But Seriously We Mean It: Recent Episodes

#BSWMI with Ludwekazi & Mbali

We're just two curious people with lots to say about anything and everything...

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It's our season finale and we're excited to have made it this far. Let's start this off by thanking YOU for riding along with us throughout this journey.

As we wrap up the first season of #BSWMI, we take a trip down memory lane. We reflect on past episodes and talk through some of our hopes for the future. What were some of your favourite moments? What conversation would you like us to have in the next season?

Be sure to keep your ear on the ground for the second season of #BSWMI. Until then, stay safe!

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The choices we make reveal so much about the standards we set for ourselves; it's evident in the way we engage with the people in our lives and the environment around us. So let's be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how realistic are you with the standards you set for yourself? Are you able to live by these standards?

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Would you agree that we've fallen victim to preconditioning, particularly with different shades of dark skin?

How about we take a moment to check ourselves: do you know your shade of dark?

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The fine line between comfort and complacency had us chasing our own tails, trying to figure out reasons behind 'letting yourself go', 'losing touch with your true self' and being complacent. This one's a little tricky but if you chip in, we can all find answers together.

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In light of how important this conversation is, we felt it necessary to dive deeper into the discussion and of course address the big elephant in the room - affordability.

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We reckon that everyone in their mid to late twenties needs a live-in therapist especially because it seems like life is always throwing jabs and we go through the most.

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We take a deep dive and open up about our insecurities. If you're brave enough, feel free to jump right in.

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Here we share stories of some of the most random and inconvenient things that have happened to us.

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On relationships - are we doing enough to nurture our relationships?

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This episode unpacks the complexities of black tax.