The Good (Mental) Life: Recent Episodes

Sergio Julius

Welcome to The Good (Mental) Life. We often neglect our mental lives in pursuing other, more "real" aspects of our lives. Be it money, physical health, or status, we always seem to be chasing something other than mental health, to its own detriment. This neglect shows itself on a personal, as well as a societal level. Here in this podcast, we explore the ways in which this neglect manifests itself, how to remedy it, and we strive to uncover a deeper appreciation of the inner workings of our mental life.

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In this episode I discuss the personality factor known as Extraversion and its relation to social interaction, stimulation and positive emotion.

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https://www.123test.com/personality-extraversion/

https://insidestory.org.au/quiet-please/

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/dacherkeltner/docs/shiota.2006.pdf

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dYTAv7eQ-vg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfjN15zsPyQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0KYU2j0TM4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0KYU2j0TM4

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In this episode I lay out the groundwork for the Big Five personality model, the topic of the next five episodes. I also mention the flaws of the Myers Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) as a personality model.

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https://www.truity.com/test/big-five-personality-test

https://www.verywellmind.com/the-big-five-personality-dimensions-2795422

https://www.livescience.com/65513-does-myers-briggs-personality-test-work.html

https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelbarthur/2018/09/16/the-strange-history-behind-the-mbti-and-what-that-can-mean-for-career-owners/?sh=e6dbbe82fb31

https://pages.uoregon.edu/sanjay/bigfive.html

https://www.simplypsychology.org/big-five-personality.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCceO_D4AlY

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In this episode I talk about optimism, what optimistic thinking looks like as an explanatory style, and the three stages of optimism, the three being naivety, cynicism, and optimism proper.

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https://www.verywellmind.com/about-explanatory-styles-3145110

https://www.verywellmind.com/learned-optimism-4174101

https://positivepsychology.com/explanatory-styles-optimism/

https://www.verywellmind.com/the-benefits-of-optimism-3144811

https://www.verywellmind.com/learned-optimism-4174101

https://www.infocusleadership.ca/blog/five-stages-move-emotionally-changing-behavior/

Beyond Order : 12 More Rules For Life

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In this episode, I go over the concept of learned helplessness and how we stay within our comfort zones. This episode also serves to set the stage for the next episode.

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https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325355

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-learned-helplessness-2795326

https://basicsteps.life/2020/10/stretching-your-comfort-zone/

https://www.universalclass.com/articles/self-help/the-importance-of-getting-out-of-your-comfort-zone-in-the-individual-pursuit-of-happiness.htm

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/basics/learned-helplessness

https://psychologycompass.com/blog/overcoming-learned-helplessness/

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In this episode, I talk about games video games in light of their newfound popularity. I also debunk the myth that video games cause violence and talk about why we play video games.

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http://www.acolumbinesite.com/diary.php

https://positivepsychology.com/self-determination-theory/

https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/application-basic-psychological-needs/

https://variety.com/2019/gaming/news/video-games-300-billion-industry-2025-report-1203202672/

https://financesonline.com/number-of-gamers-worldwide/

https://www.kqed.org/mindshift/35734/social-and-emotional-benefits-of-video-games-metacognition-and-relationships

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xkVIqB8tw2A

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0272735897000378?via%3Dihub

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In this episode, I talk about reality and how we experience it. Using depression as an example, I also talk about the importance of perspective.

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https://www.healthline.com/health/depression#natural-treatment

https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/depression/what-is-depression

https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/cognitive-behavioral-therapy#how-cbt-works

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/10-things-you-dont-know-about-yourself/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-eBUcBfkVCo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5qfKaVe89c

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0aIkMohDTY

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In this episode, I discuss the relation between schools and their students' mental health, positive education, as well as the school's responsibility to ensure the mental well-being of their students.

