The BE/DO Concept Podcast: Recent Episodes
Lindy Kerby
Lindy was praying for help in trying to love her husband and improve her marriage. That’s when she discovered The BE/DO Concept®. Now each week she shares part of this concept that gives people hope that they can improve their relationships, their lives, and better BE who they were meant to BE and DO what they were meant to DO!
I learned about The BE/DO Concept during a very difficult time in my life when I was depressed, angry and didn’t feel much hope that life was ever going to get better. Learning The BE/DO Concept has helped me completely change my life. It’s given me hope and helped me move forward in powerful ways. Learn about my story and learn how you can feel the same hope I do!
In this episode, I talk about:
- My experience learning The BE/DO Concept®
- How I was humbled and realized that my husband thought in an opposite way
- How I began seeing a different perspective
- How that perspective has changed my life
Key takeaways:
- Trials are sometimes given to help humble us and give us new perspectives
- When you learn an opposite way to think, your heart is more open to experiencing greater joy and love
- Combined with faith and reliance on God, both ways of thinking lead to more peace, joy and happiness
- In addition to helping improve relationships, The BE/DO Concept helps you gain confidence in yourself, helping you to better BE who you were meant to BE and DO what you were meant to DO! Schedule a Discovery Call with ME! –Book a Discovery Call (I’d love to chat with you!)
Learn about my Mentoring Programs – Lindykerby.com
Learn if you are more of a BE or a DO thinker – Take the Questionnaire
Schedule me to Speak – Book Lindy (I love sharing this concept!)
Connect with Me – My Facebook Page or Linked In
Have you felt the JOY yet of this Christmas Season? If you haven’t been feeling that kind of joy, learn how you can focus your thoughts in ways that could really make a difference this Christmas season.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- An experience that helped Lindy overcome her feelings that she wasn’t good enough
- Different ways of thinking to improve feelings of joy and happiness
- Specific strategies to help you feel more joy at this Christmas season
- Her song “Joy to the World” – Link to sheet music below.
Key takeaways:
- There is a comparison between the difficulty in our trials and the amount of joy that we experience
- We’ll be more successful in feeling joy when we check our motivation that it’s purely to BE or DO, rather than on getting something back
- Better connection and relationships come as we focus on feeling closer and accepting others (BE thinking)
- When you aren’t feeling the energy to BE or DO something big, focusing on smaller pieces can help you gain more energy Download the Sheet Music for Lindy’s song – Joy to the World
Looking for ways to get more connected? Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group
Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Callor visit Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
What is your driving force – Time or Energy? If you’ve ever felt stuck with not having enough time or energy, you’re going to love this episode!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The benefits and differences between being driven by time vs. energy
- How to find an abundance of energy or time – whichever one you struggle more with finding.
- How to deal with people who don’t always appreciate your time or energy
- The driving force behind what has kept Lindy creating a podcast each week
Key takeaways:
- When you don’t feel like doing something, focusing in a time conscious way can help you get things done, feel good about yourself and improve your energy
- When you aren’t accomplishing or making the difference you’d like to, focusing in the energy conscious way can help you get things done in less time, and help you become who you want to be
- Everyone has patterns and habits – whether they are conscious of them or not
- By being purposeful with both your time and energy, you’ll have the keys to learning how to fly Looking for ways to get more connected? Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group
Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Callor visit Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
It’s always nice to have good friends, but sometimes it’s challenging with certain personalities, or with people who just aren’t easy to get along with. Learn how you can have good relationships with people no matter their personality, and have the kind of relationships you’re looking for.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- How I was able to change a relationship with someone who I didn’t feel close to.
- The different ways people think about friendship and why it’s important to know
- How to improve a relationship with someone who has shut the door on you.
- How you can improve your relationships with anyone based on “thinking differently”
Key takeaways:
- Often when we’re frustrated with someone not being a friend, it’s because of our different definition of what a “friend” is
- When you’re a friend in both the BE and DO ways, it helps to cover your basis, and get along with everyone
- Learning to be a friend in both BE and DO ways helps you understand God’s love more easily
- There is always hope of a relationship getting better as you consistently work to BE a friend in the ways that mean friendship to them. Looking for ways to get more connected? Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group
Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Callor visit Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
What do you do when your spouse seems to be pursuing a relationship outside of your marriage? This is a hard, painful and frustrating situation for many, but in this episode, you’ll learn some new ways to think that can help your relationship to thrive.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The different ways people think about friends outside of marriage
- How to work towards getting rid of fears regarding betrayal and infidelity.
