The STEAM To Live The Dream: Recent Episodes
Tajma Sherri Cameron
Financial Relationship and how the affect social circle and you Relationship your health and body if you can't afford to feed yourself healthy things, Relationship with your emotions because when your under financial constraints you fall into depression anxiety double sabotage Relationship how you view it love it scared of it do you hold onto it to tight or so loose you have none (you probably test the people around you the same way) Relationship spirituality with money, because of how you were taught by the people around you to handle money growing up understanding limiting beliefs
In the hustle and bustle of life, it's crucial to prioritize self-care. Take a step back, go on vacation, and nurture non-transactional relationships. Sometimes, all you need is to breathe, put the work down, and hit the reset button. This holistic approach addresses mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and social health.
Having too many voices in your life can be overwhelming. While seeking counsel is valuable, be cautious not to idolize others' opinions or philosophies. Scripture highlights the importance of seeking guidance but warns against becoming enslaved to others' beliefs. Delegation and discipleship can be beneficial, but ensure you retain your authenticity amidst external influences.
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Pausing Before the Finish Line:
- Life's akin to a triathlon, filled with unexpected twists.
- Pause before the final stretch to strategize and reflect.
- Join the movement on Discord @Barefruit for shared growth.
Navigating the Course:
- Embrace life's surprises; they shape your journey.
- Each decision is a chance for personal evolution.
- Take time to understand yourself and the path ahead.
Staying Resolute:
- Stand firm amid challenges and external judgments.
- Adjust your course as needed to stay on track.
- Embrace the journey, evolve, and conquer together! đââď¸đŞ #SeedBaringFruit #BareFruit #LifeTriathlon
Recognizing when you're no longer true to yourself and discontent is a crucial epiphany. As you evolve, those around you must either adapt or be outgrown. Letting go of old ways and embracing growth are essential aspects of maturity.
Transitioning from immature to mature beliefs is vital for inner peace and fulfillment. Don't prioritize chasing money; instead, focus on nurturing creativity. Remember, material wealth and beauty are fleeting, while inner peace endures.
Embracing change means understanding that growth may lead you in unexpected directions. Prioritize authenticity and personal evolution over external markers of success. True fulfillment comes from aligning with your values and passions.
Pivoting with Purpose
- Chaos in Change: Pivoting in your endeavors may seem like the way forward, but it can lead to a state of confusion and disarray. Constantly shifting gears without a clear direction can leave you feeling lost and unsure of your path. It's like throwing spaghetti at the wall and hoping something sticks, but in reality, it only adds to the chaos.
- Stay Grounded: Amidst the whirlwind of change, it's crucial to pause and find your center. Take the time to reflect on your journey and realign with your original intentions. Remember why you started in the first place and stick to your plan. By staying grounded and focused, you can navigate through the turbulence with clarity and purpose.
- Avoiding Burnout: The pressure to keep up with industry trends and maintain a certain image can be overwhelming. Many fall into the trap of becoming people-pleasers, sacrificing authenticity for fleeting fame. However, this path often leads to self-sabotage and burnout. It's essential to prioritize your well-being and resist the temptation to conform. Don't let the allure of success overshadow your true values and beliefs. Instead, focus on creating meaningful work that resonates with your core identity.
In the journey of growth, one might unwittingly mirror those they admire most. Consuming their content, you may find yourself echoing their words and actions. It's a subtle shift, like synchronizing with others' cycles. Yet, beware the peril of losing oneself in the process. The pressure to conform to trends can be overwhelming, leading to short-lived success or even self-sabotage.
Attempting to emulate what's popular risks sacrificing authenticity for fleeting fame. Whether it's in content creation or any industry, the temptation to please others and conform is ever-present. But yielding to this pressure can be detrimental, leaving one feeling lost and overwhelmed. The weight of expectations and obligations can crush even the most promising talents.
Ultimately, the path to enduring success lies in staying true to oneself. It's about resisting the urge to copycat and instead embracing individuality. By forging your own path and creating content that resonates with your true self, you can avoid the pitfalls of conformity and build a lasting legacy in your field.
Once you've established your brand and achieved success, there's a temptation to keep expanding relentlessly. However, stretching beyond your limits can lead to an inability to sustain your growth. You may hit a ceiling in coaching, creating and developing in any creative field, scaling, or high-ticket offerings, unable to manage the weight of your commitments. Ignoring warning signs and failing to pace yourself can result in self-sabotage or burnout. It's crucial to recognize when to slow down and maintain a sustainable pace to avoid jeopardizing your reputation and the integrity of your brand.
Committing to providing connections can sometimes lead to using connections and attachments as collateral, especially when one doesn't feel important enough to carry the weight alone. This can result in spreading oneself too thin, running ragged to gain access to people or events, often without genuine interest but rather for reciprocal benefits like follow-for-follow or invite-for-invite exchanges.
Overcommitment in various areas such as VIP engagements, coaching, or commitments to others can lead to exhaustion and neglect of personal desires or goals. Despite wanting growth, individuals may find themselves overwhelmed with too many commitments, stretching themselves thin to maintain it all.
