Helping Young People Help Themselves: Recent Episodes
No Limits
Southampton youth workers, Vicki and Tom talk to young people and professionals about important topics and issues affecting children and young people. Vicki and Tom are here to give you the tools and techniques for looking after your mental health and wellbeing, empowering you with the right information and advice to help you, help yourself.
In this episode, Vicki and Tom are joined by Molly Foulkes, a young volunteer at Hampshire-based bereavement charity, Simon Says. Simons Says support young people up to the age of 18 who have a significant person in their life who has died or is dying.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing our support, get in touch with No Limits by:
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
☎️ 02380 224 224
For support around loss and bereavement, see
Simon Says 👉 Hampshire-based young people’s bereavement charity
Winston’s Wish 👉 National childhood bereavement charity
Wessex Cancer Trust 👉 Support for people and families with cancer in the Wessex region
Death Positive Libraries 👉 Libraries that stock a specially chosen collection of books to help adults and young people cope with death
Griefcast 👉 Podcast that examines the human experience of grief and death
Running with Grief 👉 Clara Amfo speaks about her experiences through the first year after the sudden bereavement of her father.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom are joined by Natalie Webb, CEO of No Limits to talk about the cost of living, practical steps you can take to reduce spending and where you can go to get support.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing our support, get in touch with No Limits by:
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
☎️ 02380 224 224
For support around the cost of living, see
Gov.uk 👉 Cost of Living support
Citizens Advice 👉 Confidential information and advice around legal, debt, consumer, housing and other problems
No Limits 👉 Cost of Living
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom are joined by Bwalya Mulenga to talk about her experiences of being a Black woman, and to talk about racism. Bwalya is a No Limits Trustee, a master's student at Oxford University and she strives for equity and social justice.
Bwalya’s story about her heritage was not only to highlight the feeling of alienation, but also to celebrate the Black-British culture. She says
“The intention of my story was also to celebrate the beauty of "Black-British" culture that has emerged. It has in its own right birthed music, language, traditions etc. that are uniquely "Black British" - that is to say it is a culture/ heritage that is not either "Black African/Afro-Caribbean" or "British" but its own entity worth celebrating and recognising.”
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing our support, get in touch with No Limits by:
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
☎️ 02380 224 224
For more information on Black History Month, go to blackhistorymonth.org.uk
To find out more about what’s going on with Black History in the South, see the Black History Month South Facebook group
For support with racism, see:
Mind 👉 Racism and Mental Health
Young Minds 👉 Racism and Mental Health
Equality Advisory Service 👉 Assists individuals on issues relating to equality and human rights
Victim Support 👉 Charity dedicated to supporting victims of crime and traumatic incidents
Through our own research, we were unable to find any organisations in the South that give help specifically to people experiencing a hate crime. If you have any suggestions, please email communications@nolimitshelp.org.uk
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom talk about self-harm. They define self-harm, what makes you self-harm, and alternative coping strategies.
Reference: What is self-harm? - Mind
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing our support, get in touch with No Limits by:
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
☎️ 02380 224 224
For more advice on accessing information and support for around self-harm, see:
Young Minds 👉 Signs of self-harm and getting help
Tellmi app 👉 To help you improve your mental health
DistrACT app 👉 Trusted information and links to support for people who self-harm and may feel suicidal
TalkLife app 👉 Peer support for mental health
Calm Harm app 👉 Provides tasks that help you resist or manage the urge to self-harm
All apps are available on the Apple App Store and Google Play
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here. Follow No Limits on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn @nolimitshelp
Season 1, Episode 12: Self Esteem
In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss Self Esteem with Tracey, No Limits’ Mental Health Lead. 🎙️
They define self-esteem and self-worth, explore how this impacts our wellbeing, the barriers young people face to improving it and what you can do to help yourself.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more advice on accessing information and support for around self-esteem:
· Children’s Society 👉 We provide specialist support that empowers young people to make positive changes and rediscover their hope.
· Mind 👉 Provide advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem. We campaign to improve services, raise awareness, and promote understanding.
· Young Minds 👉 A UK charity fighting for children and young people’s mental health. Young Minds also provide useful information about abuse and how to get help.
