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This is a Christian podcast for men. Each episode focuses on real-life issues men care about. Together we explore what it means to live day to day with authentic faith.
More information is being created and shared today than ever before, leading to a vast, ever-expanding ocean of information and data. We are bombarded and shaped by voices from social media influencers, YouTubers, and podcast hosts.
And yes, you’re listening to a podcast today, so you can add Impactus into the mix of voices!
But how can we be wise and discerning enough to audit and edit the voices we let in?
In Philippians 1:9-10, the apostle Paul said: “And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ.”
How can we gain that kind of knowledge and discernment so we can approve what is excellent vs. what is unhelpful or untruthful?
How can we incorporate rhythms and space in our lives to be men who are rooted in Christ?
This topic emerged at our conference in Edmonton and culminated in a powerful, divine moment as our speaker shared and prayed for the men in attendance. That speaker was none other than our podcast guest, Jason Ballard.
Jason is a pastor at The Way Church in Vancouver, Canada. He also serves as the Executive Director of The Pastorate, formerly known as the Canadian Church Leaders Network (CCLN), and hosts The Pastorate podcast, where he engages in conversations that strengthen the hearts of pastors and share stories from the Church in Canada.
In this meaningful conversation, we’ll learn about Jason’s powerful ministry, how to be deeply rooted in Christ, and how to listen to Christ as the ultimate Teacher and voice in our busy lives.
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Here at Impactus, we have just finished the run of our in-person conferences for this year, where we had the incredible opportunity to minister to over 2600 men across Canada!
If you didn’t make it to one of our events this conference season, we’re delighted to have one of our keynote speakers, who spoke in Winnipeg on being “Rooted in Truth,” join us for this podcast.
The Rev. Dr. Andrew Stirling is the Ambassador for the Canadian Bible Society. He has dedicated his life to sharing God’s Word and has spoken and lectured worldwide in a variety of contexts.
In this fascinating conversation, Dean and Andrew talk about many things, such as:
- Andrew’s incredible story of faith and ministry
- The role of the Canadian Bible Society in spreading God’s Word to people everywhere
- The amazing things that we are seeing God doing all across the world
- The season of renewal that is happening in the Church, especially in the younger generation
- The nature of truth, and how we can hold to it and proclaim it in a world that increasingly dismisses it
Join us for all this and more on the Impactus podcast!
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Opioids are claiming the lives of thousands of Canadians from all walks of life.
With more than 44,000 opioid-related deaths since 2016, the overdose crisis is one of the most severe public health crises Canada has ever faced, and men are much more likely to be affected by addiction than women. There is hardly a day that passes when we do not hear of the fentanyl issue in geopolitical, provincial, and local conversations.
But what should the response be from the Church, and how can we, as Christian men, be part of the solution? And what can you do if addictions have trapped someone you love?
In this podcast, Dean sits down with a leading Canadian Christian Addiction Medicine Physician who has both a medical and theological perspective on why there is hope for the Canadian opioid crisis.
Dr. Meera Grover is a medical doctor with the highest level of training in addiction medicine available to physicians in Canada. She began her work in addictions as a theology student at Regent College. Her work in Vancouver’s notorious downtown east side brought her face-to-face with the ethical questions around safe injection sites.
She is a frontline worker with intimate knowledge of the issue who has personally wrestled with the dilemma. Her recent book Why I Help People Take Drugs is designed to help people better understand the complexity of stories that each person with addiction brings to the table and to see ways that God works among people with addiction.
Join Dean and Dr. Grover for a fascinating and in-depth conversation about a very challenging topic, and find the hope Jesus is bringing to the opioid crisis!
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Despite the rise of people identifying as "non-religious" in Canada and the growing trends of secularism in our post-Christian culture, there is good news on the horizon.
Alpha Canada released a 2024 report that indicated signs of hope and opportunity. It revealed:
- Post-pandemic, church leaders in Canada are perceiving an inexplicable spiritual openness and curiosity in our communities.
- This “spiritual openness” includes lapsed Christians, or those with no faith, becoming more spiritually curious in the past three years, receptive to the message that Jesus saves, and displaying a “higher likelihood” that they would actually come to church.
- Church leaders across Canada are prioritizing sharing the Gospel with an increased clarity and commitment to the Great Commission.
Our own annual Spiritual Health of Men survey, sent to several thousand men connected with our ministry, consistently shows that sharing their faith is an ongoing challenge for men, but also an amazing opportunity for the church to lean in, and where men and men’s ministries can play an important part.
In this month’s podcast, we will talk about these important matters!
Join us as we chat with Jason Persaud, the National Director of Church Experience for Alpha Canada. Jason and Dean discuss the ongoing challenges of evangelism for men and the great reason for hope in these exciting days as God opens doors for the Gospel to be shared in our communities!
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Former England superstar football captain David Beckham recalls being sent off the field in the 1998 World Cup Finals:
“It was probably the longest walk in my life…looking back, I’m not sure what thoughts were going through my mind: it was a swirl of fear, guilt, anger, worry, and confusion.
“My head was spinning…I walked into the dressing room. The rules stated that I had to stay in there for the remainder of the match. England lost. We were out of the World Cup.
“When the England players came back into the dressing room, no one breathed a word to me. There was almost complete silence. I could feel my stomach tightening even more. I gulped, breathed in, and gulped again. I was in a packed changing room, but I had never felt so lonely in my life. I was isolated and afraid...I was trapped in my own sense of guilt and anxiety.”
Men often think we are wired to be tough, strong, “just deal with it” guys, but the reality is that many of us struggle with deep concerns, fears, and anxieties. We often suffer alone, isolated and lonely.
But we don’t have to deal with this on our own.
Today, we’ll examine the starting point for handling anxiety. Our guest today is Jonny Ardavanis. He is the lead pastor of Stonebridge Bible Church and the founder and president of Dial In Ministries, a ministry that provides biblical resourcing for the next generation. He is passionate about people coming to know and love Jesus Christ as they pursue a deeper understanding of His Word. Jonny lives in Franklin, TN, with his wife and two daughters.
Jonny has recently written a book called Consider the Lillies: Finding Perfect Peace in the Character of God. This is no gardening book; rather, it points us to an antidote to fear and anxiety in the unshakable and timeless character of God.
He shares from his personal struggles with anxiety, explores how guys navigate anxiety and fear, references the many men in Scripture who grapple with these same things, and most importantly, why knowing God’s character as Lord and Father is so important to helping us navigate anxiety, worry, and fear.
Join us for an amazing conversation!
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When you hear the word “warrior,” what comes to mind?
Maybe the movie Gladiator?
The WWF’s Ultimate Warrior?
The latest UFC champion?
Now, when you hear the word “disciple,” what do you think of?
Something very different? Maybe something incompatible with the first word?
But what if these two terms could fit together?
Our guest on this episode believes the words “warrior disciple” go hand in hand for the man following Christ, and, in fact, can be a catalyst for seeing men’s lives transformed by the Gospel.
Scott Roberts is a dynamic Christian leader and writer. He is the author of the men’s ministry book Warrior Disciple. Scott is passionate about empowering men to live boldly and fearlessly for the Lord Jesus Christ. He is also a devotional and article writer for Impactus. As a church elder, teacher, and men’s ministry leader, Scott is dedicated to helping men grow in their faith and embrace their calling as disciples of Christ, and he’s developed a great new resource to do just that.
In this podcast, Dean and Scott talk about:
- What a “warrior disciple” is and why the term is so important
- The new men’s discipleship book Warrior Disciple and how it can be a crucial and intentional tool for ministry to men
- How men can stand guard against the forces of the enemy and the world
- Ways to engage men in the church to step up into their God-given roles
- How Scripture informs a man’s spiritual journey
- The role that discipline plays in a man’s faith, marriage/singleness, fatherhood, career, and church life
- How love, strength, and courage work together in the life of a man
- Advice for pastors and men’s ministry leaders on how to build an intentional model of discipleship for their men
Thanks for joining Dean and Scott for this important conversation!
https://www.impactus.org/podcast/becoming-a-warrior-disciple/
Some of you may be old enough to remember the sitcom Eight is Enough, about a family with eight children trying to get by.
Well, for our guest in this podcast, it’s not eight, but ten!
Today, we’re going to speak with Jason Weening, a dad of ten who has dedicated his life to fatherhood and helping other dads along the way.
Jason and his wife, Alli, have been married for 20 years. He speaks to parents, encouraging them to be intentional in their “most important organization”: their family!
After spending 15 years in the business world, he moved into a ministry role at his local church. Their adventure-loving family recently returned from living in the Dominican Republic for 6 months. In 2024, he released an adventure book for kids, Danger in the Jungle. He co-hosts the Helping Men Thrive podcast and supervises the care of hens, ducks, cows, and vegetables on their small hobby farm. You can find him on his website, Helping Dads.
In this fascinating conversation, we talk about things like:
- What being the father of ten kids is like!
- How fatherhood shapes our views and experiences of leadership
- Jason’s book from his Riders of the Lost Reptiles series, and how the writing relates to boldness and adventure
- How we can teach our sons and daughters the importance of resilience and facing life’s challenges head-on
- Learning to manage the many distractions of life and how to bring them under control, finding God’s peace in a frantic world
- The challenges and importance of creating lasting memories and connections in our families and how to do it
- The meaning of the term “your most important organization” and why it’s so important
Join us for this very interesting conversation with a great dad!
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If you’re a Marvel movie fan, Iron Man is probably familiar to you. In this episode of the Impactus podcast, we are excited to talk with a real-life “Iron Man”—a humble businessman from Hamilton, Ontario, who was the first Canadian to run not one, not two, but three Ironman races in three consecutive days for over 45 hours of physical exertion.
But he wasn’t running for himself but for a greater cause.
Gord Pauls owned and operated a General Insurance brokerage for 28 years and opened a running apparel store in 1996. He is an accomplished runner and triathlete and a respected, personable, and inspirational leader in the Hamilton running community.
Since taking up running twenty-six years ago, Gord has completed over 35 marathons, including 12 Boston Marathons, with a personal best time of 2h:51m. In addition, he has run countless other races, often raising money to support charities. He also races to encourage some of the hundreds of runners he has inspired through his example and instruction. As a coach, Gord has seen his clients meet and exceed their goals.
Not satisfied with being an outstanding runner, Gord took up duathlons and triathlons in recent years, earning berths on the Canadian National Teams plus completing eight grueling Ironman Triathlons. In 2010, he became “Canada’s only Triple Ironman,” a back-to-back-to-back Ironman race with a total distance of 678 km, raising a quarter of a million dollars ($257,000) for micro-credit loans in Haiti.
Gord talks with us about the physical struggles of his favorite activity and how pushing himself through these excruciating exercises has impacted and inspired his faith life and the call to love and serve others through what he is doing.
Join us for an inspiring conversation with an inspiring man!
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Is “Men’s Ministry” still a thing?
Is it still relevant? Do we even need it?
Here at Impactus, we like referring to this area as “Ministry to Men,” and that’s more than just semantics. We need a new understanding that men need ministry, not just programs, and that men are called to do ministry in their churches and communities.
On this podcast, we’re delighted to have one of the most recognizable names in Ministry to Men back with us: Steve Sonderman.
Steve is highly regarded as one of the pioneers of the men’s ministry movement in America. He started one of the first men’s ministries in the country for the growing church population at Elmbrook Church in Brookfield, Wisconsin. He is the founder of the national No Regrets Men’s Ministries and the annual No Regrets Men’s Conference, which today draws thousands of men across the country and around the world.
Steve regularly consults with churches and leaders and has authored books on leadership and curriculum studies for men. Steve and his wife, Colleen, have four grown children and are proud grandparents.
If you are part of a Men’s Ministry or a leader in one, then this conversation is for you, as we jump into topics like:
- The challenges of the “man crisis” that we can see in our culture and churches
- The impact that can happen when a man gets truly mobilized in his faith
- How we can embrace a “multiplication mindset” when ministering to men and why it’s so crucial
- Why “apprenticeship” is so important in Men’s Ministry, and what are some of the ways we can engage in it
- The difference between “knowledge-based” discipleship and “obedience-based” discipleship
- In our challenging cultural moment, what reasons we can have to be hopeful and excited about what God is up to
- The various amazing things that Steve is seeing God do in the lives of men all around the world
Come and join us for this fascinating and in-depth discussion on the Impactus podcast!
Families are under attack. Culture seems to be encroaching on us. Pressure comes from all angles…education, ideology, politics, and sometimes even the Church.
But maybe there’s a much more sinister battle at work—in our minds, hearts, and homes.
In this podcast, we’ll discuss “Fighting for Your Family” with Chris Bennett, who recently released a book under this title.
Chris is a pastor, storyteller, writer, and producer from Dallas, Texas. His wife Julie is a writer, producer, speaker, and two-time cancer survivor from Edmond, Oklahoma. Together, Chris and Julie are the founders of Welcome Home Lifestyle, a production company that creates and promotes content celebrating healthy, thriving families, friendships, and communities.
Chris and Julie are also co-hosts of the Finding Family podcast. The Bennetts currently reside in Malibu, California, where Chris serves as lead pastor of Vintage Church Malibu.
Dean and Chris have an intriguing conversation, exploring topics like:
- What it means to be men who fight for our families
- How to navigate the challenges of transition and turmoil in a godly way
- Being men who fight for what truly matters
- The biblical principle of “honor” and why it is so crucial to healthy relationships
- Why humility is so essential for men to embrace
- How actively practicing hospitality transforms both us and those we invite in
- How singles can embrace these ideas in their context
All this and more, in this month’s edition of the Impactus podcast!
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If you were to rate your current experience reading or listening to the Word of God, how would you fare?
If you're like most guys, Bible engagement can be challenging. While some are very disciplined with their time in the Word, others struggle to prioritize and focus.
Our most recent Spiritual Health of Men Survey found that you aren’t alone. We saw some decline from the previous year in the number of respondents who responded to the question of whether they spend regular time in the Scriptures.
So what can you do about it, and how can you get better at spending time daily in the Word?