- How to get on the same page with your spouse regarding new “friends”
- What not to do that makes an affair more likely
Key takeaways:
- Make sure the message you are sending your spouse is the message that helps your situation rather than makes it worse.
- Making your spouse feel bad about their choices is not the best way to improve your relationship
- Learning to understand your spouse’s different way of thinking is key to changing the dynamics of your marriage
- Becoming more conscious of the effects of your own behaviors, will help initiate changes in your relationships much better than focusing on changes you want your spouse to make. Looking for ways to get more connected? Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group
Want to learn more? –Book a Discovery Callor visit Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
Have you ever felt like you couldn’t trust someone? Or that someone couldn’t trust you? The word ‘trust’ can mean something completely different depending on your style of thinking. Learn about these differences and how you can develop more trust in your relationships!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The different ways people think about trust.
- How you can improve a relationship with someone you don’t trust
- Why people sometimes accuse you of not being trustworthy, when you feel you are.
- Why trust is so important in relationships.
Key takeaways:
- Trust is something you develop by how you treat other people
- We rely on trust to help us BE who you were meant to BE and DO what we were meant to DO
- If you’re getting the same results in a relationship, developing more trust will help you in improving relationships
- Recognizing our own coping behaviors can help us in improving our trust with others.
Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group – Join the November Gratitude Challenge
Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call
Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
Sometimes when life gets hard, it’s difficult to focus on what you’re grateful for. However, using BE and DO thinking, you can focus your thoughts in ways that can help foster an attitude of gratitude. Learn how you can foster this type of attitude that can keep you feeling happy, encouraged, and moving forward with hope!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- How to focus in ways that will help you feel more gratitude in your life
- How using BE and DO thinking can help you in feeling more grateful
- How gratitude can help you overcome some of your trials
- Some of Lindy’s personal experiences that helped her develop her attitude of gratitude
Key Takeaways:
- Gratitude is always a choice
- There is always something to be grateful for in every situation
- Gratitude is an attribute and a gift that develops with focus
- By looking for the lesson learned, you will find things to be grateful for.
Join the Love and Uplift Facebook Group – Join the November Gratitude Challenge
Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call
Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
At Halloween, people love to get in their costumes and pretend to be someone their not. However, at other times, it’s not so cool to be around people that aren’t being genuine. Learn how you can help others to be more genuine around you, and so you can enjoy being more genuine yourself.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- How people think differently about what it means to “Be Genuine”
- Why sometimes people’s actions don’t match up with what they are saying or feeling
- Why people get stuck sometimes when trying to be genuine
- Why it’s more important to focus on being genuine yourself rather than worry about others and whether or not they are being genuine
Key Takeaways:
- It’s not ingenuine to step up and focus on being who you want to BE
- When we are more genuine with ourselves, others are more genuine to us
- Genuine love is both DO thinking (service and sacrifice) and BE thinking (wholehearted appreciate and acceptance)
- Focusing on Being who you were meant to BE and Doing what you were meant to do will lead you to becoming your most genuine yourself!
Ask the Community Facebook Group – Love and Uplift
Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call
Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
If you’ve ever had a relationship with someone who has Aspergers, then you know how different their thinking style can be. Learn how you can improve some of these relationships, by thinking differently and learning how to love.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Her story of learning how she came to love her husband with Aspergers
- How to switch your focus from thinking only about limitations and frustrations to more helpful feelings of love
- Why Lindy has come to embraced and love the thinking strategies of those with Aspergers.
- How The BE/DO Concept relates to Aspergers.
Key Takeaways:
- Looking at people through a lens of love helps change limitations to strengths and weaknesses that help you to grow
- Why people with Aspergers are some of the most loving and genuine people out there.
- Things that may seem limiting can become the greatest strengths.
- By learning to love someone with Aspergers, you can begin to better understand God’s love.
Ask the Community Facebook Group – Love and Uplift
Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call
Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
How can you get rid of limiting beliefs and recognize false perceptions that may be holding you back? In this episode, you’ll learn how you can use perceived truth to help you in recognizing some of your limiting beliefs. Learn how this method can help you recognize truth and keep you always moving forward in positive ways!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Some of her limiting beliefs and how she was able to overcome them in regards to dating and how she felt about herself
- How Lindy began changing her thinking to recognize truth
- Why changing what you tell yourself can help you in overcoming limiting beliefs
- Why love is the perceived truth that has never steered Lindy wrong.