· Kooth👉 Provide anonymous and personalised mental health support for Children and Young People through an online mental wellbeing community.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss Autism awareness with Jazz and Moon as a part of Autism Awareness Month. 🎙️
Our guests talk about what autism is, the experiences of and challenges for autistic young people and what support is available.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more advice on accessing information and support for autistic people and their loved ones:
- Autism Hampshire 👉 Creating opportunities, challenging perceptions, enhancing choices and providing high quality services to meet the diverse needs of autistic people.
- National Autistic Society 👉Support for Autistic people in the UK and their families. Running specialist schools, campaigning for improved rights or training companies on being more autism-friendly, dedicated to transforming lives and changing attitudes.
- Young Minds 👉 A UK charity fighting for children and young people’s mental health. Young Minds also provide useful information about abuse and how to get help.
- The Autism Act 2009 👉 Information about what the Act means for Autistic People.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss domestic abuse and sexual violence with James and Anjelica as part of part of No More Week 🎙️
Our guests talk about what domestic abuse and sexual violence is, how you can spot red flags in a relationship, and what steps you can take to get help and support.
Please be advised that the content we cover in this episode is suitable for listeners aged 12 and over and you may wish to have someone listen in with you. If you, or anyone you know, is affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode, please seek support from a trusted adult, or any of the organisations listed in our episode notes.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more advice on accessing support if you, or someone you know, are experiencing domestic abuse or sexual violence:
- Childline 👉 A UK charity that offers a free phone line, web chat and email service for children to talk to someone about anything they’re facing. Phone the Childline for free on 0800 1111.
- Young Minds 👉 A UK charity fighting for children and young people’s mental health. Young Minds also provide useful information about abuse and how to get help.
- Pippa 👉 Advice, information, and support for women and their children who are experiencing or who have experienced domestic abuse. Phone 02380 917 917 or email pippa@southampton.gov.uk.
- Yellow Door 👉 specialist support and prevention services for anyone at risk of or affected by domestic abuse, sexual violence/abuse or other forms of interpersonal harm.
- Refuge 👉Free 24/7 domestic abuse helpline for women and children. Phone 0808 2000 247.
- Safe Lives 👉 A UK charity dedicated to ending domestic abuse. Safe Lives is running a campaign called #FriendsCanTell which is a campaign that aims to educate and empower young people to spot abuse in relationships and support their friends. You can follow the campaign on social media, or find out more here.
Useful definitions:
- Domestic abuse - Domestic abuse is sometimes called ‘domestic violence’ and it can involve an adult threatening, bullying or hurting another adult in their family or who they’re in a relationship with. Young people can directly or indirectly experience domestic abuse as a result of the hurt that an adult is causing another adult in their family. (Children’s Society)
- Sexual violence - 'Sexual violence' is a term used to describe any sexual activity that happened without consent. This includes rape, sexual assault, sexual abuse and sexual harassment (to name just a few). (Rape Crisis)
- Clare’s Law – The Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS), also known as “Clare’s Law” enables the police to disclose information to a victim or potential victim of domestic abuse about their partner’s or ex-partner’s previous abusive o
In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss eating disorders with Dr Sarah Williams and Kerry Franklin as part of part of Eating Disorders Awareness Week 🎙️
Our guests talk about what an eating disorder is, the signs and symptoms of an eating disorder, as well as what steps you, or someone you know, can take to get help and support.
Vicki and Tom also open up a conversation about the importance of getting the right help, and what you can do to improve your mental health and wellbeing.
Please be advised that the content we cover in this episode is suitable for listeners aged 12 and over and you may wish to have someone listen in with you. If you, or anyone you know, is affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode, please seek support from a trusted adult, or any of the organisations listed in our episode notes.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of useful techniques that will help you if you’re struggling with your relationship with food:
- Beat Eating Disorders👉 A UK charity that offers a free helpline for people who suffer from an eating disorder. Beat also provides useful information and resources about disorder for those with an eating disorder, and for those supporting someone with an eating disorder.
- Young Minds 👉 A UK charity fighting for children and young people’s mental health. Young Minds provide useful information about eating disorders and how to get help.