Overcommitting can stem from a desire to prove oneself or seek validation from others, leading to unnecessary weight and stress. Trying to compete or outshine others can result in creating additional work that is unsustainable in the long run. It's essential to focus on personal goals and desires rather than trying to meet unrealistic expectations set by others. Approving oneself and finding validation from within is key to avoiding the trap of overcommitment and unnecessary stress.
Events, once quaint, now escalate into complex productions with planners, venues, and costs. From chairs to catering, each detail demands attention. The responsibility burgeons as the scale expands, necessitating meticulous planning and financial investments. However, this expansion can become a burdensome prison, enslaving you to endless tasks and financial pursuits, trapping you in a cycle of sunk costs.
Imposter syndrome amplifies this burden, compelling you to overextend yourself to prove your worth. Doubts about the value of your offerings lead to excessive generosity, flooding your clients with extra courses and services. The pressure to validate your worth through quantity eclipses the confidence in your quality, perpetuating a cycle of overcommitment and self-doubt.
As opportunities start pouring in, including invitations to speak at events, be prepared to handle the increased attention and demands on your time. From speaking engagements to guest appearances on podcasts, you'll find yourself on various platforms, engaging with diverse audiences. Ensure you're equipped to manage these opportunities effectively and make the most out of each interaction.
As you navigate these new waters, be mindful of impostor syndrome and the temptation to compare yourself to others. Remember, your journey is unique, and you're not in competition with anyone else. Focus on honing your craft, staying true to your vision, and resisting the urge to conform to trends or mimic others' paths. Embrace authenticity and follow your heart, regardless of what's popular or trending in the industry.
Keep your focus on the purpose behind your creations and the message you aim to share with the world. By remaining committed to your vision and staying true to yourself, you'll cultivate a sense of authenticity that resonates with your audience and sets you apart in the crowded landscape of content creation.
In the pursuit of a fabricated lifestyle, individuals often create personas to keep up with societal expectations, sacrificing authenticity. However, chasing after illusions and shiny objects leads to exhaustion and people-pleasing behavior. This cycle traps individuals, pulling them in different directions until they learn to say no and discern true friendships. Moreover, adopting a performative lifestyle devoid of a solid foundation ultimately results in an identity crisis and unsustainable living, highlighting the importance of setting genuine intentions and maintaining authenticity.
Segment 1
The allure of social media often tempts individuals to focus solely on the desired future outcome rather than embracing the present reality. Personas of success portrayed online may create unrealistic expectations, leading people to overlook the importance of engaging with their current circumstances. However, true progress often requires acknowledging and embracing the challenges and opportunities of the present moment.Segment 2
Many individuals become reactive creators due to growth anxiety and a desperate urge to catch up. Without a clear axis point in their creative world, they risk spinning out of control, leading to a loss of direction and purpose. In these moments, it's crucial to pause, center oneself, and refocus on the original purpose and plan.Segment 3:Pressure often leaves individuals stuck in the future, fixating on the end goal without acknowledging the importance of operating from the present moment. While it's essential to begin with the end in mind, it's equally vital to recognize the steps needed to progress from the current situation towards that goal. Reverse engineering the path to the end requires acknowledging one's present position and moving forward accordingly.
- Deadlines Pressures and PromisesWhen you're a creative, working at your own pace and on your own time feels natural. Artists are often seen as fickle because deadlines force them to rush their work. Authenticity fuels creativity, but deadlines can lead to blocks and walls, hindering the creative flow.
- Performing under PressureDeadlines and parameters often trigger creativity blocks, pushing creatives into performance mode. While AI might seem like an easy solution, relying on it sacrifices authenticity. Many creators react to growth with anxiety, losing focus and veering off course without a solid plan.
BONUS SEGMENT 3. Avoiding Reactive CreationTo avoid becoming a reactive creator, it's crucial to pause, center yourself, and refocus on your original goals. Without a plan, pressure can lead to failure. Stick to your plan, even when external pressures mount, to maintain authenticity and creativity.
Managing a team is a significant responsibility that not everyone is prepared for. Patricia Bright's experience underscores the importance of nurturing team relationships once you have them. For introverts, who may prefer solitude over socializing, the prospect of managing people can be overwhelming. Shameless Maya's journey highlights the weight of managing a team and catering to their diverse needs. It's essential to understand that managing a team requires constant adjustments, as needs and circumstances change over time. Therefore, being flexible and adaptable is key to successful team management.
The Importance of Team VettingIt cannot be overstated: vetting your team is crucial. Ignoring this step can lead to disastrous consequences.
Segment 2: Personal ExperienceI once found myself in a leadership role, only to have my entire presentation stolen by a member of my own team. Additionally, I lacked the authority to remove an unproductive team member, causing further frustration and hindrance.
Segment 3: Your Team is Not Your FriendsRemember, your employees are not your friends. This reality hit home for me through the story of Ms. Stancel, who exemplified the need to maintain professional boundaries even amidst camaraderie.
At times, growth can become unstable, surpassing your ability to manage it effectively. This scenario represents a pivotal moment where you must adapt quickly to prevent potential collapse. Sustainable growth necessitates adjustments and the strategic integration of a capable team to support and manage the expanding demands.
Scaling Strategy: Course Development
- Package Your Expertise:
Transform your knowledge into a structured course format.
- Development Phases:Design stages, phases, and essential elements of the course.
