Before Marriage 21: Recent Episodes
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We help single Christians become the right people for marriage, by showing them what marriage looks like when done Gods way.
We also want to be light bearers to the black community, helping us understand the importance of successful marriages to the attainment of peace, stability & wealth creation for the overall progress of humanity!!!
In this video, we share the 3 things you NEED to know before getting into another relationship...
This ONE thing is the major differentiator between people who experience success in relationships, finances & business, and those who don't If you are currently wondering if there is a way to significantly cut down the delay you are currently experiencing with connecting with your partner, or even, triple your income in less time, you definitely want to check this out
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If we are going to be honest, the Christian life is a difficult one, and we all struggle with it to some degree.
So, in this session, we open up about some of the struggles we face as Christians, because a problem shared is already half solved.
A lot of the time, the problem isn't really the problem, it is our perspective that is the problem.
Very interesting and engaging conversation. ENJOY
Have you read the Parable of the Sower?
What happens when a close friend encounters God, and is on fire for Him for 3months, but suddenly goes back to his old lifestyle?
The Word of God was conceived in his him, but died before it could produce any fruits.
In this session, we discuss the things preventing this process from birthing Jesus in our lives...the Holy Spirit definitely took over this conversation.
Listen and be blessed!!!
The Salvation experience is an incredible one, but in reality, it is the equivalent of the Israelites conquering Jericho (which was 10% of the Promised Land)
So, are baby Christians in danger of not fully experiencing the life Jesus died to give them?
This episode is longer than usual, but you'll know why when you listen
In an effort to get more people into the church, Christianity has been made to look cool.
So, the question is "If people are coming in with the wrong expectations, when they come face to face with the reality of the Christian lifestyle of sacrifice & obedience, will they be capable of really following Christ?"
Could this be the reason why so many come to Christ, and eventually fall away? Because what they were sold, isn't what they are currently experiencing
Very rich conversation, and we touch on an idea that could literally revolutionize the concept of Church as we know it
Interesting conversation in this Biblestudy session where we go deep into Romans 2:1 "You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you are condemning yourself, for you who judge others do these very same things"
You've probably asked this question at some point in your life!
In this session we discuss what it truly means to "Fear God", and the real reason why most people believe a "Loving" God won't send His children to Hell
If you have been struggling to read the Bible, or you just don't seem to understand what you read when you actually do, there are a few reasons for this, but the Holy Spirit showed me something while reading Ephesians 1:1
"This letter is from Paul, chosen by the will of God to be an apostle of Christ Jesus. I am writing to Gods Holy people in Ephesus, who are faithful followers of Christ Jesus"
I have read this verse many times, but this time around, I saw something different!
Paul qualified who he was writing to - he wasn't writing to new believers in the faith, neither was he writing to unbelievers, he was writing to DISCIPLES (those who were faithful followers of Christ)
Is it possible that you've been reading parts of the Bible that weren't written to you in the season you are currently in? Is it possible that your inability to truly understand, is because you haven't built up a solid foundation in your faith yet?
This is why we decided to start this Biblestudy, because when people who claim to be Christians, become genuine Christians through the revelation of Jesus Christ, we can then become the light and salt of the earth as God originally designed us to be.
We start off with the Book of Romans, written to those God loves...that's you!!!
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STARTS JANUARY 24th, 2021
2020 started off with a bang, we had huge dreams, and set big goals, but nobody could have predicted the level of uncertainty we experienced last year.
2021 is here, and you are probably asking yourself "is there any point setting any goals, if this year will just be as unpredictable as last year?"
In this video, we share 3 things you must know before setting goals in 2021, and these 3 things will ensure you stay stable in the midst of change and uncertainty this year
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Discover your True Identity & Purpose
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Discover the Freedom & Confidence you need to be your version of the self you were made to be
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Heal from past emotion wounds & heartbreaks that keep destroying your relationships
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Discover and express your unique gifts and talents
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Attract & choose the right person for marriage
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Finally take charge of how your story will be told
There are some things men think are attractive, that actually are turn offs for women, or are they? 🤔
If men find that women who wear overly tight clothes, or take bum pics are a turn off, then why do most men keep chasing those types of women? And if you want to know why men hate it when women play hard to get, we answer these questions and more in this video...