Key Takeaways:
- Our limiting beliefs not only drive us and what we ae able to accomplish, but also how other people perceive us and how they interact with us
- With new perceived truths, we can recognize what is limiting and what helps us move forward
- The way to can know if our perceived truth is limiting is whether it is helping us move forward in positive ways
- Changing our lives begins with being kind to ourselves in the same ways we would be kind to others.
Download Leslie Householder’s The Jackrabbit Factor – https://jackrabbitfactor.com/
Ask my Community Facebook Group – Love and Uplift
Chat with Lindy –Book a Discovery Call
Schedule Lindy to speak – Lindy’s Website
Connect with Lindy – Lindy’s Facebook Page or Linked In
Ashlee Stratton shares her story of how she was able to overcome her vertigo and start accomplishing her dreams!
Learn how to understand different ways of processing that can help you see new perspectives and avoid getting offended
Learn how you can use The BE/DO Concept to motivate your kids and get them ready to go back to school!
Listen to Julie's story and learn what you can do to help others, struggling with mental health.
Learn the two opposite ways of thinking that can help you gain some new perspectives and overcome the hard things in your life!
Learn how you can overcome people pleasing by using the different BE and DO ways of thinking
Learn some different motivations that can help inspire your child to move in the right direction!
Learn different ways of thinking that can help you overcome your fears and become who you were meant to be!
Sometimes compliments are given and you know they are genuine, but from certain people you may wonder if they even mean what they say. Learn some of the different motivations for why people give compliments and learn how you can discern whether or not you should take them in.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The different reasons people give compliments
- Why people sometimes get offended when you give a compliment
- New ways to think about compliments that sound condescending
- How to better take in compliments that you receive
Key Takeaways:
- Compliments are usually people’s true feelings and are not meant to manipulate
- Rejecting a compliment can sometimes be perceived as “your opinion is wrong”
- Giving compliments is a way to help people feel loved
- Accepting compliments can help you in shining your light and being who you were meant to BE!
To work with Lindy, Visit the Links below:
Get Mentoring: www.lindykerby.com – Improve your Relationships and your life
Write a Song with Lindy: www.songs4U.com – Overcome negative thinking patterns, and make a difference with a custom song written just for you.
Become certified in using The BE/DO Concept: www.thebedoconcept.com – Receive training so that you can work with others in ways that help instead of hurt.
Connect with Lindy on:
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
We all know there’s blind spots to look out for when you’re driving a car, but did you know you can also have blind spots when you’re trying to solve problems? It may be easy to see the blindspots of others and wonder why they don’t solve problems in the easy ways you see, but it could be that they really just don’t see it. Learn how to Recognize these blind spots, and make sure you’re not missing some of your own!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The different blindspots you may have because of your particular style of thinking
- Why we often notice the blind spots of others, but miss them in ourselves
- What to do when you’re trying to help someone recognize their blindspot
- How to get rid your own blindspots so you can better BE who you were meant to BE and DO what you were meant to DO!
Key Takeaways:
- By recognizing an opposite ways of thinking we can develop our ability to see things more clearly
- When people see things in an opposite way, it doesn’t mean they’re wrong
- Learning an opposite view can help you overcome your own blind spots
- Expecting others to see your perspective, when it’s a blindspot, can be like expecting a blind person to see. It’s not kind.
- Until we see our own blindspots, we should avoid helping others see theirs.
To work with Lindy, Visit the Links below:
Get Mentoring: www.lindykerby.com – Improve your Relationships and your life
Write a Song with Lindy: www.songs4U.com – Overcome negative thinking patterns, and make a difference with a custom song written just for you.
Become certified in using The BE/DO Concept: www.thebedoconcept.com – Receive training so that you can work with others in ways that help instead of hurt.
Connect with Lindy on:
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Relationships can be hard, especially if you have completely different expectations of what a good relationship is. When expectations aren’t being met, sometimes relationships fall apart, but understanding these differences can help you navigate these differences in a way that can help your relationship flourish!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The different expectations of BE and DO thinkers
- Where our expectations for relationships comes from
- What to do when others have unrealistic expectations of you that are impossible to meet
- How to navigate your own expectations to make sure they are helping your relationship and not hurting it
Key Takeaways:
- By understanding differences we can avoid hurting people with unrealistic expectations
- Our focus affects what we see our relationships
- Recognizing where you can get rid of unrealistic or impossible expectations can help you improve your relationship
- Practicing charity in your expectations, can help you avoid disappointment and help you stay happier when expectations aren’t being met.
