Seeing Your Inner Brilliance: Recent Episodes
Charlsey Childers
The podcast for ambitious women with BIG DREAMS who are exhausted from wondering, “am I enough?” I’m your host, Charlsey Childers, a Self Worth and Confidence Coach who is no stranger to wondering the very same thing. Join us each for intimate conversations, fiery inspiration, and eye-opening discoveries to help you cultivate the confidence and self-worth you need to believe in yourself and bring your desires into being. Seeing Your Inner Brilliance shatters the barriers standing in the way of the life you want because… DESPITE the doubts… you are enough.
Have you ever found yourself second-guessing every decision, wondering if you're truly on the right path? You’re not alone! In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most powerful elements of building your dreams: learning to trust yourself and your vision.
Trusting yourself is the foundation for creating more alignment, clarity, and flow in your work—and ultimately, the key to purposeful success. Whether you’re building a business, pursuing a passion, or carving your own unique path, you’ll walk away with practical tips to help you strengthen that trust and move forward with more ease and confidence.
We’ll cover:
- Why trusting yourself is the key to unlocking clarity and flow.
- How self-doubt clouds your judgment and prevents you from aligning with your true path.
- Signs you’re in alignment vs. misalignment, and how to course-correct when things feel off.
- How to build radical trust in your vision so you can create success that feels as good as it looks.
If you're ready to doubt yourself less and trust your instincts more, this episode is for you!
Key Moments
00:00 Introduction: The Power of Self-Trust
01:26 Understanding Inner Knowing
02:29 Achieving Alignment Through Trust
03:28 The Clarity of Trusting Your Instincts
03:56 Embracing Flow and Creativity
08:16 Radical and Fierce Trust
22:15 Overcoming the Fear of Being Wrong
26:09 Understanding True Trust
27:25 Trusting Your Vision
28:25 Embracing Your Unique Calling
30:00 The Power of Alignment
35:43 Signs of Alignment and Misalignment
43:21 Reconnecting with Your Vision
44:56 The Cycle of Trust and Flow
45:49 Final Thoughts on Trust and Vision
Want to take this even deeper?
Join me in my 8-week experience, Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping into Your Power. It’s designed to support visionaries like you in cultivating radical and fierce self-trust, one of the key foundations to thriving with aligned purpose. Join the waitlist at: https://www.charlseychilders.com/believing-in-your-brilliance-waitlist
Together, we’ll focus on aligning your actions with your purpose, so you can build success that’s deeply fulfilling, inside and out.
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Talk soon,
Charlsey
What if success felt truly aligned with who you are? In this episode, I reveal the secret to achieving purposeful success—the kind that lights you up and feels deeply fulfilling. It’s not about just taking more action or checking off boxes; it’s about finding alignment with your calling and operating from a place of inner certainty.
You’ll learn why simply following other people’s strategies isn’t enough when you’re pursuing your purpose and how taking aligned action is far more powerful than hustling just to get things done. I’ll share my personal journey from grinding through endless tasks to finding flow in my work—and how you can experience the same.
If you’re ready to stop pushing and start thriving with aligned purpose, this episode will give you the tools to get started.
Key Moments:
00:00 Introduction: The Secret to True Success
01:17 The Myth of Hustle: Why Action Isn't Enough
03:15 Personal Journey: From Hustle to Alignment
05:39 The Power of Alignment: Transforming Your Approach
10:16 Living in Alignment: Practical Insights
14:56 Embracing the Journey: Trusting the Process
19:24 Conclusion: Your Vision is Your Compass
Join the Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping into Your Power waitlist
✨ Ready to take your purpose-driven journey to the next level? ✨
If you're done with surface-level strategies and are ready to build authentic, fulfilling success that’s in true alignment with who you are, then you’re going to love Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping into Your Power.
This 8-week experience is designed to help you tap into your inner clarity, deepen your alignment, and create success that feels as good as it looks. Whether you're building a business, pursuing a passion, or shaping your calling, this program will give you the tools to thrive with purpose.
Sign up for the waitlist today to secure your spot: https://www.charlseychilders.com/believing-in-your-brilliance-waitlist
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Charlsey
What would it feel like to wake up every day excited, knowing that your work isn’t just about checking off boxes—but actually lights you up, feels effortless, and flows naturally? Right now, you might be feeling like you’re constantly in motion, doing all the ‘right’ things, but still missing that spark. It’s like you’re running a never-ending marathon, hitting goals but never feeling the deep fulfillment you’re craving.
In today’s episode, we’re going to dive into the real difference between surface-level success—built on hustle and grind—and the kind of aligned, purposeful success that makes your soul come alive. If you’re serious about building a legacy that goes beyond just ticking off tasks, this is for you.
I’ll show you how to stop forcing things and start aligning with what truly lights you up—so you can feel like you’re crafting a masterpiece rather than pushing a boulder uphill. By the end, you’ll have tools to step into your work with clarity, ease, and excitement. Because the truth is, building your calling from a place of alignment is the key to lasting, meaningful success.
If you’re ready to stop grinding and start aligning, let’s jump in.
Key Moments:
00:00 Introduction: Living Your Calling
01:35 The Struggle of Unfulfilling Success
03:06 The Power of Alignment
06:30 Personal Stories of Misalignment
14:57 Recognizing What Excites You
24:05 Practical Steps to Align Your Life
27:01 Conclusion: Embrace Your Brilliance
Supporting Resources:
If you're ready to stop checking those boxes and start feeling on fire about your work or even more on fire, then I invite you to join me in Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping into your power-- my brand-new coaching program where you'll learn how to move from autopilot to alignment so that every action you take is filled with purpose and excitement.
You can join the wait list now and be the first to know when we open, when I open the doors to the next round. So let's get you aligned, energized, and living out your brilliance.
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Charlsey
Feeling like something's missing, even though you've done everything "right"? Maybe you've found your niche, taken the courses, followed all the strategies, and yet… things still don't feel quite right. Trust me, I've been there too.
Let's dive deep into why external strategies like finding your niche, mapping out your 5-year plan, or nailing down your ideal client are just the beginning-and why they can't take the place of internal alignment. I'll share the missing step no one talks about that leads to true clarity and success that's genuinely aligned with who you are.
You'll walk away with practical tips to help you tune into your inner clarity, discover what lights you up, and build a life and business that's in harmony with your true self. If you're ready to stop relying on external formulas and start trusting your intuition, this episode is for you.
💡 What you'll learn:
Why relying on external strategies isn't enough
The power of internal alignment and how to find it
3 steps to tune into deeper clarity and build from within
✨ Ready to get started? Drop a comment in the review section and let me know: What's one thing that lights you up that you want to do more of?
00:00 Introduction: Feeling Like Something's Missing
01:32 The Missing Step: Internal Clarity
04:31 My Journey: From Network Marketing to Coaching
08:34 Realization: The Importance of Internal Alignment
16:19 Practical Tips for Finding Inner Clarity
24:06 Conclusion: Aligning with Your True Self
Supporting Resources:
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👉 If you struggle with outside opinions pulling you off course, last week's episode on "How to Stop Caring What People Think" is for you! It's a perfect companion to what we talked about today-helping you release the need for external validation so you can trust yourself and your inner clarity. Let go of the noise, tune into what lights you up, and take aligned action without worrying about what others think.
👉 If you're listening to this episode and thinking, "That's me!"-you've done everything right, but something still feels off-then Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping into Your Power is for you.
In this 8-week experience, we'll go beyond the external strategies and dive into the missing piece: internal alignment. You'll learn how to tap into your true clarity, align with your purpose, and build your calling in a way that feels right, not forced.
Ready to stop striving and start thriving? Click here to join the waitlist for the next round: https://www.charlseychilders.com/believing-in-your-brilliance-waitlist
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Charlsey
Are you tired of feeling held back by the fear of what others think or that they’ll judge you? I get it—it’s frustrating when judgment keeps you from going after what you really want. In this video, we’re going to break free from that fear together. I’m sharing some simple but powerful tips to help you stop caring about others' opinions and finally start living boldly and unapologetically.
I’ll walk you through three practical ways to face the fear of judgment head-on, build your courage, and start trusting yourself more. Whether it's speaking up, chasing your dreams, or just being your authentic self, you’ll feel more confident to go after the life you want—without second-guessing every move.
We’re also going to dive into some mindset shifts that can change everything, plus a few motivation hacks to keep things fun and light as you embrace living fearlessly. Life’s too short to let fear and judgment hold you back!
So, if you're ready to shake off the fear, step into your power, and have a little fun along the way, hit that like button, subscribe, and let’s do this together. You’ve got this!
Key Moments:
00:00 Introduction to Overcoming Judgment
02:12 Understanding the Weight of Judgment
04:35 The Root Causes of Judgment
06:32 The Sneaky Nature of Judgment
07:57 Embracing Your True Self
11:07 Transforming Self-Judgment
12:57 Practical Steps to Overcome Judgment
16:50 Real-Life Examples and Insights
26:03 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
Supporting Resources:
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Made for More is your space to find clarity, connection, and confidence in the journey ahead. You’ll be surrounded by like-minded individuals who share your vision for a bigger, more fulfilling life—people who understand what it’s like to feel that pull for more. Through this program, you’ll learn how to embrace your ambition unapologetically, release the fear of what people think that’s been holding you back, and step fully into the life you’re meant to live.
This is where your dreams meet the support and understanding you’ve been craving. Let’s go after that ‘more’ together! Find out more info at https://www.charlseychilders.com/madeformore
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Charlsey
You want to chase those big dreams, but sometimes it feels like you're walking a tightrope between ambition and connection. It’s that push-pull of wanting to feel understood and supported while also reaching for more in life.
In this episode, we’re digging into the real reason why success can feel lonely at times—and why it doesn’t have to. We’ll explore what’s really happening when you feel like you have to choose between your dreams and your relationships, and by the end, you’ll have a new perspective on how to move forward with both. You’ll walk away feeling more confident that you can be the ambitious, driven person you are without sacrificing the relationships that ground you.
If you’re ready to pursue your dreams without feeling isolated or misunderstood, this episode will show you the way!
Key Moments:
00:00 Introduction: Balancing Ambition and Connection
01:04 Understanding the Tension Between Dreams and Relationships
02:17 The Lobster Story: Embracing Uniqueness
03:31 The Overachiever's Paradox
05:34 Navigating Loneliness as a High Achiever
08:55 Staying True to Your Ambitions
15:02 Fears of Losing Relationships
19:45 Embracing Change and Growth
22:00 Conclusion: Trusting Your Journey
Supporting Resources:
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Imagine feeling grounded, confident, and aligned with your vision—knowing you can pursue your dreams without sacrificing connection. This quick boost is perfect for those moments when you need to shake off doubt and feel empowered to keep going. Let it remind you that you’re capable of having both ambition and meaningful relationships. Use it to reset, refocus, and reignite your inner strength whenever you need it. Download it now at https://www.charlseychilders.com/empowerment
If you’ve ever felt lonely or misunderstood on your journey to achieving your big dreams, Made for More is here for you. This program is designed for those who know there’s more out there but feel like no one around them truly gets their ambition or understands their drive. You don’t have to walk this path alone, and you certainly don’t need to feel guilty or selfish for wanting more.
Made for More is your space to find clarity, connection, and confidence in the journey ahead. You’ll be surrounded by like-minded individuals who share your vision for a bigger, more fulfilling life—people who understand what it’s like to feel that pull for more. Through this program, you’ll learn how to embrace your ambition unapologetically, release the loneliness that’s been holding you back, and step fully into the life you’re meant to live.
This is where your dreams meet the support and understanding you’ve been craving. Let’s go after that ‘more’ together! Find out more info at https://www.charlseychilders.com/madeformore
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Charlsey
Ever found yourself asking, ‘Why am I feeling stuck even after all this success?’
You’re not alone—I’ve been there too.
In this episode, I’m diving into those emotions that can really trip us up—like guilt, self-doubt, and the fear of wanting more in life.
We’ll explore why these feelings surface, even when everything looks good on paper, and how to turn them into stepping stones toward a life that’s truly fulfilling, aligned with your purpose, and filled with genuine satisfaction and joy.
Let’s figure out how to move from feeling stuck to living a life that’s authentically yours.
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In this episode, I open up about the deeply personal and often overwhelming question: 'Is this all there is to life?' Drawing from my own struggles and journey, I share how this question haunted me for months and how I found clarity and purpose. If you're feeling unsettled and longing for something more, know that you aren't alone or wrong for feeling this way. Together, let's explore practical steps to embrace these feelings, go inward, and uncover your true desires. This episode is all about recognizing your potential for greater fulfillment and aligning your life with your most authentic self. Join me as we navigate this journey, embracing the discomfort and transforming it into an opportunity for incredible growth and alignment.
00:00 Introduction: The Big Question
01:09 Sharing My Personal Journey and Common Struggles
01:41 The Haunting Question: Is This All There Is?
03:33 Seeking Clarity and Understanding
12:01 The Real Reason Behind the Question
21:12 Steps to Embrace and Transform
30:04 Conclusion: Embrace Your Potential
SUPPORTING RESOURCES:
Grab your 3-min empowerment boost
Own the 'more' you're here for
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Charlsey
Are you starting to step into your calling and wondering what it truly is? Entering a new season of your dream and wanting to better trust the uncertainty of it all? Doing one thing but knowing you're meant for something bigger?
You will love this expansive conversation I had with Dallin, a young dreamer and high achiever. Dallin shares his journey of starting anew, striving to understand his purpose, and the challenges of navigating uncertainty. As a podcast host, poet, and fervent believer, Dallin's story is a reminder to trust in God's plan, embrace the journey, and believe that every experience, no matter how challenging, is a stepping stone to something greater. In this episode, we cover the importance of following one's calling, how to handle external pressure and the pressure to figure things out, finding inner clarity amidst chaos, and so much more. With anecdotes about personal growth and reflections on faith, this episode explores the beauty of trusting the process and allowing life's journey to unfold in unexpected ways.
KEY EPISODE INSIGHTS:
- Being more connected to yourself than external voices
- Having internal certainty when there's external uncertainty
- The importance of committing yourself to the process you've set for yourself
- Allowing your choices to reinforce the love you have for yourself
- Spending less time judging your path and more time allowing the bigness of your dreams
Resources:
- Tap into feeling empowered, confident, and excited for what you're doing and where you're going with this 3-minute Empowerment Boost: [Click here for instant access.]
- Join the 'Visionary Circle' FREE Voxer community HERE: A space for big dreamers and high achievers pursuing big visions, dreams, callings, and goals to share our journeys, support, and encourage each other, and just be with others who get it.
- Connect with Me on Instagram: Join me @charlseychilders for more insights, updates, and real talk about chasing dreams and staying true to yourself.
- Are you in a place, like Dallin, where you're trying to embrace uncertainty and trust the process but you're finding it easier said than done? I'd love to connect with you on this! Share your experience with me in the review section or through a voice note [HERE]! You can also ask questions there, and I'll get back to you within 48 hours!
Dallin Candland is an ADHD Self-Development Junkie and Podcast Host of the YIELD Today podcast. He believes in helping others become a better version of themselves through creative thinking, self-discipline, and applied learning. He's also the author of, "God is Trying to Talk to Me," a collection of poems to encourage people to be more vulnerable with God. Dallin is just getting started! Follow him on Instagram to follow along his journey, be inspired by his wisdom, and connect with him further.
Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! Either leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most,.DM me on IG, or shoot me an email at support@charlseychilders.com. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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Charlsey
It's time to get real, raw, and vulnerable!
In this episode, I share the next level I am reaching for and the internal "challenges" that are cropping up as I step into it. Overwhelm is a big one. Reflecting on my feelings, I realized this overwhelm wasn't due to the busyness of my schedule or the demands of my responsibilities. Instead, it stemmed from my internal dialogue. I kept telling myself that I wasn't doing enough, that what I was doing wasn’t enough, and that I needed to be doing more. This constant pressure and self-criticism fueled my feelings of overwhelm and stress. Newsflash: this is an indication of my expansion! If you can relate and want to more seamlessly step into your next level, this episode is for you!
KEY EPISODE INSIGHTS:
- Gaining a deeper understanding of why we feel overwhelmed or stressed and how our internal dialogue contributes to it.
- How we can show ourselves compassion when we're feeling this way rather than berating ourselves for it.