The good news is that there are resources, translations, and organizations to help you. On this month’s podcast, we’re excited to speak with Duncan Campbell.
Duncan is the Vice President of National Programs for the Canadian Bible Society, one of our ministry partners here at Impactus, with a mission to help people hear God speak, in Canada and across the world. He is an author, blogger, visionary, husband, father, grandfather, adventurer, and incorrigibly curious.
Today, we’ll talk to Duncan about his spiritual journey, the mission and many projects of the Bible Society, and how they can help men engage with the Word.
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The pandemic wreaked havoc on our world like nothing else in our lifetime. The fallout continues with polarization, division, depression, isolation, distraction, and the disappearance of many people from inside the walls of the Church.
But what if the events of the past few years were not a problem but an opportunity?
What if God was using this time in our history to awaken people to His Kingdom and awaken His people to truly be a people of calm in chaos, to be salt and light in this dark world, and to be His ambassadors of hope and justice?
What if God was stirring you and me to ask ourselves if we truly follow Jesus—or just watch from a distance?
In this podcast, we are excited to sit down with a leading voice in the Canadian Church—someone who has cut through the distractions to call the Church back to becoming a disciple-making Church.
Daniel Im is a pastor, Bible teacher, writer, and podcast host who is passionate about discipleship and the local church. He is the lead pastor of Beulah Alliance Church and the author of No Silver Bullets, Planting Missional Churches, You Are What You Do, and the newly released The Discipleship Opportunity. He lives in Edmonton, Alberta, with his wife, Christina, and their three children.
In this conversation, we discuss topics such as:
- How the pandemic affected the Church and the world in which we currently live
- How we can navigate a post-truth, relativistic culture as people who believe in truth
- Why we should view the pandemic as an opportunity for greater growth in Christ
- The impact of “deconstruction” and what we can learn from it
- The dangers of consumerism in the Church and how God calls us deeper
- Why it is so essential for men to intentionally seek connection and friendship with other men
We cover all this and more in this fascinating conversation with Daniel Im!
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How could a two-year-old orphan boy, taken out of his country by mistake in 1975 from halfway around the world, now impact the world as a grown man in 2024?
In this month’s podcast, you’ll hear a story of just how that happened!
Google “Orphan 32,” and you will read how Thanh Campbell was taken from his war-torn country of Vietnam and came to Canada as part of the last flight out of Saigon in 1975 with 56 other orphans.
Thanh has written his memoir Orphan 32 and, most recently, his illustrated children's book, Lost and Found: Orphan 32 Goes Home.
He has been invited to be a guest on such programs as CBC Radio, TVO, Canada AM, and 100 Huntley Street, with a chance to share his life story with the nation. As a keynote speaker, Thanh has been invited to speak at The United Nations in Toronto, Fortune 500 companies, business groups, conferences, and schools across Canada.
Most recently, Thanh was appointed as the Canadian Director of Partners Worldwide Canada. Founded in 2011, Partners Worldwide Canada pursues ending poverty around the world through business so that all may have an abundant life.
Thanh lives in Drayton, ON, with his wife, Teresa. They have six children and one crazy dog, Theo.
This month, Dean and Thanh will discuss:
- Thanh’s remarkable story of being born into and rescued from the brutal violence of the Vietnam War, immigrating to Canada, and being adopted into a loving Canadian family;
- How he hit rock bottom in his life, and met Jesus there;
- How God worked powerfully and redemptively to help Thanh find his long-lost Vietnamese family later in life;
- The importance of finding identity in Christ as a son of God;
- What a “redemptive business” is and how Thanh and Partners Worldwide are transforming the lives of people in poverty;
- The hope for the hopeless that can only be found in Jesus!
In this podcast, we will hear this amazing story of the value of family, faith, and the power of hope in God’s great plan of redemption. Don’t miss it!
If you were to rate the health of your marriage or family today, how would you score? 10/10, living in bliss? 5/10, with some challenges and struggles? Lower?
Marriages and families go through different seasons, but the good news is that you don’t have to go through them alone. There are supports to help you and your family: counsellors, pastors, churches, and ministry organizations who are there to come alongside you wherever you find yourself on the journey.
One of those organizations is FamilyLife Canada, a ministry of Power to Change, which exists to bring help and hope to every marriage and family. They believe:
- The family is the foundation of every community.
- A healthy marriage is the cornerstone of a strong family.
- The ultimate and lasting strength of every marriage and family is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ.
This month, we are excited to have Neil and Sharol Josephson of FamilyLife Canada with us. Previously a Bible College President and a TV news anchor, Neil and Sharol have devoted this season of life to marriage and family ministry—first at a large church in California and now with FamilyLife Canada. Neil and Sharol have been married for 41 years. They love Jesus, each other and their family, especially their four remarkable grandchildren!
Join us for this helpful and powerful conversation, where we talk about strengthening marriage, supporting singleness, building relationships and families that thrive, and how men can be strong and steadfast blessings to their loved ones.
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If you’re a football fan, you’re going to love this conversation, and if you’re not a football fan, you’re still going to love this conversation!
On January 8, the 15-0 undefeated Michigan Wolverines under coach Jim Harbaugh won the US National College Championship, beating No. 2 Washington Huskies 34-13 before a crowd of 72,808 at NRG Stadium in Houston, TX.
What a game it was!
In this podcast, Dean talks with one of the key leaders who played a pivotal role in the University of Michigan's triumph.
Robby Emery currently serves as the Assistant to the University of Michigan Head Football Coach. He is known for his unique and impactful role as a character coach and pastor for the team. His dedication goes beyond the field, focusing on instilling values, ethics, and character development in the players under his guidance. Robby has also served as a local pastor for over 20 years.
In addition to his professional accomplishments, Robby is a devoted family man, having been married to Danielle for 25 years. Together, they have built a loving family, and Robby takes pride in being a father to three children. His commitment to both his family and the football program reflects his passion for fostering success and personal growth in all aspects of life.
In this exciting and wide-ranging conversation, Dean and Robby cover a variety of topics, including:
- The experience of the Wolverines’ historic season and National Championship win
- What does a day look like in Robby’s role with the football team?
- How does “revival” happen?
- How can we eliminate fear in our lives?
- The importance of creating trust in our relationships
- How the younger generation is engaging with the Gospel and how we should be sharing it
You won’t want to miss this one!
https://www.impactus.org/podcast/ep-70-football-and-faith-with-coach-robby-emery/
Are you a man who lives your life with a sense of purpose and intentionality?
We’ve heard it said that God “calls” people like pastors, teachers, and missionaries into ministry, but what about the rest of us?
Do we have a “calling” on our lives?
In this podcast, Dean sits down with Phil Wagler, who is certainly no stranger to Impactus!
Phil lives in British Columbia with his family. He has recently written a book called Live Your Assignment: Being Christ’s Ambassador in 7 Spheres of Life, which explores the idea that every believer has been given an assignment by God to fulfill in every area of our lives.
He has a unique take on discipleship and calling and challenges believers everywhere to apply these principles to their lives.
Phil has lived these ideas as a believer, son, husband, father, pastor, mission leader, and servant in the broader Body of Christ through working with the Evangelical Fellowship of Canada and the World Evangelical Association.
Phil is deeply committed to inspiring and equipping the local church for a holistic mission and the ministry of reconciliation, which you will hear about in this interview.
Dean and Phil cover a variety of topics and ideas in this conversation, including:
- How “reconciliation” is truly the centre of the Gospel, where we are reconciled to God, ourselves, others, and Creation.
- Exploring the implications of giving to Caesar what is Caesar’s and giving to God what is God’s (Matthew 22:21).
- What it means to be an “ambassador” of Christ, and the posture an ambassador takes in representing the Kingdom and the King.
- The spheres of influence God has given to every believer (not just the “professional” ministers!) and how to embrace being an ambassador in each of these areas.
- What it means to truly “let go” to God and the wonderful blessings that come when we do.
- Why “faithfulness” is more important than “vision” in a believer’s life.
- Knowing that there is no “just” in the Kingdom of God (e.g. “I’m ‘just’ a plumber…” “I’m ‘just’ a homemaker…”; every assignment that God gives to a believer is significant!
Join us for this fascinating conversation with Dean and Phil!
If you were to rate your prayer life today on a scale of 1-10…how would you rate yourself?
Of course, there is no easy rating scale for our relationship with God, but prayer is one of those areas of our spiritual lives that men consistently find difficult.
At the start of this fresh new year, when topics around spiritual disciplines are common conversation, this is a great time to evaluate our prayer habits and what they mean for our walk with God.
In this month’s podcast, we are excited to welcome Dr. Bill Thrasher! Bill is a graduate professor of Bible and Theology at Moody Theological Seminary and a frequent speaker for churches and retreats nationwide. His ministry interests include campus discipleship, singles ministry, and evangelism.
He is the author of Believing God for His Best, A Journey to Victorious Praying, Principles of Christian Living from Romans 5-8, The Attributes of God in Pauline Theology, and Living the Life God Has Planned. Bill and his wife, Penny, live in the Chicago area and have three sons.
His most recent book is entitled How to Resurrect a Dead Prayer Life. We all know that prayer is essential—it's the lifeblood of the Christian life. But most of us find prayer to be challenging. We easily get discouraged, disillusioned, and distracted.
So, how can a man build and sustain a meaningful and valuable prayer life?
Through this conversation, Dean and Dr. Thrasher cover such topics as:
- What does it mean to “pray in the Spirit”? How does the Holy Spirit motivate and encourage our prayer life?
- How can we identify and revive a “dead” prayer life?
- How can someone with a worried or frantic life begin to enjoy God’s presence and peace?
- What does it mean to truly encounter God in prayer, and not just do it as a religious duty?
- What do you do when you don’t know how to pray or what to pray for?
- How does God use our most challenging moments to actually defeat the Enemy in our lives?
- How can we turn our chronic temptations into moments of encounter and victory with God?
Enjoy all this and more in this month’s podcast!
Have you ever felt stressed, burdened, or overwhelmed by all the things you have to do?
Then along comes the Church, and our relationship with God, and we look at all the things we “should” be doing, and we see more deficits and feel more guilt.
Christians are called to live a life that glorifies God and blesses others. How do we do that when we're already feeling stretched to capacity?
But what if God didn’t expect you to do everything…and certainly not do it all overnight?
What if one of the greatest things we could do for God, our families, our communities, and ourselves, was to “just show up”?
We tend to think it's the big, bold moments that matter in life, but in reality, it's the steady accumulation of small acts of obedience to God that add up to a life of meaning and impact.
For this month’s podcast, we are so excited to have Drew Dyck with us. Drew is an editor at Moody Publishers and the former managing editor of Leadership Journal.
He is the author of several books, including Your Future Self Will Thank You: Secrets to Self-Control from the Bible and Brain Science, and his latest work, Just Show Up: How Small Acts of Faithfulness Change Everything. Drew’s work has been featured in Christianity Today, Relevant, and CNN.com. He lives near Portland, Oregon, with his wife, Grace, and their three children.
As Dean and Drew jump into their conversation, they tackle such topics as:
- How are Christians called to truly “change the world?”
- What does it mean to “just show up” for God and others?
- Why is physical presence with other people so important?
- How do we grapple with the many distractions in our lives, especially our screens?
- Why do so many men struggle with being “escape artists”?
- What is a way to engage in spiritual disciplines without feeling pressure or shame for not doing “enough”?
- How can our actions affect our mental health, both positively and negatively?
- What can guys do in times when they find their faith wavering?
All this and more in this month’s podcast! Enjoy!
Disclaimer: This conversation frankly discusses sensitive topics relating to sex and marriage that may not be age-appropriate for younger viewers/listeners.
In this month’s podcast, Dean sits down for a conversation with Sheila and Keith Gregoire. Sheila is no stranger to the Impactus podcast, and we are happy to have her husband with us this time as well!
Sheila is the face behind Bare Marriage, a website and blog dedicated to Christian marriage and sex. She is the author of nine books, including best-sellers The Great Sex Rescue and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and is a much sought-after speaker on these topics.
She lives in Ontario, Canada, with her husband Keith, who co-authored a new book, The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex, with Sheila. They have been married for over 30 years and have two adult children and two grandchildren.
The Gregoires are passionate about changing the evangelical conversation about sex and marriage to line up with Kingdom principles. They desire to bring research and data to this conversation, and to undo some of the harmful and toxic Christian teaching on sex that exists out there, and to bring sexuality back in line with the Scriptures and the way of Jesus.
In this podcast, Dean and the Gregoires have an absorbing and in-depth conversation about some very tricky topics, exploring such questions as:
- If sex is truly a gift from God, why do many Christian women feel like it is anything but?
- Why is our theology of sex so important?
- What are the 5 most important contributors to a frequent and healthy sex life in a marriage?
- What are some of the most damaging teachings about sex out there in Christian circles, and why are they so damaging?
- How has “purity culture” teaching affected marriages?
- What is a healthy Kingdom view of sexuality?
- What are some lessons about sex that Christian men need to un-learn?
- What does it mean to be “Christ-like” in your sex life?
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Disclaimer: This conversation discusses sensitive topics that may not be age-appropriate for younger viewers/listeners.
In this podcast, Dean interviews Zachary Wagner, author of Non-Toxic Masculinity: Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality.
Zachary hails from Chicago and currently lives in England as a PhD candidate at Oxford. He is also the editorial director of the Center for Pastoral Theologians, where he co-hosts the CPT Podcast. He is a researcher, writer, and ordained minister who discusses post-evangelical discipleship, theological formation, and speaking against abuse in the Church.
As the #MeToo movement erupted and decades of male sexual sin against others was exposed, many Christians were shocked as the #ChurchToo movement followed—we learned that much sexual sin and abuse was happening even within the Church.
From small churches to megachurches and international ministries, numerous scandals were exposed involving the faithful experiencing sexual harassment and abuse at the hands of Christian men.
Combine this with an ongoing conversation in the Church about “purity culture” and its effects on a generation of young Christians, and Zach found himself with a lot of questions that needed answers, which he explored in his book.