Connect with Lindy:
Lindy’s Website: www.lindykerby.com – Book Lindy to speak, Get Mentoring, and learn how to overcome negative thoughts and limiting beliefs!
Songs4U Website: www.songs4U.com – Write a personalized song to help you get unstuck!
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com – Learn new ways of thinking that can help you BE who you were meant to BE and DO what you were meant to DO
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby – Listen to Lindy’s Music, Watch her inspiring music videos and get special training.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby – Follow Lindy on Social Media
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/ – Connect with Lindy!
Mother’s Day can be a hard day for a lot of mothers, especially if you don’t feel like you are the greatest mother, you don’t have a great mother, or you don’t have a husband or kids that help you celebrate, or for a hundred other reasons. In this episode, I’ll share three different things you can think about that might help you feel more positive when it comes to making your Mother’s Day just a little more special.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The high expectations many mothers feel in being perfect
- What to do when nothing is going the way you want it to
- How to make Mother’s Day special no matter who you’re celebrating with
- How to feel better when you’re not feeling like a very good Mother
Key Takeaways:
- The word perfect in scriptures means “complete, whole, and fully developed”, NOT that you need to be perfect now!
- Gratitude is a game changer in being able to shift your perspective
- Self care isn’t just something for after you’ve taken care of everyone else – it’s how you take care of everyone else!
- Trust that when you can’t be the mother you want to be, God can take care of the rest. They are God’s children too!
Link to Lindy’s song, “Everything”: Hi-Five Live Page
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Would you like a customized song to help you through your hard times? Visit Songs4U.com! Lindy would love to help you write that song!
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
The BE/DO Concept helps people understand weaknesses and turn them into strengths. It’s all in the way you think and focus, and learning new ways of thinking can help you develop these strengths. In this episode, you’ll learn about some different strengths and weakness and hope you can develop them, as well as learn some super power strengths you may not have even known you had!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Some of Lindy’s personal struggles and weaknesses she’s been able to overcome
- The different ways of thinking that have helped Lindy in overcoming many of her weaknesses
- How to recognize your own strengths or “super powers”
- Why learning a new way of thinking is worth it!
Key Takeaways:
- What seems easy for you, may feel like a “super power” to others
- Turning weaknesses into strengths is possible when you practice changing your focus
- What seems like “super powers” to others, are often something people have been developing since birth
- Relationships can be improved when we don’t expect the impossible from others.
- Sometimes the hard things in life are meant to help turn weaknesses into strengths!
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Kyle Beers helps people recognize what it takes to be committed and engaged at work, in relationships, and with yourself.
Having gone through some traumatic experiences he is here to help you find your phoenix after going through life’s hardest challenges. How to do the things that will help you be your best self again.
is a Coach who specializes in helping people overcome and deal with anxiety. Rachael’s journey is an inspirational one as she dealt with anxiety as a young girl. However, it wasn’t until her daughter also began to struggle with anxiety that Rachael decided to say enough was enough. Learn what Rachael dod to conquer her fears, help her daughter and step into being who she was meant to be.
In this episode, Kyle and Lindy talk about:
- Kyle’s story of getting through his divorce
- How to get through hard life experiences
- Balancing both BE and DO thinking
- Why it’s important to love yourself first
- How to get unstuck
Key Takeaways:
- You get through the sticky things in life by making decisions
- You are always worth and enough
- When you recognize who you are, you start to feel more of God’s love
- Flying takes courage, but doing things you love and being who you want to be is key!