- Reframing our thoughts and beliefs about what "enough" looks like so we can trade overwhelm for empowerment and uncertainty for unwavering confidence.
- Why embracing our expansion is crucial as we work towards our next level.
- Practical things we can do to approach our next level with ease, confidence, and inner knowingness.
Resources:
- Made for More is HERE! Stop apologizing and start owning the life you feel called to. [Click here for more info.]
- Power Up Your Day with this 3-minute Empowerment Boost: [Click here for instant access.]
- Join the 'Visionary Circle' FREE Voxer community HERE: A space for big dreamers and high achievers pursuing big visions, dreams, callings, and goals to share our journeys, support, and encourage each other, and just be with others who get it.
- Connect with Me on Instagram: Join me @charlseychilders for more insights, updates, and real talk about chasing dreams and staying true to yourself.
- Does this episode inspire or prompt something within you? I'd love to hear about it! Share your experience with me in the review section or through a voice note [HERE]! You can also ask questions there, and I'll get back to you within 48 hours!
Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! Either leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most,.DM me on IG, or shoot me an email at support@charlseychilders.com. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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Charlsey
Allowing yourself to follow their passions and dreams, even if it means veering off the traditional path and going against the grain. That was the hardest and most defining part of my journey so far. In this episode, I am interviewed by my friend and host of the 'Unleash Thyself' podcast, Constantin Morun, and have the opportunity to share my story in a way I've never shared it before.
Key Episode Insights:
- Listening to your inner voice, trusting your instincts, and honoring your desires and dreams.
- The value of believing in yourself and your potential, regardless of societal norms or expectations.
- The impact of living authentically has on personal fulfillment and on the ability to positively influence others.
- Stepping into your own power, embrace your inner brilliance, and create a life that aligns with their values and passions.
Resources for Your Journey:
- Made for More is HERE! Stop apologizing and starting owning the life you feel called to.
- Power Up Your Day with this 3-minute Empowerment Boost: click here for instant access
- Join the 'Visionary Circle' FREE Voxer community -- a space for big dreamers and high achievers pursuing big visions, dreams, callings, and goals tto share our journeys, support and encourage each other, and just be by other who get it
- Connect with Me on Instagram: Join me @charlseychilders for more insights, updates, and real talk about chasing dreams and staying true to yourself.
- Want to share your insights and be heard by fellow big dreamers? Submit your burning questions via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE! Let's amplify your voice and inspire others on their journey to greatness.
Constantin Morun is a Sr. Account Technology Strategist with Microsoft, certified project manager, and change management professional where enabling businesses to effectively navigate the complexities of the digital age. With over 15 years of experience in personal and professional development, he honed his skills as a Holistic Life Empowerment Mentor & Coach, providing invaluable guidance and support to those seeking to unlock their full potential. He is also host of the Unleash Thyself podcast, which aims to inspire, uplift, and empower us to unleash the best version of ourselves, together! Click here to listen to Unleash Thyself podcast episodes and find resources on personal growth, self-discovery, and spirituality. You can also connect with Constantin on IG.
Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! Either leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most,.DM me on IG, or shoot me an email at support@charlseychilders.com. Looking forward to hearing from you!
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Charlsey
Have you ever noticed how everyone loves sharing their successes? It's that rush when things are popping off, and you're riding the wave of momentum—there's nothing quite like it. But what about when things don't go as planned? When programs don't fill up, or the accolades don't roll in? It can sting, right? I've been there, and I recently opened up about it on IG.
In this episode, I want to talk about why it's so important to normalize acknowledging our "failures" just as much as our successes—and how to stay certain through it all.
Key Episode Insights:
- Reflection of my journey of self-discovery, realizing the pitfalls of constantly seeking external validation for worthiness and success, and recognizing the power internally validating and believing in ourselves.
- Shifting our mindset to focus on align with their true purpose and passion, embracing the journey and staying true to ourselves.
- Emphasizing the importance of trusting the process, staying grounded, and creating a life of success, impact and legacy from within.
It's time we let go of seeking external validation and depending on our results, and embrace the journey of greatness with authenticity, vulnerability, and support! Join me in this inspiring conversation! Remember, you are worthy, successful, and enough. Let's do this together. Thank you for being here and thank you for listening!
Resources for Your Journey:
- Be THAT Girl/Guy Program: Ready to join me in cultivating self-belief and certainty, leading with authenticity and passion? Check out my program at charlseychilders.com/btg for more info.
- Power Up Your Day with this 3-minute Empowerment Boost: click here for instant access
- Join the 'Visionary Circle' FREE Voxer community -- a space for big dreamers and high achievers pursuing big visions, dreams, callings, and goals tto share our journeys, support and encourage each other, and just be by other who get it
- Connect with Me on Instagram: Join me @charlseychilders for more insights, updates, and real talk about chasing dreams and staying true to yourself.
- Want to share your insights and be heard by fellow big dreamers? Submit your burning questions via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE! Let's amplify your voice and inspire others on their journey to greatness.
Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! Either leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most,.DM me on IG, or shoot me an email at support@charlseychilders.com. Looking forward to hearing from you!
Talk soon,
Charlsey
Those moments when we're in a funk, aren't feeling well, are uninspired or unmotivated... how can we embrace these moments, as uncomfortable as they are, and truly see them as opportunities for growth? That's what I dive into in this episode.
KEY EPISODE INSIGHTS:
- Are these moments indicative that we're off track?
- The Art of Not Forcing: Authenticity in Action
- Trusting and embracing what's being called through us
- How I navigated through a weekend of not feeling well and feeling uninspired
Resources
Ready to approach your dreams with more certainty, ease, and alignment? Join BTG (Be THAT Girl/Guy) today to cultivate unwavering self-belief, independent of external validation or results. In this transformative program, you'll learn to embody success as a natural extension of your being, rather than a distant achievement. Say goodbye to chasing external validation and hello to a journey of authentic alignment and fulfillment. Click the link to start your journey with BTG now and save $700 off!
Elevate your daily routine with a powerful dose of empowerment HERE! Start each day with the mindset to conquer your biggest dreams.
Ready to share your insights and be heard by fellow big dreamers? Submit your burning questions via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE! Let's amplify your voice and inspire others on their journey to greatness.
Love what you heard? Share your thoughts with me! DM me on IG or shoot me an email at support@charlseychilders.com. Don't forget, you can also leave a review right here to let me know what resonated with you the most. Looking forward to hearing from you!
Talk soon,
Charlsey
In a world that glorifies accomplishments, what happens when success doesn't match our internal sense of capability? Join us in this thought-provoking episode of "Seeing Your Inner Brilliance" as we delve into the paradox of accomplishment. Dr. Caroline and I explore the complexities of achieving external success while grappling with internal doubts and insecurities.
From weightlifting to the boardroom, we uncover the raw truth behind feeling accomplished yet not fully capable. Through candid conversations, we navigate the murky waters of self-worth and delve into the intricacies of building genuine confidence amidst achievements.
Key Episode Insights:
- Navigating the dichotomy: Feeling accomplished yet grappling with feelings of inadequacy.
- Building your own evidence: Strategies for crafting irrefutable proof of your capabilities.
- Confronting imposter syndrome: Tangible ways to work through feelings of unworthiness and incapability.
- The power of incremental growth: Knowing when to dig deep and when to work through challenges incrementally.
- Arranging life for energy: Creating a life that energizes rather than drains.
Tune in to discover how to embrace your achievements while fostering a deeper sense of self-belief. It's time to unravel the paradox of accomplishment!
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Ready to share your insights and be heard by fellow big dreamers? Submit your burning questions via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE! Let's amplify your voice and inspire others on their journey to greatness.
About Caroline:
Dr. Caroline Addington received her masters and PhD from the School of Biological and Health Systems Engineering at Arizona State University. She received her personal training certification from the National Academy of Sports Medicine. She's the host of Co-create, a podcast about life in the gym and beyond. Catch her latest episode HERE. If you are interested in training with her, schedule a class with her HERE.
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Charlsey
Feeling pressure to live a logic, conventional, predictable life even though you feel called to something radically outside the box? A you ready to break free from expectations and live life on your own terms? In this inspiring episode of "Seeing Your Inner Brilliance," I sit down with my friend, Dai Manuel, a renowned lifestyle mentor and performance coach, to explore the transformative journey of giving yourself permission to live authentically.
Together, we dive deep into the power of cultivating genuine big energy and the importance of knowing who we need to become to make the difference we want in the world. From intentionally crafting the life you truly want to navigating fear and embracing change, this conversation is packed with actionable insights to help you boldly take that step with confidence, reassurance, and inner certainty.
Key Episode Insights:
- Discover the importance of allowing yourself to be who you feel called to be, rather than conforming to societal expectations.
- Learn tangible ways to give yourself permission to go after the life you want and pursue your purpose with courage and conviction.
- Explore the role of downtime in sustaining your energy and staying true to your authentic path.
- Uncover practical strategies for navigating fear and embracing change as you create a life you love.
If you're ready to break free from the status quo and embrace a life of purpose and fulfillment, this episode is for you. Tune in to "Giving Yourself Permission to Live a Life Outside the Box with Dai Manuel" and start your journey of living authentically.
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Join BTG (Be THAT Girl/Guy) HERE to cultivate an unwavering belief in your capability and potential dependent of results or other's opinions, and embody success into your being rather than it being an external achievement!
Start your day with a daily dose of empowerment HERE!
Submit your question via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE!
About Dai:
Dai Manuel is a super dad, dating his wife, with a lead-by-example way of living and a contagious personality.
He is on a mission to positively impact one million role models around the globe to lead a FUN-ctionally fit life through education, encouragement, and community.
He is an award-winning digital thought leader and author, Distinguished Toastmaster & keynote speaker, former founding partner and Chief Operating Officer/Chief Marketing Officer of a multi-million dollar retail company, and a sought-after lifestyle mentor and executive performance coach.
He models his work based on 5 F’s: Fitness, Family, Faith, and Finances with an overarching roof of FUN, built on a rock-solid foundation of Health. Join his vibrant community on the 2% Solution podcast for your daily dose of motivation and actionable tips to transform your life, even if it's by 2% a day, towards a life filled with more success and happiness.
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Charlsey
Are you ready to answer the call to pursue your passion, even if you don't have all the qualifications? In this inspiring episode of "Seeing Your Inner Brilliance," I dive into the topic with guest and 2024 Presidential Canditate, Gabriel Cornejo, exploring the journey of following your calling despite perceived limitations.
We talk about the underlying legacy that transcends different manifestations, whether it's running for president, founding a company, or something else entirely, and the importance of embracing Mt. Everest-sized dreams and navigating the moments when you feel called to something without the worldly qualifications to match.
KEY EPISODE INSIGHTS:
- the power of clarity in sustaining you through external obstacles
- the process of finding your purpose by following what truly motivates you
- navigating the thought of "who am I to do ________?"
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Join BTG (Be THAT Girl/Guy) HERE to cultivate an unwavering belief in your capability and potential dependent of results or other's opinions, and embody success into your being rather than it being an external achievement!
Start your day with a daily dose of empowerment HERE!
Submit your question via voice note to be featured on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast HERE!
About Gabriel:
Gabriel Cornejo is running for president of the US in 2024 with a vision of love and fair marketplace. As founder of a tech company, his commitment to social justice and economic equity has set him apart from other candidates. To Gabriel, "Renovating America" is more than a campaign slogan; it's a cultural movement. You can find out more information on Gabriel, support his campaign, or follow his journey at https://www.gabe2024.com or connect with him on IG or TikTok.
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Charlsey
Join your host Charlsey Childers and mechanical engineer, Zach White, in a thought-provoking episode of "Seeing Your Inner Brilliance" as we explore the journey of overcoming the addiction to achievement and discovering true fulfillment in productivity.
In this candid conversation, we dive into the dangers of getting caught in the thrill of constant doing, where productivity becomes synonymous with worth and identity. We discuss possible root causes for this addiction and the toll it takes on our well-being.
But it's not all doom and gloom. Tune in as we discuss potential strategies for avoiding burnout, recognizing the signs of imbalance, and reclaiming a sense of balance and joy in our pursuit of goals.
Whether you're navigating the pressure to constantly perform or seeking a more sustainable approach to productivity, this episode offers practical tips and empowering insights to help you break free from the cycle of achievement addiction and find true fulfillment in your pursuits.
So, whether you're driving, working out, or cleaning, grab your ear buds and join Zach and I on Seeing Your Inner Brilliance as we explore the path to overcoming the addiction to achievement and embracing a life of fulfilled productivity.
Zach White is a game-changing career coach for driven engineers. He has worked with hundreds of leaders at top companies worldwide to achieve breakthrough career success while avoiding burnout.
He is the founder and CEO at Oasis of Courage, a fast-growing company with unique and proven coaching programs exclusively for engineering and technology professionals. He also hosts a top-rated podcast, “The Happy Engineer.”
As a coach for engineering leaders, Zach understands the journey firsthand, holding both a bachelor's and master’s degree in mechanical engineering, and spending over a decade building his career in the Fortune 200.
Zach is now affectionately known as the World’s Best Lifestyle Engineer, and your coach.
Website - https://www.oasisofcourage.com Podcast Website - https://www.thehappyengineerpodcast.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thehappyengineerpodcast/
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Hey there, dreamers and doers! Get ready for a real, raw, and authentically esoteric conversation about the ups and downs we encounter while chasing those big dreams on the latest episode of "Seeing Your Inner Brilliance."
In this candid chat with host Charlsey Childers and special guest Carlie Zak, we dive deep into what happens when our uplevels don't feel like uplevels. From the uncertainty and disappointment of current seasons to uncovering hidden growth, we're tackling it all.
Join us as we get honest and transparent about unexpected plot twists, wondering if you can physically do this, and unpacking the beauty of duality and how it shapes our journey. We also explore the power of letting your conviction be your inner brilliance.
Whether you're feeling like you're back at square one or feeling the pull of your next level, this episode is packed with practical tips and empowering insights to help you navigate the highs and lows of growth with a little more grace and a lot more grit.
So, grab a notepad and join us on "Seeing Your Inner Brilliance" as we have some real talk behind going after our dreams.
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Charlsey
Get ready for an eye-opening episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance as host, Charlsey Childers, sits down with the extraordinary Steve Norris. He's a high achiever who, on the outside, seemed to have it all - success, recognition, and achievement. But beneath the surface, he grappled with questions that many of us have asked: "How did I get here? Why me? How did this happen?"
Join us on this captivating journey as Steve and Charlsey delve deep into his life story, unveiling the unexpected twists and turns that took him to where he is today. Steve's experience reveals that even when life looks completely different than we imagined due to circumstances beyond our control, we can rise above it.
In this episode, you'll discover the profound transformation that occurs when we can allow hardships to be divine opportunities to solidify our inner strength rather than setbacks. Steve's story is a testament to the idea that external success can be a mere façade, and true fulfillment is found within.
If you've ever questioned your own path, wondered why you're facing unforeseen challenges, or felt that success is more than meets the eye, you won't want to miss this insightful conversation.
Press play and explore the inspiring journey of Steve Norris, a high achiever who found strength and wisdom in the face of adversity.
Steve Norris is a Thought Leader, Happiness Ambassador, and Podcast Host who started his career as a singer songwriter touring all over the United States and overseas and then Co-Founded and launched two companies from the ground up building them both to global brands.
Steve’s current passion is in giving back and working on projects that are making a difference in the world, like his podcast: The Better Place Project, which is in the top 1.5% of podcasts worldwide and shines a light on individuals from every corner of the globe who are doing incredible things to help make the world a better place from CNN Heroes of the Year to ground-breaking scientists, internationally recognized psychologists, spiritual leaders, and more. Click here to get your weekly dose of inspiration from these world changers.
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Have you ever found yourself longing to break free from the constraints of a traditional career and follow your heart's true calling? Do you ever wonder what it takes to make your dreams feel effortless, to truly give yourself permission to chase after them, and to understand that your mission is not a separate entity from your life but an integral part of it? If these questions resonate with you, you're in the right place.
In today's episode, Charlsey Childers and, guest, Constantin Morun dive into:
- Moving from a traditional career to crafting a career from following your heart
- The #1 ingredient to things feeling effortless
- Giving yourself permission to go after it
- How your mission isn't a separate entity of your life
- The inner challenges that can arise when you're first starting like, "who are you to do this?"