- Targeted Reach:
Identify your audience, meet them where they are, and guide them towards their goals.
Desire to Coach
- Many aspire to be coaches for high engagement.
- Initial desire for high touch point with audience.
Limitations of Personal Engagement
- As popularity grows, demand for personal interaction increases.
- Realization: You're only one person; can't meet everyone's needs.
Unsustainability of High Touch
- Holding onto high touch becomes unsustainable.
- Unsustainable to maintain control without a team.
Necessity of Building a Team
- Vital to build a team to avoid burnout.
- Sustainable success requires delegation and support.
Becoming a Content Creator: A Strategic Approach
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Long-Term Perspective:
- Understand content creation is a marathon, not a sprint.
- Commit for the long haul to avoid quitting prematurely due to growth pressures.
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Pacing Yourself:
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Set limits on content creation to maintain comfort and avoid burnout.
- Determine a minimum and maximum amount of content production based on personal capacity.
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Self-Assessment:
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Reflect on consistency and dedication before diving in.
- Assess commitment levels and readiness to dedicate time and effort.
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Strategic Planning:
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Identify your niche and industry to tailor your content.
- Develop a comprehensive plan with specific timelines for content creation and breaks.
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Continuous Improvement:
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Analyze viral content to understand its success factors.
- Leverage insights to enhance future content and maximize impact.
Coaching:Coaching can be an appealing career path for individuals with a unique skill set and a deep understanding of their field. It's a natural progression for many to transition into coaching roles, inspired by successful figures like
- People possess skills and understanding, leading them to become coaches.
- Examples: Russel Brunson, Toni Roberts, Dean Graziosi.
- However, consider if that's the path you truly desire.
who have achieved multi-billionaire status in the coaching industry. However, before diving headfirst into coaching, it's crucial to pause and reflect on whether this path aligns with your long-term goals and aspirations. While the allure of financial success may be tempting, it's essential to consider whether coaching fulfills your deeper purpose and passion in life.
Follow the journey, but beware of quick fixes. Crafting a personal brand or coaching requires patience and consistency. Virality demands preparation for rapid growth. #PursueDreams
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Are you ready to adapt when the path shifts unexpectedly? Stick to your decisions, focus on progress, and course correct as needed to reach your goals. #Adaptability
Follow the Journey: Understanding Why Influencers Jump Ship
As I reminisce about my entry into the content creation market, I recall a pivotal moment: stumbling upon a video featuring a young woman who pursued modeling, only to lose herself along the way. Her success was overshadowed by a loss of control and identity, leading to tears of despair.
Fast forward to the present, and we're witnessing a trend of creators abandoning their platforms, overwhelmed by the demands of their craft. Let's delve into the evolution of this phenomenon.
Many creators initially establish their influencer brands with the intent of cultivating a recognizable persona on platforms like YouTube. However, three significant issues often arise:
- Directionless Creation: Some creators lack a clear purpose, merely seeking a presence without a defined goal.
- Limited Vision as Influencers: Others aspire to expand their sphere of influence but confine their aspirations within a controlled bubble, hindering potential growth.
- Self-Destructive Patterns: When creators exceed their capacity without a corresponding intention to reach such heights, they often succumb to self-sabotage.
As responsibilities mount, creators may find themselves veering away from their original vision. With the introduction of teams, sales commissions, and employees, content creation becomes overshadowed by obligations to maintain salaries and appease stakeholders.
The once-authentic content creation process transforms into a performance-driven endeavor, driven by metrics, algorithms, and financial pressures. Burdened by administrative tasks, creators lose touch with their creative essence, experiencing blocks and a disconnect from their initial passion.
Why?
The transition from authenticity to performance occurs gradually, often unnoticed, as creators prioritize brand survival over personal fulfillment. Struggling to cope, some resort to destructive coping mechanisms, seeking refuge from mounting pressures.
Inexperienced and overwhelmed, many creators fail to recognize the power of saying "no," succumbing to obligations and commitments that exacerbate their stress. Faced with unfulfillment, they grasp at distractions in a subconscious attempt to fill the void, inadvertently setting themselves up for potential collapse.
In conclusion, navigating the influencer landscape requires a delicate balance between ambition and self-care. With reflection and resilience, creators can navigate the challenges they encounter, ensuring their journey remains true to their authentic selves. Join the conversation on Discord @Barefruit and connect with me on Instagram using #seedbaringfruit #barefruit. Are you ready to embrace change and make the necessary adjustments to reach your goals amidst scrutiny and judgment?