As Dean and Zach jump into these hot topics, they grapple with some of those questions:
- Where did “purity culture” come from, and why?
- What was good about purity culture, and what wasn’t good, in retrospect?
- In defining masculinity, what is toxic vs. non-toxic masculinity?
- How can we live out being men, made in the image of God, in healthy and holy ways?
- What do our masculinity and sexuality have to do with fatherhood?
- What does Jesus’s life and example teach us about masculinity?
As this discussion unfolds, we learn a lot about what is going on in our culture at this moment, what has been going on in the Church, and how we can find hopeful and healthy ways to move forward as men, living into our God-created nature, and doing so in a way that serves and blesses the world.
We hope you enjoy this fascinating conversation about some very tricky topics, and are encouraged in your manhood through it!
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In this episode, Impactus President Dean Brenton sits down with Men’s Ministry legend Steve Sonderman!
Steve is highly regarded as one of the pioneers of the Men’s Ministry movement in America. He started one of the country’s first Men’s Ministries at Elmbrook Church in Brookfield, WI. He is the founder of No Regrets Men’s Ministries, including the annual No Regrets Men’s Conference, which draws thousands of men across the US and around the world. He consults and equips worldwide, training local churches on creating their own dynamic Men's Ministry in their own context.
In this fascinating conversation, Dean and Steve take time to cover a variety of helpful topics surrounding Men's Ministry, including:
- How can churches reach men for Jesus more effectively?
- How can a church get a Men’s Ministry started?
- What is changing in Men’s Ministry, and how can churches navigate?
- What is the greatest challenge that Men’s Ministries are currently facing?
- Why is Men’s Ministry so important to the Kingdom of God and to the local church?
- What do pastors need to know about the value of Men’s Ministry in their church?
- How can a Men’s Ministry shift to become more outward-focused and missional?
- What are young men today most desperate for, and how can Men’s Ministries engage with the younger generation?
Amidst this wide-ranging conversation, there is much hope, encouragement, strategy and vision for every Men’s Ministry leader and volunteer out there who is doing the good and noble work of ministering to men.
Dean and Steve give us the gift of a conversation steeped in a wealth of knowledge, experience, expertise, and godly wisdom, as Steve shares from his decades of leadership and ministry involvement in Men's Ministry and the local church.
We hope you enjoy this deep dive into Men’s Ministry with one of the all-time greats.
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Have you ever had someone constant in your life pass away? Have you ever wondered how you might continue on when you lose someone so close to you?
Stephanie shares her story of losing her father to ALS. He was her rock and ever present in her life. Through her experience, she learned to trust more deeply in Jesus as the one who can fully be trusted. When life isn't going the way, we had hoped, we can always trust in the Lord and His word.
The Legacy of an Extraordinary Ordinary Man:
Stephanie's Father, Jesse Morales, was an ordinary Filipino immigrant and mechanic who found the better life he was looking for when he met Jesus. Jesse learned to walk by faith and not by sight and left a legacy for his family and scores of others when he passed away from ALS. Stephanie authored a book called Anything But Ordinary, which tells the story of the divine encounter that changed the trajectory of one man's life and the faith that profoundly influenced the too-short journey to his death. This story will inspire you that any ordinary guy can leave an extraordinary legacy and impact.
Losing a loved one can be emotionally devastating, making finding hope in the pain challenging. However, Stephanie's experience taught her the profound lesson of trusting in Jesus during life's most challenging moments. While life may not always go as planned, turning to the Lord and relying on His word can bring comfort and guidance.
Healing Father Pain:
Regardless of our background, we all carry a degree of "father pain" caused by various life experiences, whether it's a paper cut or an arm amputation. For Stephanie, losing her father left a profound impact, forever altering her life's course. However, she found wholeness and security in Jesus.
Understanding Our Identity as Children of God:
Stephanie's journey led her to understand the significance of her identity as a beloved child of God. Just as God declared His love for Jesus during His baptism, she learned to trust God's promises and accept her identity as His daughter. This revelation helped her break free from the limitations that doubt, and insecurity imposed on her life.
Each of us must learn to believe and trust that we are a son of God. We are held back when we don't take God at his word and trust that what he says about us is true. Listen or watch the full episode to hear Stephanie's full story.
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Are you concerned about the growing number of Canadian young adults who are leaving their faith behind? As parents, we hold a tremendous responsibility to ensure the transmission of faith to the next generation. How can we effectively disciple our children within the confines of our own homes? What steps can we take to pass on a strong foundation of faith to our children? These are not just ordinary questions; they are critical inquiries that demand careful and thoughtful answers.
Parenting is a journey that brings both immense joy and significant challenges. However, our role as parents extends far beyond teaching life skills. We have the essential duty of educating our children, nurturing their social development, and raising them within the framework of faith.
To shed light on this crucial topic, the Canadian Evangelical Family Faith Formation Study (CEFFFS) was initiated in 2019. This groundbreaking project, led by the Evangelical Fellowship of Canada in collaboration with 15 ministry partners, sought to understand how Canadian evangelical parents perceive their role as disciple-makers and how they actively shape their children's faith within the home. The study draws upon insights gained from interviews with parents, family ministry experts, and a comprehensive survey involving over 1,000 evangelical parents across Canada.
In this episode, we are joined by two members of the research team who will help us delve into the study's key findings and their profound implications for Christian parents. Lindsay Callaway, a dedicated researcher at the Centre for Research on Church and Faith within the EFC, brings her expertise garnered from the Parenting Faith study, the Significant Church study, and her role as a co-host on the Faith Trends Podcast. Lindsay holds graduate degrees in systematic theology from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and bioethics from Trinity International University. She lives in Ottawa with her husband, a pastor, and their three children.
Joining us as well is Rick Hiemstra, Director of the EFC's Centre for Research on Church and Faith. Rick's background encompasses pastoral experience in the Wesleyan tradition, along with teaching mathematics and computer science at the high school level. Renowned for his insights on Canadian church and cultural trends, he has contributed to several studies, including Parenting Faith, Significant Church, Renegotiating Faith, and various explorations into Bible engagement, local church missions, small evangelical churches, and faith formation during emerging adulthood. Rick holds a BMath from the University of Waterloo, a BEd from Ottawa University, and an MTS from Tyndale Seminary.
Together, Lindsay Callaway and Rick Hiemstra will unpack the research findings and guide us toward a deeper understanding of how we, as parents, can fulfill our vital role as disciple-makers and raise a generation firmly rooted in faith.
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Have you ever struggled with your mental wellness or know of someone who has? Mental health in Canada is a huge concern. Some would say a crisis.
Men in Canada are less likely to seek or receive mental healthcare than women and more likely to die by suicide. Suicide rates are 3x higher in men than in women, with men between the ages of 35-59 being the most vulnerable.
This is why it's essential to talk about mental health issues and find solutions to this enormous problem. In this episode, we will hear about one of those solutions.
Our guest is Daniel Whitehead, the CEO of Sanctuary Mental Health Ministries. He spearheads the movement to equip churches to support mental health and well-being in their community. Previously, Daniel spent ten years in full-time vocational ministry, serving as senior pastor of a church for eight years. He is also a certified mediator and a double theology graduate of Regent College.
A Mental Shift
There has been a significant change in online search trends related to mental health. With searches related to information about depression in the Bible and God's perspective on mental health topping the list.
Mental health concerns affect everyone, regardless of social factors or religious affiliation. That is why it's crucial that the church address this issue and provide a supportive environment where people can seek help and recover.
An Image Shift
It's important to recognize that as human beings, we are created in the image of God, who exists in a relationship as Father, Son, and Spirit. We're inherently wired for relationships. We need each other.
There are many factors and reasons why, but the fact remains that men often hesitate to seek help for mental health issues. This is where small groups play a vital role. Men can come together in these groups, providing a safe space to discuss their struggles and find support.
If you're currently struggling with mental health concerns, it's essential to know that you are not alone. Many others are going through similar challenges. We encourage you to reach out to someone you trust and have a conversation.
This will require courage, but remember that God is already aware of your situation and desires for you to be in a community with other men in your life who will listen and support you.
For leaders of men's groups and men's ministries, please consider addressing this important topic within your community. By discussing mental health openly, you can address the needs present in your group and provide valuable support.
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Welcome to the Impactus Podcast; we’re here to equip men for a life of purpose and godly impact. In this episode, we are joined by Sheila Wray Gregoire, co-author of the book "She Deserves Better: Raising Girls to Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up."
What if some Christian teachings have damaged our daughters and taught them to be small and invisible? What if some of the most common teaching girls hear in the church today make them more likely to marry an abuser, less likely to understand consent, and more likely to blame themselves if they're assaulted?
Sheila, along with her daughter Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach and Joanna Sawatsky, conducted a survey of over 7,000 women and found some startling results.
In their book, "She Deserves Better," the authors expose common evangelical teachings that can backfire, causing shame instead of good choices. They delve into the purity movement, which can lead to shame and unrealistic expectations, and the strict dating rules that can prime girls for abuse. They also address the belief that girls should be small and invisible, which can prevent them from setting healthy boundaries and speaking up for themselves.
This conversation is especially important for fathers or those who hope to be fathers, but it is relevant for everyone.
It's time to have a frank conversation about how Christian teachings can harm young girls and how we can do better. Tune in to the Impactus Podcast to learn more about raising girls to resist toxic teachings and live a life of purpose and godly impact.
This conversation gets into some sensitive topics. So, if the little ones are around or you're listening on the drive to school, please be warned that this episode may be better heard without young ears.
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We have been blessed to have completed four conferences in Ottawa, Cambridge, Edmonton, and Winnipeg, where we ministered to over 2,500 men. We had some amazing speakers at these conferences, and one of those speakers was Matt Tapley. On this episode of the Impactus podcast, we get to have a deeper conversation with him.
Matt has been the Lead Pastor of Lakemount Worship Centre in Grimsby, Ontario, since 2008. He is a gifted leader who serves the Church by developing leaders in a culture of dependence on the Spirit with total devotion to the unchanging Word of God. He frequently travels the nation as an insightful preacher, anointed worship leader, and a keen contributor to leadership team environments.
Matt and His wife Lisa have been happily married since August 1994. Together they have three amazing kids – Abigail, Joey, and Sarah. In November of 2012, their youngest daughter Sarah died after a 3-year battle with cancer. Accordingly, a significant dimension of their life message is declaring God's relentless goodness even amid tragedy and disappointment. God continues to use their testimony to encourage others who are facing trials and challenges of faith.
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Have you ever wondered if you can break free of your past to live free and fulfilled? In this episode, we have a fascinating conversation about breaking the cycle of the brokenness of our past to find real success in our marriages, families, and relationship with God.
Our guest on this episode is Jean-Paul Beran, president of Focus on the Family Canada. Jean-Paul and his wife Susan were married in 1996 and have two teenage daughters. Born and raised in Vancouver, Jean-Paul studied Commerce, Operational Management, and International Business. Jean-Paul’s personal commitment to Jesus Christ is evident, as is his passion for families in Canada and his heart for serving God.
In June 2021, he completed a Master of Arts in Leadership, Theology and Society from Regent College. The focus of his thesis was brokenness in the workplace. This provided him with unique insights into some of the challenges families are facing today.
Breaking Our Brokenness The world needs authentic men who have experienced pain and brokenness and are willing to share those experiences with other men.
Jean-Paul shares how the brokenness in his life has allowed him to communicate the hope of Jesus with men and families facing complex challenges. Helping them not to feel alone and find wholeness in Jesus Christ.
Many men feel the need to keep their brokenness guarded, they feel the pressure to be strong and not show weakness. This kind of pressure is exhausting with a huge emotional toll.
Our brokenness and weakness are not bad when we have God at our side.
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)
In order to be a good dad, we must first learn to be good sons. Our priority should be prayer. That we should first stay connected with the Lord through 1-on-1 prayer and his word.
For those men in pain and feeling broken, it is important that they find someone they can talk to. We are not alone, and if we take a step of courage to share with another man, we’ll find the encouragement we need to turn to the Lord and face our brokenness.
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Is a solid, fulfilling, thriving marriage even possible in today’s world? Is a great marriage only for the "lucky" ones? What does it take to build a rock-solid relationship? What message is your marriage sending?
We believe God has a purpose, a plan, and a path forward for you, whatever the status of your marriage today. Our podcast today is going to tackle the marriage conversation with the help of someone who has given much of his life and ministry to strengthening marriages.
Our guest today is Matt Jacobson. Matt is a pastor and founder of FaithfulMan.com, an online social media community focusing on marriage, parenting, and biblical teaching. He is the creator of Freedom Course, teaching men the powerful, biblical path to getting completely free from porn and sexual sin. Matt is the author of the bestselling Loving Your Wife Well and 100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear. He lives with his wife, Lisa, in the Pacific Northwest, where they have raised their eight children. Together Matt and Lisa are cohosts of the popular Faithful Life podcast.
We know that every man wants to have a loving, safe, comfortable, warm marriage. For many, this is a pipe dream. Matt reminds us that this is supposed to be the reality for all Christian marriages.
It is God’s design that we have healthy and whole marriages.
This reality is available to every couple that is willing to yield their hearts to doing things God’s way.
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Have you ever said things like: I'm running out of time? I wish I had more time. Where did the time go? For those who have seen their kids grow up too fast or have seen a loved one pass away too early, these are the human tensions of time.
All these constructs and references of time remind us that we are temporal creatures, that live inside of time. Yet by faith, we know we are not bound or trapped by time. How should this reality affect how we live?
Listen to the words of the Apostle James; “Look here, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit." How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it's here a little while, then it's gone. What you ought to say is, "If the Lord wants us to, we will live and do this or that." Otherwise you are boasting about your own pretentious plans, and all such boasting is evil. Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.”
James writes that life is fleeting, but it is lived in its most total sense when we live it wisely, humbly, and obediently. The start of 2023 is an appropriate "time" to investigate this deep topic and its implications.