- and cultivating deeper connection with your purpose
May this episode inspire you to continue crafting a career that is in alignment with your soul's desires and be a starting point in navigating the inner challenges that can arise along the way.
Constantin Morun is a Sr. Account Technology Strategist with Microsoft, certified project manager, and change management professional where enabling businesses to effectively navigate the complexities of the digital age. With over 15 years of experience in personal and professional development, he honed his skills as a Holistic Life Empowerment Mentor & Coach, providing invaluable guidance and support to those seeking to unlock their full potential. He is also host of the Unleash Thyself podcast, which aims to inspire, uplift, and empower us to unleash the best version of ourselves, together! Click here to listen to Unleash Thyself podcast episodes and find resources on personal growth, self-discovery, and spirituality.
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Are you tired of second-guessing every step, uncertain about whether your dreams are truly within reach? Imagine a life where you're not just chasing success, but embodying it with unwavering confidence. If you find yourself postponing happiness, caught in a cycle of chasing achievements, and relying on external validation, it's time to consider a different kind of journey. One where alignment with your purpose is your North Star, guiding you through a life that's not just marked by accomplishments, but by a profound sense of contentment and a legacy that radiates your true essence...
Welcome to BTG (Be THAT Girl/Guy), a powerful and transformative 6-week journey designed for big dreamers and high achievers who are ready to be fully immersed in the realms of success, contentment, and fulfillment even before attaining their desired outcomes. If you're someone who has ever felt uncertain of your dream being within reach, struggled to feel satisfied and fulfilled in the present moment while awaiting future accomplishments, or wrestled with feelings of disconnection from your dreams, and a reliance on external validation, then this program is your guiding light and was tailor-made for you. Ready to embody success? Secure your spot herefor the BTG waitlist to be the first to know when doors open, receive special VIP pricing, and step into a world where your dreams are not just possibilities, but realities waiting for you to claim.
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In a world filled with motivational Pinterest quotes and the ubiquitous hashtag "trust the process," have you ever wondered what it truly means to trust the journey towards your dreams and ambitions? Is there more to it than meets the eye? Is it an endless loop of blind faith, or does it possess a deeper significance? And why is this concept of paramount importance, especially for those striving for their calling and aiming for greatness?
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the heart of what it truly means to trust the process. Your host, Charlsey Childers, engages in an insightful conversation with a remarkable guest, Yogi Aaron, who once embarked on an extraordinary journey that transformed his life. With a profound dedication to the world of yoga and pain-free living, he embodies the very essence of embracing the process. Charlsey, an expert in cognitive and emotional psychology, as well as energetics, adds her unique perspective to the concept.
Through this dynamic dialogue, you'll gain a clearer understanding of the art of trusting the process and how it shapes your path to greatness. Is it a never-ending cycle, or does it eventually culminate? Can faith in the journey withstand the challenges of different stages? These are the questions we aim to address, leaving you with enriched insights and a newfound perspective. Allow this episode to fuel your belief in your own path, helping you grasp the transformative power of embracing the process.
Yogi Aaron is one of the most sought after teachers in the yoga space. He's completely trailblazing a new path in the world of yoga with everything he is doing. He's known for his unorthodox perspectives on stretching and flexibility, and how both cause more harm than good. Aaron is the creator of the revolutionary approach to yoga called Applied Yoga Anatomy + Muscle Activation™ (AYAMA) and the online platform: The Yogi Club. He's the host of a podcast called, "Stop Stretching," author of ‘Autobiography of a Naked Yogi’ and ‘Stop Stretching! A New Yogic Approach To Master Your Body + Live Pain-Free', and is the Co-Owner of Blue Osa Yoga Retreat & Spa. Get your copy of Yogi Aaron's book, "Stop Stretching! A New Yogic Approach To Master Your Body and Live Pain-Free."
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BTG encourages you to align your internal world – your thoughts, beliefs, actions, and energy – with the present moment and your dreams. This alignment enables you to trust that your efforts are meaningful, and to embrace every phase of your journey. It's about recognizing that the journey itself is rich with lessons, experiences, and opportunities for growth. Through BTG, you can transform your mindset, develop unwavering self-belief, and cultivate a sense of fulfillment that accompanies you at every step of your remarkable journey. Interested in learning more? Click here
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Welcome back to Seeing Your Inner Brilliance! The podcast dedicated to big dreamers and high achievers... to normalize their big, amazing, audacious dreams and the inner struggles that are bound to come up along the way.
This episode is full of encouragement to remind you that, no matter where you are, you aren't too small to make a big difference.
Your host, Charlsey Childers, and special guest, Luna Afroz talk about:
- stepping into a calling and purpose that is greater than ourselves
- reverberating your calling in all areas of your life, not just in your business or work
- allowing our dreams and desires to be a pathway and portal for us to be more authentic, confident, and genuine version of ourselves
- not letting the shoulds define us
- what to do when you feel like you're too small to make a big difference
- seeing the value and importance of the day-to-day minutia of building your dream
- not judging yourself for taking small steps
- staying attune to the bigger vision rather than getting bogged down by the timeline
- and cultivating the courage to start
Luna Afroz is a Bangladeshi American who moved to the US 25 years ago and is the owner of Luna Bags, a sustainable, cruelty-free and unisex bag company. They create down to earth yet luxurious products. You can view their vegan and sustainable line of bags here.
Luna is also a proud vegan herself and has a passion for saving animals and the earth through this mission.
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As a big dreamer and high achiever, do you ever feel like a "black sheep?" Do you ever feel like you stick out like a unicorn with your audacious goals and visions for yourself with doing things that have never been done before?
Oftentimes, it can seem like you're triggering people who aren't used to this caliber of success, impact, and legacy you're aiming for. And so your environment doesn't necessarily mimic, reflect, or even support you to keep going, to dream bigger, to reach for more, and to really go all in on what we feel called to.
If this resonates, then you are going to love this episode!
The special guest for today, Uroš Lovišček, shares his experience with growing up in a culture and society didn't even encourage entrepreneurship, much less changing the world.
This episode is meant to serve as a reminder that no matter what your upbringing was like, no matter who is currently in your corner, and no matter what people have told you is possible, you get to do things the way you want!
Uroš Lovišček from Slovenia, Europe, is a proud father of two boys, a business owner, best selling author, and self-proclaimed cash flow expert. Since 2020, he has helped develop 100s of projects for clients. In 2022, he expanded his consulting business to international clients. And he began 2023 with big win by launching his first best selling book “Master of Finance” that he wrote with intent to help more business owners understand financial aspect of business. To connect with Uroš and receive his expert advice on your business, click here.
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Looking for an environment that encourages you to keep pursuing your dreams, supports you in cultivating true, last confidence, while also being surrounded by other visionaries like yourself. Look no further than Anchor where you'll be empowered to rise into the highest, fullest, and most authentic version of yourself. It's about embracing your unique brilliance and bringing that fullness of who you are into your calling, purpose, and desires. True confidence awaits you as you tap into your inner strength and unleash your potential.
So, if you're ready to cultivate true, lasting confidence, join us in the August cohort starting on 8/27! This is your opportunity to take charge of your growth, surround yourself with a supportive community, and embark on the transformation you've been waiting for.
Don't miss out on this empowering journey with Anchor. Let's set sail together and embrace the greatness that awaits us all!
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One of the most common questions I get asked is centered around this idea of: how do you believe in yourself when you're just starting out? How do you believe in yourself when you're taking that first step? Maybe it's stepping outside of corporate; maybe it's building your business; maybe it's creating your first design and putting it out on the world... how do you maintain this belief in inner solidity in yourself? How do you deal with this dichotomy of wanting to do something and wanting to go after the more you feel called to at the same time, struggling to believe "Is this really going to work for me? Can I really do this? Can I really achieve the amazing vision that I have for myself?"
This is exactly what Noah Hutton and your host, Charlsey Childers, talk about in this episode!
Press play now if this resonates with you.
Noah Hutton is the owner of NTH Productions, which specializes in commercial media and podcast productions. He is a storyteller at heart, passionate about capturing and sharing the unique narratives of people and brands through stunning photography and video content. His goal is to help you stand out in a crowded digital space by creating captivating visuals that authentically reflect your brand and message. If you are looking for media production, contact Noah by clicking here.
In addition to Noah's work behind the lens, he also love connecting with fellow entrepreneurs and creators through his podcast, The Rest of Us. Through candid conversations and meaningful insights, he shares stories of those who are making a difference in their respective fields, and inspire others to do the same. If you are a young entrepreneur looking to connect with other young business owners like Noah, click here.
Looking to cultivate true, lasting confidence as you pursue your dreams?
Incrementally building our confidence and constantly growing and expanding our beliefs is how we consistently align our beliefs with our desires in a way that they coincide with each other.
It's a beautiful dance of shifting from doubt to belief, questioning to inner knowing, criticism to compassion, and shame to acceptance. You repeat this dance over and over again until it becomes automatic and second nature, empowering you to master your internal world.
My coaching program, Anchor, provides you with the tools and support to confront any inner demons that are currently challenging your confidence head-on.
Anchor is an empowering journey where you will be equipped to rise above any resistance, and anchor your way to true, lasting confidence.
The heart of Anchor lies in empowering you to:
- Strengthen Your Connection With the More You Feel Called to
- Decode Resistance and Obstacles
- Harness the Art of Shifting
- Discover Psychologically-Backed Tools, Techniques, Strategies, and Insights
So, if you're ready to experience a confidence program like no other, Anchor is your guiding light. Interested? Click here
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Alright Big Dreamers and High Achievers, could you use a dose of pure inspiration and encouragement today? Yay! You're in the right place.
Our guest in this episode, Barby Ingle, has faced some pretty unique challenges in her life and is a source of true inspiration for all of us. Barby, alongside your host, Charlsey Childers, you can expect to walk away from this episode knowing that there is no obstacle or perceived limitation that is too big for you and your dream and feeling amped to keep going.
In this episode, we cover:
- Navigating negative external voices and not getting overpowered by them
- Learning to be proud of yourself,
- Strengthening your inner voice to be louder than anything/anyone else,
- What to do when there's an obstacle or mountain in front of you that seems bigger than you,
- Really leaning into the fact that you are made for more,
- Getting clear on your purpose
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Barby Ingle is a best-selling author, reality personality and lives with multiple rare and chronic diseases. She is a chronic pain educator, patient advocate, and served 10 years as president of the International Pain Foundation. She is also a motivational speaker and best-selling author on pain topics. Featured in the media more than 1500 times with over 25 accolades to her name; Barby is best known as being a Cheerleader of HOPE, author, and reality television personality. To check out her books or to connect with her, please visit her website here.
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If you are a driven go-getter who desires more in life and is ready to own the extraordinary life you feel called to, then the Made for More Masterclass is for you! In this 1 hour and 50 minute Masterclass, you can expect to walk away feeling free to want what you want and be empowered to take action on your desires with or without needing support, validation, permission or tangible proof. So if you're ready to boost your belief in the more you feel called to, tune into this Masterclass now.
If you're ready to cultivate true, lasting confidence, join us in the August cohort of Anchor starting on 8/27! This is your opportunity to take charge of your growth, surround yourself with a supportive community, and embark on the transformation you've been waiting for. Don't miss out on this empowering journey with Anchor. Let's set sail together and embrace the greatness that awaits us all! Ready to join us? Let's make August a month of empowerment, growth, and unshakable confidence! ⚓🌟🚀
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Your dream isn't logical, so your journey to get there won't be logical either!
In this episode, Charlsey Childers is joined by Brenden Kumarasamy, a well-known Communication Coach who discovered his dream accidentally. If you desire to better embrace the process of building your dream and/or desire to be okay with the illogical path, this episode is for you.
We cover:
- creating what you're called to do rather than what's logical
- your zone of genius vs excellence, and how to figure out your zone of genius
- the beauty of asking yourself the hard questions
- the power of discovering what brings you joy
- falling in love with the day-to-day and minutia of your dream
- embracing the evolution or process
- believing in yourself and keeping up the momentum even when you don't have the results
- how being results driven isn't sustainable
- celebrating carrot sticks along the way
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Brenden coaches ambitious executives & entrepreneurs to become top 1% communicators in their industry. He also has a popular YouTube channel called MasterTalk, with the goal of providing free access to communication tools for everyone in the world. He also does a free 90 minute training on effective communication over Zoom every few weeks. It's LIVE and interactive; it is not a webinar. He even coaches a bunch of people for free on the call directly. They cover topics such as: How to Present Succinctly, How to Run Effective Meetings, How to Master Presentation Confidence, How to Present Yourself Effectively in Any Setting, and more. If this sounds like something you are interested in, then click here to attend.
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If your dream has not been unfolding according to plan...
If the thought of soaring through the day with unshakeable belief in yourself excites you...
If you desire more clarity on things like what brings you joy, how you can love the process more, and/or to move in alignment and take inspired action...
then Anchor is for you! Click here for all the details and to join us!
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Have you ever felt like you don't deserve something? Maybe it's a really nice couch, a certain car, or even to be loved. If so, you're in the right place! Even the successful feel undeserving at times, the accomplished feel lonely, and the ones who appear to have it all together cover up the emptiness they feel inside.
In this episode, host, Charlsey Childers, and Isaac Barkoukh talk about their ways of dealing with lies like this, how outside success doesn't actually lead to the satisfaction and fulfillment many of us are promised, the importance of living congruently and staying true to yourself in all areas, and how surrounding yourself with people who get it is one of the most magical things we can do as big dreamers and high achievers.
This is an episode you do not want to miss!
Isaac (known as Isaac Global on Instagram) is an owner of real estate, an owner of a construction company, dad of two, and founder of the The Global Wolfpack: a mentorship program and community for people looking to become someone they're proud of through fitness, discipline, and mindset. Isaac is a former drug, alcohol, and sex addict whose mission is to share what he's learned on his journey of becoming the man he is today in order to help others succeed, control their vices, and master the key areas of their life.
Head over to Instagram to connect with Isaac and benefit from his fierce motivation by clicking here.
Links mentioned:
Anchor - a transformative program designed to help you rise above the resistance (whether it be doubt, fear of rejection, fear of failure, imposter syndrome, comparison, second-guessing, etc) and anchor your way to lasting confidence, so you can experience the success, impact, and amazing life you desire and feel called to! Anchor is unlike any other confidence program you've encountered! What sets Anchor apart is its personalized approach. This program is all about you and tailored specifically to your current obstacles, doubts, and pivotal moments that are challenging your confidence. We don’t delve into your past; we focus solely on where you are now in relation to where you are going. It’s here to empower you today, propelling you towards the future you envision. No content to learn, no videos to watch. Just expert insights and practical guidance tailored to your unique journey. So, if you are ready to cultivate true, lasting confidence, then join us in Anchor.
BTG {Be THAT Girl/Guy} - a powerful 6-week journey of learning the art of being satisfied, fulfilled and full of joy now rather than postponing it until you achieve certain external results or experience certain outcomes. It’s about feeling validated, successful, confident, worthy, important, significant, and/or impactful independent of your financial success, number of likes or followers, rank in your company, accomplishments and accolades compared to someone else’s, etc. If you're ready to be the most satisfied and fulfilled version of you now, then join the waitlist to be the first to know when the doors to BTG will open and receive special VIP pricing by clicking here.
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You have a nudge on your heart that keeps you up at night and gets you out of bed in the morning. Maybe you even have a vision for what this next phase of your life will look like... maybe you don't yet. But one thing is for sure, the nudge on your heart that you are called for more is undeniable.
In this episode, host and Self Worth and Confidence Coach, Charlsey Childers, talks with Jocelyn Chong on what her journey was like of embracing that call. Jocelyn shares her story about leaving her successful banking career as an executive to follow her heart as well as the challenges and obstacles she faced along the way. She also shares the wisdom she gained when looking back on that pivotal journey.
We cover:
- when the journey to success is harder than you thought it would be
- tying your identity to your work
- wrestling with the thoughts of, "is this it for me? And is this where I'll always be?"
- embracing the unknown of what's actually possible for us
- surrounding ourselves with like-minded people and letting go of those who don't see you, hear you, and value you for where you are now and where you want to go
- loving your life yet feeling like it's not enough... that there's something bigger out there for you
If this resonates, grab your airpods and press play now!