there is a process to everything but when you remember slow and steady wins the race with consistency in DUE time you will recieve a result for your efforts
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Are you willing to take a cure in stride even if it's not the direction you originally planned to Go in
- That means when people begin to come at you because you told them you were going one way and they want to remind you you didn't Go that why
- Situation offered you a way out that curved in a direction that you were not expecting to go
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things came up in the way that caused you to detour this may mean you have to come back and approach it from a different direction
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Know that you made the best decision you could make for you in that situation and circumstance
- don't back down or out because it makes others feel uncomfortable
- instead focus on finishing what you need to complete determine how far off the curve you were and course correct so you can hit the target the next time
When under that level of scrutiny and judgement What changes are you willing to make to hit your target the next time you have to make important decision
When you are Building streams of income in these creative arts and entertainment street you have to realize your playing chess not checkers and act accorddingly
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how are you Building streams of income for yourself in order to make sure that you are building generational wealth here is what i suggest in order to build in these area
- determine what area's you have skills in and what it is that your good at these are your gifts and talents and how are you going to use them
- how do these gifts and talents have a industry that they best fit in and how are you going to use them to do so
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line them up you most loved to your least loved and determine what our of this set your going to be known for
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Know that it's going to take a 9 month period to launch the thing you developing
- Don't give up remain dedicated and commiteed and that's when and were people will know and create
- Instead determine what and where your building a look a developing organic reach
when other see you what is that your going to want others to know you for What are seven to 9 streams of income you would be interested in starting if you could
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How do you go about the procession regrouping after you have done all that you need to do Suggestion of where to start
- comb through your process and see how you can tighten up in certain area's and how has it made a impact on you
- what places have you seen throughout this process that you now understand you need to take the time and back away from
- what things and activities did you do that were helps or were hindrances in the long run
- know that no matter what you do is going to take a process it's just determing what that is in the season at hand
- Don't over think and worry about it relax reset and release it
- Instead take in your accomplishment celebrate those and then look back at it with a clear head evaluate for growth for later
Are you more worried of external judgement and why is that that you feel that way
How do you go about the procession regrouping after you have done all that you need to do
When you have made it through the valley and you still have to climb up the mountain what that looks like and how to get though itfollow the movement on Discord @Barefruit
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it's time to reset in order to be able to make this time and take this climb up climb because this is different then just climbing from a low revene your climbing out to ground level your climbing up higher elevations
so what do I believe would be best
- take the time to determine what it is that your focal point that your climbing up to
- do you have a accountability partner in or to keep you climbing when the road get rough
- what things are you carrying on the journey that you don't need that are weighing you down making it harder for you to travel
people may observe you on the journey certain people are going to be helping or hindering you As your climbing you find that your family may be the ones that are pulling you back calling you taking you on your travels not allowing you to get though it you are running a marathon and at points in time your going to using cleats to climb
using tools to grip the mountain on hire places in the mountain
some may come along and help lifter to hire parts of the mountain as you get tired give you new energy you closer to the destination but it won't be all the way but it will be far enough you can get to where your suppose to be.
What are some activities that you do to prepare to go into heavy project how does it help you focus and main it thought the journey to your goals?
What it looks like to walk through the Valley
follow the movement on Discord @Barefruit link me on Instagram #seedbaringfruit #barefruitWhat is it like for when you have to walk through a valley and what it takes to get from one end of the valley to the other so what do I believe would be best
- take the time to determine what it is that your focal point getting to the other side of that valley to that base of the mountain
- do you have a accountability partner in or to keep you weather their riding with you in a car or driving you through portion of the way
- what things are you carrying on the journey that you don't need that are weighing you down making it harder for you to travel
people may observe you on the journey certain people are going to be helping or hindering you As your walking you find that your family may be the ones that are pulling you back calling you taking you on your travels not allowing you to get though it you are running a marathon and at points in time your going to Run
Bike
some may come along and drive you closer to the destination but it won't be all the way but it will be far enough you can get to where your suppose to be.
What are some activities that you do to prepare to go into heavy project how does it help you focus and main it thought the journey to your goals?
You need to Recognize your deficiency and then you have to make the corrections and develop and change it follow the movement on Discord @Barefruit
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Do you know what area's you are deficient in and are you willing to let those things go and release them so that you can begin to build and grow in the right direction
Are you
- A people person or a people pleaser and how is that impact you on your day to day life
- in the situation that you are currently in where are you lacing and how can you improve to make it better and easier on you
- what are the simplest day to day action you can take to move the needle forward and turn your weakness into strengths
- know that people never see you for what you are but they see you for the deficiency in them and they either love you for it or hate you because you show them were they lack in themselves
- Don't let it get under your skin because you were willing to do something they weren't to get a different result they were not willing to get
- instead take it in stride and know that it helping push you further faster and keep moving forward
When you see people looking at you judge you for so what are few of your deficiencies and can you think of ways to turn them into strengths
Knowing and Identifying your Tribe
Remember - The 5 Closest people to You
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Who is in your tribe and how did you manage to find them
Suggestion
Look at the harmony chart understand who is on each level
Position your tribe members accordingly who keeps and respects you intimate space each person that you have determined and tested does not respect you or your boundaries or get irritated with the level of how out of the know they actually are
- What is the benefit of having these relationships
- Are they helping you move forward in your life or are they holding you back
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Are you holding on to these relationship because of past comforts but it holds no weight in this season
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When it comes to family events you no longer fit in because you no longer desire to fill yourself with nonsense conversation in a season when your just not in a season that you have time for useless conversation
- your not interested in small talk about the pointless sporting events or news programs if it's not feeding you in the direction that your going in
- if the relationship is not streaking to meet you as you grow what is it that you are keeping it around for
people will externally look at your growth and self awareness and let you know consistently how "YOU"VE CHANGED" and you did because no don't get rid of your friends unless they are toxic but it's a point of time you have to determine that you are going to need to rearrange there closeness and importance in certain season
Who is in your tribe and how did you manage to find them?
it's time to Birth That thing you have been pregnant with
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- That vision
- That Dream
- That Career
DO you know what it is to be pregnant with purpose and at the point of being ready to birth something if you look at a actual woman when shes actually in labor she must be in the right position to birth
- the people around here when it comes time for her to birth that thing that she is desiring to birth must be aligned to back the process easier for her
- she must be in the right place ( mentally Emotionally and spiritually to make it happen smoothly
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The little things that would be distractions to her in the process must be identified and removed
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know who you can trust to be a part of this experience with you ( 5 closet people to you)
- Don't force yourself to birth that thing to early or delay the process because of the pain
- instead Prepare Prepare PREPARE!!!