“When we recognize who we want to be and put the action into being who we want to be then that’s when love starts to grow inside of us and then we can lift others valiantly evermore. ” Kyle Beers
Connect with Kyle Beers:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekylebeers/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thekylebeers
Get in Touch with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/lindykerby/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
People break rules for a lot of different reasons. However, when you understand different ways of thinking, it can make understanding why people are breaking rules a little more understandable. In this episode, you’ll learn some of the different reasons why people break rules, and how you can experience better relationships with the rule breakers in your life.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Why people break rules
- The different ways people think about rules
- How to help someone that is making poor decisions
- How to be more loving and understanding in trying to help people who are not following the rules
Key Takeaways:
- Most people don’t break rules because they are trying to be difficult or don’t care about people
- The biggest reason people break rules is a lack of vision
- When people don’t see the big picture, they may be missing obvious alternatives
- When people don’t only see the big picture, they may be missing the obvious effects of their actions
- Lovingly helping people see what they are missing can help make a difference
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Reciprocal relationships require work on both sides. However two people think in different ways, it can feel like you’re the only one trying. In this episode, you’ll learn how to change things around and start experiencing a more reciprocal relationship that will help get things going again on the right track!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Reciprocal Relationships
- What a reciprocal relationship looks like and how you can get a more reciprocal relationship in your own life
- Expectations
- Different ways to think that will get your relationship on the right track
Key Takeaways:
- Make sure you’re on the same page with what a reciprocal relationship should look like
- Recognize what’s difficult for the other person so expectations aren’t unreasonable
- YOU make the changes first, don’t try to change other people
- When others don’t reciprocate in the ways you would like, God can bless you with the miracles you need
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
Songs4U.com: https://www.songs4U.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Doug was one of those kids who felt invisible, waiting for someone to notice him, and help him connect with those around him. Unfortunately it never happened. During his divorce, he had an experience that allowed him to see himself the way God saw him. With new perspective, and a change in thinking, Doug has gained new confidence that is helping him fulfill his purpose, his mission and make a difference to those around him.
In this episode, Lindy and Doug talk about:
- Doug’s story of how he overcame his fears and struggles
- The analogy of being rescued from a pit he could not escape alone
- Why God did not answer his prayers the way we expected
- Complex emotions, and being an empath.
- What helped Doug to discover his purpose and mission.
Key Takeaways:
- God always sees the big picture of who we are, and who are meant to be
- There is always an opposite and equally emotion that we can experience
- The “super power” of being an empath, is the ability to connect with others
- God has the key to helping people escape those deep dark pits.
- It’s overcoming the challenges in our life that often helps us step into who we were meant to be.
“I was that person at an event, in the shadows, by myself, that people ignored, …I would go home, feeling depressed, thinking ‘there’s another event that no one noticed me…’ Now, because I know who I am, and see how God views me, I have confidence… and no one else is going to go home the same way I felt…” – Doug Rutherford
Connect with Doug Rutherford:
Bonfire Events Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2768401013471803
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doug.r.rutherford
Connect with Lindy:
Personal Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/lindykerby/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Have you ever had doubts as to whether Jesus is real or not, or wondered if the gospel was really true or just made up? In this Easter podcast, I’ll share some things that helped me to believe in God, trust Him and to be able to know for myself that He really is the Savior of the world.
In this episode, I’ll share:
- What inspired me to believe in God
- Why I wished I’d been there when Jesus lived on the Earth
- Why trust is so important in relationships and in developing faith
- My inspirational song, “If I’d Been There”
Key Takeaways:
- Relationships don’t get better until you’re willing to open yourself and develop trust
- People in all different times had to have faith in order to believe
- Once you open yourself up and begin to believe, trusting that God is real, God can start giving you reasons that help confirm your faith
- Miracles aren’t given to help people believe, they are given to confirm belief that’s already there.
“If I’d Been There at Calvary, when my Savior was suffering for me. Would witnessing His agony, make His life more meaningful to me?”
Music Video Link for “If I’d Been There”: https://youtu.be/VS9Hs5BdXdQ
Get in Touch with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/lindykerby/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Rachael Curfew is a Coach who specializes in helping people overcome and deal with anxiety. Rachael’s journey is an inspirational one as she dealt with anxiety as a young girl. However, it wasn’t until her daughter also began to struggle with anxiety that Rachael decided to say enough was enough. Learn what Rachael dod to conquer her fears, help her daughter and step into being who she was meant to be.
In this episode, Lindy and Rachael talk about:
- Rachael’s story of how she overcame her anxiety
- Why sometimes it’s good to get mad and selfish
- How Rachael’s love for her daughter motivated this powerful change
- What happened when Rachael stepped into her power and began to overcome this adversity of anxiety
Key Takeaways:
- To make the greatest impact, you lead by example
- It takes a village to raise a child
- Don’t get discouraged when it takes some time in overcoming. Progress comes 2 millimeters at a time!