Jocelyn Chong is a Business Growth Coach and Consultant, Four Time #1 International Best Selling Author. Keynote Speaker and Multi-Award Winner. She empower service-based female entrepreneurs and executives to unleash their potential and embody wealth consciousness so they can attract the right clients, double their sales results and fall in love with their businesses. Currently, her mission is to inspire self-led business leaders to tap into their unique gifts and scale their businesses with intuitive guidance. Jocelyn has been featured in Channel 9, Amazon, Thrive Global, Digital Journal, FOX, Ask.com, The Times, and Finance News World.
Grab a free copy of her ebook: 5 (Previously) Unwritten Levers for Vast Success to discover the ways high-achieving individuals unwittingly limit themselves and how you can avoid the pitfalls
Links mentioned:
The Made for More Masterclass: For go-getters who are ready to step into the more they deeply desire. Blending psychology with emotional intelligence, Made for More will help you level up your understanding of why you want more and how you can turn that desire into your own, built-in homing beacon to keep you on track as you activate the greatness inside of you. You can expect to walk away feeling free to want what you want and being empowered to take action on your desires with or without needing support, validation, permission, or tangible proof. Enjoy lifetime access.
https://www.charlseychilders.com/madeformore
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If you are here to live a life of significance rather than just a successful life, then this episode is for you!
Maybe you are somebody who has reached that external success and you're not as satisfied as you thought you would be once you got there, so you're beginning to question, "is this it? Is there more?"
Or perhaps you just intuitively know that you are called for more and here to do something big in this world. You are here for it all... not just the external success that society preaches and conditions us to desire and go after, but your desire for even more than that, to go beyond that, to make a lasting impact, to create a legacy, to soak up every single freaking ounce of joy, fulfillment, and satisfaction, and all of those good feelings that are possible and available for you. This episode is also for you.
Your host, Charlsey Childers, is joined by special guest, Kevin Palmieri, who breaks down how he went from having it all to starting over and creating fulfilling life with success being a natural byproduct.
Get ready for a jam packed episode on fulfillment!
For additional support is living a fulfilling life:
- Download the 22 reflective questions to gain clarity on your purpose and what a fulfilling life looks like for you
- [Becoming] Unstoppable: If you feel like external success may be deeply ingrained in you, then this program will support you in uprooting and unraveling the core internalization(s) that are driving the underlying beliefs of this, which allows you to show up the way you want rather than moving from a place of playing small, hiding, or struggling in silence.
- Anchor: the powerful space for big dreamers and high achievers to anchor into who you are, what you're called to do, and how you're called to do it by equipping you to be able to shift out of the moments of doubt, questioning, or external validation.
Kevin is the CFO, Founder & Co-Host of Next Level University, a Global Top 100 Self-Improvement podcast with more than 1,350 episodes reaching over 800,000 people in more than 150 countries. It is also a multi six figure show. Listen to the show and/or learn how Kevin can support you in getting to the next level by clicking here.
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We all have value and purpose! As big dreamers and high achievers, we are naturally keen on fulfilling our purpose and leaving our mark on the world; it is a deeper inner knowing that we are called to do more, have more, and be more.
Admittedly though, the world gives us many reasons to not see our true value, which is what ultimately allows us to fulfill our purpose to the highest degree.
In this episode, special guest, Babs Faseesin, a Chief Strategy Officer who earned his PhD and is the author of "Cracking the Life Code," shares some of the internal obstacles that have hindered him from seeing his true value: Imposter Syndrome, the battle for authenticity and acceptance, going against his parent's will to pursue his calling, and others.
Tune in to not only be empowered by Babs' story, but walk away with a greater sense of your own inherent value and purpose.
Links mentioned:
[Becoming] Unstoppable - A high-level self led program where you deeply attune to the power that is already inside you and allow it to be the new foundation for which you build your dream upon. This is a powerful journey of intricately recognizing the truth of who you are so you can experience the deep confidence, freedom, satisfaction, and alignment you yearn for.
Anchor - an as needed, monthly Voxer support program where you can tap into the energy of confidence anywhere, anytime to be infused with with encouragement, truth, and love so you can ride those daily waves of self-doubt, Imposter Syndrome, and attacks on your authenticity.
"Cracking the Life Code: Keys to Master Your Mindset, Habits, and Behaviors for Personal Success" by Babs Faseein
Babs, author of "Cracking the Life Code," believes that ideas are powerful and are far more connected than they sometimes appear on the surface. Through his professional experience as a strategy consultant, and extensive involvement in the community, he has seen the tremendous value of diverse perspectives. He has a long history of creative and community work. He is committed to personal growth and development. He is the founder of cracking the life code (a self-help platform that helps individuals gain total life mastery). He is the convener of Inspire Africa Tour. As an entrepreneur and strategy consultant, Babs has helped over 12,000 entrepreneurs start and grow their businesses.
To begin your journey of total life mastery and be part of the incredible movement Babs is spearheading, click here to start your journey.
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Could inner struggles actually be a positive thing? That is the question your host, Charlsey Childers, is unpacking in this episode.
It can be so easy to want to be the most confident, aligned version of yourself who is at peace, content, and satisfied, but what happens when someone doesn't support your big dream in the way you desire and deserve? What happens when you judge, criticize, or blame yourself for not getting it right sooner or not hitting your goals by the date you set? These can certainly be hard to go through. But do they have to be?
Press play now to start seeing inner struggles differently.
You will also hear an exciting announcement Charlsey has to share!
Links mentioned:
Charlsey's guest appearance on The Donna Drake Show
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Creating a life you love sounds nice, right? But is it possible to actually create the life you envision for yourself? After all these years of praying for the right time... after all the effort you've put into bringing your dream to life... after all the hustle, hard work, and sacrifices... and even with all the doubts saying it's not possible... can you really create the life you want for yourself?
That is what host, Charlsey Childers, unpacks in this episode with special guest and serial entrepreneur, Jen Potter. If you've been secretly wondering if it's actually possible for you and if you actually have what it takes, then this episode is for you.
Press play now.
Links mentioned:
Made for More Masterclass: https://www.charlseychilders.com/madeformore
BTG {Be THAT Girl or Guy}: https://www.charlseychilders.com/btg
Click here to connect with Jen Potter
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You know those conversations that light you up, fill your love, and are full of love, transparency and authenticity? Ah, the energy and motivation you walk away with! If you're doing yourself today or just need a good pick me up so you can get back to building your dream, that's exactly what you can expect to receive on this episode.
Host, Charlsey Childers, talks with Mom of 3 and Creator and CEO of Like Minded Collective, a free social networking platform for Creators, Dreams, and Female Founders about how, as women, we really can do it both: have a thriving family environment and a soul-aligned career. We also talk about the importance of our community, common doubts that entrepreneurs face, and how to cultivate the confidence to start something from scratch.
Link mentioned:
To learn more about Like Minded Collective and receive 50%off your first month - https://likemindedcollective.com/ (code: CHARLSEYLMC)
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Welcome to Seeing Your Inner Brilliance - the podcast that is here to continually point you to the truth that the key is inside of you, it’s your inner brilliance. And that key is also the portal to unlocking your very own big dream.
If you find yourself feeling a little unmotivated, maybe you don’t feel 100% today or you could just use a good pick me up, you’re in for a treat with today’s episode.
And, if you are feeling that way, I really acknowledge you for showing up and anchoring in.
As a big dreamer, it’s easy to get bogged down in the daily grind and the minutiae of the small details we have to be involved in to build our dream. At times, this can even move into debilitating resistance, overwhelming doubts, or even the so well known yet no so popular rabbit hole.
There’s no doubt that during these times, your confidence is going to be tested. You may wonder if you’re cut out for this or if all this effort is worth it.
No matter where you are today and how you’re feeling, I’m so glad you’re here. Full disclosure, I was having one of those days too when I recorded this episode with our special guest and fellow big dreamer, Hashondra Jernigan. She’s a Certified Life Coach who openly shares how overthinking has been one of her biggest obstacles, Motivational Speaker, Author, Singer-songwriter, Founder of the Pink Group, and Co-owner of Shonie’s Braids. See, she’s just like us… on a mission to do it all and be all she can be in this world!
This conversation was exactly what I needed to remember who I am, the mission I'm here to do, and why I'm here to do it. I have no doubt that this episode will leave you feeling the very same way.
Press play now.
And then, be sure to access Hashondra's book, Unattached - the final season.
You can also connect with her on IG and through her website.
Going deeper with me (Charlsey):
Anchor and Solidify are two new monthly support programs designed to help you navigate you through the internal challenges that are currently presenting themselves to you. To learn more about Anchor and join, go to https://www.charlseychilders.com/anchor. To learn more about Solidify and join, go to https://www.charlseychilders.com/solidify.
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Welcome to Seeing Your Inner Brilliance - the podcast does just that it helps you truly see yourself because seeing yourself is your inherent power. When we truly see ourselves for who we really are, it allows us to be ourselves, and then we can bring the fullness of who we are into our calling and everything we do.
One thing is true: us, big dreamers encounter a lot of stuff along the way that can spin us for a loop. It comes with the territory. We are going to encounter upper limits as we rise into our next level of success, doubts are going to resurface or maybe even come to surface for the first time, thoughts that we have never even had before are going to be triggered inside of us, and, many times, they can slap us in the face leaving us debilitated from being able to move forward.
I don’t mention this to discourage you or shame you in any way. No, it is highlighting the paradoxical beauty that big dreamers go through because we're the ones willing to push our limits to go beyond what our mind can fathom, to go beyond the expectations and limitations that perhaps have been put upon us, to go beyond what we originally believed was possible for ourselves. This is a result and a byproduct of our coming into that scale. And with each level we climb, we are inevitably going to encounter new patterns, new beliefs, new doubts, new fears, new insecurities, and new barriers that we have to migrate and navigate through in order to get to the other side.
Why? Because we cannot become who we want to be… We cannot get to where we want to go by remaining who we are and where we are. And so these doubts, fears, insecurities, and barriers that arise within us are windows of opportunity for us to clear, work through, and heal from because we cannot take the same chains of this season into the next season, especially when we are looking to grow and expand at the magnitude at which we are looking to go. So these barriers are going to be inevitable, internally and externally. They physically manifest themselves in all different ways.
In today's episode, I chat with my friend Cassandra about some particular barriers that she’s encountered: unknowingly being stuck, comparison to name a couple, and we talk about some external barriers she has faced: racial discrimination and the glass ceiling. Cassandra is a Speaker, Author, and Mentor. She’s a former VP of a Fortune 500 Company who is no stranger to self sabotage and self neglect. So buckle up for this potent and powerful episode as Cassandra shares with us her story and how she worked through these barriers. The overall message I want to leave you with is that yes, we will encounter these internal and external barriers, and at the same time, we can break through them, we can rise above them, we can work through them, we can overcome them in a way to where they will not hold us back or they will not keep us playing small and we can learn how to work and move with them so they are not debilitators of our success and impact, but rather, spring boards of it.
Tune in now to this powerful conversation.
The best way you can connect with Cassandra and purchase her book, "Is Your Way In Your Way?" is through her website at https://cassandracrawley.com.
You can also connect with her on LinkedIn, FB, and IG.
Going deeper with me:
Click here for the details and to join BTG and Anchor.
Also, be sure we are connected on IG and stop by to say hello :)
If you feel a nudge on your heart to do more than what you're currently doing or if you are in the beginning stages of pursuing your dreams and desires, this episode is for you!
Like so many other big dreamers, you've done the brave work of realizing that you want more and have claimed it. Unfortunately though, any doubts or obstacles don’t magically go away once you start walking down this new path. In fact, oftentimes, they get louder and more intense.
That's why in this episode, together with my friend Kim Laughlin, we focus on the confidence and courage it takes to go against your own grain and continue down the path you know in your heart you are called for.
Kim, owner of Cultural Apex Coaching and with having two decades of experience in HR, and I both share our journeys, and, through our experiences, we talk about some things that helped us solidify our belief and resolve that we were going to pursue the dreams that were different from the ones we originally paved for ourselves.
From my personal and professional experience, solidifying our belief in ourselves is the ticket to “successfully” staying on this new path. If we don’t believe in ourselves and anchored into who we are and what we want, then we are going to stumble, fall, wobble, and even quit the path. We could wind up chalking it up to it being too hard to be an entrepreneur, that there are too many other realtors out there, or some other external issue; when really, it’s an anchor issue, not a boat issue - if you get my analogy.
The purpose of this episode is to empower, uplift, and inspire you on your journey! Kim's mission is to support leaders in creating a culture that loves Mondays. In her new Mastermind, she serves those looking for a confidential, unbiased, and no judgement zone to navigate hard people problems with peers or team members. Click here for details on the Mastermind.
You can also connect with her on Linked in: www.linkedin.com/in/culturalapexcoach
Going deeper with me:
Click here for details on the Made for More Masterclass and/or, my newest program, Anchor
You can also connect with me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Welcome to the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast - the space for women like you who are on a mission to big, radical, earth shaking things in this world to see themselves for who they really are instead of who life has shaped us to be. But how can we see ourselves if we don’t know ourselves? And how can we be ourselves (to create that amazing life we envision for ourselves and the world) if we don’t see ourselves? I’m your host, Self-Worth and Confidence Coach, Charlsey Childers.
It’s interesting because our dreams and desires, whether we want to be a big name in the real estate industry, fashion industry, coaching world, whatever it is, our dreams and desires can be a source of fuel for us; they can also be exhausting though, right?
We’re trying to learn new skills, grow our audience or network, find the recipe for success, and/or figure out how to show up when we have kids around us 24/7. There’s a lot to do physically. And then not to mention the doubt, comparison, what ifs, fears, insecurities, and questioning that commonly rises within us as we go after our big goals.
Ahh all we want is to do what we love and build the life that we want from the deepest place of ease, confidence, success, and authenticity as possible, right? Embodying and showing up from this type of power is the epitome of my work. I approach it from the incredible trifecta of cognitive psych, emotional psych, and energetics. My guest today approaches it from the perspective of masculine and feminine energy and somatic embodiment.
If you desire to feel more safe, confident, and successful within yourself, then you are about to listen to a powerful, expansive, and esoteric conversation!!! Get ready!
In this episode, I’m joined by a super special guest. She’s Filipino-American, a TedX speaker, and Trauma-Informed Master Coach who empowers women to unleash their feminine energy and purpose. My guest today is the incredible Leslie Saglio! She is a global expert in women's empowerment and embodied feminine leadership.
Leslie is here to help us become more confident, successful versions of ourselves who experience more joy, pleasure, and fulfillment so we can make a bigger impact and income with less stress and more flow.
Click here to download her free guide: 3 Secrets to Shift from Overwhelm to Overflow
website: https://www.lesliesaglio.com
IG - https://www.instagram.com/lesliesaglio
FB - https://www.facebook.com/theonpurposecollective
TEDx Talk - https://youtu.be/_HYDLil7Eoc
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/lesliesaglio
Going deeper with Charlsey:
Click here for program details on Be THAT Girl
IG - https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Pop quiz: what is one of the topics unitesall women no matter how successful we are, how high our income is, how many people we’ve impacted, or how much we love our family?
If you answered, body image, then you are correct!
What if loving ourselves and embracing our unique kind of beautiful with compassion and acceptance was on the portals to help us reach the amazing, wildly successful, and incredibly impactful life we desire?
If you thought today, "ugggh, I can't stand my thighs" or "gosh, she is so much prettier than I am," then this real, raw, high-vibe conversation is for you! Press play now.
This is a next level conversation that will help you get to your next level because loving ourselves (body included) is a portal to cross to get to the amazing life we desire.
Joined by special guest, Coach and Curvy Body Advocate, 3x Published Author, Host of The Balance + Bliss Podcast, and mom of two, Andrea Mondoux, we discuss dismantling societal expectations, rewriting our self-narrative, and amplifying our inner motivation in order to love ourselves, love our bodies, and be the women we want to be.
Andrea's passion for body acceptance and confidence ignited through her own journey two year journey of self-reflection, transforming her habits, and recognizing the narratives that had been pushed onto her. She is changing the future of health and wellness, and how those perceive achieving it. She encourages others to take small steps in their pursuit of wellness and to remind themselves that they are the authors of their own stories, allowing themselves to reframe negative thoughts and to focus on self-compassion and acceptance. She emphasizes that the number on the scale does not determine your worth, and if you want to lose weight, it is important to explore the reasons why and to ensure that it is for yourself and not to meet an ideal standard of beauty.
