them completely? I havee had moments where I have been left hanging based of the actions of my predecessor or lack thereof. The words "I DO NOT TRUST MEN!" resonated with me all through that whole friendship; It did scar me. This episode is based on a sad true stroy.


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Imagine falling for someone then they ghost you all of a sudden!!! That thing is just PAIN! I have always tried to understand why such things happen and today I have come with one of the possible reasons why. Shout out to the Description readers. Please leave a voice message of whatever you feel like saying!! For now listen in and share as widely as you can . Road to 6000 listens!!!!


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I am having so much fun writing and producing this podcast. Over the last four months I have been getting both positive and negative feedback from my listeners and that is okay, today I want to give a massive shout out, to you who takes time reading this descriptions time and time again. You are the MVP!!!  Shall we listen in? Also remember sharing is caring.


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You did not think I would just leave you like that!! I made a commitment to stay here with you through it all and I will see that through. Also if you listen to this episode we will pass our own unique milestone, Are you ready for date nghts??


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Love is such a compelling thing to withhold. It’s the only feeling that can have you feeling on top of the world while at the same time it can bring you down on your knees in a split second. This feeling albeit amazing has the word WORK intertwined with it. How hard can you work for love? Do tune in!


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Sometimes we aren’t heartbroken because we’ve fallen for the wrong person or such things but it’s because we think we are with someone who’s clearly not with us😄 A promise of A Castle and the lifestyle of a queen but you end up on The Streets begging for Mercy. Of castles and Streets


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Have you ever felt the need to be someone’s person but you end up being rejected big time and you feel like a clown for even thinking about it? I know I have, listen in and find some nuggets in here😄


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Have you ever felt like the only thing shielding you from the madness is that door to your room? I thought that it would be such an trying time to ask for your help. There is no Help in the Silence. 


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We can move ahead if we keep holding on to he masks we have become so used to!

I am letting go of my mask will you?


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I am so sorry for missing out on yesterday's date and I do have to make it up to you.

It's not much but its going to be worth the time.


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A standard heart beat is 60- 100 beats per minute! Would you like to hear mine?


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The mind is such a powerful place. Of course as a man thinketh so he becometh. This week we have the start of a journey to the core of the mans mind through a series of conversations and scenarios. Of course the are some key lessons in here for not just you dear girlchild but also for me, Boychild


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Before we get into the hard end conversations, I would like to formally tell you a little bit about myself. Would you care to take a listen? 


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I need you to make a choice😊 Not just for now but for the future and the entirety of what we are about to do😊 Are you with me?


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DEAR GIRLCHILD,  There is so much we have longed to say to you, from the depths of our hearts to the neurons of our brains. We know, we have been up to par in recent times but we want to start here. It is a small step but we choose to call it the 'we' step. Let's take this crazy journey together. Love Boychild.


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