It's All About Him - Understanding the Narcissist in your Life: Recent Episodes

Lisa EX Scott

Ever wonder why your guy can't seem to understand you?

Is he avoiding real intimacy? Obsessed with his image? Incapable of empathizing with you?

Well, when your guy is a narcissist, it has nothing to do with you....It's All About Him.

Join Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" as we discuss the heartache of trying to love a narcissist.

This show is an extension of a messageboard (www.lisaescott.com) that acts as a support group for women trying to break free from the narcissist in their lives.

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Interview with author, Joseph Burgo, PhD on his recent article in the Atlantic regarding Armstrong's narcissism as well as a discussion on his most recent book, "Why Do I Do That? Defense Mechanisms & The Hidden Ways They Shape Our Lives." Dr. Burgo will help us understand how narcissism is a defense against shame.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/ messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa & Barbara will discuss the Narcissist's 'disappearing act' once you figure out what they really are. Unfortunately, there is no closure with a Narcissist & importance of No Contact for your recovery; because the Narcissist will come back IF YOU LET HIM. Tiger Woods apparent Sexual Narcissism will be discussed as well.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa and Elena will explain why narcissists enter into relationships. It's important to understand their real motives as they do not appear what they seem.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa and Elena will provide general insight on how the experience of divorcing a narcissist is different from divorcing a normal person. Tips on how to handle the narcissist during this process as well as how to maintain your sanity will also be provided.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa and Barbara will discuss why a narcissist has such a difficult time giving. A narcissist will value you, not for yourself, but for what you can give him or what he can take from you. A narcissist gives nothing in a relationship and is only in a relationship for the purpose of taking what he can from you (i.e. narcissistic supply, attention, ego stroking, caretaking).

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa and Elena will discuss how to recognize a narcissist before getting hurt.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa and Barbara will discuss the narcissist's inability to love.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Elena will interview Grammy Award winner, Leslie Ellis, about how she overcame her relationship with a destructive narcissist and turned her dreams into reality.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa & Barbara will discuss that a narcissist not only can not love, but views sex and love as mutually exclusive of one another.

Narcissists have what is referred to as a Madonna/Whore Complex, which every woman should understand and be able to recognize.

They are also unable to be intimate and use sex as a luring and bonding tool. Their attitudes towards sex in a relationship become increasingly warped because they view their partners as objects. A large portion of male narcissists have addictions as part of that objectification.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to avoid or recover from painful relationships with narcissists. In this week's episode, Lisa and Elena will provide general insight on how the experience of divorcing a narcissist is different from divorcing a normal person. Tips on how to handle the narcissist during this process as well as how to maintain your sanity will also be provided.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to recognize a narcissist before you get hurt and offer coping strategies to those already involved in a relationship with a narcissist. In this week's episode, Lisa and Elena will discuss what it is like to date a narcissist and point out red flags you can look for to avoid getting in too deep with a narcissist.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to recognize a narcissist before you get hurt and offer coping strategies to those already involved in a relationship with a narcissist. In this week's episode, Lisa and Barbara will specifically discuss the different ways a narcissist manipulates, including the confusing cycle of being idealized by the narcissist to discarded and devalued.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to recognize a narcissist before you get hurt and offer coping strategies to those already involved in a relationship with a narcissist. Today's youth are more self-centered and narcissistic than ever before. This doesn't surprise me when you look at how society breeds narcissism. Reality television and people's obsession with celebrity/entertainment news feed the epidemic of narcissism in our times. Please join us this week as we discuss the difference between healthy narcissism and unhealthy narcissism. We will look at how the younger generation mimics celebrity behavior, no matter how outlandish and pathetic (i.e. Spencer Pratt & Heidi Montag) their behavior may be.

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When a narcissist creates and projects a false image of who he imagines himself to be, he is either sexual or intellectual. In other words, he either attracts attention by utilizing his physical attributes or by applying his intelligence. The sexual narcissist flaunts his body, exhibits his muscles, and brags about his physical conquests. An intellectual narcissist uses his intellect or talent to attract attention. All narcissists can be both intellectual and sexual. However, one type is always dominant in a narcissist. The narcissist may swing between his dominant type and recessive type, but he prefers utilizing one over the other. In this week’s show, we will discuss the difference between a intellectual narcissist and a sexual narcissist and how to recognize one before you get hurt.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to recognize a narcissist before you get hurt and offer coping strategies to those already involved in a relationship with a narcissist.

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Lisa E. Scott, author of "It's All About Him" will continue her discussion with book/messageboard readers on how to recognize a narcissist before you get hurt. This week Lisa is joined by Elena, a messageboard reader who just finalized her divorce from a pathological narcissist two weeks ago. Join us as we help you understand the narcissist in your life, discuss coping strategies, and provide you with a critical support network of people who can relate to what you're going through.

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Join us for our first episode! I will introduce the platform for our show as well as interview Barbara, the matriarch of our messageboard. We will build awareness on narcissism, offer advice and take calls from listeners. We look forward to talking with you!