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https://www.npr.org/sections/ed/2016/08/31/464727159/mental-health-in-schools-a-hidden-crisis-affecting-millions-of-students

https://www.mqmentalhealth.org/stress-and-mental-health/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcGyVTAoXEU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1qq7lDL-bzY

https://www.nasponline.org/resources-and-publications/resources-and-podcasts/mental-health/school-psychology-and-mental-health/school-based-mental-health-services

https://www.livescience.com/1308-students-bored-school.html

http://blogs.ridleycollege.com/blog/2019/01/30/the-gross-national-happiness-of-bhutan-a-case-study/

https://positivepsychology.com/what-is-positive-education/

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In this episode I talk about loneliness and its negative effects on us within the pandemic.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n3Xv_g3g-mA&t=1s

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/basics/loneliness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2hc2FLOdhI

https://www.verywellmind.com/loneliness-causes-effects-and-treatments-2795749

https://www.campaigntoendloneliness.org/blog/the-psychology-of-loneliness-why-it-matters-and-what-we-can-do/

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In this episode, I talk about our need to constantly stave off boredom through social media, and how that process is harmful to ourselves.

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https://www.brandwatch.com/blog/youtube-stats/

https://techjury.net/blog/time-spent-on-social-media/#gref

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5-baYkzjyo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qwd25JV-jnU

https://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/24/books/review/Schuessler-t.html

https://www.fearlessculture.design/blog-posts/why-boredom-is-so-powerful-in-your-life

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotion-information/202002/the-roots-chronic-and-painful-boredom

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In this episode, I talk about shame, how it affects us, and how to remedy it with vulnerability.

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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-scientific-underpinnings-and-impacts-of-shame/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sonnet-freud/202009/the-psychology-shame

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/where-science-meets-the-steps/201501/5-ways-silence-shame

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-shame-425328

https://www.nicabm.com/guilt-vs-shame/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psN1DORYYV0&t=66s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTXWVKhcXRI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o

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In this episode, I talk about goal setting and how that affects our lives, using New Year's Resolutions as an example. 

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https://positivepsychology.com/goal-setting-psychology/

https://www.inc.com/geoffrey-james/what-goal-setting-does-to-your-brain-why-its-spectacularly-effective.html

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201912/is-why-most-new-years-resolutions-fail

https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/smart-goals.htm

https://corporatefinanceinstitute.com/resources/knowledge/other/smart-goal/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHopJHSlVo4

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In this episode, I discuss how PTSD, anxiety, and mindfulness are related through time.

Mindfulness Exercises |

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/consumer-health/in-depth/mindfulness-exercises/art-20046356

https://positivepsychology.com/mindfulness-exercises-techniques-activities/

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cb3BXbWKDv4&list=PLYxtGyYUCbEHbXzu15FuLuZ6vdVaIAwnL&index=4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iK-T74wxkks&list=PLYxtGyYUCbEHbXzu15FuLuZ6vdVaIAwnL&index=2

https://www.cogneurosociety.org/memory_addis_yia/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4232337/

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/trauma#symptoms

https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/ptsd/what-is-ptsd

https://www.ncsc.org/trends/monthly-trends-articles/2017/the-trouble-with-eyewitness-identification-testimony-in-criminal-cases

https://wp.nyu.edu/steinhardt-appsych_opus/the-effect-of-post-traumatic-stress-disorder-on-the-ability-to-recognize-facial-expressions/

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323454

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In this episode,  I explore the concept of health as more than simply the absence of illness. I also include a scientifically validated exercise to help in well-being. Start the New Year off well!

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/theory-knowledge/201504/what-constitutes-psychological-health

https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/02/18/martin-seligman-gratitude-visit-three-blessings/

https://academyofideas.com/2018/05/abraham-maslow-psychology-of-self-actualization/

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In this episode, I look into mental illnesses more specifically and discuss why it's so hard to understand and treat. Merry Christmas! :)

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https://brainmd.com/blog/how-your-brain-is-like-the-universe/

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-brain-plasticity-2794886

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDhqTf5eJH4&t=1s

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In this episode I compare and contrast various aspects of our views on physical health compared with mental health.

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https://www.un.org/development/desa/disabilities/issues/mental-health-and-development.html

https://www.who.int/news/item/09-09-2019-suicide-one-person-dies-every-40-seconds

https://www.who.int/news/item/28-09-2001-the-world-health-report-2001-mental-disorders-affect-one-in-four-people

https://www.starlingminds.com/what-is-online-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-cbt-starling-minds/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3308206/

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A brief introduction going into this podcast.