For more support in loving your body, you can follow Andrea on Instagram, listen to the Balance and Bliss podcast, and/or download her free resources. Her book, "You Actually Can Do This," is available on Amazon. And for her deepest level of support, book a Discovery Call with her if you are interested in joining her program, Holistic Body Connection.
For support in solidifying you identity in who you are and who you want to be, follow Charlsey on Instagram and/or check out Be THAT Girl and Unstoppable.
I love you and you are so deeply supporting in being the woman you want to be!
Did you know there's a healthy side to people pleasing and perfectionism?
On the surface, yes, they are rooted in trying to make others happy or trying to accomplish an illusionary standard in order to prove that we are capable and deserving. In a nutshell, that is what we know people pleasing and perfectionism to be.However, if we peel back the layer on both of these, they are actually rooted in desire. We have a desire to be someone who makes others happy. We have a desire to be someone who feels satisfied and acknowledged. We have a desire to be someone who goes farther than most people are willing to go or someone who embodies high standards for herself.
Where we get tripped up is the underlying energy and beliefs for why we are doing the thing we are doing. If we’re doing something so someone sees us and validates us, and we use their acknowledgement as proof that we are enough, then it’s people pleasing, and derived from disempowering beliefs. If we are doing something for the sake of needing it to be exactly right or to go exactly the way we want it to in order to be deemed qualified, then it’s perfectionism, and also derived from disempowering beliefs. When our underlying energy and beliefs for why we are doing the thing we are doing comes from a place of wholeness and inner knowingness, then that’s the healthy side of “people pleasing” and “perfection.”
My friend and owner of Cornerstone Virtual Partners, Nicole Bernardo, does a really beautiful job of speaking to the healthy side and unhealthy side of people pleasing and perfection, and that’s why I asked her to be a guest on the show today.
Nicole was raised by a father with a militant way of being, instilling in her a drive to be perfect and to please both him and herself. As an adult, she took control of her own life and pushed to prove herself, leading to a successful career. Despite hitting a glass ceiling, she decided to take a leap and became an entrepreneur. She persevered, working hard to acquire clients, and ultimately, her former employer wished they had her back at a rate they couldn't afford. Nicole was proud of the cards she had been dealt and continued to play the hand with determination.
By the end of this episode, if you consider yourself a people pleaser and/or perfectionist, then my hope is that you will walk away knowing that you don’t have to completely stop these tendencies; it’s not about you currently doing anything wrong and needing to quit cold turkey. No! It’s about shifting the underlying energetics and beliefs underneath these tendencies where the magic and freedom is.
To connect with Nicole, you can find her on LinkedIn and the Cornerstone Virtual Partners website.
To go deeper with Charlsey and play in her world, check out Be THAT Girl and Unstoppable. You can also follow her on Instagram.
Have you ever wanted to do something but felt silly or like it's impossible because it's never been done before? Or maybe you've wondered if you have what it takes to juggle it all?
Those are the questions we unpack on this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance. Charlsey talks with Marjie Hadad, the spearhead of a parenting movement that uses PR Strategies to raise confident, resilient, and successful children.
While raising her three children and building her PR career, Marjie realized she had a secret weapon: using the PR strategies and techniques from work on her children. Her children responded really well to the techniques, so she kept using them. Now, as adult children, they encouraged her to share her golden nuggets with other moms! And that's what she did. In her new book, "The Power of PR Parenting, Marjie, uses her professional expertise to empower other moms with PR strategies to raise confident, resilient and successful children in her new book, "The Power of PR Parenting." She created her own parenting approach and movement!
For example, in this episode, she says, "share with them the best of you, in addition to your personality and your love and positive reinforcement, etc . But if you're really good at something, teach your kids that skill. And whether they do it well or not is completely irrelevant. The point is that they had the experience and they had an opportunity to try it."
May this episode help you cultivate the confidence to follow your heart even if it seems out-of-the-box or never done before! You can do it!
To connect with Marjie: you can find her on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and TikTok. To pre-order her book, "The Power of PR Parenting, click here
To go deeper with Charlsey and play in her world, check out: Made for More and Be THAT Girl. You can also follow her on Instagram.
Welcome to this super special episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance!
What makes it so special? Because in celebration of the one year anniversary of this incredible podcast reaching thousands of you around the world, I decided to add in an Unstoppable Woman Series in addition to the weekly episodes.
'Unstoppable' means different things to everyone, but the one true thing is that we are all unstoppable in some way. We all have things we have overcome, and, simultaneously, we all have things that we are still working to overcome. That’s okay. That’s beautiful. And we can honor ourselves in the process of it all.
What better way to do that than to feature some women who have become unstoppable in their own way? May this series bless you and encourage you. May it be the inspiration you turn to when you’re having a day where you just aren’t feeling. May it be a lifeline for you when it all feels too much. And, ultimately, may it continue pointing you in the direction of your unstoppable.
In this episode, I highlight my friend, Maria Natapov. As a Russian Immigrant who built herself back up after being in a relationship with a Narcissist, and is a recovering people pleaser, she understands what it's like to have some challenging cards dealt to her in life. Through it all, she tapped into her inner power and strength to use all of it to fuel her unique gifts instead of be swept underneath it. She has truly allowed the hard to refine her, not define her. Press play now to hear her story!
To learn more about Maria:
Listen to her podcast, Synergistics Stepparenting: https://www.synergisticstepparrenting.com/podcast
Work with Maria: As the daughter of divorced immigrant parents and a stepparent herself, Maria understands blended families communication and connection challenges and the vital importance of healing pain and preventing further harm by establishing innovative parenting support systems. Through her signature 4-step energy-focused process combined with Rapid Resolution modality, Maria helps families transition from chaos to harmony. She enables stepparents to strengthen their values, foster partner alignment, create trust with stepchildren, and enhance community with birth families by building on their existing skills, experiences, and strengths. Maria has helped numerous blended families foster more harmonious family dynamics through her VIP support model and her podcast, Synergistic Stepparenting. To learn more about how to work with Maria, visit her website
at www.synergisticstepparenting.com
Follow her on FB: https://www.facebook.com/maria.natapov
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In this episode, Charlsey and Jen dive into relearning how to take care of ourselves, do it from a super healthy space of nurturing ourselves and wanting to vs as a last resort or some sort of checklist item at the bottom of our to do list, and embracing the changes our bodies go through and embracing the woman you’ll be on the other side of embracing the changes: babies, aging, and menopause.
Jen Brango is an accredited life coach and metabolic optimization coach who helps midlife women learn how to take exquisite care of themselves so they can get their confidence and power back. Through her own journey, shelearned that we can take care of ourselves from a place of nurture rather than pressure or as a last resort, and that it takes an internal look at how to love yourself. Through identity-based habits, we can learn to trust themselves and focus on the baby steps to become their future self, rather than focus on what they should be doing. The key is to fill our tank up with enriching activities and to create a new belief that they can prove by showing up.
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How many times today have you wished you had more time in the day or if you just had a little more time, you would be able to do all of these wonderful things?
Ah, yes, there is a very real feeling that we don’t have enough time. There’s a reality to this because we literally have 24 hours in a day.
There’s also a lot of conditioning around how we view time. We can blame time for being the reason why we can’t do things or why we aren’t where we want to be, we can feel very limited and restricted by time, and we can also feel like we don’t have any control over how we spend our day. There can be an immense amount of pressure we feel when it comes to time.
I don’t know about you, but I am constantly adjusting and readjusting myself and my thoughts around this. You’ll hear about this in the episode. That’s why I brought in my friend and time management and productivity expert, Jaimee Campanella to help us break free from "the shoulds" and "have tos" of time management and help us adopt a revolutionary new way of thinking about time so we can create intentional, fulfilling experiences and take control of our own lives.
Jaimee found herself in a trap of feeling like she should be doing more and making an incredibly long to-do list during a season when she felt exhausted, burnt out, and had no control over her time. She is a time strategist and productivity consultant who mentors and guides parents, professionals, and entrepreneurs to take control of their time. She is the creator and principal facilitator of the Time Power program that gives people the essential tools and strategies to avoid overwhelm and tame chaos so that they can regain control of their time for good .Ultimately, she helps people to understand that they have the privilege and responsibility to choose how to spend their time and with intention. She encourages people to look for signs that they need to dig deeper, such as feeling like they don't have time to do something or falling into the hustle culture of "more, more, more."
Jaimee is such an incredible resource on how to become a time ninja! Download her free training, "3 Shifts to Take Control of Your Time." You can also learn more about her Time Power program to be equipped with the essential tools and strategies that successful and beyond-busy moms and entrepreneurs use to avoid overwhelm and tame chaos, so that they can regain control of their time for good. Or connect with her on LinkedIn, Facebook or Instagram.
By the end of this episode, I hope you will feel empowered to shift away from the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" mentality about time, create a sense of work-life balance and avoid feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and burnt out, and use time for doing more of the things you love!
And if you’re realizing that you often feel like you don’t have enough or what you’re doing/putting into things isn’t enough, then that’s where I can come in to help you dig up this root belief that’s entangled with conditioning, expectations, and internalizations. My confidence program, Unstoppable, can deeply serve with this! Click here for more details. Prices go up significantly on March 1!
You are wonderful! Keep anchoring to your seeing your inner brilliance!
With love,
Charlsey
Welcome to this super special episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance!
What makes it so special? Because in celebration of the one year anniversary of this incredible podcast reaching thousands of you around the world, I decided to add in an Unstoppable Woman Series in addition to the weekly episodes.
'Unstoppable' means different things to everyone, but the one true thing is that we are all unstoppable in some way. We all have things we have overcome, and, simultaneously, we all have things that we are still working to overcome. That’s okay. That’s beautiful. And we can honor ourselves in the process of it all.
What better way to do that than to feature some women who have become unstoppable in their own way? May this series bless you and encourage you. May it be the inspiration you turn to when you’re having a day where you just aren’t feeling. May it be a lifeline for you when it all feels too much. And, ultimately, may it continue pointing you in the direction of your unstoppable.
The first woman to be featured in this series is mom, wife, author, and business owner, Jordan Aspen. She runs Civilized Animal Productions, a company that supports you in hosting virtual events efficiently and in alignment with your masculine and feminine energy, with her husband, Paul.
In this episode, Jordan shares her scary and traumatic journey of becoming a mom and all that she has overcome in order to truly live a life that's worth living! For her, becoming unstoppable has meant overcoming postpartum depression and anxiety in order to fall in love with not only herself, but her life.
Press play now.
Then, at the end, please share this episode with a friend or on your IG/FB Stories. Magical things happen when us like-minded women come together like this. When we embrace each other's rawness and vulnerability, we can more fully embrace our own. There is a women in your community who needs to hear this message. She is praying for this kind of inspiration right now or she is in the process of moving her own mountains. Either way, you get to divinely be her lifeline today! You get to help her make a small shirt toward being unstoppable.
I love you. Thank you for tuning in today! Feel free to send me a message on IG if this episode resonated with you! I'd love to hear how this Series is serving you!
If you can relate to Jordan's story and want to connect with her, you can find her on Facebook or on Instagram. You can also learn more about Civilized Animal Productions if you host or want to host virtual events effortlessly and from a place of alignment.
Are you doing all the things externally yet feeling like something is missing?
What if you could do something where you feel so aligned and pumped up everyday that it lights your soul on fire vs wasting your time is a job that doesn’t fulfill you and doesn’t give you what you want bc you’re trying to measure success for external validation?
I know, #dreamlife. These are some questions we’ll be unpacking today on Seeing Your Inner Brilliance with my friend and Career Coach, Ashley Fernandez.
Have you ever found yourself thinking: “I should stay in this career because it’s what I went to school for,” “I should have a 5 year plan,” “I should join this program because THAT is the thing that will change the game for me??"
I know I have! And it wasn’t until I could no longer maintain the misery I was feeling in my career that I decided enough was enough. For Ashley, her catalyst for going from unfulfilled to fulfilled was when her mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.
When do we all claim a life of fulfillment for ourselves? When we do all of us female powerhouses claim the life we desire and deserve? When do stop designing our life around what it looks like on the outside?
And when do all make this change or at least admit to yourself that you’re going to make a change and choose more inner success, fulfillment, and loving yourself enough to go against the grain to follow your passion… Then what?
Because anytime we want to make a shift, it freaks out our conscious mind. It’s used to keep us safe. It has a doctorate in safety, comfortability. It scores a 6 on its performance review.
We have to train it to work with us rather than against us. Because if you’re trying to lean into maybe doing something entirely new, shifting your life in a way that hasn’t been done before in your family, or stopping the endless, exhausting belief that success equals your achievements, # of clients, amount of podcast downloads, digits on your paycheck, etc, you are shocking your nervous system. It’s good… it’s so good.
But the unfamiliar is our mind’s worst enemy. It's so important for us to learn how to get our mind on board with what you’re doing or it’ll spiral you into second guessing yourself at every turn, doubting you’re worthy or capable of going in the direction you feel called to go in vs continue the path you think you logically need to go in.
Tune into to hear how Ashley went from doing it all because she felt like she had to... to doing it all from a place of passion and being lit up.
Ashley is a mom of two boys, Recruiter with a Fortune 500 company, and Career Coach for high-achieving women. She specializes in helping women uncover what is holding them back from designing a career and a life they don't want to run away from. If you want to gain clarity, increase your confidence, and own your career development, connect with her are on IG and LinkedIn.
Additional resources mentioned in this episode:
- Discover your unique Inner Power Archetype - a free quiz to help you discover the truth about yourself - that you have power and were designed a special way on purpose, so you can experience the authentic, satisfying success you were made for.
- Join Unstoppable, the confidence program designed to help driven women who feel pressured to live up to other people's expectations and feel a deep inner knowing that you desire more.
You can also follow Charlsey on Instagram.
Why is it important to open ourselves up if we’re silently struggling, not as happy or bubbly as we seem to be on the outside, or aren’t seeing the results we want?
And how do we peel back a layer to go a little deeper within ourselves to figure out what’s really going on?
In my confidence program, Unstoppable, I compare it to looking under the hood of a car. If a warning light or engine light comes on while you’re driving, are you going to just keep going and never check it? No, at some point, you’re going to pull over and pop the hood. You’re going to dig a little deeper.
Are there disempowering beliefs we’re believing? Are we forcing ourselves in different directions bc of the pressure we feel? Is it effects from unrecognized trauma? Have you gotten so caught up in thinking that you should make a to do list everyday the same way Brendon Bruchard does it? Or do you feel like you should keep spending time with someone because you want it to work out?
Big or small, these shoulds really get us in a chokehold.
Let's say you do open yourself up, which my guest, Jen and I go into what this looks like on this episode, then what do you do next? Where do you go from there?
How do you go from struggling to thriving, feeling as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, and be satisfied with where we are even if we aren’t seeing the results we want? What action steps can you take? Because you’re in control here, sister! You really do. It may not feel like it sometimes. Life may feel harder than you’d like. It may be a constant cycle of trying, failing, picking yourself back up, trying, failing, and around you go.
I assure you: your power is stopping that cycle! It’s putting on the brakes and saying, “no more. This isn’t fun and I’m going to do it differently!”
Take a listen to this episode! You’re going to get some really great value out of it! And if you’re looking for greater support in this area, I got you, girl! Yes! These are the exact things we deal with inside of Unstoppable, my confidence program dedicated to empowering and equipping driven women to feel deeply confident in who they are and what they’re called to do. There is literally nothing else out of there like this. So if you feel a strong pull to stop pretending, faking it till you make it, or silently struggling and have a real desire to deeply know who you are and approach life from that confident, self-assured place, Unstoppable is for you! Click here for more details. Hurry though because prices go up on March 1, so say yes to yourself before then!
If you aren’t quite at the place where enough is enough, that’s okay. This episode is powerful, it’s inspiring, and it’s actionable.
Jen does a beautiful job breaking down the steps we need to take for greater freedom and healing. As a Lifestyle Transformation Coach, she guides women affected by addiction from their center so helps them reclaim their true identity, so they can experience greater happiness and healing. Her work and mission is really beautiful! If someone you love is currently battling with addiction, Jen has a really powerful free series called Enable No More to help break the cycles of addiction, enabling, and codependency. Click here for access to this FREE series! I strongly encourage you to check it out! She’s wonderful! If you just really loved her energy and resonated with her, you can also connect with her on Facebook and Instagram.