Our guest on this episode is Dr. James K.A. Smith (Jamie), a Canadian philosopher who is currently a Professor of Philosophy at Calvin University in Grand Rapids, Michigan, holding the Gary & Henrietta Byker Chair in Applied Reformed Theology & Worldview.
Jamie helps us understand that if we realize that created things have this fleetingness about them, we can recalibrate our expectations about how to live with these temporal things in our lives. We can learn how to best steward and enjoy them while we can, knowing they will pass.
We should embrace our mortality with discernment from the spirit of God as our guide in the context and accountability of our faith community.
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In this episode, we have a special treat: one of the original twelve disciples of Jesus Christ and leaders in the early church, Thaddeus.
Ok, not exactly; however, we have the actor who plays him in The Chosen.
The Chosen is the first-ever multi-season series about the life of Christ written by Dallas Jenkins. This show has captured the imaginations of tens of millions of people. The first two seasons received great reviews. Now, at long last, the wait is over: The Chosen Season 3 is out. Episodes begin releasing on The Chosen app before Christmas.
In this emotional and consequential chapter, the honeymoon phase is over as the disciples discover the real cost of following Jesus. The theme of Season 3 is, “Come to me all you who are weary and heavy-burdened, and I will give you rest.” As Jesus’s followers face mounting internal and external pressures, they learn to find courage and peace no matter what’s thrown at them.
Our guest is Giavani Cairo, an actor who was born & raised in Livonia, Michigan, and is currently based in Los Angeles, California. Aside from his regular series role as Thaddeus in The Chosen, his other credits include 911: Lone Star (FOX) and Doom Patrol (HBO MAX). As a youngster, Giavani was inspired to pursue acting by Matt Damon’s performance in GOOD WILL HUNTING. His love for storytelling and connecting with others has driven his career. He is a graduate of the Baron Brown Acting Studio in Santa Monica, California, and graduate of Michigan State University (Go Green! Go White!). When Giavani is not acting, he pursues his passion for sports (especially football) and physical fitness.
After moving to L.A. to pursue his dreams of acting, Giavani hit a point in his life where he was dissatisfied with where his career was headed and felt distant from the Lord.
At that point, he decided to invest in his relationship with God. He also decided to do work that mattered. After some time working with a non-profit serving others, he was given the opportunity to audition for The Chosen.
Through the role of Thaddeus, Giavani has learned to live more patiently and credits this experience with allowing him to grow closer to God.
If you haven’t already seen it, season 3’s trailer is included in this episode. Check it out now!
You can find Season 1 on YouTube or download and stream from The Chosen App.
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Our guest is Jonathan Lewis, a Financial Security Advisor in Halifax, Nova Scotia, and the president of Eastport Financial Group Inc. He authored two books, Deep Water (2018) and More Than Money (2021). His More than Money podcast speaks to the stewardship of all our assets, from our time and talent to our agency, purpose, and responsibility. He is the dedicated husband to Sara Lewis and the father of two beautiful daughters. From his home in Nova Scotia, Canada, Jonathan’s vibrant drive to further his faith, family, community, philanthropy, and entrepreneurialism has been constant throughout his life.
What is biblical stewardship? If we are the steward of something, that presupposes that we are not the owner of it.
In Matthew 25, we read a parable from Jesus about a man going on a journey. He called his servants and entrusted his wealth to them. When he returns, he asks them to give an account of what they did with what they had been given.
The one who stewarded well was praised and given more. The one is acted out of fear and did not act rejected by the master.
Ultimately, we are only responsible for what we do with what we have been given. Regardless of how much you make or what you do for a living, we have all been given much.
In 2 Corinthians 9, we are told that “God loves a cheerful giver.” A cheerful giver is a person whose heart and hope are not attached to what they are giving but instead sees everything they have as a gift from God for our stewardship.
Too much stuff We are constantly bombarded with stuff. We all recognize we have too much stuff and feel pressured to get more things. It is like gluttony on steroids in our society today.
When is the best time to start being a good steward? Right now! It has nothing to do with what God has given you, how little or how much. Stewardship recognizes that God has given you skills, abilities, relationships, talents, and money.
He expects you to be a good steward of whatever you have right now.
Practical advice for couples. First, realize that there are two of you. If you want to go fast, go alone. To finish the marathon, you must learn to run at the same speed together.
Second, consume good biblical resources together. Read, listen and share with each other.
Third, assess the areas of your life you are responsible for stewarding, including your money, time, and health.
Train yourself now with all that God has entrusted you with. This way, as you are entrusted with more, you will have developed the disciple of stewardship in your life.
Make a list of everything God has entrusted you with. Is there anything on your list you can steward better to the glory of God?
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- Book: More Than Money: One man's journey to giving beyond the tithe: https://amzn.to/3RLpJdk
- Jonathan’s Foundation: https://www.jdwlfoundation.org/
- Generous Giving - https://generousgiving.org
- MoneyWise Radio with Rob West https://www.moneywise.org/show
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Previous podcast Jonathan did with us: Overcoming the Hole Left by Fatherlessness: https://www.impactus.org/podcast/facing-fatherlessness-for-men-with-jonathan-lewis/
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In this episode, we wade into the topic of masculinity. What is masculinity? How are real men supposed to act, and who are they supposed to be? We know toxic masculinity exists, and none of us wants to fall into that category, but millions of men lack a real vision for their lives, so they are left open to all kinds of influences. Because of this confusion, our world is hurting.
Listen for a fresh perspective on godly manhood from Brant Hansen. You may find your heart and life changed!
As culture seems to deconstruct masculinity, the question left unanswered is, what does it mean to be a man? What, if anything, is uniquely masculine? God's nature is both masculine and feminine, so masculine must refer to something.
We must find that beautiful, positive thing called masculinity.
Real men are keepers of the garden. We have been given a role to play, just as Adam in the garden was given a role to play. We are still care-takers of the garden. We use whatever we have---skills, talents, temperaments---as we tend our garden.
The keeper of the garden protects it. The keeper of the garden is a cultivator and builder of people.
Real men take responsibility for their own spiritual life. Emotions can be helpful, but they can also be misleading. Taking responsibility for your spiritual life doesn't mean becoming more emotional; it's about becoming more loyal. God is looking for our loyalty.
We are all sinners, but we keep showing up. We fall, but we get back up.
Real men are men of action. Men may find anger helpful, believing it helps them get things done. However, anger creates a dangerous environment where the people around us can't feel safe and grow. If we are called to tend to our garden, we must not be a threat to our garden. Anger makes us exactly that.
Anger clouds your judgment. We should be reasonable, taking appropriate action against injustice, driven by love and compassion to do the right thing.
The world needs better men, and the world needs men who step into the hard work of “tending the garden.”
- The Men We Need: God’s Purpose for the Manly Man, the Avid Indoorsman, or Any Man Willing to Show Up.
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Have you ever wondered why you do some of the things you do? Why do you react a certain way, why do you get triggered or irritated so easily, or why do you sometimes lose it only to regret it later?
The apostle Paul asked similar questions in Romans 7:15 “I don’t really understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.”
In this episode, Steve Carter shares the importance of abiding in Christ. One of the pieces that we often miss in scripture is the presence of God. When we break down the scriptures, we realize that God is everywhere, that He is present right now, and if He is here, He is up to something.
An Invitation As men, we often have the mentality, “I have to do this for this person,” “I have to provide for my family,” “I have to do this for my community…for my church”. The invitation from Christ is more than just to do something.
The invitation from Christ is first to come and follow Him, to be with Him and see how He does it.
With all the pressures and hurries in our world, it is no wonder many find it difficult to abide in God’s presence, sit, rest and learn. However, when we take time and experience His presence, we will find our peace and joy in Christ.
We cannot microwave spiritual formation. It takes time to grow, to heal, to mend, to discover your passions, your prejudices, your fears and hopes, your strengths and weaknesses, just like a good bottle of wine. ~ Steve Carter
Spiritual formation is a process that takes time and requires we enter into the presence of God daily. We will see wholeness in our lives if we commit to abide in Christ.
Everyone that goes to the gym knows this is true. Muscle growth and development take time and consistency. In the same way, our spiritual growth requires the consistent presence of God.
The Thing Beneath The Thing When we react to something or someone, we are often reenacting something from our past. Our reaction points to a place in our hearts where we need healing and wholeness only found as we abide in Christ.
God wants us to be spiritually whole and healthy so that we can become better men, husbands, friends, and leaders.
Today, be willing to get to the thing beneath the thing. Talk to a friend, see a counsellor, and take a step forward.
Remember when Jesus said:
“I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit, because apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5 NRSV
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Where do we find our worth, identity, and value? What defines you? Your Title? Position? Degrees? Wealth? Success? Family? Our toys or technology? Or is there something deeper, more significant that can form us into the men we were created to be?
In this episode, Dean is joined by Daniel Im, the Lead Pastor of Beulah Alliance Church. His latest book is You Are What You Do: And Six Other Lies about Work, Life, and Love. He is also the author of No Silver Bullets and co-author of Planting Missional Churches. He co-hosts the IMbetween Podcast with his wife, Christina.
In recent years, the gig economy has grown rapidly, especially through the pandemic. This is because the gig economy promises a life of freedom and flexibility. You can control what you do and when you do it. In contrast to most ‘day jobs’, you are in control, you can achieve the freedom and flexibility you desire.
There are seven lies we tend to believe as we attempt to define ourselves, and they all come back to our core desire for more freedom and flexibility. This is nothing new. These lies can be traced all the way back to the garden when the serpent tempted Adam and Eve to be their own god and find freedom on their own.
Those seven lies are:
- You are what you do.
- You are what you experience.
- You are what you own.
- You are who you know.
- You are what you know.
- You are who you raise.
- You are your past.
All these lies promise a life of freedom and flexibility when the truth is that freedom and flexibility are only found through Jesus. Through the one who gave up His freedom so that we could experience freedom through eternal life.
The invitation to step into the freedom that only Jesus Christ can provide is open to everyone today.
If you need that freedom today, take a step towards Jesus.
Listen to the full episode as Daniel and Dean expose these lies and help us understand how we can truly experience the ultimate freedom. Let us not live a lie; let us live in the truth of whom we were created to be! It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. In Him, we can find that freedom and purpose for each one of us.
Resources + Daniel’s books: - You Are What You Do - No Silver Bullets - Planting Missional Churches
- IMbetween Podcast
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Are you looking for a mentor? Are you interested in mentoring someone? What is mentorship? On today’s episode, Jordan and Andrew discuss all things mentorship, including the importance of mentoring and how it has shaped them into the men they have become.
Mentorship is more than just influence. It's more than teaching someone something. There is an element of transferring information, however, mentorship is more than that. It is about life change.
What we are really talking about here is discipleship. As Christians, this means giving a part of yourself to someone else in a Christ-centered way that leads that person to be more like Jesus. It is allowing someone else to observe and see how you do your Christian life.
There is a huge need among young men who desire mentorship but have not gotten connected with an older mature man in the faith. Where are the men willing to help shape the next generation?
For those who desire to be a mentor here are 4 tips to get you started: * Learn how to ask good questions * Have a plan and don’t be afraid to revisit it as needed * Be honest with yourself and have reasonable expectations * Do something together, live life together
For those who are looking for a mentor, here are 4 tips for you: * Respect the mentor’s time * Have a specific goal for mentorship * Take the initiative and approach potential mentors * Find different mentors for different things
It doesn’t have to be complicated. If you desire to have a mentor, take a step in faith, pray and ask the Lord to bring someone into your life to receive mentorship from.
Have courage and start a conversation with the person you want to be mentored by.
Older men, make yourself available. Your experience and time are valuable to the younger men in your life.
On this episode we’re joined with by Shaila Visser from Alpha Canada to discuss evangelism and the great commission. Shaila is extremely passionate about evangelism and the church. Her heart is to see the church engage in a deeper way in the great commission.
As we continue to navigate a period where our entire world has been turned upside down, Alpha Canada’s research, in partnership with the Flourishing Congregations Institute at Ambrose University, offers an important pulse check on Canadian Christian leaders. Some of these important findings included:
- Only 48% of Church leaders believe that evangelism is central to their church’s approach to discipleship.
- Most who come to the Christian faith do so as children, teens, or young adults, though 46-48% of those who work with youth, children, or families in congregations/parishes agreed or strongly agreed that it is wrong to share Christian beliefs with someone of a different (non)religion in hopes that they will one day identify as Christian.
- On the positive side, the more of a priority a congregation reportedly gives to evangelization, the more likely respondents and their congregations are to adopt beliefs or practices that are more evangelistic in scope.
The Gap in the Christian Worldview
Based on this research there are clearly some gaps in the Christian worldview when it comes to evangelism. Canadian Christians are looking toward their leaders for guidance. People’s perception that they are in control of their lives has been shaken, and many are potentially more open to spiritual conversations.
As more people are asking significant questions on life and purpose, it’s important that we’re there to meet our neighbors where they are.
“Evangelism is joining a conversation the Holy Spirit is already having with another person.” – Darrell Johnson
When we share our faith, we are not working alone. The Holy Spirit was there before our conversation, during it and stays behind when we leave. That is why prayer and evangelism are so interconnected.
“After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go. He told them, “The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves.” Luke 10:1-3
What Can You Do?
Shaila has a practical three step process every Christian can do starting today:
- When you wake up everyday, pray “Holy Spirit use me today and let me join you in what you are doing”.
- Get to know your neighbors, by asking questions. Your neighbors might be on your street, co-workers, parents at your kid’s activities.
- When you find points of pain, step out in faith and ask if you can pray for them now.
You don’t have to have all the answers. In fact, it might be best to not attempt to answer all their questions. As you meet your neighbor where they’re at, allow the Holy Spirit to continue the work in their lives.
Fathers, do you find it is easy to get overwhelmed with the chaos of parenting?
I'm talking about bathwater on the floor, fights between siblings and when they won't eat what you just spent an hour cooking. Not to mention managing the 3 different schedules of extracurricular activities.
It can be a lot.
Oftentimes, family devotions or intentional discipleship can get lost in the noise.