People will be on looking the situation from the waiting room or waiting to see the babies after
What is your purpose and what are you carrying waiting to birth (if you care to share)
Life is a journey full of a winding roads but its a choice that you make to keep on moving through it
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What does a journey really look like in this time and season for you is it
- you taking the time to identify that you do desire love marriage and relationship
- what in your life is it that is not moving and moving for you
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are you suppose to be building in real estate and creating generational wealth
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But know that i hope with all that you have heard you have come to wisdom and understanding this is a long running journey
- Don't be discourage by the length of the journey but you take the time to recognize and enjoy the ride
- instead take what you have learned and apply it
others may not understand it but it's not for them to understand until they see it If Life is a journey full of test twists and winding roads you'll come to find
What keeps you going on this journey for you?
We can be the strong powerful independent woman go getter but wouldn't it be okay to have some HELP, a a partner in your personal life and your business life what's wrong with that
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Why as woman do we feel like it's a badge of honor to do BAD by ourselves
- allowing people around you to push and project upon you the stereotype of that hustling independent woman when you know that not what you really want
- situation may present them selves that will test you in the areas that you know that your in relation and relationship (Business, Romance and Friendship)
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There are things over time that you have to deal with and ask yourself as to why you feel like you have to do it all by yourself
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Know that you have to one be able to admit you can't carry it ALL by yourself
- Don't Force yourself to fit the stereotype that your not really desiring to stand or walk in when it can be easier
- it's easier to do the things your called to do because when you have some to catch you because how can two walk together unless they agree
yes there are movements for feminine empowerment and growth you have to go through the process and when your going through the process if one falls the other can pick them up and they can keep each other warm which make it EASIER to carry this assignment throughout your life
Is it such a bad thing to have and share to have a balanced relationship and build together?
Which way is better Independent organic growth or hiring on Help to grow
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What is better for you to be independent growth or is it going to be a level of organic growth what is the best way for you to grow in this season
- Bring people into the situation and how are you going out there and reach out and reach those people
- place how are you growing out your communities are you doing it person by person your self
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Are you doing something that make the things that you need to do that makes it easier
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your building a online family and are you going to be present and operate in authentic Audacity
- are you building a community around sport entertain or even creative supportive endeavors and experience
- are you helping people help each other as they aspire to there life aspiration
are you listening to all the gurus and seeing Ai happy application Look up somewhere on your screen you'll see SOMETHING AI
What can you afford to do to build and ethically can you create a proper connection that will last the test of time for your brand?
My Journey into Podcasting and why I do it
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Why would anyone what to start a podcast here a few Ideas
- you have a book and you have a specific topic you want to talk about related to it and your desiring to grow it and it's audience
- maybe your into a specific sport do it or you watch it and you want to create a interactive video/podcast to give people a different perspective
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there are things that your passionate about look at what they are what is the stream line in them and you can do sections and segment s to create a show around it
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that your audience may not be you family your friends or your peers because what your talking about may not fit that set of people
- how are you speaking to that set and group of people that don't know and can't understand it
- how are you aspiring to build and grow this thing and is it a long term
So that when you have listeners or subscribers to you podcast it will create a audience and community you have to know
What are you growing into and how are you go to build your own show if you were to start your own process
When the process to your dreams and goals doesn't look like you would like but it's worth it
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It you knew you had to climb to get to your creative goals but how do you walk in that so what do I believe would be best
- take the time to determine what it is that your focal point that your climbing up to
- do you have a accountability partner in or to keep you climbing when the road get rough
- what things are you carrying on the journey that you don't need that are weighing you down making it harder for you to travel
people may observe you on the journey certain people are going to be helping or hindering you As your climbing you find that your family may be the ones that are pulling you back calling you taking you on your travels not allowing you to get though it you are running a marathon and at points in time your going to Run
Bike
some may come along and drive you closer to the destination but it won't be all the way but it will be far enough you can get to where your suppose to be.
What are some activities that you do to prepare to go into heavy project how does it help you focus and main it thought the journey to your goals?
Not every opportunity that comes to you is what it says it is at face value if you allow the process to prune you you will decern grow a thicker skin and be better to handle the real deal later
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Are you willing to let go of the right now gratification for something better later
Suggestion
What if what you are seeing in front of you right now may be a good opportunity
you may need
people may need for you to get it
but Gods timing is perfect
People Will wait for you even if they act like they can't or they won't take it back into your quiet place
Places aren't going anywhere it will still be there and those things will continue to be there a and you will be able to handle them with better and even more of a straight head and mindset and thought process
What opportunity are you looking at Infront of you that if you take a moment take it to your internal compass and if you wait you may get something better?