I pray this episode is exactly what you need today! When you truly see your inner brilliance, and let that inherent power shine, that is when you become unstoppable!
xoxo,
Put this episode at the top of your todo list today! It is required listening for every woman. We are going to blow the freaking lid off of how you view your emotions.
Let's get to the bottom of why you and I erupt like a volcano sometimes, and, more importantly, learn simple ways to gain control of your emotions, so you can feel more fulfilled, at peace, and joyful.
It doesn't matter what your childhood was like, how much trauma work you've done, or how good you are at faking it till you make it, I know your past is affecting you in unexposed yet damaging ways... and, oftentimes, you don't even realize how its affecting you.
You have days, Iike I did, where the fog and resistance feels heavier than others. Then there are also the days where something seemingly small sets you off out of nowhere. No shame, gf! I know it's exhausting and I know the guilt of when you say and do things you later regret.
Just last week I snapped at my kids and husband for something silly. And it turned into, "I always go out of my way to make sure you all get what you want and are taken care of, but, when mom wants something, it’s like pulling teeth.” In the past, I would have beat myself up for days for yelling like that and felt ashamed because I got angry. Instead, because I’ve learned how to practice these tools, I surfed by emotional waves. I still wish I hadn’t yelled and cursed like that. Now I know where it comes from and why. I can own my anger and my behavior because I know I am not my anger. After surfing my emotional waves, we were able to have a family discussion about the power of our emotions, then wound up having a great day. That would not have happened before. I would have stayed mad, maybe stormed out of the house, and the day would have been ruined.
And that is the goal of this episode - to equip you with tools and knowledge to lean into your emotions instead of stuff, ignore, or be overpowered by them.
Wouldn’t you love to get out of this cycle of pretending, faking it till you make it, and emotional vomiting? Would you love to take control of your emotional life as an adult?
The good news: you can change your relationship with your emotions, and, in turn, repair the crap from your childhood, which will bring you more fulfillment, joy, and peace in life. You’ll be able to show up for your dreams more consistently, feel closer to your family, and feel better about yourself.
So, who is going to teach us all of this? I’m joined by my friend, Jamie Weatherholt: a licensed mental health therapist, certified hypotherapist, owner of Enlightened Counseling & Healing, LLC, and co-host of The Shrink Show podcast.
Listen to this episode and really try to absorb what Jaime shares because the pain and emotional triggers you’re experiencing is not who you are.
I know you’re going to send this to every one of your girlfriends because every woman can benefit from this kind of inner work!
Learning how to have a healthy relationship with your emotions is life-changing whether you are 46 or 26! It is also impactful for your lineage!
As the queen of your world, you have so much power inside of you and are so capable! Thank you for listening and let me know what comes up for you when you’re listening.
With love,
Charlsey
P.S: Want to go deeper?
Connect with Jaime on IG and/or listen to The Shrink Show Podcast. Click here for FREE hypnosis for you to try at home (password: podcast)
Learning how to embrace my emotions instead of be overpowered by them has helped me find more joy and fulfillment in life. I teach this in my confidence program, Unstoppable. Click here for my info.
I hope this tragedy can bring us closer. My heart is still heavy and distraught over the news that Stephen 'tWitch' Boss died from suicide.
He appeared to be one of the most positive, happiest, fulfilled people in this world. His smile and light was radiant and infectious. He was inspiring with his talent and with his accomplishments.
tWitch was admired by millions for dazzling us with his dance skills on So You Think You Can Dance, and then infecting us all with his energy on the Ellen DeGeneres show as DJ and Co-executive Producer.
Two other people have come across my feed this year who also seemed like the last people in the world to commit suicide: Cheslie Krysta and Neena Pacholke.
In reading Cheslie and Neena's story, I got the sense that they too lit up their world with their personality, talent, and beauty.
All three of their stories have brought up so much sadness and confusion inside of me, and it may be bringing up a lot for you too.
We do not have to know people personally to be impacted by their life or their death.
Maybe it's bringing up memories of a breaking point or near breaking point in your own life. Maybe you too have struggled in silence or are struggling in silence right now, which is why I wanted to talk about this today.
Perhaps, like me, you're having a hard time processing how someone so accomplished and "had it all" could end their story this way.
Perhaps you too have felt the weight and heaviness that can come with being a high-achiever.
Or maybe you could just really use some honesty, vulnerability, and encouragement right now to remind you of the truth that lives inside of you.
So I wanted to connect, and share three things that are coming up the most for me since the news of Cheslie's passing, to be honest. Neena's and now tWitch's have only reinforced by desire and urgency to talk about them.
And I want us to stay connected. We need each other. We are wired to need each other.
My Instagram is @charlsey_childers. You are loved! So loved for who you are!
And, if you are in tremendous pain right now or know someone is, PLEASE use a lifeline for support to help you through this pain.
Trained volunteers are standing by to help you, and they want to help you. Call the National Suicide Hotline, which is 988 in the US. Or, test HOME to 741-741 for the Crisis Text Line.
Thank you for being human with me and listening to this episode! I love you!
In a world where we're taught to put on a brave face and act like everything is ok, Hanna Noel reminds us of the beauty and power in being our authentic selves.
This episode is about how life looks different on the outside than it feels on the inside. Hanna Noel learned about this when she realized that she was trying to be someone she wasn't on Instagram. She was just going through the motions and not really living. She has since learned to be her authentic self and has found that she is much happier as a result.
"I was just existing, which, honestly, how sad is that? Life is not meant to just exist or just survive, which is what I was in. I was in survival mode. Life is meant to really be lived and really thrive."In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The difference between shining authentically and trying to shine in the way that other people want you to.
2. What it means to live inauthentically vs truly thriving.
3. That there is beauty in embracing your emotions. After finding emotional peace and healing, Hanna became an empowerer of women in business. As a Business Alignment Leader, Hanna believes your experience is your expertise, empowering you to create a business that lights you up based on your passions and lifestyle. After moving to her dream city and increasing her income by 3x in 3 months, she realized her purpose is to lead women to their magic to create sustainable & profitable businesses. Her clients have gone on to have top podcasts, multiple six-figures in revenue, fully-booked guest interviews & more.
Hanna is the go-to business leader for the entrepreneur who is just starting or looking to expand/pivot. She uses her powerful gift of recognition to see your potential and your blind spots, allowing you to create confidence from within. Hanna offers a free 20 minute consultation call that can be booked by messaging her on Instagram here or click here to schedule a time on her calendar that works best for you.
Want to get to know yourself better, see how incredibly brilliant you are, and celebrate yourself for your unique design? Take the FREE quiz to discover your unique Inner Power Archetype, so you can experience the authentic, satisfying success you were made for. Click here to take the FREE quiz.
Speaking of IG, are we connected? I hope so! Find me @charlsey_childers
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Affirm What You Want and Step into Your Vision with Confidence (part 1)
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
Get Unstuck: Overcoming the Inner blocks that are Holding You Back with Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk
Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104
My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
Do you ever beat yourself up for not being able to take big steps toward your dreams? Do you have trouble celebrating yourself for the small?
If so, then you are in the right place!
This episode focused on celebrating small steps & accomplishments. My guest, Lanette Pottle, learned that it’s important to take small steps rather than waiting for the big leaps. She shared her story of being a single mother with a toddler, having to bounce around, and not having a job or place to live. She explains the importance of trusting your intuition when it comes to sharing your story, and to be selective of who you trust with it. She encourages us to take the time to reflect and acknowledge the small steps we take and how they build a runway to our ultimate success. Finally, she encourages us to start questioning from a place of curiosity and understanding, rather than doubt.
Life & Business Strategist turned Book Coach & Publishing Mentor, Lanette Pottle, teaches female speakers, coaches, and entrepreneurs how to turn their wisdom into authority-building, impact-making books.
Lanette is creator of the She Gets Published brand and hosts a podcast by the same name. She is a multi-book, Amazon International Best-Selling Author, founder of Positivity Lady Press, and publisher of the International Bestsellling LIGHTbeamers Book Series.
In addition to sharing her expertise at places like Hay House Radio, Authority Magazine, Next Advisor (in partnership with TIME), and The Maine Women’s Conference, she was recently featured in Woman’s Day magazine. Lanette has been a guest on many podcasts, is a TEDx speaker and has shared the stage with New York Times #1 best-selling author Jack Canfield.
Find Lanette online in these places:
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Tired of your not being able to acknowledge your strengths or being able to celebrate your small? Do you admittedly want to feel that you are enough and, therefore, see your efforts as enough? I teach this in my coaching program, Unstoppable. Click here for more information and to decide if this is a good fit for you.
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Affirm What You Want and Step into Your Vision with Confidence (part 1)
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
Get Unstuck: Overcoming the Inner blocks that are Holding You Back with Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk
Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104
My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
If you're ready to break up with your old conditioning so you can embrace your true self, Amanda Monnier and Charlsey Childers are here to help.
In this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, you will learn:
- How our conditioning can shape our emotions and create negative loops
- The importance of being present with our emotions and physical body
- How to reframe our perspective to create more positive outcomes
Grab your pin and notepad, and get ready for an expansive and stretching conversation! Press play now
"When we create that from that space, when we've created that level of power and confidence within our field and we know who we are, then it's like those things that once got under our skin just don't anymore."
Tired of your feelings affecting the way you show up in life? What if you could use them to purposefully guide yourself into a different feeling, one that you intentionally chose by design! I teach this in my coaching program, Unstoppable. Click here for more information and to decide if this is a good fit for you.
Connect with Charlsey and Amanda on Instagram to receive more expansive energy and tips like you heard today Click here to connect with Charlsey. Click here to connect with Amanda.
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Affirm What You Want and Step into Your Vision with Confidence (part 1)
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
Get Unstuck: Overcoming the Inner blocks that are Holding You Back with Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk
Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104
My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
Can you overcome resistance by honoring your feelings and giving yourself permission to do what brings you joy?
That is the question, coach Charlsey Childers helps you unpack in this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, so you can understand resistance and, more importantly, learn how to move past it!
In this episode, you will learn:
1. What is resistance, and how can you overcome it?
2. How can you tell when resistance is showing up in your life?
3. What are some ways to ease up on yourself when you're feeling resistance?
Want to get to know yourself better, see how incredibly brilliant you are, and celebrate yourself for your unique design? Take the FREE quiz to discover your unique power archetype and unleash your power for more success by clicking here or send me a DM on Instagram and I'll send to you.
Speaking of IG, are we connected? I hope so! Find me @charlsey_childers
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Affirm What You Want and Step into Your Vision with Confidence (part 1)
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
Get Unstuck: Overcoming the Inner blocks that are Holding You Back with Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk
Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104
My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
Samantha Hill shares her story of overcoming a lifetime of negative self-talk, and offers tips to help others identify and reframe their own destructive thoughts.
She says, "The hardest war is with you."
Samantha Hill is a Self-Talk Expert and Author who helps women identify and overcome the negative self-talk that's holding them back from achieving their goals. She's the author of the book "Shift Your Confidence: a 15 Day Journey to Fire Negative Self-Talk."
This is Samantha Hill's story...
Samantha Hill is a woman who has fought hard against negative self talk her whole life. She grew up in a poor and toxic environment, which made her develop a survival mechanism of expecting the worst. This technique backfired on her in adulthood, when she realized that it was only making her more negative. She decided to fight back against her self destructive thoughts by acknowledging them and speaking affirmations with meaning. Through this journey, she realized that the hardest war is with herself. Tune in to hear how she discovered that her survival mechanism was actually a major roadblock for her and the tools she used to change her inner dialogue, which contributed to a massive positive change in her life.
In this episode, you will learn:
1. How negative self-talk can impact your happiness and confidence
2. The importance of acknowledging your thoughts and feelings
3. How your environment can influence your thoughts and emotions.
Resources mentioned in this episode:
Shift Your Confidence by Samantha Hill
Shift Your Focus Journal by Samantha Hill
Confidence Shift 3.0 to Write Your First Book by Samantha Hill
Unstoppable by Charlsey Childers
To connect with Charlsey on Instagram: click here
To connect with Samantha on Instagram: click here
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Affirm What You Want and Step into Your Vision with Confidence (part 1)
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
Get Unstuck: Overcoming the Inner blocks that are Holding You Back with Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk
Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104
My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
Do you want to be a more confident and successful woman? If you're either struggling to reach your goals or know it's time to level up by believing in yourself, this episode is for you.
In this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, we learn that in order to achieve our goals, we need to cultivate a core belief that we are confident, capable, and worthy. In this episode you will learn: 1. The role and power of our beliefs in helping us achieve our goals. 2. The importance of choosing our affirmations wisely, so they reinforce the beliefs that will actually get us where we want to go. 3. The need to constantly be aware of our thoughts, feelings, and everything that's going on inside of us, in order to maintain a strong level of awareness and fuel for our journey.
Ready to pull back the onion to gain another layer of awareness about yourself? Do you have a desire to feel seen and validated? Take the FREE quiz to discover your unique power archetype and unleash your power for more success by clicking here or send me a DM on Instagram and I'll send to you.
Speaking of IG, are we connected? I hope so! Find me @charlsey_childers
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
How to Affirm What You Want and Step into Your Vision with Confidence (part 1)
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
Get Unstuck: Overcoming the Inner blocks that are Holding You Back with Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk
Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/seeing-your-inner-brilliance/id1601743104
My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
"Unless you claim the extraordinary you're drawn to, the ordinary will wind up claiming you."Did you know that we have to claim our dreams and our desires before we can achieve them? This isn't woo woo; this is psychology. And that takes a deep inner confidence and conviction. So I'm here to encourage you to start claiming what you want for yourself. Stop settling for the familiar and start reaching for your extraordinary.On this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, you will learn:
- What you are really claiming in your life. Newsflash: it may be different than you think!
- How we can supercharge our affirmations with inherent power so that they can ignite us to claim what we want and ultimately step into our desires
- What is looks like to claim your desires and feel worthy of having them
Tired of hearing the voice of saying doubt, "there isn't a bag like that with your name on it. You aren't worthy of the success and dreams you desire...?" This may be a sign to tag me in as your lifeline to walk beside you and support you on your journey to becoming unstoppable!
DM me on Instagram to trade that sneaky, slimy voice for one where one that champions who you really are!
Connect with me:
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
The Journey to Your Dreams: Why the journey is more important than the destination
From Pressure to Power: How to Thrive as an Ambitious Woman
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Do you have a tendency to get mad at yourself for not meeting your own expectations, wonder what you did wrong when things turn out differently than you expected, or punish yourself for unexpectedly missing the mark?
If so, all of these are signs that you could be blaming yourself? Now, before you blame yourself for blaming yourself, you may be surprised to know that you aren't the only one. In fact, it's one of lies that commonly holds ambitious women back.
On this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, I share how you can live a more empowered life by living one of design rather than by default. I also share the two ingredients to stop blaming yourself and start living the unstoppable life you dream of... which, spoiler alert, living by design is what allows you to live the life you envision for yourself and feel worthy of it.
For the fast action takers who are ready to stop letting blame and the other lies run the show, then it is time for you to become Unstoppable! This brand new program equips high-achieving women who struggle with the pressure to be a certain way, healing pain from the past, inadequacy, and/or feeling stuck to provide them with the tools and knowledge over 12 self-paced lessons that will allow them to feel deeply confident, free, successful, and, ultimately, worthy of receiving of what they desire.
Does this sound like the answer you've been looking for? Learn more by heading to charlseychilders.com/unstoppable.
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Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
The Journey to Your Dreams: Why the journey is more important than the destination
From Pressure to Power: How to Thrive as an Ambitious Woman
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Does any of this sound familiar? You've been told you have to do and be something different than what you are in order to be loved, to be worthy, to be successful.
If you can relate, this episode is for you. We go through:
1. A fun and proven exercise to help you get you what you want out of life
2. How conditioning negatively affects our life and often holds ambitious back
3. How to amplify the inherent power with you
I want to hear your wild and crazy vision that we talked about! Shoot me a DM on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Ready to let go of the patterns from your past that have been slowing you down and keeping you stuck? It's time for you to break those chains and become Unstoppable!
Unstoppable is my brand new coaching program designed to help women heal the lies and recognize their inherent power, so they can become unstoppable in what they can achieve. If you think this program could be a good fit for you, add your name to the waitlist to be the first to know when it becomes available and receive a special gift for signing up. Click here to take the next step in achieving the life you desire for yourself!