In this episode Jordan talks with Justin Whitmel Earley, author of Habits of the Household about creating gospel-centered rhythms that will help transform the hearts of your kids, as well as the dynamic of your home.
They talk about how to make the most of your already-existing habits, as well as how to create new ones. They discuss how to discipline your children in a way that leads to reconciliation, giving bedtime blessings, and how God shapes our hearts as we seek to shape the hearts of our own children.
Did you know that 1 in 7 Christians worldwide face persecution? The word “persecution” has become more common in segments of the Western Christian church, especially through the difficult months of the pandemic. Health restrictions became equated with religious persecution.
From a global perspective, what is persecution?
What is really happening in the specific parts of the world to those who proclaim faith in Jesus?
As guys, how can we make a difference?
In this episode Dean speaks with Rev. Gary Stagg and Rev. Andrew Croft from Open Doors Canada, an organization that serves persecuted Christians in the world’s most restrictive countries.
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Many Christian parents endure the emotional and spiritual pain of loving a prodigal child. Daily they suffer, often alone in their silence, watching from afar as their child makes poor choices. Unfortunately, the trauma and grief of the parents of prodigals are rarely addressed in the church setting, leaving so many moms and dads to wander alone.
On today’s podcast, Dr. Doug Weiss shares about his upcoming book the Prodigal Parent Process and the real biblical solutions that are available to parents who have to navigate these difficult circumstances.
Resources: * Book: Prodigal Parent Process
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The great need of every human being is to be reconciled. In Matthew 5:23- 24, Jesus said, "if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift."
Remaining embittered by past conflicts affects our personal relationships as well as strains our relationship with God. In this episode, we chatted with P. Brian Noble, the Executive Director of Peacemaker Ministries. He kindly shared his own experience on how he reconciled with his father after his parent's divorce, and the importance establish reconciliation in our relationships—independent of how the other person responds.
“I like to ask myself, 'How long do I really want a conflict to steal my joy? Do I truly want reconciliation?'”, says Brian. “If I do, then I have to decipher how that reconciliation is possible. Reconciliation is possible only because of the gospel, and Jesus tells us to pick up our cross daily and follow him.”
Mending broken relationships takes courage. But Jesus has given us all that we need to be a reconciler. Rejoice in God's promises, have the shalom of God today. “Rejoice in the Lord always” Philippians 4:4
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Resources: * Book: Living Reconciled: 7 Ways to Bring Peace to Your Most Difficult Relationships * Peacemaker Ministry: peacemakerministries.org
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One man can make a difference. Just look at Mike Miller’s story.
In his 40’s while Mike was serving as a youth leader, God put this question in his heart, “Do you want to spend your 40’s telling stories about your 30’s, or do you want stories?”. Right away, Mike knew that he wanted to create more stories for the glory of God. As a result, alongside his wife Nancy, they planted the Nova Church in Halifax, Nova, Scotia, Canada.
When they were starting out, there was no money, no people, only the Word of God who called them to go. But this calling soon became the first of many successful church plantings over the next 15 years. It was also the largest church plant in the history of Atlantic Canada. Hope carried them.
As we emerge from our tombs of the pandemic, remember there is new life, new hope and new ground to take for us. This Easter weekend, listen to this episode and be encouraged that we have the ultimate hope for eternity.
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Being a new dad can bring a lot of change and is quite the learning curve. Jordan and Andrew discuss some of the things they wish they had known and share their top ten tips on how to be a great new dad.
They also discuss when it is acceptable to wear Crocs, the insecurities of being a girl dad, and what NOT to do in the labor and delivery room.
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Be a part of the Birth Plan...6:18
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Do your homework...11:02
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Help with feeding...13:29
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Do something...anything!...15:53
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Ask for help and be specific!... 17:50
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Don’t take things personal...19:48
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Start spiritual rhythms early...22:30
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You are not a babysitter...26:35
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Take responsibility...28:00
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Don’t panic if you don’t feel a connection right away...32:27
This episode is proudly sponsored by Deeks Insurance. Worship is a vital part of Christian living. It is so much more than singing. Instead, true worship is living our lives surrendered to God. However, for many, worship is often thought of as corporate worship at their church or group. Lockdown has challenged most of us, including church leaders, to rethink and redesign the worship time.
In this episode, we chat about how corporate worship has evolved after two long years of restrictions due to the pandemic with our National Music Leader, Andrew Thompson. We discussed the important topic of how we can become true worshippers of God.
Andrew offers some practical steps for guys to better lean into the online worship experience.
We also to talk about our exciting virtual Impactus Men’s Conference coming up on April 29. Don’t miss out!
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Sometimes it seems as though there is more month than there is money. Have you been there?
As men, we often feel the desire to provide for our families, and sometimes that pressure can feel overwhelming. Culture tells us to hustle and gather things, but sometimes that comes into conflict with what God is calling us to.
How should we respond when our calling comes at a cost and having faith just doesn’t feel like enough?
In this episode, Jordan and Andrew discuss that question they explain the most outrageous things they have done to make more money. They also offer wise tips on how to manage your finances and how they navigate the nuance of trying to discern between their needs and wants.
As well, you do not want to miss the stories they share of how God has miraculously provided for them in the past, and how he has shown up when they have given generously.
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C.S. Lewis was a British writer, theologian, and academic, holding positions at both Oxford and Cambridge. His legacy continues to live on today in several well-known books such as Mere Christianity, The Chronicles of Narnia series and through the C.S. Lewis Institute.
In this podcast, we talk with the President of the C.S. Lewis Institute, Joel Woodruff. Joel discusses the influence that discipleship relationships and friendship had on Lewis, and how these relationships still apply to men today.
Joel has worked in higher education, nonprofit administration, and pastoral ministries in Alaska, Israel, Hungary, France, and Northern Virginia. He has had a distinguished and diverse career and an impressive academic background including a doctorate in Organizational Leadership and a Ph.D. in New Testament.
Resources: * Book: Discipleship with C.S. Lewis: A Guide to Mere Christianity for Small Groups and Mentoring Relationships by Joel Woodruff * Book: Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis
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It’s a dangerous time to be a man. Manhood and masculinity are under attack. Many people may even refer to it as “toxic”.
Your masculinity is going to be defined by what you do and not how you look. Don’t try to be somebody you’re not. Be the best version of yourself for the glory of God and do the things that men do. It is critical to understand our identity in Christ, so we can stand up and resist the secular forces attacking masculinity.
In this episode, we invited Jim Ramos to discuss this issue about manhood. Jim debunks the myths that men grow up believing and talk about why true manhood is never toxic.
Resources: * Website: Men In The Arena * Book: Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World
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This podcast episode with Ryan and Selena Frederick was originally posted on August 15, 2020.
God cares about your sex life! In a time where we are bombarded by various messages about sex, it is so important to hear what the designer of sexual intimacy says about building great sexual intimacy in our marriage.
In part 2 of our podcast with Ryan and Selena Frederick from Fierce Marriage and authors of See-Through Marriage we talk about:
- What the Bible has to say about sex
- How couples can build strong sexual intimacy if they have different sex drives and desires
- How parents of young kids can balance all of their responsibilities and still have enough energy for sexual intimacy
- The impact of pornography on sexual intimacy
Resources: * Part 1 of our episode with Ryan and Selena Frederick: impactus.org/podcast/fierce-marriage * Website: Fierce Marriage * Book: See-Through Marriage
Why are young men getting married later? What is the worst marriage advice we’ve ever been given?
In 1971, the average age of a man getting married was 24.4. In 2020, the average age was 38 according to the latest official figures available from the Office for National Statistics (ONS). Why is this? And is it something that should be concerning? This is one of the topics Jordan & Andrew discuss as well as the importance of celebrating singleness, tips for newly married men, and they also share some marriage advice given to them that wasn’t very helpful.
What does a “good man” look like? Who was I created to be? These are questions many men wrestle with in their hearts. Some may view a “good man” as a pastor, a guy who can quote Scripture and attends church every Sunday; or a family man, a faithful husband, or a scholar; or someone who is able to avoid all of life’s temptations. In this podcast, Nathan talks about the writing of his book, “Good Man”and what it truly means to become and live as exactly that – a good man.
When we think of Men’s Ministry we often think of a weekly program at our Church. Narte Hochstetler is a pastor and entrepreneur in Sioux Lookout, Ontario (about 4.5 hours northwest of Thunder Bay) and shares how men’s ministry in his context looks a little different.
Nate is Married forty years, 6 kids, and 9 grandkids. He was born and raised on a dairy farm in Indiana, but as of August, has lived in Sioux Lookout for 30 years where he serves as bi-vocational lead pastor, coffee roaster, real estate agent.
In this episode, Nate talks about his involvement in his local community and also how he handled being hospitalized with Covid-19 this past year and how his Christian community helped him persevere.
2021 was a memorable year to say the least. As a ministry, we have seen God do some incredible things and we would love to tell you about them. In this podcast you will hear about how we continued to impact men despite the many restrictions. Listen in for a recap of our ministry year and hear of the many exciting things that God has done.
Deep down, godly men want to make a difference and live a life of impact. What if significant influence is on the other side of just saying “yes” to God and letting Him lead you outside of your comfort zones.
In this episode, Dr. Michael Bayer shares his experience of how being obedient to God opened doors to make a tremendous difference in a neighborhood that most people choose to avoid. Dr. Bayer touches on the importance of having a personal relationship with Jesus, not doing ministry alone, and how to partner with communities to meet their needs.
Resources: * Northumberland Promise: northumberlandpromise.com/
This episode features Sathiya Sam, he is a coach who helps men experience permanent freedom from pornography. A recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepCleanTM – a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction.
One day I will get free of porn and do everything in my power to help as many other men as possible get free in a much shorter time.
Sathiya first discovered porn when he was only eleven years old. What started as an innocent mistake would eventually become an obsession. After experiencing deep brokenness he eventually cried out to God for help. Long story short, it took Sathiya 15 years to fully recover from porn addiction and now helps men experience the same freedom.
Listen to this honest interview with Sathiya and be encouraged by his journey to freedom. Know even if you feel deeply trapped by addiction, there is hope for you.
Resources: * DeepClean™: sathiyasam.com/
Ministry in Downtown Toronto is no easy job. Darryl Dash is always looking for ways to help Christians start their journey. Many of them have the desire to grow in God, but they often don’t know where and how to begin.
After seeing his wife’s weight loss success after implementing some very simple lifestyle changes, Darryl was amazed. He started thinking if a health consultant can translate complex nutrition concepts into easy habits that people can follow, is there a parallel to church ministry? Can he take the richest of biblical doctrine and scripture, and turn them into easy habits for Christians to help their walk with Jesus? As a result, he wrote a new book on this topic called 8 Habits for Growth: A Simple Guide to Becoming More Like Christ.
Listen to this episode, Darryl discusses the habits in his book and gives helpful advice for Christians who desires to go deeper in their faith walk.
Resources: * Book: 8 Habits for Growth: A Simple Guide to Becoming More Like Christ * DashHouse: dashhouse.com
On September 30th, the country of Canada observed “National Truth & Reconciliation Day” for the first time in solidarity with our First Nations communities.
This day, though only one small step, is a part of reconciliation efforts that are ongoing and very needed. As Christians, may we pause and consider our role in these efforts while acknowledging a dark past, but also bringing light and hope to a promising future.
On today’s podcast, we have Dan Collado. He serves as the Academic Director of Aboriginal Bible Academy (ABA) and tells us about the important ministry he is involved in and how the local Church can also take steps towards true reconciliation.
This episode features Pastor Dave Wells from Harvest City Church in Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada.
Pastor Dave sat down with us to talk about the importance of men’s ministry. He explained why his weekly meetings with his men’s group is now one of the most important things of his week. He is amazed by the impact he has seen on men’s lives at his church; moreover, the impact that it has had on him personally.
If you are a pastor, men’s ministry leader, or just a man who has a heart for men’s ministry, don’t miss out on this episode!
Resources: * Watch Men’s Ministry Leadership Summit: impactus.org/summit
Men, would you describe yourself as a hero?
Or do you feel down, empty and purposeless?
In this episode, bestselling author and respected counsellor Stephen Arterburn shares how a true understanding of ourselves and our identity can help combat many of the issues we face in our daily lives. In fact, a proper understanding of ourselves influences those around us in so many positive ways.
Stephen also emphasizes the deeply rooted need for us to experience fellowship and community and offers practical ways that you can continue to cultivate male friendships during busy seasons of life.
Many men have battles on the outside, but it's the battles on the inside that keep us from fully discovering our destiny in Christ Jesus. It's only when men bring their battles to the cross that we open our souls up for a spiritual awakening.
Listen to this motivational talk by Ryan Walter at our men's conference back in 2005. Ryan spent 17 seasons in the NHL as a player, team captain and coach, and became one of the most recognized names in hockey. In this podcast episode, Ryan draws from the personal experiences of his past hockey life, shares how God helped him fight his battles in life and encourages men to fully surrender their lives to Jesus.
Ryan Walter is a former NHL hockey player and Stanley Cup Champion with the Montreal Canadiens who played 15 seasons in the National Hockey League. He was also an assistant coach with the Vancouver Canucks, head coach of the Canadian National Women's hockey team and a hockey broadcaster. Ryan is a motivational speaker, author and leadership expert, using his experiences in hockey to relate to business and success.
We are surrounded by people, especially during this social media era, yet we still feel lonely. How can we deal with loneliness as adult men? After 2 years of social distancing, our friendships are definitely taking a toll.
God is relational – in fact, Jesus is a man of hospitality. He invited and welcomed people, particularly the outsiders, to eat and drink with him. Jesus asked a lot of questions, taught them the truth with grace and forgiveness. He created a “safe space” for people to share openly and confessed without fear, and he was incredibly patient with them.
In this episode, Steven McCready talks about the challenges men face when it comes to conforming to close friendships. He reminds us of the root and harsh reality of loneliness and the gift and grace of friendship from Jesus Christ. Steven encourages men to grow their relationship with God, then take the initiative and be intentional with friendships in your life.
