Exploring all facets of relationships through a male and female perspective with a comedic outlook. Providing insight on various topics and types of relationships from romantic, friendships, and everything in between.
Today we are looking back on our date ideas episode. Most will be fun, but some date ideas can turn bad. We talk about different types of date and obstacles that can occur.
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This week's throw back is for the fellas. We discuss how to navigate your significant other during that special time of the month. Jose asks some "men type" questions of what to do and how to survive.
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This week we are calling out lying liars who lie. We define types of lying such as broken promises, gas lighting, lying by omission and more. We also get into what happens after the lie namely what is does to the relationship and atonement.
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Today we finish our exploration of the zodiac signs in regard to relationship compatibility. We end with characteristics and tendencies of Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and Pisces.
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This week astrology is our agenda. We dissect fire, earth, air, and water in conjunction with our zodiac signs to see how they are compatible in a romantic relationship. Part one we take a look at Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, and Virgo.
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This week we are feeling lovey-dovey. We discuss how men and women differ when it comes to how they want to be wooed, customizing romance based on the persons preferences, and is romance dead? Or are we going to keep it alive?
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Today we are reviewing the top No-No's when it comes to your ex. This includes stalking them, begging for another chance, and saying you will never find love again. Let's all take care of ourselves after a breakup.
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Today fate (hat pick) has required us to dive into ghosting a person. We ask questions such as is it warranted, why people do it, and what types of scenarios can they creep up in. Don't be scared. Chances are you have already seen a ghost.
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Bon Voyage. Today we discuss going on vacation with your partner for the first time and what that involves. This includes who pays for the trip, personal habits that are revealed such as how they pack and handling stressful situations while away. Let's go the beach, go skiing, or take a road trip. Save travels and tread lightly!
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This week we are taking a listener request and exploring friends of the opposite sex. We talk about the origins of our own friendship, dating ground rules whether you have the "friend" or you are the significant other, and general respect when making new friends after marriage.
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Today we are examining, like layers of a cake, the multiple levels of any relationship. We dive into assumptions of the stage you're in, when to level up, and what each level represents. We also touch on dressing appropriately for dating profiles and bringing an overnight bag.
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You and Becky have been found out! This week on part two of cheaters we are discussing the aftermath of affairs. We review topics such as how people get caught, counseling vs. divorce, what being separated means, and the physical and emotional effects of infidelity for you and surrounding parties.
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Have you been cheatin on me? In today's part one of two, we get into the stages of infidelity. We talk about how it initiates, the progression of the affair, why individuals decide to cheat, and many scenarios of micro-cheating.
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Meow! This week we are discussing yet another unique relationship and that is one with our pets. We talk about the bond you create with your fur baby, dating people with unique animals, getting a pet together as a couple, and some fun animal facts.
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This week we are discussing friendships. We reminisce about Jose's childhood gang, challenges with making new ones as an adult, difficulties connecting with women, and the possibility of having a future AI friend.
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This week we are discussing how Covid 19 affected relationships of all stages. This spectrum ranges from being single and a relationship with oneself to being married. We dive into Zoom dating, sticking together through stressful times, and the aftermath this had on marriages.
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Today we are strolling down memory lane and dig into lessons one can learn from past relationships. Such lessons include taking time to know someone, how people evolve over time, paying attention to your partner, and recognizing emotions.
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ATTENTION! Schools in session. Today we are learning origins of some dating history such as the very first dating app, how dating has transformed over time, and old terminology along with brand new dating slang.
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Today we are reaching back into our grab bag of topics to pick one at random. We discuss how much is someone into you, sticking with your commitment, natural progression of relationships, questioning your partners feelings, and 3rd parties that try to meddle with your spouse.
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Today we are discussing logistics of dating people who have children. We dig into pros and cons such as blending families, baby-mama drama, psychological effects, filing in as a parent, and random obstacles.
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This week we are wrestling with the games people play when it comes to dating. We go into hiding your true feelings, texting/emoji etiquette, attire deceptions, and revealing too much.
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Today we are examining what we hope for versus what we get. We dive into dating app culture, marriage presumptions, dating statistics, and a general sense of expectations vs. reality.
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This week we are discussing attraction. We talk about different types of attraction, how its changed over time, cognitive bias, some challenges with dating apps, and what men and women look for.
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Today we are saying I Love You for the very first time. We analyze the 3 stages of romantic feelings, why men declare it first, soft rejection, and when not to deliver those three special words.
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This week we engage with a spiritual novelty to see if a long-distance relationship can work. We address types of long distance, pros and cons, trust is a must, and helpful tips to make it successful.
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Today we are wrapping up our Love Languages segment. We discuss types of servicing, taking your partner for granted, various perks of acts of service, and laundry rules.
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This week we are getting physical! We explain how to tell if this is your love language, man to man etiquette, snuggles, and tips to please your partner if it's their language.
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Today on another installment of our love language series we are covering quality time. We attempt to define it, discuss listening techniques, and how technology has changed this particular love language.
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Today we are launching our latest's segment by breaking down the various love languages. With Gary Chapman's book as our reference, we start by exploring words of affirmation. We discuss different dialects, how we all interpret words, and how past words creep into your present.
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Today we are identifying red flags. We question choosing to overlook or accept them, finding them pre and during the courtship, and trying to change your partner.
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This week we are letting fate decide as we literally pick a topic out of a hat. Let's kick it as we change it up by doing it completely freestyle.
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We have finally reached the end of Netflix season 3 Love is Blind with the reunion episode. We talk about having multiple sides to every story, answering to the footage, and the infamous cuties story.
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Today we are tackling different types of relationship boundaries. We consider what closed doors mean, respecting others body and space, and why boundaries are healthy.