- We need each other in order to overcome the anxieties and fears of the world.
“It wasn’t until I found something I cared about more than myself to step into that empowerment and say I’m not going to do this anymore, what do I have to do to change it?” Rachael Curfew
=Connect with Rachael Curfew:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachaelcurfew/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachaelcurfew
Website: https://www.rachaelcurfew.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachael-curfew-coach/
Get in Touch with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/lindykerby/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
There’s always a reason why people do the things they do! A lot of time however, people assume reasons that aren’t true because of their way of thinking. Learn the biggest reason why people do the things they do and some of the differences between motivations when it comes to BE and DO thinkers.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Being bullied and other childhood experiences
- Motivations for why kids decide to bully
- The similar motivation that continues to motivate adults
- What has helped Lindy in dealing with negative thoughts
- Why a lot of times we are wrong when we assume others intentions
Key Takeaways:
- The key motivation for why we do the things we do
- The benefit and strength of DO thinking
- How you can control your results
- The weakness that sometimes comes with focusing on only what you do
- The one thing that will always help in dealing with those that think opposite you.
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
Songs4U.com: https://www.songs4U.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
How do you deal with people that are just really difficult to work with? Learn a new way of thinking that can help you improve relationships with some of those difficult people in your life.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- An experience that changed Lindy’s perception of difficult people
- The miracles that led to Lindy’s change of heart
- Why Lindy enjoys talking with people who have often been perceived as “difficult”
- How to look at others with a new perspective
- An analogy that is helpful in changing your thinking about difficult people
Key Takeaways:
- People that are perceived as “difficult” often have different ways of thinking than you
- Your expectations can color your thoughts, creating the perceptions of someone being “difficult”
- By understanding different ways of thinking and accepting difference, your ability to get along with difficult people will increase.
- Learning to think in some of those same ways as other “difficult people”, can actually help you spread your wings and fly!
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
Songs4U.com: https://www.songs4U.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
What do you do when everything is going wrong? In this episode, you’ll learn great ideas that can help. you change your perspective and get you up and moving again.
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- Her struggles with trying to sell her van
- How she was using DO thinking to solve her problems
- How she switched her thinking that helped with the miracle in selling her car
- The song that helped her through this trial, and gives her hope to keep moving forward
Key Takeaways:
- There is almost always something you can DO to improve your life or situation
- Trust God when He inspires you with an action to improve your life or situation
- Sometimes God gives us experiences to teach, guide, learn, and gain hope from
- Writing a song to help you focus your thoughts is a great way to stay hopeful, and keep moving forward with faith!
Links for this podcast:
Songs4U.com (Lindy’s songwriting website)
Let Go and Let God (Get tickets to Lindy’s keynote concert with Kristine Cox on March 10th, 2023)
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
Songs4U.com: https://www.songs4U.com
YouTube: https://youtube.com/lindykerby
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Ana was adopted from Costa Rica at the age of 3. At the age of 21, through a series of miracles she went on a journey back to Costa Rica to try and find her mother. Learn how this experience helped shape her BE way of thinking, and how learning the DO way of thinking has helped her even more as an actress, model, speaker and in making a difference!
In this episode, Lindy and Ana talk about:
- Ana’s adoption experience and how it molded her into discovering who she is
- BE thinking and how Ana uses her “being” way of thinking in her modeling and enjoying of life.
- How learning from each other has been helpful
- The dichotomy between the two different ways of thinking
Key Takeaways:
- It’s important to let go of what you think you need to be, and discover the flow that is you.
- BE thinking is about learning what you can give back and sharing a portion of yourself after you have received
- By “just” doing, good things can happen
- It’s important to be “curious” about opposite ways of thinking, rather than judgmental.
“There is so much learning in what we are going through, and creating that change, whether it’s in your “being” or “doing”, it’s creating the change in you that’s so important…” — Ana Katia
Connect with Ana Katia:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anakatia_adopted4change/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Adopted4Change
Website: https://adopted4change.wordpress.com/author/anakatiaadopted4change/
Get in Touch with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/lindykerby/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
The BE/DO Concept® has a lot of different pieces and parts, and almost as important as the “being”/”doing” different ways of thinking is the “big picture”/”details” spectrum. Learn about these different ways of thinking and how it may be affecting your perception!