When you have to make a career change and make a decision that's best for you
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Are you willing to choose your passion over what other may desire fore you Suggestion
Are you waling in the direction that you should be are you conforming to
- The ideals of the people around you trying to project apron you what exactly it is that they think you should do
- Places that you are living in and the environment that your living in that pressing in on you
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what things are happening around you that are also forcing you to make the decision
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it not your families job to be able to make this decision IT'S YOURS
- it doesn't matter what irrelevant things come in and come together to distract 'Focus'
- know that the things your aspiring to do are very specific things make specific decision and they can not be avoided
People may not fully understand that the decision that you are making in this hour and that they don't need to so the Question is
Are you willing to choose your passion over what other may desire fore you?
Life is Always going to be Lif'in but you have to not let what going on in life distract you from your passion NO MATTER WHAT... Eventually you will look up and find out your Exactly where your supposed to be
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Can you handle the pressure of the things that are happening
- in the lives of the people that you are surrounding you
- understanding there is a pressure to Move in the Physical and the Spiritual
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what situations your dealing with that is pressure because you are birthing and developing something new
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Family will not understand what is and why you feel the pressure that your under and that your feeling
- your not play checkers your playing tournament level chess and you gotta know that you have to position yourself for the fight know how to work your board
- understanding that what your trying to aspiring to walk into but do so with discerning heart and mind
People on the outside may not understand the pressure that your going though just like when your dealing with and this is a season of birthing those people just might not supposed to be in your birthing your in this season
Are you willing to stand in the midst of pressure in the career endeavors your called to no matter the external pressure to move you out of position?
What are you willi g to endure to get to your open door.
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What would you do if you had to choose between one direction that you were going and going into a completely different one what would i suggest
- that you take in that thing that you have taken time to invested all your time and energy into
- knowing that when your in the right field you are going in the right direction making the right connection
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but when your in the wrong area and direction it will all be as unto sinking sand and your going in the wrong direction
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Know that choosing to take a different perspective on that thing
- don't feel like your looing anything because your deciding to make that change and begin to walk in that direction
- instead of looking at all the time that was lost take to time to look at the bare bone skills you learned while in that field and how you can apply it to this new time and space your being sent into.
Others may not understand you may have spent so much time going in that direction and would give all that up
What is it that you need to shift perspective in that you have to start over in a completely new field where are you starting?
My Heart for coaching and why i wanted to do it
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why would a person decide to be a coach in any particular field
- if you want to become a coach are you coaching person as a coach
- Place is your coaching dependent on the specific area or industry
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Or art you coaching in relation to a thing as a consultant
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Impacting in Your and on other families
- it's no joke it's not a gave and you have to position yourself in order to be
- I aspired to take my book my influence and what i have to make an impact on peoples lives and know that i blessed people for making a change in there life on a deep level
people may not understand why anyone would want to be a coach because its a inner knowing your called to do more and help you have the ability to see that you are
Do you want to be a choice and what kind of impact do you want to make on peoples lives with that gift.
These social media streets Are Real so let me help you look at some practical ways to fix that but you have to know the game
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social Media the only way that you can grow and jumping into that BEAST environment even worth it can you even grow and what would i suggest
- studying the social media outlet your desiring to become a part of it
- know that the algorithm is going to change every three weeks to three months and you need to find YOUR anchor in what you do
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How can you collaborate join groups and communities in order to begin to grow for REAL
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What is your target are you developing something for family oriented grouping
- maybe you are creative or into sports how do you show a new audience that your worthy looking at in your sports field
- what are you aspiring to do and how do you find that niche in order to grow
But when you are trying to attract people from the outside to bring them into something new that your working on how do you attract them.
So the question is
Do you think you can create something and gather real traction With or without social media and Why.
You are either going to grow or be held back Evaluate your circle check it and adjust accordingly
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What is it that you find is most important about the relationships you have in your life my suggestion is that you take the time to look over each of your relationship
- What is the benefit of having these relationships
- Are they helping you move forward in your life or are they holding you back
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Are you holding on to these relationship because of past comforts but it holds no weight in this season
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When it comes to family events you no longer fit in because you no longer desire to fill yourself with nonsense conversation in a season when your just not in a season that you have time for useless conversation
- your not interested in small talk about the pointless sporting events or news programs if it's not feeding you in the direction that your going in
- if the relationship is not streaking to meet you as you grow what is it that you are keeping it around for
people will externally look at your growth and self awareness and let you know consistently how "YOU"VE CHANGED" and you did because no don't get rid of your friends unless they are toxic but it's a point of time you have to determine that you are going to need to rearrange there closeness and importance in certain season
Are the people you have around you benefiting you in this season helping you toward your goals or Naw?
Things that will make you money so that while your growing you have residual income.
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What are you going to do in order to come to the understanding what you can do Real Estate and Finance
- understanding that with the right connection network and joint relationship
- understanding that there are properties and how you set those places up to be a financial blessing
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What are the financial repercussion that you can avoid and or put into position to prosper
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having a property and the holding owner ship of a deed on property condo home and even land
- making a investment into thing that can be something that you can draw on later
- taking the intellectual property that you have protecting it and using the internet to real estate
But some people will look at things and not see the ways that it can be a benefit and investment that can be flips and turn in a way that can bless you you family will be able to get generational wealth off of you
What things can you do now invest in and position yourself to financial prosper as a investment later?