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Today we are recapping the finale of Love is Blind with episodes 10 and 11. We discuss how bachelor parties have changed throughout the years, dressing appropriately with your companions, and the outcomes of all the weddings.
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Today we are getting fun and flirty. We discuss proper etiquette, reasons why you would flirt, and different characteristics that people are attracted to.
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This week we are breaking down episode 9 of Netflix Love is Blind season 3. We talk about unjustified alimony, pre-wedding reservations, and hypocritical fighting.
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This week we are digging into romantic crushes. We talk about some of our own, how feelings can change suddenly, and fantasizing about what it would be like to be with them.
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Today we get into Netflix Love is Blind season 3 episode 7 and 8. We discuss friends and family's negativity influencing you, sabotaging your own relationship, and touching on jealousy along with past trauma.
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Today we are taking a scene straight out of 40-year-old-virgin with Jose's first speed dating experience. He takes us through his entire night as we meet all of the key characters and his date with a mystery woman we call Malibu.
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This week for our love is blind season 3 special we are combining episodes 5 and 6. We explore men being a little too honest, sharing intimate details about your partner to your friends, and weaponizing who makes more money in the relationship.
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Today we are scratching the surface of first date conversations. We talk about the do's and don'ts, some of our own experiences, and an article with the top 10 questions to ask.
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Today we are taking in all the juiciness from episode 4 of Netflix Love is Blind. We touch on topics such as women who snore, appearing superficial on your dating profile, and being too honest.
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This week are reviewing a unique type of relationship......siblings. We reminisce about latchkey kid meals, perks and pitfalls of siblings, and different dynamics between them.
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Today we are unraveling Love is Blind season 3 episode 3. We talk about choosing parenting over romance, other people's perspective of you, and having your expectations unfulfilled.
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Gobble Gobble its turkey time! Today we chew over sensual cooking the day before, when to bring your partner with you and what to expect, and different anxieties revolving around Thanksgiving.
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This week we are reviewing Netflix Love is Blind episode 2. We touch on topics such as rejection feedback, being engaged/present in the conversation, and predictability of your partner.
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Today we are exploring different types of dates from fun to bad and everything in between. Join us as we go to places such as a cooking class, chuck-e-cheese, and the carnival.
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Netflix Love is Blind has come to Dallas for season 3 and we are discussing episode 1. Today we talk about the importance of common interests, leading introductions with sex, and the different personalities within the cast members.
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We are finally at the end of Netflix Love is Blind season 2 and breaking down the reunion episode. We discuss playing the victim/deflecting, where to place blame in a relationship, and realizing who you are.
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Join us as we celebrate Halloween with a very special episode. Today we are indulging in some of our own childhood memories, discuss Halloween date ideas, and dressing up together as a couple.
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Today we are unraveling the finale of Love is Blind season 2. We discuss pre-wedding jitters, being left at the altar, and deciding to choose yourself.
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Today we are traveling back in time yet again to explore childhood relationships. Inspired by old diary entries we relive dating around a lot, figuring out what love is, and what kind of experiences we take to our adulthood.
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We are getting close to the very end of analyzing Netflix Love is Blind season 2. Today episode 9 we cover how men converse amongst each other, dealing with your partners insecurities, and living in the moment.
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Today we are breaking down episode 8 of Love is Blind. We revisit the 90's for a bit, discuss verbal miscommunication and trusting your partner, and protocol for wedding gown/tuxedo shopping.
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Today we are talking love at the workplace. We discuss what's appealing about it, reasons for keeping it secret, and work stead affairs.
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Today we are diving into episode 7 of Netflix's Love is Blind. We discuss mismatched fashion items, family support/blessing with your romantic decisions, and connections with parents.
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Today we are unfolding Love is Blind season 2 episode 6. We touch on topics such as meeting the family, bonding with deep conversations, and accepting being rejected.
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Today we are now dealing with the aftermath of the breakup. We cover legal breakups, weight fluctuation, self-love, and seeing your ex for the first time after.
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Tune in for our two-fold program examining breakups. This week we are reviewing actions you take when you decide to breakup, conditioning your partner with empty threats, and where will Fluffy the dog go when it's over.
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On today's episode we are getting into Love is Blind episode 5 and discussing relationships with multiple partners, bringing up an old argument, and what to do if you see your ex while you are with your new significant other.
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Today we're talking all rom-coms baby! We discuss being conditioned from a young age, the "nice guy", and meet cutes.
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On today's episode we are returning again to Love is Blind and evaluating episode 4. We get into sleeping habits, what attracts people, and sticking with your choice.
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Today's episode we are treading very carefully in "The Zone". We are discussing friendships that turn romantic, losing the friendship once you break up, and various perks of having friends.
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Today we are continuing the Love is Blind saga with episode 3 and discussing gambling with your emotions, being underestimated, and getting someone by default.
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On today's episode we are exploring men's clothing faux pas such as jean shorts and polos, debating ironing your jeans, and stepping out of your attire comfort zone.
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Today's episode we will be recapping Love is Blind episode 2 and talking about connections, love triangles, and dating with your five senses.
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It's that time of the month! Today we dive into what men should do during that time, surviving the symptoms, and euphemisms from around the world.
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On today's episode we kick off our biweekly recap of Netflix's Love is Blind season 2 and discuss the show as it relates to the real world. We touch on topics such as analyst consultants, having a number one, and how to tell when your relationship is official,
On today's episode we dive into etiquette for gift giving such as shopping at Dad's R Us, generic gift cards, and purse replacements.
On today's episode we travel back in time to the 50's where men were treated as kings and a woman's job was to hold down the fort.
On today's episode we discuss tossing disposable items, moms who date Randy, and returning ex's property.
On our debut episode we discuss climbing the chemistry mountain and condoning habits for compatibility.