In his letter to the Roman church, the apostle Paul wrote "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do." (Romans 7:15)
Like Paul, many men find themselves in similar battles with sin. Have you ever felt like there’s a sin you just can’t conquer? Like there are certain things you keep doing over and over again but you don’t know why?
David Bowden, co-founder of Spoken Gospel and author of Rewire Your Heart: Replace Your Desire for Sin with Desire For God, reminded us that our hearts are wired to pursue our desires, and the only way to overcome sin is not saying "no" to sinful desires, but saying "yes" to God.
Listen to this episode and learn the first steps you should take to rewire your hearts and win the battle with sin.
Related Resources * David Bowden's book: Rewire Your Heart: Replace Your Desire for Sin with Desire For God * Spoken Gospel: spokengospel.com
The one common element in almost every man is that they feel exhausted. COVID blurred lines between work and home, the pressure to survive and pay bills, or to achieve the next promotion are consistently pressuring men to keep going.
We’ve been taught the Bible verses like Matthew 11:28-30, where Jesus invites everyone who feels weary and burdened to come to him and he will give us rest. This sounds great in theory, but are there ways for men to experience this rest for our souls in reality? With more access to various digital devices, how can a man intentionally connect with God each day without it feeling like a burden and just one more thing to do?
Listen to this podcast with Ken Shingematsu, the author of Survival Guide for the Soul: How to Flourish Spiritually in a World, as he reminds us of the importance of spiritual practices and how we can receive complete rest in this demanding world by experiencing a deeper relationship with Christ.
Related Resources * Ken’s book: Survival Guide for the Soul * Ken’s book: God in My Everything * Tenth Church: tenth.ca
In this episode, we invited Rev. Bill Allan and David Wells to join us in a panel of discussion on the future for Canadian churches and Christian leaders.
Rev. Bill Allan is the President of the Associated Gospel Churches, an association representing over 150 churches, congregations and ministries across Canada.
And David Wells is the General Superintendent for the Pentecostal Assemblies of Canada (PAOC). It is a fellowship of more than 1,100 churches across English- and French-speaking Canada.
Together with our president, Dean Brenton, we discussed the following questions:
- (3:38) Tell us a little about your work and your fellowship.
- (8:00) What was most instrumental in you stepping into a national leadership role?
- (13:40) With all your responsibility and concern for the health of your churches and pastors, how have you stayed healthy as leaders through these months of the pandemic?
- (18:30) What has surprised or disappointed you the most during this pandemic?
- (22:45) Do you see any new opportunities for the church to engage with the culture?
- (27:53) In a time when we should have been more united, instead, it has felt like we have never been more divided. What is the importance of unity in the church, and why is it important for the future of the church?
- (33:27) As it pertains to the church, what could men be praying for?
- (36:50) In addition to praying, what are some practical ways men could be agents of peace and blessing in their family, community, and church?
Related Resources * The Pentecostal Assemblies of Canada: paoc.org * Associated Gospel Churches: agcofcanada.com
Many of us thrive to be "the best dad ever" and in the process of doing that, we can loose track of what God says about parenthood. We may even turn parenthood into an idol just like we can with our work or money.
In this podcast, we invited Jim Jackson, co-founder of Connected Families, to teach us how to encourage our children, set boundaries and how to discipline our children in a loving and godly way. Together with Kirk Giles and Mauricio Rosa, they discuss their own experiences with their fathers and the struggles they face now as dads. Jim also reminds us that the greatest gift that we can give to our kids is not the stuff we do with them but rather what we do with Jesus.
Listen to this podcast and be encouraged that God is our perfect father, and he is with you in every season of fatherhood.
Related Resources * Jim & Lynne Jackson's book: Discipline That Connects With Your Child's Heart: Building Faith, Wisdom, and Character in the Messes of Daily Life * Connected Families: connectedfamilies.org
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Between social upheavals around the world and a global pandemic, most of us can agree the last few years have been a bit… different.
Many people find themselves firmly taking sides without much consideration for their brother on the “other side of the fence.” Yet a lot of this isn’t that new to El Vow, who grew up as a first-generation American in the South.
Vow sat down with us to talk about his journey with discrimination, the pandemic, and division within the church.
During our conversation we were so struck by the heart of what El Vow had to say, speaking from his own unique experience. You may disagree with his views, that’s okay! Listen and hear his heart – only by understanding each other can we learn to accept and love our neighbour.
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We live in an uncertain world where it is so easy for us to get distracted and become dismissive of our faith. So many of us seem to take Jesus for granted and go on with our lives without even thinking that Jesus is here.
In this episode, Steve Brown, the President of Arrow Leadership Ministries and author of a new book Jesus Centered, sat down with us and teach us how and why it is important to think “Jesus Centered” instead of “Jesus First”. He also shared a glimpse of some of his own stories about his father’s near-death experience, his mother’s alcoholism and prescription abuse issue, and his wife’s breast cancer diagnoses. None of those moments were easy, but Brown can proudly tell you that it was much easier and breathable when Jesus is the middle grinding with you.
Listen to this podcast and learn how to invite Jesus into every aspect of your life. In your loneliness and powerlessness, you will find strength, peace and joy from Jesus.
Related Resources * Arrow Leadership for Christian leaders: arrowleadership.org * Get the Book: Jesus Centered: Focusing On Jesus In A Distracted World
The Bible indicates that God keeps some things completely to himself. So what’s wrong with having a secret?
Steve Arterburn, founder of New Life Ministries and the author of The Secrets Men Keep: How Men Make Life & Love, examines the danger behind keeping secrets as a man, how men make their lives more difficult than it has to be and why they do it. He also emphasizes that finding a way to deal with a man’s unspoken fears and questions, is one of the most important tasks for a man.
Listen to this podcast and get the following questions answered:
- Are all secrets sinful?
- What are the top areas of life where men keep secrets?
- What kind of damage do secrets create?
- When the pain becomes so deep, what can I do? I don’t want to hurt people around me.
- I am ready to open up about my secrets. Where and who should I go to? Is there anyone I should not go to?
When life is good, it’s easy to say that “God is good.” But when life doesn’t go the way we planned - how do we view God? If we’re being honest, anger and resentment towards God can easily develop during difficult seasons of our faith. And for Steven Bancarz this is no exception.
Most know Steve as a charismatic Youtube character that exposes the lies of the New Age Movement and shares the truths of the Bible. After watching a few of his videos you could easily conclude that he’s got his faith figured out. But like all Christians, he’s human.
Steve talked with us about a recent period of pain and disappointment, where he stopped making Youtube content, and started wrestling with God. Despite knowing God is the truth, his feelings of hurt and betrayal made him doubt if God was good or trustworthy. It was dark and lonely but as he continued to work through these feelings, God brought peace back into Steve’s life. It wasn’t overnight and it wasn’t easy. But looking back on it all he can say God is good in all seasons of life - even the ones we don’t feel are going our way.
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Mike asks the tough questions: “Who is the Lord of your life?” Are you doing things your way or God’s way? Are you truly believing in the power of God and what He wants to do in and through you? Is God just God or is He the Lord of every area of your life?
No matter where you’re at today, God is waiting for you to call on Him. God is waiting for you to surrender everything to Him. Not just the easy things or the good stuff, but the struggles, the challenges and the worldly things that have a hold on you.
This episode features Mike Gordon from our recent Impactus Virtual Men’s conference that reached thousands of men around the world. (Watch the entire conference at https://youtu.be/873PX4qCRIw)
We talk with Christian rap artist Manafest (Chris Greenwood) about his book From Red To Black – A Short Journey from Debt to Liberty. Chris tells his story of how he learned to get out of debt, manage money and build wealth. He addresses the common attitude towards debt in our culture today and how so many continue to live month to month and spend money they don’t have.
Chris gives some common-sense advice on better managing money:
- Living within our needs, not our wants.
- Buying assets instead of luxuries.
- The importance of financial mentors.
- Putting your knowledge to work for you online.
- Maintaining strong financial habits as you build wealth.
A great listen for anyone who wants to learn to better manage money and build wealth.
Get Chris’s Book From Red to Black for free at manafest.com/fromredtoblack.
Mark Clark, the founding pastor of Village Church in Surrey, BC discusses his latest book The Problem of Jesus . A follow up to his first book The Problem of God , Mark seeks to help the skeptic in our “post Christian culture” to understand who Jesus is and what He was really all about. The inspiration behind his new book is to “help Skeptics move along and Inform and inspire followers of Jesus”
Mark addresses the miracles of Jesus, discipleship, how the truth of Jesus can offend people including Christians and so much more.
As Mark states “What you do with Jesus is the most important question in your life. What you do with Jesus defines the fate of everyone who’s ever lived”.
Lecrae is an icon. An award-winning artist with a career spanning almost two decades. So it surprised more than a few people when his most recent book, “I Am Restored” went deep into a multitude of issues - such as trauma, abuse, racism, and depression - that have plagued Lecrae throughout his life.
His honesty and transparency about some of the darkest times in his life are a great reminder that anybody can struggle - even when it looks like you have it all. This podcast will make you think deeply about how we can all grow and develop through the difficult times in life when we rely on God and the support of those around us.
In this episode we have a great discussion with Sam Allberry, author of Why bother with church?: And other questions about why you need it and why it needs you (Questions Christians Ask). Sam explains what it means to gather as a church and why we should attend church in person when possible. Jesus called us into a community of believers where we can spiritually encourage others and be encouraged spiritually. Sam addresses many of the common issues people have with church such as:
- Church is boring
- the church has hurt me
- I don’t need to go to church to be a Christian
- and much more.
Jesus loves the church and as passionate followers of Jesus we should love the church also. In this current time of lockdowns and limited church attendance whereby most people are watching church at home, this discussion very directly answers the question of why we should bother with church.
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When we hear about ‘Purity’ in a Christian context, we all think of one thing. No sex before marriage!
But from Brittni and Richard’s perspective, that’s an extreme oversimplification of what it means to live a life of purity.
We caught up with Brittni and Richard De La Mora to talk about how a full life of purity - not just sexual purity - applies to them, to their marriage, and to all of us, and how it is attainable for everyone. In Brittni’s words, “if an ex-porn star can live a life of purity, anybody can live a life of purity!”
Brittni was once a member of the adult entertainment industry, where depression, drugs, and violence were part of her daily life. Today is a completely different story. Now, Brittni and Richard travel the world together preaching the love of God that set her free and brought the two of them together.
This podcast will make you rethink what purity means, and how it fits into our everyday lives.
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Another Valentine's Day has come and gone; you've done the flowers and nice dinner. Mauricio Rosa talks with former Promise Keepers Canada | Impactus President Kirk Giles about what it means to be a godly husband the rest of the days of the year, in day-to-day living.
Most men are used to compartmentalizing life, separating their job, home life, church, friends, kids and more. This is a struggle for most men right now as living, working and doing church at home is blending all of the elements of life together putting added pressure on marriages.
They address key issues men struggle with such as understanding your wife and her needs, the struggle many guys have with pornography and keeping secrets along with the isolating effects of lockdown.
A must listen to episode, Kirk offers great wisdom and practical advice to help all men grow as a godly husband and to help men better love and serve their wives as the Bible has called them to do.
We talk with Wayne Reed from Focus on the Family and Hope Restored about how to navigate through challenging seasons as a couple. Wayne outlines the 3 major issues that are the root cause of most problems affecting married couples: 1) Communication; 2) Conflict resolution; 3) Loss of connection or intimacy.
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Tim Bergmann discovered his own battle with depression and anxiety in his early 30’s, and while he’s found help and healing, it’s still something he struggles with today. With Biblical perspective and wisdom, Tim shares some of his struggles and what he’s learned along the way.
In this interview, Tim addresses questions like:
- Where is God in all of this?
- What have I done wrong to be struggling with this?
Tim also talks about:
- Overcoming negative thought patterns.
- The difference between being “set aside” and “set apart”.
- Some of the fundamental beliefs he had to come back to that gave him hope and strength for moving forward.
In this episode, Rob Nairn, fitness contributor to Promise Keepers Canada | Impactus offers very practical and important tips on staying healthy during lockdown. With gyms closed or limited access Rob talks about how to stay fit at home. Rob speaks to the danger of sitting too long and encourages movement, stretching standing and moving about throughout the day. You’ll hear great advice on eating healthy, less screen time and how to work out without a gym. A great podcast that will encourage you to build some healthy habits while spending so much time at home.
Need a good laugh right now? Listen to the Skit Guys as we kick off the New Year with Tommy and Eddy. They’re as funny on podcast as they are live as they reflect on 2020 and look ahead to 2021. Great discussion on what life is like right now for The Skit Guys and men everywhere. Lots of laughs and great truths on building friendships, investing spiritually into our kids and a whole lot more.
Visit our website for more: https://www.impactus.org/podcast
2020 – A year like no other. Unprecedented times with ongoing uncertainty. Kirk Giles, Mauricio Rosa and Dwayne Cline discuss the year that was and how men are doing by talking about:
- Where men have been struggling in areas such as their identity and mental health.
- How men have actually thrived this past year.
- What men can do to live and lead well moving into 2021.
Have you wondered how women in the commercial sex industry got into the profession? If they enjoy their work? And why the need to create a 2nd identity?
We caught up with Harmony Grillo to understand this industry, hear more of her incredible story and learn how we can help.
This podcast is packed with insider information about a hush industry where the majority are paid to perpetuate a lie.
If you want to learn more after this episode, check out her organization: http://treasures.org/
In this edition of the podcast, we will turn success and failure upside down from how we typically define it. Our guest is Chad Bird, the author of Upside-Down Spirituality: The 9 Essential Failures of a Faithful Life. In this conversation, we explore:
- How God’s greatest doings for us will often seem like our undoing.
- How the failure to trust yourself is actually a blessing
- How you do not need to find anyone in this world who “completes” you
- The only thing that truly matters for the life of a follower of Jesus
In this edition of the podcast, we will be talking about a path God has given us to vent when life is hard and move out of despair or discouragement towards a renewed hope. Our guest is Mark Vroegop, the author of Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy. Mark describes his own experience of the death of his daughter and the journey he experienced through lament to find hope and healing.