If you can make it to New York you can make it through New York and what it takes to give and to Grow
If we are what we eat in order to cult our bodies for the race to our dreams we need to be eating right.
There is a danger to aspiring to walk in a creative journey without a pure heart and clear head and a clear mind.
Don't let what seems normal to them pressure you into comprising your views health or body.
When you have skills and abilities that can make you influential as you are focusing for the manifestation of your career the process into it how to stay in it and the mindset it takes to realize the weight it takes to go from the elevation of BRING in that place but still LIVING day to day in the regular life.
Welcome to a New Year and a New You Happy New year but what can you expect to see in the coming year for the showÂ
Year End Reflections letting you know where we have been and what's to come for the show what the desire is for next year
After all you have seen in the past two years how are you really preparing for a rainny day, do you have a savings are you really saving and how are you preparing an emergancy fund in ordrt to protect you how would you prepare now to protect yourself in the futre if this or something like it were to happen again
Things happen in our life that we can't control but it hpw we decide to strtically recover from those moements makes all the difference
RICH people Don't run around buying up all the high end stores they are practicale and spend there money in places that are more likely to be benificial and make more impact, so DON'T try to keep up with the Jones Shope smart not Hard
they don't need to know they are doing better then you or vs versa in a moment it's two people and status doesn't mater what information that needs to be exchanged is what matters
when you are one that wants to get married and you have kids it can be business but there needs to be a balance but you can never give all yourself to your job but you also can't give all yourself to your kids
The childless woman is incomplete but the flip to that is the stay at home mom is unfullfilled can you be both can you be happy doing both as a balanced woman finding that balnce so lets look at both perspectives shall we... come see me, Let go
As Woman it can be difficult to understand if your strong a biulder have a indepence but when they get indepence its hard to step back and be a wife you end up rulling over the person that is the husband and end up treating them like they are there child
Are you a Abundant Thinker what is it and what makes you think abundently or are you in a mental place of lack and how is this in both areas affecting your life on both in all areas
A lot of people find themeselves in a place of wondering when it comes down to the imporant moves they need to make instead of going the distance because going the distance means that you have to make certain sacrifices to win your race mentially emotionaly and financially.
Some Woman are willing to settle for what keeps them comfortable or more importantly what keeps OTHER peoples comfortable, instead if they choose to marry someone that chose them that was secure, you have the ablity to make your own choices.
Married and Miserable is better then single and happy? You should always fight for your marriage but you never need to inable EXTREMELY bad behavior, its better to be single and let the other person get a CLUE!!
I Know female Impowerment is a big thing but I truly beleave that females need to be more aware of a mans place espcially if they are the one thats giving them the security, becuase least they forget the man does not have to be their and when he drops you it will be swift you won't know what happened so it would behove you to act right.
in some situation you should make the choice to stratigically let someone down because the saying goes "be careful of the people you step on on the way up because you pass them on the way back down"
Learning to embrace our feminity and being able to truely walk in it and the grace to be able to be in it
Is security worth it if it's not truly secure, allowing a narcisistic person to control your life your money, and your relationships wil have a major effect on your health and if you walk away DON'T EVER RETURN
Your most important things you can do is the fact that you are able to make decisons, and what you do with the decisons you desire to makeÂ
As a woman we have to almost think like a man act like a woman and demand respect and we seem to have to ask to be allowed to demand it is it just me or am i the only one that doen't think that is right?
you need to understand there is a difference between the investing in yourself sowing into other and spending but there is a abundance in when you go through the process and learn the way and the order in order to do so.Â
You should always desire to become debt free because once you are debt free you understand to handle money and the best way to know that is to understand the midset behind your money
Woman desire when they get married not to just be married and have kids they desire to be a all around woman so when she gets marred she wants to have the balance of both, having her family life and having her own thing it's nice to have balance of family and career
a woman should never desire to Man up in her life her first desire should be to find her purpouse and desire to biuld the areas around those areas to help her be stong as a inpepentent person but be able to be e efficiant and affective partner to another because at some point she may find herself feeling incomplete
There is a a area of entitlement that we have as people that stems from carrying a Pride that we are all to proud to carry and in carrying that pride we also become codependent to thngs that we are not meant to and because they know no better
wealth has a weight to it and if your not careful the way that your life will change people will view you and people will envy you will fold you up into something you will not recognize because of the presser can you stand it
We are taught to belive somethings that are not always true a person can here one persons theory of throught and then hear the same thing under a different believe system what came first the Chicken or the egg
What does love have to do with it if it's going to be messing with your money, their are major things that happeing in your finances but it may have to do with the people your romatically attached to can eithere take away money from you or add money to you
your Relationships are Bondages that are messing with your money and they are affecting how you see money and they are holding you up and delaying your financial prosparity
Generational habits creating issues and that people don't have the true understanding of how Epidegenics effect the fears and other issues that were created in previous generation that create fear around money
A lot of people don't understand that the reason they are in povery is because of the fact they are operating in lack and came into agrement with it and have to agree to come out of agrement with that in order to reset there mind by remove and replace.