- Eva Musby 👉 A selection of YouTube videos produced by Eva Musby in support of her book and Bitesize audios for the parents and carers of children and teenagers with anorexia and other eating disorders.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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The eighth episode of our podcast is all about how to look after yourself in 2022 🎙️
After the rush of the holidays, January can be a tough month - it’s colder, darker and some of us might feel quite flat after Christmas. In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss the year just gone, the highs and the lows, and how you can take positive steps to look after your wellbeing and set yourself some goals in the year ahead.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of useful techniques that will help you look after your health and wellbeing, and help you set SMART goals this year:
· 5 Steps to wellbeing
· The cycle of change
· SMART goals
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss drugs and alcohol with No Limits Youth Worker, Dan 🎙️
Our guest talks about the importance of managing your relationship with drugs and alcohol, including how to be self-aware and access the right support to help you reach your goals.
Vicki and Tom talk about keeping safe while drinking alcohol, covering some dos and don’ts to help keep you and your friends safe this Christmas.
Please be advised that the content we cover in this episode is suitable for listeners aged 12 and over. If you, or anyone you know, is affected by any of the issues discussed in this episode, please seek support from a trusted adult, or any of the organisations listed in our episode notes.
Everything we discuss in today’s episode is for informational purposes only and should not be taken as professional medical advice. If you’re seeking medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment, please consult a medical professional or healthcare advisor.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more advice on accessing support in your local area if you’re being bullied:
- Alcohol change 👉 A UK charity providing useful information, resources, and support to help reduce alcohol harm.
- Drugs and me 👉 A small team of scientists, writers and engineers developing content, digital tools & research to help people make healthier and safer decisions while using drugs recreationally.
- Drink Aware 👉 A UK organisation offering information and advice to help people decide which practical changes are right for them when it comes to drinking habits.
- Drug science 👉 A leading independent scientific body in the UK working to provide clear, evidence-based information about drugs without political or commercial interference.
- Frank 👉 Honest information about drugs.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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In this episode, Vicki and Tom discuss bullying with Head of Services, Alice, as part of Anti-Bullying Awareness Week 🎙️
Our guest talks about what it means to be bullied, how to recognise when you’re being bullied and ways of accessing support. Vicki and Tom also talk about managing negative thoughts in our self-care section and the importance of self-compassion.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more advice on accessing support in your local area if you’re being bullied:
- Anti-bullying Alliance 👉 A group of organisations and individuals working together to stop bullying and create safer environments for children and young people.
- NSPCC 👉 A children’s charity helping to rebuild children’s lives, support families and prevent abuse.
- Think U Know 👉 An organisation helping to protect children online and offline.
- Young Minds 👉 A charity fighting for children and young people’s mental health.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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As part of World Mental Health Day, this month Vicki and Tom discuss mental health with Mental Health Lead, Tracey, and Children’s Counsellor, Sabrina 🎙️
In this episode, our guests talk about what mental health is, what can affect your mental health, and how accessing support can help you to become more emotionally resilient.
Vicki and Tom also open up a conversation about how to make positive changes in your life, including some practical advice and activities you can try to help lift your mood when you’re feeling down.
Everything we discuss in this episode is for informational purposes only and should not be taken as professional medical advice. If you’re seeking medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment, please consult a medical professional or healthcare advisor.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more mental health advice to help you access support:
- Young Minds 👉 A UK charity fighting for children and young people’s mental health.
- Mind 👉 Providing advice and support to empower anyone experiencing a mental health problem.
- Mental Health Foundation 👉 Support and research for good mental health.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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To celebrate Sexual Health Awareness Week, this month Vicki and Tom discuss sexual health with youth workers Amy and Kayleigh 🎙️
In this episode, this week’s guests talk about the importance of consent, STIs and how to keep safe, contraception and healthy relationships.
Vicki and Tom also open up a conversation about what healthy relationships look like in their self-care section, and how you can identify what’s important in a relationship.
Everything we discuss in this episode is for informational purposes only and should not be taken as professional medical advice. If you’re seeking medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment, please consult a medical professional or healthcare advisor.
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
No Limits also runs a free sexual health clinic where a specialist sexual health nurse offers sexual health advice as well as all forms of contraception, including; pills, injections and implants, screening for STIs, treatments for STIs, Condoms and Pregnancy testing.
The sexual health clinic is open every Thursday from 12:30-4pm at our Advice Centre and is an appointment only clinic. Appointments can be made by phoning 02380224224, by emailing enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk or by speaking to a member of staff at the No Limits Advice Centre.