In this conversation, we explore:
- What is lament
- What the process of lament looks like
- How to complain to God
- Advice for walking alongside someone who is hurting
In this special episode of Impactus podcast, This Is Me TV's producer, Dave McSporran, catches up with Manafest to see how his life has changed since our original 2014 docuseries episode.
Manafest talks straight up about losing his dad to suicide when he was 5, handling the temptations he’s faced on the road and how he’s set boundaries in his life to avoid destruction. He talks passionately about Jesus and the role faith has played in his life, helping him make tough choices in the face of difficult circumstances. Manafest gets real with some strong words about faithfulness, finances, fear, and so much more. A must watch for any guy. Get ready to hear some “in your face” truth.
Watch our original documentary with Manafest: https://youtu.be/-nDxpB--4VU
We will explore a conversation that is rarely discussed in today’s “Me Too” culture. While the terrible abuse committed against women is real, we also want to recognize how many men experienced sexual abuse and trauma as a boy. Our guest is Dr. Kelli Palfy, the author of Men Too: Unspoken Truths About Male Sexual Abuse.
Dr. Palfy will explore:
- The prevalence of sexual assault experienced by males
- Understanding the typical offenders of sexual abuse
- The barriers men face when it comes to disclosing their abuse
- Steps a man should take if he has been abused
- How a spouse, family, or friend can support men who have experienced childhood sexual abuse
The way we have done things for centuries has been unsettled and unseated. We’re living in a new normal. And while on the surface many of these changes look like the next best thing, there’s actually a complex and fragile web of lies holding it all together.
This edition of the podcast features Daniel Im – the author of “You Are What You Do: And Six Other Lies About Work, Life, and Love.” In this episode, we look to find a truth that will help you move from surviving to thriving as a man. This truth will unlock a life of purpose, adventure, meaning, and destiny.
Thankfulness is not only about a holiday each year, it is a lifestyle that can change your entire perspective on life. These men get real about some of the challenges they have faced as men and how God has been teaching them to be thankful. You will gain some real wisdom, encouragement, and practical ideas to be a grateful man every day.
This edition of the podcast features a roundtable discussion with Lennett Anderson (popular speaker from Promise Keepers Canada Men’s Conferences and pastor of EBC: The Meeting Place in Halifax), Mauricio Rosa (Content Manager for Impactus) and Kirk Giles (President of Promise Keepers Canada | Impactus).
We explore how dads can help their kids start the new school year well. This roundtable discussion features youth specialists Mike Gordon and Brett Ullman along with Kirk Giles. We will talk about:
- Key things you need to know in order to launch your kids well in the new school year
- How to handle the added complexity of COVID-19 – both for yourself as a parent and also for your kids as they go to school
- How to keep your kids motivated with online learning if they are staying home
This is the very first episode of the Impactus podcast where our goal is to equip you as a man for a life of purpose and godly impact.
In this edition of the podcast, members of the Impactus staff will have a roundtable conversation to talk about:
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What is up with the name Impactus? What does it even mean?
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How men can benefit by being connected to Impactus.
- What does all of this mean for the history of the ministry with Men’s Conferences?
God cares about your sex life! In a time where we are bombarded by various messages about sex, it is so important to hear what the designer of sexual intimacy says about building great sexual intimacy in our marriage.
In part 2 of our podcast with Ryan and Selena Frederick from Fierce Marriage we talk about:
- What the Bible has to say about sex
- How couples can build strong sexual intimacy if they have different sex drives and desires
- How parents of young kids can balance all of their responsibilities and still have enough energy for sexual intimacy
- The impact of pornography on sexual intimacy
Ryan and Selena have three daughters and are the founders of FierceMarriage.com
Marriage is all about oneness: sharing joys and sorrows, hopes and dreams. Yet we often hold back a part of ourselves because we fear that being wholly transparent – about our past, our desires, our failures, our faults – will bring judgment, rejection, or even just unwanted friction to our relationship.
In this edition of the podcast, we talk with Ryan and Selena Frederick from Fierce Marriage. They will talk about how you can develop a marriage marked by full transparency and confident vulnerability.
Ryan and Selena have three daughters and are the founders of FierceMarriage.com
You are designed to flourish in your workplace. But many of us struggle to find a sense of purpose or fulfillment in what we do. Is it possible for us to truly flourish in our work?
Business executive Shundrawn Thomas reveals how work is intended to produce lasting value and should be meaningful and productive. A healthy attitude toward work and the workplace requires intentionality and effort. In this edition of the podcast, Thomas helps us to a greater understanding of our abilities and passions, which in turn will help us develop into the people we are meant to be. Through empirical research and real-life stories, Thomas reveals fundamental truths in easy-to-remember concepts for joy at work regardless of occupation, age, or career stage.
The tension in relationships seems to be at a breaking point. We are living in a significant cultural moment where people are once again confronting racism while also dealing with anger in their own family and with government or church leaders.
The message of forgiveness as described in the Bible is incredibly important for this moment in history.
In this edition of the podcast, our guest will be author and men’s conference speaker Bill Farrel. Bill will be talking about:
- What forgiveness is and is not
- How forgiveness creates freedom in our own hearts
- Key steps in the journey of forgiveness
When was the last time you had a good laugh? In the stress-filled, challenging days of a pandemic, we can find ourselves so overwhelmed by the realities of life that we have lost our sense of joy. When we were all children, life seemed a lot more simple, and we were able to laugh a lot more.
In this edition of the podcast, our guest is Phil Callaway from the radio program Laugh Again. Listen as we talk about what it looks like to become adults who learn to laugh like kids again. Phil has experienced many challenges in his life, but he keeps coming back to the power of a good laugh to help our souls.
Being a dad is filled with all kinds of challenges today. There is one extra layer of calling for Christian dads – be the spiritual leader in your family. But who really knows what it looks like to be a spiritual leader? In this edition of the podcast, we will discuss these responsibilities with Jerrad Lopes, the author of “Dad Tired and Loving It.”
Some of the topics we look at include:
- How can a man practically start to lead his family today?
- What does discipleship look like for a dad who is trying to raise his kids to follow Jesus?
- What’s the difference between Gospel parenting and just raising kids who have good morals?
Parents are learning a whole new set of skills right now. At the best of times, there is a lot of responsibility on a parent, but the season we find ourselves in has magnified and multiplied the responsibility and opportunity that is before us as parents. In this podcast, we talk with Brett Ullman about his new book “Parenting: Navigating Everything” and some of the ways we can strengthen ourselves as parents. Brett Ullman travels North America speaking to teens, young adults, leaders and parents on topics including sexuality, mental health, men, dating and media.
Topics covered include:
- Types of parenting styles
- How to deal with times when mom and dad have different parenting styles
- Practical steps to build good communication with your kids
- How to not be overwhelmed by all the responsibilities you have as a parent
Work is a good gift from God, but COVID-19 has dramatically impacted the work of millions of men. In this edition of the podcast, we feature a roundtable conversation with Kirk Giles (President of Promise Keepers Canada), Mauricio Rosa (Content Manager), and Paul La Vigne (Director of Operations). In this candid conversation, we look at how work is shifting for so many men and how to navigate the changes and challenges you are facing. We will talk about:
- How to handle job loss. This includes first-hand perspective from Paul after a significant job loss he faced only one year ago.
- Why work changes impact men so deeply.
- How to handle changing work conditions – including working from home and balancing family life.
We invite you to share this podcast with other men who may be facing changes in their work at this time.
Do you have friends or family members who do not know Jesus? Many people question how legitimate the story of Jesus is, and many Christians do not know how to respond to those questions. Today’s generation has questions and is seeking truth.
The challenge in Western culture is communicating the message of Jesus in a way that people can understand and appreciate. Sharing the gospel requires us all to understand and speak the language of culture and address the questions being asked with intellectual honesty, gentleness and respect. When we do this in the love and winsomeness of Christ Jesus, lives are impacted and culture is changed.
In this edition of the podcast, we are joined by Andy Steiger – the founder and President of Apologetics Canada.
Together, we will talk about:
- How do we know Jesus Christ actually lived?
- Did the death of Jesus happen as described in the Bible?
- What is the evidence for the resurrection of Jesus?
COVID-19 has resulted in job losses and financial uncertainties for families everywhere. Many men are deeply concerned for what this all means for their family and their future financial plans. In this special edition of the podcast, three members of our staff – Kirk Giles, Mauricio Rosa, and Rick Verkerk – share some of their own personal experiences and lessons about dealing with finances during difficult seasons.
Topics discussed in this podcast include:
- What to do if you have been laid off work
- How to help friends or family who are facing financial challenges because of job loss
- What to do if you find yourself angry because of the stress and circumstances you are facing
Have you ever felt stuck as though something is holding you back, and you can’t break free? Have you ever tried to overcome these barriers only to find yourself returning to the same habits and patterns again and again? If this is your story, then Carlos Whittaker knows exactly what you have been experiencing.
In his book “Kill the Spider,” Carlos takes us through his own journey of how to get rid of what is really holding us back.
In this episode of the podcast, we sit down with Carlos to hear his story and learn more about the spiders and cobwebs in our lives.
Listen, learn, and share these lessons. God wants us free. Explore the journey to get there.
Every man is capable of having a godly impact in the world, and Frederick Dryden is a perfect example of this truth. Dryden’s story is one of poverty, bullying, abuse, gangs, and a broken family. However, through the grace of Jesus and the influence of other godly people, he has not been defined by what happened in his past.
In this podcast, we tell the story of a man who has overcome incredible adversity and is now helping to save the lives of at-risk youth through the ministry of Liberty for Youth.
No matter what your story is, God wants to shape you to be someone who has an incredible impact in this world. Listen to this incredible story and share it with others who could use some encouragement today!
You’ve heard of someone having anorexia, but have you ever heard of intimacy anorexia? Our guest for this edition of the podcast is Dr. Douglas Weiss from Heart to Heart Counseling in Colorado Springs. We will be exploring the topic of intimacy anorexia and how it results in relationships that are marked by pain and loneliness.
Intimacy anorexia is a relationship disorder characterized by a lack of emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy in the relationship. It occurs when someone actively withholds emotional, spiritual, and sexual intimacy from their spouse or partner.
In this podcast, Dr. Weiss will help you:
- Understand the causes surrounding intimacy anorexia
- Know what signs to look for in your relationship
- Have a conversation with your spouse about intimacy anorexia
- Discover tools available to help you move forward
Do you and your wife have a different view of what good communication looks like in marriage? Communication is one of the most important tools to help you build a strong marriage relationship. The busyness of life and personality differences between you and your wife may make it difficult for effective communication to take place.
In this episode, we will speak with Matthew Jacobson – the author of 100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear. Matthew will speak to us about:
- how to communicate so we build intimacy
- how the need to be right impacts our marriage
- what to do when you are having a heated argument with your spouse
- why words of affirmation are so important for your wife.
“Just be a man!” How many times have we heard this said before? The truth is, many men are hurting. The view of “tough guy” masculinity is preventing so many from expressing what is going on inside their hearts and mind.
Jason Wilson experienced the murders of his two older brothers, a verbally harsh and absent father, and his mother spiralled into depression. He had been raised with one view of what it means to be a man, but his decision to acknowledge his emotions is what made him the man and leader he is today.
In this podcast, Jason Wilson will help us understand how God wants men to process their emotions. Discover the power, love, and self-control it takes to cry like a man.
Jason Wilson is the founder and CEO of Yunion, and he has over 14 years of experience in training and developing young black men. Under his leadership, Yunion has effectively reached more than 10,000 youth and young adults in Metro Detroit.
Originally recorded live in 2013 at the Winnipeg Alive conference, this podcast episode features respected author and speaker, Patrick Morley. Pat challenges us to have a lasting impact by truly becoming a “Man Alive”.
Patrick Morley founded Man in the Mirror in 1991, a ministry that has helped 35,000 churches impact the lives of twelve million men worldwide. His ministry websites are maninthemirror.org and PatrickMorley.com.
The past year has been one with a lot of big issues. We take a quick look at some of the hottest topics from the past 12 months including: gender identity, the environment, mental health and Avengers Endgame. Join Kirk and Jeff as we explore how these issues relate to men and our everyday lives.
When Richard first met Brittni he had no idea she had been featured in over 300 adult films and left the industry after becoming a Christian. Brittni knew he would need to know about her past if they were to have an honest relationship but was afraid of his response. Many people struggle coming to terms with their partners' past, but this was on a different level than most.
This is the incredible story of two very brave individuals who worked through their past and are living to the fullest today.
Over 50,000 people have watched our This Is Me TV episode featuring the story of Brittni and Richard. We follow up with them to see how their journey has continued.
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Kirk and Jeff talk about a range of topics, from a story about a “Rent-A-Dad” to The Seasons of Fatherhood to stories of disruptive grace in a changing world. 2018 has been a truly interesting year!
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We may not even identify ourselves as fatherless, but both physical and emotional fatherlessness promote low self-worth, which also brings about unhealthy relationships. At the heart of the matter, a father helps a man answer the biggest question of all, “Dad, do I have what it takes?”
We sit down with Jonathan Lewis to talk about his story. When His father was in distress while scuba diving, Jonathan couldn’t save him, and his father drowned. “I had no strength left, and I could not get him to the surface. My lungs were full of water, and I was almost drowning myself. So, I let him go. When you let go of someone who is your whole world – how do you come back from that?”
Jonathan shares his journey through grief to healing. His realization of our sonship in Jesus and the purpose that comes from knowing God is for you.
In this live recording from the Disruptive Edmonton conference, Gavin teaches about the power of prayer. He explores the hindrances that prevent us from praying, and the disciplines required to weave it into our everyday lives. Placing prayer at the top of our activity list and then praying is one of the most disruptive, powerful things we can do.
In his last year of high school, Mike Gordon gave his life to Christ on a mission trip in what was considered the most dangerous city in the world at that time. Years before that decision, his parents broke up, and he was kicked out of his house with a garbage bag when he was 14. He spent years walking the broad road until he was invited to a church event which is deeply connected to everything he does today in ministry.