All good character istic for a woman or man that is about there busines and they are driven to be and to do what they are called to do they may not have the cash right now But its very obious that that won't be the case for longÂ
The New and Improved show what we are staning for as we start the new season and the shift in the alignment of the show as we Grow and stay tuned for the relaunch of the previous show.
What do you view wholeness as Really and the misconstruction of the topic it in the eye of the beholder?
Anyone ready for the changes and the shifts that are meant for you to walk in collaborations shifts and changes in the right places right time etc
your in your season to birth so as we go through our last contractions for the last push into the breakthrough
Where are in a New Year and I have a New Year Vison it was slow to start so how are your starting the Vision
This is the Brainstorming of a Podcast bonus that my podcast Lovers get to Listen to to help them biuld here podcast BrandÂ
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I have listened to gospel and I have examined the music indusry for gospel and then I have looked at secular and I have heard how bad that is and I have heard musician that love god be secuar and make it but also I have seen the reverse people that love god go gospal and be vilifited and I think about what God has put in my and it begs the Question... what should i really be doing..
My journey through music (Special spotify episode because ALL the music is on it on spotify premeiring 6pm)
is it a goood thing for woman to remain in feminine power or are the uncounsciously Missing the mark without the WISDOM of a partner
the conscious artist that is aware of the things that go on and finally come to place of frustration
The artist that creates there life and life style throught their creativity and what it take to be able to balance thatÂ
when you get the opertunity to see two sides of the street the Grass is always greener on the other side and how you will go from the back to the front
you have to learn to trust your insticts when you feel them they will tell you which way to go when to take the leap and when to stand still when to keep going and when to give up... questionis do you trust yours
we live in a society that doesn't like to see what is there norm shaken up they don't like to see hear smell or taste something that doesn't fir them they love routine and they hate change so when yo through a curve ball into there field of vision it's a preceived attack but in order to make a impact you have to challenge the quidproquo... are you willing to risk being canceled to do it though
Sometimes we have to make choses and decison that coause us to choose to take a leap we may not have been comfortable to make without having had the obsticale to make us make the decison could you make the decision.
Do you Know what it is to Be set Free... Most of us don't because we deal with constant opression on a daily basis and it can be hard to find that element of freedom be still we have to stand in the uncomfortable place when all we desire is freedom but we must be set free in our mind befor our circumstance will set us free.
Creating your own style based on you not on what is treanding know what you like not what they like
take the time to give yourself the time to rest recouparate and determine what your next set of moves are for the next season
Sometimes the only difference between getting what you need and where you are is having the faith to take the Leap
Do you have a purpose and A untapped Potential that you have yet to discover but your yearning to see your life change so much that you feel it in the pit of your stomach Pulling you to transion into a change that you don't know how to get to Let me show you the way
Let your No be your No and let your yes be important to you because YOU are passionate about that project.
Can we stop paying for teaching Please when we we know we can't afford it the be robbing peter to pay paul for your BILLS to get paid
The three strgies that will put you in order so that you know what you should do learn and grow
Your social media presences and having the ability to use it and to do it consistantly because this prepares to for the time in which you launch and maintain after launch
Episode and BONUS
Know your Lane and Run in it Identify who you are what you stand for and what your sound is in what ever it is that you do and "all the people you are ment to be called to will be added unto you"
Episode and BONUS
In our Current Cliement of Life is touring dead... can Touring ever get back to what it once was and if it doesent what is it that can be done in this new phase of Performing art.
Done belive the hype, there is a alot of phoniness and fakeness in certain area's of creativity know who you are and don't sell out 'Don't Belive the hype'
Discover as you go but you gotta keep goining in order to know where your going you have to put one foot in front of each other and then you will find out but keep your goal in your view finderÂ
You must be wing to fight for your identiy, who you are and stand for what you believe because sa the saying goes "if you don't stand for something you will fall for anything"
as we Go we Learn Lessons in Life as we go through and grow through the Processes in Life as life happens
being able to wait for the RIGHT ONE to come and knoing how to do so Biblblically, What does that have to do with business EVERYTHING because you have to be in Alignment with the right person that ment to help you walk out your Purpose and your creative Idea's and to do so with the least amount of resistance in your relationship and Business.
.it's Just that simple, I they want to be normail because of the fact that they want people to see them for who they are and not for the status that they have, the person behind the celebrity, and the normal person just wants to be seen for being important special and that they have value and influence so to get attention from someone with status helps them gain understanding.
We are in a season after beeing in the thick of a lock down uncertain weather things are going to remain open or try to shut back down again and wonderring where is the love will we beable to find love in the misdt of the situation
Allowing you to get to Know me on a Different Level. Which can be a reminder for you and A Reminder For Me.
Are you ready
Are you ready to reintigraite back into society
Are you ready to figure out were you are
As a creative, artist
someone looking to get back out in the work world
or the word in general... are you ready
when evere you are preparing for a Break through there is always a Breaking that happens first
the process of birthing will be the most stressful experience you go through but it will be worth it for the result you recieve
What it feels like when you are full off talent and feel weighted down pregnent and about to burst and uncertain of what to do next