We’ve put together a list of recommended websites for more sexual health advice to help you access support in your local area:
- NHS 👉 Advice and support for STI symptoms, where to get tested and how to have safe sex.
- Let’s Talk About It 👉 Information and support for LGBT communities and their allies.
- Brook 👉 Free and confidential sexual health and wellbeing support.
For more information about the Gillick competency and Fraser guidelines, click here.
For advice and support with healthy relationships, check out:
- NSPCC
- Childline
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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To celebrate Southampton Pride, this month Vicki and Tom discuss all things LGBTQ+ with youth worker, Kestral 🎙️
In this episode, this week's guest talks about what it means to be LGBTQ+, the importance of inclusivity and how we can show our support for the LGBTQ+ community 🏳️🌈
Vicki and Tom also cover mindfulness in their self-care section, and how you can bring mindfulness into your everyday life 🧘
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
Recommended LGBTQ+ UK organisations:
- Stonewall 👉 Information and support for LGBT communities and their allies.
- Gendered Intelligence 👉 An organisation that works to increase understand of gender diversity and improve the lives of trans people.
- Mermaids 👉 Advice and support for gender-diverse children, young people and their families.
- Chrysalis👉 Support for transgender and questioning people, their families and close friends.
For advice and support with mindfulness, check out:
- The No Limits Wellness Journal 👉 a journal that includes a selection of mindfulness techniques, coping mechanisms and practical lists that will help guide you through your thoughts and feelings.
- NHS Mindfulness top tips👉 information and top tips on how to be more mindful by the NHS.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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To celebrate World Youth Skills Day (15th July), Vicki and Tom talk about young people’s futures with youth worker, Luke 🎙️
The theme for World Youth Skills Day is ‘Celebrating the resilience and creativity of young people through the crisis’, and this weeks’ guest talks about the importance of equipping young people with the confidence and skills to take their next steps, the barriers young people might face and just how valuable it can be to reach out for help and support.
Vicky and Tom also cover the importance of sleep in their self-care section, where they share some top tips you can use to help improve your sleep 💤
If you, or someone you know, would like to find out more about accessing support with your future, get in touch with No Limits by:
☎️ 02380 224 224
📧 enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
💬 www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
🚶♀️ 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
Not based in Southampton? We’ve put together a list of recommended organisations across the UK to help you get support in your local area:
- National Careers Service 👉 Free information, advice and guidance to help you make decisions on learning, training and work.
- Youth Employment UK 👉 Get help with skills, study, training, jobs, careers and much more.
- The Princes Trust 👉 Help for young people (aged 11-30) to find the tools and confidence to try free courses and start careers.
For advice and support with sleep, check out:
- The No Limits Wellness Journal👉 a journal that includes a selection of mindfulness techniques, coping mechanisms and practical lists that will help guide you through your thoughts and feelings.
- The Sleep Council👉 Practical advice and support to help you adopt healthier sleep habits.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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To celebrate National Carers Week (7-13th June), Vicki and Tom talk all things Young Carers with youth workers, Jo and Emma.
The theme for Carers Week is ‘Making caring visible and valued’ and this weeks’ guests talk about what it means to be a Young Carer, the day-to-day responsibilities they undertake and just how important it is for Young Carers to access help and support.
Vicki and Tom also cover the importance of self-care and the proactive steps you can take to look after your health and wellbeing.
If you, or someone you know, are a Young Carer living in Southampton and you’d like to find out more about how you can get help and support, get in touch with No Limits by:
- Phone: 02380 224 224
- Email: enquiries@nolimitshelp.org.uk
- Web chat: www.nolimitshelp.org.uk
- Visit: 13 High Street, Southampton, SO14 2DF
Not based in Southampton? We’ve put together a list of recommended organisations across the UK to help you get support in your local area:
- Carers UK – Free expert advice, information and support for carers, making sure that you don’t have to care alone. Phone: 0808 808 777 Mon-Fri, 9am-6pm or email advice@carersuk.org
- Children’s Society – support for children and young people going through life challenges such as abuse, exploitation and neglect.
- Young Sibs – a support service for brothers and sisters of disabled children and adults.
If you’re experiencing an emotional crisis in the UK, phone the Samaritans on 116 123. Hotlines in other countries can be found here.
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