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Cultivating Inner Success to Achieve Your Desires
The Journey to Your Dreams: Why the journey is more important than the destination
Letting Your Past Propel You into Your Future with Carmelita Tiu
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Take an honest inventory! Does your doing and the actions you're taking bring you more satisfaction than when you're being? If so, this could be a sign that you're overcompensating your doing in order to prove your worth. This is a common thing among high-achieving women!
Mentally, we may know that our worth isn't based on our performance or productivity. But it's easier said than believed. I have often feel pressure to do more and be more. Maybe you have too. I realized that I've been falling victim to the "should story" - thinking I should be a certain way or do certain things in order to be successful. But the truth is, I am enough just as I am. I don't need to force myself to be someone I'm not. I am worthy, capable, and deserving of all good things. When I operate from this place of knowing, I am unstoppable in my pursuit of success and impact.
In this episode, I break down the psychological reasons for why we feel the pressure to constantly do more. Tune in now to learn:
1. The pressure we feel to succeed may be coming from our own expectations of ourselves, rather than from external sources.
2. We may be falling victim to the "should story" - the belief that we should be doing or measuring up to certain things in order to be successful.
3. We can heal the root causes that keep us stuck in this cycle by going deeper and uncovering our hidden beliefs.
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Lie of Doing It All
Loving Yourself to Success with Jen Gutfriend
What to Do When You Feel Behind in Life
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Self Worth and Confidence CoachingCultivating an internal definition of success centered around who you are instead of what you do takes time. If it would be beneficial for you to have support in discovering why you feel like it's never enough and learning how to untie your worth from your performance or productivity, one-on-one coaching may be for you. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in a few weeks, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see if this is a good fit for you.
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If you're feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to do things a certain way, doubt your abilities, or feel like you aren't seeing the results you want, then this episode is for you!
The source of the pressure may look different for you, but the pain is still the same: frustrated, feeling like we're doing something wrong, or thinking something is wrong with us.
Who you are and who you think you need to be isn't lining up.
And it sucks. It's hard.
I get you. I see you.
In this week's episode, I cover:
1. What it means when you feel pressure to "do it all"
2. How to turn pressure into power
3. The upcoming release of a tool to help you heal the root causes of the pressure you're feeling
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Lie of Doing It All
Loving Yourself to Success with Jen Gutfriend
What to Do When You Feel Behind in Life
Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Self Worth and Confidence CoachingIf you are ready to trade the pressure and overwhelm for inner peace, I have two open spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in a few weeks, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.
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"What if following our dreams actually means following the path these feelings are leading you down?" - Charlsey Childers
After an unplanned break from my usual productivity-driven routine, it reminded me that the key to a fulfilling life is focusing on who you are being, rather than what you are doing. This two week break from life and it was really tough, but also really good. I was challenged in a lot of ways, but I learned a lot too. I realized that following my dreams doesn't mean changing my outer world first. I have to focus more on who I'm being in each moment, and less on doing. I also realized that the journey is just as important as the destination.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. How our feelings are data, not directives, and what this means for our dreams and goals
2. The importance of focusing on who we are being, in each moment, rather than what we are doing
3. How the journey to our goals is just as important as the goals themselves
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
The Lie of Doing It All
Loving Yourself to Success with Jen Gutfriend
What to Do When You Feel Behind in Life
Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Self Worth and Confidence CoachingIf you are ready to trade the pressure and overwhelm for inner peace, I have two open spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in a few weeks, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.
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Do you find yourself constantly pushing yourself to do more and more? Are you the one everyone relies on to get things done? I understand how it feels to feel like you have to do it all, and, in this episode, I share my story of how I learned to ask for help. It's not a sign of weakness!
Sf you're ready to leave it all behind, this episode is for you.
Asking for help doesn't make you weak or a failure. You are worthy of a life marked with ease and flow, not stress and overwhelmed.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The pressure ambitious women feel to do it all and why they are afraid to ask for help
2. The consequences of constantly trying to prove how capable you are
3. How your worth is not dependent on what you accomplish each day
Self Worth and Confidence CoachingIf you are ready to trade the pressure and overwhelm for inner peace, I have two open spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM for the link so we can set up a call. We would get started in August, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.
Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
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Have you had this thought? "I feel like I'm not good enough and I'll never be able to achieve my goals." If you're ready to leave all of that behind, this conversation Charlsey Childers, Carlie Zacharuk, and Melissa Earle is is dedicated to solving that for you. Charlsey shares a solution you probably haven't tried yet.
In this episode, You will learn how to overcome self-doubt and achieve success.
"You are the creative force of your life, and you have the power to change it."Charlsey Childers is a Self-Worth and Confidence Coach who helps women overcome their inner blocks to success, so they feel worthy and capable of achieving their goals and dreams.
In this episode, Charlsey does a deep dive with one of her clients, Melissa, to help her overcome a current block that she is facing.
This is Melissa Earl's story...
I am a mother and wife who is trying to do it all. I have many roles and hats to wear, and spending time with my family is very important to me. I know that it would be very beneficial for me to hire somebody to help me with cleaning my house and doing my dishes, but I don't want to make that phone call. I don't want to text that person. I don't want to dive into it. And it's a block, but I don't know what it is yet.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Overcoming blocks that are preventing you from achieving your goals.
2. The importance of identifying what is and is not working in your life.
3. Facing your fears and overcoming them.
If you enjoyed hearing from Melissa and Carlie, click here to connect with Melissa and click here to connect with Carlie.
Self Worth and Confidence CoachingIf you are tired of not having having the success you want and feeling like you can do so much more than what you're already doing, I can help you uncover the block just like I helped Melissa in this episode! I'm about to open two spots for one-on-one coaching. If you're interested, then please send me a DM so we can set up a call. We would get started in July, if it's a good fit. And in eight weeks, you'll notice a shift in your results and in your self worth how you feel about yourself. Go ahead and DM me and let's really see, this is a good fit for you.
Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
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Do you feel like you have to do it all in order to be it all? That is the lie we are tackling on this episode of the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast.
And how does this pressure affect your everyday life? Perhaps you spend time with your kids, but think about work and then feel guilty because you aren't fully present with your kids. Perhaps you feel living it's a constant uphill battle that you are constantly failing at, which has affected your confidence and how you feel about yourself. Or perhaps you feel like everyone else is succeeding at doing it all, but you are the only one who's falling short.
This pressure to do it all in order to be it all can be crushing to your self-esteem and affect how you show up.
The purpose of this episode is to help you create and cultivate a healthier life rhythm.
Tune in to hear several simple, practical tips from three ambitious boss babes on how you can create a better balance in your roles and everyday routine in order to show up the way you want to show up. You will hear from me (Charlsey Childers), a Self Worth and Confidence Coach who helps women feel worthy and capable of achieving their dreams, Melissa Earle and Carlie Zacharuk, co-founders of Ascent, which delivers a personalized plan for a lifestyle of complete wellness. Press play now!
Reflection question:
1. What foundation can you lay or what pillars can you create in this season in order to live successfully?
I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!
To access the Life Rhythm worksheet mentioned in this episode, click here.
If you enjoyed hearing from Melissa and Carlie and/or are interested in improving your health as a busy women, click here to connect with Melissa and click here to connect with Carlie.
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Do you often wonder, "what's wrong with you?" You've read self-help books, listened to motivational podcasts, and prayed, but nothing has helped you feel better about yourself. You are not alone (despite the lies telling you otherwise). I am here for you! And I want to hear what you're dealing with in a safe, non-judgmental space. This is a chance for you to let out the spiraling thoughts and heaviness you've been feeling without being judged. I invite you to let me in and set up a complimentary 15 min call with me by clicking here.
This could be the answer you've been praying for! But you won't know until you try.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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Do you feel like you appear one way on the outside and feel completely different on the inside? Perhaps you don't feel good enough for your great dreams. Perhaps you have been working toward your dream for so long and since it hasn't turned out the way you expected, you feel behind - like something is fundamentally wrong with you. Or perhaps you wonder why you can't be where she is. That is a lot to carry, even for an ambitious, high-achieving woman like yourself. It's also a sign of the expectation blues - a cycle of failure, disappointment, shame, anxiety and overwhelm. This cycle crushes your desires and your self-worth. The key to breaking the cycle is to become unstoppable... cultivating inner peace, believing you are capable, worthy, and deserving, and knowing that your dreams are within reach.
If you can relate, then this episode is for you. Press play now!
Reflection question:
1. What would life look like if you felt unstoppable?
I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Do you often wonder, "what's wrong with you?" You've read self-help books, listened to motivational podcasts, and prayed, but nothing has helped you feel better about yourself. You are not alone (despite the lies telling you otherwise). I am here for you! And I want to hear what you're dealing with in a safe, non-judgmental space. This is a chance for you to let out the spiraling thoughts and heaviness you've been feeling without being judged. I invite you to let me in and set up a complimentary 15 min call with me by clicking here.
This could be the answer you've been praying for! But you won't know until you try.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Like what you hear? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
How do you feel when you're stressed, overwhelmed, and like life is just too much? Maybe the stress of starting a business is getting to you, balancing mom life and work life is overwhelming, or there's just too much static in your head from the negative thoughts? Do you feel frazzled or frustrated, down on yourself, or resistance? Perhaps you thrive off of being stressed because it motivates you toward success?
On this episode, I share insights into what's going on underneath these overwhelming feelings. And perhaps knowing this will create a shift in how you view your feelings and emotions. You'll leave with some simple, practical tips on how you can move through your day being more in control of the overwhelm rather than it controlling you.
Reflection question:
1. From the fun facts you learned, what is ONE commitment you are going to make to yourself?
I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Are you struggling in silence and feeling completely overwhelmed by life right now? Would it be helpful to talk to someone? If so, know that you are not alone (despite the lies telling you otherwise). I am here for you! And I want to hear what you're dealing with in a safe, non-judgmental space. My role is to listen; your role is to let me in.
Set up a complimentary 15 min call with me by clicking here.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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Angie, a godly woman, mom of 4, and career badass, is faced with making a pivotal decision in her life. In this episode, she shares how she faithfully makes decisions even when the doubts, lies, and insecurities are screaming: "who do you think you are? You don't have the right skills to do this."
Press play now!
Welcome to part two of our conversation with my friend, Angie Collins, on how to faithfully trust your decisions in the unknowns, unexpected and silent struggles. I don't know about you, but it can be really hard to lean in and trust yourself, in your dreams and in your God when there are so many unknowns, so many things outside of your control, and at any moment, something can literally catch you off guard and cause you to spin in circles.
What about those moments though when we are silently struggling, meaning that we are feeling one way on the inside, however, we appear to have it all together on the outside. For whatever reason, maybe you're so drowned out by the doubt and the insecurity or afraid to talk to somebody about it because you feel like no one understands you or gets what you're going through.
Press play no!
Reflection question:
- What is ONE thing you can do to trust yourself when making decisions?
I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!
If you resonated with Angie's story and would like to connect with her, follow her on Instagram.
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Are you struggling in silence and afraid to voice your struggles for fear of being judged, rejected, or deemed a failure? If so, know that you are not alone (despite the lies telling you otherwise). I am here for you! And I want to hear what you're dealing with in a safe, non-judgmental space. My role is to listen; your role is to let me in.
Set up a complimentary 15 min call with me by clicking here.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Like what you hear? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
How do you faithfully trust your decisions in the unknowns, unexpected, and silent struggles? That is what unpack in this episode on the Seeing Your Inner Brilliance podcast. If you tend to second guess yourself, overthink, or hide behind the mask of doing everything right, then lean in. If you're currently contemplating a big decision in your life or trying to approach decision-making with more self trust and faith, then this episode will serve you well also.
Angie, a godly woman, mom of 4, and career badass, is faced with making a pivotal decision in her life. In this episode, she shares how she faithfully makes decisions even when the doubts, lies, and insecurities are screaming: "who do you think you are? You don't have the right skills to do this."
Press play now!
Reflection questions:
- What are your internal cues or which ones would you like to embody?
- Who is included in your wise counsel?
I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!
If you resonated with Angie's story and would like to connect with her, follow her on Instagram.
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Do you feel mentally and emotionally exhausted from overthinking and second guessing yourself? What if you could make decisions from a place of self-trust, alignment, and wholeness? How would that bring peace to your life? If that is something that would make a difference for you and allow you to show up more fully, coaching may be a good fit for you!
Your next step is to book a complimentary 15 min call with your coach, Charlsey Childers, by clicking here. On this call, we will talk about how external validation is rearing its pesky head in your life and ways to overcome it.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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New episodes drop every Wednesday.
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Is a completed to do list the most exciting thing in your day? Do you, admittedly, check and check and check your likes and comments? If so, your habits may be your ticket to overcoming the sneaky external validation. Press play now!
So often when we think about habits, we think it terms of time management and how to get more done in less time. While that's important, there's a more effective strategy: creating habits around how you want to feel rather than around what you want to do or accomplish, which allow you to show up the way you want, be productive, and be unstoppable in creating the life you want for yourself.
Reflection question: How do you want to feel each day? When do you currently feel this way and when do you not?
I would love to hear your answer to this. Shoot me a DM on Instagram @charlsey_childers. I can't wait to hear from you!
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Tired of looking to likes and comments to determine whether you're doing a good job? Want to unapologetically show up for your dreams without caring so much what others think? Coaching may be a good fit for you!
Your next step is to book a complimentary 15 min call with your coach, Charlsey Childers, by clicking here. On this call, we will talk about how external validation is rearing its pesky head in your life and ways to overcome it.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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New episodes drop every Wednesday.
Like what you hear? Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify! My endless thanks for your support in the mission to help ambitious women cultivate the inner confidence to live their dreams now.
Do you ever feel behind in life? Do you feel like everyone else is reaching their goals while you are left in the dust trying to figure it out on your own?
The pressure you feel to stay on track with your timeline or the pressure to live up to your own standards can be monstrous. Believe me, I've been there and felt those very things. It can knock your confidence, slow you down even more than you already feel, and make you feel like you're spinning in circles trying to put the pieces together.
What if, though, you can learn to be okay with not being in control of every detail or learn to go after your goals from a place of joy rather than fear?
How do you think that would impact your confidence and self esteem? How do you think that would cultivate trust in yourself and in a power so much bigger than you?
Tune in now!
If you have BIG dreams for yourself and want to feel worthy of living the life you desire,
- follow @charlsey_childers on Instagram or Tik Tok for all things confidence and self worth
Want more support? Tired of feeling unworthy, undeserving, or not good enough? Tired of not showing up the way you want or feeling held back from your desires? If so, it is time for you to build up your self, so you can become unstoppable in creating the life you want.
Your next step is to book a complimentary 15 call with me so we can discuss your goals and what lies are standing in your way. Your dreams are waiting for you to step into them and claim them! Schedule a call here.
Overcoming the echos of doubt and fear is a big key to gaining momentum on your dreams and desires, and believing you are fully capable to achieve the greatness you feel called to. If you feel motivated by the life you envision for yourself yet discouraged by wondering, "am I good enough for this? What if I fail? What if it doesn't turn out like I expected," press play! When you hear Ashley Carpentier's journey, you'll discover that you are not alone with these thoughts and insecurities. You'll also learn practical and effective tips for how to overcome this fear of failure, so you can become unstoppable in achieving your goals.
Ashley is a Mental Wellness Coach and Mental Health Therapist, as well as the host of the Self-Love Revolution podcast. She has a passion for helping women learn to love themselves and their bodies through self-care, nutrition, and mindset. Ashley takes a holistic approach to wellness to help women be happy, confident, and free.
The following are helpful resources we mention within this episode:
If you want to take more time for yourself but in a way that falls in line with your busy life, guided journaling may be a great place to start for you! Two minutes is all it takes to feel loved and nourished using Ashley's Self Care Journal.
If it's been a challenge for you to love your body and have a healthy relationship with food, Ashley is an incredible resource to support you on your journey. Connect with her on Instagram for encouragement and wellness tips.
If you have BIG dreams for yourself and want to feel worthy of living the life you desire,
- follow @charlsey_childers on Instagram or Tik Tok for all things confidence and self worth
Want more support? Tired of feeling unworthy, undeserving, or not good enough? Tired of not showing up the way you want or feeling held back from your desires? If so, it is time for you to build up your self, so you can become unstoppable in creating the life you want.