Mike has now been in ministry for 16 years, and has become one of the most booked speakers in North America with over 2500 speaking engagements.
If your wife was a victim of past sexual abuse, you know the damage and hurt it causes. With 1 in 4 girls experiencing some form of sexual abuse before they are 18 years old (US DOJ), there are a larger number of married couples dealing with haunted marriages. Depression, anxiety, nightmares and substance abuse are just some of the consequences. Even more challenging is forming and maintaining healthy relationships.
In this podcast, Dr. Barbara Wilson offers hope. She talks about what your wife needs and how you can help with useful advice on how to help those victims to start their recovery journey.
Dr. Barbara Wilson is an author, psychotherapist and the founder of Freedom Bound Communications, an organization that brings healing and hope to those with a sexual past. Released from a past of her own, Barbara brings neuroscience, Scripture and her own story to help couples move forward to healing.
Media today often creates a false narrative around Christianity. The truth about the good Christians bring to society is downplayed, ignored or purposely distorted, especially for Christian men.
In this podcast, Dr. David Haskell shares scientific research showing Christian faith actually has a positive effect on men. They are more likely to treat women with respect, have higher satisfaction in their marriage and get more involved with their kids. Faith in Jesus makes them better husbands, fathers and citizens. He also touches on Christianity’s positive influence on society, and whether a political party should get involved with religion.
Dr. David Haskell is a professor and social scientist at Wilfrid Laurier University. He researches and publishes on religion and culture in Canada with a specific focus on Christianity.
In this episode of the podcast, Kirk and Jeff chat about the importance of back-to-school time and offer advice for parents. We also pulled up an uplifting session with John Vermilya from the 2016 Toronto Quest conference.
Through storytelling and humour, John talks about how fear plays a role in men’s lives and prevents them from following Jesus. He encourages men to quit hiding, stop covering their sin and start seeking Jesus. God is calling us to follow Him – “Where are you?” It is time to reply, “Here I am.”
Self-control may be the least coveted fruit of the Spirit. We live in a culture focused on self-expression, and often overlook self-control. Many people recognize self-control as confining and restricting; however, it is the road to ultimate freedom. Exercising self-control and discipline will enable us to live a life of freedom and blessings to others and to God.
In this podcast, Drew Dyck, author of Your Future Self Will Thank You, shares some of his insights on how to navigate self-control to achieve a healthy lifestyle and relationship with others. He highlights the importance of good habits derived from willpower. Listen to this podcast for some practical strategies and biblical guidelines that support you to gain self-control and freedom.
Growing up in Edmonton, AB, Bayne Leong found himself stressed out with his home life, and his identity was found in being a good kid and honours student. Eventually, he began to question the purpose of his life and started having suicidal and paranoid thoughts. As a result, he attempted suicide three times before being admitted to the hospital for mental illness.
In this podcast, Bayne candidly discusses how God literally saved his life. God revealed Himself and rescued him from mental illness - even after stubbornly and rebelliously rejecting Him. God was faithful.
Science now establishes that more happens during sex than physical activity. The largest and most important sex organ is the brain. In fact, the brain itself is being moulded by sexual behaviour.
In this episode, we sat down with Joe McIlhaney to discuss his book. Hooked explains how casual sex affects the developing brains of adolescents and young adults. Joe stresses the significance of role models of the parents, and how important it is to steer the kids away from making life-changing mistakes, and lead them toward reaching their full potential.
Joe McIlhaney, MD is the Founder and Chairman of The Medical Institute for Sexual Health. He founded this organization in 1992, and left his medical practice of twenty-four years to become President of the organization in 1995.
Miles McPherson had the honour of being his university’s first player to be drafted to the NFL. While living the dream of success on the outside, life on the inside was a mess. After a weekend-long drug binge and a stop to a crack house, McPherson realized something needed to change.
In this episode of the podcast, we pull up a classic track from the 2011 conferences. God has created men to be built for battle, to fight the spiritual war for our families and communities. Listen to this inspiring message from Miles as he equips us for the good fight.
How do we respond to major issues that affect men? We sat down with Patrick Morley, author of The Man in the Mirror to talk about key issues like identity, balance, growth, marriage, children, friendships, work, lust, culture and sharing our faith. As Christian men living in today's society, we cannot just sit back, be passive and just accept society as it is. God has made us to bring hope, life and to have an impact in the name of Jesus wherever He has placed us in this world. Not just where we live, but also in our circles of influence: our workplace, family, marriage, friends and neighborhood.
Why do some teens thrive as adults while others struggle? What makes the difference? Clarence Shuler is the president of Building Lasting Relationships and interacts internationally with young men about friendships, dating and sexuality. As a teenager he met Gary Chapman, the New York Times #1 bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages. Gary mentored Clarence and helped him make wise decisions during his tumultuous teen years. Decades later, the two are still close friends and both lead powerful ministries that help people all around the world live better, more godly lives. We sat down with Clarence to get some practical advice to help young men choose greatness.
In a world where there are 68 million searches for pornography every day, and where over 70 percent of Christian men report viewing porn in the last year, it’s no surprise that more and more men struggle with an addiction to this false fantasy. In this podcast, Michael Cusick shows us how the barrier built by porn addiction can become a bridge to abundant life.
It would be better if men kept silent, since it has nothing to do with them. At least that is the message many of us receive when the topic of abortion comes up. Framed as an issue of women’s reproductive rights, men are pressured to tow the pro-choice position and vilified if they don’t. Kirk sat down recently with Dr. Laura Lewis from Canadian Association of Pregnancy Support Services for a down to earth discussion on the truth behind the debate and practical ways to show Christ’s love to all sides.
We all want to leave a godly legacy but how can we do this with our finances? This podcast episode, Marlow Gingerich from Abundance Canada, helps bring clarity to the often-confusing world of gift and estate planning.
A year after the Humboldt Broncos tragedy, their chaplain, Sean Brandow, reflects on God’s grace in trying times
Compassion Canada’s President and CEO Barry Slauenwhite discusses with Kirk the gospel-centric strategy to winning the fight against poverty — requiring more than our relief efforts or our evangelism individually. It will require us to be strategic in our compassion, focusing on the full depth and breadth of Jesus’ good news for the poor.
Jamie Snyder brings us a message about facing our fears and stepping out in faith. Will you to take the risk, knowing there is so much at stake?
Know someone who is thinking about getting married? Gary Thomas talks to Kirk about choosing the person to spend the rest of your life with.
Admit it. Marriage isn’t always easy. We all have marital struggles that we deal with from time to time, and it’s good to know that we’re not alone. Kirk talks with Wayne Reed from Focus on the Family about how to navigate through challenging seasons as a couple.
A lot of us are dealing with large amounts of stress, especially this time of year. But do we really know what we mean when we say we're "stressed out"?
Stress is actually a God-given bodily response, but, left unmanaged it can have all sorts of negative consequences. So how do we manage our stress in a healthy way, and how do we help others do the same? Mark Laing, a Registered Psychotherapist from Bayridge Counselling Centre helps answer some of these questions.
As we kick off a new year, we go way back to 2007 in Winnipeg, with a powerful, energetic message from Lennett Anderson.
In his book Talking With God: What to Say When You Don’t Know How to Pray Adam Weber explores how to pray when you’re broken, discouraged or in the midst of a storm. The book answers questions, such as what do I actually pray about, what do I say, do I talk out loud and where do I begin?
Adam delves deeper into:
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- How to approach God...
- What Adam learned about prayer from his kids...
- How to keep an active prayer life when you're busy...
- What it means to "pray without ceasing"...
- How to keep your prayers from functioning on auto pilot...
- How to handle seasons of doubt...and more.
If the Holy Spirit is God, why do so many of us choose to live without Him? Welcoming the person, power, and presence of the Holy Spirit into our lives is one of the most important decisions we can make.
he transition from high school to college or university is a significant one. With new found freedom, extra responsibilities and challenges to faith, recent studies show up to 70% of young people walking away from church.
Kirk talks with Sean Cullen, the National Director of Power to Change – Students, about how fathers can help their children thrive in life after high school.
In the latest podcast, Kirk Giles and Rick Verkerk give behind the scenes insights into the upcoming Disruptive National Men's Conferences and explore what it means to be Disruptive.
Plus...
💬 How Rick came up with the saying, "why we do what we do."
🔁 A word for those who may be thinking, "been there, done that."
👦 Why you'll want to bring your son(s)/grandson(s) to the conference.
Danny MacKay is the National Ambassador for e3 Partners in Canada, the organization behind I Am Second. Danny leads short-term church planting expeditions to unreached parts of the world, mobilizing and partnering with churches, ministries, artists, and 'seconds' who wish to advance the kingdom of God in this generation. Danny shares examples of how we can be godly disruptors to those around us, reaching the unreached with the gospel. He also talks about how a "disruption" became a catalyst for him coming to Jesus in the most unlikely way—in the back of a stolen car.
If even the simplest commute can be changed by storms or an accident, how much more a journey of a lifetime? Knowing where we are, what we need to overcome and where we need to go will help us wisely choose the path before us. In this podcast, we will present a pragmatic teachable vision for what it means to be a Godly man, all the way to the finish line.
It was one year ago when MP David Sweet lost his daughter, Lara, to mental illness. Since Lara's death, David and his wife Almut have been very open about their struggle and have continued to share Lara's story, with the hope that others will find help. David provides encouragement for parents of children who are struggling with mental health challenges and addictions, and hope for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one.
Religion is often viewed as a dirty word—even in Christian circles. But if you consider the root of the word religion, you'll see that it's a much more noble concept than it's been made out to be. Greg Paul is a founding pastor at Sanctuary in Toronto, and the author of Resurrecting Religion. Greg argues that much of what we consider religion really isn't religion at all, and reminds us of the pure religion that God calls us to in his Word—which is much more about community than it is about a "personal relationship."
A few months ago, we featured a special message from Nate Larkin who shared his story about healing from sexual brokenness. Today we share part two of his message, which talks about how to form a group of guys that can encourage one another and keep each other accountable.
According to some recent statistics, 36% of people have had an affair in the workplace. This number seems incredibly high, but what we don't realize sometimes is just how easily it can happen to us. While most guys don't wake up one day saying, "You know, I think I'm going to have an affair today," we're naive to think the slide into infidelity is something we're immune to.
In his book Anatomy Of An Affair, Dave Carder talks about how affairs develop, and how to guard our marriages against them. We discuss with him some of the primary reasons and circumstances that cause couples to wander, the difference between physical and emotional affairs (and why emotional affairs are just as detrimental), situations and people to avoid, and how to cultivate a healthy, affair-proof marriage.
Praying for your kids is the most important—but least talked about—function of fatherhood. Steve Chapman is an avid outdoorsman, musician, songwriter, and author. In one of his more recent books, A Dad's Guide to Praying for His Kids: The Greatest Act of Love You Can Give, Steve provides key principles and strategies to help men pray faithfully.
In our conversation with Steve, he walks through everything from praying for our kids when they're little, to going to battle for wayward young people. He even talks about fasting: what it is and why it's important as well as some practical alternatives to our traditional understanding of fasting.
There's a growing tendency in our culture to see men as optional, particularly in response to what some would call "patriarchal constructs". At the same time, there's a growing realization in our culture about the negative impacts of fatherless families.
Brian Russell works for an organization called Dad Central, which provides resources and training to highlight the invaluable role of fathers in the lives of their children. Brian talks about some of the impacts of low father-involvement vs high father-involvement, as well as what it means to be a responsible dad—and how this all affects our children's relationship with God.
There's one critical element in a young person’s development that will result in a greater likelihood of them following Jesus and experiencing a healthy, thriving life:
Dad.
Fathers have a unique and important role in the lives of their children. That role is different in the life of a young child than it is in the life of a teenager or grown-up.
Kirk recently wrote a book called The Seasons of Fatherhood to help dads understand the various stages of life and how they matter in every one of them. Kirk and Jeff talk about the different seasons of fatherhood, and Kirk offers a short encouragement for dads who think they may have failed.
It’s May. That means Mother’s Day is coming… like…really soon, guys! Which raises the question: How do I survive Mother’s Day? Kirk and Jeff discuss what this might look like, as well as:
❗The importance of praising not only your mom but the other moms in your family.
🎖️ Honoring the mother of your children.
🙏 Praying for the women in your life.
We can do more than just make it through Mother’s Day. We can bless the moms we know and show them how much their family loves them.
Related Links and Resources: * The Seasons of Fatherhood
As men who want to continue to grow in our faith and have a stronger relationship with God, it is important for us to spend time in the Bible. The Bible teaches us that “All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for rebuking, for correcting, for training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16).
Dwayne Cline is the lead pastor of Hughson Street Baptist Church in Hamilton, Ontario. He frequently speaks at Promise Keepers Canada conferences and is a council member for the Gospel Coalition in Canada. Dwayne reminds us of the importance of the Bible in our lives and how we can understand it better—answering questions such as:
- What does the Bible mean when it says "Scripture is inspired by God"?
- What do the words infallible and inerrant really mean? And what's the difference between them?
- Should we read every book of the Bible in the same way?
- Should we take everything in the Bible literally?
- Why do some passages in the Bible seem to contradict each other?
- Is it possible that we hold the Bible in such high regard that it becomes idolatry?
- How do we avoid picking and choosing verses from the Bible and applying them out of context?
Though Christmas is very important and enormously popular, Easter—and the days leading up to it—is the most significant event in the Christian's calendar. We may not even realize how much bearing this one event, the resurrection of Jesus, has on our every day lives.
We caught up with with pastor and author Brady Boyd at a recent Promise Keepers Canada conference where he shared with us why the resurrection of Jesus matters, the evidence for it, and the implications it has for our life here and now—as well as in the future.
Chuck Bentley is an author and the CEO of Crown Financial Ministries. In this interview, Chuck helps us understand why finances in particular cause so much strain for many couples, and the seven keys to solving our money problems in marriage.