YOU ARE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT REALLY SINGLE!!!
In 2006, i experienced the worst heartbreak, and it literally changed me, i became single again, but i wasn't really single. I was still carrying the rejection and pain from that relationship which changed my perspective on women and my ability to trust again. I still had my ex in my head, i still had the hurt and betrayal lodged in my heart, and you may be going through the same thing after experiencing multiple failed relationships that didn't lead to marriage.
Can you imagine asking your ex's to pick your future husband/wife? How well do you think they would do? If you are single and wondering how you can become the right person for marriage, in this interview with Kehinde Onasoga, i share 4 things every single person MUST do before they choose their life partners, so you can have a 100% chance of succeeding in marriage.
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Has anyone of us mistakenly peed/pooped on ourselves in public? Have we lied about being sick just to get out of having sex? Have we admired someone of the opposite sex since we've been married? We answer these questions and many more as we play the interactive game "Never Have I Ever"
YouTube Video link: https://youtu.be/n8HohsupwJg
After 5 years of marriage, most couples face the regular challenges with their finances, some start getting bored with their sex life and begin experiencing a significant drop in intimacy, which leads to an increased possibility of infidelity or sometimes even irreconcilable differences that have ended some of these marriages.
Today, OG & I are celebrating 5years of being happily married, we are literally experiencing the reward that comes from doing marriage Gods way. In this video, we share some tips on how we've been able to avoid regular challenges that are plaguing most marriages today.
So, if you want to know how we've been able to keep a healthy sex life after 5years, resolve conflicts and maintain our peace? This videos gives you just that 😀
You cannot effectively use what you criticize!!!
Dating has definitely changed over the years, we've gone from sending love letters to shooting shots in the DM, and even though social media has opened the door to a lot of opportunities, there is still a lot of skepticism using it as a dating tool.
Should Christians embrace social media as a potential way to connect with their life partners? It's definitely not without its dangers, but OG & I share some ways you can begin to use this tool the right way
YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/wiKDte-FycM
If your girlfriend has hair on her legs & arm pit, is that a red flag or deal breaker? What if he has smelly breath or body odour? or he beats his sister? Is every Red Flag a Deal Breaker?
What if you've lost the right relationship because of a red flag that could have been ignored or handled better?
OG shares 5 RED FLAGS she saw in me while we were dating, and we share a tip to help you know when a Red Flag should definitely become a Deal Breaker!!!
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/gaRrHZq5Zs8
Rapper Young Jeezy & "The REAL" Host Jeannie Mai recently got engaged, and in one of her posts on social media, she spoke about how she wanted to be submissive to her husband, and you guessed it, she got dragged by feminist sympathizers who see submission in marriage as a step backwards.
In this video, OG & I discuss the effects modern day feminism is having on marriages today, and if the feminism movement was borne out of the desire of women wanting to be including in the decision making in the home, should men also have a say in if a baby is born or not? 🤔
After the horror of 20-10-20, where we saw peaceful protesters get shot & killed by the Military, followed by the speech that left everyone speechless, you may have felt discouraged, you may even feel like giving up on the idea of a new Nigeria, but we believe as Christians we are called to be LIGHT in this dark world. OG & I share some tips we can begin to do as Christians to deliver the change we need between now and 2023
YouTube link: https://youtu.be/HJPrarho8Rs
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With the ongoing protests going on in Nigeria to #EndSARS, OG & I share our take on it, and how the current Nigerian system negatively affects relationships. Plus, we answer 2 questions from last weeks episode!!!
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Should a woman feel entitled to financial support from the guy she is currently in a relationship with?
What if he has money, but doesn't want to help her out? Is that a red flag?
Do guys lose respect for girls if they have to fund their lifestyle?
These are some of the questions OG & I discuss in this video with some personal experiences. What are you thoughts? Have you been in a similar situation?
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After her 3month hiatus after giving birth to our second son, OG is back as we share how we discovered our passion and purpose for relationships. We also share tips on how you can discover yours
In this video i share the story of how an Uber rider disrespected my marriage while driving him to work...what he said was so disrespectful, Uber considered terminating his account with them. Listen and share you thoughts, did i over react???
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