In this episode, Lindy talks about:
- The differences between “Big Picture” and “Detailed” Thinking
- Examples and stories of how these different ways of thinking can be perceived
- Why these differences matter when it comes to relationships
Key Takeaways:
- Detailed thinking is what helps you to be able to DO what you want to DO
- Big Picture thinking helps you to BE who you want to BE
- Sometimes helping someone to see a different perspective can come off as unloving and uncaring
- Seeing in both the BE and DO ways of thinking can help you discover the wings that will help you to fly!
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
Also The BE/DO Concept Website: www.thebedoconcept.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC98H8jveWun20MoKz0EzyDQ
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
Christine’s marriage was on it’s way downhill towards divorce when she got the prompting that she needed to stay and fight for her marriage. Learn how she was able to get her marriage back on track and is now headed in a much better direction!
In this episode, Lindy and Christine talk about:
- Christine’s marriage, and how she overcame a road headed towards divorce.
- New ways of thinking about love.
- Getting rid of blame by using Jack Canfield’s #1 success principle
- Differences in BE and Do thinking.
Key Takeaways:
- People aren’t perfect. There’s going to be problems in a marriage, it’s how you deal with those problems that makes the difference in your relationship.
- When you take 100% responsibility for your own actions, behaviors and the way you react, relationships can begin to improve.
- When you start feeling stress and conflict, how you choose to respond, determines what you’ll have moving forward.
“Once I started letting go of the outcome, and put it in God’s hands, God told me to fight for my marriage. I’ve got to trust that, and just focus on what I am doing. Once I let go of what my husband was doing, and just focused on how I was responding, that’s when everything started shifting. And it started shifting fast.” — Christine Lavulo
Connect with Christine Lavulo:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momof5warriors/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-lavulo-a3351153
Get in Touch with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC98H8jveWun20MoKz0EzyDQ
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
You are of Infinite Worth, though it may not feel that way when people don’t treat you the way you would expect. Listen to Lindy’s brand new song, “Infinite Worth”, and learn different ways of thinking when it comes to treating people with respect and kindness.
In this episode, we’ll talk about :
- How we may unintentionally be hurting others instead of helping
- The different ways people think about respect and kindness (and what is not respectful or kind)
- The role of trials in our life
Key Takeaways:
- Nothing can take away from your value and worth
- The trials we go through do not define us, but rather refine us.
- People look at who they are differently
- In our efforts to help, we can sometimes hurt
Connect with Lindy:
Website: www.lindykerby.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC98H8jveWun20MoKz0EzyDQ
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lindykerby
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindy-kerby/
The BE/DO Concept® is a spectrum between two opposite ways of thinking. In this episode you’ll learn how Lindy learned how to think in these opposite ways. Along the way, you’ll be able to discover if you think in more of the “being” or “doing” way!
When I first learned about my husband’s “different” way of thinking, I thought his way of thinking wasn’t good at all. I couldn’t imagine why anyone would want to think that way. However, that all changed, when I learned that my best friend, DarEll, also thought in this same opposite way. Enjoy this spontaneous conversation with my friend DarEll as we talk about some of the initial differences we found in our thinking and how these changes have been able to affect our lives ever since!
God knows who we were meant to BE and what we were meant to DO. However, figuring that out, and receiving the inspiration for how to BE and DO, can be a difficult process, especially when you think in only one way. In this podcast, Lindy shares some of her own spiritual journey, as well as the different ways she’s learned to think that have helped her in the process. Learn the different ways you can think that can also help you to better BE who you were meant to BE and to DO what you were meant to DO!
One of the first things people think about when I start talking about differences in how people show love, is The Five Love Languages® developed by Gary Chapman. Gary Chapman’s book has helped so many people when it comes to relationships, and it’s helped me as well. However, The BE/DO Concept® is not the same thing, but it can still help you in your relationships in some of the same ways. In this podcast, you’ll learn the differences, and how you can use The BE/DO Concept® to improve your relationships.
How you set goals has a lot to do with the way you think! Learn the different the different types of thinking that come with setting goals, and how you can make sure your New Year’s resolutions keeps you moving forward the entire year!
The BE/DO Concept is a Model developed by Lindy Kerby to help understand the different and opposite ways people think. With an understanding of these differences, you’ll be able to understand people better, avoid misperceptions, and better BE who you want to BE and DO what you were meant to DO!