Your next step is to book a complimentary 15 call with me so we can discuss your goals and what lies are standing in your way. Your dreams are waiting for you to step into them and claim them! Schedule a call here.
What if the key to success comes from loving yourself and believing you are worthy? This is the question Charlsey and her guest, Jen Gutfriend, unpacks in this week's episode. If you've based your worth off your performance, felt like what you do is never good enough, or tried everything else to be successful, then this episode is for you. It's time to do things another way, and this episode will help get you started.
Jen is a Mindset Mentor and Certified Hypnotherapist who helps ambitious, female entrepreneurs cultivate the mindset to hit their first 6 figures with ease. After years of hard work, long hours and doing all the things you are supposed to do to have success, Jen instead found herself burnt out, body shutting down and nothing to show for it! Knowing that she couldn’t keep going like this or she might not be alive, she walked away from the life she had been living to start over at 30!
Now Jen lives a life she truly loves, and success in her business and life comes easily without the 60+ hour work weeks.
To learn Jen's best tips and tricks on how to have a 6 figure mindset or if you'd like to know more about hypnotherapy, follow her on Instagram or watch her Youtube videos.
If you have BIG dreams for yourself and want to feel worthy of living the life you're creating for yourself:
- follow @charlsey_childers on Instagram for all things confidence and self esteem
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Do you feel unworthy, not good enough, or undeserving of the life you want for yourself? Does your mental chatter leave you feeling exhausted and debilitated? If so, then it is time for you to build up your self worth so you can show up the way you want and feel worthy of living the life you want for yourself.
Your next step is to book a complimentary 15 min call with your coach, Charlsey Childers, by clicking here. On this call, you two will discuss the goals you have for yourself and create a roadmap for you to get there.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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New episodes drop every Wednesday.
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Tired of thinking she's better, smarter, or prettier than you? Ready to stop feeling like she's further ahead than you are?
These thoughts are hard. They consume your mind, affect your confidence, and lower how you feel about yourself.
In this episode of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance, Charlsey holds space for those thoughts and encourages you to feel the disappointment and other soul-crushing feelings that come along with it.
She also dives deeper into why you may be thinking this and how you can shift your perspective from not enough to more than enough.
Hopefully this episode will of Seeing Your Inner Brilliance will give you some inspiration and motivation of how to celebrate her success while not diminishing yours.
For more confidence tips and insight:
- follow @charlsey_childers on Instagram
Self Worth and Confidence Coaching
Do you feel unworthy, not good enough, or undeserving of the life you want for yourself? Does your mental chatter leave you feeling exhausted and debilitated? If so, then it is time for you to build up your self worth so you can show up the way you want and feel worthy of living the life you want for yourself.
Your next step is to book a complimentary 15 min call with your coach, Charlsey Childers, by clicking here. On this call, you two will discuss the goals you have for yourself and create a roadmap for you to get there.
Seeing Your Inner Brilliance
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New episodes drop every Wednesday.
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In this week's episode, Carmelita (Cat) Tiu chats with host, Charlsey Childers, continues sharing how being a women of color, feeling the pressure to excel and be her best, and growing up with a "prettier" sister enabled her to show up authentically and confidently instead of hold her back.
Cat shares the three things that were most impactful to her when she was in a space where she was unhappy with the way her life was going.
As a lawyer, podcaster, educator, and mom of two, Cat worked as an attorney at The Oprah Winfrey Show and OWN: The Oprah Winfrey Network for several years. She recently realized her passion for inspiring other girl moms to show up for themselves and their daughters the way they want to.
To learn more about Cat and the Know Them. Be Them. Raise Them. podcast:
- Follow the show on Instagram or Facebook
- Connect with Cat on LinkedIn
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Do you feel unworthy, not good enough, or undeserving? Do you constantly beat yourself up, crave external validation, or feel held back? If so, then it is time for you to build up your self worth, so you can show up the way you want and feel worthy of living the life you want for yourself.
Your next step is to book a 15 min call with coach, Charlsey Childers, by clicking here.
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Are there certain things that maybe your mom did growing up that you don't want to repeat? Have there been times where you felt pressured to be or act a certain way? Do you ever catch yourself doing what you need to do instead of what you love to do?
If so, then this episode is for you!
This week, special guest, Carmelita (Cat) Tiu is sharing her story on how she examined her past in a way that allowed her to show up authentically and confidently. She has been able to use her past to propel her forward towards the life she wants for herself.
As you listen, be sure to write down the words or phrases that stick out to you. There is a reason why they speak to you. Now that you're aware, it's time to take action. Pick one phrase from your list and send it to Charlsey on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers). Then, together, you two can explore what your next step is (ie: uncover the limiting belief, heal something from your past, etc). Because one thing is for sure, this could be blocking you from your success and moving forward.
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Cat is a lawyer, podcaster, educator, and parent. After receiving her art degree and law degree, she worked as an attorney at The Oprah Winfrey Show and OWN: The Oprah Winfrey Network for several years, then pivoted to the design and advertising world. She's also taught at DePaul University and Columbia College Chicago, and served on the boards of numerous cultural and community service organizations.
As a curious and committed mom of two daughters, Cat recently launched the podcast, "Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them," a show that informs and inspires mindful and growth-oriented moms of girls, so they can show up for themselves and their daughters the way they want to. The podcast is on all major podcast platforms or head to https://knowberaisethem.com. You can also follow @knowberaisethem on Instagram or Facebook.
Through Cat is based in Chicago, she's currently looping around the US with her family for the 2021-2022 school year -- a bucket list dive into memory-making, hyper-focusing on the family, and pouring into new projects.
To connect with Cat on social media, follow her here:
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carmelita
How close do you feel to your goals and the person you want to become? If your goals feel further away then you'd like them to, there could be one thing standing in your way of your confidence and success that a lot of people don't know about.
If you've ever thought something like, "gah, my house is such a mess. I'm such a bad mom." Or if you've ever wondered if people aren't liking or commenting because they don't care what you have to say, then this episode is for you.
The stories we tell ourselves about ourselves becomes the script of our lives. It affects everything we do - from the decisions we make, how we show up, and how much we believe in ourselves.
In this week's episode, awarded Self Worth and Confidence Coach, Charlsey Childers, breaks down why the story you tell yourself is so impactful when creating the life you want and she offers two tools on how to identify the particular story that's holding you back, which is the first step toward freedom.
To identify your story, you can take this simple quiz to better understand what is standing in your way of the success you want. Visit: https://charlseychilders.ac-page.com/success-quiz?test=true
For more confidence tips, you can follow Charlsey on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Do you ever think:
"I should be doing more."
"I need to be busy all the time."
"I need his or her approval to move forward."
"I'm not making money with it, so I'm a failure."
or
"Nothing I do is ever good enough."
If so, then you may be addicted to external validation... or you may not. External validation isn't always obvious, nor is it always unhealthy.
If you know you're stuck in a cycle of seeking external validation or if you think you may be addicted to it, this episode is for you.
During our time together, we discuss what external validation is and is not, how so many of us (especially ambitious women) get caught in this trap, and what we can do to flip the script to start validating ourselves.
Learning to love yourself and be confident in who you are is one of the greatest rewards you can have in this life. It even creates a ripple effect in the lives of those around you.
After you listen, I want to hear your takeaways. Allow me to walk alongside with you on this journey by connecting with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
If you know external validation is standing in your way of the life you want for yourself, it is time for you to dig up this lie and change the way you see yourself. Your dream depends on it. Your first step is to book a complimentary 15 minute call with me so, that together, we can come up with an action plan for how you are going to do this. Select a time on my calendar that best works for you: https://calendly.com/charlsey_childers/strategycall
Lastly, if this episode spoke to you, will you please leave a review on Apple podcasts? This makes it possible for other women to discover this podcast, and, ultimately, help them overcome the things they're struggling with.
Have you ever thought, “I’m not doing enough. I could be doing more than this. I’m so far behind. Nothing is going the way I planned... In the 30 min I spent in traffic or having my adorable baby sleep on me, I could have been doing so much more. Ugh! Look, 30 min of what could have been productive… gone.”
Ever think those things? I sure have! It's a toxic thought that plagues driven, ambitious women. It holds us down, can be the reason we play small, and keep us from moving forward.
In this episod**e, talk about why we have these thoughts, where they come from, and then I offer you some simple, practical tools you can put into practice to help you feel satisfied, at peace, and content with what you are doing!
This coaching will give you practical ways to talk back to the feeling that you aren't doing enough and "feeling behind," so you, by using these tools, you can break free from the mental chatter and become unstoppable in living the life you dream of. Talk about being rooted in confidence and self-worth!
For more practical confidence tools, let's connect on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers.
If you feel stuck or overwhelmed at any point when putting these tools into practice, book a call with me so I can walk alongside you. https://calendly.com/charlsey_childers/strategycall**
Believing in yourself and pursuing the things on your heart takes courage and confidence. Before you can build that belief, you have to be certain your desires are yours.
The question I have for you is: Do your desires come from inside you or from people around you?
This answer will determine whether you step in and own what you want, or throw in the towel. Part 3 of my Owning Who You Are and What You Want series will teach you one simple way on how to find out.
To help support you in this exercise, I am here to walk through it with you. Send me a DM https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers, and start claiming what you want like a pro!
**You are back for part two of Owning Who You Are and What You Want. On last week’s episode, we started talking about the idea that when you’re desiring and even creating a better life for yourself than the one you’re currently living, it requires you to stand firm in who you are and stay focused on what you want, so you can have unwavering confidence in yourself, be your own cheerleader, and maintain your power over your thoughts and feelings bc goodness knows, they have the ability to get out of control.
Today, I am doing something special for you as a listener of the podcast. I took 3 hot topics from last week's interview, and, over the next few weeks, I am going to give you practical tips and strategies to help you build the belief in yourself you need to stand in your power and gain momentum on your desires.
The first topic we talk about is making the shift from where you are to where you want to be. What is the first step you need to take to pursue the things on your heart?
Tune in to find out and discover three practical ways to build your belief in a way that allows you to own your success and become unstoppable.
Follow Charlsey on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
For further confidence support in building your belief in yourself, book a call with me: https://calendly.com/charlsey_childers/strategycall**
In this episode, we are talking about owning who you are and what you want.
When you're on the journey of creating the life for yourself that you envision - whether it be through becoming an entrepreneur, living sustainably, following your passion, etc - this journey requires you to stand firm in who we are and stay focused on what we want, so we can remain confident in ourselves through the obstacles we face, keep going in the direction we're going regardless of who supports us, and remain grounded in our own thoughts and feelings.
This journey demands for us to have an unwavering belief in ourselves and what we're called to do even when people don't support us, no one is cheering us on, and our own doubts get in our way. That can be really challenging.
As you're listening to this interview, I invite and encourage you to think about moments in your life where you can relate. Perhaps your spouse didn't support your desire to make a change or perhaps there have been times when you felt like you didn't know who you were. Hang onto these moments as you answer these two writing prompts:
- If your life was a sheet of paper, what types of things would you want to be written on it?
- Does your life and how you feel about yourself somewhat match up to that, not at all, or somewhere in the middle?
This helps bring awareness to who you are now and who you want to be. Then tune in next week as I give you practical tips and strategies to help you build the belief in yourself you need to make own the success you want.
Follow Charlsey on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
For further confidence support in believing in yourself and owning what you want, book a call with me: https://calendly.com/charlsey_childers/strategycall
Ever feel like there isn't enough time to pause, catch your breath, or much less pour into yourself? Do you find yourself running from the next thing to the next, and you're wondering why you feel overwhelmed, stressed, or even burnt out?
In today's episode, I am going to reveal to you the best way for you to show up at your best... at this may surprise you :)
But, by the first few times you practice it, you will experience the inner peace, confidence, and freedom from making this your new habit. You'll also feel more in control of your life and even more amped for all the great things you're working towards.
Connect with me on IG for more confidence and self worth tips and tricks: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
Tired of feeling overwhelmed and ready to prioritize your happiness? Book a complimentary 15 call with me, so we can put together an action plan for you to make that shift: https://calendly.com/charlsey_childers/strategycall
Do you ever think, "what's wrong me with? Why did I do that? Ugh, I'm so stupid?" Or have you ever had a thought that kept spinning in your mind over and over again?
I get you. This thoughts are hard and they happen to all of us. We can even get so used to hearing this negativity that we confuse it with ourselves. When not dealt with in a healthy way, this negativity shows itself in many different ways. For instance, it can damage our confidence and self worth, cause us to not believe in ourselves, or get in the way of our success. When these negative thoughts are extreme, the manifest in extreme ways: anxiety, depression, OCD, eating disorders, etc.
Today's guest, Nancy Daniels, has had a successful career as a radio and tv reporter, and is now coaching people on how to use their voice on camera. When her thoughts manifested into a mental health disorder at a young age, it hugely impacted her confidence. In this episode, she shares how she first recognized that her thoughts were more than negative thoughts, cultivated the courage to get the help she needed, and the number one thing she did to build her confidence again in herself. Most importantly, Nancy reminds us that no matter what we are struggling with internally, it's important to normalize talking about our struggles so we can bridge the gap between silently struggling and struggling together.
Follow Nancy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnancydaniels
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To get your copy of the journal mentioned, click here.
Going after your desires can be hard. And part of what makes it hard is the pressure we feel to do things at a certain time. In this episode, Charlsey has a real, raw, say-it-how-it-is discussion about the idea of being behind in life. She discusses 5 signs or indicators to look to know when you are feeling this way, where this pressure comes from for most of us, and she gives you one, simple action step you can take when you're feeling this way. While no podcast episode can single-handedly help you cultivate the confidence you need to fully heal this block or help you accept yourself for who you are and where you are, this one will help you feel less alone in those tricky moments that are sure to come.
Follow Charlsey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers
To discover where this thought comes from in your life and to create an action plan for overcoming the feeling of being behind, so you can continue to move toward your dreams, schedule a complimentary 15 call with Charlsey: https://calendly.com/charlsey_childers/strategycall
Do you ever feel like things have to be a certain way? Maybe you find yourself obsessing over life needing to look perfect or appearing like you have to have it all together...
You're not alone! And nothing is wrong with you!
As an ambitious woman, you naturally have an ability to see opportunities and have a desire to make things better. This is a great quality!
What trips us up is when we expect everything to be perfect all the time, we can't accept that messy can mean good, and we beat ourselves up when things look different than we thought or hoped they would. We start identifying with our mess... "a messy house means that I'm a mess!"
This is something Rhonda, this week's guest, and I can totally relate to.
In this episode, Rhonda vulnerably and transparently shares her testimony that's filled with grief, shame, and feeling the pressure to be perfect.
She is a wife, mom, businesswoman, and mother of an angel baby. Her mission is to inspire women to grow in each season of their lives and become all God has destined for them to be. Rhonda is a Business and Career coach, co-host of 24 Carat Conversations podcast, author, and founder of Tiana Project.
If you resonated with Rhonda's story and want to surround yourself with women who understand your pain or if you would like strategies for reaching your career goals, click here to connect with her on Instagram.
You can also preorder her 24 day devotional on Amazon by clicking on this link.
If you are loving the podcast and want to learn more simple, practical tips and tools on how to be more grounded and at peace within yourself, you can connect with Charlsey on Instagram here.
What if the key to success comes from loving yourself and believing you are worthy? This is the question Charlsey and her guest, Jen Gutfriend, unpacks in this week's episode. If you've based your worth off your performance, felt like what you do is never good enough, or tried everything else to be successful, then this episode is for you. It's time to do things another way, and this episode will help get you started.
Jen is a Mindset Mentor and Certified Hypnotherapist who helps ambitious, female entrepreneurs cultivate the mindset to hit their first 6 figures with ease. After years of hard work, long hours and doing all the things you are supposed to do to have success, Jen instead found herself burnt out, body shutting down and nothing to show for it! Knowing that she couldn’t keep going like this or she might not be alive, she walked away from the life she had been living to start over at 30!
Now Jen lives a life she truly loves, and success in her business and life comes easily without the 60+ hour work weeks.
To learn Jen's best tips and tricks on how to have a 6 figure mindset or if you'd like to know more about hypnotherapy, follow her on Instagram or watch her Youtube videos.